Answering Questions About Our Relationship - RELAX #26
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- Опубліковано 14 лип 2021
- This week on RELAX! Colleen and Erik answer some of your burning questions about their relationship, share their best and worst celebrity stories, and discuss the possibility that their son might be a psychic medium. PLUS the return of Flynn's Truck of the Day!
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im sorry but the life-size Miranda behind Erik is so fucking scary lmao
I dont know how I didn't notice it until this comment and now I can't unsee it.
@@kellibridgeman6494 me too 😭😭
@@kellibridgeman6494 same😂kinda creepy doll…
reminds me of Jason Voorhees 😆
I went searching for this comment cause I knew I couldn’t be the only one
They should name the babies Colin and Erika 😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@@beyedoc LMAOOO
Or Pauline and Derek 😂😂
@@izzybaumgartner4537 I hope they see this
Shae Mitchell wore diapers throughout her entire pregnancy, Day and night. You’re not the only pregnant momma who has considered this or tried it!! Do it!
Her name is Shay.. I think lol
@@gabrielleoana1092 yeah it’s shay lol
I’m sorry but erik listening to Flynn talk about his trucks and looking over at him is the most adorable thing ever
@@nyxywyxy awww
Right!
He sounds so cute on the podcast
Why are you apologizing?
*Derik
Colleen : would you wear diapers with me ?!?
Erik: ofc
Colleen * gasps and falls In love with Erik again*
*Derik
@@gredzy derek* hahah
Love this
@@amjj8218 lol
So sweet 😭🥰
I love how Colleen was just missing the joke Derek was trying to start at the beginning 😂
I know, Derek is so funny 😂
Derek is his alter ego 🤣
I love Derek. It would be so funny if they named the boy twin Erik because of Derek
wait. do y’all actually think his name is derek?!
his name is erik stocklin. he was joking about the derek thing
@@derrickrivera4630 I knew he was joking! Haha
I SWEAR TO GOD ERIK LOOKS LIKE A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON IN EVERY EPISODE
LMAO IKR
I was thinking that too
PLEASE HE LITERALLY DOES
All of his many looks are so handsome!!
he looks hot in this
I agree that the adult diaper stigma shouldn't be a thing..but, as a nurse, peeing in a diaper and continuing to wear it can cause UTIs, so use cautiously! :)
As a RN who cares for geriatric pts, if DEFINITELY DOES NOT CAUSE UTI'S. The cause of UTI'S is because bacteria is in the urethra. Indwelling catheter poses WAY MORE if an issue, because insertion of the catheter can introduce bacteria in the blatter. Actually, adult briefs, as long that they are changed on a regular basis, at minimum 3 times a day, with proper peri care, they do not pose a problem with UTI, or skin breakdown.
@@carolynschumacher4362 Thanks for the info, Carolyn! I only meant if the brief wasn't getting changed regularly 👍
Shay Mitchel did it when she was pregnant and said it was life changing!! All props to you Colleen
I've seen comments say something about something called a pure wick? Is that a less risky version of a catheter? If so, that might be the best option?
Quinn Bailey you are so right! Because when I pee when I puke I get utis because I am to sick to even change and it’s barely anything and usually in the er waiting room forever and can’t change. Catheters haven’t given me utis though.
I feel like the boy will be shy and quiet like Erik and the girl will be spunky like her mama Colleen! Can’t wait for them to come🥰🥰
So true!!!
And Flynn is already a combination of both!
@@rachaelinneverland4295 ikr he's adorable!!
Imagine the girl will be like Erik and the boy like collen ! That's another guess
@@bilalbouarouro3930 I know! Omg I can't WAIT for them to come!
As someone who was pregnant and had pelvic girdle pain….. GIRL I FEEL YOU. Wear a diaper, do whatever you gotta do.
Everyone blow this up so Colleen sees it!
Totally agree
@@ambermullins2142 Same. It's not worth the pain for an easy easy solution.
^
Yes Colleen will get to braid her daughter's hair.
