NEW| Marriage, Mahr, and Finding the One - Mufti Menk, Sh. Adnaan Menk, Sh. Ibraheem Menk
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- Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
- Heartfelt Sofa Chat at the Abdullah Aid event, Croydon, South London.
0:10 - How are you actually related?
2:10 - Why did you study Islam?
6:14 - The right age to be married
9:05 - When did Mufti Menk get married?
11:38 - How to approach someone for Marriage
17:52 - Parent's disagreeing with the choice of spouse of their son or daughter
22:58 - Just how much MAHR??
27:39 - Advice for anyone finding it difficult to get married
30:31 - Red Flags in a proposal
32:11 - Final advice to those married and not married
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I have a sister, 40ys and unmarried yet, May Almighty Allah grant her a good husband
Ameen
Allahuma Ameen
Amin
Ameen
May Allah grant her very good husband. Abshir Allah will grant her very good husband. she is not the only girls who remained single or too late to marry. Is the problem of majority of us. I think we are approaching to the last day or zemenul aakir. May Allah save us from the fitna.
Please remember me in ur prayer brothers and sisters..I am so sick 😢😢😢
May Allah grant you quick shifaa
May Allah gives you shifaa
@@fodaykelly3760Ameen
May Allah grant you shifaa
Syafakumullah, May Allah grant all my brothers and sisters where ever you are cure from the test of sickness. ALHAMDULILLAHI ALA KULLI HAL ,Aamin.
Did anyone notice the humbleness muftmenk's son in law has mashaAllaah he's modesty is great
I noticed too masha Allah
Please write Allah with capital A
my sister lower your gaze lol
@aaminadinath5994 what do mean. Is just a video
The way Sheikh mentioned his wife "I wouldn't trade her for the world"❤❤ And also the most valuable advice, "become the person in character and conduct you would like to marry"
Interview with Mufti Menk father? Regarding his legacy and how he has witnessed over the decades I’m sure he has some beautiful GEMS to share with us ❤
I'm 29 years old young man and still single, please pray for me my Brother's and sister's for Bring to me my spouse whom Allah created for me. May Allah protect us from zina.
Ameen
Please take my son and teach him same please please become uncle of my son too please
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
I also got married at 19 and my husband was 23, we had no home or financial security and stayed with family for a few years. However we have everything today alhamdulillah. I would request the youth to please not delay your marriages due to not having financial stability,education,status,own home etc. Both partners can earn these together after marriage as well! I just recently completed an undergraduate degree, followed by a masters at the same time as my son. Education can be achieved after marriage also.
My son is almost 30 and is also waiting till he achieves his goals then he will consider marriage, but I told him that his goals and expectations will continue increasing, but your marriage will continue delaying. The youth is overthinking and they need to let go, and understand that Allah is the provider, he will provide for you and your spouse after marriage too, inshallah. I would request the youth to please don’t delay marriage and to lower your expectations. Marriage is a beautiful blessing by Allah, and may he grant every one with a loving spouse and a happy successful marriage, Ameen!
Ameen!
Allahumabarik The grandfather is amazing for naturing such wonderful progeny may Allah bless him and reward him.
Shk Adnan speaks so much like mufti menk
Yes that's true 👍 and he is son in law to mufti menk
May Allah grant you mercy to lecture us this knowledge of marriage
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Wait so his MuftiMenks Daughter is married to Muftimenks brothers son?, thats like idk weird.
Allahuma Ameen
Thak
Amin
Thank you dear sheik i am 30 and unmarried yet, requesting your dua dear brother's and sister's
May Allah bless you with a pious wife who will be the coolness of your eyes Ameen.
@@SaguftaZabeen Ameen jazakallahu khayrn dear sis
Iam 44y and Not married yet. So? 😅 Your dua is very welcomed
@@fana7181may Almighty Allah bless you with a pious wife,if I may ask why though
i wanna make a family like this in shaa allah♥️🥰
Assalamu alaykum alhamdullilah,this is a very beautiful topic .i have 3 unmarried daughter's.,in sha Allah i asked Allah Swt to grant them good spouse
Inshaa Allah just think about your sisters boys or your brothers boys
It's not Harram in lslam
Wa alaykum salaam I can't because they all Christians .I am a Muslim raised by foster parents alhamdullilah,my siblings we were separated from our parents under the social workers so they grew up by Christian foster parents .my husband family are Tamil so it's a long story Jazakallah Hu Khair.
