Here's thing: telling the truth doesn't make their actions ok. Saying they are lying and manipulative is not okay just because they admitted it. They are still toxic and that's what we were talking about.
‼️‼️ Cuz I’ve seen people be like “I have a bad attitude and am disrespectful and that’s that”. Okayy cute you admitted it, that doesn’t mean it’s right...
i agree i agree i agree. i think people mess up by going into situations with guys like that expecting a relationship. after they’ve been up front in saying they ain’t abt that and they’re f-boys etc. people just set their expectations really high in the wrong typa people.
They aren't ready for relationships. Period, end of sentence. They're hurting women and leaving behind trauma . Plus the fact that one of them had a DAUGHTER and still has these Toxic behaviors. They're almost 30 acting like this. And just cause they answered honestly doesn't excuse that they're terrible people who aren't willing to change.
I agree with everything you said but you shouldn't let ANY MAN mess with your head or give you trauma. You need to take some months and retract but if you let that shit give you some type of PTSD then some wrong with that girl and she needs to realize not everyone is a good person
Krystal Campbell there are so many different traumas, big traumas, micro traumas, emotional, sexual, physical, psychological chronic, complex etc. Some experiences lead to ptsd and some do not. There is smth called PTRS (Post Traumatic Relationship Syndrome) too. Educate yourself.
@@natalie3022 I am just saying that in general it is good to bring awareness to toxic relationship habits and call it out when it is being done. Much easier said than done, but it is vital to try and do your part even if it is hard.
@Mykela Brown thank you for your input, I honestly respect your knowledge. I am not bothered at Denzel for making the video because, if anything, it gave insight on how these boys think and maybe even help people avoid getting into those type of relationships. And I totally agree that if a person does not want change, you can't force it upon them to change. But I think the initial step of calling out the wrong to educate is still important regardless if they receive or reject the advice. After that, it's the receivers place to either change or not (which we hope sooner or later they will). No one can force change, but we can just help.
Exactlyyyy, just because someone broke a manz heart that doesn’t give him permission to hurt others. He must deal with his grief first damn. Same goes for girl’s before i get attacked for not saying that💀
No matter how much we say “their mindset is toxic”, that’s how they are!! Y’all girls just need to avoid these dudes if that’s not what you want 🤷🏽♀️ i know what I’m looking for, and what I want, if I see that a dude is that type of guy, ima move along. Denzel was spitting facts when he said how some people be picking the same type of dude, y’all be doing it to yourself.
I've never heard anything better "come to me built". Come to me correct. I seriously am not here to fix a "man". That is not in my job description honey bunches of oats.
Just because they’re being straight up doesn’t mean it’s okay😂 hell was made for people that can so easily break apart someone’s life and heart and move on like nothing’s wrong.
It may be wrong, but what can you do? If being a f-boy was a crime, maybe then something would happen. Toxicity burns, but if the truth is toxic, there’s not a lot that can be said. I hope they take time to realize that a change is needed, but that’s their journey, not ours.
Like he said ladies and gents stay away from those with “potential “ types!!!! Don’t be me who gave a boy a decade of my life(middle school-junior yr of college). For them to turn around and give another person/people everything I always asked of them . It will hurt y’all like he said.
I can tell that a lot of you guys here are really young. I know you’re annoyed and irritated, even hurt by the things those guys said in the video but listen to me babes: take that free game you just got and handle yourself accordingly!! YES you may feel it’s offensive and wrong, at the same time we know everyone doesn’t have the same morals and values as you! Some people just aren’t decent and that’s LIFE! So arguing and getting angry at them telling THEIR TRUTH is wasted energy. Be happy and glad that they were open and honest because now you’re armed with the information you need to better navigate the dating world and watch for the red flags. Don’t internalize so deeply what their past girls and flings what you assume have felt or are feeling because that is THEIR learning experience. We all have to go through things, learn lessons and make better choices in the future. We have to accept the fact that some men are just gonna be assholes. They’re looking out for themselves first so take notes and apply that same energy for you! Do NOT martyr yourself for ANY man, love yourself and put yourself first at all times and the bad apples will weed themselves out much easier. 👏🏾👏🏾
I honestly liked the last video because at least they were honest. I’ve ran into a ton of guys like them in college (and have been played by a few). I’ve learned from my mistakes, but I liked the video bc it was a PSA to basically stay away from these type of guys. Men know what they want and often times will play you as long as you decide to stay around
There’s a lot of people who look for different things in a guy but for me personally the main 3 things are: Honesty A passion for something Humor These are in no particular order... also now that I think about I prefer guys that are brave because I love roller coasters and I really wanna go bungee jumping. The guy needs a sense of adventure Thank you for your time
Lol I tried to tell my friend that she couldn’t change her boo but she didn’t wanna listen🤣 I hate seeing her get less than she deserves because she’s a good person but I tried 🤷🏽♀️
Literally dealing with this now lmaooo my friends bf has cheated on her multiple times, he doesn't post her on social media, she has to beg him to say i love you like girl..
