Why women love asshole guys and what you can learn from them

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  • @sadifrahman7803
    @sadifrahman7803 5 років тому +479

    I feel bad for this guy. He's so underrated and 100 times better than bs dating coaches

    • @paulpoldma20
      @paulpoldma20 4 роки тому +8

      Yeah! Lloyd deserves so much more than he's been given. Free dating advice and being real with us ;)
      There's a guy called Dan Bacon on youtube, who gives relationship advice and guess what's the main thing he does ?
      Advertises his 97 dollar ebook/audio book.... 90 FUCKING 7 DOLLAR ebook, which is a scam and by the reviews eeeeh it's a pretty average book and certainly not worth 97 dollars.
      Saying things like "oh it's so easy to get women to have sex with you" blablabla (every fucking video, he mentions sex, sex and SEX)
      Dating isn't all about sex and one night stands
      He is a pretty good scam artist i must say unlike Lloyd

    • @traphall
      @traphall 4 роки тому +4

      @@paulpoldma20 Dan Back advice actually works though lol

    • @paulpoldma20
      @paulpoldma20 4 роки тому +1

      @@traphall Lloyds advice also works and it's completely free. Dan gives great advice but every video he mentions the fucking book like his video doesn't matter shit and oh "buy the book, it's great!"
      "You'll become the best seducer ever" wooow

    • @judedsouza2989
      @judedsouza2989 4 роки тому +1

      Paulz Are you actually complaining about someone trying to make money on top of the hours of free content they already providing.
      Life isn’t free, mate

    • @paulpoldma20
      @paulpoldma20 4 роки тому +2

      @@judedsouza2989 Yeah life isn't free... neither is that book worth 97 dollars not complaining just speaking the truth but aaight 😉

  • @subliminalsanctuary7832
    @subliminalsanctuary7832 3 роки тому +80

    I will make it short:
    If you want to be winner: Turn to darksides
    If you want to remain loser: Be a Nice guy and remain on the blue pill

    • @danielrojas-db9nq
      @danielrojas-db9nq 3 роки тому +2

      Do you think all responsable and successful people that sit on top of the social hierarchy are just simple bad boys? don't be fooled. Unless that by wining you just ment fuck.

    • @B.attle-Brother
      @B.attle-Brother 3 роки тому +11

      Well of course it is, the darkside is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural.

    • @dandaman9009
      @dandaman9009 Місяць тому

      I can’t kill the person I was raised to be, now I’m bitter and angry and nihilistic, I’m done, I hope you see a monster if you see me in the street, you want mento show empathy to people who won’t spit on me if I’m on fire? No I hate everyone and everything I go to work and the gym, I have no life, no friends, no dates, but people leave me alone, they cross the street to get away from me, I’d rather be feared and respected than loved

    • @cosbyngumuya539
      @cosbyngumuya539 Місяць тому

      @@dandaman9009sorry buddy. sending love 🫂

  • @axel253
    @axel253 4 роки тому +18

    So many people say they need to become an asshole, and they stop doing things for stranger, helping them, holding door for elder people and really become someone with no moral and they still think they should do these to get woman 🤦‍♂️

  • @pablov4449
    @pablov4449 3 роки тому +34

    Good looking, confident, funny, finantial stability, social, good in bed... that's a really big list to fulfill in order to be lucky with women, I find it amazing how other men manage to get into a relantionship and even get married, I'm screwed.

  • @rickvangils100
    @rickvangils100 5 років тому +95

    Excellent video as always Lloyd. Don't be an asshole, be a good guy with balls and confidence.

  • @yell50
    @yell50 3 роки тому +31

    My girlfriend of 3 years dumped me for a bad boy I was so crippled inside, two years later I found out from a reliable source that this guy put her on the streets and got her hooked on drugs, her attractiveness had dissipated effecting her speech, skin and teeth I chuckled to myself and said serves her right, she got what she wanted.

    • @SuperYtc1
      @SuperYtc1 3 роки тому +12

      That must have been such an amazing and relieving feeling hearing that news.

    • @jamesrawlings5781
      @jamesrawlings5781 2 роки тому +8

      @@SuperYtc1 What? Do you realise how hurt and damaged you have to be to feel good about that?
      I think that's called 'giving your power away'.

