♥️ WHAT? 👀 HE HASN'T INTRODUCED YOU OR THE DAUGHTER YOU HAVE TOGETHER TO HIS FAMILY?????? | FDV

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  • @Life.Love.Locs.
    @Life.Love.Locs. 2 роки тому +173

    I was with a man who gave me the silent treatment a few times - sometimes for months! The last time he threatened to block me in an argument, I texted back "It's over" and I meant it. I decided that I didn't deserve that treatment. I'd grown up seeing my father do that to my mother and somehow subconsciously I'd seen this behaviour as "acceptable" - although on the face of it, I knew it was wrong. I stood up for myself, not just for me, for my future children. I didn't want them to grow up and think this behaviour was normal or ok. Best thing I ever did! Side note: I saw him a few years later, I was glowing and he was full of regrets and unhappy. His stubbornness and refusal to communicate had lost him not only me, but multiple good things in his life. This was a pattern in his life that he needed to fix. I was glad to be out of the toxicity.

    • @NashvilleBraids
      @NashvilleBraids 2 роки тому +4

      Good for you! When we take action and say enough is enough, we also teach that person that their behavior is unacceptable. When we don’t stand up for ourselves, we teach them that it’s okay to treat people bad and there are no consequences.

    • @teacheschem
      @teacheschem 2 роки тому +3

      My friend and her husband lived in a 2 bedroom apartment with 3 kids and sometimes he wouldn’t speak to them for months. She finally put him out but the kids are so messed up!

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 2 роки тому +3

      @@teacheschem gosh...that's so cruel and immature.

    • @Cottondandy0
      @Cottondandy0 2 роки тому +1

      How was your treatment towards your father due to this, my dad is the same and I'm conflicted as to how I should treat him

    • @marymargaretblumhorst5359
      @marymargaretblumhorst5359 2 роки тому

      @@Cottondandy0 Dismiss him and court dates are overdue concerning the children only.

  • @roxanne4657
    @roxanne4657 2 роки тому +37

    He definitely sounds like he is hiding this family; the fact that he has no intention of taking his daughter to school, sounds like he does not want to risk being seen.

  • @michellejones8144
    @michellejones8144 2 роки тому +190

    Fumi!! You are always a sight for sore eyes. I have started college at 43, thanks to you; you gave me hope which motivated me. Hopefully others will see this message and know that it’s not too late to go to college. I will still make an effort to watch all of your videos!! ❤️❤️💚💚💙💙 . So many of us supporters, hopefully you’ll see this message.

    • @tigerlilly9038
      @tigerlilly9038 2 роки тому +13

      Congratulations!! I pray your success Sister Dear!! This is huge accomplishment, never give up even when it gets difficult SEE THE GOAL TO COMPLETION. It is waiting for you take it!!!

    • @michellejones8144
      @michellejones8144 2 роки тому +1

      @@tigerlilly9038 thank you so much. I needed to hear that.

    • @blwa39
      @blwa39 2 роки тому

      True its neva late to chase yr dreamz

    • @emgdoll3452
      @emgdoll3452 2 роки тому +6

      Congrats and I have no doubt you’ll be killing it. I will join college also next September at 33 Yo

    • @FEMME_CHRONICLES
      @FEMME_CHRONICLES 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️ 💜 ❤️

  • @joiil4814
    @joiil4814 2 роки тому +89

    He’s a narcissist and he’s mentally & emotionally abusing her. She needs to get out, not now, but RIGHT NOW or she will live the rest of her life to regret it!

    • @Life.Love.Locs.
      @Life.Love.Locs. 2 роки тому +6

      I was resisting using the N word because I feel it gets overused out of context nowadays but.... I am seeing those traits here for sure. I'm glad Sis is in therapy, hopefully they will support her to get away from this man as soon as possible. The gaslighting. The silent treatment after HE has done something wrong. Narcissistic traits for sure!

