Do not outshine the master.. I accidentally broke this rule a few times.. Until I read the book had no answers on the corporate issues i had.. I didn't even know it was possible to outdo someone. I knew very little about ego and insecurities outside of dating.. I thought money n power meant i could never b a threat to people above me.. I didn't know anything about corporate games or politics.
My entire life ive been trying to explain to ppl that i feel first then thoughts arise out of that feeling state. Most people have argued that no the opposite is true. Thoughts create feelings. Its nice to finally hear someone validate what ive always known to be true.
My nephew is 20 and he is suffering from lack of confidence, social awkwardness so much that he is maximum stressed. I am praying for him. Sending him this video just to give him something to shake his mindset. 🙏🏼
I've had same situation with my friend. Instead of sending him videos do something for him. I took my friend to judo class, we signed for 2 lessons to try, I went with him and he stayed there and he is still training. Now I see that he is changing and gaining self believe. Sometimes people have to get pushed a bit in the right direction by someone
There are people out there who will try to get under your skin and won’t stop till they do. My advice to younger people is become financially free, don’t get sucked into consumerism. Financial freedom will give you real freedom.
@@milekrizmanno - you become financially free to have time to DO what you want and cover the basics of survival. Buying stuff is not the point. Having the time that belongs to you is.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
"I can completely relate to what you said about stroke recovery. Every day, I remind myself that what I couldn't do yesterday, I can do today, and tomorrow will be even better. I tell myself that I'm stronger than I was yesterday. I've promised myself that I won't give up, and now I feel like I'm almost fully healed. Recovery is a journey, and every small step forward is a victory."
Robert Greene expresses himself so clearly and it makes it very easy to follow. A lot of these emotions aren’t super easy to describe but he adds so much color to them. Love how he communicates
OMG it took me seven years to recover from a stroke....i lost everything house job and the ability to care of my child...starting over is the beginning of my blessings.
God bless you in your recovery. Your child is more important than every material thing you lost. You'll get that back. You are showing your child the most important lesson in the world; how to make a comeback when the unexpected happens. That lesson will get passed down through the generations. It's valuable. You get bonus points if you do it with flair. ;) Research shows that children growing up in household where there is a disabling condition develop responsibility and compassion. Keep your eye on the ball. Slow and steady wins the race. You are ok.
@@lmiller1413 i hear that constantly and know how to prevent the damage. HME DHI this is too much!! At the jails prisons nursing homes orphanages homeless shelters domestic violence shelters refugee camps behavioral hospitals rehabilitation hospitals pick up everybody and remodel all that!! Here's WHY and how Hello, we're offering our assistance and requesting assistance likewise in all regards; My name is Keely Ethel Dara (Hancock Felker Evans Johnson) my brother's is Gavin Royce Felker. thank you for your service to the community everyone needs a raise!! Judicial Notice must be taken of our December 28th 2020 filing at the 12th Judicial District Court in ALAMOGORDO NM the United States Patriot Act the United Nations Charter the NATO alliance the US Constitution and Declaration of Independence. (Reporting this case on repeat while laughing about it's nothing to kill all these people is insane, we have to provide preventitive care!!) The clients don't understand money still wheelchairs and patient lifts manufacturing distributing recycling hangers in every location G.O.D. units with 1500 clients and 6500 staff and our families plus extra rooms for children and adults in each; And that's exactly why we don't need to re-qualify for Medicaid or anything after we already got born, you don't need to qualify again, and again, and again, and again, for clean air and water food healthcare education travel freedom from malicious undue prosecution for extortion from every source including shelter and $2,000 per week per person for product testing and development enforcement of codes upgrades at all abandoned buildings into wheelchair accessible living facilities with aquaponic production lines of organic produce and industry the 50k things we can make from the sticks and stems from cannabis soldiers pick up prisoners civilian law enforcement pick up people in need distribute goods and services door to door throughout the community especially the farms ranches construction sites fisheries provide housekeeping groundskeeping maintenance personnel caregivers cosmologists therapists primary care physicians dentists and manufacturer recall of alcohol tobacco firearms high fructose corn syrup unhealthy frying fats pesticides and pollution from the market with replacement in the hydroelectric fuel cell recycling centers and septic tanks avocado oil agave cannabis tea with honey. Please forward this information in search of additional questions and answers. Thanks again! I can be reached at 1-575-312-7097 however my number is 1-575-437-0122 and my brother's is 1-575-439-7973 except for the extortion we're suffering malicious obstruction of justice and malicious undue prosecution for extortion. My brother is deaf he doesn't read or write in English. Nam Myoho Renge Kyo Blessings be to All ah AMEN Shabbat Shalom and Happy Sunday everyone praise Jesus Christ he already died for US!!1500
Being loved and supported is the foundation for the ability to do anything. Belief in others is key. We need to support eachother. Bottom line. Individually, were dead. We are a reflection of eachother. We are the only species that hurts each other on purpose. Why? Were turning into machines. Hybrids. Divide and conquer. The answer is get outta your head get into you heart. We need eachother. And always will. If you ignore other peoples emotions you perpetuate. Be careful what information you put out. Trust loyalty is everything
I absolutely love Robert Greene--I love his honesty, his simplistic way of explaining things, his ability to project onto others a positive belief system. I love that he looks like an average guy. I love how human he is. He's really amazing. I love listening to him speak.
💜Wow, I'm telling you ,, Please read my reaction. I'm here , in the present , and wanting to absorb knowledge with brilliant minds. Then, alone,, as I cry to myself about my situation up to now and realizing I have to move on after my husband died. (no pity please, I'm not weak) I can't help if I have emotions. I just know, that every time I listen to this man's words,,, your words , and a few other men I follow, it penetrates into the core of me,,, And reality of it all. With all that's gone on up to now in my own life,now 63yrs , I have to say I so much appreciate both of you!! Thank you! I truly need this from wise, strong in thought and mind from Men in my life. Thank you so much!!!