    • @SuperYtc1
      @SuperYtc1 2 роки тому +9

      @@jamesrawlings5781 It's called Karma.

    • @jamesrawlings5781
      @jamesrawlings5781 2 роки тому +7

      @@SuperYtc1 It's called being corrupted from the inside by other people's actions.

    • @jackjack4412
      @jackjack4412 2 роки тому

      Wow. You sound like a POS and you definitely never loved her. Learn to love yourself so you can love (and fuck) others.

  • @tovarussell1581
    @tovarussell1581 3 роки тому +15

    I learned so much about myself from this.
    I ask myself all the time why do I fall into so many abusive relationships, it’s so true,
    I also went to that ass whole extreme and now my niceness comes from a strength

  • @massimiliano_mogetta_bartolini
    @massimiliano_mogetta_bartolini 4 роки тому +7

    Amazing content, finally somebody debunks the myth about being an asshole is the thing. It is not. Being a high quality guy with high standards is the ultimate thing.

  • @ImBrockatron
    @ImBrockatron 3 роки тому +3

    Moral of the story she cares more about what other people think about you than what she thinks about you.

  • @AffyisAffy
    @AffyisAffy 4 роки тому +2

    Also I see a lot of guys who are afraid to show any sign of anger with women. Nothing dries women up faster than a passive aggressive asshole. Guys need to learn how to show anger and aggression in a controlled but direct manner. When she hands you a shit sandwich don't smile and say, "DELICIOUS!"

  • @w.kamaranjoku1712
    @w.kamaranjoku1712 3 роки тому +10

    A woman straight up told me she doesn’t like me cos am a nice guy haha

  • @alexaguilar8546
    @alexaguilar8546 5 років тому +110

    7:53-8:53 thats a freaking brilliant insight

    • @amaanrampath4100
      @amaanrampath4100 4 роки тому

      I feel like the peacock one was good...the banter is true, and it works 😉

  • @dr.strange6458
    @dr.strange6458 5 років тому +54

    Great content..there is another great video by Jordan Peterson on "nice guys" which I thinks is worth looking at on ytbe.

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  5 років тому +13

      Cool I'll check it out. Love JB!

  • @bobkeeler5964
    @bobkeeler5964 2 роки тому +4

    Women are attracted to men that DON'T have to have them or need them (not full arrogance, but just a touch of it mixed in). They instinctually want what they cant have. Women are instinctually attracted to confident, strong men. It's a primal survival thing. Kind of like how men are attracted to a woman that can cook food for them. It's primal. Women over eat more than men do... because they want what they know isn't good for them, especially if they cant get it, they can become obsessed with getting whatever "it" is. If you are man that's been with many women you are already aware of this fact. Both men and women share this human trait/flaw but women are reactive, where men are more pro active.
    I've always taken the approach with a female that I like, that I can "take them or leave them", never revealing that I'm crazy about them (if I am). If/when you ever let them know they "got you".. watch out because your worth in their eyes will begin to diminish and they wont even know why (this will happen almost subconsciously for them). It's instinct. It's primal. It's millions of years of evolution and sociology. Act like a powerful, capable, strong (not weak or fragile) man, even if you go home and cry in your pillow at night LOL. The "Master Level" of all this is to exude confidence and strength without coming off as an arrogant Ahole. If you can figure that out you will hook them and hold them, but the secret is you can never let them see weakness. When you do.. it's over.
    EXAMPLE: I had an X wife that I finally dropped my guard on and showed my mortality because I was done with her and I wanted her to be the one to blame for the relationship not working. Within a year she had an affair on me and we divorced and she paid me alimony for a year because I caught her cheating. She didn't know why she cheated she just knew she lost her attraction to me. So heed my words...I know what I'm talking about guys. Never let them see you sweat! (until your ready for them to)

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 4 роки тому +20

    People like to be around confident people!

    • @tmpqtyutmpqty4733
      @tmpqtyutmpqty4733 3 роки тому +2

      Only women do. I don't think men look for someone with confidence.

