My mother always said to me "only boring people say theyre bored" and the older I get the more i understand. People have forgotten how to live a life outside of their work, school, internet, etc... and it genuinely makes me sad. I rarely see teens my age outside. Im tired of this mundane life weve made for ourselves, so i try when i can to get outside, and when i do i feel so much better about myself and my life.
1. Biking around your city and looking for cool spots on Google maps 2. Any sports team/ classes 3. Create: art, organize room, put things together etc. 4. Talk random people 5. Try new things
Saw a vid that had a good rule of thumb about hobbies. Have at least 3. One physical hobby, to help you stay in shape, one intellectual hobby to sharpen your mind, and one creative hobby to express yourselve. Been trying it out recently and the hobbies I picked are: Cycling, Chess, and Piano. Still pretty ass at the last 2 but been feeling better little by little
One of my greatest mentors in college one of the last things he said to me was “your mission today. Go for a walk, get a nice coffee, and talk to at least three pretty girls” dude was a G.
Your video is really inspiring! My PC literally froze a moment a go and now I see your story. I already discovered the amazing change that walking for an hour each day (on a 500+ day streak) and how much energy and clarity I get through that - it's insane!! ✨🌿
You phrased it perfectly, as someone that's ridden since age 5, cycling truly is a beautiful experience. You being your own engine is so empowering, and in time it "hardens" you in the sense that you get used to the conditions outside no matter the weather, you go distances that people think are impossible and being able to do that and have that perspective, that "view from such heights". Like in cycling, like in anything you practice, like in life it's about committing, progressing, and pushing yourself to your limits, that is how you enjoy life. Being machine
This video gave me such childhood nostalgia for those foggy new hampshire mornings in the fall, when the air is a little heavy but it’s cool and the crows are cawing and the air smells like damp leaves 🥹🥹
Mfs realizing the people they call “cringe” are actually people like this guy who are living lives that are miles better and far more fulfilling than their mundane lives which consist of being a loser online all day and hating on everything
Im glad i came upon this video, I was heavily addicted to games for honestly decades on and off, recently it was pretty bad, about 40-50hours a week pretty much my life revolved around video games. Im about a month free and i have found myself much happier. I still do some stuff like i have been getting more into like board games and miniatures and stuff but it actually brings me joy. I used to struggle even watching movies because my attention span was so low, and i have found my attention span has been getting bigger. I have been eating better kind of, not perfect but infinitely more than before and while my health still isnt the best i feel much better. I have a stationary bike for exercise at home i live in an apartment and while technically i can get a bike and get around the city its kinda stressful and i am an anxious fearful person, but have found that stopping gaming has helped with this too. Personally im not a fan of sports because i have had bad experiences when people got too competitive and it made me sad, thats why i despise golf, but sports are definitely good ways to be social and also exercise. I do enjoy more "solitary" things, like its kinda a stereotype but when i went to the gym and stuff that was my hobby actually and that made me happy too, like lifting weights etc, not to get like ripped or anything but just to get a good workout in and feel better. Its interesting because gaming i feel does have a lot of good moments, but those moments also have lots of time you are not having fun or just getting amped up etc, but it does fulfil a sense of purpose in some people which can be addicting, especially when other things in life are kinda not the best. I do think it is unhealthy coping mechanism though unfortuantely as it is addicting by its very nature, and some people and personality types it does not mix well which it is for me. Like telling an alcoholic they can just have one drink right? I still dont think i will hate games though because they were there for me in a very bad part of my life and helped me cope, even if it was not healthy, and lots of good memories etc, but at the end of the day stopped games has improved my life, and it has gotten easier. I have actually wanted to become a writer and im going to write, even if its a small story or if it doesnt turn out good i will write, that is my passion, it can unfortunately be a lonely life and i feel fear when i feel i need to impress people, but when i dont need to be "perfect" life is better, and most of the time things turn out alright. I also have started painting miniatures and stuff, and granted while that may technically be still considered gaming i consider it something else, but i understand if some people combine it, this brings me some joy too. being more creative makes me feel alive. it also helps me to have the energy to clean and do basic aspects of my life. Im glad to hear things are doing good for you.
At first I was scared of biking too tbh but I like to go around low traffic areas tho. I highly recommend trying it more when you have the chance. I like that your creating things too sounds sick!
