Dating in Hawaii Has Its Pros and Cons Outside of Oahu It Is Limited
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2024
- So the question about dating in Hawaii came up. I answered a few questions about the dating scene to give some feedback about what its like to find love in Paradise.
Lol "who knew shorty back when"
ShootinStars87 lmao he's so funny
This is so so true. Ahaha!
Couldnt have put it better myself. Loads of young baby mammas and papas.
There is a lot of baggage on the island and if you are looking for romance , the families are a tight knit community, so yh, you would need to be accepted by everyone. Everyone knows everyone, so its pretty likely you will bump into someone who knows that "someone". #islandlife
Mahalo for this.
I live on Big Island and have totally given up on serious dating. Women either are into one night stands, or are waiting for either the millionaire or the surfer with crazy abs. Waste of time for a regular guy. Wish I could go date on Oahu, whenever I visit it seems like regular guys are in high demand. Oh well, more money and time for hobbies.
KNOCEANMUSIC no different than here in the states.
Become a surfer with crazy abs then... What's the problem?
He said the “smell is very natural.” Thanks Jeff.
I’m moving to Kona in a couple months. Your channel is very informative. And from the sounds of it, looks like I’ll be single in Hawaii too lol
You make the best videos. Much love.
I met an awesome hot lady at Little Beach in Maui. Unfortunately, I was a visitor on vacation and had to say a tearful goodbye.
your videos are very down to earth and honest ... keep it up !!!
Dude, there's something about just your stream of thought consciousness that I find really interesting. Rock on
Is in Hawaii mode.
This was hilarious!! Please make more
Love your shirt and your videos, looking forward to meeting you, I will look for you when I go to Hawaii.
He said the people at the communes are all natuuuraaal. The smell! This guy is hilarious but he knows what’s up. He talking about people at the commune who are here from other places. He is NOT talking about Hawaiians because he knows Hawaiians looove the water and bath everyday. Yes we Hawaiians so love water . Fresh water and ocean water. It brings us joy to feel the water on our skin. The ocean is healing for us. We go in the ocean when we have certain ailments to cleanse our body and soul.
Met this girl with 9 kids in Kauai, god dam!!!
That whole part about the chicks smelling XD XD that was hilarious
You pick great topics for discussion - lol! and yes, dating options are limited outside of Oahu :)
Hey Jeff, RC here.
Great to see you cranking along, living the life, and having a time doing it. That's a great use of your talent to whip out all that UA-cam footage.
I had a suggestion for you:
Why not deploy your assets that you've accumulated over the years. Why not cross tie the news channel you built with your new channel. I don't know your divestiture arrangement but, even if you're a completely independent supplier to that group, it would still gain both you and the site considerable synergy to multiply both audiences.
They could use the fresh new content that you generate and you could use their leverage to reach a much wider audience and a stable following. I would think both sides should benefit. Plus there's the prestige of being referred to as the founder
R. C. Stanley maybe you can message me on email and we can chat?
I like this dude. This guy know what’s up. Lmao.cool dude.
Good work mate love your insights
I'd say there is a wide selection,like Dennys. $2.99 & you're out of your mind. Just kidding, alot of cold fish
You are so much fun !
I li made a comment on one of your videos about "possible" racism in Hawaii. I think that the next comment I make applies. If you are looking for a significant other in Hawaii, be prepared for "work". Everyone that is a native, is going to want the BEST for their children, cousin, step sister, and the list goes on.... If you really would like a relationship with an islander you have to think of it like you would in any small town. First date? You meet, talk. If you enjoy the female or males company? You gotta meet the folks. Be brave. If your looking for a one hitter n quitter? Something easy? You can pay for that. Trying to start an actual life together? A relationship? That takes time. And work. I'm not from the island but, I am from a small town. The more videos I watch from jj it really doesn't seem that different. Common family values. As a plus? I really wouldn't worry about past baggage. Otherwise she/he wouldn't be entertaining a life with you, right?! Get in with the family? Bulletproof.
Ur awesome.. I'm researching a move to Maui in Sept
I Used to live in Honolulu and notice how “Race Orientated “ And Clickish the dating scene Was with The locals. Now, With the Tourists was a hit or a miss.
my Own personal Experience and perception.
This is the funniest realest video on the whole fucking internet.
Wow! Have I got to talk story with you braddah! I’m part Hawaiian with wealth (entrepreneur).... My cousins all Marines & Air Force....now that is fun!
LOL, funny stuff. I live in Coronado and I'm seriously considering moving to Maui. Your videos have been very interesting and helpful. Thanks.
