So dad NEVER believed his son. He never reconsidered his opinion even after getting cut out of grandparents will. He had to walk in on his wife with her ex to bother questioning her and then she needed to admit to lying before he accepted his son. Even still, hes a spineless coward. what trash
That's what I'm talking about, like hell I won't defend my kid to the fullest extent of the law. And for what? Mid coochie? He'll do it again with his next wife, I just hope OP is wise enough to avoid this.
The stepmom is incredibly hypocritical she's telling his dad about Independence when she's trying to steal his money for her kids that she never saved up for.
She's not hypocritical, she's just plain devious. The OP knows what is up and instead of putting his big boi pants on and just recording the conversation he blows up like a frickin toddler as if the stepmom gives a flyick fark about him.
bro who even thinks about that kinda thing in a situation like this. not every1 knows what to do especially when hit w bombshells like these. let's be realistic here.
The dad accuses the grandparents of taking sides and only hearing one side of the story. What like you did? With your wife who magically comes out with this after week's of trying to take his college fund. Damn this guy is a doormat
as someone who has a-usive and narcissistic parents, i can understand. they're still your parents. you still love them. it hurts, but you love them. i still do, even after everything. every single time they hurt me, i still hope- i still pray- that next time it'll be different. it never is, and i never learn. i suppose that's more my fault, but as long as i still have hope it'll be different, i still have the belief my parents love and care for me. i can't give that up, even having had a tumultuous relationship with them. op had a great relationship with their dad prior to this (we can assume). that has to be even harder to give up on.
@@stinky_twigs Hi another take here I also have narcissistic parents, I COULD NOT FORGIVE THIS BEHAVIOR. When you step out from under them YOU GET PEACE BABY. Step out and free yourself from your parents if they are truly narcissistic, staying and enabling this behavior will just damage you more in the long run.
@@stinky_twigs I suggest you go to a mental ward or something in the near future. To still do the same thing expecting the same results is insanity diagnosis
It's obvious that OP is naive. He's never had to deal with any type of deception. He had all of his trust and belief in his Dad. He was scared to fight back. To "push" his Dad because he believed that he would lose his Dad. Scared to tell his GPs because he thought they would believe things as Dad did. OP is like his Dad. He doesn't like confrontation. He doesn't know how to deal. He's been sheltered his entire life.
You could make a drinking game out of how often OP says "....but I'm afraid that..." I get it, the guy's a scared kid. I was non-confrontational at that age, but never to THIS extent.
You should consider the divorce of his parents... and having to live with strangers all of those years... I can see why he's always scared... Even though he is very smart, those above can create late development in certain part of his brain.... Never judge a victim... one day you realized it has come back to you.
Some might want that warm body next to them at night. Others are worn down by caring for their children without a second parent helping. Just my opinion as a divorced parent.
Imagine getting unsolicited advice on being independent by a jobless woman who's a "sahm" to a freaking 16yr son & 13yr daughter and relies solely on her husband for financial support.😂
As a Man, if you have kids from previous relationships. NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN. You basically take away 50% from everything from your kid or kids, if you marry a woman with kids its more. After you pass you leave a house, she gets 50%. And for what? Because she was married to you for the last 5-10 years?
same shit happened in our family. very traditional first born son gets everything except there were none so it was to go to first born grandson... enter Barbarella the bitch and suddenly there is nothing for anyone of blood relation. she sold a property that was in the family for 7 generations. she sold his trucks that he intended for his daughters. she kept everything.... things that had been in the family for generations. all for what?? she had a new house in a different state and he set her up very well with her own pot of money, but that wasnt enough. she had to have everything
@@Thewonder3r nah fuck the kid, im remarried theirs no way im going to be selfless for my child when we trade in ones happiness for another, I need 50 50
@@gameaccount-fq3pu so...hold on. You built wealth and a family with your first wife. Then she dies. Your kids grow up...and you go, I'm gonna marry a woman ...you will get 50% of everything I built with your mother....just wow...
@tstoriesusa i know right i have alot of evidence of my bestfriend gf literally saying how clueless he is that shes been cheating on him with all his friends except me cos i dont do shit like that im a grown man that knows better! However ive tried to show em everything but he didnt buy it eventually her and i got into it cos she was accusing me of tryna get with her. And blah blah. Finally after months he wanted to talk to me cos he found out his girl gave him aids and she was the only female he was with so i showed him the proof and he ended up crying then just last week i get the call that he had beaten his gf within an inch of her life and unalived himself!!!
