Mica Miller ‘brainwashed’ by her husband: Sister’s attorney | Banfield
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- Опубліковано 8 тра 2024
- Sierra Francis says her sister, Mica Miller, told her she’d been “groomed” by her estranged pastor husband, John-Paul Miller. But Francis says it started when Mica was around 14, not age 10 a one police report quotes Mica. Regardless, attorney Regina Ward says John-Paul Miller’s harassment and threats took their toll. “She was brainwashed by this man,” Ward tells NewsNation’s “Banfield.” “He abused her in every possible way that there is.”
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What man preaches a sermon then announces his wife's death.
During the sermon he was joking and laughing, and nobody knew what he was going to say at the end.
did you hear the one when he asked God for a hot wife. After Mica left him.
@@sallya.6944he's a wolf !
That is a spiritually dead, false church. There wasnt an ounce of discernment all these years ?? The guy never had any of the biblical mandates to be a pastor to start with ! I hope the members leave asap and find a true church !
A demon does
So comical of him to suggest Mica was the one who was ‘’mentally ill’’ when he’s off the charts insane.
He tried to make her mentally ill so she could ot get his money & assets.
I think you’re somewhat mistaken. He’s much more likely to have a narcissistic personality disorder like *socio/psychopathy.* Those people are wired wrong and have no empathy. Evil & controlling.
@@leannemo7382
NPD is a form of insanity.
@@leannemo7382yes and amen! This is classic narcissism…
That's one thing malignant narcissists do. They make everyone think THEY are the martyr putting up with their victim because they are such good people.
She was a desperate, beautiful victim of narcissistic abuse and obsessive jealousy.
Guilty already. Sure hope your not a juror on ANY CASE.
@@ronbo30you think innocent people go harass a grieving family over journals? Why would we want those? They were divorcing. Unless there is something in those journals he doesn't want exposed. But yeah innocent people do that. Please.
@@ronbo30and he may not be responsible legally. As of right now, does seem like a S-cide but morally, he is responsible.
@@M-Marie89 so you say. But your opinion and mine are irrelevant.
@@ronbo30If your & others comments are irrelevant why bother😮
The fact he is continuing to harass her family too and trying to get those journals. Creepy
he doesn't want any evidence of his cruelty
@@sallya.6944 100%!!!
I did not hear that ! How is he harassing them ? I hope they get good lawyers and investigaters fast ! They need security too or he may hire another hit man !
Not sure if he would have a legal right to them. If I were them I would be photo copying everything
They are not his journals...Especially if they contain information to a crime.
Mica started exposing him & the “church”. The father, & JP could not allow it.
Investigate them & the “church”.
I’ve been there. In my opinion, it was Mica speaking out so soon - speaking publicly at all - that sealed her fate. Narcissists cannot have that. They must remove that threat to everything they are, to their fake facade. Mica was threatening not only JP, the husband, but his church - his livelihood, his ‘holy’ public persona. Any man or woman who is a victim of such ab*se must remove themselves safely. Collect as much hard evidence as you can quietly, then get far far away, with good people surrounding you…and keep quiet. For a long time. Go to law enforcement or an attorney with your case but do not speak out on social media or to anyone but your trusted circle. Ensure you get the justice you deserve if that is what you’re seeking but protect your safety before all else.
Agree 100%
There is a slew of online detectives bringing all their shady dealings to light in the form of youtube content. Some of it is making national news. The father is wanted in Pakistan, was arrested in Mrytle Beach park for inappropriate behavior with a minor, AND was charged for the mistreatment of college students at his bible college. There is NO way the son isn't exactly like his father. It's only a matter of time now before both of them end up under the jail.
My thoughts exactly!
Yes! They're wolves in sheep's clothes hiding behind religion.
Investigate the local police and why they didn't protect her more. Investigate JP. Investigate the church. Investigate the funds he took from the church for his personal use. Investigate the elders. Why did they allow JP to disparage Mica to the congregation repeatedly.
Exactly especially with those elders because I think any kind of elders who’s gonna allow a Pastor to lead a flock and do what he did, and how he did it they should definitely be unders scrutiny as well. I think JP is a snake and a wolf in sheep‘s clothing. JP has a nerve to tell her how to live her life when he’s not even living his life, right!! What a piece of work…. His new girlfriend better get a grip before she’s in that same position before long.
Those local church goer police personnels are probably "brainwashed" by a narcissistic and "respectable" pastor in their community. Just saying...
