One contention I have with all of this is that you can only flirt with people who are open to flirting. I.e., you can only really make any sort of connection with someone who is open enough to let you do that. Which means not everyone is a viable option. Not everyone will want to be open with you. And that's okay. It doesn't necessarily mean they don't find you attractive, and even if they don't, it's not so set in stone. You can still be friendly and honourable and walk away with your head held high. It's not about winning every time. It's about playing this "game" with grace and humility.
@@richardslater3737 this is what I struggle with. Whenever I talk to women I get this deep feeling that they don't really want to talk to me. Whenever I'm with women who are more forward it's a lot easier but usually it's like pulling teeth and I run out of things to say really quickly.
@@Sundji The more you practice the better and confident you will get at it. Dont you think there will alwys be girls which dont wanna talk to you? On the other side there always will be girls which wanna talk to you. The more you put yourself in that situation the higher the chance you meet your girl. Keep going!
One more mistake Jordan made before he left was during the workshop with Gianna when all he could think about was his failure with Flavia. The lesson here is BE PRESENT (sometimes easier said than done)
@@HighIntegritySkills he could genuinely be a nice person just bad social skills, i feel like people jump to conclusions too much when nice guys are mentioned.
Dude it is a reality show. This is not how the real world works Being beautiful matters but after one or two hook ups personality is more important But the hotter you are the more "practice" you can get which makes you more confident. Thats all
There's def. a spiral effect, winning creates a winning mindset and attitude and you get more positive reference experiences. If you dont have that naturally you have to find other ways to create that upward spiral
@@accurategamer7085they are very much scripted. In my experience, good looking people are sometimes the most boring, passive and shallow people. You need to actually talk to them to know what they are really about. Sometimes these good looking people have become lazy to make self improvement or aim for something more meaningful in their lives other than their looks. It's pathetic.
You do, it doesn't matter if they come to you etc, if you have no social skills or inner beliefs in yourself (game) they will move from high levels of interest to low immediately, you won't get that deep level of attraction from women with just looking good, your point is that it only opens doors, and mojarity of times you won't get the ones you want, just setalling with the ones that just come to you, a lot of handsome men have this same problem, and even worse having no game they will loose interest in that moment when approaching or overtime, because you don't know what your doing
I've been told I'm handsome many times but I have such bad social anxiety i struggle so much with woman. I probably struggle more than many average looking guys.
I see a lot of people saying they don't want to play. If it depends on it, they prefer to stay single. I was one of those people. I did a self-evaluation and realized that it was a mistake on my part. In the case of women, because men are more visual, I don't know if it has a considerable impact. But in the case of men, it makes a difference, since our weakness is in the ear. Over time, I overcame my shyness and, as he said in the video, it's great when we find someone who knows how to play. The flirting process becomes more fun and we start to enjoy the process instead of putting pressure on ourselves about the result.
@@shaktimishra9710 tbh , that’s a powerful story: if you can tell yourself that you’re just afraid of catching a charge enough times then it’s not gonna be your fault , all introspection be damned.
the whole "men are more visual" thing is a lie. It turns out that women are more visual. And they swipe on the top 3% of men in terms of LOOKS, and think every other man is ugly. Whereas men rate women on a bellcurve and have diverse taste in women
Honestly it's not shyness. Or maybe it is, idk how other people define shyness but the act of making small talk with strangers and especially trying to flirt with strangers makes me feel physically ill. I think maybe I'm just always expecting it to go bad.
Stop this men are more visual cope. Women are really as visual if not more so. Again it’s just more cope for male fantasy thinking they circumnavigate subpar genetics
People only flirt with people across the board or under as long as they feel confident , if you’re extra attractive as a guy women get scared of you they get off on rejecting you , then they’ll show off with their friends and brag about them rejecting you , they expect you to chase them and bring them flowers as if you’re an average guy who has the need to chase them as an attractive person you don’t bring flowers do not chase , if you’re attractive you get chosen by many women throughout the days and choose from the ones who choose you , women tend to fall in love because you only showed interest once and moved on , if you want to remain attractive to their eyes you have to be kind of mean firm in your decisions , it’s weird but once you understand the psychology you kind of understand handsome guys , as an attractive guy you’re not giggling ,goofy and trying to be like by everyone like a politician you don’t be befriending everyone that kills you’re attractiveness, small circle and be selective who you let in , if you’re going to have secs with someone below 8 you let them know is only secs clingy women are annoying and can cause you many problems don’t lie to them let them know is just fun for the time being … otherwise deal with their devilish evil ways .
