Self Harm | Sam Chaplin
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
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i self harmed from age 13 to age 18, and i'm almost 13 months clean now, definitely one of the best decisions i've ever made (to quit and recover, i mean)
Kae Hume that's lovely, keep on being strong
I'm 12 and I watched this because I self harm. I honestly can say it's amazing to me that you stopped after only doing this twice. I have lots of scars and I'm stopping in my experience the only way to make someone stop is someone they really love to show them how much it hurts and do it themselves.
Sam, you're literally the cutest person in the world!!! I'm so happy that you went through this video, its really helping me cope with my problems xx thankyou ❤
It's a pleasure! Thanks for taking the time to watch it!
I'm so glad I discovered your videos, this is so helpful, thank you so much for making this. Whenever I feel down or like cutting I will just watch this video from now on, because it really warms my heart. You're so brave, too, for quitting, I know I don't know you but I'm proud of you :D *virtual hug*
4 months clean ☀
im proud of you :) xx
I'm not sure whether I agree that self harm is becoming more common, it very well might be the case that more people are coming forward about it. :) But yeah, I got here from your comment on my video. Well done for speaking out about self harm.
thanks for the comment, Laura! I'm a big fan of what you do :')
aren't you nice!
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it's cool, I'm a bit confused but its cool
Self harm is a terrible thing you lose yourself to it and you begin to forget who you were before it I've done it but I haven't for almost 3 months I too have depression and it sucks you don't want to do anything you don't want to talk to anybody and it starts to take over your life but it got help I got a therapist and i got medication and nd I jad friends to help me along the way basically what I'm trying to say is don't let it consume you speak out get help and if you can't do that distract yourself like drawing writing photography like sam start a hobby don't let it take over and never forget your an amazing person!
Your right, it's addictive but hard to quit, this video makes me feel better :)
Someone posted this in a Stay Strong group but I'm honestly so happy that she did. Thank you for posting this video.
I've been taking ages to reply comments, sorry! Thank you! x
You have a way with words. I've had friends who are depressed, and suicidal. I have a bulimic friend, too but I try to help them the best I can and I think it's really cool that you made this video! :)
I've always had thoughts about self harming because people nowadays are just very vicious,they literally spit venomous words at me and judge me for every small little things as if I have no dignity,yet I just have no idea what to do...
This video made me cry Sam :') it's really helpful and as a person who self harms it makes me feel like people do care and that's a great feeling when I have to deal with all those problems that cause the harming. Really proud of you for bringing this all out on UA-cam because I had problems telling my family. Thank you and well done Sam
This video means so much to me. I'm glad I have you in my life. I can talk to you about anything, especially things like this. You're pulling me out of a dark hole and I am so grateful for that. Speaking about things like this makes us stronger baby, and I can't thank you enough for being there for me every step of the way. I love you so much. As long as you're in my life, I'll keep smiling and I'll keep getting stronger. You mean so much to me. Keep smiling baby, I know you can do it
I love how you shared a little of how you felt when started and shared a little of your story. Also how you tied some advice in. You sound like a amazing person.
It's really my pleasure, this video was made to help people :') x
I love you so much for talking about this issue, it's really helpful
If you'd like to speak to me about anything in confidence, find me on Facebook :)
# this means a lot , i have suffered from self harm for about 4 months feeling like i have noone to talk to this video has given me a little bit of hope for the future thank you x:")
so im new to your channel and this is the first video i watched...and im so glad i did. thank you for this video, it really helped and im definitely loving your channel right now
Helps understand people and it was amazing i was almost crying.
I hope you enjoyed it!
I find this absolutely incredible every time I watch it.
Sam, You're just amazing ! that was so helpful and you're good at speaking about this, and im so proud that you've gone through this x
This is so helpful, it's like a guide,. refreshing because often it's just a 'don't self harm'...there is rarely a 'how to help yourself after', and this is perfect for that.
I always say that the whole 'no offence thing' (which I've heard someone say after they told me to go for a freakin run) counts for nothing because if someone takes offence, that comment is offensive. Also sorry for spamming your video's today, you're interesting to watch :)
I agree! x
Thank you so much for making this, it's horrible to hear you've been through this but it's really helped me! Thank you X
Thank you so much! you make my days perfect
(continued) time and I looked to UA-cam for advice. I found this video and it's one of the ones that made me stop. Just thanks for making this... Because it saved me and probably so many more people
This is such a helpful video thanks so much Sam.
I adore you so much. These words are so true, and I'm happy to see a real person say them. Lovely video, Sam
Thank you Soo much this brought tears to my eyes you finally explained what us who self harm cannot thank you Soo much :,)
Best self harm video I've ever seen
I'm glad you think so!