One time I rode through this part of the wooded area at a park near my house and lo and behold there it stood in all its glory. Bouncy branch. A branch just above waist height that was sturdy yet gave enough to use like a trampoline. One could push off the ground and go about 7 feet in the air. I would bounce on bouncy branch all the time and had so much fun. Unfortunately last winter a storm took bouncy branch from us, but I will never forget.
I feel like rock climbing is almost a combination of all the things you have just mentioned. The climbing wall serves as a third space (which you may have heard about people on youtube discussing the importance of recently) which is super social, as well as good excercise. Bouldering is collaborative in a way that similar sports just aren't, because you talk to other climbers on what's the best way to do the climb you are working on (even while you are on the wall), which makes climbing so social and collaborative. And once you become a good climber, you can then take those skills and go on climbs in nature as well.
for me, going outside and just being present in the moment or cleaning around is great. but i think often times, its difficult to go outside especially in a third world country as someone whos of legal age but doesnt have a drivers license, where our area is so car centric and car dependent. ive been more outside more when i got a bike, and not everyone knows how to ride one and would want to ride one. then again, i only go to enjoyable and naturey areas when i go far (smthn my parents dont know bc they dont want me doing bc of how dangerous and unpredictable our roads and drivers can be)
Just came home from a 2h bike ride around my city at night, blasting Toto in my headphones. Really took this day from an awful one to a great one. Made me feel alive and energized so i stopped and worked out at an outdoor gym. Explored new areas. Great fun, all alone. Biking is awesome
I barely have the energy for this stuff atm since im goin through a rough semester but ill try more when it ends, i realised i love goin on walks it makes me so happy and goin out with ppl makes me feel like life is worth living so yeah u do make a lot of sense
I discovered disc golf 2 years ago and it kind of saved my soul. It’s a very inexpensive sport to play and one you can play with yourself or friends. I lost 20 pounds and I’m out in nature and I’ve met some cool people. And I learned how to hyzer flip a disc and frankly that makes you feel like a god. 😊
I really needed this video. I havent been feeling good today and you encouraged me to go outside and maybe i will no i will record a video and post it to youtube
Can't blame our generation. Alcohal has been ruining lives and livelihoods since the beginning of civilization. As for watching TV (and video games), I agree that it was a problem before the turn of this century, but not to the extent of global pandemic level of content addiction we have in young people these days. If one in ten was an addict back then, it's 7 in ten now.
Playing videogames is not a bad thing if you do it in a healthy way. You make them sound like it's inherently a bad thing... You can play games and also have other hobbies as well, it's not mutually exclusive (you might have less time to play tho, but that's life).
Man I love gaming, I love modding and I love working on my PC. But I am also a Bushcraft teacher and if you gave me the choice to live in the woods with no power I would do it in a second.
If you have the money - go for an e-bike!! Go much further and see many more things Learning to play an instrument is cool too, musicians are always doing something or playing gigs
Hi! Just stumbled on your video and I loved it. It's so positive! Been doing similar things for some time now. Talking more to people and being more active. Just wanted to comment this. Hope you're having a great day!
I love kayak fishing. If I can’t be out there cruising around hunting for a trophy. I can be in my garage with an iced tea and some rock n roll, cleaning my rig and retooling my set up. Work for you screen binge my friends, and soon the work will become the play.
Joining clubs and activities of all sorts is so great for feeling better day to day and making friends :) Thank you a lot for these videos 🙏 To anyone reading you are so beautiful and make the world way better. You are an amazing person with one life, there’s millions of people to meet, memories to make and things to learn and do
In my home state Utah everything is dead in the winter bruh all our national parks are closed and if they are they’re probably covered in snow but in the summer tons of people are outside even in the suburbs, the national parks are full of people and It’s just wonderful in the summer, the only cool parts of our winters are Christmas and skiing and snowboarding
My biggest issue is the fact that i live in south africa, so i can't go outside if i'm not in a group of 6 or more. I love being outside, though, and i often sit outside and drawing or painting, climbing trees, but only in our garden. I really want to be able to walk around in the neighbourhood, though, and go to skateparks and play in the streets.