    • @lindaorangenwafor7705
      @lindaorangenwafor7705 2 роки тому

      For sure

    • @joiil4814
      @joiil4814 2 роки тому +2

      @@Life.Love.Locs. I’ve had close and personal interaction with narcissists. I lived with one , worked with one and had a friend who was one. I know what they look like and what they do. There’s NO mistaking that this man is a narcissist.

  • @blossom6235
    @blossom6235 2 роки тому +64

    Girl never let someone get comfortable disrespecting you, what you allow will become your life, know your worth and leave, this relationship is over long time, is just that you don't see it, you a single mum in a relationship, the thing is, if you don't know where you stand with someone, stop standing and start running, ask yourself if this was your daughter going through something like this, and she ask you for advice what would you tell her, I wish you well, and hope you do the right thing, do it for your daughter if you don't want to do it for yourself, all the best!!!!!!

    • @lenetteranger8327
      @lenetteranger8327 2 роки тому +2

      Blossom, you are absolutely right! Never allow someone to get comfortable disrespecting you, especially in front of your children. My daughter was in a relationship like this. She has no children and I told her to pack her things and leave him immediately stop wasting her time trying to fix broken people.

  • @theefoodblog265
    @theefoodblog265 2 роки тому +29

    Finally, I am the first person to watch this video.
    The man is Just like my father.
    This kinda men Intentionally look for silly things to blame at and make it a big issue so they can escape responsibilities.

  • @raggedyantoinette
    @raggedyantoinette 2 роки тому +29

    Oh, goodness. First husband did me this way, with me letting him live in the house that MY daddy helped us get, but I wasn't allowed to talk to him because he was done with me but we were both in college. It nearly killed me till I could break away. Our son was 5 at the time. What a doormat I was then. That was 1999. I'm an entirely different person now. Fumi's advice is spot on and if only I could tell my 1999 self what she's saying I'd have saved myself so much misery.

  • @overcomerthrufaith2970
    @overcomerthrufaith2970 2 роки тому +64

    Beautiful as always Fumi 😍!!...My heart goes out to the woman who wrote the letter. We are Queens and must know our worth. Easier said than done, but like I told my ex-husband, "I can love you until I take my last breath, but that won't make you love me back 🤷🏾‍♀️!" Wasn't easy to walk away and be a single mom, but I knew that I was worth more (even though I felt very small). We can all do bad all by ourselves, so don't let anyone add to it. Wish her the best, but please "GET OUT!" You deserve better ❤❤!!

  • @tigerlilly9038
    @tigerlilly9038 2 роки тому +41

    It's the "Oola give me hi-five" for me,🥰 LOVED IT!! Teamwork makes the dream work! AMEN

  • @queenie4837
    @queenie4837 2 роки тому +21

    She hasn't got a relationship - well at least not with this man! 7 years and he has NOT introduce her to his family? She obviously knows what the answer is to this dilemma. I wish her well... Fumi you speak so much sense.

    • @rda-gama2567
      @rda-gama2567 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe he is married! 🤔

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 2 роки тому

      @@rda-gama2567 but how is he away from his wife for this long? lol 7 year married? and away from his wife and kids? lol

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 2 роки тому +10

    Fumi you are ever so TRUE. Just as Steve Harvey once said! If a man loves you, he will to profess it! He will give you Titles. His Lady! His woman! His Fiancé! His wife! His Baby Mama. And that is how He would be introducing You! in every level of the relationship. If this is not happening??? No, the relationship isn't going NOWHERE! And you have an AMEN in agreement with you Fumi.
    He has taken Her, for a damn ride without her even knowing. So painful to hear! 7 years??????! I pray she finds the strength and wisdom to move on without emotional damages. Horrible Guy!

  • @salome_in_pink8957
    @salome_in_pink8957 2 роки тому +30

    He never loved her.And I bet she is a side chick without knowing. Not introducing his child to his family? The family never asked to see their grandchild?
    I never heard of something like that.
    She definitely needs some healing and doing some soul searching why she stayed so long in an emotional abusive relationship with a narcissist. Wish her and the little girl all the best🙏🏾.

