Good morning team Lynn Ngugi Network, What are your views on today's story? Do you support polygamy and do you believe one person can love two people at the same time? You can check out the Abrahams UA-cam channel here ua-cam.com/channels/zs3YK69EtLbLLi9cwUFJLA.htmlfeatured To share your story with us, send an email to lynnngugi4@gmail.com for consideration. Thank you so much for watching:) See you on our next video
Even before I listen to them, I must say... God's standards on marriage will never change to suit our desires or changing norms in our society. #TeamOneWifeOneHusband🙌🙌
Please let's empower our girls to never accept infidelity and betrayal just because they don't have options. Let no woman lie to you that they would be ok in such a situation like this. No one
That's correct,,, for me I can't terolate infidelity even if we had plans and children.... From serah's smile all through the interview someone can tell she has not yet healed...I feel sorry for her....
God save us all from such men! Nobody deserves this...atleast deep down we women know what we feel at the end of it all. Knowing you were not enough and was never what he wanted leaves you heart broken. I seriously cant even watch this to the end am overwhelmed and a single lady am scared! marriage whatever it is , has become a battle field or stadium for people to play games. I see men are adopting new trends but the question remains ....have men ever thought that women too have choices out and can also add on the numbers?? And have the men ever thought why women dont do what they do publically even with the endless temptations they encounter outside their marraiges?? Anyway as a teacher i wonder at what we've become! May God armor us with strength and growth in this harsh world. To the genuinely good men and women out there God bless🙏 you!
Who else is sending love & hugs to Serah? I feel she has stomached a lot. I lost Serah when she said she was very much ok. You don't need to prove if you are. May happiness find you again Serah.
She didn’t have to stomach anything. She had a choice to walk out of this nonsense. She still has a choice. But whatever reason, she has chosen to stay.
Hello there @LynnNgugi, I’m watching this story in 2024 and just wondering where they are. Would you be able to give an update, please? Thank you. Love all the way from 🇿🇦
@@ochiengkepher7477honey she is a human, what woman would love to share one thing that’s meant to never share. Your husband is never for sharing 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Wow the conditions he gave after Cerah confronted him;..Wow like WOW. He clearly stated his boundaries and Cerah had no boundaries so she had to accept else their relationship ends. It's so good to always know your worth,values and what you deserve. I HAVE ALOT OF WORK TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER.Hugs to Cerah
I just wanna say that this man would not be sitting there smiling and acting like he is okay if the situation was the other way around. Women, lets value ourselves.
A man can only love one woman . And make her happy . I am from a polygamous family ,growing up wasn't easy ,my mother was the first woman in . Another was brought . I saw riches tumble down...we struggled just because another was brought in... By the help of God ,Jesus ...I will not subject subject my woman to this . And plus depending on where this happens ,in some places you will have to deal with witchcraft ,each woman will be trying a way to please the one man..i have seen ,no fairy tale # no to polygamy .
This is just a case of two Narcissists preying on an Empath. I hope Serah finds herself and gets the strength to leave.Women should learn to chose themselves.
Iam glad someone noticed narcissism here the manipulation, intimation, reverse psychology, and tourture inflicted on sera. Maybe she doesn't know now but later her answers will be in their statements they gave. Iam disgusted
Mary only chosen ones are able to see this. Sarah has already been taken through the full cycle of love bomb, devalue and discard. I hope she will educate herself fast enough and break the pattern. Triangulation is what is happening now.
You are lying to your fellow women, women should stay with their men even if he brought in another 3rd wife. Women are most happy under a Man. Westernization should not apply to men of means who are ready to take a number of women under their wings.
@@phillipsidhojapap1461 do you know me?? Do I know you? Call a spade a spade and not a big spoon. Ata Bible inasema you should accept rebuke. If you see me sinning rebuke me.
@@Diaries_with_Monna I don't have to know you to know you sin.. unless you are ignorant of your sins and like pointing out those of others. We call such people hypocrites
So when Abraham was cutting sukuma wiki, why was he not thinking of loving two people? Would Maureen love him then?? The point is, Abraham betrayed Sera
Wueeeeh! This is the most painful story i have watched this year. To be honest, there's nothing Interesting about Abraham as a guy, pride and selfishness is written all over him. my heart goes out to Serah, mummy may God step in fully for you in this......Maureen, karma never loses an address, it's even more worrying that you also have a daughter. Retrace your steps and re- write a good story before it's too late.
@@patricianabende7674 yeh Sarah is kind but deep down this marriage is toxic to her,but Maureen is a passing wind when she finished her deal she will leave, she's not there to stay,
The second position in marriage is never for a virtuous woman. A woman of self respect wont dare to entre another woman's life. No matter how hard you try sugar coat it, in one way or another your kids will feel lost. You'll model a bad character to your daughters and bring confusion to your sons. The moment Maureen realized Abraham was married she should drawn the line there and then, by diluting her feelings towards him and blocking him from her life. She shouldn't have waited to the extent of having a baby with him knowing he's a family man. Despite the fact that Abraham compelled Maureen to be with him, it was her place to show him and make it clear to him that you don't always get what you want. I believe a virtuous woman will always want to live a life they can defend before God, which is not Maureen's case. I feel like Maureen and Abraham took advantage of Serah's calmness and selflessness. I mean Serah is a full package and that's what any man would kill to have.
I think if become too calm a man will think you are okay with polygamy, it good to be tough and harsh so that he knows that it's not allowed ata akimoa atampeleka mbali
True, he is selfish, very selfish. I hope Cerah's eyes open and she moves out of this situation. Huyu mwanamme hampendi. She seems very ambitious and I know she can do well without them.
Not sure if it's just me who's noticed a couple of red flags. Every time Cerah thinks back to that time, you can see the pain but she brushes it off by saying, it's the grace of God. And she's maintained this statement in so many interviews. It's a way for her to block and shield herself and say God is with me. She still is hurting. Two, Abraham using reverse psychology on Cerah because she saw the photo on the phone. And even the verbal aggression that follows when he says 'We have rules in this house concerning the phone. Three, Maureen. She says she always asked how Cerah was doing. They sound as though they were doing her a favour or it'd be less hurtful if they care for Cerah. Four, Abraham and Maureen have a very deep connection. Even the way they talk about each other. There's a certain glow. But when addressing Cerah, it feels like she gets no love or less love. Lastly, when he says Cerah cried after he told the truth, there's no remorse or hurt in his face. Like when you hurt someone you love, you feel remorse. You show remorse. But there's none. They all need to go for therapy. Cerah must have gone through so much in order to accept this situation. I hope Cerah gets better.
All my precise thoughts. I can say with my full chest that if Cera decided to leave, Abraham would not care that much but he cannot let Maureen go. Because that is who he is in love with now. Cera ako hapo juu ni yeye anaogopa kwenda, the two of them can easily do without her.
This is one of those stories that I cant just waste my time watching it to the end.In this century, what lessons are we learning from this? What positive impact does it have? Young girls and women in general need to know their self worth and to never settle for less. This is just wierd and unjustifiable! Marriage institution is divine and ought to be respected period! Lets not sugarcoat betrayal and infidelity/ adultery. In addition, the foundation of each marriage really matters. My observation though.