  • @talonhiggins9393
    @talonhiggins9393 4 роки тому +9

    Confidence dominance charisma

  • @thecatrooms
    @thecatrooms 4 роки тому +5

    I learned more in this one video than 15 years of school

  • @nimkal
    @nimkal Рік тому +1

    Some women would argue that they like the predictability as they can trust it.

  • @rich0373
    @rich0373 5 років тому +47

    I made it to the end buddy, love your channel 💪

  • @bennybenny7382
    @bennybenny7382 3 роки тому +5

    I'm so glad that I don't have to be a nasty person to get girls. It made me suicidal and made my life hell thinking this way, because it's just not what I wanted and I believed all women only love them type of guys and it warped my perception

  • @bobcobb5388
    @bobcobb5388 5 років тому +15

    Absolutely love the knowledge you share. Insightful af. Please keep doing what you're doing. Thanks!

  • @yemiamoo1679
    @yemiamoo1679 4 роки тому +1

    Dude is so real it's almost unbelievable

  • @1992Xenomorph
    @1992Xenomorph 4 роки тому +6

    This is my current situation. What about when I’m being a asshole with the girl and she is laughing, smiling and she understand that the vibe is playful and fun, but behind my back she is complaining to the nice guy that I’m mean, rude and pissing her off and being an asshole to her. Am I still doing it right? Should I continue being an “asshole” or am I gonna get in trouble and beef with someone who has no business worrying about her and I?

    • @KylerMC
      @KylerMC 4 роки тому

      Fif Baab keep doing what you’re doing

    • @Kerstcactus
      @Kerstcactus 4 роки тому +1

      Maybe your assumption that she understands it's just a playful thing is wrong. It kinda seems that way if she's talking about how mean you are behind your back. I would check with her to be sure she's cool with your behaviour.

  • @hannankhan8166
    @hannankhan8166 3 роки тому +7

    "She will make your life just as miserable as she is" 👌🏻

  • @georgesparks7833
    @georgesparks7833 Рік тому

    Thanks for your time a lot of good info. I agree that you're severely underrated because you give a lot of really good information very straightforward easy to understand keep it up.

  • @webuser3439
    @webuser3439 3 роки тому +1

    Great advice. I never noticed that I've been doing the exact things mentioned in this video.

  • @geronimo5537
    @geronimo5537 4 роки тому +7

    As a woman who dates other women. This is all true.

  • @jcastrocia
    @jcastrocia 2 роки тому

    Thanx for the solid ideas bro 😎👍

  • @tenderhooligan7580
    @tenderhooligan7580 5 років тому +5

    Great video Lloyd....Keep em coming bro

  • @morelions4014
    @morelions4014 3 роки тому +1

    I've seen guys get kicked out of nightclubs, because drunk and disordly, and women just chase them.

  • @manuelalvarez25
    @manuelalvarez25 4 роки тому +6

    Ok you are one of the best doing this content!

  • @nathaelgonzalez8991
    @nathaelgonzalez8991 2 роки тому

    Do you still have the mentorship program going Lloyd ?

  • @funkyboodah
    @funkyboodah 2 роки тому

    these videos are SO DAMN USEFUL

  • @UranoSteam
    @UranoSteam 3 роки тому +1

    12:06 Dude got some sick bars

  • @skyscout3
    @skyscout3 4 роки тому +20

    do u have that type of anxiety problem where when you speak to girls or camera or give a presentation you feel like swallowing? I thought I was the only one

  • @firemanfogo1087
    @firemanfogo1087 4 роки тому +7

    Good video, you have some real good knowledge in that brain, hey buddy have ever thinking of lifting weights? You add the personality and characters of yours and a stronger more
    Muscles of yourself you’d been even more unstoppable, and sharper in your game, keep up the hard work bro

    • @holdencaulfield8239
      @holdencaulfield8239 4 роки тому +1

      WildWolf Man Wildness I agree, if he added that last puzzle piece he would be unstoppable

    • @lucasstames5940
      @lucasstames5940 4 роки тому +3

      That's what's cool about him is that hes not a hot shot joc. Hes like a guy who has a lot of chicks but doesnt dress sharp .