Amanda Innamorato huh it’s a “but I love him” vibe🤣 Once you know your worth nobody can fool you like that🤷🏽♀️ & if they do just laugh it off! Hopefully your friend gets in a mindset where she realizes her worth & she deserves better :)
I literally just don’t know how people can stay in a relationship like that, my mom has taught me that the minute a guy does something toxic then u should leave and I agree 100% if he hits u then u need to leave or get help immediately, if he cheats on u then dump his ass and block him, I mean I’m 16 and never been in a relationship but I know for the future to run away from guys that are toxic, it makes me so sad that guys and girls lower themselves and get treated like crap and think it’s ok
i feel like i’m only girl who didn’t have a problem with their answers. i will never worry (that much) about a man who isn’t mine and their actions in a relationship. like denzel said, they were honest. if you didn’t like their answers don’t date men like them 🤷🏾♀️
It’s crazy I always hear stories girls tell about how they were cheated on multiple times and stayed, or just thought it wouldn’t happen again. Like there HAS to be plenty of red flags and your intuition knows best. No tea no shade but cmon girl you saw it coming 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly, some females are way to forgiving and most of the times it’s because they are scared of being lonely but sis if you can’t handle being alone and loving yourself what you gone do with someone else there? Couldn’t be me🙄
These are some facts, people pretending to be innocent and ignorant meanwhile they stay for the wrong reasons in these "toxic" relationships and these men have seen this script many times and they know they have power. These women are acting like they were drugged and therefore stayed in these toxic relationships. It's annoying how some females want to create gender bias binary with respect to men being inherently evil and women inherently good.
Sis FACTS I had a friend who was “in a relationship” with a guy for like 2 years and he NEVER claimed her, even ignored her in public sometimes and then she had the nerve to say “i never saw it coming” when she found out he was cheating 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ ND SHE STAYED lol sometimes we need to hold ourselves accountable for ignoring red flags and accepting shitty behavior. A lot of women don’t learn how to love themselves its really sad :(
Andile Mkhize y’all know how some people have a list of all the qualities they want in a person? Most of the time it’s just looks and financial stability so when they meet someone who has most of those things they stay with them because they got everything on that list.. that’s how I see it🤷🏽♀️ either that or they are just super lonely and don’t know how to be alone and happy with themselves😑
I understand where you’re coming from but at the same time you did click on a video which included these types of people and you should’ve known that they would answer rudely, as the video was surrounded by their opinions and experiences. if you didn’t happen to like what you heard then maybe you shouldn’t tune into videos such as that one. (Again this is just my opinion and you’re allowed to feel the way you feel, sorry if this was offensive in anyway I really don’t want to cause drama or disrespect you in any way, I hope you can respect what I said and have a good day stay safe!
@@inaynaycoleman i think they meant that if you saw the title you should have assumed that there was going to be answers you werent going to like. Its not fair to go and drag these guys (Denzel's friends) for answering truthfully. We all have friends that think like this, if we wanna change anything we should start there. Go talk to the people in our lives not be an ass to people in the internet that shed light to these questions. Some of those comments were just like 😯😳
CeCe C I could’ve rephrased it better, I apologize but the comment underneath yours explained what I was trying to say, I’m sorry you were offended! Again have a nice day/night and stay safe :)
I feel like the guy in offwhite should've asked himself: Would I want a guy like myself to date my daughter? If his answer is no, then he needs to mature and elevate his mindset. If his answer is yes, then he should do the same thing because that's sad.
Idk why y’all getting mad at Denzel. He simply asked the questions y’all asked him to ask. Y’all got the answers and you were offended. But it’s the truth and y’all need to handle that.
I don’t think people are mad at Denzel. They were more so expressing how they felt about the responses the guys gave. Most of the comments were def on the negative side but I’m not sure why Denzel is surprised by that lol
Lili K doesn’t kind of contradict itself a little . For example, if I asked my friend if this outfit looks bad and they said yes. Why am I going to be upset by the answer when I’m the one that asked
CharlieCab nothing gives permission for anyone to be an asshole. What she’s trynna say if you’re gonna be bold enough to make those statement and act like you do and laugh about it? Make US see why some girls actually fall for it. I was watching them like.. I would NEVER give those boys the time of the day. EVER.
I completely understand everyone’s sentiment about avoiding fuck boys. Denzel, I think you should listen to the women in the comments and consider that this is a larger societal issue. Straight men have historically mistreated women and that’s not something we should excuse. Being honest about their misogyny doesn’t mean they deserve respect. Any critique of that last video is about how men are allowed to get away with being assholes to women and how we expect women to just deal with it. Those particular boys weren’t the issue, it was that their mindsets (and the pass they got from Denzel and some of the comments) are the byproducts of our deeply misogynistic society. By excusing their behavior and centering the responsibility on women to weave through men to see who treats them with basic human decency, we are telling men that they can do whatever they want. It’s a similar thing to telling POC to just avoid racist people. Men should be held accountable for their actions and we should expect more from them.The comments in the last video did just that.
Don't sis.. instead say "if a man wants to be a better human being and stop running from his feelings, he will change." It's not your responsibility to make a man better. He needs to be the reason he changes.
I swearrr! People been actin shook for nothing .almost 60% of guys act like this Soo See it as something that show how f-boys behave and not fall for their lies smhh
denzels subcribers must be young cuz...😂 aint nothing they said had anything to do with me that's their livess. I thought we were laughing at them... no???