The Church members should have helped her.And got rid of him.If see something say something.They seen the abuse and his behavior that is not the way a pastor conducts himself.She was asking for help in a around about way without asking .People seen the signs. Sorry she felt this was the only way out.
Facts there’s a huge cover up
His behavior is not godly and worthy of a leader. He is not qualified to be a pastor. Shame on many pastors who have a double life and think that they don't have to truly repent. May he have a humble and repentant heart.
JP is unfit to be a pastor in any congregation…
JP is unfit to be anywhere outside a prison cell.
isn't that Solid Rock place closed down now?
He was a wolf in wolves clothing. Too bad the leadership didnt have discernment and follow the biblical mandate for an elder or pastor. The sherp got sheared and the wife got murdered after years of abuse !
amen and every one should call that church or send them letters about this and the way he told the church about her death just sicking period i would left the church and rebuked him
When you bring Jesse Duplantis in to tell the congregation to hand over their money...
Mica’s story is too similar to mine to be coincidental. I, too, was married to a “religious narcissist” for decades. The same means to control, gaslight, manipulate and terrify were used, all while appearing ‘righteous’ to the community - computer files deleted, my car and financial assets taken away, people threatened and gaslit when they tried to get near me to help. I could go on and on. Law Enforcement MUST investigate.
I hope things are better for you now.
I hope that you are safe now, and hopefully they investigated your narcissist ex-husband!
They need to hire private investigaters !
Narcissism isn't a real thing
@@supriseimblackhave you lived with it? I have!!! Look it up! Get out basement
He should be prosecuted for child abuse sexual assault
He's so powerful and so wealthy and so evil that I'm sure he has the entire police department and Prosecutors Office in his pocket...!!!
Sadly, the one witness that could have testified to that is no longer with us. But take heart. He will stand in God’s court someday.
@@Mountainhippiedude he definitely will. And can you imagine how that conversation will go? He may have brainwashed many people in his lifetime on earth but when he stands before God, he won’t stand a chance.
The fact that this man tried entering her apartment after the fact , and after a protective order was in place . Unbelievable
I had a friend that had a protective order against her ex husband. He broke into her garage and when her sister came in he thought it was my friend and killed her. My friend then came home he also killed her then drove to his hometown in Alabama and shot himself in the head
@@mommalou64 oh my gosh ! How horrible . That’s so sad
I dont see that she filed a Protective Order on the county website...where is your source for this?
@@restoretransform4813 she had a protective order I’m pretty sure. They weren’t divorced but she actually said to a friend he’s gonna make it look like I killed myself w bullet in head and say I had mental illness
I think it was an amazing that Mica made all these journals and kept all this paperwork that her sisters attorney spoke of and just might be to the fall of this man, and he is arrested and held accountable for these things he did to her.
He’s evil!
Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse if not worse ! Because the bruises will eventually fade away but the hurtful spoken words are there forever they never go away . !
Broken bodies don't always heal. Stop pushing that BS narrative.
@@SamStone1964why are you defending mental abuse?
I think verbal abuse is worse
@@cherylrusso7708 yes ma’am it’s most certainly the worst ! I can still hear the horrible things that he said to me and it’s been years since I got away from him . The words cut like a knife and you never forget them .
He's a psychopath.
IRS needs to Audit this church - it just takes a phone call
Churches are considered 501c non-profits - meaning - they don't pay taxes and the IRS cannot get involved. What can be done is for the community to request an investigation by the State AG for money laundering and fraud, and request the tax exempt status be removed.
Not just them... The FBI as well...
He couldnt allow a divorce and freedom because then she would tell what he was really like. It's all about control.
As a devout Christian myself, I am always extremely cautious of who I congregate with. There are too many wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church today. Which is why I choose to keep my circle small.
This is also why I’m reluctant on dating. I’ll be alright.
I agree !!! I was a very naive/trusting person...not anymore...
Exactly.
Same
He reminds me of Chris Watts. Same bodylanguage. Standing in front of people announcing the death of his wife holding his hand in his pocket???😮
Yes, and Brian Laundrie. When you’ve known that narcissistic/psychopathic type who lacks remorse but can be cordial or charismatic to the world, you instantly recognize it. There are different levels, but they all use gaslighting, manipulation and intimidation to brainwash you and drive you insane. All while the rest of the world generally sees them as stable and you as unhinged.
They equally manipulate others to see them as amazing and their victim as troubled, not explaining the chronic trauma they caused to bring that out of the victim. In this way, they gain supporters and validators, while the abused person becomes more isolated, more mentally ill (because their good nature has been used against them to believe they are the problem) more dependent and can even become su i ci dal, (YT censorship) as they are brainwashed into believing they are beyond flawed, at their core.
