You Are An Attractive Person But You Get A lot Of Hate.. Here's Why

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  • @eloseeoh
    @eloseeoh 8 місяців тому +237

    Some ppl hate you bc every time they see you you remind them of all of their insecurities. You can also remind them of the work they haven’t done on themselves.

  • @8odthechrist7
    @8odthechrist7 Рік тому +347

    Haters lack emotional intelligence…they are broken defeated little children in adult bodies on the inside.

    • @puffyevergreens
      @puffyevergreens Рік тому +37

      Boom

    • @k_da_menace23
      @k_da_menace23 Рік тому +2

      Stating childish comments like dis makes it worse. Yall whine when yall get jaw broke

    • @sludgerat666
      @sludgerat666 8 місяців тому +32

      ​@@k_da_menace23Oooo must've struck a chord, huh?

    • @xavierxerxes6254
      @xavierxerxes6254 7 місяців тому +17

      @@k_da_menace23hater alert. Bro learned absolutely nothing and I’m not surprised either lol

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 7 місяців тому +2

      Wild animals bro ! They don't even care about their own parents themselves how they can care about the others ! I am not joking !

  • @isaacrayder
    @isaacrayder 10 місяців тому +89

    You’ll also notice when you look good other dudes in the relationship start to act weak and mate guard because their girl finds you attractive.

    • @demetrisross17
      @demetrisross17 7 місяців тому +16

      I see this in the gym 😅.

    • @brundamian5338
      @brundamian5338 2 місяці тому +7

      They are talking to their girlfriend and she is starring at you at the same time😂

  • @-1nterruption-960
    @-1nterruption-960 2 місяці тому +14

    As a male, women (and people in general) will often times automatically assume you're a player, and automatically disqualify you just because you're attractive. It's a blessing and a curse

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Рік тому +102

    I am a gorgeous woman with a gentle bright intelligent spirit...... The haters are out of control with me.......sometimes I fear leaving the house....

    • @thelasthourgetready
      @thelasthourgetready Рік тому +29

      Don't be afraid be you that's how God blessed you. Alot of attractive people want to appease haters the problem is them and their low self esteem not you.

    • @Lightboltmotivationofficial
      @Lightboltmotivationofficial 7 місяців тому +10

      I am also a very attractive woman and I sometimes get told I am drop dead gorgeous but the haters is my worry I am being gang stalked and everything their all jealous and aren’t happy about it so they won’t leave me alone

    • @Lightboltmotivationofficial
      @Lightboltmotivationofficial 7 місяців тому +1

      @@thelasthourgetreadythank you 🥰

    • @thelasthourgetready
      @thelasthourgetready 7 місяців тому +5

      @@Lightboltmotivationofficial I've been gang stalked multiple times and even had people turn complete strangers against me. Don't let them make you feel bad you did nothing wrong. Enjoy your life keep looking good infact take it to another level. The issue is with them not with you. If they hate them selves then they need to make the adjustments in their life.

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Lightboltmotivationofficialif you being “gang stalked” carry that Blam 💥 Blam 💥 on you. If they try too physically harm you. Do what you gotta do…….

  • @bradley-224
    @bradley-224 11 місяців тому +88

    Being attractive and well put together is a lonely road. Women are shy around me and intimidated by me. I think it's they don't deserve to be around me or they assume I'm in a relationship? It's hard to find genuine friends and a good women. I only have my brother and two good friends. But that's okay! I'm not going to stop becoming excellent and to continue working on myself!
    When I smile and am genuinely happy...I notice people hate it because they have low self esteem. Really wish I can help them! But I can't.

    • @Psycho_Logical_631
      @Psycho_Logical_631 7 місяців тому +8

      Sounds exactly like me bro, I don't understand it and it's so annoying, I'll be standing in line at a convenience store and some girl walks by me and says sorry lol like for what you're just walking by me standing here, or a girl will kind of hide if I look at them while they're staring at me it's crazy, it makes me uncomfortable at the same time too which is the annoying part....anyway I feel ya pain bro just wanted to lyk that, I got the same issues

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 7 місяців тому +4

      Definitely a lonely place to be. People are not as confident and secure as they let on and many simply don’t want to be around an attractive person let alone genuinely get to know them. You end up pitying them because you know deep down they aren’t happy with themselves and they want to be as attractive as you.

    • @bradley-224
      @bradley-224 7 місяців тому +2

      Sorry for the late reply.

    • @bradley-224
      @bradley-224 7 місяців тому +4

      Absolutely dudes. Always be yourself in today’s society. If people act a certain way, that’s on them. We’re a rare breed of men. It’s important to embrace that and feel great full about it. Dude me too. I’ll go to target and women are shy around me. But I just let it go and continue shopping.

    • @bradley-224
      @bradley-224 7 місяців тому +5

      I think it’s because we see past all the crap in society. And we are focused on what really matters. And what’s real.