I NEEDED YOU TO READ ME LIKE THAT!!! Just cut off a guy I was trying to change for too long 😅 and I really wasn’t valuing me or my time. A little reminder he ain’t shit, and it’s not my time yet
I watched that video and didn't think anything of it lmaoooooo...growing up having "pretty boy" brothers and literally having at least two girls crying at our door step talking bout "I just love him so much"......they embarrassed me enough that I know to NEVER mess with a player PERIODT
Yes! I’d like a part 2. I like that they were being honest. There certainly were some questionable things but overall I think that it was interesting to watch and hear them actually answer the questions. Although there are things that they said that aren’t acceptable and I wouldn’t tolerate with it, I still appreciate them just being honest.
the part where he said that it was expected of guys to play girls honestly makes me think it's toxic masculinity. The old me would've said that it's pathetic to play people just because you got hurt, but now that I am somewhat able to understand the concept, I know now that when girls play guys they, for the most part, expect them to "be a man" and get over it, But that's not the case guys have real raw feelings too, but this double standard greatly contributes to toxic masculinity. Like yes, that mentality is messed up but you also have to think about how they got it in the first place.
Can’t imagine being attracted to toxicity and then complaining to everyone when they break your heart even though everyone said it was going to happen.
I love that you made this video because the comments were a maybe a little to much in my opinion. Cause I appreciated the honesty that they showed, and you can’t force someone to change and if more people were honest, less people would be getting played. Then people can’t just blame the other person because they knew what they were getting into. Then It’s more about making decisions that put your heart at risk, instead of just being plain lied to. I don’t know if that made any sense
I agree with you, Honesty is everything, how can we learn if we're being lied to And the problem with the comment section was that a lot of people were rejecting the truth
you obviously misunderstood what people were saying. Nobody was rejecting the truth. I’m not sure what you expected the comment section to be like, were we supposed to praise them for being assholes?!?
You spoke nothin but FACTS...that video was just shocking because it was kinda a reality check that these men know they’re hurting you and they’re totally fine with it and will do it again. No conscience whatever. You know this is what they do but hearing it come out of their mouth is just like WHO RAISED YOU ?????
It’s about time these men take responsibility for the trauma they inflict on women. Like yeah they were honest but that doesn’t make it okay. Because they will continue to do it to multiple women and the trauma cycle continues
This needs to become a segment or something because the guys gave us honesty and you stated nothing but FACTS. Women need to hear the truth and truly observe why they’re attracting certain kinds of men and how they need to shift their mindset.
For all the teens I’m 20 now and the number 1 thing I regretted was wasting my time on some lil boy I was in love with plz listen to me y’all not grown y’all not playing husband and wife you or your bf are going to experience with other people at this age regardless so plz spend ur time on YOURSELF and keep them boys to the side ladies, and men don’t change they just GET BETTER AT HIDING IT and REMEMBER he heard you THE FIRST TIME.
the fact that people still care about this stuff makes me sad 😔 yuck. i agree about trying to change people that just sounds so stressful like just find someone else. seriously the trying to be in a relationship/find a partner phase of life is just a tragic episode lol. I feel bad for people who really be in their feelings. The best words I can offer someone who isnt over that terrible hump is either it works for you or it doesnt. If it doesnt I swear your life will be a million times better when ya let it gooooooo.
Period Denzel! His last video is just information for us females to take note of. Idk why people were so butt hurt. Denzel was just trying to put us on to game.
Getting angry at how people are is dumb. Especially with people who are content with how they are. I was not mad at all during that video, it was educational. And if you listen with a mind to understand and not to rage about how they are lying guys who openly say they are liars, you won't stress.
Agree with Denzel 100% That was exactly how I felt after watching the first video. It was actually very insightful and interesting to watch. When do you get the chance to have a player admit to their play (and how _they've_ been played) on camera? You can't be mad at, judge, or change them for who they are. Just date guys who _aren't_ these dudes and don't set yourself up for failure. They will change if they want to and if not, that's _their_ problem.
i agree with everything you said. the title literally said F-BOYS and ppl are actually shocked over their responses and its like ;-; wtf did you expect LMFAO, they literally exposed themselves as being toxic, so don't expect non-toxic answers. and honestly us girls just need to know how to look out for those signs and walk tf away. you see a guy being toxic? don't get mad, don't waste your energy over him, LEAVE! i feel like a lot of the time we make too many excuses for these boys and that's why we end up getting hurt in the long run. like you said, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, IT'S A DAMN DUCK.
Honestly as women we should accept that calling men that play us names and insulting them honestly doesn't help is in no way. Sometimes as girls we should first think with out minds before our hearts like the guys said "women like challenges ". Sis stop!!!!. If guy dont serve the tea the moveeeeeee you will find a hot ass tea pit filled with hot tea waiting to serve you. Period. Btw guys please subscribe to my channel 🤗🤗
Exactly I don’t see why everyone in the comments are so mad. No one said we had to deal with their bullshit, the whole point of the video is to know the signs that they’re fuckboys and WALK AWAY from the bullshit.
Part 2 please and same I agree with the honesty. I’ll rather them tell me straight up what it is even if it’s not what I wanna hear I appreciate it rather then them trying to manipulate/lie.
i love everything about your accepting attitude and i feel like i can relate to your honesty policy so much!! i have friends (mostly guys) from all walks of life and i cant get mad at any of em because they're just themselves and i wouldn't change them because i know they dont give a care about changing me, and i think thats how it should be
I’m sorry but I don’t agree with the statement “This is how boys are” it goes right into that stupid “boys will be boys” statement. I agree however that you can’t change them, girl or guy. People will do what they want regardless.