такие простые вещи как свежий воздух и взаимодействие с людьми нереально помогают сохранять голову на плечах. троганье травы совет приевшийся, но какой же эффективный. жаль, часто тяжело заставить себя сдвинуться с места. хороший видос
Sehr geehrte Damen und Herren, ihr bracht nicht immer alles zu glauben was ihr sehen könnt und was ihr hören könnt was Menschen angeblich mögen. Weil manche Menschen gewisse Sachen tuhen müssen oder sollen und gewisse Sachen sagen müssen oder sollen. ihr bracht nicht immer alles zu glauben was ihr sehen könnt und was ihr hören könnt was Menschen angeblich gefällt. Weil manche Menschen gewisse Sachen tuhen müssen oder sollen und gewisse Sachen sagen müssen oder sollen.
Yesss, that satisfaction from being tired from a nice sport sesh is the best feeling ❤👌. Well I agree a bit less with talkin to ppl - said by the girl who has a YT channel too 😂🤣
going to the gym whether it’s callisthenics or powerlifting or just for enjoyment. rock climbing, disc golf or just golf (needs patience) rugby if your school has it or some sort of track event. hiking, fishing, geocaching, hop on scooter with friends, swimming lengths. boxing workouts- find a class id say. learn some dances (liberating) jumprope. job with physical labor (ground crew at golf course, construction, yard work) see if there’s any unique sports your school offers bc most of the kids will be new. hopefully this gives u some ideas good luck 👍👍
I think it’s okay to play video games it’s just how much of it also limiting screen time in general getting outside is the best feeling and I never do that I am like what you used to be and I want to change I want to have hobbies get outside biking hiking trails it’s amazing I don’t want to be let down because I repeating the same thing over and over in a video game
I am aware that it's super simple to call me negative, and maybe I am that. But I have tried biking and playing sports and got extremely burnt out in both of these hobbies. Decorating my room is not possible, as I despise everything I've ever created. Talking to people caused great levels of harm to my mental health, as they always seem tired of me and with every conversation become only less likely to reach out. I feel truly hopeless, just stuck between work to make ends meet, studying to make ends meet in the future and desperately trying and failing to please other people. Any hobby I had I have become numb to, any hobby I have now is more like a chore I do to avoid existential dread. Help me if you can, anyone tbh.
Hey, I feel where you're coming from, I've experienced similar negative experiences to what you described. I would first of all say that not every person has the same journey and if you're feeling the way that you are then you've probably had some shit going on for a while and so it might take some extra steps to get to a better place, perhaps steps that other people who make it look easy won't have to take, we all have different hardships and experiences and so its only natural this is going to be the case. To this I'd say try and embrace the challenge as a part of your journey. For you I don't know you so I can't say, but do what you can to reflect on why you feel so negatively, and not just this, but finding some self compassion, not despising everything you've ever created is a good starting point. For me thats one thing that helped the most, and from there you can open yourself up to the world and feeling enjoyment again. It takes time, and you're not alone, I'm still on that journey as well, all the best.
@frogfish1567 I did have depression diagnosed a while ago, had it treated and quite successfully so for the time. Perhaps it is simply back, not something unheard of. I'll keep the possibility in mind, if things don't get better I'll consider getting treatment again. Thanks.
You know this is a big act when he said about making his money online, seeing he is selling coaching sessions, saying he cries doing a hobby.. like bruh!
yeah. the thing is - you can't really live like that nowadays without doing some online/remote job. Like, this guy literally advertising his paid coaching or some sht
Nice video, but there’s no need to distinguish between “talking to the boys” (or worse, talking to “people”) and “talking to girls.” Talk to people regardless of gender and regardless whether you’re attracted to them!
Hmmm yes, maybe we should touch grass Seriously though, I've been doing stuff like this ever since I moved out a few months ago and my life is getting better
True! The power of a bike. I sold my car I had over the years. Not because I didnt liked my car anymore but I became lazy.. I enjoy the bike way more fresh air in your face and go places you cant with a car or when walking would be to far. It made me lose weight and also a more happier person.
Sorry that it doesn't reasonate with you. Just put on your jogging shoes, any kinds of sports apparel and run into a weekend morning. Feel nature and people awakening.
It kinda sounds like you were playing mindless timewasters cranked out for the lowest common denominator and not mindblowing stories handcrafted by teams of passionate and thoughtful individuals.
My mother always said to me "only boring people say theyre bored" and the older I get the more i understand.
People have forgotten how to live a life outside of their work, school, internet, etc... and it genuinely makes me sad. I rarely see teens my age outside.
