How To Identify A Trauma X Dr. Anita Phillips

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  • @khanyisantanda
    @khanyisantanda 2 роки тому +98

    Dr Anita is rapidly becoming my favorite person on the net, I'm South African and she is making me realize that some of the things we thought were normal growing up are in fact abuse and traumatic and they broke us, now we're broken adults

    • @Gugx
      @Gugx 2 роки тому

      Mkhaya 🇿🇦

    • @khanyisantanda
      @khanyisantanda 2 роки тому

      @@Gugx hey homie unjani 🤗

    • @ThisIsDDarnell
      @ThisIsDDarnell 2 роки тому +1

      Your DNA 🧬 isn’t your destiny!

    • @Gugx
      @Gugx 2 роки тому

      @@khanyisantanda Ngiyaphila, how are you?

    • @crystalfunderburk3504
      @crystalfunderburk3504 2 роки тому +1

      That's so true!

  • @AllThingsBeautywithMishkaPK
    @AllThingsBeautywithMishkaPK 2 роки тому +67

    Can't wait to start therapy this fall. I realized I have a lot of trauma that has followed me throughout life and it's something I need to address within

    • @e.n.g2034
      @e.n.g2034 2 роки тому +7

      Good for you!! Take care of yourself 🤗

    • @TorahChildofGod
      @TorahChildofGod 2 роки тому +3

      likewise!

    • @kitarozay9608
      @kitarozay9608 2 роки тому

      Same here God bless you💛💪🏽🫶🏽

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 2 роки тому +2

      GdE., Same here.

    • @aubrie_morgan
      @aubrie_morgan 2 роки тому +3

      Same here! I’m starting in a few weeks and looking forward to it 🙏🏽

  • @nickloshenderson6968
    @nickloshenderson6968 2 роки тому +46

    This is so good never have heard anybody break it down like that Lord deliver me and my son from generational trauma,traumatized and manipulation declaring decreeing by your holy blood my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ 🙏🏾

    • @decemberlotus
      @decemberlotus 2 роки тому

      What if you don't want to be the woman who keeps her son from his father?

    • @trladams78
      @trladams78 2 роки тому +2

      I pray this same prayer for my children and I, and ask to break the chains and curses of abuse, manipulation, and trauma In Jesus name, Amen🙏🏽🙌🏽💜💐 we will be healed, he died for us🙌🏽💐💐💐💝

    • @anitamorrison4238
      @anitamorrison4238 10 місяців тому

      I agree.

  • @angelagardener1234
    @angelagardener1234 Рік тому +2

    That's right Trauma ends when you end it and thats why it can be healed and you can move on over a period of time. God will also heal you if let him 🙏 Threapy was the blessing in disguise. Never underestimate the power of God through going to Threapy. Your body holds trapped energy and will stay in the body if its not allowed a healthy outlet which over time shows up as medical condition or worse a illness which can be life threatening. So if you have the chance to go to Threapy take God's hand and trust in him he knows how to heal your emotions and heart and the pictures in your head giving you new tools to use to rebuild your life. I am forever grateful 🙏

  • @Loralou4455
    @Loralou4455 2 роки тому +5

    Her podcast “in the light” has been my saving grace for over a year now. I thank God for Dr Anita

  • @LEM19284
    @LEM19284 2 роки тому +4

    Our DNA 🧬 is absolutely changed by trauma. I wasn’t my best self during my motherhood because of being emotionally turmoiled during those most precious years. My daughter learned both great things that makes her the awesome girl and young lady and wife and mother she is, but also she saw me broken, angry, frustrated, distracted, and unbalanced. Mom guilt is real. It seeps into your psyche and is the glue in trauma bond.

  • @queenofalltrades888
    @queenofalltrades888 2 роки тому +12

    My father dying when I was 8 years old was my trauma. After 30 years and doing therapy I came to learn that I had abandonment issues. Along with other things. Am grateful for the lesson learned and building a beautiful relationship with God. Therapy has been amazing and will be a part of my life.

