As a man, you can never forgive a cheater, whether it be a girlfriend or a wife makes no difference,.. you will replay in your mind her infidelity forever,.. and according to Sadie Khan she is bound to do it again,…
Yeah. He was taking what she was saying personally. And she is 100% right, he's not. I like Mathew, but I hated how he kept interrupting her, almost never letting her finish a line of thought. He simply did not want to listen.
Exactly. This is what he does not understand. Even in the bible it says "men love your women, women RESPECT your men". There's a reason Paul didn't use "love" for both genders. Men are supposed to be strong so they can protect their families, women will therefore not respect (or will lose respect for) weak men. This is why men should never completely open themselves to women, women need a rock, not someone who is just as emotional as them (much in the same way an army leader must show confidence to boost the moral of his men in battle even if inside he is shaking in his boots). Likewise, forgiving betrayal is not interpreted by women as strength but rather as a lack of self-respect, aka, weakness (remember, as mentioned in the video a woman cheating means that the children may actually not be his, while the woman ALWAYS knows that they are the mother of their children, so even here the potential outcome of cheating is very different for men and women).
Surprised by Matthew, I thought he was more aware than this. His talk when he humbled a room full of women was class but in the occasion he just exposes himself as a snake oil salesman who doesn’t really get it.
@15:52 sadia's Pov is become the ideal before getting into relationship so shall there be respect even in absence that requires a lot of healing given todays "plenty of fish in the sea" mentality in either genders, mathews point is all about healing as re-pairing whats broken and swept underneath the rug of truama or "inner child" which requires a lot of guts to pull out and work through as couple but given theres mutual hunger and pain to heal it builds a very deep deep connection between couple. neither are wrong or right its the path they choose thats what they are representing as coaches
He talks such rubbish! It’s true! Women do not respect a man who forgives her if she cheats. He’s so annoying!! overbearing!!! Clearly can’t give her the floor! “ I agree with her” 💯
Matthew just doesn’t take evolutionary psychology in to account, he is just 100 % trusting what women tell him, worst mistake to ever make with women. Actions over words.
Neither men nor women are expected to forgive for cheating. Why always think women are supposed to be Mother Teresas. Hell no. Best women can do is cheat back if she cannot just leave.
No one is saying that. They’re saying the point of view between both genders are different because we are biologically different and therefore makes us mentally different in a lot of spaces as well.
It ~can~ be brave and “big enough” to work through infidelity However, it doesn’t mean that it’s cowardly, weak, or “small” to walk away Is the person willing to take on the challenges that come with working through infidelity Neutral terms like that are more appropriate instead of casting a value judgement on he quality of those actions and intentions Unfortunately, there’s a sizable amount of anecdotes reported where men are reward with continued bad behavior from women in forgiving cheating and disrespect There’s asymmetry to men and women that attracts us to one another It seems to be the case that men and women respond to forgiveness of infidelity differently as well Men typically have affairs because men tend to desire novelty and variety in sexual partners Women cheat because something is missing from their relationship and deem the person worthy of submitting themselves to This submission is more likely to lead to romantic affection from women to men compared to the reverse It’s a greater risk for men to stay with unfaithful women Matthew doesn’t have to believe it for it to be true Again, it’s unfortunate, but true
Watching this feels like watching a match between a legend (Sadia) vs a rookie (Mathew) who is getting slammed...left right and centre. I understand that he is trying his best to give importance to relationships over the person but he is missing one simple thing, a man is completely destroyed when he learns about the betrayal. For a man his love is his pride. So there is forgiveness and all but you cannot get the things the way they were. The most simple rule is . . Of course I can be wrong and I stand corrected, if a cheater (male or female) comes out by themselves and confess their wrong doings to their partner is a clear indication that this person values relationships and is showing their intentions of saving the relationship. So their partner can actually consider of forgiving them. (Going with Mathew's views) But . . But . . But, if they are caught and then they try and apologize then what Sadia said is absolutely true.
Who is this guy ? I feel like I’m looking at an episode from “the dark-side”. Who makes a “Cheating Mistake”.They’re not really Guilty, guilt is their own selfish way of being found out.That guy on the show is a SIMP; and you can see he’s been cheated on and forgives being cheated on.This guy needs to shut up I can’t even hear anything intelligible interesting Sadia has to say! Seems he’s promoting men to forgive women who cheat.
Matthew is Just a big baby. Life is unfair, and so is men and women. The truth is very little amount of people are genuine. And because of that, they suffer, which is what life truly is . . . SUFFERING. Accept it and move on
When I was young, I would forgive women and they would always end up, costing me my sanity and peace. After focusing on myself, I put myself before the relationship, I stopped forgiving, after that, it always worked in my favor. Women crawling back, and then realizing even at that point not to accept them and help pathetic women can be when you walk away.
Matthew has a massive knowledge gap but instead of listening to learn. He is so sure that Sadia is wrong. She isn’t.
As a man, you can never forgive a cheater, whether it be a girlfriend or a wife makes no difference,.. you will replay in your mind her infidelity forever,.. and according to Sadie Khan she is bound to do it again,…
Same goes for a man cheating on his woman... can't forget, can't forgive
I think this guy is probably with a woman who cheated on him but he didn’t leave. He’s coming across as someone who is justifying a cheating woman
Yeah. He was taking what she was saying personally. And she is 100% right, he's not. I like Mathew, but I hated how he kept interrupting her, almost never letting her finish a line of thought. He simply did not want to listen.