Im tired of this mundane life weve made for ourselves, so i try when i can to get outside, and when i do i feel so much better about myself and my life.
Your mother was wise, hope the weather stays good for you out there
1. Biking around your city and looking for cool spots on Google maps
2. Any sports team/ classes
3. Create: art, organize room, put things together etc.
4. Talk random people
5. Try new things
thanks, bro
Saw a vid that had a good rule of thumb about hobbies. Have at least 3. One physical hobby, to help you stay in shape, one intellectual hobby to sharpen your mind, and one creative hobby to express yourselve.
Been trying it out recently and the hobbies I picked are:
Cycling, Chess, and Piano.
Still pretty ass at the last 2 but been feeling better little by little
Just keep going and do it even if you're not yet that good at it. Just enjoy the process of improvement and eventually you'll be great at it.
Woah that's a great way to categories all the essential kind of hobbies.
One of my greatest mentors in college one of the last things he said to me was “your mission today. Go for a walk, get a nice coffee, and talk to at least three pretty girls” dude was a G.
If you listen closely you can hear the all mighty algorithm maxing this guy for the good of humanity
haha ;)
True
Your video is really inspiring! My PC literally froze a moment a go and now I see your story. I already discovered the amazing change that walking for an hour each day (on a 500+ day streak) and how much energy and clarity I get through that - it's insane!! ✨🌿
wow 500 days sounds sick!! Definitely striving for stuff like that. :)
W!
You phrased it perfectly, as someone that's ridden since age 5, cycling truly is a beautiful experience. You being your own engine is so empowering, and in time it "hardens" you in the sense that you get used to the conditions outside no matter the weather, you go distances that people think are impossible and being able to do that and have that perspective, that "view from such heights". Like in cycling, like in anything you practice, like in life it's about committing, progressing, and pushing yourself to your limits, that is how you enjoy life. Being machine
This video gave me such childhood nostalgia for those foggy new hampshire mornings in the fall, when the air is a little heavy but it’s cool and the crows are cawing and the air smells like damp leaves 🥹🥹
A fella in the misty forest with unfocused camera and talking about life. this is what i was looking for... really like your style and your thoughs.
homie found out that being a normie was actually the meta build all along
Mfs realizing the people they call “cringe” are actually people like this guy who are living lives that are miles better and far more fulfilling than their mundane lives which consist of being a loser online all day and hating on everything
Im glad i came upon this video, I was heavily addicted to games for honestly decades on and off, recently it was pretty bad, about 40-50hours a week pretty much my life revolved around video games.
Im about a month free and i have found myself much happier. I still do some stuff like i have been getting more into like board games and miniatures and stuff but it actually brings me joy. I used to struggle even watching movies because my attention span was so low, and i have found my attention span has been getting bigger.
I have been eating better kind of, not perfect but infinitely more than before and while my health still isnt the best i feel much better.
I have a stationary bike for exercise at home i live in an apartment and while technically i can get a bike and get around the city its kinda stressful and i am an anxious fearful person, but have found that stopping gaming has helped with this too.
Personally im not a fan of sports because i have had bad experiences when people got too competitive and it made me sad, thats why i despise golf, but sports are definitely good ways to be social and also exercise. I do enjoy more "solitary" things, like its kinda a stereotype but when i went to the gym and stuff that was my hobby actually and that made me happy too, like lifting weights etc, not to get like ripped or anything but just to get a good workout in and feel better.
Its interesting because gaming i feel does have a lot of good moments, but those moments also have lots of time you are not having fun or just getting amped up etc, but it does fulfil a sense of purpose in some people which can be addicting, especially when other things in life are kinda not the best. I do think it is unhealthy coping mechanism though unfortuantely as it is addicting by its very nature, and some people and personality types it does not mix well which it is for me. Like telling an alcoholic they can just have one drink right? I still dont think i will hate games though because they were there for me in a very bad part of my life and helped me cope, even if it was not healthy, and lots of good memories etc, but at the end of the day stopped games has improved my life, and it has gotten easier.
I have actually wanted to become a writer and im going to write, even if its a small story or if it doesnt turn out good i will write, that is my passion, it can unfortunately be a lonely life and i feel fear when i feel i need to impress people, but when i dont need to be "perfect" life is better, and most of the time things turn out alright.
I also have started painting miniatures and stuff, and granted while that may technically be still considered gaming i consider it something else, but i understand if some people combine it, this brings me some joy too. being more creative makes me feel alive. it also helps me to have the energy to clean and do basic aspects of my life.