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 2 роки тому

      @Beverly G., Wow! Thank God U realized it. It was 4 yrs old when my Dad died. But I Never knew him. Hwever, me & 1 of my two yngest brotha's have some issues as well.
      We all really need some Really Good, trained counselors. So we can all deal with all the emotions that come with Loss & grief of losing my biological Dad very yng age, then stepdad, then my Mom in my older age & other close Family membr's & Really close, long time friends as well, etc. 😟😢😭😭
      May all of their souls "RIP" & "RIH"...amen.

    • @Jesus.SaVeS77
      @Jesus.SaVeS77 2 роки тому

      @Beverly Gorden,
      If ok 2 ask. Wat kind of therapist do u have?

    • @noajay8829
      @noajay8829 2 роки тому

      dealing with this right now. december makes it 5 years since his passing. i finally signed up for therapy & can’t wait to start. 🥺

  • @deannapatterson7752
    @deannapatterson7752 2 роки тому +6

    MY LIFE HAS BEEN RIDDLED WITH TRAUMA AND I JUST CANT SEEM TO GET PAST IT 😭😭😭😭.....YESSSS WHERE DO I GO. .....WHEWWWW THIS IS ME .....

  • @iamblessed5361
    @iamblessed5361 2 роки тому +2

    Yes, That's why for my mental state of mind and Knowing that Christ redeemed me from the curse of the Law, I have to keep praying for my mother and family members, so that I do not hold any resentment against the very people I grew up and with and love. God Bless Pastor Sara Jakes-Roberts and Dr. Anita Philips, for this powerful video that helps us who are in Christ keep moving forward trusting God.

  • @ms.ppettigrew3167
    @ms.ppettigrew3167 2 роки тому +1

    My God!! So grateful for God interceding on my behalf. Therapy along with my relationship with God is my saving grace. Hallelujah!

  • @gloriarios9236
    @gloriarios9236 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks Dr. Anita, you are a tremendous blessing for me I am living in Puerto Rico, and I am fallowing your messages. God bless you.

  • @LEM19284
    @LEM19284 2 роки тому +1

    I’m here for this right here! 25-30 years of Psychological Abusive and Manipulative Gaslighting spouse.

  • @ammcgowan
    @ammcgowan 2 роки тому +2

    ABSOLUTELY. MY HEALING IS MY RESPONSIBILITY. I am so very grateful that God has placed & replaced individuals as I go through this season. One step at time.

  • @bonangbiancamohamadi1896
    @bonangbiancamohamadi1896 2 роки тому

    Crying at the very start of this video... 😢😢❤❤😍😍 thank you so much ma'am....

  • @SoulSiren01
    @SoulSiren01 2 роки тому +4

    I wish you were in my area. I need sessions with YOU...
    I know there are good therapists to be found BUT I found you & my spirit is settled in your teaching & encouragement towards healing. I have a 3 year old son & am going through a divorce. Short marriage, LONG relationship. I sometimes just say to God, " you must be sick of me by now... so many gifts in such a broken woman... I'm sorry." I use to cry freely... now my tears seem to have dried up & the release I need I struggle to find. It almost seems like I'm afraid of crying now... that makes me so very sad. I use to be so open... I don't know how to be vulnerable anymore. I feel so tired & confused... I am literally in survival mode... not fair for this beautiful little boy.

  • @lolatoye8525
    @lolatoye8525 Рік тому

    "Your DNA is not your destiny" at 6:59.
    That is such a profound paradigm shifting revelation.
    Thank You Lord for the gift this daughter of Zion is to the body of Christ. I have been so blessed through her and I only just started listening to her a month or so ago.

  • @elsiethompson4677
    @elsiethompson4677 2 роки тому

    Thank you Dr. Anita for keeping it real with revelation on how to be healed mentally and live free in Jesus. I have come a long way with therapy, so it works when we are willing to be transparent. Blessings and Peace as you continue.