I doubt if this dude truly loved or loves his first wife Cerah from the word go. At no given point has he shown any remorse for heartlessly hurting her. How he comfortably sits there, beside her to be specific, smiling, narrating and justifying his betrayal and infidelity in details to the whole world as if they are virtues to be emulated is baffling and annoying. For Cerah, it is crystal clear that this is not what she signed up for but just found herself in it. To her, the situation is what it is and she has to put up with. Pole sana mami.Its never too late to pick up yourself.
Hi Lynn, I’m a Zimbabwean who followed you from the time you were with Tuko. I’m touched or say burdened with this story. Serah was told that “what I am about to tell you will either break us or we continue. And I feel she had no choice since she wanted her kids to grow with their father. God said two are one and not three. I’m sorry to say this but I pray the other wife should get her own man. She will get someone with the same situation. I’m not God so I conclude by praying for God’s will 🙏
This is totally wrong though the man is pretending like everything is ok he is going to bring another 1 again bcz a leapord will never change its sports truely speaking l hate snatchers find your own man and happiness out there
In history,traditional community leaders,normally lived in families of more than one wife.I know the families were able to prosper and be peaceful and get to enjoy love and happiness.
Term your eyes my brother, stop looking for any beautiful woman you see, how many are you going to get by the time you grow old, for there's a saying that says beautiful ones are no yet born, and for the other woman you will always remain the other woman as the saying goes.
I feel for Sarah..you are selfish man ..Maureen you should find another young man with no responsibility..you are beautiful woman ..Sarah had no choice..poor woman..I hope he doesn't get another one again
The first wife doesn't look happy at all. She just didn't have a choice to make and the second wife is a home wrecker. And women, can we stay woke? Do not demean yourself this much. There's someone out there for everyone I am sorry but this is nonsense on all levels
@@emmaandvallarie3090 Bora mwanamke apate hybrid sperms.... every woman is Happy to have good children whom turns out to be very responsible human being in society... So those good men don't be afraid to give women that seed
Abraham loves Maureen truly. The one he truly connects with. Cerah was just a good cleaner. Quiet and easy to walk over. I hope she finds herself and moves out of this toxic relationship.
Imagine, he is not even ashamed to publicly say he posted a picture of a daughter on his whatsapp status and quickly took it down because he did not want the side chick to know he has a family...bull
Have been in such a situation thank God it ended and it doesn't feel right...As the first wife,i didn't have an option but to accept what my hubby had decided(having another woman) i didn't want t lose what i have created for years with him for a new comer...it's never 💯,never easy at all kwanza mkiwa pamoja watatu,deep down it hurts...but i thank God i prayed sana na mrembo akajitoa,i prayed for her own husband...Serah i feel you kabisaa,inauma but hauna otherwise... Good luck
Eeh you did the right thing...imagine this setup is not God's will for any of His daughters. Maureen will leave sooner or later. Serah has to just pray always.
Without judging Abraham was ready to loose Cera for Maureen, bt Cera was not ready to give up on her family. Congrats Cera u have a big heart that can accommodate any sheet
Ladies did you hear? You can be supportive, submissive and respectful yet a man that wants to go outside his marriage will still go. Woman, invest in yourself.
Polygamy should never be an option. I'm really proud of my mum for walking out knowing she had nothing outside there. It really causes trauma especially to the first wife n the kids.
@felixekojot6741 very well by God's grace 🙏 unfortunately my dad passed away, but the other wife who destroyed their marriage died a long time ago. We still give God the glory though, for he was our dad.
I feel like Abraham didn't tell Maureen he had a family because he didn't want to loose her but was quick to tell Sara the truth because he didn't care if she got angry and left
I agree with your observation. I think he secretly wished Ceera would go. But she surprised him by staying, and he became polygamous. He didn’t even have two houses, because he had planned for Ceera to leave and Maureen moves in.
I am thinking loud here..two questions 1. If Maureen was the first wife, would she welcome serah? 2. Would Abraham looked for a sevond wife is Maureen was the first wife? This is betrayal big time.
If maureen said NO to abraham, and insisted on NO every now and then. Serah would still have her husband . This is so painful to watch. I was in such a situation and i chose to leave and i loved the guy and he was toxic. Excuses here amd there. I said NO to the ex and here i am. I thank God. I am never going to be in such a situation ever again my entire life. My children are not going to be in such situations. And my next generation. In Jesus Mighty Name. Amen. Pole Serah
@@veroncahmuchangi4832 she is part of it. I chose to walk away. If i acted on my interests i would have been in such a situation. I did love. But i chose to walk away. God loves me so so much.I thank GOD because GOD loves me so much. God loves me so much. I thank the Almighty GOD. I would rather be single and wait for the right one. I am not going to squeeze myself somewhere. I thank GOD. Ameniepusha na mengi sana. NASHUKURU MUNGU SANA. If every other woman would say no. We wouldnt have such . Let Gods will be done in this situation. Amen.
I come from a polygamous family and sincerely speaking, l don't support polygamy. Before getting into such like relationships, think of the consequences on the children. Can't condone, won't condone.
This isn’t for everyone. My Dad tried this, He did it after 20 years of marriage to my mum, naively believing it would be this nice. I was abroad, he wrote a letter to me, painted me a fake pink picture. Later on: chaos! Our “ Maureen” had to pack and go... drama never stopped until my mum divorced 20 years of tears and pain later. Not for me . Not for me . Not for me.
Is it only me noticing the resemblance between the two ladies?Also wondering why they both use his first name Abraham as their surname but not Mwangi... Anyway,the friendship or polyamorous relationship is just complicating life......all rosy now but we shall revisit.😥😥😥🤔
I hate it when adults drag their children into their foolishness.My mother pretended to be accepting and understanding like Sera but we were traumatised as kids,down the road there was alot of clashing in the house,our friends made fun of us,our understanding of marriage was affected,we were literally dragged into a situation that we didn't sign up for.Down the road mom goes into a depression, we were kicked out and she died regretting why she had allowed her daughters into this Compromising situation.Alot of this talk is about the adults but what of the psychological effects the children have to go through?? It doesn't matter how these people want to spin it,they are not wiser than God who intended Marriage to be a sacred convenant between two people and 3 is a crowd.It may seem to work for sometime but anything born out of lies and pain will end the same way.A seed will always reproduce after its own kind and you may try to convince the world it is working but from experience it ends with alot of pain and resentment. I hope these women can do right by the children and show their daughters you don't need to be defined by this foolishness!!!
Sorry for what you & your mother endured!! So true. It really affects children. A second wife not matter how understanding “poisons the well”…it’s a huge NO!
I come from polygamy family, My dad betrayed my mom and married our house-help, the drama in my family was unstoppable, toxic, hate, no peace etc. My mom passed away last year with so much bitterness, sometimes my dad and his 2nd wife would gang on my mom.. It’s horrible experience when growing up. Men stick with one wife.