I said the same exact thing in my mind, listening to this crap. You mean to tell me that you heard Megan telling her son about what she was gonna do with the money and you didn’t think to yourself to record just in case your father didn’t believe you? I’m just listening to the story like, sir, you could’ve recorded and had huge amounts of evidence of her treating you indifferently from her own kids, and you just sat there and took everything in and said….. nothing 🤦🏾 Also, let’s not forget that the father is just as bad and horrible because he chose to believe his wife, someone he only known for a couple years, over his own son, someone he’s known much longer than his trash of a human being of a wife. Now, they’re stuck in a heavy legal battle with a selfish woman who slept with her ex-husband, who by the way was married. And even then, she decides to throw his ass under the bus by lying.. You mean to tell me that the divorce battle is gonna go on for a long time even though the evidence shows that she’s clearly a manipulative, selfish, evil woman? Come on…….. Plus, the fact that she’s trying to throw the pregnancy into the legal battle shows what kind of person she is. Of course her lawyer is just trying to get paid so he/she is going to throw every curveball that he/she can. Typical, am I right? People can call this story and all other types of stories like this fake until they’re blue in the face, but one thing’s for sure, I can guarantee you that this type of shit happens in real life. Some stories like this have a happy ending, and some end up with people being taken to the cleaners financially… Who knows.
Unfortunately in some states it's illegal to record a person without their consent. In the state I live in it is actually a felony to do so without consent from the other party
This is the first story where I genuinely dislike OP. He’s so happy to be the victim and allowing his Step family to walk all over him that he’s letting his future dwindle in the wind. He literally has leverage over his stepmom because his grandparents don’t like her, and he doesn’t want them involved. Dude is allowing himself to be victimized and I hate pro victims
He is prob paranoid bc his dad (Who KNOWS him) didn't believe him so he thinks nobody else will. Also your brain don't stop developing until you are 26 meaning and he is a teen. Fight or flight.
Never forgive dad. Make him pay for the college, then cut contact once you've used every penny he has. If his wife hadn't cheated, he would have still treated his son horribly. He chose a woman before his child, and that's unforgivable.
Honestly, I wouldn't be willing to forgive the dad. He only came to apologize after everything blew up in his face! It wasn’t because he genuinely felt bad for not hearing his son out or because of the ultimatum from the grandparents. If he hadn't caught his wife in a compromising situation, he would have let his son down until she fully carried out her plan. The son would have been without his college fund, forced to attend a cheaper school, potentially damaging his future. The dad chose to put his wife before his own flesh and blood, and that is unforgivable. If I were the son or the grandparents, I would let him face the consequences of his actions alone. "You chose her, you made your bet, now lie in it." Now he said he did not want to move out to not give them thd plesure of driving him away. As soonest the dad told him he finally cut her in the act and was filling for divorce I would have moved to my grandparents or with my mom. A dad that leaves his child all alone like this deserve to be paid in kind. I would go back to be no contact and I would try to convice my grandparents to do it as well
According to the stepmom, OP is being “stunted for taking a handout”, yet the stepmom stealing OP’s college fund money to give to her own kids is okay?
I get frustrated with these spineless people, both OP and his dad. Sometimes I think I'm too aggressive but then I remember stories like these and is rather have more bite than be toothless.
Bruh this seems to be a modified version of another story here where the stepmom accuses OP of SA when she was upset about the inheritance distribution by OP’s dad. Subsequently, OP’s dad kicked him out believing her lie, but thankfully in that story OP I think was in the final year of college and after that secured a job only to be one day receiving a call from a deeply defeated and sorrowful dad crying over the phone for forgiveness. Same shit. Stepmom cheated, confessed to lying, messy divorce Bruh AI really seems to run out of ideas!😂
Told dad moms side better hope they get their affairs together on who will take care of them in their old age mom was the only one to produce kids of her two siblings and cousin grandparents took guardianship because if left up to me would dump all of them in the strictest retirement home i could find long story on that but let's just say they allowed that evil hag of a mother mentally abuse me because I refused to be a stupid lady mom has passed on from cancer a few years back
How ironic that the two people who talked about being resposible with money and work hard for it, suddenly want free money. Like the college fund and the parents money. 🙄
Litterly stopped what I was playing Paused the video rewired 10 sec to post this same thing the audacity you must have to blame them for something you're clearly doing atm
my dad taught me about always keeping a "CYA" file, it stands for, cover your ass. always save, download, record, when dealing with a manipulative person and keep it with you.
That stepmom is going to wind up alone and bitter, wondering why the world is against her and oblivious to the fact that she's the problem. How uncivilized of her to insert herself into someone elses family and plan to steal from their existing kids-- what an absolute parasite.
The son too. Both son and father are nothing but doormats to the manipulative step mom. If I were to be accused of being an SO. I'm immediately filing a defamation complaint against her. The dad forgot that you need to be proven before being deemed guilty. Then the son, "but I'm scared, i'm so scared" of clearing your own name??
@@angelhernadez5000 You know what’s even more infuriating? The fact that he could’ve recorded everything on the phone the entire time. Every single encounter he had with Megan, even the conversation that he heard from Megan telling her son what she was going to do with the money, he could’ve recorded everything, and showed it to his dad. Instead, he chose to take the abuse, and not defend himself logically, if you get my drift. Like he basically said, “OMG, my stepmom is treating me like trash and turning my father against me. I’m just going to take it and not record some of the encounters.