@@narimanaidoo2778 May Allah continues guiding you and May he guide your daughters say Ameen
And they will get married according to Allah's QADR (destiny ) inshaa Allah every one will get what was written to them
My brother assalamualaikum,do you talk with them,if possible sit down with them talk to them about the good of islam,if possible have more time with them Ishaallah@@narimanaidoo2778
May Allah find good spouses for your daughters, you should ask Allah subhanhu tala and he is kun fa ya kun. He is supreme power , he will make it happens what he wants to . Dua dua and dua …./
I was at this event last week, Alhamdulillah it was amazing to hear Mufti Menk and his nephews live. I hope he posts his solo talk as it was very touching and inspirational. May Allah swt guide us all to the right path and heal the Ummah 🤲🏼
Maa Sha Allah.... Aameen
AMIIN ❤
Ameen ya Rabb
Ameeen ya rab
Ameen
Everyone will pray for everyone. May Allah guide me and us. No one belongs except Allah. 🥺
Im just try marrying window she is 27 years also im 24 also virgin!
Pls pray for me to have mawada wa rahma wa sakina!
May Allah keep it easy for every muslim🤍
Allahuma Ameeen
Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌼♥️💚Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
It’s absolutely true about marriage. The elder i get the more difficult is to chose someone.
Assalamualaikum, Im turning 30 in 2024. I live where i don't have big circle to meet a men. After I graduated i live with my old parents, they often sick and cannot work to earn financially. I do work everyday 7 days in a week at local snack shop. I have show my interests in a marriage to my uncles because thats how we do on our community so the elders hopefully can help the single to find men/women. My parents has told me they unable to find due to their health issues and their incapable to seek. I realized my uncles has their own daughters and relatives, or their business and I've been trying to use some app to meet muslim men and trying my best to keep the boundaries and mindful of the religion of Allah when i use the app. Years to years, i still can not see the results. I've been trying to put other things to keep my focus in daily life, take care my parents provide our life expenses, and keep practicing islam. I told Allah, i want marry, i saying the dua every single prayer, i hope soon Allah bring me the men who can be my Imam.
I can relate. You are not alone. InshaAllah Allah is keeping something best for us. We cannot understand how Allah does His plan, but have tawakkul in Allah. I am sure something great awaits us.
Please how can i find you
@@nanatoul Insya Allah.. Amin ya Rabbal'alamin. May Allah keep our hearts in sabr and ikhlas. Thank you for your support sister 🌼
same, turning 29 in 2024 and makes prayer and dua that allah swt will find me a good women to me soon Inshaallah
Alhamdulilah i got married at the age of 22 but still no children of my own i pray Allah bless me with children by Allah will.and also put me in your prayers
My sister is pregnant after a decade
@@razamughal4582 Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah that's great may Allah bless her more children Ameen
What's your age noW
Salam alaikum my brother in Islam .. l have been married for almost two years but I have not met my husband in person because off financial issues.. l pray Allah almighty Grant me long life good health and prosperity.. n help to sponsor my trip to my husband.. because Shanta is busy.
May Allah give u multiple of Islamic children.
"Try to be the person in character and conduct whom you would like to marry."
You are 100 percentage true...less money.less age marriage ...after some years hidden blessings pour upon . House car.children happiness... mashallah..
MashaAllah the nur on their faces ❤ blessed family
Sheikh Adnans modesty is just admireable Ma shaa Allah
Parents involvement is must mufti i have give this right to my parents InshAllah They will choose the best one
Almighty bless you good children are blessings to the parents 💚Allah will bestow his mercy and your life will be best Inshaa Allah
@@asmeeny1080 Aameen thanks Auntie
May Allah ﷻ grant us all righteous spouses and make us worthy of them. Ameen.
