4 Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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I’m sorry but I was so curious, are you Muslim ?
“...early 20s...”
"Everyone is friendly, but you have to fo first" is actually an eye-opener. Real life people are so much friendlier than the online world hahah
I have regretted initiating interactions in my class because they all had some kind of complex and demanded people to entertain them when they themselves did absolutely nothing to have fun, they would do creepy ass stuff and act like it was normal........ I've had social anxiety because of this........I hope I don't meet people like this again
Im afraid of rejection 😢😢😢
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Man this guy is honestly exhausting to listen to.
The summary :
Quit introversion
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lol
Quit introversion. Do things.
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agreed
I'm 28 and feel like I've wasted my life so far, I guess it's never too late to start implementing all of this self help content I come across. The pain of regret and constant feeling of needing to catch up to others can be immobilizing, though. Every day is the inner dialogue of "why didn't you start doing this 10 years ago?". It's like the learned helplessness and maladaptive coping is cemented into your lifestyle after so long and reinventing yourself is so daunting and discouraging. It starts with small habits, but having the faith that you will follow through is also necessary.
To be honest, you only to study Christianity and Islam and go through it logically.
@@creedlazer7011 Lol hadn't thought of that, I'll get right on it 😂
@@maxsilbert That's great. You can start by learning the fundamental beliefs of the religion I.e. there is only one God and there is none worthy of worship except him is the fundamental belief in Islam. And you can read the qumran or watch UA-cam videos of miracles of the quran. It is the only holy book to not have been changed since it was revealed. You can learn about the prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) by reading 'seerah' books about the prophet(pbuh) and his life. If you prefer listening rather than reading, you can listen to the seerah of the prophet by Yasir Qadi on youtube, they are very detailed videos. You can watch youtube channels that clear a lot of misconceptions about Islam such as: Mohammed Hijab, Smile 2 Jannah and Ali Dawah.
I got my GED at 30, now I’m studying engineering. Yeah a lot of my time was wasted because I didn’t have opportunities, or I didn’t realize I deserved the opportunities I had. The best time to start is 10 yrs ago, the second best time is today. Give yourself permission to try and fail. Failure is a requirement for success. The best thing you can say to yourself is “meh fuck it, let’s see how far I get”
@@Scififan1234 Thanks for this and good luck to you. Engineering is no joke
I have to agree with the 2nd one. I'd rather get rejected and move on than have the dreadful thoughts of 'what if' if I hadn't taken any action.
Please make shorts like this.. I actually liked the 4 books on money also.. thank you for sharing these tips.. and congratulations on your book, I hope to read it someday.. 😊
In my early 30s and I'm definitely taking those initiatives I should have taken in my 20s, especially being the one to take action first. I relied too much on other people's feelings for me and hoping to get invited than doing the inviting and organizing myself. I've grown from being shy to the ambivert that I am, and yah the introverted shyness still pops up once in awhile, and I wish I did more in these last few years, but I'm doing it now, so like the video said, I'm satisfied 😂
I have learned starting anything especially if it’s new is draining. But when the routine begins to stick and the pieces fall into place then it is energizing!
Yeah i am friendly but can someone else be friendly to me first please. I am an introvert😬✌🏻
Totally agree with this!
thanks! not many shorts out there are as helpful as this one :)
Am in my twenties and am struggling to figure it out
Nice so I'm in the right track then. As someone who's 24 years I've been focusing on executing making actions. Also read alot of self-help books
energies me..redbul
things that drain me..redbul🤗
not everyone is friendly
Thank you Ali ☺️❤
Wisdom + god-tier editing. Couldn’t ask for more
I love you
Thanks Ali😊
Channeling ’mrwhostheboss’ energy.
Love this, but it seems like #3 (making yourself content with whatever you’ve accomplished that day) can be an easy way to skate along life not doing much but making yourself THINK you’re doing enough?? Am I misunderstanding that one? 😀
Love how condensed and to-the-point your videos are!
I think the take away is that dwelling on things you could've done isn't heling you accomplish things later.
@@Sanif514 Makes sense. Kind of the positive side of the same coin. Thanks!
Great advice. Thank you.
True!
How can U be understood talking so frantically??
Couldn’t agree more.
Those are really helpful reminder and tips
How to be happy:
1) Don't be mentally ill
2) Don't be an introvert
3) start thinking ✨️positive thoughts✨️
as if 1 and 2 are a choice ☠️😹
@@KhunJuju-B that...was the joke
My job is likely to drain me
Some people are absolutely not friendly. It's pretty good advice overall, but there are definitely jerks outfit there, and it's hot worthless beating yourself up if you happen to interact with one of them.
I disagree with point two. Rejection has mentally screwed with me soooo much more than regret has.
this guy adults.
With which programme you edited this video its gonna be lovely if someone share tutorial
What do you do when you have trouble finding things that energise you?
I really really would appreciate an editing tutorial video from you
Thanks
Question to the first one, should you expect something return. What if it’s one sided?
how to add a youtube thread to watch later or any other playlist?
which software do u use to make these kind of transitions?
how can I learn to edit short form video like you?
What if the draining things are must?
sir plz tell us specifications of your pc which you use for video editing?
1. point was very important
me in the beginning: 420
This spoke to me ❤️!
Haven’t even finished the video yet but this first one i love ❤
Ok i finished the video. Good ones but first one landed best with me. Good vid
this totally moved me
Good
Need this advices in 20s
Great Video.
Wow so many wisdom
Thanks, Ali❤
Until you regret shooting your shot💀
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Thanks I needed this today 🫶