Even if a part of the victim somewhere knows it is wrong to be treated as such, they have this constant battle of believing what they were conditioned to believe, and the reality telling them this is abuse.
This is likely why Mica was appearing strong and ready to move on, but easily drawn back in by fear and by the YEARS of conditioning that started when she was a vulnerable youth. He wouldn’t just let her go, even though he had a side piece. I mean, he has had her COMMITTED to a mental hospital! He probably threatened to frequently, along with other threats, to keep her from moving on. The fact that she felt no other congregation would want to take her in should show the level she was broken down to, by mental, spiritual and emotional abuse. Look into cults and the manipulation used to get intelligent people to believe the bizarre. This is a similar psychological ravaging and overhaul.
This is reminiscent of Gabby Petito taking the brunt of the fault in that police bodycam footage, after she was likely pushed and pushed. Meanwhile, Brian looks cool as a cucumber and pleasant and cooperative. Having suffered similarly for years, I could see it for what it was.
Not every psycho uses their own hands to eliminate or hires out hits. Some break a person down, so that poor soul will take themselves out. Sometimes this is the goal. While other times this slow push can be unintentional consciously, as the perpetrator convinces themselves (not just others, which is partly why they are so believable) of this skewed reality, and that every (abusive) word and (abusive) action on their part is justified.
These people, even if they don’t eliminate or cause one to eliminate themselves, is a danger. They crush a person and that person’s potential. They use up their life-force, like a parasite, or energy vampire.
They need the FBI investigation
local authorities did nothing. they need to be investigated also
He's so powerful and so wealthy and so evil that I'm sure he has the entire police department and Prosecutors Office in his pocket...!!!
How in the world he was a pastor is beyond me. I guess he schmoozed so many people those who were attending.
Anybody can become a pastor.
Makes you wonder why people still attended. Makes one wonder about them
makes me wonder if this is a cult...
Some Christians are very naive sadly… so they don’t know any better.
amen
The Attorney is amazing!! Hard to find a good attorney like this.
So that’s what he was looking for when he went he broke in and stole her stuff. PLEASE MAKE COPIES AND KEEP IT ALL SECURE. JP WILL COME LOOKING FOR THEM.
he had her locked up for 3 days at the mental hospital, so he could get his hands on her purse, her phone, her car, her computer etc. He's evil
He wants to cover up evidence ! Especially her journals !
He is probably more dangerous now then before. Stay safe ladies.
He wasn't allowed to get into her apartment!!! But this stuff is exactly what he was looking for... So happy this attorney has it all!!
He didn't break in!
There also needs to be a forensics investigation into the flow of money in all aspects in his church and his own life.
Also The Judges failed her by denied her a divorce.
I remember I heard the divorce was "Dismissed" and I thought, is that even possible?? How can a judge just deny a divorce? I really don't get it.
sc has the same divorce rules as nc does, in that, you have to be legally separated a year and a day before you can even file for divorce. the judge denied the divorce because that requirement wasn't fulfilled.
Insane. I wonder if pastor had ties to the judge?
Judge should be held accountable.
Someone has to start taking abuse MORE seriously
@@arkangelmerici1170 I am very familiar with these players. Regina Ward was my attorney. There's a difference between filing for "Divorce" and "Separate Support & Maintenance." According to the public docket, Mica's first attorney, Amber Ward, filed for Divorce on October 9, 2023 with Mica as the Plaintiff. Reports online say Mica was admitted "involuntarily" to Waccamaw Behavioral Health in Conway, SC around February 8, 2024. The "Divorce" action was dismissed through the filing of a "Consent Order" in Horry County Family Court on February 13, 2024, meaning both Mica's attorney and Defendant JP Miller's attorney had to agree to the dismissal. Since Mica considered the February 2024 stay at Waccamaw "involuntary," it seems she was persuaded/pressured to go, but ultimately went voluntarily. If her stay had been truly "involuntary" there would have been a hearing or some kind of Court Order and that would've been in SC Probate Court, not SC Family Court. Plus, an involuntary commitment should have prevented Mica from purchasing a gun only weeks later. Case #2 was filed in Horry County Family Court for "Separate Support & Maintenance" on February 23, 2024 with J. P. Miller as the Plaintiff. J.P. Miller appears to have been represented by attorney Brana Williams, another well-known (ominous) name in these parts. This action may be improperly coded as it's unclear what support or relief J.P. Miller might've sought since he reportedly controlled all assets and there were no custody issues. Case #2 ended when a "Stipulation of Dismissal