Ah yes - when stepmom has absolutely no reason to come clean about manipulating OP's father and making a false accusation she does so anyway, just because she got caught cheating. Real life is not a movie - not every situation gets fully sorted at the end. The reality of a story like this is that at best the stepmom admitted to adultery and they got divorced. That's it. Maybe the OP'd dad realised his mistake later, maybe not. But the grandparents already promised to settle their estate on the OP after a week if OP's father didn't try to make it right.
I'm just under 19 minutes in, and this is the 2nd video I've watched with such a frustrating video. OP's that do absolutely nothing about a situation, let it keep getting worse and worse. Talking about "I could do x or y or z, but I'm afraid of something happening." Augh!
Father doesnt back his son... picks woman over kid. Son starts his own life and leaves his dad behind and cuts contact becomes succesful and the step kids dont.
This kid had too much blind belief in his dad. Life lesson that will hopefully prevent many future heart breaks in his future. Best move is to no contact this idiot father and try to build a life of independence.
anxiety can be so terrible and really affects people, so not everyone can work up the courage to confront HEAVY accusations such as sa allegations. yeah this story is likely fake, but there is probably someone out there who has been accused of something terrible who has had so much anxiety that they cant even bear the thought of dealing with those accusations.
like spineless father like spineless son. this story and OP is sooooo frustrating, especially towards the end when the grandparents tried to stand up for him they said theyll hove his father a week to respond but doesnt respond until a whole month later and still decides to move back with him and “try to forgive” him. i wouldve blown this whole situation up as soon as the stepmother glanced at me the wrong way and taken the grandparents up on their offer of taking the father’s inheritance for myself
Son should not even try to talk to his sperm donor. Throw the cash back at him. No second chances. When he begs for you to be there, show him the consequences of his own actions. He cant give you the decency of listening, neither do you have to give it back. Truth is, that wasnt your family. It was HIS. You are the outsider. You have always been. Let sleeping dogs lie.
The stepmom preaches about hard work and how its better to pay for your own expenses but at the same time she's trying to take OP's college fund that she's not entitled to.
17:00 Dude says he can't do anything about it after... actively attempting to not do any of all the options he has about it. Calling the police is good because it makes absolutely no sense for someone guilty to call them, so not calling them would support her claims. Allowing his mom to intervene would bring up a lot of chaos which could help. But most importantly, his grandparents are a key to solving his issue. This person is just too passive. He has a dozen ideas of what to do and does nothing.
Everything coming out of the stepmother's mouth is BS. She wants all of OPs college funds for her children. Edit. I hope someone is able to take Megan's children from her and give them the loving ans stable home they need and deserve. Edit 2. This story sent my heart rate and blood pressure through the roof.
This is AI generated definitely. First it says that it heard the Stepmom tell Jack and Emma that they don't have to worry about college because they're getting some of his money but then later says that he has no proof that she's trying to get the money for their college? When he literally apparently heard it from her
Why? Why? Why? Why are people so quick to believe a new comers lies and not the person they have known for years. This is worse because Dad doesn't believe the child he raised. Dad is pathetic to be so easily manipulated. I love it when affairs are mistakes. Like they both just happened to be half n@ked and one tripped and fell on top of the other 🤦🏽♀️. OY!
Yeah, this is fake. A lot of the story points repeat several times and no one can recount a conversation word for word like that. Not most people, anyway.
This story is fake but your reasons don't seem very spot on since it's a written story the poster could easily repeat parts of the story with accuracy each time simply by rereading what they wrote. That being said these stories are almost always fake dramas.
@@prisoner__24601 honestly I respect that. I was being a bit petty and pedantic I appreciate you pointing it out because it gives me opportunity to reflect on it and you're right you didn't ask and it didn't need to be said.
Story 1: grow a backbone and stand up for yourself. Tell your grandparents what happened, tell your mother what happened, tell the police whoever but just stand up for yourself.
OP wont tell his grandparents, he won't let his mother intervene, and he refuses to go to the police regarding the false accusation. OP's putting himself between a rock and a hard place. Will he ever seek help or just let the stepmom take his college fund away.
Some people are absolutely horrible. As for those talking to down on the dad and saying he was weak, he may have been an unwitting accomplice, but he was also victimized as well. Him not yet deciding to press charges are not weakness, but is strength. It is a mercy that very few have. And sometimes, that mercy shows how good a man is, even if everyone sees him as weak. To the woman’s kids: I hope they are managing. To the storyteller: you got this. To the woman and the guy: karma is a b*tch. To the father: though you have been an unwitting accomplice, you are still strong, and had the courage to admit that you were wrong. Keep up trying to do good. And your mercy is admirable.
This OP says the dad is adverse to conflict, but OP is too. "What if dad doesn't listen to them? What if things get worse?" How? If that happens, then nothing changes.