My mum also comes from a polygamous family and I never liked my grandpa,I personally hate chaos and he would cause chaos in my grandmothers house while we were there on visits since we loved our grandma so much,I have no good memories about that man,I'd see him and run,and worst of all he beat my grandma and she has suffered for more than 30 years with spinal chord issues,my mum and her step brothers and sisters always fighting,wait until the day he died father Lord of heaven,his home was a war zone..and I happen to share the same thoughts with a friend whose father was polygamous he hates his late dad to date.
My heart is going out to Sera! The pain in her eyes cuts deep and she covers it with the smile. Oh Sera how i pray that one day you will have the courage to choose you and never be afraid to start over.
Following their story, Serah doesn't look like she had a choice but to agree with her husbands way of taking a woman who's from his class & line of work... We shouldn't Glorify immorality
My mothers in-law smile and etc but the animosity? Wueh! And it’s for 50 years plus My father in-law says how blessed he is for a happy family 😂😂😂yeah right
This is the main reason why women don't leave 😥😢😢it's so 😢 sad. Serah has a pure heart. Huyu naona akileta bibi mwingine, he sounds so like a controller 😭😥
Yes I walked out of my marriage with three kids after my husband was clear he wanted to bring another wife and God is faithful 8 yrs later iam happily married with the 3kids and my ex still moving from one lady to another. But I always blame the parents especially of the guy they should teach him well
Cerah is so beautiful, so gentle, so perfect. She deserves a mature, loyal and faithful man who will cherish her and treat her like the queen she is. A man who will not make her feel like she wasn't enough for him. Wonderful men are out here.
Ceera you are wasting time with that man .He doesn't love u he keeps u coz of kids .why did he marry if he loved u.Ceera is more beautiful than husband snatcher.Ceera leave them n look for a good man to treat u well
At least someone is seeing what am seeing . she is totally uncomfortable . secondly the man showed he wanted something different from the first wife ( the physics of the second wife )
And the way sera is so beautiful! Bottom line sera was heartbroken but poor her. My prayers are that I watch them again in the next 20 years and still see what I am seeing.
This sorry as is will not last 20 years, as soon as “Abraham’s Empire (Land, houses, businesses etc.)” is establish both foolish women will be traded for a considerably younger woman. Abraham is very calculated and hand picked these women to further his aspirations of wealth and power.
After following up with the whole story, there's nothing to be proud of in this whole story. No matter how Serah will try to convince us that she's ok, she is not and I repeat it "She's Not" This Serah gal is still hurting
Nikamwingiza kwa chama, I programmed chama yake ikue Saturday, so that before we go out, akue amelipa chama. We started investing and here we are 😭😭😭cera oh beautiful cera 😭😭😭. Cera build this man and when money started coming in, he started seeing the beauty in other women 😢. May God bless cera with a faithful man who will treat her like a queen she is
May this kind of love never locate me, you can't be okay living with your co-wife, this is so wrong. Serah sorry for everything that you're going through and dealing with all that but one day you will overcome it
Maurine, If I were you I could just park and go believing God to bless me with my own husband more than Justifying myself everyday that am not a home destroyer.
I think she lacks confidence too. She must be an Empath, she and Cera. Their husband's probably a narcissist person, he will love himself only, others are still coming, if not he will be playing them with others. They're enabling him in his immaturity
We have a child here, where do you go leaving your child with someone. Better I stay and raise my child, than fight endless battle with the father. I prefer my peace.
I watched this interview in shock. So number 1. This guy was still having coffee dates with Maureen when the wife was pregnant. 2. When the baby was born he even deleted the photo of the baby because shit Maureen had seen the photo and he didn't want to lose her. 3. So coffee dates with Serah, which was how their relationship started turned out to coffee dates with Maureen almost immediately after she moved in. 4. Serah talked about how Abraham never used to come home because of ooh it was raining too much and all and she even had to move closer to Nairobi for him to come home. This man took advantage of how much she loved him. She only said that , that period was very difficult and didn't want to delve deeper so as not to make her friends uncomfortable. 5. Serah said aki mapenzi wewe three times - and it is evident from that statement this is not what she wanted and signed up for but to still have the man she loves has to endure. 6. Serah said she often has to tell Abraham that amemtupa sana. Maureen said nothing,, meaning this two people who work together are often soo caught up in themselves and sometimes Abraham even forgets about her. For me this is just a deep story about betrayal. Both Abraham and Maureen have deeply hurt and betrayed Serah . I hope one day she loves herself to realize that she deserves better
Women should learn to see red flags 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪Sio Kwa ubaya but ukijifanya doormat no one to baby you. She should have seen the red flags and acted those first moments. You teach people how to treat you💯
very true this slogan of polygamist is demonic we are not going to embrace it at all i can feel for celar the red flags are quite alarming wish she could see what we are seeing she's living with two hypocrite person God intervene
Lynn you're a champion at what you do. In this episode, you outdid yourself. Your questions gave me goosebumps; but how you phrased them and your demeanor just made everyone comfortable. You're heaven sent. Keep on keeping on.
This one Lynn , mmmmmmhhh!!!! Even if the bible say don't judge, but the same bible says a man will leave his parents to be with his wife not wives. Serah is calm but really hearting.
The narcissism, the betrayal, the manipulation! My heart weep for Cera. Oh God may you open her eyes. May you financially bless her immensely and give her the grace to leave.
Great interview Lynn! The man is a narcissist. He cheated on his wife. He loves Maureen, he left his wife for her. He won't be satisfied with those women, soon or later he will be on the road looking again. Sarah is unhappy of course, very low self-esteem. I really feel for her. She always looked down, her laughs were full of hurts and sorrow. She is extremely confused. YOU CAN DO BETTER SARAH!. He doesn't love you. You are beautiful and intelligent ! Maureen is in denial! her answers to the questions were pointless, always beat around the bush! Her famous lines "I am not the kind of person". " I am not a home wrecker" I didn't come to destroy Sarah" You repeated the questions to yourself . You were unsure of your own answers. You took another woman's man! He left his family for you! KIDS ARE INNOCENT THOUGH. I JUST HOPE THEY WILL GROW UP AS GRATE YOUNG WOMEN AND MEN, WHO WILL CHERISH THEIR VALUES , SELF-RELIANT and break this cycle!
Sarah,blink twice if you’re being held hostage😔 I wish Sarah all the healing she deserves because clearly,she’s hurt… For Abraham,see a therapist,you have deep sitted issues that will not be adressed by having several women. For the second wife,May the universe give you back what you’ve dished out!!
Cerah wants a life with peace. She is not too emotional. She is like a ricehalm. She bows when the storm rages and when it is over she straightens her back as a fierce woman.
I think the reaction would have been different if Maureen was the first wife. She wouldn't accepted it. Let's not glorify infidelity in the name of love. Cerah is hurting from inside
OMG! I am perplexed ...Sarah is among of those good and too nice women that people tend to use and abuse at the same. May your innocence gets you out of this
He's also controlling.. Notice how he cuts serah short to answer on her behalf? Also it's evident they've reduced her to nothing.. Notice her self-esteem is 0
Abraham loves Maureen. it's unfortunate that heart matters are complex. He met his soulmate in Maureen. Listen to how he describes how he met the 2 women. Look at his gaze at maureen, how he talks about her. Serah you have overstayed your stay...Life isnt fair, people we love stop loving us but life has to go on. .pls love yourself more and leave, your soulmate could be waiting on the other side of this nonsensical situation.