@@justheretoinspireyou5803 I mostly agree but I think women are just so f'ed in head they enjoy making fun of any guy they reject, not necessarily the attractive ones
An easy thing to do is simply start off by asking a girl how she is doing whether it’s “how’re you doing today” and this can be in any setting whether you’re working with a girl or in line with a girl or in the car with the girl and see how far the convo goes. She’s gonna tell you about her day so far or how good or bad it is and then you simply feed off that, can talk about the things happening in her day or her weekend plans or what she’s gonna do the rest of the day or after work or her schooling, and sound interested, remember the old saying is that people like talking about THEMSELVES, especially girls, and be chill and crack some jokes and ASK QUESTIONS about what they’re going to school for, how’d they end up at a certain job, etc, because they see it as you sounding like you genuinely care about what’s going on with them 🤌
The problem is every other guy is asking her with those same words. You have to stand out. I like, "what's been the highlight of your day (or week if it's early in the day, or weekend if it's Mon/Tues)
Too bad people are trying to optimize and figure out all the patterns of "love and intimacy", if you figure out "authenticity" it ain't authenticity no more
😅😅😅making dating complicated....if you like someone be honest about it, if the person doesnt like you move on to the next one...its a game of numbers for us men
Def agree with all of your points. Based on my experience going out for years with many attractive people and not so attractive, a game/confidence will get you 8/10 girls you are communicating with. Looks help a lot when you initiate a conversation but will it only get you so far. My short and not very physically attractive mates are hanging out with girls who are at least 7 or 8 every weekend. Being 6'0, jacked, and with a Russian accent helps me get my foot in the door but what I noticed is that if I am feeling scared, shy, or not confident girls will see it from a mile away and will turn me down but when I am confident, outgoing and just having a good time everything works out pretty easily
I wasn't sure where this video was going bcs analysing a dating show, where it's pretty clear a lot of them will make out bcs thats what the show is all about at the end. But I then thought to myself this video is very good in two ways. Firstly, even tho that most of the psyc.-strategies would feel unauthentic to me, you really worked them out well with the contestent and how these strategies aline very impressivly with their character. Secondly, the whole video is very well made. It's not over the top and tells me all the time "these are the tricks you have to use yourself", it is authentic itself. Even tho I struggle with the thought off all these strategies and trick, cause they feel very unauthentic to me (I'd love to hear your opinion on that) the video just analyses really well what is going on and what makes Cathrine so good at what she is doing.
I think Catherine is a Natural, if you grow up modeling in LA as a woman you pick up these skills pretty organically. You optimize for authenticity by building these tools around your real identity, that's what makes it not a trick. Like a knife its just a tool, can be used to cook dishes or cut people.
@@HighIntegritySkills Thank you for your answer! I see what you mean now. I also bought your book and kinda excited to nerd myself into it and learn how, as you said, build my appearance around my authenticity :)
Concerning observations each of us can make on the street, it’s clear that about 10% of beautiful women are together with men who are only a 3 out of 10 in looks. From what I’ve learned from those men when going out is that they often aren’t rich either. But they are witty af. They are comedian level banter masters. They make sharp observations and are nonverbally skilled. So, yes, game matters more than looks in a significant portion of attractive women (not all of course )
@blow3168 they are just as superficial idk where you people get the idea that they aren't and then they double down and need you to have money on top of being hot
@@blow3168they are still superficial but in others ways - it might not be looks, but it will be respect from others, their aura/vibe, ability to socially navigate, and lifestyle.
100 years ago ppl got arranged marriages n had a happy life. Nowadays u gotta read a book about the most strategic and opitmized way to talk to a girl so u get her👍
The problem is when you don't want to flirt. Nerly all the women speak to you in a flirty way or interested way. So, it's like forced. I don't want to give out vibes to women i don't like, which is most of them, because of attitude+looks. Usually either of this is good and other is bad or vice versa.
Good video dude!, i havent watched it fully, but your explanation about females is realistic. After watching it, i knew a lot of information, and i want to do the same concept. Seems like it hits off, Keep on pushing the good message dude!
I have the best wife ever, and don't see myself marrying anyone after her. Even when there's another women, I hardly feel the need to flirt and just want to go on about my day. Somehow I'm addicted to listening to your advices, even though I'm pretty sure I won't use it to pick up women.
Yeah you're right - selfish and manipulative with no real substance. Seeing him get so emotional over it is wild to me. It seems like either there was some trauma that was prodded, or he's not used to being passed up on like that.
I’m a very attractive guy (19). Whenever I go out in public women continuously stare at me, many others have complimented me on my good looks. I don’t have friends or girlfriends. I want a girlfriend and friends. It’s really boring. Im thinking about ending my life but if I do I’ll be wasting my good looks. Im scared of the future and don’t think I’ll make it in the real world. I’m not a well spoken person. What must I do to improve ?