I love how the grandparents are doing what the Dad did to op. Making op think he'd get the money all his life and doing everything great then Megan stealing it from him. Just like grandparents threatened to steal it from him
OP refuses to talk to anybody about his situation. Does OP want his college fund back because its starting to seem that he doesn't care about his future anymore. He's going to let the stepmom win, how sad.
What’s crazy is the fact the step mom already knew right away what to say to make the dad switch sides and she already started crying. Clearly she’s practiced it which is evil
Once again, moral of the story: Any kids from a previous marriage don't belong to their remarried parents. OP clearly doesn't belong to their dad's new family, he should've left (I think OP did leave the family, but eh, memory might serve me ill).
You guys can call me everything under the sun but I also feel bad for the dad. Think of it like this. Imagine you have two very close friends who you care very much: then all the sudden one of them say the other SA them with the other one is saying they didn’t do anything. It would be really hard to pick one side because in the end if the accusations are true, you would be defending a s offender, but if it was false and you defend the other person you would be destroying your friendship over a lie. Either one could end either way which would be really stressful for anyone put in that situation. The only thing he did wrong though was immediately jumping on his wife side and not giving his own son a chance to speak
Op: my dad's spineless and never takes my side also Op: I m afraid of taking this step...what if it opens some different type of wormhole.... the "what if" king...
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What happened bro ? Why werent you uploading?
Missed you tooo. I almost thought something was honestly wrong with you 😭
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BRO WHERE WERE YOU!!!
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“Spineless dad fails to back his son up for some useless tail”
I ain’t saying she a gold digger… 😂
@tstoriesusa he's as hypocritical as the stepmother for believing her without hearing out his own son, and yet he's pissed why?
@kimcreatesstuff
Ill say it. Megs is a gold digger.
tbh i think the son is a bit spineless too
That dad is a real piece of garbage. Always choose a piece of Ass over his own children. WoW
So dad NEVER believed his son. He never reconsidered his opinion even after getting cut out of grandparents will. He had to walk in on his wife with her ex to bother questioning her and then she needed to admit to lying before he accepted his son.
Even still, hes a spineless coward. what trash
That's what I'm talking about, like hell I won't defend my kid to the fullest extent of the law. And for what? Mid coochie? He'll do it again with his next wife, I just hope OP is wise enough to avoid this.
The stepmom is incredibly hypocritical she's telling his dad about Independence when she's trying to steal his money for her kids that she never saved up for.
These people usually have no logic.
People who are after other people's money don't have logic... They run on greed.
She's a gold digger and a pathological liar, so no surprises there.
She's not hypocritical, she's just plain devious.
The OP knows what is up and instead of putting his big boi pants on and just recording the conversation he blows up like a frickin toddler as if the stepmom gives a flyick fark about him.
🎵I ain't saying she's a gold digger but she ain't messing with no broke, broke🎵
bro got accused of SA but still doesnt want to open a can of worms ? why should people try advice you if you dont want to do the necessary stuff.
Typical AI writing
Fake story
@@rem9367???
To me it seems like the op is also conflict adverse so yeah
The entire story smells like a bunch of other reddit stories mashed together.
Not even very well at that.
Bro should’ve recorded every interaction since he found out about try to divert the college fund
Exactly.
Instead he has a temper tantrum at the one person who clearly isn't on his side at all.
bro who even thinks about that kinda thing in a situation like this. not every1 knows what to do especially when hit w bombshells like these. let's be realistic here.
@@AToast if it happens to us..aylesst we know to secretly record xD
After all that, the dad wasn’t sure about pressing charges? That leads me to believe there was more to this story than OP knows.
He actually accused the grandparents of picking sides without knowing the full story, effing laughable.
The dad accuses the grandparents of taking sides and only hearing one side of the story. What like you did? With your wife who magically comes out with this after week's of trying to take his college fund. Damn this guy is a doormat
Doormats are a hella more useful than that dad
I said the same thing
I can't understand why OP would still want a relationship with his dad after this...
as someone who has a-usive and narcissistic parents, i can understand.
they're still your parents.
you still love them.
it hurts, but you love them. i still do, even after everything. every single time they hurt me, i still hope- i still pray- that next time it'll be different.
it never is, and i never learn. i suppose that's more my fault, but as long as i still have hope it'll be different, i still have the belief my parents love and care for me. i can't give that up, even having had a tumultuous relationship with them.
op had a great relationship with their dad prior to this (we can assume). that has to be even harder to give up on.
The mom called it. Op is goddamn doormat
@@stinky_twigs Hi another take here I also have narcissistic parents, I COULD NOT FORGIVE THIS BEHAVIOR. When you step out from under them YOU GET PEACE BABY. Step out and free yourself from your parents if they are truly narcissistic, staying and enabling this behavior will just damage you more in the long run.
@@stinky_twigs
I suggest you go to a mental ward or something in the near future. To still do the same thing expecting the same results is insanity diagnosis
@@emmie0426 I’m just pushing it through college cuz they’re paying for it full ride. Going into cyber-security, and then I’m free.