Good men are priceless. Good men come in many forms in our lives. Not just partners. They are knowledgeable, safe, comforting, and encouraging. No pity here. Enjoy the comfort that comes from knowledgeable people who can help.
it's sad that society is set up to make us all feel miserable and influences us to be obsessed with wealth profit and materialism instead of teaching ppl that true wealth begins with self improvement so in that sense im very grateful to come across educational videos like this.
Thank you for giving me life again Robert . I have been in a dark place since losing my husband suddenly and then my mother. You have given me motivation to live again.
Every year of my life the past 20 years i remember feeling how old I look. Now every time I look at pictures of myself a year ago i looked younger! Enjoy every day. Its the youngest you will ever be and the oldest you've ever been!
God bless you Mr Greene. My father had a stroke, progress was so so slow. It took him eight years… he really struggled with depression, I think a sense of grief and loss.. But you sound like you’re doing well, it’s inspiring, remember you’re changing lives with your incredible books!!! Thank you for your amazing contributions… all your hard work ✨☀️✨🙏🏻✨❤️✨
Mr. Greene is such an exquisite soul and genius. There is no one else who gives me such brain candy. I had no idea he had a stroke, my heart goes out to him. I love him so much. He is one of my modern heroes.
1:04:49 so true. You would be surprised how many beautiful girls are jealous of other beautiful girls when them themselves are also beautiful. If they dress or style themselves very well... the admiration is there. It should not turn into envy. It's such a waste of energy and time, especially when you realize you yourself are just as special as well. We all have something to work on. Just focus your valuable energy on getting yourself better and having the life you admire. You won't have time to envy nor judge. If you do, you have more to do on self work.
Agreed. I literally wake up with a Robert Greene interview and end my night with another. Constantly listen to his audiobooks as well. Obsessed is an understatement 😅
He's quite an inspiration. He truly expand our perspectives of things,places and people.He hasn't got the right acceptance from our Corporate ruled world of greed, Narcissism and distortion of our beliefs, thoughts and attitudes towards others or the humanity at large.I truly adore this man.
I usually don't leave comments... But I have to put this out there; the reason I love Tom's interviews is that he is willing to get vulnerable and be put on the spot Look how Robert is now dissecting Tom's insecurities on screen and he is fearless sharing it with me. Thank you Tom. You make content like no other ...
Very good information, I didn't talk to people until I was 10. I definitely observed everyone and everything when I was a child. Non verbal communication is very deep and has impacted the way I react and communicate with people today. It is a blessing I didn't talk before I was 10 years old. It has shown me things I know I wouldn't have.
Robert Green is so correct about not knowing ourselves and being mystery to ourselves, but also our anger coming from deep within us from way back in our childhoods. I often asked myself why am I so angry or sensitive about what someone says? Often I realized that it has little to do with what someone says but rather with the wounds I have experienced as a child and I am working through to heal. People say very cruel and horrible things in anger designed to inflict harm and pain. I get triggered by those hurtful and cruel words because of my unhealed wounds. Over time when I am healed more whatever someone says won’t be able to hurt me anymore.Sometimes I wish people are not so selfish or inconsiderate and other times I see how my desire to want others to be different from what they are makes me suffer because majority of people who are abusive and selfish etc are people who are absolutely unaware of their behavior or how it impacts others around them. As I am certain I am also not aware of how my behavior impacts others at times as well even if I put greater effort into making sure that I am careful , caring, and understanding ultimately I am flawed human being just like everyone else. Of course I make sure I am aware of myself and my actions but it’s been very difficult to understand how to process my emotions and feelings.
Judith Herman writes about trauma, as does her friend van der Kolk. To read about the treatment of the worst traumas that can happen is very useful, for me at least. Both are so compassionate.
Nice and great comment. Only one thing can save us from our Daemon and from deep pain when hurt too much by life and others: work, dedicating us to a project, work again, and keep on progressing, and working again. For one goal, be better and surrounding ourselves from better people for a better life and lifestyle ... and beware of the narcissists. Very dangerous
I think it can be beneficial to look inwards and effect change that way, but in my experience, sometimes you just have to find better people to be with, or take a job with less human interaction. If you spend too much time trying to fit yourself around people, you'll end up bent out of shape! Some people and places are better avoided!
To believe that you can believe...believe affects us all like gravity, either you control your believe and it works in your favor or you believe becomes an impediment and becomes the foundation of all of your limitations, watching this podcast for the 30th time and everything is beginning to make sense...seek believe, understanding, control and you have power
Stand in awe of talent. Natural gifts. Both of you, self effacing, but in the harmony of this discussion brings joy and understanding. Like each musician in a legend Grateful Dead concert, 1977-78 era. When I went to a trial simulation conference in Colorado 10 years ago at NITA, there were the most brilliant minds. Masters. But each in their own way pulled energy from hitting on their own, unique greatest gifts.
oh my bro I feel for u Robert heard it in ur voice saw it in ur eyes,,,,,just know this my friend u have changed my life and I'm sure heaps of others past present and future I appreciate u Robert thank you
Most everything, thus far and excited to hear the rest of this video; learned that self awareness is something required before anyone there is realization, reflection and introspection. I’m 52 and love that I can still learn life.
