Corbin Clapp It's not bad to hate this type of music. At the end of the day it's music first lyrics and meaning second. The lyrics of a song are completely optional. There're plenty of bands that are entirely instrumental. Hating this song doesn't mean they're homophobic jerks, it might just mean dislike punk. Sir, please re-evaluate what makes a good man.
TheRatSquid True. I do not and never have agreed with the majority of Rise Against's politics (they're way too left for me) but I've been a fan for a decade now...gosh now I feel old, and I'm only 22!
HelpStopAnimalAbuses I vote we put effort into stopping human abuse before we concern ourselves with animals. Not to say we shouldn't concern ourselves with the well-being of animals, but it is *imperative* to have our priorities straight.
I'm 30 now and yes life got better, so much better. I'm alive thanks to that band, when I was a teen they saved me, they gave me hope. I'm forever thankful
@@jinfin221 Everyone's life timeline is different. No need to compare to where others currently are in life to your own story. Stay strong and keep writing your story to tell.
@@genlovely1708It may sound trite but take heart, the road is difficult but we are never alone, and although it may not seem like it it can always be better, remember that there are sunny days but there are also storms.
"Stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong." is one of the most powerful verse in a song ever. Thanks for writing this song that help save so many life, thanks to help my teen version in 2011 to see that it would get better, actully it got better, it got so much better. Thank you so much
this is my one true go-to song that reminds me that giving up means I wont be able to prove all those people wrong with my success. Thank you Rise Against
Danny Arnason, age 18 I'm sorry you didn't have the support you needed. I wish you'd made it through. Just know that your niece made it. I'm alive, and standing tall, loving who I love and unashamed. We made it, Uncle Danny. I only wish you'd been alive to see it Edit to add: I am actually a nephew now! Turns out I am not only bisexual, jokes on me. I'm also no contact with my dad now (his brother) I hope Danny would still love me and that if there's some kind of afterlife he can see me living how I need to be
This song saved my life when I was 15 and being bullied relentlessly at school. I’m now 28 with a job non of those people could even dream of, my own house and a good life. If you’re reading this as a kid, it really does get better.
I was 15 when this song came out also. One of my friends had committed suicide right around that time from being bullied for being gay along with many other factors. I was close to the edge too, but this song helped to keep me grounded. Rest in power, Jay Corey Jonestrader.. ❤️ I hope you're still doing okay. People do care and they do think about you.
I've listened to bands that have a song that has melodies that brought me to tears I've listened to bands that have a song that has lyrics that brought me to tears Never have I listened to bands that have all of those and a music video in one song that brought me to tears And never have I watched something that reminded me why I regret every single moment I nearly went off the ledge with each verse To anyone reading this who is being bullied for who they are, don't leap off the ledge! You will miss out on the moment you shine brighter than the ones trying to get you to jump. You can be strong, and you can rise against the bullying, no matter who you are nor where you are in life. Things will get better. They will.
you just got to be strong enough to see that its not the end of the world, everything can be fixed, for anyone struggling YOU GOT THIS, it may not get better but it can't get worse
Man, all these years and I still cry my eyes out watching this. This song helped me come to terms with myself in a rural conservative southern town where I had no one to talk to about it. I remember seeing it on TV and breaking down, finally having some sort of validation & acceptance from somewhere. I went from hating myself because of my sexuality to being able to help fellow LGBT people in town come out with confidence. It really does get better.
I am so so so glad to hear how it got better for you and found acceptance, too. Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years. This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band. If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them. Like frontman Tim Mcilrath says, “Like us still believes in the power of music to change lives - to change everything.” We’re looking for people to answer these questions for a new project in progress: Q: How has Rise Against influenced you? Q: How are you trying to make positive changes in your community? Please submit your answers to the following link: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbTBW9qx8WPg6gO_b9Zs0DeOiZ_MqxF0nfm6iDbsDhIHV24w/viewform?usp=sf_link Thank you! @PostPositiveMedia postpositivemedia.com
@Wilderness Wolf Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years. This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band. If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them. Like frontman Tim Mcilrath says, “Like us still believes in the power of music to change lives - to change everything.” We’re looking for people to answer these questions for a new project in progress: Q: How has Rise Against influenced you? Q: How are you trying to make positive changes in your community? Please submit your answers to the following link: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbTBW9qx8WPg6gO_b9Zs0DeOiZ_MqxF0nfm6iDbsDhIHV24w/viewform?usp=sf_link Thank you! @PostPositiveMedia postpositivemedia.com
+kris jones I must have been very tired when I wrote that, Make It Stop is my favourite song by Rise Against. I think I meant to say that I don't have a favourite band lol :)
This song saved my life when I was a kid. I was about 14 and just realizing I'm queer, being abused and bullied and I seriously was going to take my life but this song and the whole "it gets better" project started coming out at around this time and it did help me and I am so thankful
Stefano It's not the country, it's the people. That's why our dumbass generation created stereotypes of different countries. One of my white friends actually thought I had a small dong and made fun of me for that because I was Asian and like this type of music. He was wrong, I don't have a small dong and don't care what he thinks about my preferred music genres. There's nothing wrong with the U.S. honestly, one mistake they do doesn't mean they'll repeat it ever again. And that goes for every country,
This is why I love Rise Against. They don't just make kick ass music, but they're activists and advocates for social justice. They use their music talent for a positive influence in the world. So much different and better than typical music where the main goal is money and fame.
A friggin men.. Activists and advocates for social justice.. True justice needs to be fought for.. change in the laws, society, government and businesses is sorely needed. The banks and corporations and corrupt governments are ruining us all, and activists fight an uphill battle, with limited allies and funds. This band, they shine the light of hope and change out bright, may many a person emulate their enlightened ways of love and peace.
I remember one day I felt shit about myself and was walking home thinking to hurt myself. Then a guy walked by a smiled at me. He might never know but it was the best thing that happened to me that day. So just smile at one and other, you might make someone's day
Campbell Bond, age 30. I'm sorry we weren't there for you as we could have been, and didn't hear your cries. Rest easy brother, we'll see you again one day
I'm a 21 year old trans lady. I grew up listening to Rise Against. When my mental health began to falter after post-secondary because I didn't know how I fit into the world at large, I realized I was at a crossroads. I don't know what life would be like if I never heard you guys. but 7 months into HRT, I can confirm it gets better. My name is Jade Rhys Thomas. I am a woman with so much love in her heart. if anyone's listening to this and afraid, I'm here for you. "It's always darkest just before the dawn / So stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong."
I'm 2.5 years hrt. And still look like a man. And I'm stuck in a shitty country where it's illegal to be a lesbian and a country where you can't have any hope
@@ameliabuns4058 I'm genuinely sorry to hear that. I don't have much in the way of hope to give, but I promise you, holy fuck is your HRT paying off. I honest to god would have no idea you were assigned male at birth. your voice could use some work, but you're already passing as far as I can tell. I'm literally so jealous of how smooth and hair free your skin is. your face especially makes you look so gorgeous and feminine and smart! I hope my face passes just as well as yours does when I'm as far along as you, sister.
@@dhawwaawdwa Imagine listening to a song all about accepting people for being different, specifically talking about the lgbt community and then going into comments and posting something like this. What a sad life you must have
“This life chose me, I’m not lost in sin.” So fucking powerful, I’m almost crying right now. Words cannot describe the impact those words have on me. I’m glad people like them put these words out here
This hits home for me, I don't see why people enjoy watching someone else suffer.The next time you see someone being hurt by another person anyone, stop them.
yep, you are part of the problem, sorry because these kind of people don't have friends, thats the problem try to show strengh and defend some of these "loosers"
This is reality for thousands of kids and adults even today. When will it stop, the answer is it won't; not unless We MAKE IT STOP. we are more that what they say, we are going to get through this.
It's rare that a music video brings me to tears, let alone give me assurance that there is more to life if you press on. When I first watched this many years ago, I was thinking about ending it all. This video may have been my saving grace, and rediscovering it has put a hapy tear in my eye. Never give up hope, it DOES get better!
Please don’t give up hope! It also brought me to tears and means more than I can describe... Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years. This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band. If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them. Like frontman Tim Mcilrath says, “Like us still believes in the power of music to change lives - to change everything.” We’re looking for people to answer these questions for a new project in progress: Q: How has Rise Against influenced you? Q: How are you trying to make positive changes in your community? Please submit your answers to the following link: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbTBW9qx8WPg6gO_b9Zs0DeOiZ_MqxF0nfm6iDbsDhIHV24w/viewform?usp=sf_link Thank you! @PostPositiveMedia postpositivemedia.com
Crazy how age works, I used to only listen to this because it sounded good, music video didn't really make me feel much. Now I can't come back to this without a deep emotional feeling in my chest, hurts to watch the music video cause of how cruel the video is, and the reason being is that its totally accurate how shitty people can be in this world.
It is maybe a nice song, but doesn't apply to anybody. It's not like i really want to die or something, but life seems so meaningless and for me just not worth living. This tought occurred to me for the first time 10 Years ago and my Outlook still doesn't changed. I really tried to change things, but nothing will change. I can't get a good job, even though i have good grades. I changed my friends, i changed my clothes, i changed my apartment, i've educated myself and still it's all hopeless. Well counting 10 Years now, looking forward for another 60 years of nothingness.