Unless she’s like my wild girl who won’t let me touch her hair 😂
@@KatsObsession LMAO
Nobody:
Miranda doll: staring at the back of Erik’s head for a good 1 hour and 17 minutes👀
(And 46 seconds)
...at Patrick
reminds me of Jason (ofc the horror characters lmfao)
Ikr? I saw that at the beginning and thought it was quite unsettling. Lol
I'm jalouse of her his back must be gorgeous !
its so funny that they are talking about Colleen misspellings because yesterday I found a comment on one of her videos where someone called her Colon and I nearly died from laughter
My name is Connie and I am always amazed and tickled by the strange ways I have seen my name written.
haha yea xD. also I think sometimes when you write Colleen it auto corrects to Colon lol
Erik, those memories you're creating with Flynn of sitting in the driveway watching the garbage trucks are going to be so special for the both of you for the rest of your lives. It's too sweet.
I love how Colleen and Erik really compliment each other’s parenting styles. Colleen can’t do anything with bugs but Erik is so great with Flynn about that. And then Colleen is so good with Flynn when he starts talking about ghosts and Erik is like NOPE!!! It’s so great to know that their partnership is so strong and flexible together!
That's a great point! They collectively cover a lot of bases!
"We were hanging out. ... And then we were kinda cuddling... and that was like, that was pretty good."
HAHA. Aww cute.
Flynn and his brother and sister are going to have the absolute best childhoods that they won’t have to recover from later in life. They’ll look back and be so proud to have such incredible and loving parents. And honestly that’s the BEST gift you could give a kid ❤️
Well said. The breakdown of the nuclear family has been tragic for our society. Thankfully, couples like them exist AND have a following of younger people to be role models for❤️
Yes!! I love that you said this, and so well put!
When we ask about relationship details we don’t want dates and the general synopsis we want like a review of all the times he was featured in the videos and details of that Hawaii trip bc we experienced it but didn’t get all the details of behind the scenes of y’all in love lol
yesss
EXACTLY
Because she can’t discuss that, she wasn’t divorced yet.
Facts I remember watching those. Just wondering like where they were at in their relationship. Or how things went etc etc. Also I still laugh when i think about the obsession Erik had with wanting crash/ sneak into parties or weddings 😂😂
a she was divorced for more than a year at that point
Ugh, Erik looks so in love with Colleen this whole episode, I love the way he looks at her. I hope I find that..
I have a crush on him
51:50 Colleen is 100% talking about Gabbie Hanna
I though the same thing!
For sure!
Yep!
Oh oof that’s right. They did Escape the Night together 😬 and we all know how that went
The way you talked about diapers in the beginning was actually more awesome than you can even imagine. There is a HUGE stigma around incontinence, especially in adults, and you guys having such a non-judgemental and non-jokey conversation about that is basically disability advocacy!
Absolutely my thoughts!
On her most recent breakdown on the vlog channel she said how hard it was to see herself on the podcast while editing & I just wanted to say you look beautiful & you’re glowing.
“Should we talk about diva cups” ME TO LITERALLY ANYBODY WHO WILL LISTEN
Me too!
Yes!!
I... Couldn't get mine in.
@@sarahmccartney7701 Just keep trying! There are different folds you can try to make it more comfortable and there is definitely a learning curve! It gets easier once you are able to get it in the first time. Take a deep breath and relax (no podcast pun intended). If it doesn't work don't get too discouraged just try again and if you find its not for you that's okay too!
LOL me too
That was so cute, the little grin Erik did when Colleen said "If I ever have a daughter one day". They obviously knew when this was recorded and he couldn't help his happiness showing. Derek's such a happy daddy
Time stamp?
Erik has said my name so many times in the first 5 minutes that I've dissociated and no longer recognize my name. 😂😂😂
Erik and Colleen as a diaper wearer my whole life (Born with Spina Bifida) so I cannot control my bowel or bladder and the endless teasing that I got growing up I am glad I have two people who support the idea of taking the stigma out of it. THANK YOU! Which leads me to my next statement and sadly there is a maximum hold and eventually you will leak through them.
Wasn't this non-judgemental conversation just so refreshing!? I don't have incontinence issues myself but I'm aware of the huge stigma and it made me so happy to hear this conversation.
I was also born with Spina Bifida
*Bump check:*
Erik: Why is it so big now??
Colleen: Cause I’m having twins!!!
Erik: Ohhhhh!
When?
@@evahfolkner1401 1:05:44
*Erik and Colleen speaking over each other*
Erik: "Can you poop in them?"
Colleen: "Do you know how many holes I have?"