Without Prejudice" which was filed March 12, 2024. Again, both parties had to agree to the dismissal to forego a hearing. Case #3 was filed by attorney Regina Ward with Mica as the Plaintiff on April 16, 2024. According to the public portal, this filing was for "Separate Support & Maintenance," NOT "Divorce." A Hearing Notice was filed April 23, 2024 with a date set for June 5, 2024. Notably, the time limitation to schedule a Temporary Hearing in SC Family Court is 4 weeks. Notably, though Regina Ward states her grave concerns for Mica Miller in this video, Ward did NOT manage to file for a Protective Order, Emergency Relief, or any number of things she might have done to protect her client. She DID manage to have hundreds of custom t-shirts and banners printed and distributed only days after Mica's reported passing. Ward also managed to include plugs for her law firm on the front of the t-shirts which were prominently displayed in photos online. According to online reports, J.P. Miller was served papers 2 days before Mica's death April 27, 2024. Based on my personal experience, Ward could have served a needlessly inflammatory Complaint and Motion her client never read on a narcissistic spouse with a hair-trigger temper. If I were Ward's only victim, I'd consider whether she might've represented Mica's best interest. Unfortunately, there are many of us (including our children) who have been tortured, victimized, utterly annihilated by Regina Ward et al. There is no good reason Mica's sister should be locked in litigation with J.P. Miller in Family Court. I'm not an attorney, but I can read. I can't find any precedent for this litigation continuing under Domestic Relations. The only parties who benefit here are the attorneys and J.P. Miller. Ward has now added Solid Rock Church as a Third-Party Defendant, which reportedly means the church will have its own attorney. More filings. More legal fees. More Discovery. In this video, Ward is also recommending a separate civil litigation (she did the same with me). This spreads the wealth to more attorneys on both sides and creates more opportunities to exhaust and confuse Ms. Francis in another legal forum while bleeding SR Church through legal fees and whatever other real estate Ward might manage to attach. J.P. Miller wins because he clearly knows the routine. As long as the money flows to the attorneys, the attorneys will make sure he controls all funds. Ward can also collect and manage any paperwork that might prove problematic in the future. Again, if this had only happened to my family, I wouldn't be so bold in my statements, but it has happened to countless families. It will continue to happen without intervention. These are all well-established protocols in Horry County and South Carolina Family Courts statewide. If you're reading this Regina Ward, there's no need to play the victim (I recall your "How dare you!?" reaction to the complaint now scrubbed from the BBB site in which "Cynthia" described you working with the opposing attorney and throwing her, your own client, under the bus). Perhaps you will consider getting out of the way this time and letting law enforcement attempt to hold criminals accountable? Perhaps you will allow Mica's family to seek true justice and leave them to grieve in peace? A girl can dream.
Why would anyone continue to go to this church.
It's a cult. They're brainwashed.
I know! seriously!
It's a cult
She is so beautiful inside and out. Clearly severe abuse.
He may not of pulled the trigger but his torment drove her to this. I wouldn't be surprised if he does end up murdering someone one day. Total Sociopath.
I believe he hired a hit man. She was being followed.
Nothing runs faster than a woman from accountability....
@@Chad_Maxnothing screams louder than an abuser defending an abuser.
@@DebraGill Good one! The misogynists are all over this case.
@@DebraGillAmen!!!!
He went to her apartment wanted in they told him no.
Get security !
that so wrong thank God they did not let him take anything this man is EVIL
Hallelujah!
He drove her to do it !!!!!!!
There also could have been an elaborate plan involving AI voice simulation, a trigger person and the witness fisherman that heard the event.
@@keithmandeville4953 The police would have to look into it but the police is done with this case .
@@judylaaper4849 he very well could have the cops in his pocket
@@keithmandeville4953she called it in to 911 herself said she was gonna do it!😊
@@keithmandeville4953and thr footage of her buying the weapon at the pawnshop?
He needs to be held accountable exactly as that young girl who sat on the phone with her “friend” and convinced him to unalive himself. NPD is a diabolical, psychological weapon that needs to start getting recognized as (severely) punishable by law.
I thought of that case too. I think it could be considered voluntary manslaughter.
Good point. That case is similar, he should be held accountable for what he did
He met her when she was 15. He was her church youth leader.
He met her when she was 10 years old
@@racheldefaut2285the video was 4 and half minutes long and her sister said at the end that mica probably meant 2010, she said mica never said age 10. She said 14 or 15.