@@walterschmidt7817 Walter, I just read your post and saw that nobody had commented. That's crap. There are people out here that care and you matter! This song applies to a number of people. I'm straight, married, have 2 kids, and just turned 50 and yet I have many gay friends that I love with all of my heart. I want you to know that there's always a way to happiness. You just have to wake up and decide for yourself that it's for you. It saddens me to see thousands of replies to everyone else's posts and that I'm the first person to respond to this. Walter, walk with your head held high and with a sense of purpose. Find help in support groups and in friends. Find a passion, find something that makes you want to wake up and move. You can do it, brother.
I cried when I first watched this video as a closeted 15 year old. I am now 23 and still crying, but now I have so many wonderful friends that I'm out to, I wish I could tell my younger self that things really do get better! Hopefully this year will be the year that I finally see this song performed live, it means so much to me
I'm 33, straight, married and I still cry at this song. My brother came out to me when I was in my early to mid 20s. He came out to me last in the family because he was afraid of what I would think of him. I told him that I love him no matter what and I want him to be happy. Sadly, I can't tell him that anymore. He passed in his sleep, happy with who he was. I also look forward to hearing this song live one day. Just remember that your happiness is most important. And if someone doesn't like it, you don't need them anyways. I love you for who you are, as do many people.
At 41 I’m creeping towards being an elder now and I promise you it just keeps going and getting even more fun and hopeful. Things will always hurt, but we’ve already proven we’re stronger. Don’t stop. 💜
Over a decade of listening to Rise Against, I'm 31 now and a lunch lady at a high school. It costs nothing to be kind to these kids and you never know how many of them are feeling like this everyday. It breaks my heart!
@@Aemilius46 I am so sorry that happened to you!! I'm at the Elementary school now and I actually see more bullying there than I did at the high school! Kids can be so cruel sometimes. I get so many hugs everyday and get told I'm their favorite lunchlady and I swear it's just because I'm kind to them and will take the time to listen to them and check up on them!
Age 44 dealt with the harassment and bullying for being poor and was abused by those who were supposed to love me. Life rarely gives a fairytale ending but things do get better. Love and value yourself and don't ever rely on the opinions of others as a validation towards what defines you. The best revenge is prosperity and happiness. Took me a long time to find it but only you can create it for yourself
the song is about a string of deaths for kids that were bullied because they were lgbt. something that is still happening now with all of the transphobia
Amazing how relevant this song and the many topics rise against has sang on is still relevant to this day, people this battled we fight now weren’t around a decade ago but rise against is proof that this issue has always been here
Funny to think it was 2012 when I got sent this by chance by a straight friend. He sent it to me with his message "I hope this helps you if you ever go through dark times." Those were dark times and the song and my friends are the inspiration that kept me going. Now that I am 21 and I am living in the dawn and so are so many others. Thank you Rise Against for reminding us that there is hope. "It's always darkest just before the dawn" has saved others too, I have reminded many people that in their dark times and stood by them so this song saves more than just us LGBT.
@@komocho7195 Actually nobody wants you homophobes here spreading your pointless hatespeech, you are a dying breed luckily. everyone just report this troll for hate speech. Luckily amajority of people in DEVELOPED countries support LGBT now.
I've watched this video many times, and every time i see the girl load the gun i get goosebumps and then when i see her get married it always puts a smile on my face this song has a great message to it, what an awesome band
I played this song at my friend's funeral... She didn't put the gun back down. Can I have a link to the It Gets Better Project? Googles fucking me over
Sparten7F4 Im very sorry to hear about your friend that is very sad, i know of a similar situation that happened to a friend of mine, its hard on everyone link: www.itgetsbetter.org/
Uhh I'd hate to take away the smile but they are showing you what *could* have happened if they didn't kill themselves. That's why it's shown in grainy film. They do end up killing themselves as far as the story in the video goes. The really sad thing is, those are actors portraying real people who are no longer living. That's why the grainy film of them showing what they could have been if they didn't do it shows them in their adolescent stage instead of adults. The real world needs people who would stop bullying. Videos and music can only do so much, if someone is being bullied in front of you go fuck those bullies up. Even if you lose the fight you'll still save a life, for the victim will know someone at least tried to stand up for them.
My friend showed me this song today. The fact that the message is still necessary over a decade later speaks volumes. Thank you, Rise Against, for writing this song when nobody else would.
in this system nothing can get really good. fight facism, hate (phobe), captilism and so on and so forth. we all need to fight to destroy this lifecrushing system or this will go on and on and on.
held a gun to my head multiple times, but could never do it. Something told me to keep going, now im married and have a son on the way and my life is so much better than i ever expected. Music like this kept me going, i just about cry everytime at the end of this song.
Metsa "now I have..." I think this was the time before he had some problems with his mental health. And the time before he had kids. He never told when he had these problems (he could be on a age of 15-20 and is 40 now.). So maybe he changed his mind like he was getting a psychologist. Maybe not and his wife gave him hope and later his kids. But you will never know If he will do it now again or not. I know from this post he did it multiple times before. But does not mean he will do it again. So maybe he was getting help or not. You are like blaming him for don't even know him.
The first time I heard this song, I got chills. Then I fell in love and slowly learned the words. It has become my favorite song with a deep meaning. Today, I've just watched the music video for the first time and I started to cry. This is freaking beautiful! To anyone who is lost or hurting right now, I want you to know that you are *perfect* just the way you are. Never let it go this far. Just keep your head up and ignore the ignorant assholes who give you crap for who you are. Be yourself and never give up!
This song and Prayer of the Refugee have really touched me over the past 6-12 months. I still don't know if I'll make through things ok, but they've at least been on the same frequency as I have.
@@SuperLotus what do you mean by saying "i still don't know if I'll make it through things ok"? Are you a high school kid being bullied? I'm asking seriously cause of what you said. If you are please please please find someone you can trust and talk to. Don't ever let those piece of shit, insecure scumbag bullies win!
Thankfully I'm out of high school, but I have other issues. I did start seeing a new therapist who seems like he might be better than my previous one, but I'm still not very hopeful. I appreciate you reaching out though.
1. It s pretty hard to believe a stranget who says "you re perfect" without even knowing your name 2.what if I M that stupid asshole that says all the mean things about myself? What do i do, ignore my conciousness for the rest of my life. I really really apreciate the thought but those things never add up to me when i read anti depressing messages
Been listening to thing song for almost 5 years (I first heard it when I was 8) I finally understand what it means and now this song means so much more to me.
Hearing this song after nine years brings tears rolling down my face because I lost a very close friend to suicide.. I miss him a lot and wish he was still here.
12 years and I still cry every time I see this video. 🖤 For everybody suffering... There is always somebody who loves you. Sometimes it just take time to find that person. So keep living. 🖤
This is a very powerful song, with a message that more people should hear/see. I was bullied from grade 1 through 9, verbally, as well as physically, by both female and male students. When I would try and tell the teachers about it, they would ignore me, and would not do anything about it. From a young age, I was quite depressed; from a young age, I was even suicidal. I am 22 now, and I live my life without caring what other people think of me, without letting everyone put me down for being who I am. Keep fighting.
People seem to be confused about what this song is about, now that it's been about 10 years. This was written specifically about a string of suicides that unfortunately happened around September of 2010. They were all kids who were bullied for being LGBT.
Lyrics: Bang bang go the coffin nails Like a breath, exhaled then gone forever It seems like just yesterday How did i miss the red flags raise? Think back to the days we left We brave these bitter storms together Brought to his knees he cried But on his feet he died What god would damn a heart? And what god drove us apart? What god could... Make it stop Let this end 18 years pushed to the ledge It's come to this A weightless step On the way down, singing Whoah, oh... Bang bang from the closet walls The schoolhouse halls The shotgun's loaded Push me and i'll push back I'm done asking, i demand From the nation under god I feel its love like a cattleprod I'm born free, but still they hate I'm born me, no, i can't change It's always darkest just before the dawn So stay awake with me Let's prove them wrong Make it stop Let this end 18 years pushed to the ledge It's come to this A weightless step On the way down, singing Whoah, oh... The cold river, wash him away But how could we forget The gatherings hold candles But not their tongues And too much blood has fallen from the wrist Of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss? Who will rise to stop the blood? We're calling for, insisting on A different beat, yeah, a brand new song Make it stop Let this end This life chose me I'm not lost in sin I'm proud I stand Of who i am I plan of going on living Make it stop Let this end All these years pushed to the ledge I'm proud i stand Of who i am I plan to go on living
it's a very touching song. English is not my first language, so I can't express and explain all my thoughts and feelings, but I... I freaking love Rise Against! It's a wonderful underappreciated band and I want everyone to listen and understand their songs. I found this band two years ago and their songs helped me to go trough a lot of troubles in my life. Thank you Rise Against for helping me and many more people in their lives, thank you for saving lives and minds of hundreds or even thousands. Just... Thank you.
Callum Holly, age 15 I didn't know him well nor had I talked to him in four or five years but we went to drama classes as a kid and I remember he was a really cheery kid who was always smiling. He was my son once. Rest in peace
This is beyond disrespectful to the real Callum and his memory as well as his death. How pathetic you’d have to be to sit here and brazenly lie about this shit for attention, it’s disgusting and pathetic. Happy you got your internet clicks over the death of someone who deserves to be here living, breathing, laughing and loving just like the rest of *us!* How people even liked this is beyond me, your story states you were students together in Drama class but then changes completely to you trying to say you were his Dad at the end. Goes to show people don’t read anymore and we as a society are sadder for it. You’re a piece of shit and an attention whore. Callum deserved better than this and you’re sick in the head for even writing this out for those insignificant “likes” you so desperately crave.
