Don't know if you'll see this, but this is a nice format, I like your perspective and I feel it aligned with my, your chill, keep up the good work. (sorry if I sound kinda weird)
I can really feel you! Most the things that you said in your video relates to me. I'm a german and also living in a rather small and empty town, there isn't really going on a lot where I live, while most of my best friends are online as well. Finding new people, friends and more has never been so difficult to me as it is now, just as you said, many people that I found were also passive; it was mostly me talking to them first or putting some effort in it. All my early friends from the past don't care either as our lives have changed and divided, and of course the thing with the dating apps, unfortunately it seems as you said. My family sometimes tends to talk it bad; me having online friends, but I appreciate them, because they're the friends I have.
I can relate to having to deal with allot of passive people, it's quite annoying it feels like you had to constantly be the one that initiates things or sh!1 never happens. Felt even moreso when was involved with a local pen and paper roleplayiing group, really felt that the entire group mostly sat with their thumbs up the ass. Sort of discouraged me a bit from wanting to be social, I fail to see the point of being social with people that act like overgrown toddlers.
With you on the lonliness. I’ve been trying to connect with an old friend recently. It takes days to even weeks for them to respond. At this point it’s not even worth it, but he’s all I got so I keep trying. Not to mention I’m the one who always reaching out first so. Idk what I want to do with it. If I want to keep trying, or I just wanna give up.
Same here brother, 22 now unadded me off every social media for no reason it hurts but you gotta keep rolling and just wish them the best. Try to take the high road
Luxury allows us to distance ourselves from each other. If you're working under a more stressful life and death situation where you're living in the 1800s and life is hard for everyone, you overlook a lot of minor character flaws. Back then, the breaking point was physical abuse. Today friends might break up permanently over not liking the same joke.
You know things are quite messed up/tragic when you can potentially lose friends cause you didn't like a post they made on social media. The joke thing is the same, it's absurd to think that people ditch friendships that fast (no one is 100% compatible, not even a carbon copy clone of yourself is).
While I'm not a guy myself, I agree with you on a lot of stuff! I feel the world has slowly been getting duller and everything's starting to feel so gray, surface-level, and tedious. So much of life is spent with others, in happiness and in despair; it's sad that that's becoming more exclusive as time goes on. I hope you find people that you respect and relate to, and I hope that some day everyone else could, too.
When dealing with loneliness, you have to do something about it. Humans by nature are social creatures, so by any means you must find people to talk to. If this means going to the library/bookstore, art gallery, fan convention, concerts, clubs, local city events, etc. You have to put yourself out there to meet new people. If you are an introvert and find it hard to do these things alone, start by giving 1 random person a genuine complement each day or start a random conversation with a stranger, as a way to practice socializing. Meeting and finding new people to talk to takes work and might not be satisfying or fulfilling initially, but you have to put in effort. When it comes to waiting for happiness, the rescue boat will not always be guaranteed to come, so you just have to fend for yourself.
For me, I just focus on myself. Even though I've got a lot of friends and most of them I've known my whole life, I dont go out much. I'm also from a small town, don't like going to clubs or anything like that and I also dont like hanging around big cities. My life is just made up of work, food and sleep. Thats just how its gonna go as soon as youre going to work. Maybe its just the financial struggle I'm in rn idk. But yeah, life will get more lonely the older you get so I suggest you learn a lot about yourself as soon as possible or you're gonna drown.
Had a son and lost all my friends in the process, there was no fighting or anything they just stopped putting any effort in once my son was born. Fckn sucks
Happiness is just an emotion. It comes and it goes. You need to be chasing stability. Creating a solid foundation of relationships both platonic and familial.
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Don't know if you'll see this, but this is a nice format, I like your perspective and I feel it aligned with my, your chill, keep up the good work. (sorry if I sound kinda weird)
I can really feel you! Most the things that you said in your video relates to me. I'm a german and also living in a rather small and empty town, there isn't really going on a lot where I live, while most of my best friends are online as well. Finding new people, friends and more has never been so difficult to me as it is now, just as you said, many people that I found were also passive; it was mostly me talking to them first or putting some effort in it. All my early friends from the past don't care either as our lives have changed and divided, and of course the thing with the dating apps, unfortunately it seems as you said. My family sometimes tends to talk it bad; me having online friends, but I appreciate them, because they're the friends I have.