@@racheldefaut2285 no they met 2010, when she was 14
@@racheldefaut2285you weren't paying attention!!!!!
If I hat young why didn’t the family get her out of that.
My childs father has done the same to me. He kidnapped my daughter last year. I've been fighting as hard as I can for her. He paid off the judge. I'm trying another route. He wants me dead as well. There is no help. None. If they have money and you dont, you're effed. Completely. Shelters, police, no. No help. You leave, you are on your own especially if you are like me and have no family. They can do whatever they want to you and nothing will happen to them. I have every single piece of evidence. So much proof. They wont even look at it. Its devastating. I will be this woman next. I'm married but he still doesn't stop. Laws need to be changed. It's so bad. I understand this woman and I feel for her. I dont have my child. They took my baby. I've never been in trouble and my ex was under investigation by homeland security for having naked pictures of my then 7 year old daughter on his phone and the phone he got her. But the judge let him have her after breaking every part if our parenting plan claiming I'm on drugs and abuse my child with zero evidence. I even drug tested negative of course. Didnt matter. I cant afford another lawyer. They dont allow u to represent yourself. I'm owed twelve grand in child support as well
We need laws on coercive control but the family courts & lawyers are in on the BS.
Legal aid won't help?
Are you allowed any contact with your daughter? Do you know where they live? Does he know where you live? It's my understanding that a person can represent themselves.
I’m hosting a workshop for women trying to Outsmart the Narcissist and Reclaim their life. I want to help bring community and resources around women like you. Lmk if you’d like an invite. 🌸 I’m so sorry to hear you’re also going through horrific failures in our systems.
These narc men with money will target someone without it so they can control and have the upper hand. I can't believe he had nude pictures of your child on his phone and nothing happened to him. I hope you cab find free legal council from someone who cares about this awful abuse. I'm so sorry you are going through a nightmare. It changes us forever.
Does his new girlfriend think it’s going to be any different with her ??? Uhmmmm, that’s a hard no.
Look at the Drew Peterson case. He was married three times and the last TWO wives were MURDERED! The abuser gets worse and worse as time passes.
including his UNBORN child !!! he is a monster !!!
Ikr how cld u be with someone like that which mica lost him same way she got him cause they was both married before they got married cheating and there partners then his gf bf found in water to dead . This shit just sick from the beginning
His wife needs speaks out
@@sarahwilkins5401 , that’s not a coincidence I’m betting on that !!
The word “Suicide” isn’t the most accurate to use when you add the context of someone trying to escape Psychological torture and the Threatening worse things
He was tracking her. This was a hit man job.
@@wqv5423ln
He's so powerful and so wealthy and so evil that I'm sure he has the entire police department and Prosecutors Office in his pocket...!!!
I agree! She bought that gun for safety!
Narcissistic abuse is very real. I know someone who went through it and it almost ended his life. He got out just in time.
He’s already lawyered up
He must be investigated,something is wrong with this guy
Her soul was crushed. I wish the police could have did more for her after everything she tried to help herself to be safe. I feel Mica was let down. So, many women go thru this...then it's too late. I pray for her family/friends. RIP Mica.❤
She knew her "sacrifice" would expose her husband and the church. There are many churches that are just as corrupt, if not moreso... I believe Mica was incredibly brave for making the ultimate sacrifice to bring the truth out... ❤️🔥✨
Yes, seems it's to late b4 these abused women get any help. Then they're gone. My daughter has been controlled for 2 decades. Churches aren't any help because they are uneducated. Pretty sad. Dr David E Ckarke, PhD, is a wizard on this topic . He knows and has 35 yrs experience...
@@carolwells9409 it's a shame. My prayers go out to you and your daughter. ❤️🙏
@anngy9267 thank you so much. Her mind isn't hers, as it's been controlled for decades so she fails in trying to have a conversation. Prayers are powerful. God Bless you
@carolwells9409 thank you. I'm single and i feel the happiest now in my life. I've learned alot as I look back. And, I realize you have to love yourself first before anything else. It's what makes you whole. I wish you all the best and hopefully your daughter will understand one day. God Bless. ❤️🙏
Those documents need to be protected and copied into a disc or something and maybe placed in a lock box or two in different banks! He will most likely go to extremes to get them and or destroy them!!🚨
Thank the LORD above they have her journals!!!!! That fool thought he’d go and retrieve her “things” from her apt after being separated for over a year BUT wanted to find evidence! What a coward!
I am so happy to see this made national headlines. We have family that lives in MB and told me about this murder a day or so after it was announced and I have been following it closely since. It is scary in the beginning to wonder if anyone is paying attention to the story-thank God it has made the news and we will get a resolution in the end.