  • @lcf3335
    @lcf3335 Рік тому +123

    That's why I'm a lone wolf.. Thanks Terry💪🏆

  • @helena3407
    @helena3407 Рік тому +114

    It really doesn't matter what others think of you as long as your confident in yourself and nobody is perfect everyone eats sleeps and shits. Let people hate!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +1

      It doesn't matter. These prepare not paying my bills. I'm cordial but keep my distance and I do prst for them. Sis...don't speak so crudely. It's not a good look and it's unladylike.

  • @Self-Improvement-Boxer
    @Self-Improvement-Boxer 8 місяців тому +16

    This is why as an ambitious person you need to learn how to fight

  • @justheretoinspireyou5803
    @justheretoinspireyou5803 7 місяців тому +30

    Plenty of people are dead inside no soul they see someone alive and they hate it

  • @deadlifts_steaks.
    @deadlifts_steaks. 3 місяці тому +8

    This makes a lot of sense. I don't have friends no matter how selfless I am. People have different agendas with me and I am so done. Before bumping into this video, today I asked a colleague(from another department) about their first impression on me. So the whole department thought that I was snobbish and many other things (without me even interacting with them) because I "looked different from us“. I am just fucking exhausted. I can't even be around people without being misunderstood.

    • @inverteadSpear13
      @inverteadSpear13 11 днів тому

      Youll find your people eventually, people that are confident and see value in themselves will see it in others as well. Beauty is on the inside

  • @chosenone2363
    @chosenone2363 Рік тому +34

    I don't Worry about WHO Loves me are Hate Me, Jesus Christ Matters to me, I know he Loves Me No matter what !

  • @jessebradford7130
    @jessebradford7130 Рік тому +188

    At first I didn't know it but then when many people let me know I was very attractive, I then realized why the weirdness I've encountered. A 6'2', good looking, muscular guy being talked and judged about just by appearance. I learned my appearance made people assume I was arrogant. Not to mention people assumed I was a womanizer. But funny enough, they thought I was a womanizer because I can attract many women. So, it's just straight up jealousy if you examine the whole thing. I am still trying to grasp how people can be weak and petty. Or they assumed if I could attract many women, that I would mistreat them like they were taken for granted. Good, be mad weakling.

    • @deebee843
      @deebee843 Рік тому +16

      Keep being you, Attractive. ✌🏽

    • @MJ-qb5ph
      @MJ-qb5ph Рік тому +1

      I share your experience and I’m gay which makes the woman hating BS even more bizarre

    • @josephgayle3608
      @josephgayle3608 Рік тому +1

      Talk that talk, exactly how I feel.

    • @dobertjowneyrunior3023
      @dobertjowneyrunior3023 Рік тому

      @@MJ-qb5ph thank you for your service- heterobros

    • @siouxicide9002
      @siouxicide9002 Рік тому

      Same

  • @cjhoward82
    @cjhoward82 6 місяців тому +24

    It can be very lonely as an attractive man. People make up lies about you constantly. If you're tall, shorter guys dont want to stand next to you. Other men aren't exactly dying to introduce you to their women or women they are interested in for obvious reasons (unless you're famous and they can brag they have a famous friend.)

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 3 місяці тому +1

      I’ve had friends completely abandon me after getting girls cuz they was afraid. Even tho I’d NEVER Cheat on my best friend or friends girls. They cut me off anyway, like they never knew me and my true intentions. It’s sad asl.

  • @handsomeX
    @handsomeX Рік тому +103

    I get this too sometimes. Their spirit is off, or nonexistent. People that carry demons are very sensitive to the light. They can feel your good spirit, light, and aura VERY quickly. I get this negative vibe mostly with women. Guys, for the most part, ask me questions and pick my brain when it comes to improvements in health and fitness. The real shade comes from females that I barely even know. It's attitude galore with them. They feel the need to "shoot me down a peg" for no particular reason. It's very strange.

    • @ElMundoDeSam95
      @ElMundoDeSam95 10 місяців тому +14

      So you experience that as well? women who you never met in your life insulting you out of nowhere?

    • @buffythebody1112
      @buffythebody1112 9 місяців тому +7

      @@ElMundoDeSam95i get this a lot too. mainly from women and some men. i feel like if they knew i used to be unattractive maybe they’d lay off a bit haha. it’s so weird because they immediately treat you by their own assumption of a snob or arrogant rude girl but i’m actually pretty kind 🤣

    • @ElMundoDeSam95
      @ElMundoDeSam95 9 місяців тому +5

      @@buffythebody1112 yeah....is weird when strangers insult you but we got to live our best life!

    • @TREY_CHAMBERS_95
      @TREY_CHAMBERS_95 8 місяців тому +4

      @handsomex I knew it was spirit related

    • @abel4776
      @abel4776 5 місяців тому

      Yes, spiritually, those without the Holy Spirit will flee from it. Physically, it's a NARCISSISM TRIP. Especially from western girls. Girls think "I'm young and attractive, and men need to bow down to me, how dare a confident guy pretend he's above me? HE needs to succumb to me because I'm AFRAID to be rejected by someone above me, my ego is in the waaay as a hot young independent feminist with 10 abortions and 100 bodycount under my belt!!!!" Not a Jesus-like attitude, the Great Reset is coming because people refuse to repent and humble themselves.