Allaahumma baarik. This topic resonates me since up until now, I failed to communication with guys with the intention to get married. But I know Allaah knows the best for me. Like Mufti Menk said, just "be the person in character that you wish to marry", Now I'm 41, trying to focus on self-improvement and do good deeds as much as I can and let Allaah find me my king till jannah, aamiiin tsumma aamiiin
In Sha Allah you will find one ❤
Inshaa Allah may Allah make it easy for us all 🤲
May Allah grant u his choice of man that Allah want for u.
ALHEMDULILLAH! I would love more conversations about marriage inshallah! Jazakallah khair for this discussion!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart mufti wonderful live session
So True when there's a family of men behind us and they know that they treated you better. Speaking from experience when some of them know you don't have a strong support they mistreated you
Great chat! Insightful light hearted yet important.
Great talk.....very informative! MashaAllah
I just bump into these video I can truly say that mufti menk is blessed
Masha Allah. May Allah (SWT) bless the Menk family for inspiring and spreading the message of Islam. Allahuma aameen.
Ma Sha Allah it’s very beautiful and very important topic for our lives..May Allah guide us..Aameen and Jazakallah hiren
I am 23 and there is a girl I wish to marry. I pray that Allah unites us and makes it easy for us 🤲🏼 ameen
Pray istikhara and ask Allah for answers
@@habibahmed3191 will do thanks brother
Aisha Musah from Ghana may almighty Allah bless you all❤
Such a beautiful family allahuma barik hom. They're like people from jannah. May Allah bless you all. May Allah protect and preserve you all ameen
Amém
Masha Allah it is indeed the noor you all have, may ALLA SUBHA U TALLAH GRANT YOU Jannah ul Firdouz, Amieeen
Ma sha Allah, best lecture on marriage.l have learnt alot❤
MashAllah.
May Allah grant you the reward for that
MAA sha Allah... Baraqoh lahu FIL kum... So amazing
Masha Allah, Tabarak Allah, such knowledgable and humble individuals.. The NOOR on their faces is beaming, Subhan Allah❤
The closing remark by Ibrahim was very amazing and educative
May Allah bless you guys
Mashalla
One-day I'll meet this man in-sha ALLAH ❤
Ma sha ALLAH very beneficial session may ALLAH SWT protect and preserve the blessed Menk family aameen❤❤
Mashallah all of them have so much resemblance. Hope we will get more videos of all of them together. جزاك الله خيرًا for bringing me back to islam mufti
Masha Allah tabarakal Allah
May Allah bless you all
May Allah guide us all on the straight path
We Stand with Palestine from Bangladesh ❤️
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Free free palestine
This is everything I was asking Allah about and got every single answer I was waiting for subhannalah alhamdulillah
Ma shaa Allah Tabarakallah. Blessed family. May Allah SWT keep u safe, happy & bonded till Jannatul Firdaus
Mufti Menk may Allah give you his goodness and Allah bless you ❤
Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩❤
May Allah increase your knowledge, wisdom and understanding for educating us in marriage. Your guys are really my mentors, and you communicate the same way 🙏🏽
Hamed from Sierra Leone
This was so refreshing to listen to, we need more InShaAllah Ameen 🤲🏼 Especially three panel about marriage. So many people are not married yet 😞
MashaAllah. May Allah bless you and your family. May Allah grant you Janattul Firdowes
Alhamdulillah.. a nice discussion.. May Allah grant you mercy
Subhana Allah.wonderful lecture ❤
Subhana'Allah Alhamdulillah Allahu Akbar. Such a wonderful and inspiring lecture. May the Almighty reward you all for your continued wisdom and advice. We appreciate you all 🤲
Presently true picture of Islam.. how it's to make our lives easy,comfortable..MashaAllah
Mashallah May Allah bless you all. This was a very helpful session. Jazakallah
Amazing interview, combination of talent , wisdom and religion. ❤
This evening.I dreamt about Mufti Menk MashaAllah ❤
I woke up and took my phone, log in to UA-cam and saw this video recommendation. I was like why did mufti menk put 3 mufti menk in his thumbnail. Then my eyes went to read the caption, then realized they are Mufti menk alike with mufti menk 🤣😍
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What a lovely talk.