You are one of the most inspiring people I have ever met, you are as real as can be and it's hard to find words to say how much I appreciate your work. it's amazing
Wow. I love listening to these gentlemen talk. I can only imagine how frustrating it is to lose some of your basic physical functions like your hands. Heck, I've had to slow down my cardio at the gym because if I don't, I get a tachicardia attack, where my heart goes from 130 bpm to 176 all at once, and just that is frustrating. I'm 48 now, so I have stress from my physical job and not getting enough sleep. So I can't do intense cardio like I like.
Everything is my fault . That’s what I say and preach . You always have the choice to act a certain way and then what follows next is direct result from your choices in life. That’s an amazing way to not be the victim all the time and take some initiative in your life. Life will throw challenges at you and it’s how you react to those challenges is what gives you the result
I like to see the world as a complex video game with certain fixed actions/reactions, and I'm the protagonist--like Mario--navigating it. Yelling at the Goombas, wishing they'd move differently, or wishing they wouldn't kill me won't change the fact that they killed me. It was from my actions that led to the Goomba Goomba-ing in the way they Goomba to kill me; it was my fault. The world is going to operate just as it will operate, and you can only control how you react as you navigate it. Dwelling on how things aught to be is a recipe for frustration and a deep sense of hopelessness.
Just love these two, sir Robert Greene is such a genius when it comes to revealing Harsh yet reality of human Nature, and Tom is such a fascinating guy when it comes to processing and asking the right questions ✨❤️, there's is so much I've learnt in this 3 hour video. So fascinating and amazing.
great and respectfull interviewer. 👍💐 lets person speak, listens, does not rush, explains why he asks a question when person needs explanation and asks wise questions.
"everything is my fault" attitude can be very self-destructive if you're not careful. Also, it can instill a false sense of total control of the outcome or that your part in anything has a much bigger impact on the scenario than it actually has. Personally, I've had to learn to apply the opposite mantra "I've done what I can the rest is up to the other person" because I don't know how much sleep I've lost in my life due to overthinking things I could have done differently.
"My life is an exact reflection of choices that I've made" yeah sure, maybe helps some people sleep at night thinking like this but remember that people don't choose to become severely ill for example. Diseases don't care about your "ownership" of choices. No one has the exact same options when it comes to choices in everyday life, there are many boundaries depending on your resources and your health for example. Some people just have to do with trying their best with what they have in that moment and leave it at that.
What I'm trying to say is that this attitude that if you want to be different you make different choices is flawed. Sometimes the change we yearn is outside our control due to limitations such as health, or money for the matter. What's easy to change for some people may be near impossible for others for complex reasons.
Was any abused child asking for the abuser who did that to them? I'm reading a book by a woman who treated Holocaust survivors. You know where I'm going with fault here . . .
Copy of my OP in another thread: "Everything is my fault?" LOL, that's the ultimate megalomania. Suppose you are a passenger in a car and out of the blue, you are broadsided by a drunk driver. Broad daylight, your driver is perfectly sober and has never been in a crash. Is it your fault? No, but rehab (and a fat lawsuit to pay for it) --- 100% your responsibility. You think you'll win if you tell the drunk's lawyer that it was your fault? Or that you'll make better progress in your rehab by blaming yourself? So twisted!
2024. I would like to express something profound, but language is so imperfect that it fails to convey the emotions I wish to communicate. This is why nonverbal cues, which are difficult to capture in written comments, are essential. You speak of such simple things, which, due to humanity's forgetfulness, have now become treasures. Gentlemen, you have touched upon the topic of Erickson. Observation is the foundation of science and development. Through observation, one can read emotions from human behavior-emotions that people often try to conceal with spoken words. Since childhood, I have enjoyed watching people, observing them to the point where it became an intuitive part of my instinct for self-preservation-so mature that I not only see but also "feel" various emotional states of others, as well as their attempts at manipulation, whether conscious or unconscious. This is a fascinating superpower of humans because if our ancestors had not learned to harness fire by observing how others did it, they would not have passed that knowledge down to future generations.
I did a personality type test and found out i am an infp personality type like greene here and this really helped me imrpove myself and unlock the source to a lot of issues and questions. Just remember to think of it as a guide and not literally as personality tests arent 100 percent. But also books like Robert greene, carl jungs works, and videos on typology and psychology or self care videos really helped me discover a lot about myself i knew but didnt know why.
I am still getting things back from my stroke after 10 years. I can do things now that I never dreamed that I would be able to do again. There is always hope after a stroke, it just takes orders of magnitude longer than you think. Hang in there!
Thanks for your encouragement! I had a stroke two years ago where I had to relearn to my abc’s, count, write, and read again. It’s humbling as a lawyer to start over, but I’m having trouble with changing my stories about my patterns in recovery.
I love Griffith Park!!! I miss a lot about Cali!!There is so much to do and go to the REDWOODS, Santa Barbra, Hunting Beach, Malibu driving PCH😮😢❤😊I miss all the ethnic food. There used to be a restaurant called me in over the seventh ray and it was Topanga Canyon on this whiny road absolutely gorgeous and it felt magical
This discussion is clear that we talk more then we know how to listen, thinking is the abstract process of what the Will can do not a fundamental bases of the only way to do a thing. Expression start in the womb, most people feel disconnected, and lost because growing in an environment that foresters limited ideas cripples expectation to be formula.