I can relate to having to deal with allot of passive people, it's quite annoying it feels like you had to constantly be the one that initiates things or sh!1 never happens. Felt even moreso when was involved with a local pen and paper roleplayiing group, really felt that the entire group mostly sat with their thumbs up the ass. Sort of discouraged me a bit from wanting to be social, I fail to see the point of being social with people that act like overgrown toddlers.
Probably most relatable video by far, literally explained 75% of what I'm going thru, maybe 60.
With you on the lonliness. I’ve been trying to connect with an old friend recently. It takes days to even weeks for them to respond. At this point it’s not even worth it, but he’s all I got so I keep trying. Not to mention I’m the one who always reaching out first so. Idk what I want to do with it. If I want to keep trying, or I just wanna give up.
A friend I know since kindergarten has ghosted me
Same here brother, 22 now unadded me off every social media for no reason it hurts but you gotta keep rolling and just wish them the best. Try to take the high road
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Luxury allows us to distance ourselves from each other.
If you're working under a more stressful life and death situation where you're living in the 1800s and life is hard for everyone, you overlook a lot of minor character flaws.
Back then, the breaking point was physical abuse. Today friends might break up permanently over not liking the same joke.
You know things are quite messed up/tragic when you can potentially lose friends cause you didn't like a post they made on social media. The joke thing is the same, it's absurd to think that people ditch friendships that fast (no one is 100% compatible, not even a carbon copy clone of yourself is).
While I'm not a guy myself, I agree with you on a lot of stuff! I feel the world has slowly been getting duller and everything's starting to feel so gray, surface-level, and tedious. So much of life is spent with others, in happiness and in despair; it's sad that that's becoming more exclusive as time goes on. I hope you find people that you respect and relate to, and I hope that some day everyone else could, too.
When dealing with loneliness, you have to do something about it. Humans by nature are social creatures, so by any means you must find people to talk to. If this means going to the library/bookstore, art gallery, fan convention, concerts, clubs, local city events, etc. You have to put yourself out there to meet new people. If you are an introvert and find it hard to do these things alone, start by giving 1 random person a genuine complement each day or start a random conversation with a stranger, as a way to practice socializing.
Meeting and finding new people to talk to takes work and might not be satisfying or fulfilling initially, but you have to put in effort.
When it comes to waiting for happiness, the rescue boat will not always be guaranteed to come, so you just have to fend for yourself.
You are special, you are unique, and you are important. Keep going, you will make it.
Thank you so much for making this video. I’ve been wanting to make one like this for a while and I think I finally will tomorrow.
can't wait to watch it :)
Maybe it’ll come out tomorrow I need to fix some things first
In my life n stiff
For me, I just focus on myself. Even though I've got a lot of friends and most of them I've known my whole life, I dont go out much. I'm also from a small town, don't like going to clubs or anything like that and I also dont like hanging around big cities. My life is just made up of work, food and sleep. Thats just how its gonna go as soon as youre going to work. Maybe its just the financial struggle I'm in rn idk. But yeah, life will get more lonely the older you get so I suggest you learn a lot about yourself as soon as possible or you're gonna drown.
Had a son and lost all my friends in the process, there was no fighting or anything they just stopped putting any effort in once my son was born. Fckn sucks
I needed this. Thank you!
1:55 Why did you leave all that leather in the chest??
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i dont want a relationship, and i got one best friend couple of friends but love to be alone
Real you got a sub
maybe one day happiness will come for us!
Happiness is just an emotion. It comes and it goes. You need to be chasing stability. Creating a solid foundation of relationships both platonic and familial.
I don't care much about happiness, id rather be content than be happy. Happiness is fleeting, contentment is more permanent .
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