Goddamn they're perfect for each other
You mean Derik? Lol people should take the time to learn their names
@@lennondaffinrud309 Do you actually think his name is Derik or are you mocking the people who think his name is Derik??
@@itsme_savv28 it was my brother on my account but he was kidding trying to play along with eriks joke
I would love a podcast of Erik just telling his random stories in Hollywood
Boost!
Can we PLEASE get a biology quiz podcast one week?! That would be absolutely hilarious!!
"Ever lucky enough to have daughters" 🥺
and then Erik definitely trying not to show emotion and give it away 😂 I'm so excited to see them be incredible parents of twins and continue to be amazing parents to Flynn!!
Hah yeah! He had to pulm out all his acting knowledge in that moment! 😂
time stamp?
colleen in this orange shirt is giving me major velma vibes and i love it
Remember, “Derik” grew up with only brothers. Christopher and Trent would probably relate or just know more “ just girly things” because of growing up with Colleen and Rachel. 😀
This is true. And Christopher has Bailey. 💕
“If we’re ever lucky enough to have daughters…”
I’m not crying, you probably are 🥺
They are having one?
@@abbithie.d I know. That’s why it was cute to hear her say that.
They already knew.
@@abbyolivia maybe they filmed it before
@@mondrella627 They knew when it was 4th of July if you watched the video of her telling her family
The way that these two people foster an environment of comfort for Flynn to explore the things he loves and add him to their adult life is AMAZZINGGG
My husband has suffered from severe ulcerative colitis for 7 years. He has to wear diapers all the time in case he doesn't make it to the toilet. He has embraced it and it's saved him so many times. We are in our mid thirties raising 5 kids. No judgment here!! Wear them if it helps you.
My prediction for the babies names: Skylar “skye” Mae Stocklin and Forrest * whatever colleens grandpas name was * Stocklin
Yesterday I had this crazy vision that Colleen was going to name a kid Elise and then about an hour later she announced that she was having a girl and I don't even feel like Elise is a name that she would like or even that I've heard but it was weird lol
@@threegeese1040 If Colleen legit names her daughter Elise I'll freak out for you. But actually Flynn and Elise totally go well together; they have the same vibe I think.
@@threegeese1040 I am replying to this and liking it so if you get a reply or anyone replies to me I’ll be able to come back when the name reveal is out, or when they’re born and Colleen and Erik choose then, I am so intrigued whether your dream means anything or not
@@laurenwait164 lol I have weird visions like that often. Like there's this one road near my house that I imagine that I'm going to die on at this specific spot and so I avoid that road at all costs. It's really random but yeah
@@threegeese1040 wow!
I’m cackling already 😂😂😂😂 no judgment. Wear the diapers. 🥰
During postpartum I would be waddling to the bathroom at full speed and trying to make it to the toilet while holding my newborn because my ex was a sperm donor and not a parent. And I wouldn’t make it to the toilet and I would have to pee in the diaper because I could not hold the pee, and then I would have to replace the diaper. 🥰 just girly things 🥰🥰🎉🎉
I actually had that same experience as Erik with not wanting kids and not wanting to get married. I never wanted that either until I met my boyfriend and it surprised me. But he is my EX boyfriend now and I'm back to not wanting kids and marriage again. But I miss that feeling of being so crazy in love.
The way you guys look and stare at each other while the other is talking is so full of love & wonder I just can’t
Yes, I wish we all could have such a beautiful relationship as theirs!
I'm not even pregnant and I refuse to even attempt falling asleep unless I know without a shadow of a doubt that there is nothing in my bladder. I press on it several times to confirm. Then I feel relaxed enough to fall asleep. Colleen, wear diapers to bed proudly! I absolutely support you!
@Nicole Kendall lol :)
Ahahahahha i do that too i thought i was alone 😂😂 my bf said it was weird so i didn't bother talking about it lol ... but where else would this conversation happen than on here🤣
I have ADD, Narcolepsy, Depression, and Anxiety and the fact that I'm messy therefore our house is messy drives me husband crazy. And the guilt I feel from being a disorganized mess is horrible. I see you Colleen. 💜
My husband has ADD, and I have horrible anxiety/depression and chronic illness so the voice in my head that wants everything perfectly clean for me to relax but the fact my body won't let me do it sometimes, and his ADD paralysis and the fact that it doesn't bother him when shit is a mess doesn't mix well at all! But we find ways to make it work and he tries to help. It was a long road though.