I liked that video tbh they were honest and everyone low-key knew thats the answers they were gonna give so it shouldn't have been that surprising lol im down for a part 2
the comments had me ROLLING. the comment section has that ruthless twitter energy
Fr😂
heavy on da twitter energy
SO GOOD
😂😂😂😂
& the fact that ppl in the comments did not give af had me dead
We weren’t mad that they were telling the truth, we were mad that they actually think and do those things. ITS TOXIC BEHAVIOR
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Exactlyyyyyy! Like i do not have people like that as friends for a reason🤢
You dropped this 👑
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YESSSSS
Here's thing: telling the truth doesn't make their actions ok. Saying they are lying and manipulative is not okay just because they admitted it. They are still toxic and that's what we were talking about.
And thats it!
‼️‼️ Cuz I’ve seen people be like “I have a bad attitude and am disrespectful and that’s that”. Okayy cute you admitted it, that doesn’t mean it’s right...
i agree i agree i agree. i think people mess up by going into situations with guys like that expecting a relationship. after they’ve been up front in saying they ain’t abt that and they’re f-boys etc. people just set their expectations really high in the wrong typa people.
You can't change somebody who doesn't want to be changed. Whether it's mindset, behavior etc.. You can't do shit.
@@Yourstrulyamy1 i know straight that you cant. But thats not what I'm talking about
They aren't ready for relationships. Period, end of sentence. They're hurting women and leaving behind trauma . Plus the fact that one of them had a DAUGHTER and still has these Toxic behaviors. They're almost 30 acting like this. And just cause they answered honestly doesn't excuse that they're terrible people who aren't willing to change.
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I agree with everything you said but you shouldn't let ANY MAN mess with your head or give you trauma. You need to take some months and retract but if you let that shit give you some type of PTSD then some wrong with that girl and she needs to realize not everyone is a good person
Krystal Campbell this comment was everything 💕
Krystal Campbell there are so many different traumas, big traumas, micro traumas, emotional, sexual, physical, psychological chronic, complex etc. Some experiences lead to ptsd and some do not. There is smth called PTRS (Post Traumatic Relationship Syndrome) too. Educate yourself.
If they told you what was gunna happen from the beginning why keep yourself in that situation that would then cause trauma ?
“y’all be picking out the same men and expecting different results” I’m glad he said that because some of y’all needed to hear that !!
yeah because every man tells you from jump he's trash ....
FACTS !!!
A Marshall well you can sometimes tell he not a good guy and a lot of girls ignore the signs
This
Don't give excuses to bad habits in relationships. I understand there is trauma & hurt, but when something is wrong it is wrong. Period.
Then leave. Period. It can be hard but you have to rip of the bandaid
@@natalie3022 I am just saying that in general it is good to bring awareness to toxic relationship habits and call it out when it is being done. Much easier said than done, but it is vital to try and do your part even if it is hard.
I had trauma, but I'm not rude or mean to people 🙄
@Mykela Brown thank you for your input, I honestly respect your knowledge. I am not bothered at Denzel for making the video because, if anything, it gave insight on how these boys think and maybe even help people avoid getting into those type of relationships. And I totally agree that if a person does not want change, you can't force it upon them to change. But I think the initial step of calling out the wrong to educate is still important regardless if they receive or reject the advice. After that, it's the receivers place to either change or not (which we hope sooner or later they will). No one can force change, but we can just help.
Exactlyyyy, just because someone broke a manz heart that doesn’t give him permission to hurt others. He must deal with his grief first damn. Same goes for girl’s before i get attacked for not saying that💀
“I’m not judging....BUT IM JUDGING”
@Mykela Brown Wendell Williams Energy
"if a man is willing to change for you, then that's the man. If he's not willing to change for you, then he's just not it. " PERIOD
If you are not built im not going to build you. Im not bob the builder.
That’s on period
Facts
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period!!!
Period
"IF He wanted to, he WOULD HAVE!"
PERIODT!🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Period sis
No matter how much we say “their mindset is toxic”, that’s how they are!! Y’all girls just need to avoid these dudes if that’s not what you want 🤷🏽♀️ i know what I’m looking for, and what I want, if I see that a dude is that type of guy, ima move along. Denzel was spitting facts when he said how some people be picking the same type of dude, y’all be doing it to yourself.
Yes I agree! This made complete sense 👏🏾👏🏾
Yes I agree but it's still good to say they have a toxic mindset and not the type of man any women would want.
Although I agree, because thats pretty much my mindset, even they themselves admit that the lie. So I can imagine some girls being fooled by the lies.
Agree 100%
I agree
I've never heard anything better "come to me built". Come to me correct. I seriously am not here to fix a "man". That is not in my job description honey bunches of oats.
Just because they’re being straight up doesn’t mean it’s okay😂 hell was made for people that can so easily break apart someone’s life and heart and move on like nothing’s wrong.
It may be wrong, but what can you do? If being a f-boy was a crime, maybe then something would happen. Toxicity burns, but if the truth is toxic, there’s not a lot that can be said. I hope they take time to realize that a change is needed, but that’s their journey, not ours.