    • @Herfirsthouse
      @Herfirsthouse 2 роки тому +5

      That's what I'm thinking. There's more to this story that she possibly doesn't even know about. What man will not introduce his child to his parents? Wrong wrong wrong.

    • @aquarius8325
      @aquarius8325 2 роки тому +4

      I said something similar. It really sounds like he has another whole family she's unaware of. That's why he can't risk being seen at the child's school.

    • @teniaosayande6355
      @teniaosayande6355 2 роки тому +3

      Yep!! My mid 20's I was a side chic w/o knowing. I dated this man for over a year; I'd met family & all. Crazy thing was this guy had an entirely separate house from his wife!! So for this woman to be 7yrs together & a daughter w/ no family interaction is way off. Praying for the best for them as well.

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому +1

      That's what I'm thinking too she's a side chick

  • @carlaclement4229
    @carlaclement4229 2 роки тому +39

    Amen sis Fumi, sometimes it's a hard one when a child is in the picture but you have to take a leap of faith. Valuing yourself and your dignity as a woman. Sometimes going back to your parents or asking for help is like eating humble pie. Write your plan down and ask for help sister guuurrrllll don't worry God is Jehovah Jireh He will provide for you. Self worth and realising it was a mistake too. Wishing you all the best sis, better is coming; finish your masters and Bury the hatchet as we say in the Caribbean. Sending you lots of love my dearest sister, Fumi Nation is behind you and we are sending you prayers. Shalom ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤

  • @berrybentley8162
    @berrybentley8162 2 роки тому +15

    Amen Fumi, I was in a similar relationship for 6years only difference is I had met his family... When I was finally ready to go I bought a beautiful house 🏠 and moved on with my son. It is not always easy but it is so worth it to truly be happy. Your daughter is watching. What do you want her to see.😉

  • @summersummer9888
    @summersummer9888 2 роки тому +11

    He is giving her the silent treatment and that is emotional abuse. She needs to take her baby and run. He is toxic, no empathy and manipulative. Has all the traits of a narcissist. I pray 🙏🏽 she leaves.

  • @judyw904
    @judyw904 2 роки тому +8

    AMEN! Preach Pastor Fumi!
    I heard a statement by Judge Lynn Toler, "Never let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you". This is a quote I live by not only in relationships with a man, this statement can also be applied to friendships, and even to your job.

  • @dianae1158
    @dianae1158 2 роки тому +26

    Fumi I have never seen you this firm while advicing a sister. And thank you I picked a lot from this episode.

    • @nayego4
      @nayego4 2 роки тому

      Plus the talk on how to get over a relationship n start over she was serving firmness and brimstone I listen to it erryday it's the season for it.

  • @shanaethompson8861
    @shanaethompson8861 2 роки тому +7

    "Sometimes they're just clearing out the space for the right person to step in" 👏🏾

  • @oluwaseun695
    @oluwaseun695 2 роки тому +17

    Amennnnnnnnnnnnnn.
    Gnagbossssss
    Straight, direct, no BS
    I love the way your husband just walks by casually. Your channel is real and I love it...

  • @brendaberejena2444
    @brendaberejena2444 2 роки тому +80

    I've been in that kind of relationship and l found the courage to end it, believe me it's hard so hard but l did it for myself coz it was emotionally draining. Thank you so much my sister Fumi this Vedio came at the right time for me and to my sister find the courage to like Fumi said he doesn't deserve you shame on him......l love you Fumi you are the best if only l can hug you 💕💕💕

  • @LandinhaCortez_e
    @LandinhaCortez_e 2 роки тому +20

    2022 The year of CHOOSING YOU!! I Pray that after just sharing her situation with us , that she is BLESSED with the strength and COURAGE to leave and not deprive herself and daughter a life they deserve you both deserve happiness as a mother and daughter the ending of this relationship is not the end of YOUR STORY !! GOD INDEED WILL BLESS YOU BOTH AND The activation of this blessing might just be in you standing truly in who you are and what you DEEPLY KNOW you and your daughter deserves sending you so much PEACE AND LIGHT AND LOVE XX♥

  • @FulSerkle
    @FulSerkle 2 роки тому +4

    This story is so heart 💔
    I hope she takes you advice and leaves before it gets worse.