Isnt it annoying how op is afraid of everything. telling the cops, telling grandparents, basically she let stepmom win by being cowardly
It's obvious that OP is naive. He's never had to deal with any type of deception. He had all of his trust and belief in his Dad. He was scared to fight back. To "push" his Dad because he believed that he would lose his Dad. Scared to tell his GPs because he thought they would believe things as Dad did. OP is like his Dad. He doesn't like confrontation. He doesn't know how to deal. He's been sheltered his entire life.
Fake story
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IKR!!such a cry baby lack of spine to act!!
no
You could make a drinking game out of how often OP says "....but I'm afraid that..." I get it, the guy's a scared kid. I was non-confrontational at that age, but never to THIS extent.
You should consider the divorce of his parents... and having to live with strangers all of those years...
I can see why he's always scared... Even though he is very smart, those above can create late development in certain part of his brain....
Never judge a victim... one day you realized it has come back to you.
The fucking fact that his dad still didn't believe him until the stepmom admitted to lying is telling that he still doesn't trust his own fucking son
Mom should have gotten full custody, maybe the son wouldn't have turned out to be such a pacifistic indecisive wuss like his father.
I'll never understand why people remarry and treat their kids this way.
Some might want that warm body next to them at night. Others are worn down by caring for their children without a second parent helping.
Just my opinion as a divorced parent.
Imagine getting unsolicited advice on being independent by a jobless woman who's a "sahm" to a freaking 16yr son & 13yr daughter and relies solely on her husband for financial support.😂
Gold diggers say that all the time
Not just a sahm for teenagers, but teenagers that aren't even the man of the houses' kids!
WHY THE F--- IS OP WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AFTER EVERYTHING SP-RM DONOR HAD DONE?
Even in the end, he's still a doormat, it's infuriating.
1000% agree SMH!!
Trauma. Irrational fear that he might be betrayed and cast aside again
Honestly may be he judt eants the college found, but the dad should just give it to him regarless. He owes it to him
As a Man, if you have kids from previous relationships. NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN. You basically take away 50% from everything from your kid or kids, if you marry a woman with kids its more. After you pass you leave a house, she gets 50%. And for what? Because she was married to you for the last 5-10 years?
I wpuldnt say never get married.but id probably do it when my kids are adults
same shit happened in our family. very traditional first born son gets everything except there were none so it was to go to first born grandson... enter Barbarella the bitch and suddenly there is nothing for anyone of blood relation. she sold a property that was in the family for 7 generations. she sold his trucks that he intended for his daughters. she kept everything.... things that had been in the family for generations. all for what?? she had a new house in a different state and he set her up very well with her own pot of money, but that wasnt enough. she had to have everything
@@Thewonder3r nah fuck the kid, im remarried theirs no way im going to be selfless for my child when we trade in ones happiness for another, I need 50 50
yes, she made my life good for 5-10 then yeah shes entitled to 50%
@@gameaccount-fq3pu so...hold on. You built wealth and a family with your first wife. Then she dies. Your kids grow up...and you go, I'm gonna marry a woman ...you will get 50% of everything I built with your mother....just wow...
Dude forgot his phone has the ability to record the whole conversation
@tstoriesusa i know right i have alot of evidence of my bestfriend gf literally saying how clueless he is that shes been cheating on him with all his friends except me cos i dont do shit like that im a grown man that knows better! However ive tried to show em everything but he didnt buy it eventually her and i got into it cos she was accusing me of tryna get with her. And blah blah. Finally after months he wanted to talk to me cos he found out his girl gave him aids and she was the only female he was with so i showed him the proof and he ended up crying then just last week i get the call that he had beaten his gf within an inch of her life and unalived himself!!!
I said the same exact thing in my mind, listening to this crap. You mean to tell me that you heard Megan telling her son about what she was gonna do with the money and you didn’t think to yourself to record just in case your father didn’t believe you?
I’m just listening to the story like, sir, you could’ve recorded and had huge amounts of evidence of her treating you indifferently from her own kids, and you just sat there and took everything in and said….. nothing 🤦🏾
Also, let’s not forget that the father is just as bad and horrible because he chose to believe his wife, someone he only known for a couple years, over his own son, someone he’s known much longer than his trash of a human being of a wife.
Now, they’re stuck in a heavy legal battle with a selfish woman who slept with her ex-husband, who by the way was married. And even then, she decides to throw his ass under the bus by lying..
You mean to tell me that the divorce battle is gonna go on for a long time even though the evidence shows that she’s clearly a manipulative, selfish, evil woman? Come on…….. Plus, the fact that she’s trying to throw the pregnancy into the legal battle shows what kind of person she is. Of course her lawyer is just trying to get paid so he/she is going to throw every curveball that he/she can. Typical, am I right?
People can call this story and all other types of stories like this fake until they’re blue in the face, but one thing’s for sure, I can guarantee you that this type of shit happens in real life. Some stories like this have a happy ending, and some end up with people being taken to the cleaners financially… Who knows.