  • @abby999
    @abby999 3 місяці тому

    i love the dna=family ladder metaphor. it makes sense biblically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. i also love how in other talks she equates the heart to the garden of eden. how jesus wants to meet us there and walk with us there. ❤

  • @princessdylan8232
    @princessdylan8232 2 роки тому +2

    Wow! So insightful and powerful! Thank you God for chosing her as a vessel and her accepting the call.

  • @anitamorrison4238
    @anitamorrison4238 10 місяців тому

    I just heard you on YouVersion this morning and decided to investigate to see if you had a presence on UA-cam.
    Your analysis about the "DNA" in Jacob's dream and God being the God of generations was brilliant. Thank you for balancing theology and psychology so well as you honor the word of God and are Holy Spirit filled. Your ministry is deeply appreciated. May the Lord continue to kiss & cradle your essential work in the kingdom.

  • @tamararahaman8956
    @tamararahaman8956 2 роки тому +20

    This came right at the right time. A true answer to my prayer. Thank you!

  • @veronicacrosby7507
    @veronicacrosby7507 2 роки тому +7

    This is me and my family and we keep putting band aids on the trauma. The cycle has to be broken. Tfs

  • @DrMamaHart
    @DrMamaHart 2 роки тому

    ABSOLUTELY SO GOOOD!
    Thank you for this Deliverance to my family and to the body of Christ!
    I just found you through Bishop TD Jakes and Lady Serita Jakes, and Pastor Sarah Jakes conference… thank God for letting them be so wise to use your talent and wisdom for helping the body of Christ!
    I’m soooo EXCITED TO LEARN FROM YOU.
    I’m also a psychiatrist nurse and wonder to heard them combination of the psychological world and the word of God!
    LOVE IT!
    Lord Help us!

  • @chansamemorybwalya9450
    @chansamemorybwalya9450 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing this Pastor Sarah ❤️.🇿🇲

  • @essieruiters3405
    @essieruiters3405 2 роки тому

    I have been traumatized severely, on different levels from different people and non if it really succeeded in what they wanted do to me because of 'BUT GOD' today i can testify that what Dr Anita says here are the truth.

  • @RiseandShinePodcast
    @RiseandShinePodcast 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much I may not have broken me but I’m responsible for healing me I forward this courage to my children and my children as children thank you so much Dr.Anita for elegantly showing us right in the Bible how it’s possible for us all to do amen

  • @patgiddens5625
    @patgiddens5625 10 місяців тому

    Wow!!! The part of not feeling safe was definitely me. Never thought about it like that.

  • @myrnellesaint-fort1109
    @myrnellesaint-fort1109 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you! Please *MORE* of these vids with Dr. Anita please & thank you in advance !

  • @dennise8778
    @dennise8778 2 роки тому +2

    I highly appreciate this video! 🙏🕊💯

  • @ashleylopez5815
    @ashleylopez5815 2 роки тому +5

    This might have just saved my relationship 🙏🏽

  • @shirleybell7913
    @shirleybell7913 2 роки тому

    Ooooweee Jesus this was so on point and so on time and I'm so grateful to have went through THERAPY and relieved Spiritual Counseling at the same time in this new seasonnof my life...it changed EVERYTHING 🙏🏿 🙌🏿

  • @godskingdomaffairs
    @godskingdomaffairs 2 роки тому +1

    God I need supernatural healing from all the trauma that I have through in this life, only you can do this for me. Thank you for answered prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

  • @esthersolis6104
    @esthersolis6104 9 місяців тому

    This is so good amazing word thank you for this message .

  • @godswarriornana5860
    @godswarriornana5860 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you Queen for this message 🙌🏾🤍🙏🏾

  • @Pandora2-e2l
    @Pandora2-e2l 2 роки тому +1

    Amen and amen 🥺🙏🏾. This video came out at the right time

    • @robertbraggs6160
      @robertbraggs6160 2 роки тому

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      He
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  • @TheWellnessAbbey
    @TheWellnessAbbey 7 місяців тому

    I've bought her book on audible. Can't wait to read it!