Not a believer of God though. Honestly nothing is on “God”. It’s human nature kid. That’s the world today and always have been. Humanity and society sucks
@@thescreamingfish Exactly. Thank you for proving my point even more. But I get what you’re saying, I see the point of his comment now. It’s either, he’s not a believer himself and saying that God doesn’t exist or the usual… God exists etc.
satan pollutes the earth, puts fear, anger, hate etc etc in the human heart. it is because of this that creates a divide in us all, god aint got nothing to do with it.
There is one girl I will never forget. Her name is Zoey, and she is a major reason why I'm still alive right now... you could say we saved each other from suicide b back in the 9th grade. Nothing was going right, but after spending some time together, nothing went wrong. Not a day goes by where I don't think about her and how she brought me back to the light of day...
This video literally brings tears to my eyes. Rise Against is the most insightful band I've ever seen. The saddest part is that the bullying and the hate has just gotten worse the past few years.
You know that is why I love Rock and all genres connected. They often have a message and really good lyrics, whereas Pop is so shallow and it's mostly about the same thoughtless stuff. Good to listen while cooking and if you don't want to think but have some stuff playing in the background. But good music makes you think. Great video and great band!
Insomnyia you just have to find the right pop. Every musical genre has songs that mean something. I can give you an example of a deep, emotional, meaningful song in every genre except maybe dubstep. Idk much about that one.
Every genre has good songs and bad songs. Good singers and bad singers. And to the pop singers youre referring to, those subjects could mean alot to them. Its not fair of you to assume theyre just shallow.
"To much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for who they chose to kiss" "MAKE IT STOP, LET THIS END, THIS LIFE CHOSE ME, I'M NOT LOST IN SIN! AND PROUD I STAND, OF WHO I AM, I PLAN TO GO ON LIVING!!!!" - Anyone else's life change from these lyrics?
The latter lyric always sends chills up my spine. "And proud I stand / Of who I am / I plan to go on living!" ...it really seems like a "fuck you" to all the naysayers.
Joshua Poujade Yeah it's a great quote but my personal favorite is 'How we survive is what makes us who we are' but basically it has the same meaning... don't give up, stay strong:) And this meaning changed my way of thinking ^^
It's hard to overstate the impact this song had. As a scared, closeted kid hearing stories of other gay kids being bullied to death, I was terrified. But hearing a band I loved talking about and fighting for people like me gave me so much hope. It's a song that helped me come to terms with who I am, and today I couldn't be happier.
is that tears what i have in my face? i haven't been bullied in my entire live, but im totally with you brothers and sisters from our world. There is always a hope for everything.
So many years later and this song still brings tears to my eyes. I was 17 when it first came out, and I was going through a really hard time in my life. I was suicidal, failing most of my classes, living with my abusive mother, and lost my father to cancer. I only had one friend all throughout high school (she's still my best friend to this day, which I'm **so** thankful for), and was being bullied online by my so called "friends" there. This song became one I listened to repeated, and is the third-most-played song on my old iPod. My English teacher saved my life after noticing me crying in class while we were reading "Thirteen Reasons Why", and got me the help I needed. Today, I'm 26 and still struggling with my mental health some, but I'm alive. I'm alive and in a better position than I've ever been. I'm taking things one day at a time, and happily engaged to my fiancee of five years. Things got better for me, and they can get better for you too. Don't give up, keep moving forward!
every time i hear this song, it brings tears to my eyes. but i watch the video and i recognize all the places in this video besides the bedrooms because it was filmed in my old high school and around the city i live in. so grateful to kno the hs would allow them to record such a moving video
I legitimately was almost one of those kids listed in this song. I would have been 14, but now I've made it to 25, an assembly at my school about bullying delayed my thoughts until this song came out the next year and changed everything for me. It does get better, it really does, life is shit, but it's what you make of it that makes it worth living.
@jinfin221 i hope your life gets better, dude, I sincerely do. Since I wrote this, I've started recovering from alochol dependency, started a new relationship, and continued living with my best friends. My experience, anyway.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but guys you are worth it you are so worth it you don’t even know you have so much ahead of you so much potential that needs to be recognized. I’m sorry this world is in the position it’s in but we have the power to change it YOUR voices deserve to be heard look whoever reads this know that I love you with every fiber of my being and I’m rooting for you and hoping and praying this life is everything that you want it to be. Keep going don’t you dare give up on yourself this world is a better place with you in it. Stay strong guys it does get so so much better.
To ANYONE who knows the feeling of being on that ledge (literally or metaphorically), you're not one. I know it's hard to see it but you were NEVER alone. Those of us who have stood there looking down just like you are there with you with a hand out hoping you'll step down and let us help take the weight. You're more important than you could ever know. There's always someone out there to lean on. Just remember, you never have to fight alone. Let us help, please.❤
I could be described as a heterosexual white male, and not only do I support this message, but this song actually saved my life. It brought me back from the edge a couple times. To me, it tells me that it's ok to be myself, even if I'm not "normal". That it's ok for ALL OF US to be ourselves, even if this bullshit modern society doesn't agree. I love all of you. Now I'm crying happy tears 😂
This song always makes me so sad.I used to be like those kids.I’m 25 now and unapologetically lesbian af.Songs like this really help us pull through.Thank you for acknowledging us!!
"Too much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss who will rise to stop the blood?" One of the greatest quotes and one of the reasons I love Rise Against
It's been a while since I last heard this song. I used to be actively suicidal back then. Today it made me cry again, not out of despair, but out of gratitude and happiness to still be here, out of love for the world and out of sadness for that girl that didnt want to go on. I wish i could hug myself from back then and tell her that yes, it DOES get better.
Nearly ten years passed since this Video woke me up. IT GOT BETTER. so if you are watching and feel like this messages your life, stay strong. It gets better.
I have never been bullied and I haven't bullied anyone but this video made me realize that just because I've never bullied or been bullied doesn't mean I should just let it happen to others. No one should have to wake up in the morning afraid to go to school because he or she maybe harassed or made fun of. No one she be abused or mistreated because of race, fashion style, religion, weight, height, hair color, where they live, or how much money is in the family! This is where I take a stand, will you?
This song is a true piece of art. I'm sitting here crying, which obviously means it's great. This teaches the best of lessons. I showed this to Food and Family teacher and she decided to show it to the class. I was the one in the corner singing it but still crying.
I was that kid who was the outcast. I was that kid who had enough and took a gun to school. I was also the kid who by some miracle didn’t follow through. IT DOES GET BETTER!!! I wish I could hug all those who are without hope.
now more than ever, this song has even more meaning. One of my best friends from middle school commited suicide a few days ago, and nobody knows why. There are rumors that his parents didnt accept that he was gay, but no-one is certain. He was such a clever, bright and happy person but something must have changed, but i always expected to hear about him going to Cambridge or Oxford university, but now i am left with only shattered memories of him, like drawing on whiteboards in class, and creating a project about fake news. Thank you rise against, your music keeps me happy and has helped me deal with the stress and sadness i feel Thank you.
As a 21 year old guy with asperger syndrome that suffered from bullying during pretty much all school (for the syndrome and later for being bisexual), whom almost committed suicide, i must say that... it really gets better. On the last 3 years of highschool, i manage to make a small (but amazing) group of friends. We still communicate and go out till today. Now I'm studying clinical psychology to help people have a better emotional health.
Heard this song 4 years ago, and for the life of me couldn't remember the name! Found it in my recommended feed today, I really needed to hear this, thank you
Woah, woah. Bang, bang go the coffin nails, like a breath exhaled, Then gone forever. It seems like just yesterday, how did I miss the red flags raised? Think back to the days we laughed. We braved these bitter storms together. Brought to his knees he cried, But on his feet he died. What God would damn a heart? And what God drove us apart? What God could? Make it stop. Let this end. Eighteen years pushed to the ledge. It's come to this, A weightless step. On the way down singing, Woah, woah. Bang, bang from the closet walls, The schoolhouse halls, The shotgun's loaded. Push me and I'll push back. I'm done asking, I demand. From a nation under God, I feel its love like a cattle prod. Born free, but still they hate. Born me, no I can't change. It's always darkest just before the dawn. So stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong. Make it stop. Let this end, Eighteen years pushed to the ledge. It's come to this, A weightless step. On the way down singing, Woah, woah. The cold river washed him away, But how could we forget? The gatherings hold candles, but not their tongues. And too much blood has flown from the wrists, Of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss. Who will rise to stop the blood? We're calling for, Insisting on, a different beat, yeah. A brand new song. Whoa, whoa [x3] (Tyler Clementi, age 18. Billy Lucas, age 15. Harrison Chase Brown, age 15 Cody J. Barker, age 17 Seth Walsh, age 13.) Make it stop, Let this end. This life chose me, I'm not lost in sin. But proud I stand of who I am, I plan to go on living. Make it stop, Let this end, All these years pushed to the ledge, But proud I stand, of who I am, I plan to go on living
Yeah it says "too much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss" I believe that this is one of the most powerful lines I have ever heard
After years I'm listening to this song again and now I realize how much this song/video helped me through my hard days. Listening to this again still makes me cry. I can't thank you enough guys❤
As a survivor of bullying, I have to say that this is by far the best song ever released by Rise Against. I had to overcome the hate of a select few people over a year of my life, the only difference now is I feel bad for the people who bullied me because they must have been going through so much in their own lives as well. I'm lucky I had good people around me - family, close friends, and sheer willpower. Life is worth living, every second is precious, and I hold those people close who got me through it even to this day. My message to people out there being bullied: I know I am not walking your path anymore, but from one survivor... you are worth it. Love yourself. Love... yourself. Love who you are. Double down on your dreams. Be unapologetically you. Stop worrying about your looks, don't let people belittle you for what you are interested in, and anything else that would make you concerned with how others perceive you. You will find your kind in this world, because you are never alone. You are a miracle to have been born.