She was way too pretty for him!!
If Mica wrote as prolifically as you say, then why wouldn’t she have left a lengthy account of her marriage and abuse by JPM AND the reason she was choosing suicide along with goodbyes to her family??
Plus, it seems she was getting her affairs in order to start over with plans for her future. Apartment, filing, restraining orders etc. It seems she was planning a life wo him??? Not a death.
Was the gun purchase for protection??
He couldn't stand loosing her don't trust himkeepserching for the truth...
This abuse will cause you to feel crazy and PTSD is a mental illness. He caused this and he needs to pay. How did a congregation allow this to happen? This is not a church.
why the hell is he so desperate for those journals?
I pray she gets justice. People like him never stop searching for their next victim. He groomed her and used religion to justify his abusive behavior. I grew up in a very conservative fundamentalist Christian family/home. Once I escaped, I never looked back.
I applaud you for having the willpower to get out of that situation. There are too many evil people who hide behind their religion to get away with their nefarious deeds.
@@AlexaLake7 thank you ♥️
@@Karina42327 You're welcome.
Juussesstttticcccceeeeeeeee
He's already on to his next girlfriend ( victim )...!!! Who's husband died mysteriously...
Can you imagine your spouse dying and you still turning up to work? Thats how suspicious this looks. He announced her death as if he was announcing that his sports team lost. No emotion or care at all
Your theory does not match with what her close friends said. They said she had filed for divorce and was looking forward to starting a new life.
He tracked her and hired a hit man to kill her. She was supposed to get half of his money & assets ; plus he already had a mistress ! He had plenty of motives to rid of her !
I believe someone held a gun to her head and forced her to make that phone call ! When the operater started to adk her questions the phone went dead. Why wad she in the water ? Why was the gun in the water ? Theres far to many unanswered questions ! I hope they hire several private investigators/ detectives and bring this scoundral to justice !
And now the license plates don’t match up!
Yes, people like him will do these things before they'll lose half their assets.
Why would she speak to 911 if a gun was held to her head when apparently she was going to die anyway? Think it over.🤔
@@Coffeelover4evr I did think it over. Someone had a gun to her head and she wasn't allowed to answer questions from 911. Thats why the phone went click after the first question. The person shut off her phone & then shot her making it look like a suicide.
@wqv5423ln Actually, I thought about it. He could have made her call 911, and she'd comply so her family could indeed find her body and not wonder what happened to her. For him, it looks like she did it. Which is far more dark and sinister. But I'm confused about the gun and why she Googled that park.
NPD abuse is so hard to overcome. The only way is to go dark. I know this because I’ve been there.
what do you mean by ‘go dark’? I have been trying to overcome effects of narcissistic abuse for several years and am curious
The whole situation is sad and disturbing
This describes your classic, manipulative narcissist, enabled by the church. Watch as he inevitably resorts to legal tactics and threats against anyone trying to expose him. Our thoughts are with the family, hoping they find the strength needed for some semblance of justice. While true justice may be elusive, their efforts to educate and alert the public are crucial. It's time for the church to take decisive action. He must be removed.
Religious abuse is the worst 💔
Indeed.
There is alot of layers to this. I feel he had brainwashed her totally to the point that she didn't know if she was coming or going.
He used his power to control her. He should be in jail and not free so he can disappear. He was probably already focusing on the next girl to groom.
I almost committed suicide to escape abuse.. I was saved by a phone call.
The constant provocation is enough to drive you mad.
How in the world did he get to be a pastor? A man of God?
Sadly this is the case for many churches. Seminary school gave them some biblical knowledge without the spirit of God teaching them. They come out with head knowledge without ever having a heart conversion. Most are not even saved yet teaching the flock with false doctrine, jokes and lightness. I call them motivational speakers
Yes. Churches have become a businesses. That’s why the Bible says that He is coming to judge the CHURCH first. Why? Because of this exact thing you’re watching. Jesus Christ will not be mocked. And I really do hope this guy didn’t torture Mica, under the disguise of Jesus Christ, because if he did…. 😳 you reap what you sow
Anyone can claim to be a pastor and start a church.
Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves. - Matthew 7:15
#justiceformica 💜💜💜🙏🏼🕊️
He for sure needs to be held accountable for abuse. It's clear that he used and abused her.
She was suffering in her marriage. She was dealing with a narcissist who cheated and hid things from his wife. I feel so bad for her not reaching out for help. She probably did but people probably listened to him rather than the wife
OMG, I am so happy to hear this!