He’s the type of guy who might be an absent father (due to the his work) but he would certainly become the best Grandfather in the entire world. His grandkids would look at him , like a real life Jedi
This was excellent time spent. Many times I lose hours listening to idiots on UA-cam and by time I realize it’s too late!! Well done this guy was great and you are good interviewer
And there it was :- Kurt Cobain said it 30 years ago - ......" find my nest of salt everything is my fault " I am going to keep this interview for all time ...and tho' I cannot afford it make it my priority to go out and buy this book, ASAP
O my god Robert became my new master, love you guys so much!!!! Thank you Tom for that video!!! I want cry from the happiness what kind knowledge I could heard here… I N C R E D I B L E ! ! ! !. We are mirycle please believe in that!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
After spending 2 years in prison , I became very observant of my behaviors and the other around inside. On the outside when I got out, I realize how unobservant most ppl are …
Wow I had no idea he was going through so much. I was surprised to hear him speak about it like he did but as humans I get it. I wonder if he has tried past life regression. Its supposedly heals anything. It’s all in our mind and the way we feel about it. There is a reason he is ordered to do this book it’s all he has to really focus on to feel better. I really adore this man. Listening to him is soothing and all his words flow into beautiful sense. I have taken so much for granted.. I know this feeling, like why was I so unhappy look at all I had.
I think we would get along quite well!😂 I agree on where one has to start and find the right way... Just unsure about your time ideas.. ideally the awareness would come quite early ?! twenties?! But I only start...far later....😅
31:55 The origin of wisdom According to the Greeks is to "know thy self " 😔 👇🏻 Socrates didn't come up with "man, know thyself " Too many claim he's the father of philosophy, but to the ancient Egyptians he was just a student. One that stole writings, teachings and made it his own. Luxor temple was constructed in 1400 bce which has the inscription " Man, know thy self" Luxor temple (1400 BCE) Socrates dies (399 BCE) According to a proposal by De Lubicz and Lamy (1956), the Greek aphorism may have been adopted from Ancient Egypt: there are two parts of the ancient Luxor Temple, the External Temple, where the beginners were allowed to enter and the Internal Temple where a person was only allowed to enter after proven worthy and ready to acquire more knowledge and insights. One of the proverbs of the External Temple is "The body is the house of God." In the Internal Temple, one of the many proverbs is "Man, know thyself, and you are going to know the gods".
I wasn't wary enough. I was too adventurous and trusted people. After so many disappointments I'm now in my 70's and dealing with a lot of crap brought about by not seeing how evil others are. It's my own fault and I'm too old to fix it
I try my best to not allow anything to dictate the present but I am human so thoughts will happen all I can do is allow those thoughts to happen to help with my present I try not to focus on the future but I still do
I have those same abilities, I knew a friend was coming around the corner before he even came around the corner. And many other seemingly extra sensory experiences.
Robert Greene is talking about life skills in the best way I know. I wrote a book about the same called Your Hidden Power. If impact Theory can help me meet with him it will be a miracle. Can u make this happen Mr Bileyu
Perhaps you are right and there literally could be something wrong with the people we are dealing with but in the end we gotta accept the fact we can't change other people but we can only change and control our attitude.
You are so right .and sometimes you froced to deal with wrong or bad people .life has tough choices .no matter how wisely you choose you can end up with wrong choice
Which of the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is your favorite? Why?
Do not outshine the master..
I accidentally broke this rule a few times..
Until I read the book had no answers on the corporate issues i had..
I didn't even know it was possible to outdo someone.
I knew very little about ego and insecurities outside of dating..
I thought money n power meant i could never b a threat to people above me..
I didn't know anything about corporate games or politics.
Never appear to perfect
Don't say more than necessary
Enter action with boldness
Play the perfect courtier
@@kingzion6636 *Always say less than necessary
My entire life ive been trying to explain to ppl that i feel first then thoughts arise out of that feeling state. Most people have argued that no the opposite is true. Thoughts create feelings. Its nice to finally hear someone validate what ive always known to be true.
@@allinthemind2006 I've always felt the same way
My nephew is 20 and he is suffering from lack of confidence, social awkwardness so much that he is maximum stressed. I am praying for him. Sending him this video just to give him something to shake his mindset. 🙏🏼
I've had same situation with my friend.
Instead of sending him videos do something for him.
I took my friend to judo class, we signed for 2 lessons to try, I went with him and he stayed there and he is still training. Now I see that he is changing and gaining self believe.
Sometimes people have to get pushed a bit in the right direction by someone
@@emate8422 yeah I do stuff with him too. We live very far away so I try to bring him here in summer for some time. Great suggestion. Yes.
Robert Greene is such a wonderful human being.
There are people out there who will try to get under your skin and won’t stop till they do. My advice to younger people is become financially free, don’t get sucked into consumerism. Financial freedom will give you real freedom.
Good advice
You become financialy free to buy goods
😮😢😅
Kids will rob you blind.
@@milekrizmanno - you become financially free to have time to DO what you want and cover the basics of survival. Buying stuff is not the point. Having the time that belongs to you is.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
I miss her
UA-cam is now “the media” selling us all the answers
@@2flyty Become the person that will be missed
You're preaching ro the choir, dwell constantly daily, it's become a part of my being, gotta kick that habit
Thank u for this message
"I can completely relate to what you said about stroke recovery. Every day, I remind myself that what I couldn't do yesterday, I can do today, and tomorrow will be even better. I tell myself that I'm stronger than I was yesterday. I've promised myself that I won't give up, and now I feel like I'm almost fully healed. Recovery is a journey, and every small step forward is a victory."
🙏🙏👏👏👏
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Robert Greene expresses himself so clearly and it makes it very easy to follow. A lot of these emotions aren’t super easy to describe but he adds so much color to them. Love how he communicates
Love Robert Greene. So grateful to him for sharing his immense wisdom
OMG it took me seven years to recover from a stroke....i lost everything house job and the ability to care of my child...starting over is the beginning of my blessings.
God bless you in your recovery. Your child is more important than every material thing you lost. You'll get that back. You are showing your child the most important lesson in the world; how to make a comeback when the unexpected happens. That lesson will get passed down through the generations. It's valuable. You get bonus points if you do it with flair. ;)
Research shows that children growing up in household where there is a disabling condition develop responsibility and compassion. Keep your eye on the ball. Slow and steady wins the race. You are ok.