  • @Blackscubaqueen101
    @Blackscubaqueen101 2 роки тому +6

    Amen Sis Fumi!
    If she's living in the states, first stop, to the child support office and get support in place immediately.

    • @teniaosayande6355
      @teniaosayande6355 2 роки тому +1

      yes indeed. i find many women feel it's not right or they don't want to be in the "system". 🙄 what they don't realize is child support isn't only money. it's custody, healthcare, & other factors involved. which in this situation could be crucial.

  • @dr-k1667
    @dr-k1667 2 роки тому +23

    Oh Fumi! Amen Amen Amen. I hope this sister and the brothers watching get the message! For our future generations need us to be better and teach them through our actions because they see and understand more than what we bother to say and those lesson last and last and last.

  • @lucreciaapplewhaite3350
    @lucreciaapplewhaite3350 2 роки тому +18

    PREACH!!! Fumi your tell it like it is, is always much needed. I hope that sister takes your advise to heart and make this year the beginning of the rest of her life.

  • @Temwachii
    @Temwachii 2 роки тому +31

    I love you so much auntie Fumi! Your videos teach me a lot but your personality is so infectious, it makes me very happy to watch you! ✨

  • @reginamushi6582
    @reginamushi6582 2 роки тому +7

    Oh my God this is very similar to my situation, if not exactly! but I left and I used my masters program as the means to leave him without him or his parents realising that was my way out. I chose the program at a university outside the city we lived in. It was the worst time of my life being married because twice i confronting him and he physically attacked me. Leave woman leave!!!

  • @vb7218
    @vb7218 2 роки тому +5

    And then they wonder why I LOVE ME SOME FUMI😃😃😍😍😍 Sister Fumi.. you are BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING!! Great advice as ALWAYS!! Raw, real, honest and to the point!! Blessings on your life and your family❤❤

  • @Mo_Tlo
    @Mo_Tlo 2 роки тому +15

    I'm so glad I came across this UA-cam channel - it was so random that I bumped into it. I love aunt Fumi... She's soooooo hilarious 😍🤣

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому +1

      💯💯

    • @sweetmamarms8167
      @sweetmamarms8167 2 роки тому +1

      Yes indeed and don’t sugar coat nothing she’s the truth l random came across her channel too she got me hooked😂😻

  • @Jeanny529
    @Jeanny529 2 роки тому +9

    I feel very sorry for this sister because i am in the same situation as you are and planning my moves safely. I wish you well and everything will be ok. I am sending some love💜❤️🧡💖
    Fumi i love your honesty and advices you give always🥰🥰

  • @CBONeal
    @CBONeal 2 роки тому +3

    Amen!!! The disrespect of it all. You are more valuable than that, Sis!

  • @yh2059376
    @yh2059376 2 роки тому +7

    Fumiiiiiii!!! I can’t get enough of you.
    You are amazing gorgeous!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    I had the same situation as this woman 5+ years ago. I can assure you that he has a whole other family. But is like you said, is about that child and is about self worth. “Don’t forget who you are.” I felt that in my soul and that goes for anyone, friendships and family members.
    I wish you much health, wealth, love and love life. You are a gift to us all.

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 2 роки тому +4

    This is very sad and hard to listen to her massage. This man doesn’t loves you and care for his own child that he refuse to be involved with you guys. He has also degraded you to the extent that your self esteem is low to the point that you can’t think right. This man doesn’t deserve you or your beautiful daughter. Please pick up your things and leave if you can afford to leave now. Go to therapy and get a good friend confined to. I’m so happy for your future. You got this girl friend, we are all rooting for you. Cyber hug 🥰🥰

  • @MyMARI3
    @MyMARI3 2 роки тому +15

    So sad.. but we love your advice! Strengthening and teaching all of us! :)

  • @reflections4me
    @reflections4me 2 роки тому +7

    Leave sis. Leave . You may not go physically but you can do it emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Leave and don’t look back sis. I am very sure you are surrounded with friends and you have your mother and father, that is a blessing because some of us don’t even have that. Leave . You are not missing nothing from him. He has already gave you the permission to have the sole custody of your daughter that is another blessing. Leave .