When you’re manipulated and held hostage to the point where you choose to sacrifice yourself as an only means for liberating justice.
I’m so glad the lawyer and family have the journals
He seems like a malignant narcissist. They are very capable of killing if left unchecked. He sounds like he was in the discard phase. He had someone new lined up and was terrorizing her so he wouldn't have to pay alimony. He probably taunted her and told her to kill herself just so he could leave with out having to split anything. I think there should be laws concerning this type of emotional abuse where the spouse is terrorizing the other spouse for financial gain.
Just horrible 🥺
I am so glad that Mica left her journals with her attorney!
Mee too!!!!
Trust me. The attorney, Regina Ward, is as bad or worse than JP Miller. According to the public index, Regina Ward shared an office with Sandye Hicks, JP Miller's attorney when he divorced his first wife. Regina Ward never should have represented Mica. It's a violation of the SC Rules of Professional Conduct. At the very least, Ward would have been required to divulge this conflict of interest before Mica signed a retainer agreement. I wonder if Mica knew. I wonder if Mica's sister knows now.
It is called Coercive Control and becoming law in some states
So I am hearing what people in the church were disturbed about. Yet they listened to his sermons? Hmmm
We will not stop talking about Mica and all of this stuff surrounding these vile people + church. Mica and their other victims deserve justice.
So sad. All levels of abuse. Trapped. She didn't feel a way out.😢🙏🕯🛡
are they going to apologize to the husband for accusing him of murder?
I hope they will go to the bottom of this tragedy!It,s shocking to hear how he treated his wife !
He tells people you know how crazy she is what kind of husband would say that demeaning her in her death low down
She was so abused that she saw no way out .. He should be jailed for manslaughter and absurd.. 😢😮
His mistress better be investigated & not let go like they did to Nichol Kessinger!!!
You heard about her husband??
Ok but the family didn’t take her in and help her? They knew all of this but didn’t get her out of the situation?
They probably did, but he was abusive and probably told her he was going to hurt her family for keeping her from him
They did...she went out to Kansas in 2023 and I THINK it was family she stayed with there, per her friend on Nancy Grace..then he got to her and she was "allowed" to return...I can imagine, just like her 911 call, she was doing all to protect family, especially parents...my grown girls tell each other things and me, their mom, when necessary...or when THEY deem necessary. Adult children are independent.
Any married woman is going to do her best to sort it out herself. She was so young and didn’t realize what the dangerous narcissistic behavior she was having to deal with was actually about. Unfortunately, she found out way too late. 😭
having been in Mica's situation, i was too ashamed and didn't want my family to know. Mica wasn't in a clear headspace after the years and years of abuse.
You can’t blame the family. I had a friend that I had known since grade school who just kept going back and going back and the guy is such a loser and treated her like dirt but she would rather be in a fake loveless marriage than to face I guess being alone or what she feels would make her look like a social misfit not being married.
They get brainwashed and the yelling and psychological beating is so awful and the fear they cause makes you feel like you have nowhere to go. They isolate you and turn everyone against you and they lie and say you’re crazy just like what he is doing. In the end, you have to be really strong because you usually lose everyone if not through the smear campaign, then through the drama created.
People don’t want to hear about it and they don’t want to be around the drama all the time so they pull away. It’s a crime for sure. It’s invisible abuse though. It’s the kind of abuse where it’s so cruel most people can’t believe it’s even happening. The abuse is also very subtle.
People can break you right in front of others and those who watch won’t see anything wrong. Imagine for example you’re 15 or 20 pounds overweight. Maybe someone gives you a gift and tells you how much you’re going to love the gift and when you open it it’s a piece of clothing that’s four times smaller than what your size is. It’s four times smaller and they knew it was four times smaller and that you wouldn’t be able to fit but that’s their way of fat shaming you. If you speak up, they’ll deny it and act innocent and call you paranoid or crazy. It’s things like that 24 hours seven days a week. It’s the kind of abuse that you really can’t prove and that no one else can see except you and your tormentor and your abuser. It’s disgusting and it’s evil and it’s intentional and it’s done to break you.
They call and Facebook people that you care about and they say things like “I am so worried about so and so because we know that she’s doing drugs and drinking behind closed doors and we just don’t know what to do”
They will convince people that you love that you have been trashing them behind your back even when you have not. They are experts at taking elements of truth And spinning lies out of that truth.