@@lmiller1413 i hear that constantly and know how to prevent the damage. HME DHI this is too much!! At the jails prisons nursing homes orphanages homeless shelters domestic violence shelters refugee camps behavioral hospitals rehabilitation hospitals pick up everybody and remodel all that!! Here's WHY and how
Hello, we're offering our assistance and requesting assistance likewise in all regards; My name is Keely Ethel Dara (Hancock Felker Evans Johnson) my brother's is Gavin Royce Felker. thank you for your service to the community everyone needs a raise!! Judicial Notice must be taken of our December 28th 2020 filing at the 12th Judicial District Court in ALAMOGORDO NM the United States Patriot Act the United Nations Charter the NATO alliance the US Constitution and Declaration of Independence. (Reporting this case on repeat while laughing about it's nothing to kill all these people is insane, we have to provide preventitive care!!) The clients don't understand money still wheelchairs and patient lifts manufacturing distributing recycling hangers in every location G.O.D. units with 1500 clients and 6500 staff and our families plus extra rooms for children and adults in each; And that's exactly why we don't need to re-qualify for Medicaid or anything after we already got born, you don't need to qualify again, and again, and again, and again, for clean air and water food healthcare education travel freedom from malicious undue prosecution for extortion from every source including shelter and $2,000 per week per person for product testing and development enforcement of codes upgrades at all abandoned buildings into wheelchair accessible living facilities with aquaponic production lines of organic produce and industry the 50k things we can make from the sticks and stems from cannabis soldiers pick up prisoners civilian law enforcement pick up people in need distribute goods and services door to door throughout the community especially the farms ranches construction sites fisheries provide housekeeping groundskeeping maintenance personnel caregivers cosmologists therapists primary care physicians dentists and manufacturer recall of alcohol tobacco firearms high fructose corn syrup unhealthy frying fats pesticides and pollution from the market with replacement in the hydroelectric fuel cell recycling centers and septic tanks avocado oil agave cannabis tea with honey.
Please forward this information in search of additional questions and answers. Thanks again!
I can be reached at 1-575-312-7097 however my number is 1-575-437-0122 and my brother's is 1-575-439-7973 except for the extortion we're suffering malicious obstruction of justice and malicious undue prosecution for extortion. My brother is deaf he doesn't read or write in English.
Nam Myoho Renge Kyo Blessings be to All ah AMEN
Shabbat Shalom and Happy Sunday everyone praise Jesus Christ he already died for US!!1500
God bless you! There is hope, I keep telling my friend! 🙏🏽
I'm praying and routing for you!!!
@@michellegardner6573 likewise!!
I love Robert Green. He freely gives his wisdom and time to help humans
Being loved and supported is the foundation for the ability to do anything. Belief in others is key. We need to support eachother. Bottom line. Individually, were dead. We are a reflection of eachother. We are the only species that hurts each other on purpose. Why? Were turning into machines. Hybrids. Divide and conquer. The answer is get outta your head get into you heart. We need eachother. And always will. If you ignore other peoples emotions you perpetuate. Be careful what information you put out. Trust loyalty is everything
I absolutely love Robert Greene--I love his honesty, his simplistic way of explaining things, his ability to project onto others a positive belief system. I love that he looks like an average guy. I love how human he is. He's really amazing. I love listening to him speak.
💜Wow,
I'm telling you ,,
Please read my reaction.
I'm here , in the present , and wanting to absorb knowledge with brilliant minds. Then, alone,, as I cry to myself about my situation up to now and realizing
I have to move on after my husband died.
(no pity please,
I'm not weak)
I can't help if I have emotions.
I just know, that every time I listen to this man's words,,, your words , and a few other men I follow,
it penetrates into the core of me,,,
And reality of it all.
With all that's gone on up to now in my own life,now 63yrs ,
I have to say I so much appreciate both of you!!
Thank you!
I truly need this from wise, strong in thought and mind from Men in my life.
Thank you so much!!!
Good men are priceless. Good men come in many forms in our lives. Not just partners. They are knowledgeable, safe, comforting, and encouraging. No pity here. Enjoy the comfort that comes from knowledgeable people who can help.
Aww…. Robert makes me feel horny, too! ❤️
it's sad that society is set up to make us all feel miserable and influences us to be obsessed with wealth profit and materialism instead of teaching ppl that true wealth begins with self improvement so in that sense im very grateful to come across educational videos like this.
Thank you for giving me life again Robert . I have been in a dark place since losing my husband suddenly and then my mother. You have given me motivation to live again.
Every year of my life the past 20 years i remember feeling how old I look. Now every time I look at pictures of myself a year ago i looked younger! Enjoy every day. Its the youngest you will ever be and the oldest you've ever been!
My favourite author, inspired my mantra ‘discipline is the door, consistency is the key, success is self mastery’
Great title caught my eye
The source of your power is your attitude! I love it!
Truer words have never been spoken.
God bless you Mr Greene. My father had a stroke, progress was so so slow. It took him eight years… he really struggled with depression, I think a sense of grief and loss.. But you sound like you’re doing well, it’s inspiring, remember you’re changing lives with your incredible books!!! Thank you for your amazing contributions… all your hard work ✨☀️✨🙏🏻✨❤️✨
"Understand the reality " is the best part
Great author, great storyteller, and on point. I love Robert Green, he is the world's alpha nerd ❤
Seems very down to earth ❤
Alpha nerd😅
Alpha nerd ? Help
Mr. Greene is such an exquisite soul and genius. There is no one else who gives me such brain candy. I had no idea he had a stroke, my heart goes out to him. I love him so much. He is one of my modern heroes.
thank you to this program,gave me good vibes to start my journey again....YOUNGS ARE YOU READY????