  • @annberlin5811
    @annberlin5811 Рік тому +39

    When my co workers found out i bought a house. Instead of sayinf oh nice they flipped their head arounds and in a nasty tone said whattt. Like i offended them

    • @annberlin5811
      @annberlin5811 6 місяців тому

      @@jasminedtucker i didnt. The CEO which i chatted with a lot told everyone in a meeting

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 3 місяці тому +4

      Jealousy…… plain and simple. They hate too see someone doin good!

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 2 місяці тому

      ​@annberlin5811 Hmmm something sounds fishy about this. Did the CEO really say this in a meeting? This sounds very strange. Why would a CEO randomly blurt out personal information about an employee in a meeting? 😂

    • @butwhole4186
      @butwhole4186 2 місяці тому

      ​@@handsomeXYou know how many bosses bring up personal stuff just to start convos?
      I had one tell me who applied and how their past jobs had people with drug issues.

  • @allikdoolb3
    @allikdoolb3 Рік тому +64

    I get hatred everyday because of peoples envy..Constant sabotage even on the job because of looks.They will all deny it though.You will see them frown from the corners of the room hiding a hundred feet away in the back ground.I even been in a few physical altercations.98%percent of people are insecure little narcissists.Even rich people get offended when they see me.Funny thing is that the same people will make fun of you if you arent doing well.

    • @itachiundrwrld777
      @itachiundrwrld777 Рік тому +5

      Facts 💯

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 Рік тому

      You are handsome wow

    • @allikdoolb3
      @allikdoolb3 Рік тому

      @@Womanfemale12 thanks

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 Рік тому

      @@allikdoolb3
      I had a question. How do men and women treat you?
      And is it easy for you to find a wife?

    • @allikdoolb3
      @allikdoolb3 Рік тому +3

      @@Womanfemale12 I get treated horribly

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 6 місяців тому +14

    I experience this a lot and they will try to act like they are not hating on you but you see right through them and know they are secretly jealous that’s why I keep people away from me most of the time they whole vibe be messed up 💯💯

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Рік тому +11

    Chosen ones are pure hearted and clean living...... Others despise this .......if you lay with dogs...... You get fleas.......

  • @yasminthenubian3976
    @yasminthenubian3976 Рік тому +78

    You just described my whole entire life and it’s like the more physically fit, youthful and successful I become, the more I dress up and wear heels, and wear a smile 😃 it’s a BIG PROBLEM but I kill it with grace and wisdom. Amen 🙏🏿 I also stay prayed up

    • @Missamericaxoxo
      @Missamericaxoxo 5 місяців тому +4

      Amen God will never betray you or lie to you

    • @abel4776
      @abel4776 5 місяців тому

      Ahh, I get the reverse psyche here. So If I walk around chest out saying I'm the hottest guy on earth, and people laugh at me or dismiss me for being too ridiculous, I can label them as haters, validating my hotness???

    • @Missamericaxoxo
      @Missamericaxoxo 5 місяців тому

      @@abel4776 if you were ugly just say you’re ugly we’re not judging you

    • @abel4776
      @abel4776 5 місяців тому

      @@Missamericaxoxo 😢

  • @greganderson2239
    @greganderson2239 6 місяців тому +14

    I’ve been told I’m attractive all my life but I get hate because people get jealous or envious of you.. even woman do.

  • @cannedcoochiebread
    @cannedcoochiebread 8 місяців тому +31

    I literally quit a good paying job last year because of how much hate I had gotten for just co operating with a woman someone else was interested in (he immediately thought I was taking her away from him) and I still regret that to this day because I thought there was something wrong with me and I took fault for things that weren't even my issue, got insulted and lied to till I myself quit the Job. I learned to have self confidence from myself and not from others. Tell to yourself that you are attractive and worth on this earth no matter what you do. People are just too obsessed with someone else's life's 🙄

    • @SocratesFeliz
      @SocratesFeliz 7 місяців тому +3

      It's ok, you self analyzed and understand that no one should make you move out of something you don't want to do. Next time, check him, check him in front of everyone if you need to. Flip the table on him.

    • @subzeromidnight5388
      @subzeromidnight5388 3 місяці тому +2

      Damn this was me in my early 20s. I grew up as a very skinny kid but was never insecure about my appearance or the fact that hot girls overlooked me. When i started working out. My looks changed dramatically( roids played a huge factor) then i became one of the most good looking guys my ciry has ever seen. What was weird was how hot girls would throw themselves at me and some dudes just hated me but wanted to be around me and i would be so confused coz i didnt know i was good looking at the time although i knew i had some muscular gains but didnt realise how good looking i was. I was still the skinny teenager in my mind. If i knew how much power i had i wouldve done so many things😂. But i see that dudes were tryna prevent me from doing those very things. Shady motherfuckers

  • @PUREtrollin
    @PUREtrollin 9 місяців тому +60

    I'm not a steroid jacked attractive guy. I have always been naturally attractive like "a pretty boy" but people are seriously messed up. Being a good looking confident man makes you alone in general. Social life is effected & work life too. Always judged more harshly then others and people put a double standard on me for absolutely no reason. I have woman haters too just because I'm "prettier than them" and then dudes just try to make up excuses for not liking me or taking me seriously, like I'm a circus freak or something lol its completley ridiculous. Dating & applying for jobs effects this and makes it harder. I just want to know if anyone can relate to what I'm saying. It's come to a point where I don't know if this is my delusion or if it's factual.