John Doe I live in a.z. Debating to move where u live or moving to Maui. leap of faith.
John Doe
Then I hope you're not single, based on the advice he gave.
Got it. Don't date in Hawaii so many other things to do.
Yes, it's much better to stay alone your whole life. Dating is for retards.
You’re so awesome Jeff.. I have to watch all of your videos now.. I’m as you put it an “islander”..Filipino in other words and I have so much respect for all these Hawaiian.. in Hawaii you give respect , you get respect back and that’s all there is to it...keep the videos coming😁
I was a tourist on Molokai, and got fixed up with a Navy guy, by the events girl at the hotel. It was very romantic, and we wrote for about a year. Of course, it ended. Too far away. One nice thing that I was asked there was why had I never been caught!
I live on Kauai, what you say is largely true. You can check the Census Data, Hawaii overall is one of those places where there are more men than women through most age groups. And on the neighbor Islands there are very few single people in general. There are plenty of single men but not single women, seems like nearly all women are married or have a boyfriend. Plus lots of dirty hippies. If you are a white man and start dating a local person it's quite possible that she will have a brother, father, uncle or cousin that doesn't like haole and you may have a little bit of a problem to overcome.
Yup.. say it as it is brother... just as i suspected out there. Just a matter of luck if you come across being in the wrong place and wrong time with one of the lovey ladies.
I live in San Francisco and there isn't a laid back vibe compared to Maui. The locals are great but in-terms of dating, the island is a melting pot. Hawaii (I'm speaking of Maui) lacks the big city nightlife you'll find in San Francisco, Vegas, Los Angeles, or San Diego
I want to add the locals are great and I ate a lot of food. If you're single and looking for company in the short-term, Maui isn't the place. It's great for families, senior citizens, couples that have timeshares making Maui their second home but you're a guest to the locals.
I know what you mean, to others it will sound funny but like you said, its an island and so everyone knows each other. The struggle lol
I came here to get info on Maui. There's a competition to send someone to Maui for 3 months as a paid photographer, but now I probably don't want to go with those odds. Yikes!
Lol! This video is awesome. Can you do a dating in AZ one?
Taifu in Japan right now. Come eat sushi with me.
You didn't say too much about the Big Island, which is where I want to move. Is there a dating scene or way to meet women there? Thanks.
I live here. Dating scene sucks on big island. Most local women have kids and usually go with their own kind if they're not single. What Jeff said in this video is so true. It's crazy how much the dating scene sucks here. Heck, it's even hard to make friends. It's tough to settle on the islands since locals know each other and if you didn't grow up here, no one knows you. Making friends with other transplants kind of sucks because they're not very cultural and of course doesn't know much about the culture of Hawaii and the lifestyle of Hawaii.
i am a single Registered nurse and Moving to Hawaii to settle bc i love the island. I would love to meet a guy from mainland
My view from having lived in Waianaie and the Big Island back in the late 1970's. Become a master martial artist and become fearless. Locals love intimidating Haoles and they know how easily Haoles are intimidated. Be a nice guy who will kick ass and take no shit from anybody and impress them with your superior fighting skills and lifting weights will also help as will learning about Hawaiian music. Sucking up beers and playing Hawaiian music all night is a cultural thing. Getting chicks will be easy when you have the courage to take what you want. It won't hurt owning a few firearms and knowing how to use them as someone will likely try and intimidate you with that . You might also want to learn about Samoan culture and language and try living for a while in Samoa.
Now i am curious 🤣🤣
My brother in law move to O'ahu 2.5 years ago from Chicago & can not get over how many Haole (White) men with Asian women there are! You do not see Asian men with Haole women near as much.
If u dont like the scent then shes not the girl for u.. Thats natures way of saying find another smell that turns u own.....
You are simple but funny.
Sounds normal as the day in most small communities,, Tropics and Mts.. But.. like u say.. if ppl go looking for that special someone... better rethink and see videos like urs !! thx for ur info...P.S ew ew and just gross !! BO is not for human consumption via the nostrils.. Poor hygiene ,, Poor health ! and just "Rank"
Military guy hooks up with local girlfriend with big local braddahs Yeah. Military guy got nice truck lends truck to local girlfriend for a day. Next day she says oh lend truck to my bro to move furniture. More excuses next few weeks military guy never sees his truck? Military guy looks for truck asking Local Braddahs but gets stink look as if they don't know what he taking about. Then no worries your truck is in good hands. WTF???
