Great video, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love him so much, i can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
For some reason, I did tip 1 and tip 2 even before I watched your video. And it works. And maybe I did learn something and not being so stubborn myself.
I love the advice, I'm going to try this when my ex comes back because he is very difficult and is the kind of man to cut off his nose to spite his face.
About the letter. In case you can actually send voice memo. And you've made some real changes. And you are dedicated to keep improving yourself. That will be heard in the way you speak. And the beauty of it is they can keep it and listen again. And hearing you being calm and understanding tone and words can help reconnect the bond between you. Note tough, that if you didn't change that that too will be heard. So make sure you take action in your changes first. No matter what you do.
After spending 6 months in couples as well as individual therapy, I unlearned old behaviors and we both worked on how to interact with each other and made amends to each other. We got back together and and everything seemed so good and new again till she once again started to grow distant and then totally emotionally unavailable. After me asking over and over r you ok, r we ok, or what's wrong, her answers were always we re fine or ur just being paranoid. Finally she told me she doesn't love me anymore. Now we are separated but still living together, now as roommates, with our kids. Where did I go wrong? Is there anything I can do?
Stubborn Ex?????? LEAVEEE GO AWAYYYY AND MOVEEE ONNN!! There is nothing you can do! And why on earth you wasting your timess just waiting and hoping for someone like them??!!!!
Hi Alex I'm in a ldr and my ex wanted space which I gave her she said she has been thinking so much, after about a week she decided to end the relationship I went into no contact straight away after 3 weeks she contacted she asked how I was but about picking up our things she also mentioned she said it appears I am doing well and that she can see a great lifestyle change and that she's really happy that I am happy, she has noticed this through my fb stories I messaged her back politely saying thank you iv been going gym and trying new things etc and I even put in a little joke that she laughed at, only thing is she wants to drop my things off to her friends place it's like she doesn't want to see me, she said when she drops the things off she will let me know to go and pick up what shall I do?
He broke up wid me ...and i told as like ...yes u r correct ...am respecting ur words and if u want to break up...yes go head ...and from that moment he didnt sms or call me its been 15 days ....am totally messed up...i dont know whats going on....at last he went ....
Hi Alex! I have a question for you. What if I already wrote a letter promising to change and make an effort that I know she kept and went back to but after I still messed up and things went wrong. Do you think she will be bothered to read another letter?
@@carolineinnewyorkam in a similar situation but am still blocked.. this is frustrating cuz nobody actually talks about how to show the “improved you” when you are in a case like this..
Hi Alex, another amazing video many thanks I know it's bit irrelevant from the subject but she accepted to be friends again yesterday,what way shall I follow?text her to go out for a coffee or offer something else or wait her to text me first offer things to do?I'm confused when and how to act can I have some tips please thanks?
Hello Take it slow and take sometime on communication before initiating a coffee meet up We are here to help, please consider 1:1 with us www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Alex
Hello Minal Every situation is unique and different, we can certainly help, please consider 1: 1 session using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
Would a letter work when you got dumped by your ex who is avoidant, and you got dumped because you talked to another woman? My impression would be just no contact it the whole way through.
Hi alex. My wife has divorce me one month ago. But we still living under the same roof. And I know she has no feelings for me. She is ignoring me, doesn’t want talk to me , and she’s even coming home when I’m not there or sleeping. She stays most the time at her sister’s house if she doesn’t have work. Need some advice. Thanks.
Hi there! I know our coaches would love to help you with your situation and I’m sorry to hear about what you’re going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with one of our coaches on our team so that can give you the advice you need- www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
Hi l want to book for coaching session l have got a problem with my partner he just distance himself from indicating that he has stress and promised to come back when the stress is over
My advice. Don't reach out untill you actually have something to show for it. And getting back together is a journey and a process. Not a quick fix. Not if you want it to be long term anyways.
After 3 months of separation,I tried one side of struggling with marriage rebuilding, then he then told me you will have to leave your career forever, I told him don’t do that my parents don’t want to end up my career, he told me I don’t care, I told himwhat you want khula?( divorce from girl side) he screenshot that again and send to hi brother, and now I am worried will we reconcile or not, he has left me unblocked only for mags , telling me don’t text me otherwise I will block you. I am confused is he playing mind game or is he waiting for her parents that may be we will reconcile.He told me to wait for his parents but didn’t told me that he will bring me back to home or not.