Im glad to hear things are doing good for you.
At first I was scared of biking too tbh but I like to go around low traffic areas tho. I highly recommend trying it more when you have the chance.
I like that your creating things too sounds sick!
yap sesh
This guy is so peaceful
Really good points. I think most people overlook these, because they are the basics of the basics, but have suchhhh big impact.
One time I rode through this part of the wooded area at a park near my house and lo and behold there it stood in all its glory. Bouncy branch. A branch just above waist height that was sturdy yet gave enough to use like a trampoline. One could push off the ground and go about 7 feet in the air. I would bounce on bouncy branch all the time and had so much fun. Unfortunately last winter a storm took bouncy branch from us, but I will never forget.
we will miss bouncy branch😥😥😥
I feel like rock climbing is almost a combination of all the things you have just mentioned. The climbing wall serves as a third space (which you may have heard about people on youtube discussing the importance of recently) which is super social, as well as good excercise. Bouldering is collaborative in a way that similar sports just aren't, because you talk to other climbers on what's the best way to do the climb you are working on (even while you are on the wall), which makes climbing so social and collaborative. And once you become a good climber, you can then take those skills and go on climbs in nature as well.
I love that the camera focused on branches in front of you lol
yeah i like that too :) it's cool
Great video thank you. Having hobbies and a purpose will change your life. Your self journey and working on yourself is a purpose.
for me, going outside and just being present in the moment or cleaning around is great. but i think often times, its difficult to go outside especially in a third world country as someone whos of legal age but doesnt have a drivers license, where our area is so car centric and car dependent. ive been more outside more when i got a bike, and not everyone knows how to ride one and would want to ride one. then again, i only go to enjoyable and naturey areas when i go far (smthn my parents dont know bc they dont want me doing bc of how dangerous and unpredictable our roads and drivers can be)
Just came home from a 2h bike ride around my city at night, blasting Toto in my headphones. Really took this day from an awful one to a great one. Made me feel alive and energized so i stopped and worked out at an outdoor gym. Explored new areas. Great fun, all alone. Biking is awesome
I am glad to find someone who tries to live like me and also around my age group 😊
I barely have the energy for this stuff atm since im goin through a rough semester but ill try more when it ends, i realised i love goin on walks it makes me so happy and goin out with ppl makes me feel like life is worth living so yeah u do make a lot of sense
I discovered disc golf 2 years ago and it kind of saved my soul. It’s a very inexpensive sport to play and one you can play with yourself or friends. I lost 20 pounds and I’m out in nature and I’ve met some cool people. And I learned how to hyzer flip a disc and frankly that makes you feel like a god. 😊
I really needed this video. I havent been feeling good today and you encouraged me to go outside and maybe i will no i will record a video and post it to youtube
Back in the days, these things used to be common sense and common place.
Lol and so many people still became alcoholics or just watched TV and at junk.
Can't blame our generation. Alcohal has been ruining lives and livelihoods since the beginning of civilization. As for watching TV (and video games), I agree that it was a problem before the turn of this century, but not to the extent of global pandemic level of content addiction we have in young people these days. If one in ten was an addict back then, it's 7 in ten now.
going outside, common sense and interactive hobbies, common place. :) i want to live a fulfilling life too.
After i started Boxing and Fishing, iv genuinly never been bored since
hey man, you should try climbing, for example bouldering, i think you would love it
yes man i want to try doing it so badly
Thank you so much for this video! It really helps me, and helps me reflecting my own life.
Playing videogames is not a bad thing if you do it in a healthy way. You make them sound like it's inherently a bad thing...
You can play games and also have other hobbies as well, it's not mutually exclusive (you might have less time to play tho, but that's life).
Man I love gaming, I love modding and I love working on my PC. But I am also a Bushcraft teacher and if you gave me the choice to live in the woods with no power I would do it in a second.
If you have the money - go for an e-bike!! Go much further and see many more things
Learning to play an instrument is cool too, musicians are always doing something or playing gigs
Hi! Just stumbled on your video and I loved it. It's so positive! Been doing similar things for some time now. Talking more to people and being more active. Just wanted to comment this. Hope you're having a great day!