Mathew panders to women Sadie tells the truth
He thinks men and women are the same.
😂
Exactly. This is what he does not understand. Even in the bible it says "men love your women, women RESPECT your men". There's a reason Paul didn't use "love" for both genders.
Men are supposed to be strong so they can protect their families, women will therefore not respect (or will lose respect for) weak men. This is why men should never completely open themselves to women, women need a rock, not someone who is just as emotional as them (much in the same way an army leader must show confidence to boost the moral of his men in battle even if inside he is shaking in his boots).
Likewise, forgiving betrayal is not interpreted by women as strength but rather as a lack of self-respect, aka, weakness (remember, as mentioned in the video a woman cheating means that the children may actually not be his, while the woman ALWAYS knows that they are the mother of their children, so even here the potential outcome of cheating is very different for men and women).
This guy is a 🤡
No affair happens “by accident”.
Surprised by Matthew, I thought he was more aware than this. His talk when he humbled a room full of women was class but in the occasion he just exposes himself as a snake oil salesman who doesn’t really get it.
He’s a con artist. The red pill (ppl like Myron) warned men about him and behold, he was proven correct.
@15:52 sadia's Pov is become the ideal before getting into relationship so shall there be respect even in absence that requires a lot of healing given todays "plenty of fish in the sea" mentality in either genders, mathews point is all about healing as re-pairing whats broken and swept underneath the rug of truama or "inner child" which requires a lot of guts to pull out and work through as couple but given theres mutual hunger and pain to heal it builds a very deep deep connection between couple. neither are wrong or right its the path they choose thats what they are representing as coaches
When children are involved it becomes more difficult to take the “easy pill”.
He talks such rubbish! It’s true! Women do not respect a man who forgives her if she cheats. He’s so annoying!! overbearing!!! Clearly can’t give her the floor! “ I agree with her” 💯
Y'all always make a difference. A man doesn't respect a woman either...and will continue. Cheaters are shitty people, men and women...
@@Amuslimpointofviewthank you men don't either
Matthew just doesn’t take evolutionary psychology in to account, he is just 100 % trusting what women tell him, worst mistake to ever make with women. Actions over words.
The bad part about this is once u forgive her, her insecurities heighten a lot later on a lot of times
Finally someone is observing Hussey’s behavior! I keep getting he is fake!
He talks such rubbish!
Matthew thinks he’s an expert in this field hence why he’s pushing back. Mate sit down. You are a beginner at best.
Matthew lies to men and women.
Never forgive
This man is so blu pilled and beta
Team Sadia )
Neither men nor women are expected to forgive for cheating. Why always think women are supposed to be Mother Teresas. Hell no.
Best women can do is cheat back if she cannot just leave.
A woman can also not forgive... Please stop thinking women like getting cheated on
No one is saying that. They’re saying the point of view between both genders are different because we are biologically different and therefore makes us mentally different in a lot of spaces as well.
It looks that she is attacking😅
It ~can~ be brave and “big enough” to work through infidelity
However, it doesn’t mean that it’s cowardly, weak, or “small” to walk away
Is the person willing to take on the challenges that come with working through infidelity
Neutral terms like that are more appropriate instead of casting a value judgement on he quality of those actions and intentions
Unfortunately, there’s a sizable amount of anecdotes reported where men are reward with continued bad behavior from women in forgiving cheating and disrespect
There’s asymmetry to men and women that attracts us to one another
It seems to be the case that men and women respond to forgiveness of infidelity differently as well
Men typically have affairs because men tend to desire novelty and variety in sexual partners
Women cheat because something is missing from their relationship and deem the person worthy of submitting themselves to
This submission is more likely to lead to romantic affection from women to men compared to the reverse
It’s a greater risk for men to stay with unfaithful women
Matthew doesn’t have to believe it for it to be true
Again, it’s unfortunate, but true
Watching this feels like watching a match between a legend (Sadia) vs a rookie (Mathew) who is getting slammed...left right and centre.
I understand that he is trying his best to give importance to relationships over the person but he is missing one simple thing, a man is completely destroyed when he learns about the betrayal. For a man his love is his pride. So there is forgiveness and all but you cannot get the things the way they were.
The most simple rule is . . Of course I can be wrong and I stand corrected, if a cheater (male or female) comes out by themselves and confess their wrong doings to their partner is a clear indication that this person values relationships and is showing their intentions of saving the relationship.
So their partner can actually consider of forgiving them. (Going with Mathew's views)
But . . But . . But, if they are caught and then they try and apologize then what Sadia said is absolutely true.
Who is this guy ?
I feel like I’m looking at an episode from “the dark-side”. Who makes a “Cheating Mistake”.They’re not really Guilty, guilt is their own selfish way of being found out.That guy on the show is a SIMP; and you can see he’s been cheated on and forgives being cheated on.This guy needs to shut up I can’t even hear anything intelligible interesting Sadia has to say! Seems he’s promoting men to forgive women who cheat.
Matthew is Just a big baby. Life is unfair, and so is men and women. The truth is very little amount of people are genuine. And because of that, they suffer, which is what life truly is . . . SUFFERING. Accept it and move on
Sadia is so beutifull and smart that it takes time for me to heat what she is saying xD
When I was young, I would forgive women and they would always end up, costing me my sanity and peace. After focusing on myself, I put myself before the relationship, I stopped forgiving, after that, it always worked in my favor. Women crawling back, and then realizing even at that point not to accept them and help pathetic women can be when you walk away.