Hi coach, its been 9 weeks since the break up and we work together. She keeps posting on her social media that I never cared about her or loved her and how she docent care if we talk again. She clearly is resentful and angry with me still which means she feel something toward me but how do I turn this situation around? HELP!
Hello You have to remain focused it appears she also might be trying to get attention from you, when she does those post. She might want a reaction out of you. Why did you and her break up? Coach Alex
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity she was frustrated with me in terms of letting the relationship be routine/not being consistent enough in terms of effort, her just getting frustrated with me over smaller things, and her finding out that I was flirting with other girls during the very start of our first relationship, this is our second breakup(even tho I was going through the death of my grandma, but still I know I shouldn't have)
Should I block his number during NC rules ? We broke up few days ago ..he didn't block my number ..but deleted it from his contact list. I can see his dp in whatsapp . I told him that I respect his decision of breaking up with me n now I will move on.
Great video, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love him so much, i can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
Did he ever reach out to you?
For some reason, I did tip 1 and tip 2 even before I watched your video. And it works. And maybe I did learn something and not being so stubborn myself.
I love the advice, I'm going to try this when my ex comes back because he is very difficult and is the kind of man to cut off his nose to spite his face.
Thank you for watching!
Coach Alex
About the letter. In case you can actually send voice memo. And you've made some real changes. And you are dedicated to keep improving yourself. That will be heard in the way you speak. And the beauty of it is they can keep it and listen again. And hearing you being calm and understanding tone and words can help reconnect the bond between you. Note tough, that if you didn't change that that too will be heard. So make sure you take action in your changes first. No matter what you do.
I love your accent this is just gold 🥰😅
Le troisième conseil est top ! Et si après tout ça il reste stubborn et arrogant then j'imagine qu'il faut lâcher l'affaire
My ex is stubborn and he messages me and then gives me the cold shoulder but I know he still has feelings for me. It’s difficult 😣.
Same situation
Great Video thank you. If my ex is not speaking to me how can i convey tip #1 to him? Do I post something on social media?
After spending 6 months in couples as well as individual therapy, I unlearned old behaviors and we both worked on how to interact with each other and made amends to each other. We got back together and and everything seemed so good and new again till she once again started to grow distant and then totally emotionally unavailable. After me asking over and over r you ok, r we ok, or what's wrong, her answers were always we re fine or ur just being paranoid. Finally she told me she doesn't love me anymore. Now we are separated but still living together, now as roommates, with our kids. Where did I go wrong? Is there anything I can do?
Thank you so much for this video. I have learnt so many things in this video. My ex is too stubborn so .I learnt so much in this video
Thanks for watching!
Coach Alex
Stubborn Ex?????? LEAVEEE GO AWAYYYY AND MOVEEE ONNN!! There is nothing you can do! And why on earth you wasting your timess just waiting and hoping for someone like them??!!!!
Hi Alex I'm in a ldr and my ex wanted space which I gave her she said she has been thinking so much, after about a week she decided to end the relationship I went into no contact straight away after 3 weeks she contacted she asked how I was but about picking up our things she also mentioned she said it appears I am doing well and that she can see a great lifestyle change and that she's really happy that I am happy, she has noticed this through my fb stories I messaged her back politely saying thank you iv been going gym and trying new things etc and I even put in a little joke that she laughed at, only thing is she wants to drop my things off to her friends place it's like she doesn't want to see me, she said when she drops the things off she will let me know to go and pick up what shall I do?
He broke up wid me ...and i told as like ...yes u r correct ...am respecting ur words and if u want to break up...yes go head ...and from that moment he didnt sms or call me its been 15 days ....am totally messed up...i dont know whats going on....at last he went ....
He said he needed space but then he said hope all is well a few days later ,when I replied he said nothing what does that mean ?
What to do when you hurt man’s ego? How to recover?
genuinely apologize
Best video
Thank you so much for watching!
My ex is very stubborn but he gets jealous everytime we meet
My ex read the letter and then through it away have not heard from him since have seen him on dating sites
Hi Alex! I have a question for you. What if I already wrote a letter promising to change and make an effort that I know she kept and went back to but after I still messed up and things went wrong. Do you think she will be bothered to read another letter?