  • @simphiwemanana9127
    @simphiwemanana9127 2 роки тому +2

    I just adore how happy Fumi is.. I pray my marriage be this healthy as we grow older💕🤗

  • @ayannalewis8470
    @ayannalewis8470 2 роки тому +1

    True A red flag is NEVER introduce to his family that's NO nO that's means he want no intention of long term relationship

  • @classicchic5327
    @classicchic5327 2 роки тому +2

    She needs to leave him! Woman deserve all of the love the universe has to offer. That man has shown exactly how he feels about her. She’ll make it through just needs to get her backbone back.

  • @VIsidore
    @VIsidore 2 роки тому +2

    Amen! I have never been in a situation like this. I don't tolerate disrespect. My boyfriend but now husband introduced me to his family early in our relationship. He met my parents' early as well. That shows that he cares for you seriously.

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 2 роки тому +4

    11:43 AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!! Fumi you have given her the best advice. Sis, you are worth more than this headach of a man!!! Leave him and take your daughter with you. You both deserve to be loved unconditionally. (Your makeup is stunning FUMI!!!!!!💕)

  • @prophetessstephanie9477
    @prophetessstephanie9477 2 роки тому

    Couldn't have said it better. Run, baby girl 🏃‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️, or find the next thing rolling 🛹🛴🦽🚲🛵🚗🚜🚙🚕 what ever you can. My mom told me that if I got with a guy and he didn't want to except my daughter from my ex husband than don't even start a relationship. Girl this man is the baby's dad. Run! RUN!!! I found it easier doing it by myself no unnecessary stress. God blessed me to get an apartment I was able to furnish it and and everything. My ex-husband died and he still had nothing. And God blessed me to have bought my own home, and a car. I raised our daughter with out any help from him or his family. You can do this sister I'm praying for you 🙏🏽🙏🏻🙏🏾🌹👍🏽

  • @therealconqueror1373
    @therealconqueror1373 2 роки тому +6

    Amen fumi!!! It's clear that this relationship is over...nothing more!
    Beautiful makeup look btw

  • @dawnjohnson5937
    @dawnjohnson5937 Рік тому

    Amen!!! Great, compassionate advice 👏👏

  • @preciousone3721
    @preciousone3721 2 роки тому

    YOU got an AMEN!
    Loud and clear, Fumi I really enjoying your POSITIVE attitude 👍THANK you!💓

  • @maxinehiggins1130
    @maxinehiggins1130 2 роки тому +5

    Aunty Fumes i just love you ,i wish i had someone like you years ago to give me certain advise when i was going throught hell with my first love .

  • @elijahalcia7762
    @elijahalcia7762 Рік тому

    Exactly, Fumi...know who you are and don't tolerate crap, EVERRRRRRR!!! WE ARE PRICELESS!!!!

  • @rosawilliams6443
    @rosawilliams6443 2 роки тому

    Amen! My heart goes out to this young lady. You are growing just by the fact that you are improving yourself educational wise.

  • @ari333
    @ari333 2 роки тому +5

    I love your fresh look. Congratulations on your accomplishments recently also. Great content.

  • @outoforder4542
    @outoforder4542 2 роки тому +1

    I love EVERYTHING about you FDV. 😍😍keep it going with the real talk!! 🥰

  • @ajjudge7983
    @ajjudge7983 2 роки тому +1

    So true Fumi, Being a parent, a real parent, is all about being present. Much love to you and your family, from me and mine!

  • @sandya1168
    @sandya1168 2 роки тому +3

    Always appreciate your made up look Fumi.
    Always appreciate your bold advice.
    Simple as it is!