@@TheNightOwl-i8R Brother do you show up at places where women hang out? How old are you? When i say without even trying, i dont mean i do nothing haha! Sorry, to clarify, i approach them irl or on social media! Most of them react positively and we see where it goes! Wanna chat more with me? Was it clear? SHOW UP IN PLACES WHERE WOMEN HANG OUT? WHERE? EVERYWHERE HAHA! Ofc, when you have free time, do not chase them! Recently i chased i girl i liked a lot and it led me nowhere!
@@j_p1747 I’m 19 currently living on my own. My mom went to go work abroad in another country but I have my apartment all for myself and had plans to have girls over but don’t know how to get them. I have my own car so I drive to meet women but I don’t know where to go ? Should I message them on instagram ?( but what do I say ) ? Like if I see a pretty girl on instagram must message her ? Which places do pretty women go to ?
Dude save the cope for your mom and dad. We are talking about “humans”. We are so even we think somehow natural selection doesn’t apply to use but it applies to every other species in nature. Just be quiet with this cope. Of I look for personality not Looks BS. Your shallow by nature not choice. We all want good-looking partners
nah hear my experience, as a hot guy when I was in high school I kissed an average girl to me she was ugly, my who body shaked then I became confident and hot chicks came for me. Its all about experience.
Come on stop the cap. Really good looking guys don’t have any problem attracting beautiful women. Try being 5’6 half Hispanic and Filipino with no attractive masculine physical features living in a predominantly white city. You can have all the charisma, game and charming outgoing personality in the world but if she doesn’t find you physically attractive then she will not give you a chance to display those characteristics.
I don’t have the best game but dislike people that can’t talk or follow through in general. Also bad jokes. I don’t like unintentionally badly made jokes. I don’t see it as flirting it’s just off putting.
Im doomed. Im cringing at every flirtatious line. Id probably scowl if im sitting at a table of girls and theyre all trying out 1 liners on me. This shit made me wanna vomit. Also why I dont feel comfortable competing with men for a womans attention. I can genuinely only flirt in private with someone I already have a connection with.
You dont hear: “im from california” because he knows people outside of california wont kjow Bakersfield, Anaheim, san jose, etc. so doesn’t have to specify the exact city because non-californians wont know it outside of major cities.
" hot women " " good looking guys " " chads " and bla bla bla the terminology of relationship market is a mean to devalue humanbeing worth to the trash . Every one is looking for the best . There is no room for compromise. I am happy i am out for good cause i know there would be zero to very slight commitment to any of them .
@sasandadashzadeh-x8h that may be so, but that "terminology" is still useful to frame specific aspects of relationships and human psyche which have been playing into our lives for millenia and will continue to do so whether you agree with it or not
@darealdealuk and you see why the duration of relationships are reduced to one digit years or months . man or woman see another " hot one " and that's over . Society values have dramatically changed in my opinion for worse . " commitment " has lost its meaning.
@sasandadashzadeh-x8h absolutely. It can't help that women are in competition with each other and think they have a higher xex.ual marketplace value than the reality shows, due to modern society (read, "simps", both physical and virtual)
@@darealdealuk I am a guy and i accept the fact that women choose (they are so called place holders) but i am not going to rip myself up just to draw attention of that or this girl .the idea of going to gym so the girls would jump on me despise me . Maybe i am wrong but i am not gonna change . Others should know better what' benefits them .
i think you are bringing up good points, but looks beats game on a fundamental attraction level, game only beats looks if you're good looking enough to where it isn't an issue and you got time to establish connection. instead of game i'd actually call it social competency because that is more of what it is in reality, you have an easier time to understand someone and appeal to them mentally. wether it's genuine or if its manipulation that's a different thing, but this is essentially what they mean by "just be yourself" because if there is compatibility it will create an emotional connection by virtue of just being compatible, but that only works if there is enough physical attraction to where you have met the minimum requirements. this is why women all though saying personality is what they look for they still refer to being out of someones league still if they don't meet their looks or status requirements. good looking people typically lack a bit of game as they coast by on their looks more, but as for the real players, it's the social butterflies, they know they can get what they want by being social so they use that and they feel at home doing so which is where their "confidence" comes from. it's hard becoming a social butterfly but it's possible, it's just that the formative years really put you hard on a path of who you will become when you grow up. but just knowing that there is like an acceptable limit of looks that people are good with and will look to your ability to be fun to be around and feel a "spark" with, it's all that is actually required out of a person, and the simple truth is that you might fuck up and they take it the wrong way or vice versa can happen which is why they say "you win some and you lose some" because it's never gonna be a perfect science, which is why you shouldn't be afraid of fucking up because it will inevitably happen and will happen more so than you will be comfortable with, but thems the breaks.
Idk man I guess at the start you gotta play her a bit and then see what happens Just be yourself, if it doesn't click, then you probably weren't meant for each other Don't waste time
Like the video, but you forgot to say that hot dudes care about a girl's social status/career/money. And they really do care about what car she drives.