Growing up my dad and I always listened to this song in the car, he never paid attention to what it meant but I did. I’m gay and trans and this band has been with me through thick and thin over the years. I came out as gay at 11 years old and as trans only a few months ago. (I’m 18 now) I’m so lucky to be able to share this music with my boyfriend, my love of my life. This band and this song means more to me than I ever could have imagined, and it’s terrible how it seems to become more and more relevant as time goes on. Vote people, vote, vote, vote. Make your voice heard and stand up.
This song was my life in a nutshell. Only one line isn't true to my circumstances growing up since I am not a member of the LGBT community myself. This song really helped me through some hard times and I'll always be a fan of Rise Against for being able to speak to me when I needed it the most. Edit: I was raised in a christian home where everything i did was punished and everything I enjoyed was taken away from me, destroyed, lost or considered evil. I was not allowed to have my own identity, personality or sense of being. At school I was bullied severely, sexually assaulted by several other students for years, attacked on the playground, publicly humiliated by my teachers, harassed, cyber-bullying, etc. I even had attempts made on my life on several occasions sometimes by people I trusted. I had no friends. I never felt safe. I had nothing to keep me going. I had suicidal thoughts from the age of 12 to 18 constantly but no attempts. I suffered from crippling depression and anxiety making every task seem impossible to accomplish. Somehow I made it through but it is never easy. Please don't give up!
@jayhollows5729 Not trying to be rude, but why? I'll honestly say I'm pretty neutral on the matter. I used to think I was gay, mostly due to brainwashing, but I don't really understand the relevance
I remember when I was eleven years old, I listened to this song on loop and cried my eyes out. It felt so personal to me, even before I realized I liked girls. I haven't listened to this song in years but I still know the words by heart.
I feel the same way, it was special to me before I knew about the song's full message. It resonated with me as a piece about feeling suicidal. However listening to it again and hearing the full message, I also somewhat relate to some of that specific message due to some past self-hatred over my sexuality (although I was never bullied about it and it wasn't one of the reasons I was/am suicidal. But I did have a phase of feeling guilty) Never fails to make me tear up, even revisiting it (especially now that I hear the extra meaning, although I assume I heard it before too it just resonated more coming back after realising my sexuality). I think it's one of their best songs (not sure if it's my top spot though) just due to the fact it's relatable to a lot of people in the LGBT community and gets the message about how horribly we're treated, but anyone feeling down can relate to some of the song and receive the message of keep going, it gets better. And it's obviously great musically too. Sorry that it got long, I just wanted to share with someone who also had a similar love for the song even before realising they liked girls
To anyone out there who still doesn't know - you should know, the message still stands. It does get better, you're not alone & no matter who you are somebody loves you. That simple truth can get anyone through the toughest of times, me included. Our futures are ours to claim ❤
Seth Walsh. You saved my life. You will never know it. And I never told you but you did. You have had such a profound impact on who I am today and who I will be. Hearing of your passing as a child was devastating, pissed me offz and traumatized me because you succeeded in something I wanted to accomplish but was too scared to do. I won't pretend to know you on some deep level. I barely spoke with you. But you approached me on the day of my suicide letter and said something similar to ' you're beautiful and I love your hair' and it sounds so stupid to say. But that saved me. Just some form of acknowledgement on the day I thought would be my passing and now I think about you 16 years later, and of the homeroom class I took months after your passing, in a different state, through a suicide awareness video in front of 25 students who had no idea why we were watching a rise against video. I hope reincarnation is a thing because a soul as grand as yours deserve to be shown to the world. Rest easy my dear human. I love you.
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his smile when he thinks someone was going to sit him. it secretly kills me a little inside everytime
same.
wtf does all that have to do with Hope's comment?
I didn't catch that so I had to look, damn you
Alex V hes basically saying that the smile impacted the video, and was a result of actors who arent just half-assing their roles
hummm what means "someone was going to sit him" ? and the smile of who?
sorry I'm not english/american so idk
It's a shame that things like this happen on a daily basis and I'm glad that there are bands like Rise Against bringing it to attention.
the only problem is that a lot of people, at least where i am, hate this kind of music
Corbin Clapp
It's not bad to hate this type of music. At the end of the day it's music first lyrics and meaning second. The lyrics of a song are completely optional. There're plenty of bands that are entirely instrumental. Hating this song doesn't mean they're homophobic jerks, it might just mean dislike punk. Sir, please re-evaluate what makes a good man.
TheRatSquid True. I do not and never have agreed with the majority of Rise Against's politics (they're way too left for me) but I've been a fan for a decade now...gosh now I feel old, and I'm only 22!
HelpStopAnimalAbuses I vote we put effort into stopping human abuse before we concern ourselves with animals. Not to say we shouldn't concern ourselves with the well-being of animals, but it is *imperative* to have our priorities straight.
Dairo512 Why does one have to take a backseat to another? Can't we do both at the same time? ;) silleh!
I'm 30 now and yes life got better, so much better. I'm alive thanks to that band, when I was a teen they saved me, they gave me hope. I'm forever thankful
Same. And I'm not even LGBTQ+. I'm glad that you commented. This song, this band, the message, is just amazing. It gets better.
I'm 32 and like has only gotten worse and worse have had suicidal thoughts for 23 years I just take it one day at a time
Welp mine didnt. Shouldnt have listened to this in teens and offed myself 😢😢😭😭
@@jinfin221 Everyone's life timeline is different. No need to compare to where others currently are in life to your own story. Stay strong and keep writing your story to tell.
@@genlovely1708It may sound trite but take heart, the road is difficult but we are never alone, and although it may not seem like it it can always be better, remember that there are sunny days but there are also storms.
"Stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong." is one of the most powerful verse in a song ever. Thanks for writing this song that help save so many life, thanks to help my teen version in 2011 to see that it would get better, actully it got better, it got so much better. Thank you so much
For me the one like that keeps me going is "It's always darkest just before the dawn"
"Brought to his knees he cried but on his feet he died" that absolutely did it for me.
"Bang bang on the closet walls/the schoolhouse halls" is so true tho one of my friends came super close last June 😔
I feel you
Rise Against. I owe you my life, not once, but twice. Thank you.
this is my one true go-to song that reminds me that giving up means I wont be able to prove all those people wrong with my success. Thank you Rise Against
I’m so happy y’all are still here ❤
Danny Arnason, age 18
I'm sorry you didn't have the support you needed. I wish you'd made it through.
Just know that your niece made it. I'm alive, and standing tall, loving who I love and unashamed. We made it, Uncle Danny. I only wish you'd been alive to see it
Edit to add: I am actually a nephew now! Turns out I am not only bisexual, jokes on me. I'm also no contact with my dad now (his brother)
I hope Danny would still love me and that if there's some kind of afterlife he can see me living how I need to be
Almost teared up, that was beautiful. My heart goes out to him, and you. stay strong!
🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭
emx7890 Sorry to hear about your loss. 😢
I'm crying for the first time in a long while
He's watching you from a better place. He might be proud of his niece 💓
I think if I ever met this band face-to-face I would just break down crying. Every song a miracle, every verse a prayer.
Adam Voltz I met them and I ended up crying and thanking them. They were seriously some of the most down to earth people I've ever met.
I don’t know why but this comment hit my feels like a bus lmao
I saw them live last year and I literally cried the entire time they were playing
They saved my life and I cried the whole time I was at their concert. My favorite band going on four years now
Like prayer of a refugee
This song saved my life when I was 15 and being bullied relentlessly at school.
I’m now 28 with a job non of those people could even dream of, my own house and a good life.
If you’re reading this as a kid, it really does get better.
I'm now 28 as well. Seth Walsh saved my life wish he could have lived but I am glad you are alive.
I do not know you, but I love you.
It doesn’t always get better but fuck those ppl for real, most of them look like garbage now
I know how you feel! Proud of you! 🤍
"The gatherings hold candles, but not their tongues"
damn... that line gives me shivers every time
I was 15 and struggling to accept myself when this song came out. I’m now 23 and it saved me again tonight.
Jeez. Hope you’re alright rn!
You can do it dude!!!
Keep fighting the good fight ! Much love fam
I hope you still come back to this song when you need it most!
I was 15 when this song came out also. One of my friends had committed suicide right around that time from being bullied for being gay along with many other factors.
I was close to the edge too, but this song helped to keep me grounded.
Rest in power, Jay Corey Jonestrader.. ❤️
I hope you're still doing okay. People do care and they do think about you.