I honestly didn't know that
Unfortunately in some states it's illegal to record a person without their consent. In the state I live in it is actually a felony to do so without consent from the other party
@@Mboy245 so what who cares. Noone gonna tell me what i can and cannot do lol
This is the first story where I genuinely dislike OP. He’s so happy to be the victim and allowing his Step family to walk all over him that he’s letting his future dwindle in the wind. He literally has leverage over his stepmom because his grandparents don’t like her, and he doesn’t want them involved. Dude is allowing himself to be victimized and I hate pro victims
Bad ai writing. Gotta stretch out the narrative to fit in commercials 😂
He is prob paranoid bc his dad (Who KNOWS him) didn't believe him so he thinks nobody else will. Also your brain don't stop developing until you are 26 meaning and he is a teen.
Fight or flight.
She went low, you go lower. Take everything from that psycho.
Never forgive dad. Make him pay for the college, then cut contact once you've used every penny he has.
If his wife hadn't cheated, he would have still treated his son horribly. He chose a woman before his child, and that's unforgivable.
Could't agree more!! 1000%
Honestly, I wouldn't be willing to forgive the dad. He only came to apologize after everything blew up in his face! It wasn’t because he genuinely felt bad for not hearing his son out or because of the ultimatum from the grandparents. If he hadn't caught his wife in a compromising situation, he would have let his son down until she fully carried out her plan. The son would have been without his college fund, forced to attend a cheaper school, potentially damaging his future. The dad chose to put his wife before his own flesh and blood, and that is unforgivable. If I were the son or the grandparents, I would let him face the consequences of his actions alone. "You chose her, you made your bet, now lie in it." Now he said he did not want to move out to not give them thd plesure of driving him away. As soonest the dad told him he finally cut her in the act and was filling for divorce I would have moved to my grandparents or with my mom. A dad that leaves his child all alone like this deserve to be paid in kind. I would go back to be no contact and I would try to convice my grandparents to do it as well
According to the stepmom, OP is being “stunted for taking a handout”, yet the stepmom stealing OP’s college fund money to give to her own kids is okay?
Dad is pathetic.. and op is weak.. lol
He takes after his dad.
If op is weak.... He can grow. The greatest source of strength can come from out weakest moments
I get frustrated with these spineless people, both OP and his dad. Sometimes I think I'm too aggressive but then I remember stories like these and is rather have more bite than be toothless.
Why not let your mom confront them or let his grandparents know what's going
Bruh this seems to be a modified version of another story here where the stepmom accuses OP of SA when she was upset about the inheritance distribution by OP’s dad. Subsequently, OP’s dad kicked him out believing her lie, but thankfully in that story OP I think was in the final year of college and after that secured a job only to be one day receiving a call from a deeply defeated and sorrowful dad crying over the phone for forgiveness. Same shit. Stepmom cheated, confessed to lying, messy divorce
Bruh AI really seems to run out of ideas!😂
Yeah this story seems awfully similar
Told dad moms side better hope they get their affairs together on who will take care of them in their old age mom was the only one to produce kids of her two siblings and cousin grandparents took guardianship because if left up to me would dump all of them in the strictest retirement home i could find long story on that but let's just say they allowed that evil hag of a mother mentally abuse me because I refused to be a stupid lady mom has passed on from cancer a few years back
How ironic that the two people who talked about being resposible with money and work hard for it, suddenly want free money. Like the college fund and the parents money. 🙄
23:30: Accused of picking sides without knowing the full story. Funny, since neither did dad.
Litterly stopped what I was playing Paused the video rewired 10 sec to post this same thing the audacity you must have to blame them for something you're clearly doing atm
He should sue her, don't let her walk away to do it to someone else.
my dad taught me about always keeping a "CYA" file, it stands for, cover your ass. always save, download, record, when dealing with a manipulative person and keep it with you.
Nah, sue megan.
And all the money goes to op.
And grandparents will goes to op too.
Dad is a failure of a father that deserves nothing.
That stepmom is going to wind up alone and bitter, wondering why the world is against her and oblivious to the fact that she's the problem. How uncivilized of her to insert herself into someone elses family and plan to steal from their existing kids-- what an absolute parasite.
This is something out of an anime, this woman's a villain
suuuuper cringe(to me) when a father says "THATS MY WIFE" to their own kids lol like they are trying to defend the wives at a bar.
Dad is a loser
So is the OP. Neither of them are real men. Weak asses
The son too. Both son and father are nothing but doormats to the manipulative step mom. If I were to be accused of being an SO. I'm immediately filing a defamation complaint against her. The dad forgot that you need to be proven before being deemed guilty. Then the son, "but I'm scared, i'm so scared" of clearing your own name??
@@angelhernadez5000 You know what’s even more infuriating? The fact that he could’ve recorded everything on the phone the entire time. Every single encounter he had with Megan, even the conversation that he heard from Megan telling her son what she was going to do with the money, he could’ve recorded everything, and showed it to his dad. Instead, he chose to take the abuse, and not defend himself logically, if you get my drift.