Jordan probably never had to do anything ever to get any girls where he comes from. That's probably why he don't know how to flirt, usually it's women flirting with him.
Tbh I’ve always found it weird that women desire men that are desired by other women. Me personally if I like you that’s all that matters I don’t need the whole world interested or gawking at my person. Looks are overrated a lot of these kind of people are shallow.
How about going into the professional ranks and going out with a hot girl , for a year or so, getting engaged and staying married for at least 5 years.Thats long term in this day and age.LoL
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Its not over complimenting, its flattery, big difference. Compliments are genuine, flattery is pure manipulation.
Eitherways both wont get you woman. Woman nowdays cannot bring shit to the table and their very material so for me its a lose lose situation.
@Founderschannel123 who's this big shot??
they're not mutually exclusive, compliments are not always genuine, and flattery constitutes a compliment
@@Founderschannel123 sounds like cope to me Tiny Tim
@@lordhandsomeswag1854 I disagree. if a compliment isn't genuine, its flattery meant to help you, not them.
One contention I have with all of this is that you can only flirt with people who are open to flirting. I.e., you can only really make any sort of connection with someone who is open enough to let you do that. Which means not everyone is a viable option. Not everyone will want to be open with you. And that's okay. It doesn't necessarily mean they don't find you attractive, and even if they don't, it's not so set in stone. You can still be friendly and honourable and walk away with your head held high. It's not about winning every time. It's about playing this "game" with grace and humility.
Very good take!
Women do NOT give obvious cues either
@@taylorbee4010 virgin detectors tingling
@@richardslater3737 this is what I struggle with. Whenever I talk to women I get this deep feeling that they don't really want to talk to me. Whenever I'm with women who are more forward it's a lot easier but usually it's like pulling teeth and I run out of things to say really quickly.
@@Sundji The more you practice the better and confident you will get at it. Dont you think there will alwys be girls which dont wanna talk to you? On the other side there always will be girls which wanna talk to you. The more you put yourself in that situation the higher the chance you meet your girl. Keep going!
One more mistake Jordan made before he left was during the workshop with Gianna when all he could think about was his failure with Flavia. The lesson here is BE PRESENT (sometimes easier said than done)
Good point
Ngl, you know what you're talking about.
@@_Shadow10. I was genuinely surprised when I completed the video. Good stuff
Yup this dude knows what he is talking about!
yup man knows his things
Indeed he does
It's basic knowledge. Just forms it in a way to sell his dating programs
He's the definition of a nice guy, he comes off as boring, not charismatic no flirting no man to woman conversations
Is he a nice guy? Or just a guy pretending to be nice? :)
@@HighIntegritySkills He is an orbiter waiting for his chance to go rogue and SMAAASH
in my eyes he is chill. Imagine talking with him about women all night long. Would love it
@@HighIntegritySkills he could genuinely be a nice person just bad social skills, i feel like people jump to conclusions too much when nice guys are mentioned.
He’s not even good looking though only people with Eurocentric beauty standards would think so
lightskin with euro accent game is jedi level
why do they even let people from previous series there? These contestants are already celebs, that's a huge advantage...
@ dei. Just kidding 🤪
@@dark_Kaiba only if you're in America. Europeans won't care about the accents they hear everyday
@ wonder what’s uncommon and liked by them, if anything lol
@@dark_Kaiba sometimes I hear them say they like American southern or Boston accents. I'm not sure if there's anything else 😄
Dude it is a reality show. This is not how the real world works
Being beautiful matters but after one or two hook ups personality is more important
But the hotter you are the more "practice" you can get which makes you more confident. Thats all
There's def. a spiral effect, winning creates a winning mindset and attitude and you get more positive reference experiences. If you dont have that naturally you have to find other ways to create that upward spiral
After "one or two hookups" 😂😂😂😂.....brah
Thats what he was talking about. "Reality" show. This stuff exists out in reality too.
A lot of reality shows are not even real, but are scripted.
@@accurategamer7085they are very much scripted. In my experience, good looking people are sometimes the most boring, passive and shallow people. You need to actually talk to them to know what they are really about. Sometimes these good looking people have become lazy to make self improvement or aim for something more meaningful in their lives other than their looks. It's pathetic.
Most people who are attractive dont necessarily need game because people just come to them hence why some.might struggle with words
Correct
That's the downside yo being attractive. You naturally don't need to practice game as much as other people which can be bad for the long run.
You do, it doesn't matter if they come to you etc, if you have no social skills or inner beliefs in yourself (game) they will move from high levels of interest to low immediately, you won't get that deep level of attraction from women with just looking good, your point is that it only opens doors, and mojarity of times you won't get the ones you want, just setalling with the ones that just come to you, a lot of handsome men have this same problem, and even worse having no game they will loose interest in that moment when approaching or overtime, because you don't know what your doing
I've been told I'm handsome many times but I have such bad social anxiety i struggle so much with woman. I probably struggle more than many average looking guys.