1:04:49 so true. You would be surprised how many beautiful girls are jealous of other beautiful girls when them themselves are also beautiful. If they dress or style themselves very well... the admiration is there. It should not turn into envy. It's such a waste of energy and time, especially when you realize you yourself are just as special as well. We all have something to work on. Just focus your valuable energy on getting yourself better and having the life you admire. You won't have time to envy nor judge. If you do, you have more to do on self work.
I'm really really a late bloomer! Love Robert Greene!
I can listen to this man talk for hours. The two together are amazing, so much insight back and forth. I can tell he likes Tom very much
Agreed. I literally wake up with a Robert Greene interview and end my night with another. Constantly listen to his audiobooks as well. Obsessed is an understatement 😅
CHERISH EVEREY MOMENT AFFORDED TO YOU. Its loads better than the regret.
All I can say is thank you Mr.Greene.
Robert green u must be very blessed I don't know wht to says ur books he really help me to know who I am thanks u so much ❤😊
Roberts attitude of changing his perspective on life is awe inspiring! Thank you for being who you are Robert!!!!
He's quite an inspiration. He truly expand our perspectives of things,places and people.He hasn't got the right acceptance from our Corporate ruled world of greed, Narcissism and distortion of our beliefs, thoughts and attitudes towards others or the humanity at large.I truly adore this man.
His humbleness is my lifetime goal ❤
I usually don't leave comments... But I have to put this out there; the reason I love Tom's interviews is that he is willing to get vulnerable and be put on the spot
Look how Robert is now dissecting Tom's insecurities on screen and he is fearless sharing it with me.
Thank you Tom.
You make content like no other ...
Very good information, I didn't talk to people until I was 10. I definitely observed everyone and everything when I was a child. Non verbal communication is very deep and has impacted the way I react and communicate with people today. It is a blessing I didn't talk before I was 10 years old. It has shown me things I know I wouldn't have.
Always change for the better , rise up , keep moving forward , in the end all the pain will become the most wonderful dream you can achieve!!
I had the same stroke at age 10. I was paralyzed for 12 years. I am still working on my book. I need motivation!
Wish you the best on your book
Robert Green is so correct about not knowing ourselves and being mystery to ourselves, but also our anger coming from deep within us from way back in our childhoods. I often asked myself why am I so angry or sensitive about what someone says? Often I realized that it has little to do with what someone says but rather with the wounds I have experienced as a child and I am working through to heal. People say very cruel and horrible things in anger designed to inflict harm and pain. I get triggered by those hurtful and cruel words because of my unhealed wounds. Over time when I am healed more whatever someone says won’t be able to hurt me anymore.Sometimes I wish people are not so selfish or inconsiderate and other times I see how my desire to want others to be different from what they are makes me suffer because majority of people who are abusive and selfish etc are people who are absolutely unaware of their behavior or how it impacts others around them. As I am certain I am also not aware of how my behavior impacts others at times as well even if I put greater effort into making sure that I am careful , caring, and understanding ultimately I am flawed human being just like everyone else. Of course I make sure I am aware of myself and my actions but it’s been very difficult to understand how to process my emotions and feelings.
Judith Herman writes about trauma, as does her friend van der Kolk. To read about the treatment of the worst traumas that can happen is very useful, for me at least. Both are so compassionate.
Nice and great comment. Only one thing can save us from our Daemon and from deep pain when hurt too much by life and others: work, dedicating us to a project, work again, and keep on progressing, and working again. For one goal, be better and surrounding ourselves from better people for a better life and lifestyle ... and beware of the narcissists. Very dangerous
@@l.w.paradis2108 Ooh I bought a book Called The Body keeps the score by Van Der Kolk..’ reading it now👌
I think it can be beneficial to look inwards and effect change that way, but in my experience, sometimes you just have to find better people to be with, or take a job with less human interaction. If you spend too much time trying to fit yourself around people, you'll end up bent out of shape! Some people and places are better avoided!
To believe that you can believe...believe affects us all like gravity, either you control your believe and it works in your favor or you believe becomes an impediment and becomes the foundation of all of your limitations, watching this podcast for the 30th time and everything is beginning to make sense...seek believe, understanding, control and you have power
O thank you so much.
I left a comment and you just raised the bar.
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It's just confusing to start again.
Stand in awe of talent. Natural gifts. Both of you, self effacing, but in the harmony of this discussion brings joy and understanding. Like each musician in a legend Grateful Dead concert, 1977-78 era.
When I went to a trial simulation conference in Colorado 10 years ago at NITA, there were the most brilliant minds. Masters. But each in their own way pulled energy from hitting on their own, unique greatest gifts.
Robert. My office is rooting for you. Stand in
oh my bro I feel for u Robert heard it in ur voice saw it in ur eyes,,,,,just know this my friend u have changed my life and I'm sure heaps of others past present and future I appreciate u Robert thank you
Most everything, thus far and excited to hear the rest of this video; learned that self awareness is something required before anyone there is realization, reflection and introspection. I’m 52 and love that I can still learn life.
You are one of the most inspiring people I have ever met, you are as real as can be and it's hard to find words to say how much I appreciate your work. it's amazing
Dear Tom,
It is a true blissing to have people like you.
Please keep up the great work.❤❤❤
Wow. I love listening to these gentlemen talk. I can only imagine how frustrating it is to lose some of your basic physical functions like your hands. Heck, I've had to slow down my cardio at the gym because if I don't, I get a tachicardia attack, where my heart goes from 130 bpm to 176 all at once, and just that is frustrating. I'm 48 now, so I have stress from my physical job and not getting enough sleep. So I can't do intense cardio like I like.