In India I have never seen FIL and SIL sitting so comfortably😅 Mashaa Allah ❤❤
Love from Canada 🇨🇦 🍁
Mufti Menk and the family so lovable
I truly enjoy listening to their conversations
May Allah bless us all
آمین 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
Allahumma barik, may Allah grant me a family like yours Ameen 💝
That had depth and humour! These three "young" men have a great grasp of marriage and life. Thanks for the questions too. I have forwarded this to family and friends. 😊
Ma'Shaa'Allah may Allah bless you all ❤. I'm not yet married but Alhamdulillah I learn a lot from you guys Ma'Shaa'Allah.❤❤
MashaAllah Tabarkallah… Mufti may Allah grant your parents success in this world and hierafter 🌷🌷🌷
Please write Allah with capital A
MashaAllah its always so amazing to listen to you mufti Menk. Glad to see you along with ur family members MashaAllah..... May Allah bless your father for bringing up righteous offsprings MashaAllah.... May Allah make us like him so we can put the love of Islam in the hearts of our kids as well Aameen
Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌼♥💚Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
MashaAllah JazakaAllah kheyran. May Allah grant you goodness in this Dunya and hereafter and may Allah bless you abundantly ameen 🙏
Ameen ya Rabbi 🤲🏻
Allahumma Baarikum Fiii. 👏🏼
Beautiful and educational conversations. I love you all for sake, Allah Az'zawajal!
I pray that Allah Az'zawajal will continue to bless you all and preserve you all, and May HE also strengthen our grandfather (Mufti Meak Dad) and accept his beautiful effects he did and are doing for Allah's Deen. Ameen Yaa Rabbi 🤲🏼
Your daughter married to your brother 's son
Your nephew
Mashalla what a blessing
Please write Allah with capital A
Please write Allah with capital A
It’s a cultural thing, marrying your cousin. Us first cousins grew up like siblings so it’s not something in our culture don’t normally do.
Beautiful are the women that display modesty, handsome are those men that lower their gaze. May our future wife/husband be firm on Islam, and live by this quote Ameen. I pray this is our last Ramadan alone- for the ppl seeking a righteous marriage.
Ameen ya Rabb🤲🏽
Allahuma Ameeen
Ameen yarabi
MashaAllah 💙 very nice conversation, May Allah succeed all of us in both Dunia and akhirat...Ameen
You all have Noor because you are truly amazing personality
Please keep this coming
Pls add me in your prayers, there was this guy who is good practicing Muslim upright conducts he came asking for my hand in marriage but my aunties rejected because he has no much wealth for big wedding they care about society and it broke my heart
Subhanallah be with subra Allah Will guide your life
So sorry about that. Put your trust in Allah. May he make it easy for you.
May Allah help you sister for your aunties to change their mind.
Sorry to hear that. May Allah guide your aunties.
May Allah guide ur aunties..have trust on allah..
Wish it was longer!!!❤❤
Maza agaya ha sch m ❤ Jazak Allah khair
One love to all Muslim
May Allah make us as one
Thanks for the lecture our shiekhs
May Allah grant our grandfather with jannah for teaching you Islam
اسلام عليڪم شيخ
Please make dua for me my medical enterence exams are comming
❤may allah increase ur knowledge and protect u
Success is urs in shaa Allah. Go n excel
Amazing
بارك الله فيكم
Masha Allah perfectly said ❤
Mash Allah tabarak Allah,May Allah grant bless you all Aameen❤
Subhanallah Alhamdulillah Baarakallah one person makes all the difference
May Allah bless your father
May Allah accept all that that he did
Mufti it's important that son In law must be obiedent and must be a person who respect the elders no matter his or others elders thank you we appreciate more videos like this 😊
solid session as always
And the real beauty its not in the outside face...the real beauty is from inside from the bottom of the heart.
But social media smts break it.. Beauty is what u see outside
But you should want to be attracted to who you are marrying.
@@mecca1881may we that don't like makeups too u guys don't want us
Am really enjoying this
This was so good to hear, InshaAllah we all will find the right one soon!! May Allah make it easy for us, Ameen.
Ameen
MashaAllah such a beautiful family.. May Almighty bless you all
I love this Ismael Menk Family and I wish 🥰 I belong & from this family ❤
Love from INDIA 🇮🇳
Outstanding performance ❤
Very nice arguments for youngsters Alhamdulillah