I've listened to bands that have a song that has melodies that brought me to tears
I've listened to bands that have a song that has lyrics that brought me to tears
Never have I listened to bands that have all of those and a music video in one song that brought me to tears
And never have I watched something that reminded me why I regret every single moment I nearly went off the ledge with each verse
To anyone reading this who is being bullied for who they are, don't leap off the ledge! You will miss out on the moment you shine brighter than the ones trying to get you to jump. You can be strong, and you can rise against the bullying, no matter who you are nor where you are in life. Things will get better. They will.
10 years and this song is still relevant. When will people learn?
They won't. You just learn how to deal with it until you get through but sometimes people can't...
Still the gatherings hold candles, but not their tongues…
Sometimes ppl forget, that's why we need reminders
Unfortunately never, it's human nature. Children and teens especially can be cruel.
you just got to be strong enough to see that its not the end of the world, everything can be fixed, for anyone struggling YOU GOT THIS, it may not get better but it can't get worse
" From a nation under God,
I feel it's love like a cattle prod.
Born free, but still they hate...."
Man, all these years and I still cry my eyes out watching this. This song helped me come to terms with myself in a rural conservative southern town where I had no one to talk to about it. I remember seeing it on TV and breaking down, finally having some sort of validation & acceptance from somewhere. I went from hating myself because of my sexuality to being able to help fellow LGBT people in town come out with confidence. It really does get better.
I am so so so glad to hear how it got better for you and found acceptance, too. Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years.
This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band.
If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them.
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@Wilderness Wolf Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years.
This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band.
If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them.
Like frontman Tim Mcilrath says, “Like us still believes in the power of music to change lives - to change everything.”
We’re looking for people to answer these questions for a new project in progress:
Q: How has Rise Against influenced you?
Q: How are you trying to make positive changes in your community?
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Good for you brother keep fighting the good fight
Probably will always be my favourite Rise Against song!
+(The Weird British Guy) amen to that brother
The album is their best to me, such an epic album
i don't have a favourite Rise Against song or album, they're all good!
+(The Weird British Guy) that makes no sense you just said this is your favourite how do you not have a favourite
+kris jones I must have been very tired when I wrote that, Make It Stop is my favourite song by Rise Against. I think I meant to say that I don't have a favourite band lol :)
This song saved my life when I was a kid. I was about 14 and just realizing I'm queer, being abused and bullied and I seriously was going to take my life but this song and the whole "it gets better" project started coming out at around this time and it did help me and I am so thankful
“This life chose me , I’m not lost in sin” truer words have never been spoken
@@TheSpirit0fRadio i dont even know what to say at this point, this comment is just embarassing.
@@ArgentoGaming it's not embarrassing it's facts
If I were the president I would make Rise Against the official band of the United States, just saying! Their music amazes me from old to new!
U.S. is a piece of shit country, no offense to you tho bro
Stefano It's not the country, it's the people. That's why our dumbass generation created stereotypes of different countries. One of my white friends actually thought I had a small dong and made fun of me for that because I was Asian and like this type of music. He was wrong, I don't have a small dong and don't care what he thinks about my preferred music genres.
There's nothing wrong with the U.S. honestly, one mistake they do doesn't mean they'll repeat it ever again.
And that goes for every country,
The Grim Peanut True, but keep your dong out of it, I get what you are saying but too much info xD
The Grim Peanut But you have to admit, Canada doesnt belong on that list
Stefano Keep his dong out of what? ;)
This is why I love Rise Against. They don't just make kick ass music, but they're activists and advocates for social justice. They use their music talent for a positive influence in the world. So much different and better than typical music where the main goal is money and fame.
thank you
exactly
A friggin men.. Activists and advocates for social justice.. True justice needs to be fought for.. change in the laws, society, government and businesses is sorely needed. The banks and corporations and corrupt governments are ruining us all, and activists fight an uphill battle, with limited allies and funds. This band, they shine the light of hope and change out bright, may many a person emulate their enlightened ways of love and peace.
Did you watch behind the scene? The band talks about their high school years and why did they made this video
eric kelly
no i havent seen that, can you link me to it, i would love to watch that
I remember one day I felt shit about myself and was walking home thinking to hurt myself. Then a guy walked by a smiled at me. He might never know but it was the best thing that happened to me that day. So just smile at one and other, you might make someone's day
This is why I smile at everyone I make eye contact with daily no matter who they are
As a straight guy, this song still speaks volumes to me.
You are worth it. It gets better.
I love how each and every one of their songs has a story behind it. Something meaningful that people relate to.
The reason they named themself rise against. Things that are actually wrong, that's what they sing about.
Rest in peace, Nex Benedict 🕊️❤❤❤
Campbell Bond, age 30. I'm sorry we weren't there for you as we could have been, and didn't hear your cries. Rest easy brother, we'll see you again one day
I'm a 21 year old trans lady. I grew up listening to Rise Against. When my mental health began to falter after post-secondary because I didn't know how I fit into the world at large, I realized I was at a crossroads. I don't know what life would be like if I never heard you guys. but 7 months into HRT, I can confirm it gets better.
My name is Jade Rhys Thomas. I am a woman with so much love in her heart. if anyone's listening to this and afraid, I'm here for you.
"It's always darkest just before the dawn / So stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong."
I'm 2.5 years hrt. And still look like a man. And I'm stuck in a shitty country where it's illegal to be a lesbian and a country where you can't have any hope
@@ameliabuns4058 I'm genuinely sorry to hear that. I don't have much in the way of hope to give, but I promise you, holy fuck is your HRT paying off. I honest to god would have no idea you were assigned male at birth. your voice could use some work, but you're already passing as far as I can tell.
I'm literally so jealous of how smooth and hair free your skin is. your face especially makes you look so gorgeous and feminine and smart! I hope my face passes just as well as yours does when I'm as far along as you, sister.
You are not a woman
Fuk
@@dhawwaawdwa Imagine listening to a song all about accepting people for being different, specifically talking about the lgbt community and then going into comments and posting something like this. What a sad life you must have
“This life chose me, I’m not lost in sin.” So fucking powerful, I’m almost crying right now. Words cannot describe the impact those words have on me. I’m glad people like them put these words out here
Felt the same the first time I heard this song. I was 16, in my process of accepting I was bisexual. You can't imagine how much I cried.
This song is 10 years old and it still pulls the heart strings.
This hits home for me, I don't see why people enjoy watching someone else suffer.The next time you see someone being hurt by another person anyone, stop them.
If I see anybody bullying someone, I don't give a shit if the person is my best friend, they're getting their ass kicked
yep, you are part of the problem, sorry
because these kind of people don't have friends, thats the problem
try to show strengh and defend some of these "loosers"
mate he meant he would kick the ass of the bully not of the person getting bullied
he would kick the ass of the bully if its his friend is was the victim...
He's saying if he saw his best friend bullying someone, it wouldn't matter and he'd kick the ass of his best friend (the bully)
This is reality for thousands of kids and adults even today. When will it stop, the answer is it won't; not unless We MAKE IT STOP. we are more that what they say, we are going to get through this.
It's rare that a music video brings me to tears, let alone give me assurance that there is more to life if you press on. When I first watched this many years ago, I was thinking about ending it all. This video may have been my saving grace, and rediscovering it has put a hapy tear in my eye. Never give up hope, it DOES get better!
Please don’t give up hope! It also brought me to tears and means more than I can describe... Your words are incredibly important to me and I’m so grateful you are still here to offer them, too. Thank you for sharing and I hope you might be interested in helping out with a project I’ve been working on for years.
This song and message is very powerful and I hope to show the positive impact it’s had on not only my life but so many others... it was in part inspired by a letter I wrote to the band.
If you love the band Rise Against and what they stand for, we’re hoping to hear how music has created an impact in people and the world around them.
Like frontman Tim Mcilrath says, “Like us still believes in the power of music to change lives - to change everything.”
We’re looking for people to answer these questions for a new project in progress:
Q: How has Rise Against influenced you?
Q: How are you trying to make positive changes in your community?
Please submit your answers to the following link:
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Same here man same here
Crazy how age works, I used to only listen to this because it sounded good, music video didn't really make me feel much. Now I can't come back to this without a deep emotional feeling in my chest, hurts to watch the music video cause of how cruel the video is, and the reason being is that its totally accurate how shitty people can be in this world.
It is maybe a nice song, but doesn't apply to anybody. It's not like i really want to die or something, but life seems so meaningless and for me just not worth living. This tought occurred to me for the first time 10 Years ago and my Outlook still doesn't changed. I really tried to change things, but nothing will change. I can't get a good job, even though i have good grades. I changed my friends, i changed my clothes, i changed my apartment, i've educated myself and still it's all hopeless. Well counting 10 Years now, looking forward for another 60 years of nothingness.
@@walterschmidt7817 Walter, I just read your post and saw that nobody had commented. That's crap. There are people out here that care and you matter! This song applies to a number of people. I'm straight, married, have 2 kids, and just turned 50 and yet I have many gay friends that I love with all of my heart. I want you to know that there's always a way to happiness. You just have to wake up and decide for yourself that it's for you. It saddens me to see thousands of replies to everyone else's posts and that I'm the first person to respond to this. Walter, walk with your head held high and with a sense of purpose. Find help in support groups and in friends. Find a passion, find something that makes you want to wake up and move. You can do it, brother.