Wanawake wawili ni nyungu mbili za urogi, it's better to protect them having different homes! When the man dies today the home can never be the same again!
Infidelity sugarcoated. The audacity in this man, aaaargh. And this Maureen girl 💔 I just pray Serah finds herself and a way out of this ...ship. Abraham you really betrayed Serah and you should be ashamed of yourself.
Most definitely no matter how much you can even think you have accepted the other woman it hurts deep and that can be seen on her (Sera) when she talks about how her husband was not giving her attention 💔💔💔
Every time I watch this story I feel a certain deep pain. Betrayal is beyond words😭😭😭. I also noted Abraham and Maureen are both wearing white shoes. 🤔🤔. Serah wake up. By the fact that serah was expectant she already was too vulnerable. This man Abraham though. Very few women can handle this like serah did.
It makes me think that if this how the arrangements always end, I'd rather be a second wife. There's no joy in being a first wife, work, persevere, tolerance and also enable a man to meet the love of their life (soon after life becomes merrier). There's no joy in silently dying in pain of betrayal. There's no need of dying while alive(when you stop living for you and live for the sake of children). We are living in a society full of hypocrisy. We are raising children full of bitterness. We are so selfish not to care if people around us are hurt by our actions. I pray that women work hard to avoid exchanging their self respect with basic needs. Oh,,,and woman, give birth because you want to. Not because you want to give a man a family. Because those children might one day be the reason you tolerate abuse
“How is Cera , go home” … she is saying it like she was doing Cera a favour by telling abraham to go home … the fact that you are even having coffee dates with a married person is insane , it screams home wrecker . I really feel for Cera
Absolutely.... She enjoyed been another woman's cup of poison. Growing up I was taught that a no should be a NO.... Not a no with some %of yess yes somewhere
Our grandfathers were polygamous. One thing they did was to build each wife a house. Lets not lose tradition as this setup is painful to one party. I hope the first wife loves herself more to walk away or demand better.
My great grand father had six wife that's what I hear ,but come my grapa had one because of what they went through ,many turn to witchcraft to manipulate the man, even now it cannot work let's stop the liar ,if u disagree with blood sis ,what about a stranger,haki Dunia ni ngumu better to leave n give them space, for your peace.
Hearing this from a man is so heart-warming, listening to this I was like, may God give Cera the courage to walk away, she deserves better, she needs peace, she needs to love herself again, it's not easy to decide to just walk away, but it's the best decision she can make for her and her children
I was in tears for cerah half of the time. I think she is those women who are flawlessly polite This man could have done better. Many women are drama queens if you find one polite one n supportive then be true to her only
Her interviewing skills is on another level.., she penetrates to your "deep-to-confess fears" then resumes you back to your ease. Its an art. Love this Lynn girl.
Good morning team Lynn Ngugi Network,
What are your views on today's story? Do you support polygamy and do you believe one person can love two people at the same time?
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Jesus said husband should have one wife.. You're promoting evil,calling evil good.
Noooooooooo to this. It’s not valid
No u cant love 2ppl at the same time,he is lying to one..naona sarah ndiye anadanganywa..
I cannot support polygamy ata kama nowadays it's the oder of the day
All I can think of is how the Sister Wives in the US are now. Two have divorced him...he stopped loving two of them. A big mess.
Even before I listen to them, I must say...
God's standards on marriage will never change to suit our desires or changing norms in our society.
#TeamOneWifeOneHusband🙌🙌
Amen, Highly well said 💯
Why is it so prevalent in the Bible?
Exactly!!!! No matter how much we pretend to accept.... GOD's standard never changes
True one wife one husband full stop
I concur with you definitely.
Please let's empower our girls to never accept infidelity and betrayal just because they don't have options. Let no woman lie to you that they would be ok in such a situation like this. No one
Exactly
That's correct,,, for me I can't terolate infidelity even if we had plans and children.... From serah's smile all through the interview someone can tell she has not yet healed...I feel sorry for her....
Bullshit there are more women than men and men will always have more women. Take the bitter truth or a lie
No one but them are happy please can you be thinned by your future
They are happy than you
We can normalize sin, sugarcoat it but it still remains sin. No woman has ever been comfortable with another woman in her life.
Deb say that again...
Very true,
Very very true
Very true.....Say it louder...
Very true
I can never admire such a marriage no matter how peaceful it is.We shouldn't normalise wrong
God save us all from such men! Nobody deserves this...atleast deep down we women know what we feel at the end of it all. Knowing you were not enough and was never what he wanted leaves you heart broken. I seriously cant even watch this to the end am overwhelmed and a single lady am scared! marriage whatever it is , has become a battle field or stadium for people to play games. I see men are adopting new trends but the question remains ....have men ever thought that women too have choices out and can also add on the numbers?? And have the men ever thought why women dont do what they do publically even with the endless temptations they encounter outside their marraiges?? Anyway as a teacher i wonder at what we've become! May God armor us with strength and growth in this harsh world. To the genuinely good men and women out there God bless🙏 you!
Living in a dreamland these women
💯 this was disturbing.
So true...Kwanza the most hurting ni 1st wife...This total nonsense
Nothing convincing
Amen n The Devil Perverts Us n we need God’s intervention
Who else is sending love & hugs to Serah?
I feel she has stomached a lot.
I lost Serah when she said she was very much ok. You don't need to prove if you are.
May happiness find you again Serah.
She didn’t have to stomach anything. She had a choice to walk out of this nonsense. She still has a choice. But whatever reason, she has chosen to stay.
Cera! You are a very beautiful young woman, but your husband has already shown you who he is. What stops him from repeating it again???
I wish Cerah comes to her senses, this other woman might kill her, watch
@@lydiahnyaboke2302 cheiii its not that serious
body language telling it all
Sera is honestly hurt,but afraid of starting again.The pain is so visible in her eyes and i truly feel sorry for her.
I also see that, she is just forcing smiles, poor her! 😢😢
Very true, she is hurt
yeah she looks somehow hurt but its good she spoke out.
True I noticed too
Saw that too, she was enjoying her marriage then boom. She's hurt.
Hello there @LynnNgugi, I’m watching this story in 2024 and just wondering where they are. Would you be able to give an update, please?
Thank you. Love all the way from 🇿🇦
As much as Maureen try to sanitise her mistakes, she remains to be a home breaker.The emotions of Serah are so evident that she is not truly happy.
The fact that Sara was first does not make her the one. Lazima mtu apatane na wakwanza maybe the second agekwa wakwanza.
yes pia yeye aliharibu ndoa ya MIlly. She had a baby with abraham. We used to call this guy Ibu
@@evelynekiruo8694 nonsense
@@alexmuinde3031 plz tell us more.
@@alexmuinde3031 milly yupi? thought he said haeziachilia watoto wake?