Aye thank you so much :) Hope this can help
Damn such a wholesome vibe. If anyone is reading this, go take a walk the next possible time. Even if its just for 5min. its totally worth it :)
I love kayak fishing. If I can’t be out there cruising around hunting for a trophy. I can be in my garage with an iced tea and some rock n roll, cleaning my rig and retooling my set up. Work for you screen binge my friends, and soon the work will become the play.
boredom is great:))
it helps your brain to be creative
Joining clubs and activities of all sorts is so great for feeling better day to day and making friends :) Thank you a lot for these videos 🙏 To anyone reading you are so beautiful and make the world way better. You are an amazing person with one life, there’s millions of people to meet, memories to make and things to learn and do
This video is such a gift mate well done
thank you bro :)
W Video you should be proud of yourself and greatful that you came to these realizations as early as you did
I dislike the video game bashing, the rest is good advice.
video games are an escape from reality ... doesnt improve your life in any way. You will realise one day
@@goerge-q6x As if reality is a good place to be right now? Same thing applies to reading books anyways.
@@dirtydan9785you can make it good
You learn and improve from reading books. Video games you don’t
@@demolitionist42 Ignoring that that isn't true, its okay to have something that's just fun to do on a daily basis, for example: a lot of books.
Totally agree! This was great advice for living life to the fullest!
As an introvert talking to people makes me sick.
Then it might actually be social anxiety
Yeah mate that's not being introverted, like the person above said it's a mental illness
@@tristansojer4901 dont call it a mental illness please (uwu)
It seems he's talking straight from some Twilight background
I love everything you said bro. I loved the energy of the video, gave me chill Bob Ross vibes. :D But really made my evening, thank you!
thank you so much i really appreciate it ! :)
I would defo recommended geocaching which is basically like a treasure hunt to motivate you to go outdoors and walk/cycle :D !!
its hard when you live in a shitty city 😞😞😞
In my home state Utah everything is dead in the winter bruh all our national parks are closed and if they are they’re probably covered in snow but in the summer tons of people are outside even in the suburbs, the national parks are full of people and It’s just wonderful in the summer, the only cool parts of our winters are Christmas and skiing and snowboarding
Recently started doing indoor soccer. Dude ive never had this much fun since i was a kid
that's awesome I played indoor soccer too it was so fun :)
My biggest issue is the fact that i live in south africa, so i can't go outside if i'm not in a group of 6 or more. I love being outside, though, and i often sit outside and drawing or painting, climbing trees, but only in our garden. I really want to be able to walk around in the neighbourhood, though, and go to skateparks and play in the streets.
такие простые вещи как свежий воздух и взаимодействие с людьми нереально помогают сохранять голову на плечах. троганье травы совет приевшийся, но какой же эффективный. жаль, часто тяжело заставить себя сдвинуться с места. хороший видос
W Video, I'll definitely start biking soon.
Btw whats the font of your subtitles?
Gaegu :)
Sehr geehrte Damen und Herren,
ihr bracht nicht immer alles zu glauben was ihr sehen könnt und was ihr hören könnt was Menschen angeblich mögen.
Weil manche Menschen gewisse Sachen tuhen müssen oder sollen und gewisse Sachen sagen müssen oder sollen.
ihr bracht nicht immer alles zu glauben was ihr sehen könnt und was ihr hören könnt was Menschen angeblich gefällt.
Weil manche Menschen gewisse Sachen tuhen müssen oder sollen und gewisse Sachen sagen müssen oder sollen.
Cool video, not cool that people and girls are apparently seperate in your mind.
And props for the like minded, while i won't participate it's truly a noble strive 🛡️
Yesss, that satisfaction from being tired from a nice sport sesh is the best feeling ❤👌. Well I agree a bit less with talkin to ppl - said by the girl who has a YT channel too 😂🤣
Wow I am 30 years old and i really just learned something from you.
love this video!
thanks for joining! :)
this guy is where i want to be at 16
nice branch
It really is 😂😂😂
It’s kind of hard for me to join a sport at 15, most people my age have been playing for years. Any other active hobbies I could do?
going to the gym whether it’s callisthenics or powerlifting or just for enjoyment. rock climbing, disc golf or just golf (needs patience) rugby if your school has it or some sort of track event. hiking, fishing, geocaching, hop on scooter with friends, swimming lengths. boxing workouts- find a class id say. learn some dances (liberating) jumprope. job with physical labor (ground crew at golf course, construction, yard work) see if there’s any unique sports your school offers bc most of the kids will be new. hopefully this gives u some ideas good luck 👍👍
This guy is 16!?