I cried when I first watched this video as a closeted 15 year old. I am now 23 and still crying, but now I have so many wonderful friends that I'm out to, I wish I could tell my younger self that things really do get better! Hopefully this year will be the year that I finally see this song performed live, it means so much to me
I'm 33, straight, married and I still cry at this song. My brother came out to me when I was in my early to mid 20s. He came out to me last in the family because he was afraid of what I would think of him. I told him that I love him no matter what and I want him to be happy. Sadly, I can't tell him that anymore. He passed in his sleep, happy with who he was. I also look forward to hearing this song live one day. Just remember that your happiness is most important. And if someone doesn't like it, you don't need them anyways. I love you for who you are, as do many people.
@@benthene2252 you seem like a great brother ❤️
At 41 I’m creeping towards being an elder now and I promise you it just keeps going and getting even more fun and hopeful. Things will always hurt, but we’ve already proven we’re stronger. Don’t stop. 💜
me as a half-closeted 16 years old crying right now…
@@charley_161 hope you're doing a little better these days, dear 🖤
Over a decade of listening to Rise Against, I'm 31 now and a lunch lady at a high school. It costs nothing to be kind to these kids and you never know how many of them are feeling like this everyday. It breaks my heart!
ThankYou for being a wonderful human being! 🤍 I hated school growing up and was constantly bullied, so I am thankful for what you do!
@@Aemilius46 I am so sorry that happened to you!! I'm at the Elementary school now and I actually see more bullying there than I did at the high school! Kids can be so cruel sometimes. I get so many hugs everyday and get told I'm their favorite lunchlady and I swear it's just because I'm kind to them and will take the time to listen to them and check up on them!
Without music like this, I wouldn't be here. Thank you.
same
Age 44 dealt with the harassment and bullying for being poor and was abused by those who were supposed to love me. Life rarely gives a fairytale ending but things do get better. Love and value yourself and don't ever rely on the opinions of others as a validation towards what defines you. The best revenge is prosperity and happiness. Took me a long time to find it but only you can create it for yourself
the song is about a string of deaths for kids that were bullied because they were lgbt. something that is still happening now with all of the transphobia
Amazing how relevant this song and the many topics rise against has sang on is still relevant to this day, people this battled we fight now weren’t around a decade ago but rise against is proof that this issue has always been here
Funny to think it was 2012 when I got sent this by chance by a straight friend. He sent it to me with his message "I hope this helps you if you ever go through dark times." Those were dark times and the song and my friends are the inspiration that kept me going. Now that I am 21 and I am living in the dawn and so are so many others. Thank you Rise Against for reminding us that there is hope. "It's always darkest just before the dawn" has saved others too, I have reminded many people that in their dark times and stood by them so this song saves more than just us LGBT.
r/thathappened
Sushi Uchiha ooh edgy
@@komocho7195 if you really think that youre such an asshole
@@komocho7195 Actually nobody wants you homophobes here spreading your pointless hatespeech, you are a dying breed luckily. everyone just report this troll for hate speech. Luckily amajority of people in DEVELOPED countries support LGBT now.
I've watched this video many times, and every time i see the girl load the gun i get goosebumps and then when i see her get married it always puts a smile on my face
this song has a great message to it, what an awesome band
I know. I love how they teamed up with the it gets better project. Such an inspiration message.
I played this song at my friend's funeral... She didn't put the gun back down. Can I have a link to the It Gets Better Project? Googles fucking me over
Sparten7F4 Im very sorry to hear about your friend that is very sad, i know of a similar situation that happened to a friend of mine, its hard on everyone
link: www.itgetsbetter.org/
Alex B Thank ya
Uhh I'd hate to take away the smile but they are showing you what *could* have happened if they didn't kill themselves. That's why it's shown in grainy film. They do end up killing themselves as far as the story in the video goes. The really sad thing is, those are actors portraying real people who are no longer living. That's why the grainy film of them showing what they could have been if they didn't do it shows them in their adolescent stage instead of adults. The real world needs people who would stop bullying. Videos and music can only do so much, if someone is being bullied in front of you go fuck those bullies up. Even if you lose the fight you'll still save a life, for the victim will know someone at least tried to stand up for them.
Rise against, you have no idea how many people you've pulled out of depression with all your songs, not just this one. Much luv for you guys :)
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My friend showed me this song today. The fact that the message is still necessary over a decade later speaks volumes.
Thank you, Rise Against, for writing this song when nobody else would.
It's 2024 and it's crazy how nothing changed... Fight guys, you all deserve to be here. And make your life your own way.
Yes!!!! 🤍
in this system nothing can get really good. fight facism, hate (phobe), captilism and so on and so forth.
we all need to fight to destroy this lifecrushing system or this will go on and on and on.
Trying mate trying thank you 🤜🤛
This is change its WORST....
WE ALL STAND TOGETHER! ✊
No matter how many times I watch this, I cry a little each time. I love this so much.
Keep on going guys and girls! It gets better. Greetings from Germany. I am with you.
This was recorded in my school and it's one of my favorites while still being so relevant, honestly one of the best bands with messages out there
What school was it filmed at? This is one of my all time favorite videos- they really created music for us that needed it most 🖤
I would also like to know it...
They made a behind the scenes video
held a gun to my head multiple times, but could never do it. Something told me to keep going, now im married and have a son on the way and my life is so much better than i ever expected. Music like this kept me going, i just about cry everytime at the end of this song.
Sephiroth I remember there's always beter alternatives
Metsa this was before he had a son. Better read again, dude. He changed his mind.
Metsa "now I have..." I think this was the time before he had some problems with his mental health. And the time before he had kids. He never told when he had these problems (he could be on a age of 15-20 and is 40 now.). So maybe he changed his mind like he was getting a psychologist. Maybe not and his wife gave him hope and later his kids. But you will never know If he will do it now again or not. I know from this post he did it multiple times before. But does not mean he will do it again. So maybe he was getting help or not. You are like blaming him for don't even know him.
I may not know you, but I'm glad you didn't go through with it. Keep on going
yes
The first time I heard this song, I got chills. Then I fell in love and slowly learned the words. It has become my favorite song with a deep meaning. Today, I've just watched the music video for the first time and I started to cry. This is freaking beautiful!
To anyone who is lost or hurting right now, I want you to know that you are *perfect* just the way you are. Never let it go this far. Just keep your head up and ignore the ignorant assholes who give you crap for who you are. Be yourself and never give up!
"We are far from perfect
But perfect as we are
We are bruised, we are broken
But we are goddamn works of art"
This song and Prayer of the Refugee have really touched me over the past 6-12 months. I still don't know if I'll make through things ok, but they've at least been on the same frequency as I have.
@@SuperLotus what do you mean by saying "i still don't know if I'll make it through things ok"? Are you a high school kid being bullied? I'm asking seriously cause of what you said. If you are please please please find someone you can trust and talk to. Don't ever let those piece of shit, insecure scumbag bullies win!
Thankfully I'm out of high school, but I have other issues. I did start seeing a new therapist who seems like he might be better than my previous one, but I'm still not very hopeful. I appreciate you reaching out though.
1. It s pretty hard to believe a stranget who says "you re perfect" without even knowing your name
2.what if I M that stupid asshole that says all the mean things about myself? What do i do, ignore my conciousness for the rest of my life.
I really really apreciate the thought but those things never add up to me when i read anti depressing messages
*"Stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong."*
One of my favorite lines :)
@@sewnkin_fournine This song has tons of amazing lines but my favorite one is "And proud I stand of who I am, I plan to go on living"
This is a slogan at end of this song?
Being awake is the torture.
:-:
Been listening to thing song for almost 5 years (I first heard it when I was 8) I finally understand what it means and now this song means so much more to me.
This song came out in 2011?
Rsmmt1009 hahahah get rekt
Uhhh... okay, haha.
Well I was referring to when the album was released. The album was released in 2011. The song was not released in 2009.
You clearly need some math lessons youngster...
I like this band because their songs and videos portray the true nature of everything that surrounds humanity which is usually violence, sadly
God damn it this breaks my heart. If you’re struggling, hang in there. People love you and you have a place in this world.
Punk makes me want to cry. Tim is awesome, I wish there were more people like him in the world.
Man, this song is just so powerful.
couldn't have said it any better.
I got bullied at school too. The song and video made me cry. I'm glad there are bands like Rise Against that are bringing up such important topics.
Hearing this song after nine years brings tears rolling down my face because I lost a very close friend to suicide.. I miss him a lot and wish he was still here.
12 years and I still cry every time I see this video. 🖤
For everybody suffering... There is always somebody who loves you. Sometimes it just take time to find that person.
So keep living. 🖤
This is a very powerful song, with a message that more people should hear/see.
I was bullied from grade 1 through 9, verbally, as well as physically, by both female and male students. When I would try and tell the teachers about it, they would ignore me, and would not do anything about it. From a young age, I was quite depressed; from a young age, I was even suicidal.
I am 22 now, and I live my life without caring what other people think of me, without letting everyone put me down for being who I am.
Keep fighting.
People seem to be confused about what this song is about, now that it's been about 10 years.
This was written specifically about a string of suicides that unfortunately happened around September of 2010. They were all kids who were bullied for being LGBT.