    • @Adenoidsqwe
      @Adenoidsqwe 3 роки тому

      @@lucasstames5940 look at his face

  • @huntersmith8477
    @huntersmith8477 3 роки тому

    This is why I fw Lloyd

  • @nathaelgonzalez8991
    @nathaelgonzalez8991 2 роки тому

    Best explanation ever !

  • @mikehawk3268
    @mikehawk3268 4 роки тому +3

    This reminds me that one episode of family guy when quagmire gave tips to stewie on how to talk to a girl🤣🤣

  • @einareinarsson8662
    @einareinarsson8662 3 роки тому

    I like your channel. One of the best I seen.

  • @maximuscomfort
    @maximuscomfort 4 роки тому +1

    Love this guys information, and so into the human psyche.

  • @nickdavis4487
    @nickdavis4487 2 роки тому +1

    Is it possibly to turn it around on the same girl that I've been way too nice to?

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 2 роки тому +1

    i don't know if these guys are necessarily 'assholes' It's just that they are so confident in themselves that they don't care about what anybody else thinks about them. They don't follow the narrative, which makes them disagreeable and stand out from all the nice guys in the room. Women generally like tension and drarma, and more importantly they like unpredictability like Lloyd said. If you can constantly keep a chick on her toes then your doing something right.

  • @richardroy6490
    @richardroy6490 4 роки тому +6

    I almoooooooooost left.
    Then you mentioned the peacocks 🦚

  • @mohammadalshibli3006
    @mohammadalshibli3006 2 роки тому

    You are amazing , 👏 I learned a lot from you

  • @jaxkman
    @jaxkman 4 роки тому +6

    Best way to get attention in 2020 is just don’t wear a mask. Everyone looks at you like you’re crazy. But it makes the girls interested

  • @vonq9831
    @vonq9831 2 роки тому

    I watched this Video to the End ......

  • @the_boss2194
    @the_boss2194 6 місяців тому

    Ok for the candy crush example I’m glad you explained what it is. But can you explain HOW to be that guy who does what he does? Like give us examples

  • @ashleyk9328
    @ashleyk9328 4 роки тому +7

    The random rewards you are talking about, it’s what us women with self respect call ‘breadcrumbs’.

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  4 роки тому +4

      Yup stay away from guys that do that

  • @kanivakil198
    @kanivakil198 Рік тому +1

    I'll try to answer this question before I listen to the answer. Some girls like "assholes" because of the level of true confidence that they have and that they're not overly concerned about what other people think about them. They are leaders who create their own path of success and are innovative/creative thinkers which starkly contrast followers who merely want to "blend in". However, it must be true confidence that was gained from real life successes. There are additional reasons, but I think authentic confidence is the most important one. Now, let's see how wrong or right I am!

  • @christianpalao3043
    @christianpalao3043 4 роки тому

    Thanks for your videos man!! 🤙🏼👍🏼

  • @chrisg9046
    @chrisg9046 4 роки тому +2

    This video is pure gold bro.

  • @_yxngwxlf_
    @_yxngwxlf_ 2 роки тому +4

    This girl that I've really liked (for four years) rejected me In a indirect way because I asked her to come to this place so I could tell her something Important ( Hinting her I want to tell her I like her) and she came there with her friend, I felt disrespected and humiliated so I switched the topic so I make It look as Ive wanted to ask her something else which I did. But the thing is she always goes for dudes that are complete assholes , those dudes are weak because they have to put others down to lift their ego up , and I dont want to change how I am and How I treat other people In order to be liked. I dont have to be liked .

    • @_yxngwxlf_
      @_yxngwxlf_ 2 роки тому

      @Chantel Waters I did , but her friend was trying to sneakingly listen , My intentions were clear, because its not everyday that I ask her to tell her something Important

    • @_yxngwxlf_
      @_yxngwxlf_ 2 роки тому

      @Chantel Waters Thank you for the reply though

    • @_yxngwxlf_
      @_yxngwxlf_ 2 роки тому

      @Chantel Waters Thanks man.. I'm happy I did it , I took a huge stone off my heart , a lot of weight. Much love

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the advice!! --- I'm trying as hard as I can to suddenly become a Big A-hole so I can attract women!!!

  • @Mirkocc14
    @Mirkocc14 4 роки тому +1

    I don't understand what you said about random rewards, what is that please?