    • @MJ-qb5ph
      @MJ-qb5ph 7 місяців тому +6

      It’s real particularly regarding work

    • @sigmasiren777
      @sigmasiren777 7 місяців тому +14

      No, definitely not a delusion. I'm an attractive female & I experience the same things. Even my own family hates on me which is why I had to cut them off.

    • @Kingonly24
      @Kingonly24 7 місяців тому +8

      Bro im also facing
      As im a selected good looking guy some people respect me alot and more number of people hate me and act weird. Girls think im a playboy and feel extremely nervous and shy around me so dating is gonna difficult

    • @thelasthourgetready
      @thelasthourgetready 7 місяців тому +8

      It's factual. Embrace how you look enjoy it. Don't feel bad because others are insecure and nicer tone it down to appease people. If they hate to themselves its Thier issue. I not toning a thing done. I'm going to look even hotter!

    • @deadreckoner5276
      @deadreckoner5276 5 місяців тому +2

      Few attractive men are actually genuinely smart as well.

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 Рік тому +36

    People are absolutely terrified to look within themselves because they will be horrified about what they see.... This is an explosive , powerful, revealing video!!!!!!!

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 Рік тому +2

      Like Jesus said, they focus on the speck in our eye while completely ignoring the LOG in their's......😆

  • @niecyfields3325
    @niecyfields3325 Рік тому +25

    Just be content w/ urself and keep it moving when them haters come around.

  • @ericstepansky1621
    @ericstepansky1621 Рік тому +25

    It's my obligation as an attractive person to stand around and let regular people enjoy my face.
    Sup, gurl.

    • @yasminthenubian3976
      @yasminthenubian3976 Рік тому +4

      It’s our duty

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX Рік тому +2

      🤣

    • @yasminthenubian3976
      @yasminthenubian3976 Рік тому +2

      Girl period because be staring like this 😳😲👀 and sometimes like this 😒 and then I be like 😏😛😚😗

    • @yasminthenubian3976
      @yasminthenubian3976 Рік тому

      Girl period because be staring like this 😳😲👀 and sometimes like this 😒 and then I be like 😏😛😚😗

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel Рік тому

      😂🤣😭😭

  • @ninjawarriorsword4798
    @ninjawarriorsword4798 Рік тому +47

    You're haters hate you, pretend to be like you and obsess over you because you are Real an they are not they are fake af .....you're attractive because you have good heart ,stay strong with faithfull morals and are true to you're self and God no better nor worse , if you don't like involving God in some thing great that happens in you're life, you are the issue because of you're soul wounds you refuse to let go of that Keeps you from being real with others and you're self an God .....truth hurts if you don't like it!!!!

    • @dakoderii4221
      @dakoderii4221 Рік тому

      I think it's hilarious that people walk around talking about how real they are while at the same time saying "You gotta fake it until you make it" 🙃

    • @ruben9756
      @ruben9756 Рік тому +3

      They try to steal your identity 💯

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel Рік тому +1

      @@ruben9756 THIS.

  • @JohnnyRebKy
    @JohnnyRebKy 6 місяців тому +12

    Because im 6'3 and lean 200lbs at 40 i get instantly judged as someone with big ego and arrogant. In reality im a very humble country boy. I didnt even realize i was attractive until recently. Now all weird things in the past make sense. Girls never seemed interested in me so i thought i was unnatractive. When in reality i intimidated them. I had no idea. I just dont have the cocky attitide to go along with it but they all assume i do. And now i know why all my old friends didnt want me around when they had a GF or were looking for one. Especially now at 40! Not many 40 year old men at 6'3 with a flat stomach and full head of hair. But I am and seem to be judged instantly for it. I can pull more chicks now at 40 than i did at 25. But i remain a freindly humble guy regardless. But now i realiaze why im treated badly by some why women often act afrqid of me

  • @michaelrobinson8382
    @michaelrobinson8382 Рік тому +8

    I'm 5' 6 146 lbs. I'm introverted and stay to myself and I don't bother anyone. I don't think Im the most attractive guy. I seem to attract a lot of beautiful women especially powerful/professional/business women. Some taller than me lol. I'm a very driven, strong and mentally tough person.

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story Рік тому +50

    Makes sense why those linebacker looking gorilla girls at school jumped me and another time a girl stabbed me with a needle during blood draw pretending she didn’t know what she was doing, I had a hematoma for weeks after that 😒 I hate people like that cuz I’m really not even all that for them to act that way I know because I have mirrors

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому

      Women like you are disgusted me vomited my last night hard made food ....

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +2

      I am on fasting

    • @doriansrandorianvlogplace2676
      @doriansrandorianvlogplace2676 Рік тому +2

      You let that slide?