I totally understand and get you! I made this video with the intention of getting my honest views heard, and I know that my story might not have been as serious as others etc. Thanks for the feedback :)
I have been self harm free for 3moths . I do agree that its addictive and here's why I did it, I felt that if I cried it was me being weak. So I cut myself to have a reason to cry. The pain is slightly addictive. My parents didn't know I used to hide it by wearing bracelets. Right now,like I said been cut free for 3monthsthanks to art but almost od 3weeks ago..... Depression is hard to deal with.....
it may be a brave thing to stop but its also really hard to stop, it becomes a persons addiction and yeah we need to talk to people but its not that easy to just come out with it trust me i know :( but i think many of us appreciate what your doing and how your trying to help us stop etc.
Thank you! ^.^ u literally helped me get over self harm with this video
You cant think about what makes you happy if people tell you your ugly all day and say your name is spelled weird and i got carried away anyways this video was great!
Very good video, it really helped me understand my some people self harm and I think it will help many others also to understand and also relate to people that do self harm and help them with what there going though.
Please don't hurt yourself! Trust me, there's people who will help you, if you look in the right places. If you have Facebook or Twitter feel free to speak to me! Trust me please, fighting pain with pain might seem wise, it might make you feel good but it's not the answer! I'm here for you, remember that.
Self harm Is pretty tough
If you've only done it twice it's hard to stop but it's way easier to stop then when you've done it 50 times
this put tears in my eyes:'( ive cut before for reasons i dont want to say either,but youve made me really think and im happt to say i dont think irl do it again,thanks so much
This s beautiful and so inspiring. Well done, you will help a lot of people with this video. It's making me feel better about the break up i am currently go through. Really well done! x
My pleasure! Stay strong!
This made my day. Thank you :)
That's a horrible thing to say, nobody deserves to self harm.
My pleasure!
You're very welcome! And thank you!x
Thank you Laura Lejeune for commenting on this video. It's how I found the channel. The video is so good sam. Thank you:)
I'm actually crying cause I have been though this I do it and it's scary :'(
Thank you for making this video its really helped situations x
Yeah I've done is before not sure if I still am but I don't want to. This made my day SAM love you so much :*
It's my pleasure, stay strong
Thank you.
So much.
I've fought myself for a few years, but I never seem to win. I don't know what to do anymore, it is as you say, really addictive. :/
This was anyway an amazing video, you are a great person, with great opinions
I'm so proud of it, won't lie!
Crying..
It's my pleasure!
Sure! No worries!
your so nice, helping people with your videos
your such an inspiration, this video is amazing!:)
Thank you for the kind words! :')x
thts really cool , bro thnk youuuuuuuuu a lot it helps me
Thank you very much!
i have recently been thinking about self harming my self, im so scared, and confused, and i just... need to..does that make sense?
Thank you so much! Stay strong
Omg you seem really understandable ;O. Respect for u ;] I hope that self-harmers will think different after they see this video. GoodJob for making this video. Almost cried after your story, you're really strong ;}
It's so powerful
Thank you so much!
Thank you! x
Sam.. I only just watched this video.. You sent me the link and I put it in my bio on Ask.Fm, but I did delete my ask due to hate, which I won't go into. I just want to say that I'm sending this link around. This helped me so much. I threw my blades away but I've wanted them back ever since, but you've given me hope.♥
Ah!!! Thank you!! Stay strong!
Hey, you messaged this video to my page, Self Harm Your Never Alone, and omg this is amazing! I love it
Awesome, I'm so glad!
Wow, thank you! Be strong and stay happy
Thank you so much!
actually crying omg
Thank you so much Sam! I'm here if you need me man!
Thanks it helps x
I'm 13 I cut and I love it and hate it are the same time I can't stop
this is life changing
This means alot , i have suffer
Thanks Sam!
Thanks, Tommy!
Thank you
You're amazing, literally x
Please keep smiling and keep strong, I'm here if you need me :')x
Wow, thank you so much!
2.5 months clean
Absolutely incredible video :)
Thank you so much Brad!
Omg 😭😍 also 1 month clean 😊😊
Aaaw you're so lovely.
amazing
I'm so pleased that I've helped! Promise me you'll stay strong?
Self harm? Saying Lily Allen is a national treasure (on Twitte)r is likely to harm your career, I would think
Hey i love that so much and yea hard for that and the end i love that say beautiful and stuff doing this for change for god and jesus and it is not matter for you are different and yea that's is very good
This made me :) made my day!
aw thanks man
It's fine man, you're amazing.. I aspire to be like you oneday
You are very welcome. I would love to talk to you more sometime. I have a fb page called Stay Strong. Keep Fighting. If you ever want to talk.
you,are really good...
honestly..wow it actually helped.. :) aw