They were being honest and in consequence got criticized for their deplorable mindset/behavior. They said, "morals?? who tf is that?!?!?!"
Forever Sone off topic but ur really beautiful 💕
I mean it is what it is. You can't change somebody who doesn't want to be changed. Don't waste your time and energy sweetheart. 🗑️🤷🏽♀️
@@Yourstrulyamy1 Not the point here.
@@xxgigixx6001 thank you so much ❤
Like he said ladies and gents stay away from those with “potential “ types!!!! Don’t be me who gave a boy a decade of my life(middle school-junior yr of college). For them to turn around and give another person/people everything I always asked of them . It will hurt y’all like he said.
Felt that
what i’ve learned from this video:
stop acting surprised bc you can’t change ppl 😴
we mad because they had no self reflection about what they were saying / they basically said that playing girls is a thing to be proud of
I can tell that a lot of you guys here are really young. I know you’re annoyed and irritated, even hurt by the things those guys said in the video but listen to me babes: take that free game you just got and handle yourself accordingly!! YES you may feel it’s offensive and wrong, at the same time we know everyone doesn’t have the same morals and values as you! Some people just aren’t decent and that’s LIFE! So arguing and getting angry at them telling THEIR TRUTH is wasted energy.
Be happy and glad that they were open and honest because now you’re armed with the information you need to better navigate the dating world and watch for the red flags. Don’t internalize so deeply what their past girls and flings what you assume have felt or are feeling because that is THEIR learning experience. We all have to go through things, learn lessons and make better choices in the future. We have to accept the fact that some men are just gonna be assholes. They’re looking out for themselves first so take notes and apply that same energy for you! Do NOT martyr yourself for ANY man, love yourself and put yourself first at all times and the bad apples will weed themselves out much easier. 👏🏾👏🏾
YES. MA'AM. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I hope a lot more people read this and internalize it.
Thank you sm for this!
Yes preach
this, this is the learning curve we needed to be pointed out
AMEN AMEN this comment need wayy more likes
I honestly liked the last video because at least they were honest. I’ve ran into a ton of guys like them in college (and have been played by a few). I’ve learned from my mistakes, but I liked the video bc it was a PSA to basically stay away from these type of guys. Men know what they want and often times will play you as long as you decide to stay around
U SHOULD DO REVERSE WITH GIRL!!
He will
@@lol-fk3uz but what signs tho
Queen Baee we need a fire/water sign and a earth/air!!
The signs don’t rlly mean anything
@@lol-fk3uz fr like...
a sign does not represent me as a person everyone is different
There’s a lot of people who look for different things in a guy but for me personally the main 3 things are:
Honesty
A passion for something
Humor
These are in no particular order... also now that I think about I prefer guys that are brave because I love roller coasters and I really wanna go bungee jumping. The guy needs a sense of adventure
Thank you for your time
All I have to say is same
Denzel you should do the female version now!!!!
If he did that so many women in the comments would be encouraging it 😂
We girls are maadd hypocritical
@@francescadeyo7045 You think? I just see it as giving the same energy. If you try to play me, you gonna get played in return. Simple
Ms Girly I think they meant more what the first comment said, that the females in the comments would be all for the behaviour when girls do it.
Yessss
Lol I tried to tell my friend that she couldn’t change her boo but she didn’t wanna listen🤣
I hate seeing her get less than she deserves because she’s a good person but I tried 🤷🏽♀️
Literally dealing with this now lmaooo my friends bf has cheated on her multiple times, he doesn't post her on social media, she has to beg him to say i love you like girl..
K Michelle has a whole song dedicated to it
Amanda Innamorato huh it’s a “but I love him” vibe🤣 Once you know your worth nobody can fool you like that🤷🏽♀️ & if they do just laugh it off! Hopefully your friend gets in a mindset where she realizes her worth & she deserves better :)
I literally just don’t know how people can stay in a relationship like that, my mom has taught me that the minute a guy does something toxic then u should leave and I agree 100% if he hits u then u need to leave or get help immediately, if he cheats on u then dump his ass and block him, I mean I’m 16 and never been in a relationship but I know for the future to run away from guys that are toxic, it makes me so sad that guys and girls lower themselves and get treated like crap and think it’s ok
Just bc they truthful doesn’t mean it’s okay to do😭 I’m not gonna give a gold star just for being honest. U still do what u do.
“This ain’t no Handy Manny” 😭😭PERIODDD
WHAT TIME FRAME
colleen gapuzan 7:30💀💀
i feel like i’m only girl who didn’t have a problem with their answers. i will never worry (that much) about a man who isn’t mine and their actions in a relationship. like denzel said, they were honest. if you didn’t like their answers don’t date men like them 🤷🏾♀️
It’s crazy I always hear stories girls tell about how they were cheated on multiple times and stayed, or just thought it wouldn’t happen again. Like there HAS to be plenty of red flags and your intuition knows best. No tea no shade but cmon girl you saw it coming 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly, some females are way to forgiving and most of the times it’s because they are scared of being lonely but sis if you can’t handle being alone and loving yourself what you gone do with someone else there? Couldn’t be me🙄
These are some facts, people pretending to be innocent and ignorant meanwhile they stay for the wrong reasons in these "toxic" relationships and these men have seen this script many times and they know they have power. These women are acting like they were drugged and therefore stayed in these toxic relationships. It's annoying how some females want to create gender bias binary with respect to men being inherently evil and women inherently good.