I damn near cried when Erik said he takes fruit stickers off before putting them away. I love ya'll so much
Did anyone catch Erik’s car tattoos during Flynn’s truck of the day?😂
I’m living for Erik’s alter ego Derek, he should come around more often. 😂😂
Erik thinking Colleen was peeing and bleeding into a diaper an thinking we would throwing our phones out for her saying it was just for blood...
Literally everyone throwing their phones because Erik didn't know it was just for blood 😂
I'm ashamed Erik, very ashamed 😱 (jks)
I know! Relax Derick
"you got a good brain" BE RIGHT BACK IM BAWLING.... i love you together SOOO MUCH you two are so selfless towards eachother and I AM HERE FOR IT!! to be very honest i have thought to myself "Colleen let him talk" but i GENUINLY love that he lifts you up and tells you that he LOVES your ticks and little things. oh my heart is explosions in my chest... and Colleen.. your things you love about "Derik" LOL are so Intimate and kind, intentional and very thoughtful. i just love you both. gosh.. i have no more formable words
I need an “Erik” in my life- Colleen, he is the sweetest guy ever. You are so lucky! Oh and you guys are the cutest couple ever! I love you both so much!
I love how Erik has a new personality in each podcast
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They NEED to do a ghost experiences episode! Like this if you want so they can see this if you agree😭😭
They are soulmates, I swear! 😍 My heart swells watching them interact!
names for the two twins I think Colleen and Erik will like!:
Ginger Mae Ballinger/Stocklin( Mae for the family name)
Willow Gwen Ballinger/Stocklin( Gwen for Colleens mum)
Sailor Brook Ballinger/Stocklin (Brook for Eriks brother)
Forrest timothy ballinger/stocklin ( timothy for the family name)
PLLLEEEEASSSSEEEEEEE read this erik and colleen
willow and forest are cool, i wanted to name my future kids if they’re twins lake and forest
@@prodpootypootytangtang awwwww I like those two names together
shitty names
She went with Mae
Maisley Mae stocklin
Not the demonic Miranda in the background haunting me during the whole podcast 😭😭
i think it’s even more ironic that when Colleen was talking about how people can never spell her name right, the subtitles spelled her name “Choline”
Colleen : i wanna wear a diaper to bed, is that okay ?
Erik : let's wear a catheter!
I can’t get over how scary that life sized miranda in the background is
No shame in wearing diapers! just so you know. .. Shay Mitchell has also a pregnancy video where she literally explains that she wears diapers because she has to pee all the time. You do you!
Colleen caressing Erik’s beard 😂
I have been watching these Podcast for so long, it’s like the highlight of my weeks, and your vlogs this just feels like chill time yano?
I have a question about acting for Erik. In Lucifer, you were in a body cast for a scene. How was that look accomplished? Was it like the top of a cast they laid on you? How long did you have to be in that get up? Was it uncomfortable? Explain this experience.
I need to know too!
more importantly, how was it like working with THE wonderful tom ellis
My favorite thing Colleen’s ever said is voluntary diapers 😂 They’re literally being cute talking about wearing diapers together 🤣🤣
I love how they support each other in the things other people would get annoyed by.
This was one of my favorite episodes!!! Love the diversity of topics and it had such a great flow!! Kept my attention!!
So.. on the topic of impulsivity 😅 as soon as I saw Erik’s sweatshirt I googled “champion plants crewneck” and bought it immediately
Since my back surgery I have had to wear Depends and as a 24 year old its super embarrassing! I really appreciate you guys talking about and normalizing adult diapers. :)
The interrupting to not forget is SO relatable and I also still forget, its so frustrating
Girl, I understand the not wanting to get out of bed thing because literally with my twins my pelvic pain was SO bad I would be in excruciating pain having to just move my legs to the side of the bed to get up. And I totally understand the diaper thing. Nooo judgment at all. Lol However…I don’t see being able to do it lol. I’m not sure I could let myself pee in a diaper. Give it a try haha. I use diapers overnight for my period so I don’t have to get up and change my tampon so often because it can be heavy. No shame at all lol.
flynns speech is so good its so nice to see him grow and learn and become his own person
flynn singing the truck of the day theme was so good !! he's already singing in the correct key that's crazy
I loved this episode! It was so chill and they were so nice and great at complimenting each other! This is definitely one of my favorites!