  • @crumbsnyums
    @crumbsnyums 2 роки тому +2

    This is a word. The ladder being twisted to form DNA. What a word.

  • @mavisrover9389
    @mavisrover9389 2 роки тому

    May Jesus Christ continue to bless you And strengthen you for this task. The world need to hear more of this.
    I have enjoyed listening to you. Grace And Peace.

  • @yolimshump7303
    @yolimshump7303 2 роки тому +2

    🥺Amen!! Thank you so much for this message🙏🏽

  • @k.t.6497
    @k.t.6497 2 роки тому

    AMEN!! BEING A THERAPIST, I SHARE HER VIDEOS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, this was soooo good! Thank you Dr. Anita🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 2 роки тому +18

    When a person experiences a trauma the best way to deal with it is by forgiving certain people that have really wronged/me and that ends things and things can finally be put in the past :) and God has the power to heal a godly woman’s heart:)

    • @zandankabinde5526
      @zandankabinde5526 2 роки тому

      And this right here is the Word if God. No matter how hard it is, the first thing we must do is Forgive. Talking about it is good coz God doesn’t want us to lie abt our emotions or try to hide them. Forgive and let God do the rest. If you are struggling to forgive, it’s ok to ask God to help you. It is tough, it is the High way and there is no other way, dnt let no one deceive you.

  • @Everythoughtispossible
    @Everythoughtispossible 2 роки тому +2

    Very true i just struggle with where to even begin…….

  • @anitacross1558
    @anitacross1558 2 роки тому +1

    Love This Dr. Anita Phillips

  • @estherfeliciano4753
    @estherfeliciano4753 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you, thank you for this word

  • @evettebarrett4573
    @evettebarrett4573 2 роки тому

    It hits people different it made me want to come out of my self, I felt like if I wasn't me then this would not have happened. I grew up feeling that way and now I'm aware.

  • @oyinkansolaoyawoye8639
    @oyinkansolaoyawoye8639 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this, Ma'am. I can relate with this.

  • @maleakomolepo3067
    @maleakomolepo3067 Рік тому

    Dr. Anita, you the Bom!

  • @kristeng.4241
    @kristeng.4241 2 роки тому

    A WORD🙌🏾 Thank you!

  • @Bongvni
    @Bongvni 2 роки тому

    This is so beautiful thank you for this 🥺

  • @veebee0115
    @veebee0115 2 роки тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed this.

  • @eschoshai6306
    @eschoshai6306 2 роки тому

    So good. So gooooodddd👏🏾👏🏾

  • @thatsjustmekristinanichole
    @thatsjustmekristinanichole 2 роки тому

    I had trauma, growing up I had two best friends; one of them introduced me to her boyfriend/baby father, he & I began to get very close, I mean he was opening up. & then he was brutally murder. Now its hard for me to get close to the rest of my friends man. Something inside of me won't let me rest in the soul with any.

  • @alexandraboone3255
    @alexandraboone3255 Рік тому +1

    Major Key 🔑: The trauma ends when I end it

  • @mariarasakanya3186
    @mariarasakanya3186 2 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @humblerenell1015
    @humblerenell1015 2 роки тому +1

    Amen!

  • @kimberlystenhouse6843
    @kimberlystenhouse6843 2 роки тому

    Outstanding wards thank u so much sis 💗

  • @nihaimamoniquestamper7670
    @nihaimamoniquestamper7670 2 роки тому

    Haleluja Glory to the Lord Jesus amen.
    Thank you for this teaching amen. God bless you amen 😇✍💯🙏

  • @itsallaboutjesus6111
    @itsallaboutjesus6111 2 місяці тому

    I have found my personal therapist hope I am not too late, help me Lord

  • @kellywoodcastle8297
    @kellywoodcastle8297 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u love a child of most high God 2022

  • @closetchronicoles7591
    @closetchronicoles7591 Рік тому

    Wow!!!!!! Wow!!!!!! Wow!!!

  • @anitacross1558
    @anitacross1558 2 роки тому +1

    I need to fix it for myself

  • @celena.rochelle
    @celena.rochelle 2 роки тому

    WOW. Just WOW.