If I was serah I would have married another business man too with more money 😂😂 since we are 'looking beyond love'.
Now you are talking 😂😂😂
Ooooh yes ndio tukue equal kwani iko nini 😂😂
😁😁😁😁
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I have watched this story over and over my heart goes out to Sera
Abraham loves Sarah for her neatness and Maureen for her office efficiency. He just loves himself so much!!!
Self love at its best❤
True
Ain't nothing wrong with that
He is a narcissist
Exactly what i think @@AdventureKidsSA
Cerah so beautiful and calm.. I hope she can one day love herself more and know her worth.That man isn't worth it.
That's according to you not her?
He is not worth of heartache at all
@@ochiengkepher7477honey she is a human, what woman would love to share one thing that’s meant to never share. Your husband is never for sharing 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Polygamy is coming back into our society in unequalled measure...the earlier women agree, the better
@@kjoo3360 very True.
Sorry for what Serah went through, she was betrayed and she had no option but to stay, May you find peace Serah, coz it's clear you not even Happy.
Imgn akhi kanaumia halafu huyu wa kukuja anakaa kuzeeka
She has a good heart but she is not genuinely happy
She is hurting...this man is not the best to be with....He is even sidelining the live for cerah....He loves the other woman more.....
@@polinemiriti4384 yes she look older but anakaa kuwa na stress pia
You are all outside looking in……..
Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when the laughter ends, the grief remains.
So true!
When she is alone i know she unwinds the tape and thinks.
Very true
What is this now....its soo hurt breaking to hear this guy talking like this....its calm before an explosion 💥....gosh
Over my dead body I'm not sharing my man 😭😢💙💛👊
Wow the conditions he gave after Cerah confronted him;..Wow like WOW. He clearly stated his boundaries and Cerah had no boundaries so she had to accept else their relationship ends. It's so good to always know your worth,values and what you deserve. I HAVE ALOT OF WORK TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER.Hugs to Cerah
Love fades if it's fake it will fade just a matter of time
I just wanna say that this man would not be sitting there smiling and acting like he is okay if the situation was the other way around. Women, lets value ourselves.
A man can only love one woman . And make her happy . I am from a polygamous family ,growing up wasn't easy ,my mother was the first woman in . Another was brought . I saw riches tumble down...we struggled just because another was brought in... By the help of God ,Jesus ...I will not subject subject my woman to this . And plus depending on where this happens ,in some places you will have to deal with witchcraft ,each woman will be trying a way to please the one man..i have seen ,no fairy tale # no to polygamy .
Very very true.. 💯
It’s easy to try and make everything about yourself but this situation here is far much different from what you had in your family.
Just try to heal bro the deal is done
We are siblings in this
At least a man has commented and is against polgamy
SARA is really heart broken 💔.. She's just faking the smile and laughter but deep inside she's crying 😭..oh God give Sarah a peaceful mind
That's what I thought too..
Poor woman is laughing but deep inside she's really hurting!! She was betrayed 💔
During hug time...thinking sharing her Love with a stranger to her husband..
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Agree
Cerah your facial expressions show that you are still healing deep inside I pray that you May find happiness❤
I believe there are some infos she is just hearing about now, and she is trying to process and you can tell her heart is broken 😢
This is just a case of two Narcissists preying on an Empath. I hope Serah finds herself and gets the strength to leave.Women should learn to chose themselves.
Iam glad someone noticed narcissism here the manipulation, intimation, reverse psychology, and tourture inflicted on sera. Maybe she doesn't know now but later her answers will be in their statements they gave. Iam disgusted
Oh God of heaven, no man can love two souls uongo Wacha too ,serah my God help u n open your eyes
Well said.Two selfish individuals who think so higy of themselves.
Mary only chosen ones are able to see this. Sarah has already been taken through the full cycle of love bomb, devalue and discard. I hope she will educate herself fast enough and break the pattern. Triangulation is what is happening now.
You are lying to your fellow women, women should stay with their men even if he brought in another 3rd wife. Women are most happy under a Man. Westernization should not apply to men of means who are ready to take a number of women under their wings.
The way sin is being exalted nowadays,it's shocking!!
Don't you exalt sin yourself.. talking as if you are innocent
@@phillipsidhojapap1461 do you know me?? Do I know you? Call a spade a spade and not a big spoon. Ata Bible inasema you should accept rebuke.
If you see me sinning rebuke me.
Sad
@@Diaries_with_Monna I don't have to know you to know you sin.. unless you are ignorant of your sins and like pointing out those of others. We call such people hypocrites
Very true
Lynn Ngugi, you're the Queen of interviews. The way you were careful to ask sensitive questions and kept all three involved...excellent!
Lynn does it so well..
God will remain God
Kwanza hapo kwa outing n u av a yf??? until Mr . said u r pushing too much
This is only but justifying adultery!!! Nonsense!!
Moreen has been married for 1.5 years which is a very short time to judge whether this marriage will servive
So when Abraham was cutting sukuma wiki, why was he not thinking of loving two people? Would Maureen love him then?? The point is, Abraham betrayed Sera
He is an engineer kuna siku alikata sukuma
I was Abt to ask that would Maureen love him then
Yes he used to katakata skuma. Listen to metha ya kagoni interview
Wueeeeh! This is the most painful story i have watched this year. To be honest, there's nothing Interesting about Abraham as a guy, pride and selfishness is written all over him. my heart goes out to Serah, mummy may God step in fully for you in this......Maureen, karma never loses an address, it's even more worrying that you also have a daughter. Retrace your steps and re- write a good story before it's too late.
My thoughts too.this Maureen Lady will surely see karma at some point.
I don't trust this guy he's a womanizer, at the end of the tunnel there's fire, I feel it for Sarah,Maureen you will pay,
Yeah. Maureen intentionally got involved with a married man akatulia tu because cerah is kind
@@patricianabende7674 yeh Sarah is kind but deep down this marriage is toxic to her,but Maureen is a passing wind when she finished her deal she will leave, she's not there to stay,
So so sad sad for sarah,she deserved more,,being cheated by botb wonder how the man and morrie would have felt if sarah did the same .
SARAH!!!!!!! I just want to hug her. The pain in her eyes. The look of betrayal. The questions in her mind!
Imagine 🙄she's in pain, I'm sure she didn't want to leave because of her children
I agree
She said she's cerrah
IT'S YOU WITH PAIN. AS FOR HER SHE IS LIVING HER LIFE. IF IT CAN'T WORK FOR YOU STOP PAINTING A WRONG IMAGE
if Sarah have pain hangepata mtoi mwingine. she is a women with big heart .yeye ako sawa
I wonder how some people have normalized the abnormal. I will constantly pray for my son so that he is not this confused.
We are together
I feel like crying....I was dating someone's hubby but nimeacha waaah this hits so deep,, serah pole kamum ,,,you deserve much better 😔😔
😅😅😅what if ni wako ako na kamtu😂😂😂wear that shoes but iris what iris
@@sharyanachannel inaumaaa wueh! Now I know better
I love your honesty. Glad you saw the light and realized it’s wrong.