Like he basically said, “OMG, my stepmom is treating me like trash and turning my father against me. I’m just going to take it and not record some of the encounters.
Ah yes - when stepmom has absolutely no reason to come clean about manipulating OP's father and making a false accusation she does so anyway, just because she got caught cheating.
Real life is not a movie - not every situation gets fully sorted at the end.
The reality of a story like this is that at best the stepmom admitted to adultery and they got divorced.
That's it.
Maybe the OP'd dad realised his mistake later, maybe not.
But the grandparents already promised to settle their estate on the OP after a week if OP's father didn't try to make it right.
I'm just under 19 minutes in, and this is the 2nd video I've watched with such a frustrating video. OP's that do absolutely nothing about a situation, let it keep getting worse and worse. Talking about "I could do x or y or z, but I'm afraid of something happening." Augh!
*UPDATE* stepmom ended up going to hell
Father doesnt back his son... picks woman over kid. Son starts his own life and leaves his dad behind and cuts contact becomes succesful and the step kids dont.
This kid had too much blind belief in his dad. Life lesson that will hopefully prevent many future heart breaks in his future. Best move is to no contact this idiot father and try to build a life of independence.
The OP inherited his dads spine unfortunately but hes just a kid so he has a bit of an excuse
Op really needs to grow a spin, so much could have been avoided if he talked to people and had them make his dad see reason.
It's fake tho😭
@bhaminibhanot3028 I know, but it annoys me so much because I actually know someone like this.
anxiety can be so terrible and really affects people, so not everyone can work up the courage to confront HEAVY accusations such as sa allegations. yeah this story is likely fake, but there is probably someone out there who has been accused of something terrible who has had so much anxiety that they cant even bear the thought of dealing with those accusations.
@@4NGEL99 Damn what- I need the tea fr🙏😭
Only one word is coming to my mind after hearing this story, "frustrating"
Dads always believe stepmonsters over their own children, at least in my experience
like spineless father like spineless son. this story and OP is sooooo frustrating, especially towards the end when the grandparents tried to stand up for him they said theyll hove his father a week to respond but doesnt respond until a whole month later and still decides to move back with him and “try to forgive” him. i wouldve blown this whole situation up as soon as the stepmother glanced at me the wrong way and taken the grandparents up on their offer of taking the father’s inheritance for myself
It’s like that episode of smiling friends where the boss finds a wife
"im just too old to be chasing young hot tail"
Honestly I would NEVER forgive my dad if he did that to me
Son should not even try to talk to his sperm donor. Throw the cash back at him. No second chances. When he begs for you to be there, show him the consequences of his own actions. He cant give you the decency of listening, neither do you have to give it back.
Truth is, that wasnt your family. It was HIS. You are the outsider. You have always been. Let sleeping dogs lie.
To call the dad a massive AH and a total failure as a father and a man is an understatement.
I hate when single parents marry step-monsters and disregard the horrible treatment of their children
The stepmom preaches about hard work and how its better to pay for your own expenses but at the same time she's trying to take OP's college fund that she's not entitled to.
From Econimic Resposability to SA to Cheating... This rollercoaster was crazy...🤯😵😱
Men: Guilty until proven Innocent
Women: Innocent until proven Guilty
True story.
That'll be why SA conviction rates are so high, oh wait... I guess this is why "what was she wearing?" isn't a well known question.
Father and Son alike; spineless
17:00
Dude says he can't do anything about it after... actively attempting to not do any of all the options he has about it. Calling the police is good because it makes absolutely no sense for someone guilty to call them, so not calling them would support her claims. Allowing his mom to intervene would bring up a lot of chaos which could help. But most importantly, his grandparents are a key to solving his issue. This person is just too passive. He has a dozen ideas of what to do and does nothing.
i hate how rage biteing this is
Everything coming out of the stepmother's mouth is BS. She wants all of OPs college funds for her children.
Edit. I hope someone is able to take Megan's children from her and give them the loving ans stable home they need and deserve.
Edit 2. This story sent my heart rate and blood pressure through the roof.
W grandparents
So do you plan to get Mike in the next movie?
Op seems to have bigger daddy issuesthan mt Everest and some weird issue with recieving help and support. Honest op needs intense therapy yesterday.
This is AI generated definitely. First it says that it heard the Stepmom tell Jack and Emma that they don't have to worry about college because they're getting some of his money but then later says that he has no proof that she's trying to get the money for their college? When he literally apparently heard it from her
I think he meant a voice recorder or video record because that's what's considered a proof
I can’t BELIEVE she accused u of S😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
This dude is a prime example of how not to be. A doormat.
Why? Why? Why?
Why are people so quick to believe a new comers lies and not the person they have known for years.
This is worse because Dad doesn't believe the child he raised. Dad is pathetic to be so easily manipulated.
