Baby Trap By A Filipina And How To Avoid Commitment With A Filipina?
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I was told by the Veterans Administration hospital in Las Vegas that if I have a child by my Filipina and I want to claim that child I must have a DNA test as proof. So my Filipina already knows I won’t sign the birth certificate until that DNA is done saying that I am 100% the father. If for some reason I am not well good luck to her and that child.
If a guy doesn't want to have kids but doesn't want to use protection then he needs to get vasectomy.
It is not up to the Filipina to use the father's last name if they are not married. The foreigner father has to consent to that and fill out two affidavits.. one saying they are the father and the second allowing permission to use the foreigner's last name. That is the first step (if not married) to get the child dual citizenship. Second step is paternity test and appointment at the foreigner's embassy. Then all documents need to be gathered and taken to the embassy. This is, of course, if the foreigner trusts and already knows the child is his. If not, the first step for the foreigner's protection is a paternity test. I know all of this firsthand from experience.
This guy needs to wait till the child is born and do a DNA test then go from there. Also I can't take him serious if he's doesn't want kids or marriage, and then does literally the only thing on earth you can do to have a kid unprotected lol.
Vasectomy! Enough said. 👍
I got baby-trapped. However, I accept my responsibilities so I have simply had to live with it. I have no emotional relationship with the mother, merely an economic one.
I would give money until the child is born but would need a paternity test after that.
My situation is my filipina can have children but the risk is too high in which her last child who is now 7, was a difficult birth. Doctor said another child could risk her life. I want to have a child because I don't have a legacy to continue after I'm gone. My dilemma is she is everything im looking for and her having 2 children is not an issue. Her husband passed away 2 years ago.
A DNA test. is required not to prove your not the father but to prove you are. For Social Security, even if you are not old enough to collect it. It is insurance, for your child if you were to die before child turns 18. Also for your child to be a US citizen.
The proof works both ways, depending on context.
I'm glad I was fixed long time ago.
From week seven of pregnancy through the first trimester, you can get a noninvasive prenatal paternity test… that’s the route I would take personally if I had doubt
I have a more conservative, and simple life. Find a traditional loving woman who knows it's better to wait and plan and then live happily ever after together. Plenty of them available outside of Angeles 😅
When I met my fiancé, we discussed kids during our LDR for 1.5 years before we met in person. She has kids and told she would like to have one with me. But, I had TURP surgery several years ago which made it difficult to have kids. She is accepting of this.
Yikes my girlfriend has nine siblings and both her parents are 80. But she’s from the province no children beautiful self educated. I am hooked.😂
There are pre-birth paternity tests , I believe all they need is blood sample,
Yeh one tried it with me so I ended it quick. I seriously doubt I would entertain a philipino now, no matter how lovely they are. Im 57 no point having kids now, but would be quite happy to take on someone allready with kids.
Yes, you said it correctly that’s the best way to approach her about the test.
Need to have a test to make sure it’s his for whatever country he is from USA Canada UK. That’s the way to go about it and insist that has to be done before giving ID or signing any papers.
Then from her response and actions, probably will give you some insight into if it’s really yours not.
Very interesting thanks
Thanks Maya,good advice.
Great video and advice Maya
There are pre-birth paternity tests as well--they are more expensive obviously, but $500 spent before birth could save the guilt of supporting the entire birth process for a child that isn't yours. I believe all they need is blood sample, no procedure.
REQUEST A DNA TEST DUDE!!!
Me and my philipina talkt about this and future plans,we have a LDR relationship.Now she is pregnant and we become parents in october! I din't met her family and we are not married yet...
🇺🇸 in the beginning of the relationship, a subject of children and babies should’ve been discussed. if yes, person didn’t want to bring a baby into the world before having intimate relationship with a woman, he should’ve got a vasectomy and been upfront about this. They are also women that will try to trap a man into marriage by getting pregnant. Several things need to be discussed before getting into a serious relationship. 🇺🇸 👍
A man should use protection and avoid this situation.
Hi Maya thank you for all of your wonderful knowledge. I have pretty much watched all of your videos' since I have been following you. I have one question. If I father a child in your country can my baby have my last name even if the mother and I are not married yet. I have not seen this topic as of yet. (Maybe I missed it) Thank you and please continue your wonderful job.
Hadir ikut nyimak kapan saya bisa berkunjung ke kota filipina ya
My girlfriend uses birth control pills and has since we started our relationship 1 1/2 years ago.
There are certain situations in life that, admittedly, totally perplex me. For instance, why would anyone show AI models in order to attract viewers when the real Mayagenic is clearly more alluring than any AI model ever generated. Do you share my mystification? 😁 Hahaha. 👍
thanks 😄
No way No how, too many better options in the PI. Opens up a drama filled environment and chaos.
The generous Filipina has a nice surprise in store for the Western man looking for an adventure.
How do you avoid meeting the family if traditional courting involves asking the father for permission to date the daughter? Kind of leaves you with less desirable women or older women.
I would get a dna/paternity test, in a western country not in the Philippines.
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When I start a relationship I make it quite clear. I don’t want children. So we’re on the same page 🤔
How many foreigners did she date for her to be that careful? 😂
Gio the Embassy only requires the paternity test if the child is born outside of marriage. If born in a marriage you just have to demonstrate your (father's) presence in the Philippines during the time of conception. If born out of wedlock the process requires the paternity test before you can apply.
I commend the guy for willing to accept responsibility for supporting the child if it's his. There are too many irresponsible baby daddies out there abandoning their children. I would suggest a paternity test to settle any doubts so he can move forward. I can't blame him about refusing to marry regardless of the paternity results.