Sarah run for you're life..mungu hakufungue macho.
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The second position in marriage is never for a virtuous woman. A woman of self respect wont dare to entre another woman's life. No matter how hard you try sugar coat it, in one way or another your kids will feel lost. You'll model a bad character to your daughters and bring confusion to your sons. The moment Maureen realized Abraham was married she should drawn the line there and then, by diluting her feelings towards him and blocking him from her life. She shouldn't have waited to the extent of having a baby with him knowing he's a family man. Despite the fact that Abraham compelled Maureen to be with him, it was her place to show him and make it clear to him that you don't always get what you want. I believe a virtuous woman will always want to live a life they can defend before God, which is not Maureen's case. I feel like Maureen and Abraham took advantage of Serah's calmness and selflessness. I mean Serah is a full package and that's what any man would kill to have.
True he even mentioned it earlier, that sarah is calm
Highly well said 💯
I think if become too calm a man will think you are okay with polygamy, it good to be tough and harsh so that he knows that it's not allowed ata akimoa atampeleka mbali
All I can say the guy took advantage of Sarah's weekness/calmness.
True
So true 🙂
True
Cerah has said she has never had luck other than him, woi I don't want to judge her bt that tells alot......
True, he is selfish, very selfish. I hope Cerah's eyes open and she moves out of this situation. Huyu mwanamme hampendi. She seems very ambitious and I know she can do well without them.
My heart is beating just watching this ......May God never let me go through this 🙏
Someone can have a heart attack watching this. Most disgusting is how casual Abraham is.
I am here rewinding and rewinding because....THE SHOCK!!!!!
Amen
Amen to me and you
you can have as many.. bt DON'T DARE keep them under tha same rooF🚶♂️🚶♀️🚶♀️
And one day Serah when you finally gather the courage to leave this sad unimaginable situation, call us for a party. It shall be well Serah.
I will come to this party,,,I agree
I'd love to attend. Party out of a narcissistic relationship is worth it.
I pray for Sarah. May she love herself enough to do so
Drinks on me that day
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Not sure if it's just me who's noticed a couple of red flags. Every time Cerah thinks back to that time, you can see the pain but she brushes it off by saying, it's the grace of God. And she's maintained this statement in so many interviews. It's a way for her to block and shield herself and say God is with me. She still is hurting. Two, Abraham using reverse psychology on Cerah because she saw the photo on the phone. And even the verbal aggression that follows when he says 'We have rules in this house concerning the phone. Three, Maureen. She says she always asked how Cerah was doing. They sound as though they were doing her a favour or it'd be less hurtful if they care for Cerah. Four, Abraham and Maureen have a very deep connection. Even the way they talk about each other. There's a certain glow. But when addressing Cerah, it feels like she gets no love or less love.
Lastly, when he says Cerah cried after he told the truth, there's no remorse or hurt in his face. Like when you hurt someone you love, you feel remorse. You show remorse. But there's none.
They all need to go for therapy. Cerah must have gone through so much in order to accept this situation. I hope Cerah gets better.
You are very right. I noticed also he can’t let Cerah to answer the questions Lynn was asking her . He is a typical manipulator with zero remorse
You said it from my thoughts
you are right
All my precise thoughts. I can say with my full chest that if Cera decided to leave, Abraham would not care that much but he cannot let Maureen go. Because that is who he is in love with now. Cera ako hapo juu ni yeye anaogopa kwenda, the two of them can easily do without her.
@@wanjirumurimi2916 that is what all men do, revisit Jimal and Frank Kiarie-gym it. They now know better where/how it always ends.
This is one of those stories that I cant just waste my time watching it to the end.In this century, what lessons are we learning from this? What positive impact does it have? Young girls and women in general need to know their self worth and to never settle for less. This is just wierd and unjustifiable! Marriage institution is divine and ought to be respected period! Lets not sugarcoat betrayal and infidelity/ adultery. In addition, the foundation of each marriage really matters.
My observation though.
He will still bring more women. Nothing is enough for him
@@senaitafeworki8423 yeees yesss it won't stop🤣🤣
@@CateRN-d5g that's how start
That's me dea never can ever settle for this ata kama niko na ten kids my happiness is important
I doubt if this dude truly loved or loves his first wife Cerah from the word go. At no given point has he shown any remorse for heartlessly hurting her. How he comfortably sits there, beside her to be specific, smiling, narrating and justifying his betrayal and infidelity in details to the whole world as if they are virtues to be emulated is baffling and annoying.
For Cerah, it is crystal clear that this is not what she signed up for but just found herself in it. To her, the situation is what it is and she has to put up with. Pole sana mami.Its never too late to pick up yourself.
Hi Lynn, I’m a Zimbabwean who followed you from the time you were with Tuko.
I’m touched or say burdened with this story. Serah was told that “what I am about to tell you will either break us or we continue. And I feel she had no choice since she wanted her kids to grow with their father. God said two are one and not three.
I’m sorry to say this but I pray the other wife should get her own man. She will get someone with the same situation. I’m not God so I conclude by praying for God’s will 🙏
This is totally wrong though the man is pretending like everything is ok he is going to bring another 1 again bcz a leapord will never change its sports truely speaking l hate snatchers find your own man and happiness out there
Well said
In history,traditional community leaders,normally lived in families of more than one wife.I know the families were able to prosper and be peaceful and get to enjoy love and happiness.
Term your eyes my brother, stop looking for any beautiful woman you see, how many are you going to get by the time you grow old, for there's a saying that says beautiful ones are no yet born, and for the other woman you will always remain the other woman as the saying goes.
I feel for Sarah..you are selfish man ..Maureen you should find another young man with no responsibility..you are beautiful woman ..Sarah had no choice..poor woman..I hope he doesn't get another one again
The first wife doesn't look happy at all. She just didn't have a choice to make and the second wife is a home wrecker.
And women, can we stay woke? Do not demean yourself this much. There's someone out there for everyone
I am sorry but this is nonsense on all levels
Thank you,the only person making sense here.
Kabisa no nonsense
Very true
Amen, highly well said 💯
Am looking for a befitting word for video today... I will be back
I think the first wife is loyal,if it was second wife I don't think she could have allowed the other woman to come in,my view though 🤔
My view too...
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True very true 2nd n 3re wife always very jealousy sana
Very 👍
@@emmaandvallarie3090 Bora mwanamke apate hybrid sperms.... every woman is Happy to have good children whom turns out to be very responsible human being in society... So those good men don't be afraid to give women that seed
Abraham loves Maureen truly. The one he truly connects with. Cerah was just a good cleaner. Quiet and easy to walk over. I hope she finds herself and moves out of this toxic relationship.
Well put
i concur
I also hope this love btwn Maureen and Abraham is what we will see even after 20yrs and not faking
Am in this ....well put
Wooishe ipity this beautiful soul
Imagine, he is not even ashamed to publicly say he posted a picture of a daughter on his whatsapp status and quickly took it down because he did not want the side chick to know he has a family...bull
He is cow
Imagine
Have been in such a situation thank God it ended and it doesn't feel right...As the first wife,i didn't have an option but to accept what my hubby had decided(having another woman) i didn't want t lose what i have created for years with him for a new comer...it's never 💯,never easy at all kwanza mkiwa pamoja watatu,deep down it hurts...but i thank God i prayed sana na mrembo akajitoa,i prayed for her own husband...Serah i feel you kabisaa,inauma but hauna otherwise...
