Love this!! "Our need to be in connection is fundamental to our survival, but our need to be authentic isn't." It explains so much about the choices we make in how we show up in the world.
I dunno, it is filled with self blame and toxic shaming and self pathologizing oneself. There is a lot of CBT Dispositional Attribution and none of Situational Attribution (toxic people, shame culture countries, lack of money) No psychological health is possible unless this essential care of the person is fundamentally accepted, loved and respected by others and by himself. Abraham Maslow
@@ranc1977I think it’s more about identifying these thought problems, being vulnerable to share, and the step into growth she is taking. Your comment, in my opinion, is the exact reason people feel the need to stay quiet and question themselves. I feel like she’s trying to tell her story and share what she has learned and you’re saying it’s wrong, no?
😂…. Some circles are where I can be myself… other circles I pretty much say nothing. In the circles where I can’t be myself… not silencing myself means being ostracized. So… yeah… I’m frustrated and annoyed.
Love this!! "Our need to be in connection is fundamental to our survival, but our need to be authentic isn't." It explains so much about the choices we make in how we show up in the world.
Thanks for taking the time to pull out that quote! I'm so glad that resonated!
Powerful words that will send ripples of courage out into the world for others!
The delivery. The build up. The stories. FLAWLESS! Thanks for stepping into the arena.
I dunno,
it is filled with self blame and toxic shaming and self pathologizing oneself.
There is a lot of CBT Dispositional Attribution and none of Situational Attribution (toxic people, shame culture countries, lack of money)
No psychological health is possible unless this essential care of the person is fundamentally accepted, loved and respected by others and by himself.
Abraham Maslow
@@ranc1977I think it’s more about identifying these thought problems, being vulnerable to share, and the step into growth she is taking. Your comment, in my opinion, is the exact reason people feel the need to stay quiet and question themselves. I feel like she’s trying to tell her story and share what she has learned and you’re saying it’s wrong, no?
Inspirational! Rachel is an amazing speaker.
Woooow this is soo good!
😂…. Some circles are where I can be myself… other circles I pretty much say nothing.
In the circles where I can’t be myself… not silencing myself means being ostracized. So… yeah…
I’m frustrated and annoyed.
First ig