Yes. And unfortunately LGBT youth are still disproportionately likely to commit suicide compared to their straight and cis peers.
@@naro6477 what?
@@naro6477 bro the song is about a string of deaths of bullied lgbt kids in 2010....... you lack media literacy
Lyrics:
Bang bang go the coffin nails
Like a breath, exhaled then gone forever
It seems like just yesterday
How did i miss the red flags raise?
Think back to the days we left
We brave these bitter storms together
Brought to his knees he cried
But on his feet he died
What god would damn a heart?
And what god drove us apart?
What god could...
Make it stop
Let this end
18 years pushed to the ledge
It's come to this
A weightless step
On the way down, singing
Whoah, oh...
Bang bang from the closet walls
The schoolhouse halls
The shotgun's loaded
Push me and i'll push back
I'm done asking, i demand
From the nation under god
I feel its love like a cattleprod
I'm born free, but still they hate
I'm born me, no, i can't change
It's always darkest just before the dawn
So stay awake with me
Let's prove them wrong
Make it stop
Let this end
18 years pushed to the ledge
It's come to this
A weightless step
On the way down, singing
Whoah, oh...
The cold river, wash him away
But how could we forget
The gatherings hold candles
But not their tongues
And too much blood has fallen from the wrist
Of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss?
Who will rise to stop the blood?
We're calling for, insisting on
A different beat, yeah, a brand new song
Make it stop
Let this end
This life chose me
I'm not lost in sin
I'm proud
I stand
Of who i am
I plan of going on living
Make it stop
Let this end
All these years pushed to the ledge
I'm proud i stand
Of who i am
I plan to go on living
ilovedonuts I'm pretty sure he says what God would damn a heart
"The *gatherings* held candles, but not their tongues"
x it "what God would damn a heart" not "deal".
think back to the days we laughed, not left..
it's a very touching song. English is not my first language, so I can't express and explain all my thoughts and feelings, but I... I freaking love Rise Against! It's a wonderful underappreciated band and I want everyone to listen and understand their songs. I found this band two years ago and their songs helped me to go trough a lot of troubles in my life. Thank you Rise Against for helping me and many more people in their lives, thank you for saving lives and minds of hundreds or even thousands. Just... Thank you.
Callum Holly, age 15
I didn't know him well nor had I talked to him in four or five years but we went to drama classes as a kid and I remember he was a really cheery kid who was always smiling. He was my son once. Rest in peace
I'm sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace xx ❤
sorry for ur loss*
r/thathappened
The Human Spider They were probably acting as characters that were father and son.
This is beyond disrespectful to the real Callum and his memory as well as his death. How pathetic you’d have to be to sit here and brazenly lie about this shit for attention, it’s disgusting and pathetic. Happy you got your internet clicks over the death of someone who deserves to be here living, breathing, laughing and loving just like the rest of *us!*
How people even liked this is beyond me, your story states you were students together in Drama class but then changes completely to you trying to say you were his Dad at the end. Goes to show people don’t read anymore and we as a society are sadder for it.
You’re a piece of shit and an attention whore. Callum deserved better than this and you’re sick in the head for even writing this out for those insignificant “likes” you so desperately crave.
“What god drove us apart?” Some people REALLY need to listen to that part on repeat
Totally makes sense. Religion is crap.
Not a believer of God though. Honestly nothing is on “God”. It’s human nature kid. That’s the world today and always have been. Humanity and society sucks
@@youin24years I think that's the point. People blame God, but it's all us.
@@thescreamingfish Exactly. Thank you for proving my point even more. But I get what you’re saying, I see the point of his comment now. It’s either, he’s not a believer himself and saying that God doesn’t exist or the usual… God exists etc.
satan pollutes the earth, puts fear, anger, hate etc etc in the human heart. it is because of this that creates a divide in us all, god aint got nothing to do with it.
There is one girl I will never forget. Her name is Zoey, and she is a major reason why I'm still alive right now... you could say we saved each other from suicide b back in the 9th grade. Nothing was going right, but after spending some time together, nothing went wrong. Not a day goes by where I don't think about her and how she brought me back to the light of day...
This music saved my life multiple times when I was 13, and still keeps me going today. Thank you Rise against
This video literally brings tears to my eyes. Rise Against is the most insightful band I've ever seen. The saddest part is that the bullying and the hate has just gotten worse the past few years.
That's because some parents are becoming more worthless in the past few years, they don't control their damn kids they way they should.
You know that is why I love Rock and all genres connected. They often have a message and really good lyrics, whereas Pop is so shallow and it's mostly about the same thoughtless stuff. Good to listen while cooking and if you don't want to think but have some stuff playing in the background. But good music makes you think. Great video and great band!
Insomnyia you just have to find the right pop. Every musical genre has songs that mean something. I can give you an example of a deep, emotional, meaningful song in every genre except maybe dubstep. Idk much about that one.
Insomnyia logic is a rapper that does too just saying
usually it is rock that gives the message not others so well
Every genre has good songs and bad songs. Good singers and bad singers. And to the pop singers youre referring to, those subjects could mean alot to them. Its not fair of you to assume theyre just shallow.
Pop is a subgenre of rock 🙄 The Beatles are one of the first pop bands ever for example. Don’t talk about something you clearly don’t master
"To much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for who they chose to kiss"
"MAKE IT STOP, LET THIS END, THIS LIFE CHOSE ME, I'M NOT LOST IN SIN! AND PROUD I STAND, OF WHO I AM, I PLAN TO GO ON LIVING!!!!"
- Anyone else's life change from these lyrics?
The latter lyric always sends chills up my spine. "And proud I stand / Of who I am / I plan to go on living!"
...it really seems like a "fuck you" to all the naysayers.
Yea
Joshua Poujade Yeah it's a great quote but my personal favorite is 'How we survive is what makes us who we are' but basically it has the same meaning... don't give up, stay strong:) And this meaning changed my way of thinking ^^
Same
Irina "Survive" is a fantastic song too!
It's hard to overstate the impact this song had. As a scared, closeted kid hearing stories of other gay kids being bullied to death, I was terrified. But hearing a band I loved talking about and fighting for people like me gave me so much hope. It's a song that helped me come to terms with who I am, and today I couldn't be happier.
is that tears what i have in my face? i haven't been bullied in my entire live, but im totally with you brothers and sisters from our world. There is always a hope for everything.
So many years later and this song still brings tears to my eyes. I was 17 when it first came out, and I was going through a really hard time in my life. I was suicidal, failing most of my classes, living with my abusive mother, and lost my father to cancer. I only had one friend all throughout high school (she's still my best friend to this day, which I'm **so** thankful for), and was being bullied online by my so called "friends" there. This song became one I listened to repeated, and is the third-most-played song on my old iPod.
My English teacher saved my life after noticing me crying in class while we were reading "Thirteen Reasons Why", and got me the help I needed.
Today, I'm 26 and still struggling with my mental health some, but I'm alive. I'm alive and in a better position than I've ever been. I'm taking things one day at a time, and happily engaged to my fiancee of five years. Things got better for me, and they can get better for you too. Don't give up, keep moving forward!
every time i hear this song, it brings tears to my eyes. but i watch the video and i recognize all the places in this video besides the bedrooms because it was filmed in my old high school and around the city i live in. so grateful to kno the hs would allow them to record such a moving video
I legitimately was almost one of those kids listed in this song. I would have been 14, but now I've made it to 25, an assembly at my school about bullying delayed my thoughts until this song came out the next year and changed everything for me.
It does get better, it really does, life is shit, but it's what you make of it that makes it worth living.
At 24 I'm young enough to remember what that felt like and old enough to know it fades away. You get happier.
Bs. You dont. It mostly gets worse.
@jinfin221 i hope your life gets better, dude, I sincerely do. Since I wrote this, I've started recovering from alochol dependency, started a new relationship, and continued living with my best friends. My experience, anyway.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but guys you are worth it you are so worth it you don’t even know you have so much ahead of you so much potential that needs to be recognized. I’m sorry this world is in the position it’s in but we have the power to change it YOUR voices deserve to be heard look whoever reads this know that I love you with every fiber of my being and I’m rooting for you and hoping and praying this life is everything that you want it to be. Keep going don’t you dare give up on yourself this world is a better place with you in it. Stay strong guys it does get so so much better.
I can't avoid coming here after the shots fired in Orlando and I can't stop crying.
agreed. the shooting in orlando was horrible. it was a hate crime. we need more love in the world
To ANYONE who knows the feeling of being on that ledge (literally or metaphorically), you're not one. I know it's hard to see it but you were NEVER alone. Those of us who have stood there looking down just like you are there with you with a hand out hoping you'll step down and let us help take the weight. You're more important than you could ever know. There's always someone out there to lean on. Just remember, you never have to fight alone. Let us help, please.❤
I could be described as a heterosexual white male, and not only do I support this message, but this song actually saved my life. It brought me back from the edge a couple times. To me, it tells me that it's ok to be myself, even if I'm not "normal". That it's ok for ALL OF US to be ourselves, even if this bullshit modern society doesn't agree. I love all of you. Now I'm crying happy tears 😂
This song always makes me so sad.I used to be like those kids.I’m 25 now and unapologetically lesbian af.Songs like this really help us pull through.Thank you for acknowledging us!!
"Too much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss who will rise to stop the blood?"