I appreciate Sir Robert Greene so much~ ❤️❤️🍵☺️☺️
Everything is my fault . That’s what I say and preach . You always have the choice to act a certain way and then what follows next is direct result from your choices in life. That’s an amazing way to not be the victim all the time and take some initiative in your life. Life will throw challenges at you and it’s how you react to those challenges is what gives you the result
I like to see the world as a complex video game with certain fixed actions/reactions, and I'm the protagonist--like Mario--navigating it. Yelling at the Goombas, wishing they'd move differently, or wishing they wouldn't kill me won't change the fact that they killed me. It was from my actions that led to the Goomba Goomba-ing in the way they Goomba to kill me; it was my fault. The world is going to operate just as it will operate, and you can only control how you react as you navigate it. Dwelling on how things aught to be is a recipe for frustration and a deep sense of hopelessness.
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@@jzen1455 That was well put, excellent example.
Bur you don’t need to be a ”winner” or master for havin a fine life,. Good enough is enough to me anyway❤️
Be patient
It's a process
Be compassionate with yourself
Detachment from immediate thoughts going on
Just love these two, sir Robert Greene is such a genius when it comes to revealing Harsh yet reality of human Nature, and Tom is such a fascinating guy when it comes to processing and asking the right questions ✨❤️, there's is so much I've learnt in this 3 hour video. So fascinating and amazing.
great and respectfull interviewer. 👍💐 lets person speak, listens, does not rush, explains why he asks a question when person needs explanation and asks wise questions.
So uplifting! I need to hear this today… timeless wisdom for all the ages
"everything is my fault" attitude can be very self-destructive if you're not careful. Also, it can instill a false sense of total control of the outcome or that your part in anything has a much bigger impact on the scenario than it actually has. Personally, I've had to learn to apply the opposite mantra "I've done what I can the rest is up to the other person" because I don't know how much sleep I've lost in my life due to overthinking things I could have done differently.
"My life is an exact reflection of choices that I've made" yeah sure, maybe helps some people sleep at night thinking like this but remember that people don't choose to become severely ill for example. Diseases don't care about your "ownership" of choices. No one has the exact same options when it comes to choices in everyday life, there are many boundaries depending on your resources and your health for example. Some people just have to do with trying their best with what they have in that moment and leave it at that.
What I'm trying to say is that this attitude that if you want to be different you make different choices is flawed. Sometimes the change we yearn is outside our control due to limitations such as health, or money for the matter. What's easy to change for some people may be near impossible for others for complex reasons.
You are totally right. Greene is agreeing with the host here. No idea why.
Was any abused child asking for the abuser who did that to them?
I'm reading a book by a woman who treated Holocaust survivors. You know where I'm going with fault here . . .
Copy of my OP in another thread:
"Everything is my fault?" LOL, that's the ultimate megalomania.
Suppose you are a passenger in a car and out of the blue, you are broadsided by a drunk driver. Broad daylight, your driver is perfectly sober and has never been in a crash. Is it your fault? No, but rehab (and a fat lawsuit to pay for it) --- 100% your responsibility.
You think you'll win if you tell the drunk's lawyer that it was your fault? Or that you'll make better progress in your rehab by blaming yourself? So twisted!
Imagine seeing the way all things are! Got to be a super power!
Mr green is full of knowledge I hop he get better
Well, that's entirely up to him. /s
To get good at something I feel it comes down to interest and it's impossible to fake interest
I literally know everything about my self and why I'm that way. Because I remember almost every memory for a baby lol.
2024.
I would like to express something profound, but language is so imperfect that it fails to convey the emotions I wish to communicate. This is why nonverbal cues, which are difficult to capture in written comments, are essential.
You speak of such simple things, which, due to humanity's forgetfulness, have now become treasures.
Gentlemen, you have touched upon the topic of Erickson. Observation is the foundation of science and development. Through observation, one can read emotions from human behavior-emotions that people often try to conceal with spoken words.
Since childhood, I have enjoyed watching people, observing them to the point where it became an intuitive part of my instinct for self-preservation-so mature that I not only see but also "feel" various emotional states of others, as well as their attempts at manipulation, whether conscious or unconscious.
This is a fascinating superpower of humans because if our ancestors had not learned to harness fire by observing how others did it, they would not have passed that knowledge down to future generations.
Wow, I love where this conversation is going.. I really like this guys talk.
My previous psychologist was a narcissist. She was so charming. He’s too right.
I did a personality type test and found out i am an infp personality type like greene here and this really helped me imrpove myself and unlock the source to a lot of issues and questions. Just remember to think of it as a guide and not literally as personality tests arent 100 percent. But also books like Robert greene, carl jungs works, and videos on typology and psychology or self care videos really helped me discover a lot about myself i knew but didnt know why.
Omg, I had a stroke too. Yoga and body building will help so much, seriously.
I am still getting things back from my stroke after 10 years. I can do things now that I never dreamed that I would be able to do again. There is always hope after a stroke, it just takes orders of magnitude longer than you think. Hang in there!
Thanks for your encouragement! I had a stroke two years ago where I had to relearn to my abc’s, count, write, and read again. It’s humbling as a lawyer to start over, but I’m having trouble with changing my stories about my patterns in recovery.
Change the diet to a ketogenic diet and intermittent fasting lifestyle!
