I needed this. I unfollowed a large amount of ppl (including family members) & removed them from following me. I didn’t want these ppl having access to my life. Today though I felt bad & regretted unfollowing some of these ppl. So, I’m happy I found this. You are so right, no relationship should be defined by social media and I found that was the case for many that I got rid of. Great video 😊
its 2022 we live in the real world....relationships are definitely defined by social media. Thats just how it is now. Dont like it get off social media
Nice video and great advice. I've started removing and unfollowing people that I genuinely do not care for a year, and I noticed that I spent less time on instagram, also I love myself more cus I wouldn't be comparing to myself to other girls that I don't even know💗
I agree with everything that you said, and it's true that we don't owe anyone anything, especially in the online world. Great video, you've communicated your points well ❤
You need to differentiate between someone who unfollows because the other posts are obnoxious and people who unfollow because they are assholes. My MIL virtually begged me to add her to my social media, to spy on me and her son, then dumped me several months later while keeping the rest of the family on her Instagram. I don't post often. This is not self-care, this is just mean and narcissistic and some sort of revenge. Did I mention that she never liked me and that she is a huge manipulator?
Thank You for sharing Cassandra, i found this video exactly when i need this answer, let me share my taken notes (in Indonesian) @0:35 kita nggak wajib untuk followback kalau kita nggak mau. @1:10 Terutama orang yang kita nggak pernah punya Interaksi langsung sama sekali, @6:33 yang kita juga nggak interest gitu sama kontennya, daripada kita jadi judging @1:48 Hal ini baik dalam mencegah kita jadi scrolling kelamaan karena following kita yang kebanyakan, @1:38 Kita nggak mau justru jadi ngelewatin postingan teman kita yang benar-benar kita punya Interaksi langsung dan emang punya hubungan langsung @4:27 Ingatlah bahwa sosial media memang didesain untuk menciptakan ketagihan kepada kita, @4:44 waspada jangan sampai energy kita kesedot ke social media @4:49 Mungkin kita jadi nggak enak unfollow orang, sebenernya justru kita harus nggak enak ke diri kita untuk ngelakuin sesuatu yang nggak baik buat kita @7:00 tidak ada aturan yang tertulis Siapa saja yang harus di unfollow semuanya balik lagi ke common sense kita apa yang penting bagi kita apa yang mempunyai value bagi kita (value entertaintment, value motivasi/inspirasi) Per Hari ini 10 Februari 2024 Aku justru say Thank you kepada seseorang, Dia adalah orang yang unfollow aku, waktu itu efeknya kerasa banget, tapi sekarang aku justru nggak apa-apa sih, Emang kita nggak kenal juga gitu dan dari dia aku belajar detachment, dia juga bener-bener ngasih bukti bahwa dia improve banget, Nah gua skrg memetik positifnya banget dari cara dia
I needed this. I unfollowed a large amount of ppl (including family members) & removed them from following me. I didn’t want these ppl having access to my life. Today though I felt bad & regretted unfollowing some of these ppl. So, I’m happy I found this. You are so right, no relationship should be defined by social media and I found that was the case for many that I got rid of. Great video 😊
its 2022 we live in the real world....relationships are definitely defined by social media. Thats just how it is now. Dont like it get off social media
me too and wow what a mental health positive move it is !
pov you are 12 y/o
So true. Decluttering the social media is decluttering the mind🥰
Nice video and great advice. I've started removing and unfollowing people that I genuinely do not care for a year, and I noticed that I spent less time on instagram, also I love myself more cus I wouldn't be comparing to myself to other girls that I don't even know💗
Yes that’s good to hear!!
I agree with everything that you said, and it's true that we don't owe anyone anything, especially in the online world. Great video, you've communicated your points well ❤
I love this, you’re absolutely right.
You should be a speaker, wise for someone so young
Deleting your page is even better. Instagram is a crap platform that is dying and rightfully deserves it
You need to differentiate between someone who unfollows because the other posts are obnoxious and people who unfollow because they are assholes. My MIL virtually begged me to add her to my social media, to spy on me and her son, then dumped me several months later while keeping the rest of the family on her Instagram. I don't post often. This is not self-care, this is just mean and narcissistic and some sort of revenge. Did I mention that she never liked me and that she is a huge manipulator?
So true and helpful !!!!!
Not just personal use but even professional use as well. Id rather you unfollow me so i know youre not interested in buying what im selling lol
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Thank You for sharing Cassandra, i found this video exactly when i need this answer, let me share my taken notes (in Indonesian)
@0:35 kita nggak wajib untuk followback kalau kita nggak mau. @1:10 Terutama orang yang kita nggak pernah punya Interaksi langsung sama sekali, @6:33 yang kita juga nggak interest gitu sama kontennya, daripada kita jadi judging
@1:48 Hal ini baik dalam mencegah kita jadi scrolling kelamaan karena following kita yang kebanyakan, @1:38 Kita nggak mau justru jadi ngelewatin postingan teman kita yang benar-benar kita punya Interaksi langsung dan emang punya hubungan langsung
@4:27 Ingatlah bahwa sosial media memang didesain untuk menciptakan ketagihan kepada kita, @4:44 waspada jangan sampai energy kita kesedot ke social media
@4:49 Mungkin kita jadi nggak enak unfollow orang, sebenernya justru kita harus nggak enak ke diri kita untuk ngelakuin sesuatu yang nggak baik buat kita
@7:00 tidak ada aturan yang tertulis Siapa saja yang harus di unfollow semuanya balik lagi ke common sense kita apa yang penting bagi kita apa yang mempunyai value bagi kita (value entertaintment, value motivasi/inspirasi)
Per Hari ini 10 Februari 2024 Aku justru say Thank you kepada seseorang, Dia adalah orang yang unfollow aku, waktu itu efeknya kerasa banget, tapi sekarang aku justru nggak apa-apa sih, Emang kita nggak kenal juga gitu dan dari dia aku belajar detachment, dia juga bener-bener ngasih bukti bahwa dia improve banget, Nah gua skrg memetik positifnya banget dari cara dia
This video actually made me feel a lot better 🥲