One of the greatest quotes and one of the reasons I love Rise Against
I agree
It's been a while since I last heard this song. I used to be actively suicidal back then. Today it made me cry again, not out of despair, but out of gratitude and happiness to still be here, out of love for the world and out of sadness for that girl that didnt want to go on. I wish i could hug myself from back then and tell her that yes, it DOES get better.
Nearly ten years passed since this Video woke me up. IT GOT BETTER. so if you are watching and feel like this messages your life, stay strong. It gets better.
It is important that people realize that homophobia is not a thing of the past, as far as we have come.
or transphobia
I have never been bullied and I haven't bullied anyone but this video made me realize that just because I've never bullied or been bullied doesn't mean I should just let it happen to others. No one should have to wake up in the morning afraid to go to school because he or she maybe harassed or made fun of. No one she be abused or mistreated because of race, fashion style, religion, weight, height, hair color, where they live, or how much money is in the family! This is where I take a stand, will you?
"From a nation under god, I feel it's love like a cattle prod." is such a powerful line.
This song is a true piece of art. I'm sitting here crying, which obviously means it's great.
This teaches the best of lessons. I showed this to Food and Family teacher and she decided to show it to the class.
I was the one in the corner singing it but still crying.
Is it wishful thinking to look forward to a day when this kind of video is no longer needed?
Never
I was that kid who was the outcast. I was that kid who had enough and took a gun to school. I was also the kid who by some miracle didn’t follow through. IT DOES GET BETTER!!! I wish I could hug all those who are without hope.
now more than ever, this song has even more meaning. One of my best friends from middle school commited suicide a few days ago, and nobody knows why. There are rumors that his parents didnt accept that he was gay, but no-one is certain. He was such a clever, bright and happy person but something must have changed, but i always expected to hear about him going to Cambridge or Oxford university, but now i am left with only shattered memories of him, like drawing on whiteboards in class, and creating a project about fake news.
Thank you rise against, your music keeps me happy and has helped me deal with the stress and sadness i feel
Thank you.
As a 21 year old guy with asperger syndrome that suffered from bullying during pretty much all school (for the syndrome and later for being bisexual), whom almost committed suicide, i must say that... it really gets better.
On the last 3 years of highschool, i manage to make a small (but amazing) group of friends. We still communicate and go out till today. Now I'm studying clinical psychology to help people have a better emotional health.
Lokime keep going and be happy
so much meaning behind their videos.
Yes
Heard this song 4 years ago, and for the life of me couldn't remember the name! Found it in my recommended feed today, I really needed to hear this, thank you
Woah, woah.
Bang, bang go the coffin nails, like a breath exhaled,
Then gone forever.
It seems like just yesterday, how did I miss the red flags raised?
Think back to the days we laughed.
We braved these bitter storms together.
Brought to his knees he cried,
But on his feet he died.
What God would damn a heart?
And what God drove us apart?
What God could?
Make it stop.
Let this end.
Eighteen years pushed to the ledge.
It's come to this,
A weightless step.
On the way down singing,
Woah, woah.
Bang, bang from the closet walls,
The schoolhouse halls,
The shotgun's loaded.
Push me and I'll push back.
I'm done asking, I demand.
From a nation under God,
I feel its love like a cattle prod.
Born free, but still they hate.
Born me, no I can't change.
It's always darkest just before the dawn.
So stay awake with me, let's prove them wrong.
Make it stop.
Let this end,
Eighteen years pushed to the ledge.
It's come to this,
A weightless step.
On the way down singing,
Woah, woah.
The cold river washed him away,
But how could we forget?
The gatherings hold candles, but not their tongues.
And too much blood has flown from the wrists,
Of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss.
Who will rise to stop the blood?
We're calling for,
Insisting on, a different beat, yeah.
A brand new song.
Whoa, whoa [x3]
(Tyler Clementi, age 18.
Billy Lucas, age 15.
Harrison Chase Brown, age 15
Cody J. Barker, age 17
Seth Walsh, age 13.)
Make it stop,
Let this end.
This life chose me, I'm not lost in sin.
But proud I stand of who I am,
I plan to go on living.
Make it stop,
Let this end,
All these years pushed to the ledge,
But proud I stand, of who I am,
I plan to go on living
Wow, this is the first time I watched the music video to this song, gives it a whole new meaning
the song has so much meaning all ready, the video just makes it clearer what the meaning is
True
yea they do mention "shamed for the ... choose to kiss" or something along the lines of that
Yeah it says "too much blood has flown from the wrists of the children shamed for those they chose to kiss" I believe that this is one of the most powerful lines I have ever heard
After years I'm listening to this song again and now I realize how much this song/video helped me through my hard days. Listening to this again still makes me cry. I can't thank you enough guys❤
Ive gone through terible times to but now im 11 and having a great life stay strong
As a survivor of bullying, I have to say that this is by far the best song ever released by Rise Against. I had to overcome the hate of a select few people over a year of my life, the only difference now is I feel bad for the people who bullied me because they must have been going through so much in their own lives as well. I'm lucky I had good people around me - family, close friends, and sheer willpower. Life is worth living, every second is precious, and I hold those people close who got me through it even to this day.
My message to people out there being bullied: I know I am not walking your path anymore, but from one survivor... you are worth it. Love yourself. Love... yourself. Love who you are. Double down on your dreams. Be unapologetically you. Stop worrying about your looks, don't let people belittle you for what you are interested in, and anything else that would make you concerned with how others perceive you. You will find your kind in this world, because you are never alone. You are a miracle to have been born.
Growing up my dad and I always listened to this song in the car, he never paid attention to what it meant but I did. I’m gay and trans and this band has been with me through thick and thin over the years.
I came out as gay at 11 years old and as trans only a few months ago. (I’m 18 now) I’m so lucky to be able to share this music with my boyfriend, my love of my life.
This band and this song means more to me than I ever could have imagined, and it’s terrible how it seems to become more and more relevant as time goes on.
Vote people, vote, vote, vote. Make your voice heard and stand up.
This song was my life in a nutshell. Only one line isn't true to my circumstances growing up since I am not a member of the LGBT community myself. This song really helped me through some hard times and I'll always be a fan of Rise Against for being able to speak to me when I needed it the most.
Edit: I was raised in a christian home where everything i did was punished and everything I enjoyed was taken away from me, destroyed, lost or considered evil. I was not allowed to have my own identity, personality or sense of being. At school I was bullied severely, sexually assaulted by several other students for years, attacked on the playground, publicly humiliated by my teachers, harassed, cyber-bullying, etc. I even had attempts made on my life on several occasions sometimes by people I trusted. I had no friends. I never felt safe. I had nothing to keep me going. I had suicidal thoughts from the age of 12 to 18 constantly but no attempts. I suffered from crippling depression and anxiety making every task seem impossible to accomplish. Somehow I made it through but it is never easy. Please don't give up!
Proud of you, brother!
Wow.... That's quite a life story. Still, you made it, and you should be proud of yourself for not giving up👍👍👍
hopefully you are an ally to the gay and trans community
@jayhollows5729 Not trying to be rude, but why? I'll honestly say I'm pretty neutral on the matter. I used to think I was gay, mostly due to brainwashing, but I don't really understand the relevance
I remember when I was eleven years old, I listened to this song on loop and cried my eyes out. It felt so personal to me, even before I realized I liked girls. I haven't listened to this song in years but I still know the words by heart.
I feel the same way, it was special to me before I knew about the song's full message. It resonated with me as a piece about feeling suicidal. However listening to it again and hearing the full message, I also somewhat relate to some of that specific message due to some past self-hatred over my sexuality (although I was never bullied about it and it wasn't one of the reasons I was/am suicidal. But I did have a phase of feeling guilty)
Never fails to make me tear up, even revisiting it (especially now that I hear the extra meaning, although I assume I heard it before too it just resonated more coming back after realising my sexuality). I think it's one of their best songs (not sure if it's my top spot though) just due to the fact it's relatable to a lot of people in the LGBT community and gets the message about how horribly we're treated, but anyone feeling down can relate to some of the song and receive the message of keep going, it gets better. And it's obviously great musically too.
Sorry that it got long, I just wanted to share with someone who also had a similar love for the song even before realising they liked girls
To anyone out there who still doesn't know - you should know, the message still stands.
It does get better, you're not alone & no matter who you are somebody loves you.
That simple truth can get anyone through the toughest of times, me included. Our futures are ours to claim ❤
Seth Walsh. You saved my life. You will never know it. And I never told you but you did. You have had such a profound impact on who I am today and who I will be. Hearing of your passing as a child was devastating, pissed me offz and traumatized me because you succeeded in something I wanted to accomplish but was too scared to do. I won't pretend to know you on some deep level. I barely spoke with you. But you approached me on the day of my suicide letter and said something similar to ' you're beautiful and I love your hair' and it sounds so stupid to say. But that saved me. Just some form of acknowledgement on the day I thought would be my passing and now I think about you 16 years later, and of the homeroom class I took months after your passing, in a different state, through a suicide awareness video in front of 25 students who had no idea why we were watching a rise against video. I hope reincarnation is a thing because a soul as grand as yours deserve to be shown to the world. Rest easy my dear human. I love you.
I’ll never forget this song. It was the song of my class. #2013 Brentwood. We were there for you.
Rise Against is such an inspiration for me
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