Sis FACTS I had a friend who was “in a relationship” with a guy for like 2 years and he NEVER claimed her, even ignored her in public sometimes and then she had the nerve to say “i never saw it coming” when she found out he was cheating 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ ND SHE STAYED lol sometimes we need to hold ourselves accountable for ignoring red flags and accepting shitty behavior. A lot of women don’t learn how to love themselves its really sad :(
Off topic but ur so PRETTY omg
Andile Mkhize y’all know how some people have a list of all the qualities they want in a person? Most of the time it’s just looks and financial stability so when they meet someone who has most of those things they stay with them because they got everything on that list.. that’s how I see it🤷🏽♀️ either that or they are just super lonely and don’t know how to be alone and happy with themselves😑
And Denzel its not we don't want to hear the truth but the way they came about answering it is something we don't like! And thats on insecurities
I understand where you’re coming from but at the same time you did click on a video which included these types of people and you should’ve known that they would answer rudely, as the video was surrounded by their opinions and experiences. if you didn’t happen to like what you heard then maybe you shouldn’t tune into videos such as that one. (Again this is just my opinion and you’re allowed to feel the way you feel, sorry if this was offensive in anyway I really don’t want to cause drama or disrespect you in any way, I hope you can respect what I said and have a good day stay safe!
@@kurookimi it's not really fair to say they shouldn't have watched it just because they had a negative opinion on the people in the video....
@@inaynaycoleman i think they meant that if you saw the title you should have assumed that there was going to be answers you werent going to like. Its not fair to go and drag these guys (Denzel's friends) for answering truthfully. We all have friends that think like this, if we wanna change anything we should start there. Go talk to the people in our lives not be an ass to people in the internet that shed light to these questions. Some of those comments were just like 😯😳
CeCe C I could’ve rephrased it better, I apologize but the comment underneath yours explained what I was trying to say, I’m sorry you were offended! Again have a nice day/night and stay safe :)
Ruth Gonzalez why would someone want toxic people around them ? Also it’s good to call out unexceptionable toxic behavior
is it weird that some of us women like actual mature *men* ?
No it’s not 💯
Nopeeee
They dont exist
if they admit they wrong and change their actions that is a MAN not a lil boy.
Don't bring them back they don't need no more clout.
It’s been *said and done*
They got clout from that video? I thought we all saw the red flags 😅
I feel like the guy in offwhite should've asked himself: Would I want a guy like myself to date my daughter? If his answer is no, then he needs to mature and elevate his mindset. If his answer is yes, then he should do the same thing because that's sad.
Idk why y’all getting mad at Denzel. He simply asked the questions y’all asked him to ask. Y’all got the answers and you were offended. But it’s the truth and y’all need to handle that.
I don’t think people are mad at Denzel. They were more so expressing how they felt about the responses the guys gave. Most of the comments were def on the negative side but I’m not sure why Denzel is surprised by that lol
Lili K doesn’t kind of contradict itself a little . For example, if I asked my friend if this outfit looks bad and they said yes. Why am I going to be upset by the answer when I’m the one that asked
they literally started off the video with “I’m toxic” so I really don’t know what these ppl were expecting 😑
Free the title literally says f boys what did you expect lmao
The comments rightfully roasted them lmfaooo
Just saying, those boys arent even cute enough to be actin like that.
Being attractive doesn’t give you permission to be an asshole anyway, though. Idk why people keep saying this.
Exactly!!! Lmao they are so average.
@@CharlieCabralos cuz they were acting like they all that
CharlieCab nothing gives permission for anyone to be an asshole. What she’s trynna say if you’re gonna be bold enough to make those statement and act like you do and laugh about it? Make US see why some girls actually fall for it. I was watching them like.. I would NEVER give those boys the time of the day. EVER.
I’ve seen uglier that do way worse to females that are 10/10 and still don’t feel a way about it
“Your lying to protect yourself” PERIODTTT ✨✨
"AT THIS POINT, YOU NEED TO COME TO ME BUILD." PERIODTTTTTT I FELT THAT ON AN ATOMIC LEVEL.
I completely understand everyone’s sentiment about avoiding fuck boys. Denzel, I think you should listen to the women in the comments and consider that this is a larger societal issue. Straight men have historically mistreated women and that’s not something we should excuse. Being honest about their misogyny doesn’t mean they deserve respect. Any critique of that last video is about how men are allowed to get away with being assholes to women and how we expect women to just deal with it. Those particular boys weren’t the issue, it was that their mindsets (and the pass they got from Denzel and some of the comments) are the byproducts of our deeply misogynistic society. By excusing their behavior and centering the responsibility on women to weave through men to see who treats them with basic human decency, we are telling men that they can do whatever they want. It’s a similar thing to telling POC to just avoid racist people. Men should be held accountable for their actions and we should expect more from them.The comments in the last video did just that.
who else needs to get into the “if a man REALLY wants you, HE will CHANGE for you” mindset???? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
Don't sis.. instead say "if a man wants to be a better human being and stop running from his feelings, he will change." It's not your responsibility to make a man better. He needs to be the reason he changes.
@@Rossi.K periodt.
Kier L you’re right girl thanks!