    • @eerynessential
      @eerynessential Рік тому +8

      It's not about looks honey...It's about your light inside of you!!! & Yeah that's F'd up..smh!!

    • @sigmasiren777
      @sigmasiren777 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@eerynessential ppl always say it's your light but no, it's actually your looks. A lot of ppl are just envious AF. I noticed when I wear glasses & dress down a bit, ppl leave me alone.

  • @BuffaloKelly711
    @BuffaloKelly711 Рік тому +10

    Oh we are superstars!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We can't help it that we're stunning all while aligned to the Universe's most magical frequency. All I can tell them is....level up!

  • @jujackmarketing
    @jujackmarketing Рік тому +28

    Everyone should know by now that attractive features on the human body will fade and Its not the ONLY thing to get someone SEXUALLY attached to you.

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 Рік тому +4

      Also remember that there is much MUCH more to life than sex. People are way too obsessed with it.

    • @onedudethelegend
      @onedudethelegend 9 місяців тому +3

      Not if the attractive person keeps up with themselves.

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 8 місяців тому

      No it doesn't lol

    • @MORNINGSTAR190
      @MORNINGSTAR190 8 місяців тому +2

      @@onedudethelegend exactly that's the biggest lie ever bro let himself go body fat plays huge role

    • @triple8ball
      @triple8ball 8 місяців тому +1

      That’s true. Your energy can just simply be attractive alone but if you have looks then you would go further.

  • @mattyfelton954
    @mattyfelton954 5 місяців тому +7

    I definitely get hated on by alot of the bums everyday. Ive scratched my head to find answers until finding some of these videos on youtube. It all makes sense now so thanks for sharing this bro. Like you said let the haters hate.

  • @anabelle6880
    @anabelle6880 Рік тому +11

    I've been thinking about this topic for the last 4 days straight

    • @pweetypoo
      @pweetypoo 2 місяці тому

      I looked at your profile pic. You appear to be about a 7-8/10 in looks and u look nice and respectful. I'd be friends with you. :)

  • @CHUB.E.WALRUS
    @CHUB.E.WALRUS Рік тому +59

    The struggle is real, especially when you're as good looking as me. It's not easy flopping into a room and having all eyes turn to gaze upon my magnificence. Everyone wants to gather around to absorb some of my energy rays or whatever, and I have to tell them, "one at a time, please".

  • @puffyevergreens
    @puffyevergreens Рік тому +30

    Yano, we're pretty incredible when you really sit and think about who we are and how we made it on the other side and we're still us, we still vibrate high lol like through all the B.S. round of applause 👏🏾 for us fr lol

  • @jensz9360
    @jensz9360 Рік тому +37

    This has been happening to me for years. I find that the only people that hate are losers. People who are successful never have an issue with me, we get along well because they can sense that I am the same as them even without speaking of it, Its like a mutual respect. The people who have a problem with me before they even know me or even hear my voice or anything all they do is see me. These are hating losers who always seem to have an issue right off the bat and tend to make shit up about me to try and diminish me.
    The thing is if you confront these haters they then use the fact that you confronted them to point and say "look , I told you he was agressive and thinks he's better than everyone" and they use your reaction to their antagonizing as "proof" of the way they paint you out to be is true. On the upside I have noticed the ONLY people who believe them are other losers who have the same hating mentality. BUT....the downside is that majority of people are usualky losers. Its rare you meet anyone who has their shit together, especially nowadays. The hating is heavy now , a lot of losers (guys an girls) still living with/off their mommy and daddy with not a damn thing to do but hate on people. They cant stand to see you win while they are still asking mommy to borrow the car and give them gas money.

    • @mizukagematt1186
      @mizukagematt1186 11 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 7 місяців тому

      Agreed. Many people are simply egotistical losers and they don’t want to see others doing better than them. Let them wallow in their own misery.

  • @danielsreal5426
    @danielsreal5426 11 місяців тому +13

    Good Video, ive been getting bullied in the gym for being genetically gifted.Not just by men also women aswel they give me harsh looks all the time, as soon as i leave my house an hit the streets im very careful who i make eye contact with an who i socially interact with, cos ive been insulted in public for no reason had people being passive aggressive towards me, so now im not giving anyone leverage to try it, i was so close to resorting to serious violence.

    • @Lightboltmotivationofficial
      @Lightboltmotivationofficial 7 місяців тому +2

      Women jealousy = living hell around demons

    • @thelasthourgetready
      @thelasthourgetready 7 місяців тому +1

      I know EXACTLY how you feel. I get this all the time everywhere. Gets very annoying. Had to switch gyms twice. Finally found one with people who embrace being attractive and like to be their best and are not jealous of each other it's a great atmosphere.

  • @rondellasvisuals707
    @rondellasvisuals707 Рік тому +8

    Mind right, Shine right 👍

  • @WoziduranJahemter
    @WoziduranJahemter Рік тому +8

    They are mad because they don't know their place and purpose and see others distancing from them because they don't work genuinely to be integer people.

    • @sludgerat666
      @sludgerat666 8 місяців тому

      Wow that's actually spot on.