  • @carolinareddy6542
    @carolinareddy6542 2 роки тому

    Appreciated 🙏🏽 What help is there for severe trauma which has led to crippling mental illness?

  • @tanishamcdonala3181
    @tanishamcdonala3181 2 роки тому +1

    Bless everyone here in Jesus Christ name amen hallelujah glory

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 2 роки тому

    Yeesss and Amen!🙏🏾

  • @anitav5842
    @anitav5842 2 роки тому

    “Amen ;turning Not to the right or neither to the left” (people,Oh my God!” (It’s crazy out here

  • @refilwetsalaile7647
    @refilwetsalaile7647 2 роки тому +1

    Enlightening 🕯🕯🕯🕯

  • @TulsaReceptionist
    @TulsaReceptionist Рік тому

    i always thought this but did want to think that out. so your dna can be change from trauma.. so everyone is born perfect until trauma enter into the pregnant one life. that's why its not anyone to blame sometimes.. it happen thru life experiences. going forward just seek help to end the generational curse. i am just brain storming for my self.

  • @jljl9546
    @jljl9546 2 роки тому

    Real talk

  • @ketoles7777
    @ketoles7777 2 роки тому +1

    Ka-pow truth!!!

  • @cynthiarodgers3896
    @cynthiarodgers3896 11 місяців тому

    Lord please help me 🙏🏽

  • @abravolopez3470
    @abravolopez3470 Рік тому

    Thank you for this word. I'm just don't know where to start looking for therapy as a Christian. Any thoughts on that?

  • @anitav5842
    @anitav5842 2 роки тому

    Praises to the Lord Jesus,When I was treated for trauma ,the only thing I can hang on to that helps me ,I remember them at the hospital taught how to cope with trauma one of the ways was that staying busy ,it helps you from falling into depression And become institutionalized .” So far ,I don’t let people decide my Mind God has a Way for me in my Spirit in my Mind by His Spirit”. God is Everything ;His Words are Settled in Heaven ,No matter what the people think and say; God is the Truth. ,if say “She’s crazy - oh well.

  • @kimjesus4829
    @kimjesus4829 2 роки тому

    Amen

  • @sadieannbassaragh1480
    @sadieannbassaragh1480 2 роки тому

    That is a word 💗

  • @keishahazelcarter9450
    @keishahazelcarter9450 2 роки тому

    Yes yes yes

  • @Tahesha
    @Tahesha 2 роки тому +1

    WOW💜

  • @racheledmonson572
    @racheledmonson572 Рік тому

    LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 2 роки тому

    Sounds very familiar to me!!!

  • @PAMGonline
    @PAMGonline 10 місяців тому

    Whoa! 😭

  • @KelsOneInaMillion
    @KelsOneInaMillion 2 роки тому

    This was so good. Like a church lesson so good.

  • @Princesa30000
    @Princesa30000 2 роки тому

    Wow!

    • @Princesa30000
      @Princesa30000 2 роки тому

      The problem now?? Is where to get the therapy from.. Dr. Anitah you should start up therapy sessions too💪💃😚

  • @jessicamaseko9514
    @jessicamaseko9514 2 роки тому

    Thank you Jesus! 😭😭😭😭❤️

  • @lamagreen
    @lamagreen 2 роки тому

    Truth

  • @cindywoodyard4337
    @cindywoodyard4337 2 роки тому

    My daughter, Jessica has experienced so much trauma in her life beginning in my womb. I believe she needs a place to go and stay for a long period to recover. Does anyone know of a place?

  • @feliciantshangase9543
    @feliciantshangase9543 2 роки тому

    🙏🏽❤

  • @ashleyalcius6531
    @ashleyalcius6531 2 роки тому +1

    Where do I go to heal!!?

    • @zandankabinde5526
      @zandankabinde5526 2 роки тому

      Forgive. Speak to God and ask him to speak to you-Divine counselling and direction. In Jesus name.