@avidier7347 Were you raised in the US by the public schooling system?
I love the fact on your emphasis being honest and authentic
Step 1 be born attractive..
@@benjones6857 step2 know how to be normal with opposite sex. Looks are not everything.
@@benjones6857 you can also become attractive tho…
I see a lot of people saying they don't want to play. If it depends on it, they prefer to stay single. I was one of those people. I did a self-evaluation and realized that it was a mistake on my part. In the case of women, because men are more visual, I don't know if it has a considerable impact. But in the case of men, it makes a difference, since our weakness is in the ear. Over time, I overcame my shyness and, as he said in the video, it's great when we find someone who knows how to play. The flirting process becomes more fun and we start to enjoy the process instead of putting pressure on ourselves about the result.
We just don't want false cases against us. You know how women do it all time. So we don't care have them by yourself
@@shaktimishra9710 tbh , that’s a powerful story: if you can tell yourself that you’re just afraid of catching a charge enough times then it’s not gonna be your fault , all introspection be damned.
the whole "men are more visual" thing is a lie. It turns out that women are more visual. And they swipe on the top 3% of men in terms of LOOKS, and think every other man is ugly.
Whereas men rate women on a bellcurve and have diverse taste in women
Honestly it's not shyness. Or maybe it is, idk how other people define shyness but the act of making small talk with strangers and especially trying to flirt with strangers makes me feel physically ill. I think maybe I'm just always expecting it to go bad.
Stop this men are more visual cope. Women are really as visual if not more so. Again it’s just more cope for male fantasy thinking they circumnavigate subpar genetics
I’m not a nice guy, but I’m not trying to get attached or hurt again.
you are hurting yourself this way. and you are definitely a nice guy. i will look for a video on what made you a nice guy made by a famous phycologist
@@lukmanalghdamsi3189 found it?
Istg this show is pure brain rot
Conclusion: Embrace Spirituality ✨
Which Spirit tho
People only flirt with people across the board or under as long as they feel confident , if you’re extra attractive as a guy women get scared of you they get off on rejecting you , then they’ll show off with their friends and brag about them rejecting you , they expect you to chase them and bring them flowers as if you’re an average guy who has the need to chase them as an attractive person you don’t bring flowers do not chase , if you’re attractive you get chosen by many women throughout the days and choose from the ones who choose you , women tend to fall in love because you only showed interest once and moved on , if you want to remain attractive to their eyes you have to be kind of mean firm in your decisions , it’s weird but once you understand the psychology you kind of understand handsome guys , as an attractive guy you’re not giggling ,goofy and trying to be like by everyone like a politician you don’t be befriending everyone that kills you’re attractiveness, small circle and be selective who you let in , if you’re going to have secs with someone below 8 you let them know is only secs clingy women are annoying and can cause you many problems don’t lie to them let them know is just fun for the time being … otherwise deal with their devilish evil ways .
@@justheretoinspireyou5803 I mostly agree but I think women are just so f'ed in head they enjoy making fun of any guy they reject, not necessarily the attractive ones
An easy thing to do is simply start off by asking a girl how she is doing whether it’s “how’re you doing today” and this can be in any setting whether you’re working with a girl or in line with a girl or in the car with the girl and see how far the convo goes. She’s gonna tell you about her day so far or how good or bad it is and then you simply feed off that, can talk about the things happening in her day or her weekend plans or what she’s gonna do the rest of the day or after work or her schooling, and sound interested, remember the old saying is that people like talking about THEMSELVES, especially girls, and be chill and crack some jokes and ASK QUESTIONS about what they’re going to school for, how’d they end up at a certain job, etc, because they see it as you sounding like you genuinely care about what’s going on with them 🤌
The problem is every other guy is asking her with those same words. You have to stand out. I like, "what's been the highlight of your day (or week if it's early in the day, or weekend if it's Mon/Tues)
@ mine was just more towards how to go about it and explaining how simple it can be tbh, but your advice is definitely noted 🤌appreciated it !
Too bad people are trying to optimize and figure out all the patterns of "love and intimacy", if you figure out "authenticity" it ain't authenticity no more
😅😅😅making dating complicated....if you like someone be honest about it, if the person doesnt like you move on to the next one...its a game of numbers for us men
Def agree with all of your points. Based on my experience going out for years with many attractive people and not so attractive, a game/confidence will get you 8/10 girls you are communicating with. Looks help a lot when you initiate a conversation but will it only get you so far. My short and not very physically attractive mates are hanging out with girls who are at least 7 or 8 every weekend. Being 6'0, jacked, and with a Russian accent helps me get my foot in the door but what I noticed is that if I am feeling scared, shy, or not confident girls will see it from a mile away and will turn me down but when I am confident, outgoing and just having a good time everything works out pretty easily
as a not so bad looking guy even tho woman tend to want to be chased, once u look good some females will make a move on u and u don't need no game.