Haha I lived on the B.I.for 5 years and yes I WWOOFED there and yes we shaved and took showers but I'll be darned if I don't know the type you are talking about. We called them the "lazy, crazy, hazy farms" and there were plenty to go around. One volunteer had just come from a foul place called "Hedonesia" (they don't exist anymore so I don't feel bad calling them out) She was very pretty otherwise but reeked of mold, her dreads had mold and her clothes were all MOLDY. I told her she could take a shower and do her laundry at the older washing machine under the lanai. So she cleans up then she asks me if she can borrow my tweezers, I obliged. Then I hear her screaming in the shower, she had a diva cup stuck up her you know what and was using my TWEEZERS TO REMOVE IT. Needless to say I didn't ask for them back and I don't think she lasted long doing real farm work for eight hours a day.
baggage is everywhere, every female has options/pursuers at all times but if you two click enough then none of that matters
Nowhere to run, nowhere to hide on an island!
Are u still in Hawaii? Just subscribed to ur channel, love it :) are u on Instagram...
I want to meet a Hawaiian girl they just good
Real talk man. Fucking hilarious but on point!
Very interesting. Like those natural smell comments you made about the hairy pretty girls. Lol.
I hated the dating scene in Oahu from my point of view most not all but most of the local women are judgmental and just a whole bunch of drama but since Oahu has alot of women from the mainland i had it good since I'm from Texas and I could click easily with them
Never go on a date with a local lady there. Thats why I do those in New York. They dont care here.
Man. That sucks . I like Kauai but It seemed like a bunch of Vegan hippies . And yeah that makes sense that you might run into problems for swooping somebody's Crush since Jr high. Plus I heard Hawaiians like to fight lol
Chip Pee - have you been to kauai?
That's all very true, I live on Kauai and it is a bit of a macho culture for the local people. There are very rarely any shootings or even stabbings but people do get seriously injured in fist fights fairly often.
Strong scent lol
What about dating Bw?
Education in schools are stagnant history, i got bored, learning nothing more. Today, I am aware and the generation has advanced. The truth of the matter i learned here is where did all this originated? Isn't it so the plan was way sorted out hundreds of years in advance to conquer the WORLD in every which way and to rule and enslave? The big picture is out of the box. War broke out in the islands and Kamehameha conquered. Noticed the design of the Hawaiian warriors helmet? Look, isn't it simulated to the Roman warriors helmet? I believe people existed all over the world by the thousands and traveled throughout the four corners of the earth for hundreds of centuries. I heard a true story about a small village in Italy over a stupid bucket something about a village or two villagers shared the only water well, and somebody forgotten to bring their own pale, lazy to go back for the pale ends up stealing the bucket home, now the villagers accusing one another, division is added and WAR breaks out.
Tell a little kid go dump the trash in those big dumpsters and he misses and it ends up scattered on the ground, now... the neighboring community are complaining and accusing that that community is lazy and dirty. It started because the adult was lazy.
Excuse me when I heard you explain, I realized how polite you are soo I needed to SHARE with you. 😃🖑 no offense to anyone, my right to my opinion ok. 😃👍
it just depends who you are and how good you are with the ladies. now if you're gay I bet there's plenty of opportunities or low hanging fruit! no pun intended.
Many Haoles (How-Lees) are not attractive to Native Hawaiians, and the pickings are slim for many non-Polynesians on the islands.
LOL your funny!😜
It’s not hard to show your a tourist just act like every body else and don’t wear like Hawai’i cloths that tourist wear and don’t talk to other girls that have a bf cuz they gonna get MAD
LOL.
This was a terrible review from a non-local haoule. I am from there, and he missed so much about the wonderful people and girls in particular. And why did he not even mention the melting pot of culture from Japan, the Philippines, Korea and all of Asia? Lots more to the story people. My advice, join Golds Gym on Kapiolani Blvd, get yourself in shape, learn the real local customs, and you will meet lots of the most beautiful women in the world.
Coz he's a typical white imperialist who can't be bothered to learn local culture. He just wants to smash
If you got a job. You can get the hunnys
Classic stuff, lol, hahahaha ....
How 'bout dating a lesbian?
Ahahahahahahahahahahaha LMAO
Lol :) you're cute by the way
Hard to find a chick from here if you didn’t grow up here, way easier for a girl to find a guy
Locals are not going to date non locals. Locals have their own, true that. Dating in Kauai was horrid. Being single was difficult!!! The people that are coming in are generally coming in as couple just married, or old folks. The ones who are available are so desperate they don't know how to have a real relationship, they just seem to want sex and hope the rest works out... No thanks. I have high standards for myself.
Sounds like you described yourself