Robert Green laid out a number of my patterns. From the abandonment, narcissistic mother-patterns to list a couple
Yup mothers live through their sons to an extent, because their the only man that they’ll be able to control
@@montgomeryscottys8213 😮 this is so sad
Robert G is like a walking master class
We all get out of bed equally, living in the past controls your future
Love Robert Green you are so clear unbelievably wise. Great great man and Teacher
I love Griffith Park!!! I miss a lot about Cali!!There is so much to do and go to the REDWOODS, Santa Barbra,
Hunting Beach, Malibu driving
PCH😮😢❤😊I miss all the ethnic food. There used to be a restaurant called me in over the seventh ray and it was Topanga Canyon on this whiny road absolutely gorgeous and it felt magical
I miss it too. I lived there in the late 90’s/early 2000’s. magical memories.
He articulates very well practical every day problems, in a deep way. Incorporating power elements in thinking and feeling
This discussion is clear that we talk more then we know how to listen, thinking is the abstract process of what the Will can do not a fundamental bases of the only way to do a thing. Expression start in the womb, most people feel disconnected, and lost because growing in an environment that foresters limited ideas cripples expectation to be formula.
He’s the type of guy who might be an absent father (due to the his work) but he would certainly become the best Grandfather in the entire world. His grandkids would look at him , like a real life Jedi
Thank you for this crucial reminder!
This was excellent time spent. Many times I lose hours listening to idiots on UA-cam and by time I realize it’s too late!! Well done this guy was great and you are good interviewer
And there it was :-
Kurt Cobain said it 30 years ago -
......" find my nest of salt
everything is my fault "
I am going to keep this interview for all time ...and tho' I cannot afford it make it my priority to go out and buy this book, ASAP
This man is amazing! Such an inspiration! I hope to meet him "ONE DAY". Been listening to his podcasts and watching his interviews.
O my god Robert became my new master, love you guys so much!!!! Thank you Tom for that video!!! I want cry from the happiness what kind knowledge I could heard here…
I N C R E D I B L E ! ! ! !. We are mirycle please believe in that!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow. I really enjoy this great guys. Thank you both!
Law No 1 is the most powerful
It always works
Enchantment, plenty of literature exists on this. Patrick Curry's work is a good start.
Really sad to hear about Greene’s severe illness. I hope he gets better soon.
Look at yourself instead of blaming others... And do not blame yourself as well...
I totally agree with you gents - Something bad or someone does bad, it is MY fault, I am the Captain of my own Ship!
That is my favourite saying but I do include that some times I need a few more lighthouse to help show me my way .. 😊...
Most people have lost all touch with reality… and that’s scary asl..
True, most people lost the correct way of spelling as well. “Asl”
@@sal1535 go evolve guy ✌🏾
@@sal1535 way to get offended
@sal1535 yea u tried 😂 asl = as hell
@@jacknjill7653 thought he was doing something now he looking lost on the World Wide Web lol
After spending 2 years in prison , I became very observant of my behaviors and the other around inside. On the outside when I got out, I realize how unobservant most ppl are …
Thanks for putting this together Tommy
Wow I had no idea he was going through so much. I was surprised to hear him speak about it like he did but as humans I get it. I wonder if he has tried past life regression. Its supposedly heals anything. It’s all in our mind and the way we feel about it. There is a reason he is ordered to do this book it’s all he has to really focus on to feel better. I really adore this man. Listening to him is soothing and all his words flow into beautiful sense. I have taken so much for granted.. I know this feeling, like why was I so unhappy look at all I had.
I think we would get along quite well!😂
I agree on where one has to start and find the right way...
Just unsure about your time ideas.. ideally the awareness would come quite early ?! twenties?! But I only start...far later....😅
This is such a profound talk, thank you for this
I love Robert Greene his books have helped me alot
Yessss I'm so thankful for this guy
Which one the most?
@@Mario_Life_Capitan 48 laws
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The origin of wisdom According to the Greeks is to "know thy self " 😔
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Socrates didn't come up with "man, know thyself " Too many claim he's the father of philosophy, but to the ancient Egyptians he was just a student. One that stole writings, teachings and made it his own.
Luxor temple was constructed in 1400 bce which has the inscription " Man, know thy self"
Luxor temple (1400 BCE)
Socrates dies (399 BCE)
According to a proposal by De Lubicz and Lamy (1956), the Greek aphorism may have been adopted from Ancient Egypt: there are two parts of the ancient Luxor Temple, the External Temple, where the beginners were allowed to enter and the Internal Temple where a person was only allowed to enter after proven worthy and ready to acquire more knowledge and insights. One of the proverbs of the External Temple is "The body is the house of God." In the Internal Temple, one of the many proverbs is "Man, know thyself, and you are going to know the gods".
I wasn't wary enough. I was too adventurous and trusted people. After so many disappointments I'm now in my 70's and dealing with a lot of crap brought about by not seeing how evil others are. It's my own fault and I'm too old to fix it
I was the same..i am 68 and working on fixing it everyday!!
Rob provides helpful perspectives! His content has changed my life
I try my best to not allow anything to dictate the present but I am human so thoughts will happen all I can do is allow those thoughts to happen to help with my present I try not to focus on the future but I still do
I can also choose not to give the words from others the value and power to make me react differently than I want to respond.
Great interview.
I have those same abilities, I knew a friend was coming around the corner before he even came around the corner. And many other seemingly extra sensory experiences.
Robert Greene is talking about life skills in the best way I know. I wrote a book about the same called Your Hidden Power. If impact Theory can help me meet with him it will be a miracle. Can u make this happen Mr Bileyu
I listened to the whole video
Beautiful conversation and ideas
Perhaps you are right and there literally could be something wrong with the people we are dealing with but in the end we gotta accept the fact we can't change other people but we can only change and control our attitude.
You are so right .and sometimes you froced to deal with wrong or bad people .life has tough choices .no matter how wisely you choose you can end up with wrong choice
Sheeeeesh 3 hours with two legends? Tuning in now🤞🏼 thank you Tom!!!