  • @teressacooks7928
    @teressacooks7928 2 роки тому +2

    Fumi I LOVE this look! So "Springtime" 🌷🌞on the cold winter's day 24 degrees 🥶

  • @aliciametters2025
    @aliciametters2025 2 роки тому +3

    Well 🙏🏽 amen! I’m praying for Sis. To find the courage to do what she already knows that you just reiterated, to do! It is fear of the unknown that keeps us in these dark places! The devil we know is better than the devil we don’t know! But Sis. God is all powerful and He is a gentleman! This dude right here, malefactor! Praying for all of us! We have had to utilize this courage too! We are here for you Sis. Thanks Queen!

  • @joybelljoybell8794
    @joybelljoybell8794 2 роки тому +2

    Queen Fumi has spoken. I approve this message. 👏🏿

  • @pworm195
    @pworm195 2 роки тому

    Preach Fumi !!!! Preach now! Tell it like it is.

  • @queen30695
    @queen30695 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much auntie Fumi. I have learned so much hier. Your are such an inspiration. God bless you and your family 😘❤

  • @Vickchannel
    @Vickchannel 2 роки тому +1

    Am a youtuber and I love the way you present being yourself is what gets me glued you are my mentor

  • @barbeeevans9796
    @barbeeevans9796 2 роки тому

    AMEN. ‘The Spoken Word’ nothing but the truth. Amen. Sister 2 Sister

  • @emadrid1283
    @emadrid1283 2 роки тому +4

    Amen!!!!!!!! Love you beautiful Fumi!
    As always, sound advice. She allowed that behavior as we women don’t recognize our worth. I pray she takes your advice. God bless.

  • @lisaaberdeen-nicholas6150
    @lisaaberdeen-nicholas6150 2 роки тому +1

    Go Fumi!!!! Amen!

  • @fiza682
    @fiza682 2 роки тому

    Amen Fumi! Amen!!

  • @martinaradic9721
    @martinaradic9721 2 роки тому +1

    Fumi you are so wise!God bless!

  • @shelly-annscott5408
    @shelly-annscott5408 2 роки тому +2

    You teach me a lot you are like a mother I never have, I was in a similar situation which it been seven years along with my daughter it is not easy but it gives me peace of mind 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🥰

  • @joycechikelue4274
    @joycechikelue4274 2 роки тому

    AMEN! Get out for good Sis. You deserve better and you know you do!❤️❤️❤️

  • @yvie7269
    @yvie7269 2 роки тому +1

    Amen. Great energy Fumi!!

  • @masteringlife7526
    @masteringlife7526 2 роки тому

    Fumi is always coming through with good advice.

  • @sharon2243
    @sharon2243 2 роки тому +3

    I have been in a similar relationship, when I bring up the topic of meeting his family, it's one excuse to the other and when talking to his family on the phone, he speaks a yoruba knowing I am igbo and I won't understand his language. However I ended it last year and now in my igbo culture with my new boyfriend. Thank God I never had any child with him... in the beginning I introduced him to my family but ruined my relationship with my parents and now I don't even talk to my parents and didn't even know when my mother died because I was trying to please him by staying away from my family for 5 years of that relationship 💔 😔
    At the end of the day we weren't talking even living in the same roof but I had to move out 3 months ago and found peace 🙏, stay away from narcissistic, his rules or no peace.
    My new boyfriend is doing a far better job than I expected from any man, immediately introduced me to his family especially his mom and he will always tell me, your exs weren't meant for you, I (he) am meant for you because God chose him 😂😂

  • @eleniprovia7667
    @eleniprovia7667 2 роки тому +2

    Preach Fumi! What a story... I can relate, some of the things our sister is describing I have been through myself. I was not confident back then, and that is why I didn’t leave. I know better now...
    Sister please get out right now.