    • @kseminolegirl8756
      @kseminolegirl8756 3 роки тому +1

      @mirkocc14 He means giving the girl random moments of affection or attention so that it’s enough to keep her interested in the guy.

    • @Mirkocc14
      @Mirkocc14 3 роки тому +3

      @@kseminolegirl8756 when I wrote this comment I was desperate about a girl I gave everything but she cheated with an ahole. The ahole moved on a number of times, she came begging, even sent her mum and brother pleading for her. Sweet revenge, I double my salary during those months while she is struggling to make ends meet. Sweet fucking revenge, I bought a Rolex

  • @cookmeadrinkshow4814
    @cookmeadrinkshow4814 3 роки тому +1

    lol ppl tell me all the time that Im loud asf, maybe Im natural alpha xDD

  • @SoCoolScience
    @SoCoolScience Рік тому

    People always says "god I hate that guy hes such an ass hole" dont hate the guy hate the women who slept with him to make him that way.

  • @jaspergabriels8933
    @jaspergabriels8933 5 років тому +8

    How to connect with women on dates.. They never want to see me again after a first date.. Even when I had sex. Too superficial I think and I can't get deeper I tried to find what they find so nice about what they do but still it's like I can't bond.. I cried really after my last date because just having sex is nothing

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  5 років тому

      How do your dates usually go?

    • @jaspergabriels8933
      @jaspergabriels8933 5 років тому

      @@TheSingleGuy too normal and stiff I keep then like 10 good questions in my head but I fall too much in interview mode.. And can't create sexual chemistry with them and connect I think that combination. But my humor is also very bad. In the club I can pull a lot but I just can't keep them trough my fucked up dates:(

    • @gu3sswh075
      @gu3sswh075 4 роки тому +6

      Jasper Gabriels watch AMS - Alpha Male Strategies, Dan Bacon, MJ Getright. You have to put in the work to get the results you want

  • @DaytonaStation
    @DaytonaStation 4 роки тому

    no you did a great job. Learned a lot.

  • @foufa5965
    @foufa5965 5 років тому

    I fucking love your channel brother. Could you do like a 101 series that pretty much builds up to a free course?

  • @ashresearcher
    @ashresearcher 2 роки тому

    You're amazing

  • @mpenduloshongwe3569
    @mpenduloshongwe3569 3 роки тому

    😂😂😂😂whe he says i dnt advise u to use ds method.....but he knws we are only gna pick the asshole moves

  • @MarcinGrobelkiewicz
    @MarcinGrobelkiewicz 4 роки тому +1

    It is worth to say they look dangerous . It is worth to look attractive

  • @KingJuls.
    @KingJuls. 3 роки тому +1

    just dgaf it's simple when u don't care they care more, still show ur interest but just have that dgaf attitude respectfully

  • @80drhansen
    @80drhansen 4 роки тому +1

    Love this

  • @rm6857
    @rm6857 5 років тому

    Would love to know about type of girls, who like to be treated like shit.

  • @angelajia3800
    @angelajia3800 3 роки тому

    What if the girl is too smart to be fooled?

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 роки тому

    I saw everything , those womens end up like ...

  • @M3urs
    @M3urs 4 роки тому

    Great content bro, thanks

  • @Stormcloakvictory
    @Stormcloakvictory 4 роки тому

    You're a legend

  • @davidbischoff6977
    @davidbischoff6977 4 роки тому

    I thought women could tell if I'm not being genuine. If I'm taking being an asshole isn't that just as bad as being one?

  • @samuelcuellar1766
    @samuelcuellar1766 4 роки тому

    Yo I dig your work thanks for the knwlg

  • @yasmin90s
    @yasmin90s 4 роки тому +3

    I'm a woman and I watch this guy to understand myself better lmfao

  • @rareview362
    @rareview362 3 роки тому

    Good points

  • @tmpqtyutmpqty4733
    @tmpqtyutmpqty4733 3 роки тому

    I don't understand the confidence thing about women, What are they dogs that we need to show confidence around?
    Its insane, women, choose a human being, not someone to take care of you

  • @Ejiro__Kirishima
    @Ejiro__Kirishima 4 роки тому

    Omfg!
    I was about to make a rant comment when I just saw the thumbnail and title but you are great!
    I couldn’t agree more with everything.