@@Rossi.K THANK YOU SO MUCH! Ive been saying this. He needs to change because he wants to. Not because of you. You aint no Jesus.
that's only gonna happen if he see u as his soul mate 😂
whoever doesn’t shout the intro out loud you’re not an OGGG subscriber
THIS IS A FACT
PERIOD!!!
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Image messing with the emotions of someone who really cares for you.
Am I the only person who didn’t give af how they answered cause I’m not dating them 😂😅 edit: thx for the likes 😘
Lmao i thought this too. Many/most men need a lesson in respecting women, so these 2 specific men didn’t really bother me.
I swearrr! People been actin shook for nothing .almost 60% of guys act like this Soo See it as something that show how f-boys behave and not fall for their lies smhh
denzels subcribers must be young cuz...😂 aint nothing they said had anything to do with me that's their livess. I thought we were laughing at them... no???
Same
Same like I thought it was just a chill and fun video- nothing to be mad about😭😂
I NEEDED YOU TO READ ME LIKE THAT!!! Just cut off a guy I was trying to change for too long 😅 and I really wasn’t valuing me or my time. A little reminder he ain’t shit, and it’s not my time yet
I watched that video and didn't think anything of it lmaoooooo...growing up having "pretty boy" brothers and literally having at least two girls crying at our door step talking bout "I just love him so much"......they embarrassed me enough that I know to NEVER mess with a player PERIODT
This is perfect, I just got done watching the “asking f-boys questions”
I just love the fact that you're being real!!
Yes! I’d like a part 2. I like that they were being honest. There certainly were some questionable things but overall I think that it was interesting to watch and hear them actually answer the questions. Although there are things that they said that aren’t acceptable and I wouldn’t tolerate with it, I still appreciate them just being honest.
the part where he said that it was expected of guys to play girls honestly makes me think it's toxic masculinity. The old me would've said that it's pathetic to play people just because you got hurt, but now that I am somewhat able to understand the concept, I know now that when girls play guys they, for the most part, expect them to "be a man" and get over it, But that's not the case guys have real raw feelings too, but this double standard greatly contributes to toxic masculinity. Like yes, that mentality is messed up but you also have to think about how they got it in the first place.
It’s lovely peaches on the track i be burnin An itching🦀
don’t leave me round yo man cause yo dude gon go missing
@@jesussaves5692 Travel all around the world, yes i'm on a mission
Jodie War so much I wanna say I just can’t make it rhyme
Itsisaiahwatson well you better hurry up you running outta time ⏰
Can’t imagine being attracted to toxicity and then complaining to everyone when they break your heart even though everyone said it was going to happen.
I love that you made this video because the comments were a maybe a little to much in my opinion. Cause I appreciated the honesty that they showed, and you can’t force someone to change and if more people were honest, less people would be getting played. Then people can’t just blame the other person because they knew what they were getting into. Then It’s more about making decisions that put your heart at risk, instead of just being plain lied to. I don’t know if that made any sense
I agree with you, Honesty is everything, how can we learn if we're being lied to
And the problem with the comment section was that a lot of people were rejecting the truth
We weren’t rejecting the truth. We responded that way because even if you telling the truth it’s still toxic and bad behavior.
you obviously misunderstood what people were saying. Nobody was rejecting the truth. I’m not sure what you expected the comment section to be like, were we supposed to praise them for being assholes?!?
I DONT KNOW BOUT YALL BUT I NEEED A PART 2
You spoke nothin but FACTS...that video was just shocking because it was kinda a reality check that these men know they’re hurting you and they’re totally fine with it and will do it again. No conscience whatever. You know this is what they do but hearing it come out of their mouth is just like WHO RAISED YOU ?????
It’s about time these men take responsibility for the trauma they inflict on women. Like yeah they were honest but that doesn’t make it okay. Because they will continue to do it to multiple women and the trauma cycle continues
When it happens to them they will know how it feels . Karma is a realll bishhhhh who comes for revenge💯💅
never been this early😭
Same sis
same 😭
Riiight
I’m so proud of myself lmao
Anonymous S bahaha literally
If I could I would exclusively like women unfortunately that's not the case.
Lmaooo
If he’s upfront with you about what he wants AND you know he’s a fboy then that’s on youu y’all shouldn’t have expectations and hurt yourself
if you dont think men like that are TOXICCCC then theres smth wrong with u
This needs to become a segment or something because the guys gave us honesty and you stated nothing but FACTS. Women need to hear the truth and truly observe why they’re attracting certain kinds of men and how they need to shift their mindset.
It already starts and I'm shouting PERIOOOOOOOOOOOOD!
For all the teens I’m 20 now and the number 1 thing I regretted was wasting my time on some lil boy I was in love with plz listen to me y’all not grown y’all not playing husband and wife you or your bf are going to experience with other people at this age regardless so plz spend ur time on YOURSELF and keep them boys to the side ladies, and men don’t change they just GET BETTER AT HIDING IT and REMEMBER he heard you THE FIRST TIME.
Yes girls spend time developing YOU especially in your twenties
I was just watching you and Rickey rn😂
bro I was laughing at those comments lol "how could he cheat?!!" girl.. he's called a f boy FOR A REASON LMAOOO
the fact that people still care about this stuff makes me sad 😔 yuck. i agree about trying to change people that just sounds so stressful like just find someone else. seriously the trying to be in a relationship/find a partner phase of life is just a tragic episode lol. I feel bad for people who really be in their feelings. The best words I can offer someone who isnt over that terrible hump is either it works for you or it doesnt. If it doesnt I swear your life will be a million times better when ya let it gooooooo.