Wow bro epic video. Great breakdown and the kind of info not enough guys know or hear. THIS is the stuff they don’t teach you in school
Damn this video is awesome. This guy really knows about stuff.
Huh, I'm not really in all that pick up thing, but damn that was really beautiful to watch, a literal commentary on human flirting
the best season imo. also great video
I really like how deep you analyze things, the details etc
Hot guys do not struggle with women. They’re doing perfectly fine.
this was one of the best videos i've ever watched on game
If you are a simp, then its your fault. If you are bad looking, then its no ones fault. If you are good looking, then its her fault (hypergamy).
I wasn't sure where this video was going bcs analysing a dating show, where it's pretty clear a lot of them will make out bcs thats what the show is all about at the end. But I then thought to myself this video is very good in two ways.
Firstly, even tho that most of the psyc.-strategies would feel unauthentic to me, you really worked them out well with the contestent and how these strategies aline very impressivly with their character.
Secondly, the whole video is very well made. It's not over the top and tells me all the time "these are the tricks you have to use yourself", it is authentic itself. Even tho I struggle with the thought off all these strategies and trick, cause they feel very unauthentic to me (I'd love to hear your opinion on that) the video just analyses really well what is going on and what makes Cathrine so good at what she is doing.
I think Catherine is a Natural, if you grow up modeling in LA as a woman you pick up these skills pretty organically.
You optimize for authenticity by building these tools around your real identity, that's what makes it not a trick. Like a knife its just a tool, can be used to cook dishes or cut people.
@@HighIntegritySkills Thank you for your answer! I see what you mean now. I also bought your book and kinda excited to nerd myself into it and learn how, as you said, build my appearance around my authenticity :)
@@Weiserflo1998 you have my permission to nerd out lol
@@Weiserflo1998 1 month later. I'm just asking to check in on your progress to see if the book is worth the buy. How is it from your experience?
I don't think society is anything more than just soft manipulation. It's natural. Normal even. Everybody's got to live.
Concerning observations each of us can make on the street, it’s clear that about 10% of beautiful women are together with men who are only a 3 out of 10 in looks. From what I’ve learned from those men when going out is that they often aren’t rich either. But they are witty af. They are comedian level banter masters. They make sharp observations and are nonverbally skilled. So, yes, game matters more than looks in a significant portion of attractive women (not all of course )
Your anecdotes do absolutely nothing to disprove the reality of general dating trends: women being as superficial as men in regards to looks.
@@Noqqinin the short term you’re right however long term they choose a variety of dudes. they aren’t as superficial as us dudes are honestly
@blow3168 they are just as superficial idk where you people get the idea that they aren't and then they double down and need you to have money on top of being hot
Miring the anecdotal fallacy
@@blow3168they are still superficial but in others ways - it might not be looks, but it will be respect from others, their aura/vibe, ability to socially navigate, and lifestyle.
true, looks is one part, games is the other
I loved your video you know what you talking about I'll sub
I was crying when I watched Jordan, and screamed, "Im not bad with confidence"😭broo is sooo cringe
Dua lipa clone, she is hot indeed and she is very playful
Good video
100 years ago ppl got arranged marriages n had a happy life. Nowadays u gotta read a book about the most strategic and opitmized way to talk to a girl so u get her👍
@@Tyfn420 this generation is cooked
Arrange marriage is still prevalent in South Asia
no way you threw in the Mexican cringe cat😂😂 9:13
@@RENEGADECODMWZ that is so funny man hahaha
The problem is when you don't want to flirt. Nerly all the women speak to you in a flirty way or interested way. So, it's like forced. I don't want to give out vibes to women i don't like, which is most of them, because of attitude+looks. Usually either of this is good and other is bad or vice versa.
Girls gotta have game too.
No they don't
@@mentaxog4365 yes
You like a girl just lays there like a dead cat while you go on like a dog on her huh?
@@JLWprime10 but they normally don't
@@mentaxog4365 they do, it gives them more depth
Good video dude!, i havent watched it fully, but your explanation about females is realistic.
After watching it, i knew a lot of information, and i want to do the same concept.
Seems like it hits off, Keep on pushing the good message dude!
I have the best wife ever, and don't see myself marrying anyone after her. Even when there's another women, I hardly feel the need to flirt and just want to go on about my day. Somehow I'm addicted to listening to your advices, even though I'm pretty sure I won't use it to pick up women.
Yeah you're right - selfish and manipulative with no real substance.
Seeing him get so emotional over it is wild to me. It seems like either there was some trauma that was prodded, or he's not used to being passed up on like that.
Sick video!