Good luck
Eeh you did the right thing...imagine this setup is not God's will for any of His daughters. Maureen will leave sooner or later. Serah has to just pray always.
Thanks Sylvia for sharing your story. Glad it has a happy ending. Baraka tele
It seems that this man is taking advantage of Maureen because she is hand working he don’t have love for her
Prayer works
Mungu ampe maureen mme wake,the same way Serah alipewa Abraham...it's never real,i can confess
@@cwambutura3307 , he loves Maureen but his love for Sara died!
Without judging Abraham was ready to loose Cera for Maureen, bt Cera was not ready to give up on her family. Congrats Cera u have a big heart that can accommodate any sheet
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True Abraham loves Maureen but Sarah alikataa kweda asiloose Mali na husband poor her
True Abraham loves Maureen but Sarah alikataa kweda asiloose Mali na husband poor her
Ladies did you hear? You can be supportive, submissive and respectful yet a man that wants to go outside his marriage will still go. Woman, invest in yourself.
aky..jst look how cera is humble, committed & collected..
bt still fisi ni fisi tuuu
It's only that Abraham met a woman who was ready to put her legs apart for him n that woman is Maureen
Pewa three 20litres salad ya golden fry kwa bill ya baba watoto
Kabisa..sooo discouraging
Very true
Polygamy should never be an option. I'm really proud of my mum for walking out knowing she had nothing outside there. It really causes trauma especially to the first wife n the kids.
How is your mum doing currently, and you?
@felixekojot6741 very well by God's grace 🙏 unfortunately my dad passed away, but the other wife who destroyed their marriage died a long time ago. We still give God the glory though, for he was our dad.
@ChristBearerFlameHeart whatever you say...I'm glad I'm entitled to my opinion...n u r too!
I feel like Abraham didn't tell Maureen he had a family because he didn't want to loose her but was quick to tell Sara the truth because he didn't care if she got angry and left
I agree with your observation. I think he secretly wished Ceera would go. But she surprised him by staying, and he became polygamous. He didn’t even have two houses, because he had planned for Ceera to leave and Maureen moves in.
I am thinking loud here..two questions
1. If Maureen was the first wife, would she welcome serah?
2. Would Abraham looked for a sevond wife is Maureen was the first wife?
This is betrayal big time.
@@jennifermcwhortet7934 exactly. I feel Abraham has been self-centered
I think I saw somewhere the guy started having the affair with Maureen after fighting with Sera, so ni ukweli what you are saying so sad
@@jennifermcwhortet7934 what if he takes a third one? Would maureen accept.?
He is breaking God's commandments.
If maureen said NO to abraham, and insisted on NO every now and then. Serah would still have her husband . This is so painful to watch. I was in such a situation and i chose to leave and i loved the guy and he was toxic. Excuses here amd there. I said NO to the ex and here i am. I thank God. I am never going to be in such a situation ever again my
entire life. My children are not going to be in such situations. And my next generation. In Jesus Mighty Name. Amen. Pole Serah
If Maureen said no am sure the mam would still get another to say yes so Maureen ain't the problem.
@@veroncahmuchangi4832 she is part of it. I chose to walk away. If i acted on my interests i would have been in such a situation. I did love. But i chose to walk away. God loves me so so much.I thank GOD because GOD loves me so much. God loves me so much. I thank the Almighty GOD. I would rather be single and wait for the right one. I am not going to squeeze myself somewhere. I thank GOD. Ameniepusha na mengi sana. NASHUKURU MUNGU SANA. If every other woman would say no. We wouldnt have such . Let Gods will be done in this situation. Amen.
I come from a polygamous family and sincerely speaking, l don't support polygamy. Before getting into such like relationships, think of the consequences on the children. Can't condone, won't condone.
I was forced into a polygamist relationship unknowingly and the emotional impact has destroyed my soul and my children
This isn’t for everyone. My Dad tried this, He did it after 20 years of marriage to my mum, naively believing it would be this nice. I was abroad, he wrote a letter to me, painted me a fake pink picture. Later on: chaos! Our “ Maureen” had to pack and go... drama never stopped until my mum divorced 20 years of tears and pain later. Not for me . Not for me . Not for me.
Even my father tried most of the time with poly it doesn't end well😢he also failed
Maureen should pack and leave. Unbelievable, Sin is being painted as good 😢
Love was created for two souls and only two hearts. It can't be shared. It can never be equal. Period.
Very true
Is it only me noticing the resemblance between the two ladies?Also wondering why they both use his first name Abraham as their surname but not Mwangi...
Anyway,the friendship or polyamorous relationship is just complicating life......all rosy now but we shall revisit.😥😥😥🤔
Who told you that,walami?
True.
@@thenewbykrew they don't resemble,Maureen is browner,but beauty lies in eyes of beholder,Sarah hs a good heart may GOD see her through not easy.
I hate it when adults drag their children into their foolishness.My mother pretended to be accepting and understanding like Sera but we were traumatised as kids,down the road there was alot of clashing in the house,our friends made fun of us,our understanding of marriage was affected,we were literally dragged into a situation that we didn't sign up for.Down the road mom goes into a depression, we were kicked out and she died regretting why she had allowed her daughters into this Compromising situation.Alot of this talk is about the adults but what of the psychological effects the children have to go through??
It doesn't matter how these people want to spin it,they are not wiser than God who intended Marriage to be a sacred convenant between two people and 3 is a crowd.It may seem to work for sometime but anything born out of lies and pain will end the same way.A seed will always reproduce after its own kind and you may try to convince the world it is working but from experience it ends with alot of pain and resentment.
I hope these women can do right by the children and show their daughters you don't need to be defined by this foolishness!!!
Sorry for what you & your mother endured!! So true. It really affects children. A second wife not matter how understanding “poisons the well”…it’s a huge NO!
Umesema vizuri .
God is the author of marriage between one man and one woman, others are bringing things that God never ordained and cannot bless.
You've said it all. Whatever Serah and Maureen here are pretending to be comfortable with, will come to bite them one day.
Foolishness indeed.
Very well said!
I come from polygamy family, My dad betrayed my mom and married our house-help, the drama in my family was unstoppable, toxic, hate, no peace etc.
My mom passed away last year with so much bitterness, sometimes my dad and his 2nd wife would gang on my mom.. It’s horrible experience when growing up.
Men stick with one wife.
My mum also comes from a polygamous family and I never liked my grandpa,I personally hate chaos and he would cause chaos in my grandmothers house while we were there on visits since we loved our grandma so much,I have no good memories about that man,I'd see him and run,and worst of all he beat my grandma and she has suffered for more than 30 years with spinal chord issues,my mum and her step brothers and sisters always fighting,wait until the day he died father Lord of heaven,his home was a war zone..and I happen to share the same thoughts with a friend whose father was polygamous he hates his late dad to date.