Period Denzel! His last video is just information for us females to take note of. Idk why people were so butt hurt. Denzel was just trying to put us on to game.
Please do another episode with Fboys and bring the female edition to spice things up.
South African viewer🇿🇦
YES!!!!!
Yes he should
Getting angry at how people are is dumb. Especially with people who are content with how they are. I was not mad at all during that video, it was educational. And if you listen with a mind to understand and not to rage about how they are lying guys who openly say they are liars, you won't stress.
I’m not BOB THE BUILDER! I don’t get paid so I don’t have the time!!!!
Denzel talking to us like an older brother to a younger sibling. Got me feeling some type of way. 😔 everybody say thank you Denzel!
I'm not NO farmer baby im not growing,hoeing, or watering no mans' toxicity ! we loving ourselves more than others all 2020 PURRITT
somebody needed to hear this bc this is tough love
Can we take time to acknowledge how Denzel has came such a long way even with his weight and skin.
Agree with Denzel 100% That was exactly how I felt after watching the first video. It was actually very insightful and interesting to watch. When do you get the chance to have a player admit to their play (and how _they've_ been played) on camera? You can't be mad at, judge, or change them for who they are. Just date guys who _aren't_ these dudes and don't set yourself up for failure. They will change if they want to and if not, that's _their_ problem.
Just learn the game girls!! DONT HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME
your the realist!!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 THATS ON PERIODTTT
no hunny, we’re mad bc they actually think that way. Like... are you lost babygworl?
LMFAOO period .
😂😂
😆😆
i agree with everything you said. the title literally said F-BOYS and ppl are actually shocked over their responses and its like ;-; wtf did you expect LMFAO, they literally exposed themselves as being toxic, so don't expect non-toxic answers.
and honestly us girls just need to know how to look out for those signs and walk tf away. you see a guy being toxic? don't get mad, don't waste your energy over him, LEAVE! i feel like a lot of the time we make too many excuses for these boys and that's why we end up getting hurt in the long run. like you said, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, IT'S A DAMN DUCK.
Yesss it may be toxic butttt...Are we making that video into a series😗😂. Obviously different groups each time, it was extremely entertaining
Denzelllll your skinnnnn...your melanin is glowin
How comes Ricky doesn't post anymore?😕
PLEASE, make a part 2. not all men are like that but it's interesting hearing men who are like that and their motive.
That comment section is like black twitterer when someone says all lives matter 😭😭
Denzel I've been around for a long time I am proud of you for how much you've grown on you're channel
You kept tweeting about this😂
Denzel always spits facts periodt
Honestly as women we should accept that calling men that play us names and insulting them honestly doesn't help is in no way. Sometimes as girls we should first think with out minds before our hearts like the guys said "women like challenges ". Sis stop!!!!. If guy dont serve the tea the moveeeeeee you will find a hot ass tea pit filled with hot tea waiting to serve you. Period.
Btw guys please subscribe to my channel 🤗🤗
Thank you 👏👏👏👏
Denzel and I are both capricorns and it SHOWS. Ugh the similarities in thought, beautiful.
Denzel is speaking facts
I love that they are honest. People need to understand honesty dont change just cause you dont like it.
I actually loved them being truthful then when i saw the comments I was like DANG😂 they goinnn offf atleast they being Honest😂
Literally just went and unmatched a guy rn on tinder that I’ve been hoping will change...thanks for the push!
Y’all acting like y’all have to date them... just stay away from men like that simple.
Exactly I don’t see why everyone in the comments are so mad. No one said we had to deal with their bullshit, the whole point of the video is to know the signs that they’re fuckboys and WALK AWAY from the bullshit.
Bryton Seaton the one dude needs to set a better example for his daughter. Show her how a man should treat her.
gold3nstar well his daughter mom is gonna have to get a step dad to show her how a real man acts
madison j that’s sad
I just see it as holding them accountable for the wrong things they do and say
Part 2 please and same I agree with the honesty. I’ll rather them tell me straight up what it is even if it’s not what I wanna hear I appreciate it rather then them trying to manipulate/lie.
But if a guy is like that , why take him serious ? I just feel like it’s SO avoidable honestly .
I ain't got no time to change no man, POINT, BLANK, PERIOD!!!
Dang i must be early because their isnt any dislikes 😮😮
Itsyourfellow Chipmunk ur not taking in the truth in the whole video all he said u can’t change a man listen to what he said and that’s it.
@@hellohi3878 I did and i said what i said im allowed to have an opinion sis :)
i love everything about your accepting attitude and i feel like i can relate to your honesty policy so much!! i have friends (mostly guys) from all walks of life and i cant get mad at any of em because they're just themselves and i wouldn't change them because i know they dont give a care about changing me, and i think thats how it should be
I’m sorry but I don’t agree with the statement “This is how boys are” it goes right into that stupid “boys will be boys” statement. I agree however that you can’t change them, girl or guy. People will do what they want regardless.
I liked that video tbh they were honest and everyone low-key knew thats the answers they were gonna give so it shouldn't have been that surprising lol im down for a part 2