Hi maya and Gio. I’m wanting to come there. I already found my Filipina. Together 3.years LDR do you recommend services like OLVIS to help me get there. Never left America before don’t know anything more than from your videos. Kind of nervous and need help to get me started the right way. Thank you very much
The subscriber your referring to should simply get a paternity test done to be sure. It saves alot of heartache later on. Bcz what I believed to be my son in 1995 turned out to be her bfs.. lol long story but I only got clarification on this in 2012 from her cousin in US... That fact destroyed me ...but anyway I brought them all here to Australia 2002... And why am I now single well simply put I want nothing to do with anyone that doesn't show affectionate & emotional love ... Why is it Filipinos think love is only in bed Ganun??
Yes single last 21 yrs, but I was in Cebu last March visiting friends a couple I'd known for 10 years suffice to say I still love visiting there... Esp the lechon Manok I could eat that everyday lol masarap tlga. Well thanks for reading ingat guys
Tell your friends they could say they're Married and not ready to have children yet, so she won't feel bad 🎉❤
Excellent video! Gio, you said you had no intention of ever marrying a Western Girl again because it can be financially devastating. I have an observation and question. Is it not also possibly financially devastating in the Philippines as their laws indicate a 50/50 split of all assets in the marriage? In the U.S. this is not always true, and may vary from State to State. For instance in my State all assets owed by either party prior to marriage will still belong to them alone, only assets acquired during the marriage are up to being claimed as community property, and may come into play for judgement of distribution claims. Sounds like financial devastation might be possible in the Philippines too. What are your thoughts? I know there is no divorce in the Philippines, but Foreigners may gain divorces in their Country, it seems. How does all this pan out? Is it wise to only get married under another nation's laws, and not the Philippine legal statutes?
I'm giving money to a little girl that I know is not mine. And she is doing great. Her momma is too.
If you ever get a green card and come here you will have so many guys in good shape rich and close to your age and dont have to spend another second with your big belly man also your kid will get top education
thats wrong of the pinays parents. The "I love you" thing happened after 9 months with 1 ..... whew.. glad i broke it off. never met her in person
With 12 pills a year, poverty in the Philippines could be eliminated. But of course that would also mean the Catholic Church would lose its grip on the minds of the Filipino.
yup
Makes me wonder was that what maya thought if she had a kid her ex would stay dont think I've ever heard her story on that.
Best do DNA TEST
Do you think most filipina know when there most likely to get pregnant.
Why would you want to pay for a kid that may not be yours?!!!
Over here it’s called Baby trapping!
is Gio supporting your child?
Maya the Bee, Whee
Meanwhile man walks past holding a baby 😂😂😂😂😂😂
To ALL fellas, if you aren't going to get married, keep it in your pants. If you choose to dip your stick, you'll have to pay to play. Next time, stick to 'massage parlors'. This particular guy KNEW BETTER, already divorced. If not married, definitely get a paternity test. A child deserves a mother & father "full time". Most of us have made mistakes when we were younger but once we know better, no excuse. It's about the child, not about you. No respect for experienced 'Dip n Ditch'.
simple blood test will go along way
Is there a Maury Povich like show in the Philippines? It's ironic that the Filipino people are very religious, and yet there are so many teen pregnancies. Maybe ironic is the wrong word, naybe it's fitting. 🤔
Maya has become very cocky and assertive after getting married.
I am always assertive. Straightforward people are always labeled "cocky".
This guy in that letter mentioned that he didn't want any kids which makes the decision to get a vasectomy an easy one and that's what he should have done before going to the Philippines.
I agree
I'm planning to have kids in SE Asia. Never had kids in the US due to expense and divorce laws. Many advantages to having kids in SE Asia. However I'm not planning to marry or even live with a woman full time. I'll have my own place and stay with a woman and my kids for as long as it's enjoyable. When the eye rolls and tampo starts "see you in a few weeks". DNA test always. I'll set some rules like $400/mo support as long as only my kids are in the home. She wants to have kids with other men, live-in boyfriend the cash stops and my kids can come live with me. I can afford a live-in housekeeper, nanny. I may have more than 1 baby momma.
This arrangement seems to be the way social customs are headed. 15 million single parents in the Philippines (95% are women). More and more common in the US too.
do you have a child together?
DNA test first.......................
good video, but this guy needs a DNA. child support do happened with DWSD Yes you right I have work with them . but why is this foreigner even with a girl with many children ? chances she has a partner, " friend with benefits" while the foreigner is out of country. don't be simp.
Many men, especially retired men, will have themselves fixed before they leave their country. Having children in your later years is not fair to yourself or the child. There is nothing wrong with being upfront, especially if you are in an established relationship, but in the beginning, you can keep that to yourself. Make sure that you have a copy of your medical records in your personal files so that if she does end up pregnant, then you can show proof. Many men do have children, and then if something happens to them, then the survivors' benefits will kick in . Remember, it's your retirement and your money, so do what you see fit and remember that there are no guarantees in life.
Too many moral and legal minefields. Yes never put your name on any document until you have all the relevant facts. As long as the locals know you’re a foreigner, you’re gonna be on the hook for it. Just line up your ducks, better still wrap up the tool.
Cheers
why does the guy has sun glasses? The sun doesnt even shine in his face. Something to hide?
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From Canada-my experience is philippinos can not handle success that money can bring for them but her parents can and of course all her friends become financial experts that brings a lot of unnecessary trouble to deal with in a relationship don't marry with out a pre-nup or co habatate with out one. they don't care if you lose every thing( I have not) . what about now the Philippines family code section;195 !?