Please share a sample all round accountability letter samples please
I am in NC for 43 days now. What will be my next step. I need your adviced pls
how can I get my ex girlfriend to resee me as her boyfriend and not just a friend?
I’m in no contact so I’m not sure how to tell them that I have worked on the issues etc
Thank you Caroline, do they follow you on any social media accounts?
Thanks
Coach Alex
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity He blocked me but then unblocked me 1 week later but now doesn’t follow me anymore.
Contact me for help
you don't because you're in no contact.
@@carolineinnewyorkam in a similar situation but am still blocked.. this is frustrating cuz nobody actually talks about how to show the “improved you” when you are in a case like this..
Hi Alex, another amazing video many thanks I know it's bit irrelevant from the subject but she accepted to be friends again yesterday,what way shall I follow?text her to go out for a coffee or offer something else or wait her to text me first offer things to do?I'm confused when and how to act can I have some tips please thanks?
Hello
Take it slow and take sometime on communication before initiating a coffee meet up
We are here to help, please consider 1:1 with us
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Coach Alex
Thanks 🙏
Coach Alex this don’t work for me she is really stubborn .. nothing is working sroll
Hello Minal
Every situation is unique and different, we can certainly help, please consider 1: 1 session using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
Would a letter work when you got dumped by your ex who is avoidant, and you got dumped because you talked to another woman? My impression would be just no contact it the whole way through.
Hello Nate
An accountability letter might be a good option for you!
Thanks
Coach Alex
When you say letter, do you mean a hand written letter or is an email ok?
Hand written letter is better
Merci pour ces conseils mais s'il nous accuse, on peut pas aller dans son sens..de même s'il parle du passé.
Hi alex. My wife has divorce me one month ago. But we still living under the same roof. And I know she has no feelings for me. She is ignoring me, doesn’t want talk to me , and she’s even coming home when I’m not there or sleeping. She stays most the time at her sister’s house if she doesn’t have work. Need some advice. Thanks.
Hi there!
I know our coaches would love to help you with your situation and I’m sorry to hear about what you’re going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with one of our coaches on our team so that can give you the advice you need-
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
Hi l want to book for coaching session l have got a problem with my partner he just distance himself from indicating that he has stress and promised to come back when the stress is over
Hello
Please use this link for booking
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
That's tricky .. when there's infidelity
Not possible to do this
I started no contact yesterday, so should I reach out and say I agree with the breakup?
My advice. Don't reach out untill you actually have something to show for it. And getting back together is a journey and a process. Not a quick fix. Not if you want it to be long term anyways.
After 3 months of separation,I tried one side of struggling with marriage rebuilding, then he then told me you will have to leave your career forever, I told him don’t do that my parents don’t want to end up my career, he told me I don’t care, I told himwhat you want khula?( divorce from girl side) he screenshot that again and send to hi brother, and now I am worried will we reconcile or not, he has left me unblocked only for mags , telling me don’t text me otherwise I will block you. I am confused is he playing mind game or is he waiting for her parents that may be we will reconcile.He told me to wait for his parents but didn’t told me that he will bring me back to home or not.
Give me some advice what to do next, we are living in pashtoon culture.
He told me to wait for his parents, but didn’t told me that he will bring me back to his home or not
Hi coach, its been 9 weeks since the break up and we work together. She keeps posting on her social media that I never cared about her or loved her and how she docent care if we talk again. She clearly is resentful and angry with me still which means she feel something toward me but how do I turn this situation around? HELP!
Hello
You have to remain focused it appears she also might be trying to get attention from you, when she does those post. She might want a reaction out of you. Why did you and her break up?
Coach Alex
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity she was frustrated with me in terms of letting the relationship be routine/not being consistent enough in terms of effort, her just getting frustrated with me over smaller things, and her finding out that I was flirting with other girls during the very start of our first relationship, this is our second breakup(even tho I was going through the death of my grandma, but still I know I shouldn't have)
Why would he send a card
I sent a message & he didn't answer
Thank you Sharon, he might be exhibiting hot and cold behavior
Thanks
Coach Alex
Should I block his number during NC rules ? We broke up few days ago ..he didn't block my number ..but deleted it from his contact list. I can see his dp in whatsapp . I told him that I respect his decision of breaking up with me n now I will move on.