  • @Shark_King325
    @Shark_King325 5 місяців тому +4

    Tbh the way people have treated me over the years no wonder why attractive men have a stereotype because people give that to them. I used to never be arrogant, overly assertive or a womanizer but I’ve been forced into that role. If your an attractive guy you cannot be too nice I learned this the hard way and you will be stepped on so unfortunately I’ve had to be more assertive than usual. I’ve never been a womanizer and I don’t consider myself one however over the years after many women accusing me of being a “player” and a “cheater” has left me no choice but to keep my options open so I don’t hurt my self again like the first 2 times. I am more than happy to give my loyalty to a woman I love as long as I am sure she will give that back to me in return. I’ve basically have been forced by society to act like the “typical arrogant attractive man” all because people like to take their insecurities out on you for just existing. It’s crazy being attractive is a gift but a curse at the same time

  • @chosenone2363
    @chosenone2363 Рік тому +7

    Evil Spirits hatred ,just ignore it!

  • @leoliu7840
    @leoliu7840 4 місяці тому +3

    When I was shredded and handsome I complained about the haters and fights, when I got fat, I wished I was handsome because you also get compliments and treated better, giving you easy confidence

  • @Osiwan960
    @Osiwan960 Рік тому +8

    Don't focus on what you can't control. Make your brain super efficient at that concept. Like a computer, as soon as something negative comes up, it should take a split second for you to discard it & focus on something useful.

  • @apostlekeithbryanttaylor52
    @apostlekeithbryanttaylor52 Рік тому +10

    my intuitions are on damn point I am Redeemed and Chosen One by God's Kingdom

  • @bluejay9968
    @bluejay9968 8 місяців тому +4

    I go through this a lot. I ignore it. They spread rumors and lies and are jealous as hell.

  • @mec4plaisir
    @mec4plaisir Рік тому +14

    I love your masculine energy, you helped me so much with your knowledge.
    Hugs 🤗 from a Brazilian in Paris 🇧🇷🇫🇷

  • @KingCharles3000
    @KingCharles3000 10 днів тому +1

    Man, for reall. I got so much hate and envy in my life. Usually it starts with envy then turns into resentment. And then you try to tell people who are obsessed with looks and call themselves ugly about your experiences, just to try to give them some perspective so that they don’t think attractive people have perfect lives, and they dismiss you and hate even more.
    I think good people come in different forms. But mainly they won’t treat people differently just because of their looks, good or bad.

  • @DivineTiming8888
    @DivineTiming8888 Рік тому +23

    Bro I just wanted to say thank you for your videos. I watched one of yours about Narcs and how they operate and was able to detect one trying to get my soul. Your video was super eye opening and I moved on hella fast, as the chosen ones we get attacked by the demons bro. I’m forever grateful you taught me how to spot them.

  • @TimeTolaugh-vf4fx
    @TimeTolaugh-vf4fx 5 місяців тому +3

    I started recognizing this "hater" quality in myself but, at the same time, always wondered why I was getting hated on because I didn't think that there was anything about me that was enviable. Once I came to terms that some people were jealous of me, life made a whole lot more sense in terms of the hate I was receiving. I learned to be grateful for what I have because, for a majority of people, there will always be someone out there who's more attractive--no matter how attractive you may be. My realizations also helped me to stop being jealous of others and to just focus on improving myself.

  • @ampm9771
    @ampm9771 6 місяців тому +3

    So I was right all along! Why I get lots of hate, now I understand that my feelings was not wrong!

  • @leo3591
    @leo3591 Рік тому +23

    I'm sure glad you know what I'm going through on a daily basis keep up the good work I love listening to you

  • @Newshustle
    @Newshustle Рік тому +10

    I felt like I was about to die about 12 years ago I was taking this pre-workout called Jack3d along with Alchohol daily and it finally caught up to me and my heart was spinning out of control while I was in bed. Haven't had alchohol or that pre-workout since although I do miss the alchohol but fuk that bloating shlt

  • @AP-fv2in
    @AP-fv2in Рік тому +9

    Aw that is crazy. 😺 Sending positivity your way.

  • @koban4max
    @koban4max Рік тому +25

    Being attractive is cool but in all reality, anyone who focuses on attractiveness is a beta at least for guys. I focus on being the best in fitness and all. There is a girl who reached out to me to ask for help, I’m gonna make her attract because she came at me with positive attitude

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +2

      I am way ahead majority of people not because of attractive , it's because other things

    • @essgee4225
      @essgee4225 Рік тому

      You’re probably unattractive 🤣🤣

    • @SurroundedByClowns1926
      @SurroundedByClowns1926 Рік тому

      Once again there's no such label that prove this labelling of MEN within the biblical manuscripts it evidently proves we're Alphas and Omegas that is all

    • @k_da_menace23
      @k_da_menace23 Рік тому +2

      Oh now its beta but yall stay tellin mfs to focus on getting attractive 💀

  • @HabibiQalbi786
    @HabibiQalbi786 5 місяців тому +3

    I’m 6,3 tall olive skin, good physique and a handsome face and in my opinion women hate seeing an attractive man more than anything because an att active man beauty a power on women can have so in front of a handsome man they feel useless other men will hate on you but eventually some warm up but women will always feel some type of way.