    • @shaznewa752
      @shaznewa752 Рік тому

      Be vulnerable to God in prayer. Wrire you feelings down everyday n y u feel dat way. Go for a minimum 15 minute walk daily, eat healthy, write 2 things even if theyr in the past that u thankful for

  • @Jessica-vh3cc
    @Jessica-vh3cc 2 роки тому

    Yes this trauma right now is with my mom she has favorite and one sided of her kids pinned her kids against each other she just argue with me today then hung up on me I'm tired this is same pattern what do I do I need seek therapy

    • @zandankabinde5526
      @zandankabinde5526 2 роки тому

      M currently going a similar situation. Just know that u are not the only one and God has not forgotten us and seek Him and His counsel more than anything.

  • @gabsilequeenethmhlanga1525
    @gabsilequeenethmhlanga1525 2 роки тому

    Wow

  • @ezraesther620
    @ezraesther620 Рік тому

    Guys she really look like Tina Campbell ❤❤❤❤❤yyooooo

  • @deeliciousArrangemen
    @deeliciousArrangemen 2 роки тому

    I would LOVE to go to therapy but I only want to see a Holy Spirit filled Believing therapist or Psychiatrist to treat me. I don't want to hear feed back, advice, or looking simply from a book or the thoughts of sn educated and trained "person". I need to hear from Holy Spirit, not just " Man"; if I am to truly healthy.
    Also, because there are Some things that you just can Not learn in a lecture hall, classroom or book, and due to the types of traumatic experiences I have ender, I prefer a woman therapist or psychiatrist because I need and want advice from someone who has the ability to "empathize" and not just "sympathize".
    I also need them to accept my insurance, and I'm located in New York, so my personal needs or requirements have been difficult to find.
    If only someone like Dr. Anita was around me. I only found one in my entire life but she went home to be with The Lord. 🤷🏼‍♀🥴🥺🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 So until God shows me who He wants me to talk to, My Dr. Ruach is doing just fine! 🤭🤭😜😉🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @CharissaRoberts-o8s
    @CharissaRoberts-o8s Рік тому

    This therapy is where you don't talk and just listen.

  • @Salito.Official
    @Salito.Official Рік тому

    God she's beautiful 😍

  • @AddLoveTM126
    @AddLoveTM126 2 роки тому

    EVERYONE Who was Born, has experienced "Trauma" during Delivery, through the Birth canel. Probably the main reason Babies Cry at Birth. Jesus Healed Me; And as a New Creation In Christ, Old things are passed away; and ALL things are New. I Choose Not to look BACK. JESUS said, "REMEMBER LOT'S WIFE!"

  • @eschoshai6306
    @eschoshai6306 2 роки тому +2

    Your DNA is not your destiny

  • @chapter2719
    @chapter2719 2 роки тому

    Very good Word But you must not go back to your abusers in Jesus name i pray Amen

  • @elevateyoursoul1020
    @elevateyoursoul1020 2 роки тому

    Honey, that wasn't trauma for Jacob! It was divine assignment!
    And "that" woman was a Holy woman of God guiding her son in his divine mission. Esau was a brute. Jacob was to bring forth the 12 tribes of Israel.
    Sarah? You do know God told Abraham to submit to his wife's wisdom, right? Sarah wasn't broken. Sarah is called mother of all.
    Smh!

  • @gcshaniya355
    @gcshaniya355 Рік тому

    Woahhh lol that story is not about abuse or manipulation 😂 Dr. Anita (Shem) gave the prophecy to Rebekah from God. & she was advised to tell no one .. not even Isaac her husband. And she was so confident in Gods promise/word she told Jacob if anything goes wrong she’ll take the blame. Because God told her the prophecy, The bloodline of Judah had to go through Jacob which would eventually breed Christ .. Also see Genesis 25:23-25

  • @TheHouseofStephanas40
    @TheHouseofStephanas40 7 місяців тому

    Praise you God!!!❤️‍🩹😔
    I CAN & WILL make a Difference for a Good Cause...