Wow this was an interesting explanation 😊
Really really well put together bro! 💪
watching jordan is like watching myself
The way the surfer guy’s game will work on me😅
As a good looking guy i get hot women without even trying!
I’m a very attractive guy (19).
Whenever I go out in public women continuously stare at me, many others have complimented me on my good looks.
I don’t have friends or girlfriends. I want a girlfriend and friends.
It’s really boring.
Im thinking about ending my life but if I do I’ll be wasting my good looks.
Im scared of the future and don’t think I’ll make it in the real world. I’m not a well spoken person.
What must I do to improve ?
How ?
I’m a very attractive guy, I don’t have a girlfriend, what must I do ?
@@TheNightOwl-i8R Brother do you show up at places where women hang out? How old are you? When i say without even trying, i dont mean i do nothing haha! Sorry, to clarify, i approach them irl or on social media! Most of them react positively and we see where it goes! Wanna chat more with me? Was it clear? SHOW UP IN PLACES WHERE WOMEN HANG OUT? WHERE? EVERYWHERE HAHA! Ofc, when you have free time, do not chase them! Recently i chased i girl i liked a lot and it led me nowhere!
@@j_p1747 I’m 19 currently living on my own. My mom went to go work abroad in another country but I have my apartment all for myself and had plans to have girls over but don’t know how to get them.
I have my own car so I drive to meet women but I don’t know where to go ?
Should I message them on instagram ?( but what do I say ) ? Like if I see a pretty girl on instagram must message her ?
Which places do pretty women go to ?
@@TheNightOwl-i8R Be a man and find a purpose. Hit the gym and get money
Its good that i dont care about looks but rather look for actual traits worth having in a human being. These people are shallow, prove me wrong.
Dude save the cope for your mom and dad. We are talking about “humans”. We are so even we think somehow natural selection doesn’t apply to use but it applies to every other species in nature. Just be quiet with this cope. Of I look for personality not Looks BS. Your shallow by nature not choice. We all want good-looking partners
Wow, glad I came across this channel.
This video is the best video for flirting
Thanks for you vids man, just subbed🙏🏾
Dayum bro! You blew up!!! So proud of you man 😂😂😂
When I talk to people on discord I say I’m from California they might be on the other side of the world
nah hear my experience, as a hot guy when I was in high school I kissed an average girl to me she was ugly, my who body shaked then I became confident and hot chicks came for me. Its all about experience.
solid vid bro, subbed
I screamed watching Jordan
Morale of the story, Catherine has insane god level game!!!
@@jasongillen8925 God is above that,so stop
So true! No says “I’m from California.”
oh man... Oliva Munn... my 3rd childhood crush on attack of the show
Come on stop the cap. Really good looking guys don’t have any problem attracting beautiful women. Try being 5’6 half Hispanic and Filipino with no attractive masculine physical features living in a predominantly white city. You can have all the charisma, game and charming outgoing personality in the world but if she doesn’t find you physically attractive then she will not give you a chance to display those characteristics.
When two physically attractive people go head to head, the one with better soft skills gets the booty. I think that’s the point of this video.
I've known guys with that kind of background who could pull it off, but they did have unusually high levels of natural charisma & charm.
@@JohnGrigg-gz9gm Those were outliers
What do you want? If you can't get some just go to the Philippines and find some poor village girl to make your wife.
I don’t have the best game but dislike people that can’t talk or follow through in general. Also bad jokes. I don’t like unintentionally badly made jokes. I don’t see it as flirting it’s just off putting.
good point Giovanny
Im doomed. Im cringing at every flirtatious line. Id probably scowl if im sitting at a table of girls and theyre all trying out 1 liners on me. This shit made me wanna vomit. Also why I dont feel comfortable competing with men for a womans attention. I can genuinely only flirt in private with someone I already have a connection with.
You dont hear: “im from california” because he knows people outside of california wont kjow Bakersfield, Anaheim, san jose, etc. so doesn’t have to specify the exact city because non-californians wont know it outside of major cities.
" hot women " " good looking guys " " chads " and bla bla bla the terminology of relationship market is a mean to devalue humanbeing worth to the trash . Every one is looking for the best . There is no room for compromise. I am happy i am out for good cause i know there would be zero to very slight commitment to any of them .
@@sosdada-x8 So true 🙌🏻
@sasandadashzadeh-x8h that may be so, but that "terminology" is still useful to frame specific aspects of relationships and human psyche which have been playing into our lives for millenia and will continue to do so whether you agree with it or not
@darealdealuk and you see why the duration of relationships are reduced to one digit years or months . man or woman see another " hot one " and that's over . Society values have dramatically changed in my opinion for worse . " commitment " has lost its meaning.