I love it when affairs are mistakes. Like they both just happened to be half n@ked and one tripped and fell on top of the other 🤦🏽♀️.
OY!
Yeah, this is fake. A lot of the story points repeat several times and no one can recount a conversation word for word like that. Not most people, anyway.
This story is fake but your reasons don't seem very spot on since it's a written story the poster could easily repeat parts of the story with accuracy each time simply by rereading what they wrote. That being said these stories are almost always fake dramas.
@shannonrichards254 Whatever, dude. Didn't ask for your approval on my reasons, don't care.
@@prisoner__24601 honestly I respect that. I was being a bit petty and pedantic I appreciate you pointing it out because it gives me opportunity to reflect on it and you're right you didn't ask and it didn't need to be said.
Wow, I can't believe she tried to take your college fund! That's beyond cruel.
"HER EYES WIDENED IN SURPRISE"
1st comment for 1st comment
"Surprised Pikachu Face"
After what the father did he would never have a relationship with me again. That type of betrayal is unforgivable.
More i listen i dont understand whynpeople DONT FUCKING RECORD
Because fake stories don't have logic
Story 1: grow a backbone and stand up for yourself. Tell your grandparents what happened, tell your mother what happened, tell the police whoever but just stand up for yourself.
OP wont tell his grandparents, he won't let his mother intervene, and he refuses to go to the police regarding the false accusation. OP's putting himself between a rock and a hard place. Will he ever seek help or just let the stepmom take his college fund away.
Some people are absolutely horrible. As for those talking to down on the dad and saying he was weak, he may have been an unwitting accomplice, but he was also victimized as well. Him not yet deciding to press charges are not weakness, but is strength. It is a mercy that very few have. And sometimes, that mercy shows how good a man is, even if everyone sees him as weak. To the woman’s kids: I hope they are managing. To the storyteller: you got this. To the woman and the guy: karma is a b*tch. To the father: though you have been an unwitting accomplice, you are still strong, and had the courage to admit that you were wrong. Keep up trying to do good. And your mercy is admirable.
Professional hitmen exist for a reason.
I never could stand anyone that goes off with "you should feel/be".
call the police on her, get her kicked out and put her in the same position she put you in
OPs dads and grandparents need to sue Megan on behalf of OP! That’s a horrible accusation!!
It's not the stepmother's fault, it's the Dads for having zero backbone and being led on by this loser.
Honestly, OP should’ve just gave his dad an ultimatum and said it’s either me or them. If dad chose them, then leave and never look back.
This OP says the dad is adverse to conflict, but OP is too.
"What if dad doesn't listen to them? What if things get worse?"
How? If that happens, then nothing changes.
I love how the grandparents are doing what the Dad did to op. Making op think he'd get the money all his life and doing everything great then Megan stealing it from him. Just like grandparents threatened to steal it from him
I was furious when he begged his mom not to confront his dad.
Bro !! This has to be fake. The coincidences are too convenient.
I couldn't forgive this level of betrayal.
The grandparents are cooking like a 5⭐️chef💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
OP refuses to talk to anybody about his situation. Does OP want his college fund back because its starting to seem that he doesn't care about his future anymore. He's going to let the stepmom win, how sad.
I’d still never speak to my father again once the dust settles.
I just don’t understand how people can justify stealing from children.
What’s crazy is the fact the step mom already knew right away what to say to make the dad switch sides and she already started crying. Clearly she’s practiced it which is evil
This one made me cry but I still feel queasy after it ended. She violated their family.
Anybody calling Op a cpward needs to stop blaming them because they have anxiety.
Op is so afraid of everything, he needs to man up and grow up and deal with things head on instead of hiding.
Once again, moral of the story: Any kids from a previous marriage don't belong to their remarried parents. OP clearly doesn't belong to their dad's new family, he should've left (I think OP did leave the family, but eh, memory might serve me ill).
You guys can call me everything under the sun but I also feel bad for the dad. Think of it like this. Imagine you have two very close friends who you care very much: then all the sudden one of them say the other SA them with the other one is saying they didn’t do anything. It would be really hard to pick one side because in the end if the accusations are true, you would be defending a s offender, but if it was false and you defend the other person you would be destroying your friendship over a lie. Either one could end either way which would be really stressful for anyone put in that situation.
The only thing he did wrong though was immediately jumping on his wife side and not giving his own son a chance to speak
This is why parents should stay single after a divorce, to concentrate on just raising their kids.
Op: my dad's spineless and never takes my side
also Op: I m afraid of taking this step...what if it opens some different type of wormhole....
the "what if" king...
Op deserves worst of what's happening to him, just because he wants to pretend to be a good guy
He won't even listen to advice on reddit
These stepmoms don’t run on logic…they run on greed
Now that's something that's bothering me. College fund. I can afford it but at the same I truly cannot afford it.
Telltales, tell us when Gotham city needs you. ;)
some of these stories are definitely not fom real people but i still eat them up every time lmaooo
This proves no good deed goes unpunished