    • @GamerX007
      @GamerX007 3 роки тому

      Why?

    • @Ejiro__Kirishima
      @Ejiro__Kirishima 3 роки тому

      @@GamerX007 because it was clickbait, so I thought he was going to be like an incel or something.

  • @SuperYtc1
    @SuperYtc1 3 роки тому

    So the moral of the story is to become 200 pounds overweight. Because, like the peacock and its big unnecessary feathers, if you are this weight and are still surviving, it must mean you have other strong traits. Thanks for the advice! Going to order McDonalds right now. :)

  • @pigeonwoah1431
    @pigeonwoah1431 3 роки тому

    Isn’t that emotional manipulation to be giving little bites of affection

  • @brett103
    @brett103 10 місяців тому

    Women don’t like a guy who respects them. 🎉

  • @mermaidcodes
    @mermaidcodes 3 роки тому

    Im mind blown ! Guys realy do these stuff ? Dame !

  • @craigosborne8667
    @craigosborne8667 4 роки тому

    Thanks sir !!

  • @SzuesS
    @SzuesS 5 років тому +3

    Is there a video on more info about the 1 on 1 program?

    • @TheSingleGuy
      @TheSingleGuy  5 років тому +2

      I discuss the coaching program on a 1 on 1 basis. Every guy has different needs. Shoot me an email and I can give you more information. TheSingleGuy2017@gmail.com

  • @vechnomolodoi7083
    @vechnomolodoi7083 4 роки тому +1

    Please give an example explain 7:53-8:53

  • @morelions4014
    @morelions4014 3 роки тому

    Actually I think it's more like all the women they talk to say yes.

  • @noneparty7692
    @noneparty7692 4 роки тому

    hey what did you mean by rewards ?

  • @D0N_Nadie
    @D0N_Nadie 4 роки тому +1

    I'm an asshole myself and I don't see women loving or chasing me haha but that's just how it is

  • @itzrxlm3268
    @itzrxlm3268 4 роки тому +1

    Being lean is another one of those impractical attractive traits. Being lean is inherently detrimental for survival because you have to eat more, and won't last as long without food. So you must have something else going on to do that and still survive, which is why women like lean guys

  • @32degreesonoflights.pmason48
    @32degreesonoflights.pmason48 4 роки тому

    Excellent video bro

  • @xbox123456789
    @xbox123456789 3 роки тому +1

    roman reigns is a baby face for sure.

  • @rianlaney8691
    @rianlaney8691 4 роки тому

    yes this shirt!!!!

  • @vechnomolodoi7083
    @vechnomolodoi7083 4 роки тому

    Can you explain the essence of this video I'm just Russian and I don't understand anything

  • @Liathrys
    @Liathrys 3 роки тому

    So basically, virtue is useless.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 роки тому

    Those girls dont appreciate my present , I mean some of them , I perfer save and earn more money and get 100000 times better girls probably smarter than me lolz

  • @toothlessnightfury1820
    @toothlessnightfury1820 4 роки тому +11

    this dude and other coaches teach you how to get that girlfriend who will give you the finger as a joke on the second date and jokes about cheating on you with her best friend on the third date..these guides never get you a woman who will respect you, she's gonna love you but not respect you (it's a thing).

  • @Nathanjo88
    @Nathanjo88 5 років тому +3

    Another great video! Thanks man!

  • @puseletsotsilo
    @puseletsotsilo 3 роки тому

    I am a woman and I don't like asholes, I don't think a matured woman goes for that, just be confident and kind and have empathy that's all

    • @SuperYtc1
      @SuperYtc1 3 роки тому

      You think you don't, but you do.

  • @talonhiggins9393
    @talonhiggins9393 4 роки тому +1

    The lightskinned Patrice jus a lil

  • @kanebouchard6303
    @kanebouchard6303 4 роки тому +1

    Nice guys finish last hate to say it.

  • @amazinmets8439
    @amazinmets8439 4 роки тому +7

    MGTOW. That is all.

  • @morelions4014
    @morelions4014 3 роки тому

    Also these bad boys are probably been bought up to be spoilt little brats and get everything given to them.