@sasandadashzadeh-x8h absolutely. It can't help that women are in competition with each other and think they have a higher xex.ual marketplace value than the reality shows, due to modern society (read, "simps", both physical and virtual)
@@darealdealuk I am a guy and i accept the fact that women choose (they are so called place holders) but i am not going to rip myself up just to draw attention of that or this girl .the idea of going to gym so the girls would jump on me despise me . Maybe i am wrong but i am not gonna change . Others should know better what' benefits them .
Im trying to think about how I can apply these tips and its making me nauseous just imagining flirting.
i think you are bringing up good points, but looks beats game on a fundamental attraction level, game only beats looks if you're good looking enough to where it isn't an issue and you got time to establish connection.
instead of game i'd actually call it social competency because that is more of what it is in reality, you have an easier time to understand someone and appeal to them mentally.
wether it's genuine or if its manipulation that's a different thing, but this is essentially what they mean by "just be yourself" because if there is compatibility it will create an emotional connection by virtue of just being compatible, but that only works if there is enough physical attraction to where you have met the minimum requirements.
this is why women all though saying personality is what they look for they still refer to being out of someones league still if they don't meet their looks or status requirements.
good looking people typically lack a bit of game as they coast by on their looks more, but as for the real players, it's the social butterflies, they know they can get what they want by being social so they use that and they feel at home doing so which is where their "confidence" comes from.
it's hard becoming a social butterfly but it's possible, it's just that the formative years really put you hard on a path of who you will become when you grow up.
but just knowing that there is like an acceptable limit of looks that people are good with and will look to your ability to be fun to be around and feel a "spark" with, it's all that is actually required out of a person, and the simple truth is that you might fuck up and they take it the wrong way or vice versa can happen which is why they say "you win some and you lose some"
because it's never gonna be a perfect science, which is why you shouldn't be afraid of fucking up because it will inevitably happen and will happen more so than you will be comfortable with, but thems the breaks.
The title is pretty Diddy, I cannot lie
Just be your damn self. What’s need to please and be fake? Just be you.
OMG what level of COMPLEX HUMAN BEHAVIOUR is this..this video needs to be studied by CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGISTs..☠️
So goooodddddd
I want a good man and not a hot guy -_-
Easy to understand and very practical tips but ... What's the way to retain a girl for long term
@@xTagore Be masculine, talk less , never be afraid to lose her and be amazing in bedroom. And remember,she is not yours its just your turn
Just don't dump her, and don't be dumped. That simple.
Idk man I guess at the start you gotta play her a bit and then see what happens
Just be yourself, if it doesn't click, then you probably weren't meant for each other
Don't waste time
Bro I ain’t need rizz or game I don’t get girls anyway.
Ill tell u the truth : its not about being good looking, its about being on the look level or plus of the girl , which the guy is not
so that's why. I was wandering
Mate shes got game and gorgeous shes leading him now 😅
13:24 “What about your wife” my brain went somewhere else with that. 😅😅😅
Yea its called game for a reason. Want someone serious stop playing games.
Title says I'm a hot guy, no need to watch the video bye
What?
No, hot guys do get women. WTH?
Yes, they do need social skills. But, hot guys practice social skills just by being handsome.
"I'm being sherioush!"
Like the video, but you forgot to say that hot dudes care about a girl's social status/career/money. And they really do care about what car she drives.
Jordan probably never had to do anything ever to get any girls where he comes from. That's probably why he don't know how to flirt, usually it's women flirting with him.
I FUCKING LOVE THE SCIENCE OF DATING, WOMEN ARE KIND OF HARD TO UNDERSTAND SO I AM LEARNING WOMANESE (RIZZZ) HEEYAAHOOOYA
UA-cam: good looking guys gets no girls ….
Reality: good looking guys gets all and every girl
i tell you what this is a little to much for me to process so am gonna check out from here and probably be single for the rest of my existence. Adios
Wrong just cause i Good looking guy failed on too hot to handle !! millions don't
Why did you use shows like that for dating advice? 😅
Finally an video with proper examples
I've got no game and even I was cringing at that one dude.
Tbh I’ve always found it weird that women desire men that are desired by other women. Me personally if I like you that’s all that matters I don’t need the whole world interested or gawking at my person. Looks are overrated a lot of these kind of people are shallow.
Why are y'all watching this when you know you're not hot bro?😭
i will neve forget my step brother rough dirty skater gettin the hottest girl in school jus couse of hiz charisma storytellin and he jus so funny
Because he has game :) Good to have friends like that constantly reminding you of how important communication skills / storytelling skills are
Preselection sounds like the stock market, where companies like Roblox and IONQ are worth illions at one point, and nothing at the next.
How about going into the professional ranks and going out with a hot girl , for a year or so, getting engaged and staying married for at least 5 years.Thats long term in this day and age.LoL
So, you get to the island and literally spend your money on "getting physical"?
Sounds good
******COPE****** 🤣
is great game just being congruent and comfortable?
big part of it yes. Learning how to do so effectively can be a journey.