  • @MyMARI3
    @MyMARI3 2 роки тому +5

    Love the look as well. Just gorgeous! I want to try this! :)

  • @angeb7690
    @angeb7690 Рік тому

    Amazing advice and how you deliver your help is truly wonderful. Love you Fumi ❤

  • @j.j2846
    @j.j2846 2 роки тому +1

    Amen! Perfect advice

  • @pamelaharvey5334
    @pamelaharvey5334 2 роки тому +1

    Amen Fumi, Sis she ain't never lied GET-OUT!!!! Fumi, fix my life.💗💯

  • @MsLBN
    @MsLBN 2 роки тому +1

    My little sister Fumi, Thanks for telling it like it is... Point Blank! I agree!!! To the sis that wrote in, Know your the "prize" you blessed him with a child. But like Fumi said ,HEAR THIS with love... YOU ARE A MOTHER NOW.. 💕 Your baby comes first, Then you are next if he isn't respecting ya'll. "Go" with God, you & your baby deserves better. As weman, we are strong. Please when you get weak,we all do... re-watch Fumi's episode. And know we are "all "with you.❤💯

  • @LM33333
    @LM33333 2 роки тому

    Fumi, I have to say, your acting reel on IMDB is amazing. Every character is diverse and totally believable. Well done! 👍👌You are super talented and I would love to see in more! 😊🎈

  • @keyanewen9736
    @keyanewen9736 2 роки тому

    Love you Fumi, so honest, so youthful. You are amazing.

  • @rosemariebrown3177
    @rosemariebrown3177 2 роки тому

    AMEN, AMEN, AMEN. Tell it like it is Fumi!

  • @myfavoritekorner8374
    @myfavoritekorner8374 2 роки тому

    Fumi ❤️ saying as it is!

  • @latashataylor4291
    @latashataylor4291 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely LEAVE! What i found in my husband, i could’ve never imagined this Love ❤️ I only got him once i left the fool ! God blessed me with a KING 🙏🏾 , who loves my kids s his own. I pray the same for you 🙏🏾

  • @noma406
    @noma406 2 роки тому +1

    Your videos are soo educational and just amazing. Made me start my UA-cam channel x Love your content always refreshing. Keep shining xx

  • @lutfanjeri8394
    @lutfanjeri8394 2 роки тому

    Oh fumi... You are a gem. True queen.

  • @porschenator
    @porschenator 2 роки тому +6

    Always here for the stories. 😅🤣 Such a great story teller, fums ...

  • @Amhappy-wq9oq
    @Amhappy-wq9oq 2 роки тому

    Your makeup is stunning on you! Love the advice my sister your very wise!

  • @mzstep27
    @mzstep27 2 роки тому

    Amen!!!!! We have to LOVE ourselves more than we love a man!!! You always reassure me that’s it ok to do so and demand respect!!!! Thank you Fums!!!💜💜💜💜

  • @bkgangstashawtii
    @bkgangstashawtii 2 роки тому +7

    idk Fumi, i have a cousin that brings a different girl home to his grandmother every 3 months. And he is in his 40s. i dont think it really means much in general, but in this case there are obviously other red flags

    • @macummings7818
      @macummings7818 2 роки тому +1

      Yes
      Some philanderers do that - I think they love women / sex so they don’t mind being open about it with their mothers and mother figures - but they def have other big problems
      I was with one of those types for a time… 🙄

  • @MoniqueSWarden
    @MoniqueSWarden 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much auntie Fumi, I really appreciated this video, self worth is so important and I am putting one foot in front of the other and building myself up day by day. Thank you for giving such genuine input and I am thankful that you continue to do make up 🥰🙏🏿 Many blessings to you and your beautiful family

  • @AngieHart67
    @AngieHart67 2 роки тому

    Amen, start making plans sis.Pretty eye look Fumi🌺

  • @aweleawele9205
    @aweleawele9205 2 роки тому +4

    Fumiiiiiiiii I love your energy so much, thanks for being a blessing

  • @Rona_actually
    @Rona_actually 2 роки тому +12

    I feel like this relationship was over before now

    • @dr-k1667
      @dr-k1667 2 роки тому +5

      It was before she had the child but didn't see that... let's hope she sees it now and gets out.