It’s almost hard to describe and that’s why no one believes it’s real until they have experienced it themselves. It takes years to heal the mind and the body and the soul. Breaking free from these kinds of people is the first step, but it’s not the hardest step. The hardest step is when you leave, and you’re still trying to get their cruelty out of your mind which is nearly impossible. They lie and they lie and they gaslight and they gaslight. They will move your keys that you just put on the counter and when you go looking for them and you know, they moved your keys. They will deny it and call you crazy.they are horrible people. I hope God brings this to light and uses this case as a way to bring awareness to narcissistic abuse syndrome and how people suffer so greatly at the hands of these monsters.
Great revealing!! Well done Ashleigh!❤
I cant fathom how someone can be evil like this. He must have been possessed.
I cannot believe how So Beautiful this Woman is , Devastating to my heart ,She had so so much ,Gone Way too early ,Im so saddened and distraught by her not being here😭
Classic narcissistic! Gaslighted her, convinced it’s her fault, even talking badly about her after death.
He convinced her to believe she was mentally ill when she (probably) wasn’t.
💯 I was married to someone like him. He pretended he was a Christian 💔
I don't understand why religious leaders get way too much power.
I always believe a relationship is between me and God, not a third person.
I agree. IMO, they are greedy scammers. The bottom line is that they want the continuous weekly donations to build up their bank accounts.
Amen. A lot of them are wolves and hirelings.
There's too much abuse of power!
Where is the discernment in the people?
Where are the ones stepping out boldly in defence of right??
And questioning what's wrong publicly Come on !!
That is not a biblical perspective of the Chritians life ! We are called to gather together as one body to worship God, observe the sacraments ( baptism & the Lord's supper) ; pray together ; bear one anothers burdens, and visit the sick etc. There is no such thing in the NT as lone ranger Christians. Christ is the head, and we are the body. All body parts need each other or there is suffering.
This " church" and " pastor" are a false organization because they do not bear the marks of a biblical church. Jesus warned us that in last days there would be imposters and false prophets. This is the perfect example. I hope its a wake up call for many people.
@@lindac2554 I think the lack of discernment is due to the fact that all of our lives we are told WHAT to think, instead of HOW to think logically. It is easier for most people to just go along with the status quo than to discern what they are being told by politicians, church leaders, and main stream media.
I was in a similar relationship for many, many years. The difference was that my tormentor was a divorce lawyer and not a pastor. It’s not the job that makes a person a vindictive, controlling sociopath. It’s who they are. It’s just who they are. They can completely destroy the psyche of their partner
This makes me cry. My condolences to the family!
They should be a civil suit against Horry Co court house because the judge wouldn’t sign the restraining order for Mica Miller 🤷♀️ I mean if the judge would of signed the restraining order Mica filed she could possibly still be alive 💯
Sierra looks a lot like Mica 💜
Did he have the right to move her belongings when she was hospitalized?
he did it on purpose, to remove any evidence of his criminal wrongdoing.
He is responsible for this ladies death. Sending prayers for her family.
Entire case is bizarre
Great video. Loved listening to the attorney; this is going to be very interesting. Her sister sounds great too.
Omg he was soooo threatened by her!!! She’s beautiful and had a lot of people who loved and looked up to her. What a little coward!
The husband is pure evil.
Financial abuse needs to be dealt with in a more severe way. I believe it is one of the most insidious ways controllers control.
Exactly what I thought since I started hearing about this... Praying for her family
Spouses such as him are more common than what people know. My family is living a similar nightmare for YEARS. And the judicial system looks the other way. Is in excess of 700 phone calls and texts IN A SINGLE DAY abuse and stalking? Thank goodness my daughter is ALIVE. I am sick and sad about this entire situation. Prayers and love to the family.
Narcissist!!! 🤬
Great job
Some men are so evil that there is only one way out. He took everything from her in the worst ways possible. We have to come up with better ways to handle and punish this type of behavior. How many police reports should one have to file that is afraid for her life? Why can't he be charged for stalking? There is plenty of police reports, trackers, witnesses to it. Do you just keep collecting police reports until "something happens". Well, "something happened" and it's too fkng late now! 😢
He told her to off herself. I believe that
To Mica’s family, Imam so sorry for your loss of this beautiful young lady. May the Lord bless and keep you as you grieve and I pray for Justice for Mica.💔🙏🏼
That's exactly what happened to me!! I couldn't get any help either. He took my kids to because he works for the state of NC! My son left due to the abuse and he's been with me since 2017 ..he still has my daughter. I haven't been able to see or hear from her. The court of Raleigh NC gave him my children knowing he was violent and abusive... this is sad.