  • @alphasuperior100
    @alphasuperior100 6 місяців тому +5

    I would not say I'm super handsome but when I get a really good haircut and fix myself up I get the stares. Also, when I was in the military I got this one guy who always made jokes that I like to look pretty trying to make it look like I am gay but I am not. I think he was just attracted to me and tried to reverse his feelings unto me.

  • @bevansabo2762
    @bevansabo2762 Рік тому +10

    Open up your beautiful eyes and see the truth , I already know God sent you down my path you are an answer to my prayers,,,,you will be blessed and watched over for all your kindness, you mean the world to me. In this world everything is meant to be,,,can't wait till reality kicks in for us..0h and you made me laugh as usual...thanks

  • @dawnblade6053
    @dawnblade6053 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank u very much. I needed to hear this. I always thought something was wrong with me. I never could understand why people specifically female treated me bad. I keep to myself and I'm very kind. I had very low self esteem but i decided to do something about it. I fix myself up and started truly luv myself inside in out with healthy eating, working out, grooming and etc. but ever since i started doing thos for myself people started treating me different. Acting standoffish and talking bout me everytime i receive a compliment from a afmirer. It frustrated me and hurt me to my core, but im slowly understanding that it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with them. I remember a video i watch somewhere on UA-cam and it said "rejection is protection".

  • @SirGregg
    @SirGregg Рік тому +7

    Take the pre workout pre workout. Hook into the weights then eat then sleep. You'll get good gains from the extra focus and squeeze on each rep. Eat a steak and pass out in a warm room. When you wake up your body would have processed the steak in anticipation of its next strenuous workout. You know how it goes.

    • @deadlifts_steaks.
      @deadlifts_steaks. 3 місяці тому

      Hey, today I spoke about pre workout and steak.

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 Рік тому +7

    Right on the road,Terry!there are many turns,many off ramp options,many traffic CIRCLES.i know and act accordingly.they have so much to learn.too much information for these fools.it just is instinctively there for me.

  • @rebeccacotten2691
    @rebeccacotten2691 Рік тому +9

    “Why ya gotta be like that 😎 breu??? “
    Educating , motivating and just plain entertaining !!
    Luv your channel Breu!!!

  • @erickmendoza3062
    @erickmendoza3062 6 місяців тому +3

    It’s about being the best version of yourself bro dose not matter how attracted a person can be you gotta give love to the attracted people and focus on yourself

  • @princessshiekha5258
    @princessshiekha5258 3 місяці тому +1

    It's so true ppl around me hate me literally all eyes on men

  • @LorindaTV
    @LorindaTV Рік тому +14

    Makes perfect sense…other problems are because I’m independent I get people obsessed with trying to control me! And once my soul began needing to be alone (peace and quiet) many began messaging me and offering their friendship…it’s strange
    (maybe just a test???)
    Chosen ones just need chosen ones❣️
    TY for your videos 🤍🕊♾♾♾

  • @sherrirederer4647
    @sherrirederer4647 Рік тому +8

    Thank you young man , I’m learning a lot and enjoy .😊😊

  • @n00hhgff
    @n00hhgff Рік тому +4

    Great lesson. 'Ahoo!'

  • @erinmerlot8826
    @erinmerlot8826 Рік тому +8

    You have a brilliant mind and like my dad once said some who have the skills don't have the heart to teach. But you my brother are preaching to the choir and its refreshing. Ppl will stagnate and hate you ( just random walking thru the aisle you) because they are caught in a rift. Secretly envious of your resilience itself js stay up and wealthy in soul brother!!

  • @nathaneriksson88
    @nathaneriksson88 5 місяців тому +4

    My issue is in the gym, the girls smile and work out closer and closer to me, I think they are attracted to the spirit of god within us almost like a magnet more than anything.
    The guys give me dirty looks in every gym I go to. I smile say hi then ignore the women and the guys also, so much ego its ridiculous. I even try and avoid working out during the evening and go for early morning workouts, It’s like they want us to stay small stay hidden. But guess what I’m here I exist deal with it and leave me alone.

  • @MarySmith-xp6gd
    @MarySmith-xp6gd Рік тому +4

    That's ok my audience is God alone no worries.

  • @jesssss12
    @jesssss12 Рік тому +8

    By bums 😂 I love how raw this guys is. It sucks to be born attractive bc girls gets really jealous of you, the things I’ve earned in life are labeled as pretty privilege. When I work so hard 😫😫 Plus you only get some compliments once in a while but it’s rare. Even my closess friends act weird with me. But we don’t have a choice at the top but to f them 😅. It’s the price. But like why did my parents do this to me 😅😅

  • @rosahoran2480
    @rosahoran2480 Рік тому +9

    Luv u bro. GOD bless you

  • @shrillytemple1654
    @shrillytemple1654 Рік тому +5

    You’re my kind of person. Love that confidence and truth! Stay strong!