    • @Rona_actually
      @Rona_actually 2 роки тому

      @@dr-k1667 that part 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @teniaosayande6355
    @teniaosayande6355 2 роки тому

    🤯AMEN & AMEN Fumi!! 😲🤮His family's never met you or daughter? He wants to be hands off?!?! Don't talk to him? What a jerk! That's a verbal slap in the face! I hope the young lady listens to you Fumi. Because everything you say is TRUE!! My heart & prayers go out to her & her daughter. And whomever you are, please continue your therapy. It's important to keep mental health in check during this time. But the longer you stay in this situation, the harder it is to leave & the more toxic it is for your little one.

  • @SWGA.SickleCellAwareness
    @SWGA.SickleCellAwareness 2 роки тому +2

    Amen and Amen #FumiNation #Sister2Sister #CitizenPassport

  • @nicoleflax3583
    @nicoleflax3583 2 роки тому +5

    Your makeup looks are always beautiful Fumi. Amen! I agree that she should leave. When I 1st met my husband it took 2 weeks and I was in front of 9 sisters, 2 brothers and his mom. I wouldn't have had a baby with a man I really don't know at all and then stay 7 years.... NO MA'AM! He is a coward because he knows what he wants and she knows what she needs to do for her and her daughter as well. It might not be easy for her but I wouldn't put blinders on just because I'm feeling the guy. We are observational learner's 1st. She doesn't need to question or maybe she does but the eyes and ears don't lie. I can love a person to know how to let go of what's not for me. I wish she had friends and family around her to know something is wrong and support her in every way because this isn't it sis. If you're not internally happy then don't ever think the outta exterior can hide that at all. He's not only breaking her down but she's also breaking herself down. Don't punish yourself because of his lack of. You are enough. A never satisfied person will never be satisfied no matter what you do. Do not normalize this mess because your daughter is watching. This is not okay. I do the exact same thing as you do Fumi. I do not do anything without consideration of family in every aspect. The devil can't have me in no matter the battles I have to endure. If he doesn't want to talk then his ears are open so speak it. Sometimes you do not need a reply when it's smack dead in your face. If she's going to drain herself then she should be draining that negative energy filling it up with positivity. Like you said Fumi, no matter how long it takes just make sure you leave him for sure. I'm glad she's in therapy because her mental health is important. If she's tired then she should just be tired of him. Don't block your blessings because that woman knows he's not it. Plus, I wouldn't put that kinda of love into a man like that. I don't know why someone would give that kinda of love to someone who doesn't deserve it at all. Never do that! Anyway I'm done. Have a blessed day everyone. This was a good one too Fumi. Thank you for sharing.

    • @danielen359
      @danielen359 2 роки тому +1

      Amen, Nicole. Thank you writting down pretty much what I was about to say😊

    • @nicoleflax3583
      @nicoleflax3583 2 роки тому

      @@danielen359 Thank you. I just couldn't blame just him and not her because she's part of the issue too. Thank you for taking the time to read it. 😉😉😉😉😉

  • @bellab9932
    @bellab9932 2 роки тому

    We lovvvvve fumi, self worth is everything... for our sis going through this “RUN” get the heck out of there. As fumi said pack and plan your great escape a little at a time. Good luck but you can do it! We believe in you Gurl 😀

  • @kaye4016
    @kaye4016 2 роки тому +1

    Preach🙌🏾!!

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 2 роки тому

    Great advice! Powerful

  • @blaqroko
    @blaqroko 2 роки тому

    Always a pleasure watching you❤️❤️❤️❤️thank you

  • @melvinagdavis6870
    @melvinagdavis6870 2 роки тому +1

    You told her right Fumi. That man is so disrespectful and they are teaching their child that his behavior is ok!! Well it's not!!

  • @marilynranger818
    @marilynranger818 2 роки тому

    God bless you Funmi, honest and true advice to her,

  • @odessaswinson3600
    @odessaswinson3600 Рік тому

    Love the makeup such a beautiful queen

  • @lyndabooker5536
    @lyndabooker5536 2 роки тому

    Amen Fumi!

  • @deitralee1927
    @deitralee1927 2 роки тому

    Fumi, you are speaking facts. Love your commentary.