As someone who had severe pelvic girdle pain with both of my pregnancies beginning my first trimesters. I am fully on board. DO IT! I never have peed in a diaper as an adult. However, I want to know how this goes!
I'd love a whole episode about your ghost stories! It's always been such a fascinating topic to me.
I’d love to hear on a podcast about some of Erik’s TV guest appearances! Especially Bones, it’s my favorite show and I love the cast and want to know if they were cool or not
Lol when they were talking about Starbucks writing colleens name wrong when she pronounces her name the way SHE pronounces it the subtitles spelled it CHOLINE😅
I love the whole podcast, but I really come for truck of the day. Seriously, cutest 3 minutes of my week. So thank you for this!
"...if we're ever lucky enough to have daughters."
Well, I've got good news for you.
Time stamp??
This episode turned into Colleen pointing out that she is a weirdo and that Erik loves her for it. 😂💜
And the interruption thing is the same for me. I can’t stop. I try.
But for you guys it works! Erik can’t finish a sentence so Colleen does it for him. 😂💜
7:35 is the magical moment in this podcast 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve rewatched it four times. Bye bye phones out the car window!
i'm pregnant and can't take my ADHD meds either so I FEEEEL your pain colleen. it's the worst.
This has to be one of my top favorite episodes yet!! More like it plzzz!! Each one gets better & better!! Much luv to u guys 💜
Christopher is such a good editor, I died when he added the bump check then the fanfare noise 😂
I love how Erik was trolling colleen at first and she didn't realize
Having truck of the day again nearly made me emotional 😅💕 I love hearing him talk about things he likes; it’s a great healing experience for me during this crazy tough time in the world
i love they’re conversations and how in depth they go with whatever topic there talking about.
I love how they get closer whenever Colleen is pregnant and I love it
OMG thank y’all so much for talking about ADHD and relationships. I have the same inner dialogue when my partner talks to me. The embarrassment of having to ask him to repeat something he said five seconds ago is SO real. I thought I was the only one! The taking the plate and learning to like cleaning…my partner does the same thing. THANK YOU for having an amazingly open and honest dialogue about it. This made me feel less alone and helped me understand how my partner navigates when it comes to my ADHD. Much love and thanks! PS- CONGRATULATIONS on the little ones on the way❤️
Colleen looks so radiant and more herself this weeks podcast which makes my heart so happy! 💜
you two were truly meant for each other, you have such a beautiful dynamic with each other
I watched this whole episode waiting to hear the ghost stories. Good thing I enjoy anything y’all put out 😂
Please make the paranormal episode next week.
19:30 the look on Erik's face when she says that 🥰🥰🥰
you guys look so great. I love colleen’s outfit, she’s glowing!
Taking him outside to watch the trash man come is the cutest thing ever!!
Coleen, this ramper looks so good on you! and it's very visually appealing that Erik wears this cool tone shirt, since orange and cool tones of blue and green harmonise with each other!
“Colleen anDerik” have a podcast - I can totally understand how people could hear “derik”😂
I never have but, now I'm going to pay more attention to the theme song. Are some people who listen to this that didn't know who they were previously?
@@emmaconnolly4681 maybe! i’ve stumbled across some podcasts and then realize they have a youtube and then start following them on YT. it could def be possible lol
The audacity of the youtube captions being like “Eric” 😂
Colleen and Erik, can you guys add the skip times for different segments again? You guys used to have them, but they don’t anymore. They’re really useful
I have ADHD and my husband does a great job helping me socially and emotionally. He learned early on like Erik said to not take things personally. I tend to interrupt people, not listen for more than 2 mins, and I hate that about me. I have stopped my meds because we have been trying for a baby for almost a year and I am worse now than I was for the first 5 years we were together. I think it's just important to be understanding towards one another, and I think that goes for any relationship.
Also, cannot relate more than "If I don't say the thought I have right now it is GONE FOREVER." Sammmeeee.
I feel like erik is more comfortable in front of the camera now which is great ❤️
I listen and love all the podcast episodes, but I think this one is one of my favorites. I really enjoyed listening about your relationship and Erik’s celebrity stories! Colleen was soo cute describing her favorite unique qualities of Erik that she loves 🥺🥰🥰
Loved this episode! You guys have the cutest and also realest relationship and it’s beautiful to witness!