  • @puffyevergreens
    @puffyevergreens Рік тому +5

    Thank you Terri 💚

  • @estherhelena3190
    @estherhelena3190 Рік тому +6

    Story of my life🧜🏼‍♀️ this video speaks reality. like that song "and another one bites the dust". Great vid as usual

  • @Simplythetruthfulone
    @Simplythetruthfulone 9 місяців тому +4

    This was honestly the best segment that i have heard on jealousy and envy. He touched on the pettiness that people do towards the person they are jealous of as well which is rare topic. This was in depth and this wise man needs to write a book. I am a woman and ive listened to several other women and men touch on this but no one has explained it in this way🙌🏾 Thank you 🙌🏾

  • @superconscious.
    @superconscious. Рік тому +2

    this is the spirit talking through this young man.

  • @robslams2324
    @robslams2324 Рік тому +5

    Good to hear your voice man. Hope you made it to church today. Today was the first time I've been in about 15 years. God bless bro

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 Рік тому +5

    Stay humble and low key

  • @vanessab9499
    @vanessab9499 Рік тому +3

    Sending positively to you Tj and all the chosen ones 💜 ✨☀️

  • @britanyleecolonna3615
    @britanyleecolonna3615 Рік тому +5

    Facts!!!!! Truth right here!

  • @JamesLee-fc4ty
    @JamesLee-fc4ty 6 місяців тому +2

    This guy is a true motivation to keep being attractive

  • @1nonlyjenifer42day
    @1nonlyjenifer42day Рік тому +7

    Great video! I understand, because I've been there!
    Luke 6:20-27
    20 And he lifted up his eyes on his disciples, and said,Blessed be ye poor: for yours is the kingdom of God.
    21 Blessed are ye that hunger now: for ye shall be filled. Blessed are ye that weep now: for ye shall laugh.
    22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man's sake.

  • @user-gf3xw7du2f
    @user-gf3xw7du2f 5 місяців тому

    Yesssirrrrr you got me pumped this morning watching this bro !!!

  • @Rolldadice27
    @Rolldadice27 2 місяці тому

    Love this brotha I always get stared at followed everything get random hate and I always want to understand you nailed it

  • @bradymcgraw7867
    @bradymcgraw7867 8 місяців тому +1

    Great advice and support here, thanks for doing this bruh 👍🙏

  • @everything.miscellaneous
    @everything.miscellaneous 6 днів тому

    I spoke to this girl once. I have had one conversation with her in my whole life. But her and her friends have been harassing me for years. Out of jealousy? Insecurity? I’m not sure. But all it took is one time meeting me to decide that I had been sleeping with her boyfriend for years. It will never fail to baffle me. He was a friend of mine in middle school, but I spoke to him because I thought his friend was cute, not him. I was the new girl, not a single person knew me. I don’t like to speak like this about myself because I’ve been put down for it, but I have always been a pretty girl. I am also neurodivergent, so I already am “different.” A pretty, quiet, shy girl? Just a recipe for disaster. There were rumors about me having slept with every single boy and teacher in my whole middle school. Middle. School. Girls could not handle that I was pretty, AND nice. I was friends with most of the boys in my grade because there was so much less judgement. I had hardly any girl friends as I aged because girls hated my character, because they were so angry inside. At this point I’m just venting for myself. Needed to be said, a relief.

  • @Age_Of_The_GodJudah
    @Age_Of_The_GodJudah Рік тому +7

    I love how he makes threats while giving advice😆

  • @Olando89
    @Olando89 5 місяців тому

    Real talk.
    I wish you an amazing new year.

  • @imlflashh777
    @imlflashh777 Рік тому +7

    Thank You I understand exactly what you mean 🎉

  • @deebee843
    @deebee843 Рік тому +4

    They want you to hate you like they do. Hell Nahhhhhhhh…take it up with God. He designed me. ✌🏽

  • @edgregory1
    @edgregory1 3 місяці тому +1

    One must remain stoic and not retaliate. Don't give them ammo. Keep the moral high ground.

  • @ravenmangameclips
    @ravenmangameclips 4 місяці тому +2

    Depends on the environment that you are in. Wealthy or successful people should never stay around people lower than them. It's dangerous

  • @MedoJumelOfficial
    @MedoJumelOfficial Місяць тому

    True facts brother… I fully agree.

  • @kashchand290
    @kashchand290 8 днів тому

    I can completely relate to this. I get this all the time. I used to think there was something wrong with me and then realised it was because of the fact that I'm muscular, dress well and presentable. I'm also a sigma male and that it comes with the territory

  • @tinalongman842
    @tinalongman842 Рік тому +5

    Thank you!!! ❤

  • @andrewdaviston3986
    @andrewdaviston3986 Рік тому +15

    Most people mean mugging are most likely in deception and probably thinking super toxic lies toward you

  • @youdontknowman
    @youdontknowman 8 місяців тому

    Thank you brother I appreciate your words

  • @strawberryloli
    @strawberryloli 5 місяців тому

    Needed this today, thanks

  • @jaygreen7717
    @jaygreen7717 Рік тому +2

    Broo you're so intelligent thank you my bro I appreciate your wise words I look up too you 💯✊🏾