He sounds so mature and wise, I thought he was like 21 until I checked his channel lol
I think it’s okay to play video games it’s just how much of it also limiting screen time in general getting outside is the best feeling and I never do that I am like what you used to be and I want to change I want to have hobbies get outside biking hiking trails it’s amazing I don’t want to be let down because I repeating the same thing over and over in a video game
I am aware that it's super simple to call me negative, and maybe I am that. But I have tried biking and playing sports and got extremely burnt out in both of these hobbies. Decorating my room is not possible, as I despise everything I've ever created. Talking to people caused great levels of harm to my mental health, as they always seem tired of me and with every conversation become only less likely to reach out. I feel truly hopeless, just stuck between work to make ends meet, studying to make ends meet in the future and desperately trying and failing to please other people. Any hobby I had I have become numb to, any hobby I have now is more like a chore I do to avoid existential dread.
Help me if you can, anyone tbh.
Hey, I feel where you're coming from, I've experienced similar negative experiences to what you described. I would first of all say that not every person has the same journey and if you're feeling the way that you are then you've probably had some shit going on for a while and so it might take some extra steps to get to a better place, perhaps steps that other people who make it look easy won't have to take, we all have different hardships and experiences and so its only natural this is going to be the case. To this I'd say try and embrace the challenge as a part of your journey.
For you I don't know you so I can't say, but do what you can to reflect on why you feel so negatively, and not just this, but finding some self compassion, not despising everything you've ever created is a good starting point. For me thats one thing that helped the most, and from there you can open yourself up to the world and feeling enjoyment again. It takes time, and you're not alone, I'm still on that journey as well, all the best.
This sounds like depression, have you considered getting treatment?
@frogfish1567 I did have depression diagnosed a while ago, had it treated and quite successfully so for the time. Perhaps it is simply back, not something unheard of. I'll keep the possibility in mind, if things don't get better I'll consider getting treatment again. Thanks.
I play longboarding. It is the reason I can quit video games and weed.
You know this is a big act when he said about making his money online, seeing he is selling coaching sessions, saying he cries doing a hobby.. like bruh!
I was climbing trees earlier
This is great dude
What do you do as a job? Like how do you make ur money?
yeah. the thing is - you can't really live like that nowadays without doing some online/remote job. Like, this guy literally advertising his paid coaching or some sht
active outside sports are too meta
love the environment -- i am bad at spelling
i love this video! my big bro plays lax
ayee nice :) ty
Nice video, but there’s no need to distinguish between “talking to the boys” (or worse, talking to “people”) and “talking to girls.” Talk to people regardless of gender and regardless whether you’re attracted to them!
Hmmm yes, maybe we should touch grass
Seriously though, I've been doing stuff like this ever since I moved out a few months ago and my life is getting better
Big facts
I can agree
True! The power of a bike. I sold my car I had over the years. Not because I didnt liked my car anymore but I became lazy.. I enjoy the bike way more fresh air in your face and go places you cant with a car or when walking would be to far. It made me lose weight and also a more happier person.
Take up angling, you wont regret it ;)
You kinda look like you're going to ask: sicko mode or mo bamba? Why not both?
nah dont do him like that
I Approve
talking 5.5' straight to virtually say NOTHING
Sorry that it doesn't reasonate with you. Just put on your jogging shoes, any kinds of sports apparel and run into a weekend morning.
Feel nature and people awakening.
w painting
I cant bike
that’s why you teach yourself
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wow
Bruh this is sad
брат, ты русский? если да, то по-английски говоришь потрясающе!!
Da!! :)
Looks like you just didn't like video games. It's fine. It's not for everyone.
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Upgrade camera bro
It kinda sounds like you were playing mindless timewasters cranked out for the lowest common denominator and not mindblowing stories handcrafted by teams of passionate and thoughtful individuals.
you live in a first world country
Nice video, but you definitely payed a course to make these type of videos lol
Your hobby is to bike around and go be a consumer? Lmao ok
Better than consuming the brainrot on shorts and tiktok
@@iBridgee barely. At least shorts and tiktok are free
@@SquallTheBlade They may be free but what good are they doing to you?
@@iBridgee nothing. But they don't cost you your retirement. Consumerism does.