That was sad
Hugs dear iam from a polygamous family and married but the day the man will decide to marry is the day I will Walk away
I like the way u are talking out of experience,hugs honey
Am cutting onions,nikikumbuka Yale tumepitia kama watoto wa polygamy
My heart is going out to Sera! The pain in her eyes cuts deep and she covers it with the smile. Oh Sera how i pray that one day you will have the courage to choose you and never be afraid to start over.
Cera is soooo heartbroken. The face tells it all
Maureen is just a live in side chic
Miracles are real,I pray it is not a public facade masking hidden suffering🙏🙏
Amazing This is rare what Abraham has done few men can....May God Bless you and your beautiful wives 🥰
These one you just leave it to God,but cera didn't expect these in her life,but anyway it's a scar in ceras life ,but it's well,God knows the story
@@phaniceowiti5640 God cannot bless something He didn't ordain.
You need to repent of this blasphemy.
Following their story, Serah doesn't look like she had a choice but to agree with her husbands way of taking a woman who's from his class & line of work... We shouldn't Glorify immorality
pls preach..sarah had no otherwise but this is soo wrong!the guy atajaa mitandao akue famous for the wrong thing😪😪😪
It's true she had no choice
Sarah you're not happy just from the looks.... Never......
My mothers in-law smile and etc but the animosity? Wueh! And it’s for 50 years plus
My father in-law says how blessed he is for a happy family 😂😂😂yeah right
I think that's her nature
In this interview, the man has mentioned the name Maureen soo many times. It is clear where his heart is.
I need therapy to overcome this😰
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Oh yes I noticed that too .
If one day Sarah decides to walk out. We need to support her. I feel like she has no option and she also has kids to raise.
I feel the same....God help her
Iam not liking her calmness it might be eating her up or a bomb in making
This is the main reason why women don't leave 😥😢😢it's so 😢 sad. Serah has a pure heart. Huyu naona akileta bibi mwingine, he sounds so like a controller 😭😥
This comment should be pinned📌🤧
Yes I walked out of my marriage with three kids after my husband was clear he wanted to bring another wife and God is faithful 8 yrs later iam happily married with the 3kids and my ex still moving from one lady to another. But I always blame the parents especially of the guy they should teach him well
Cerah is so beautiful, so gentle, so perfect. She deserves a mature, loyal and faithful man who will cherish her and treat her like the queen she is. A man who will not make her feel like she wasn't enough for him. Wonderful men are out here.
Ceera you are wasting time with that man .He doesn't love u he keeps u coz of kids .why did he marry if he loved u.Ceera is more beautiful than husband snatcher.Ceera leave them n look for a good man to treat u well
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Plus She's Still hurting.Her body language says so
This man also took advantage of ceras kindness. I hope she opens her eyes and sees the manipulation and the narcissistic nature of this Abraham
💯 true!!!
My heart goes to Cera, the facial expression and the the deep breaths she's taking indicates she is yet to recover.
True she is still hurting
He's heart and love is with the one he cheated with.
true
Absolutely 🥺
At least someone is seeing what am seeing . she is totally uncomfortable . secondly the man showed he wanted something different from the first wife ( the physics of the second wife )
Sara is still young and cute
And the way sera is so beautiful! Bottom line sera was heartbroken but poor her. My prayers are that I watch them again in the next 20 years and still see what I am seeing.
I womder if he was not well offshe could have withstand this disrespect.wife number three loading
Cnt judge all the best
Prophets of doom
sure
This sorry as is will not last 20 years, as soon as “Abraham’s Empire (Land, houses, businesses etc.)” is establish both foolish women will be traded for a considerably younger woman. Abraham is very calculated and hand picked these women to further his aspirations of wealth and power.
After following up with the whole story, there's nothing to be proud of in this whole story. No matter how Serah will try to convince us that she's ok, she is not and I repeat it "She's Not" This Serah gal is still hurting
Maureen O'Hara s so hurtless inhuman , with her big mouth. Am sure is she about to break another marriage
It is written allover her face.she is sad
Victorine Okello Exactly dear!
Very sad.
True
Nikamwingiza kwa chama, I programmed chama yake ikue Saturday, so that before we go out, akue amelipa chama. We started investing and here we are 😭😭😭cera oh beautiful cera 😭😭😭. Cera build this man and when money started coming in, he started seeing the beauty in other women 😢. May God bless cera with a faithful man who will treat her like a queen she is
Imagine. Maureen u r the death in this marriage. Enda huko home wrecker
well said
Serah doesn't think like you
May this kind of love never locate me, you can't be okay living with your co-wife, this is so wrong.
Serah sorry for everything that you're going through and dealing with all that but one day you will overcome it
Unless you met them at the same time
I will not stay in this marriage
Maurine, If I were you I could just park and go believing God to bless me with my own husband more than Justifying myself everyday that am not a home destroyer.
I think she lacks confidence too. She must be an Empath, she and Cera. Their husband's probably a narcissist person, he will love himself only, others are still coming, if not he will be playing them with others. They're enabling him in his immaturity
We have a child here, where do you go leaving your child with someone. Better I stay and raise my child, than fight endless battle with the father. I prefer my peace.
Home wrecker for that manner
Question is who does Abraham love
@@ktutorials2139 I can't see any problem when people are compatible and are reasoning for their happiness
I watched this interview in shock.
So number 1. This guy was still having coffee dates with Maureen when the wife was pregnant.
2. When the baby was born he even deleted the photo of the baby because shit Maureen had seen the photo and he didn't want to lose her.
3. So coffee dates with Serah, which was how their relationship started turned out to coffee dates with Maureen almost immediately after she moved in.
4. Serah talked about how Abraham never used to come home because of ooh it was raining too much and all and she even had to move closer to Nairobi for him to come home. This man took advantage of how much she loved him. She only said that , that period was very difficult and didn't want to delve deeper so as not to make her friends uncomfortable.
5. Serah said aki mapenzi wewe three times - and it is evident from that statement this is not what she wanted and signed up for but to still have the man she loves has to endure.
6. Serah said she often has to tell Abraham that amemtupa sana. Maureen said nothing,, meaning this two people who work together are often soo caught up in themselves and sometimes Abraham even forgets about her.
For me this is just a deep story about betrayal. Both Abraham and Maureen have deeply hurt and betrayed Serah . I hope one day she loves herself to realize that she deserves better
Well put
Women should learn to see red flags 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪Sio Kwa ubaya but ukijifanya doormat no one to baby you. She should have seen the red flags and acted those first moments. You teach people how to treat you💯
very true this slogan of polygamist is demonic we are not going to embrace it at all i can feel for celar the red flags are quite alarming wish she could see what we are seeing she's living with two hypocrite person God intervene
@@DorisWanjohiGifttv true you teach people how to treat you
@@DorisWanjohiGifttv but when you don't know better you don't do better
Lynn you're a champion at what you do. In this episode, you outdid yourself. Your questions gave me goosebumps; but how you phrased them and your demeanor just made everyone comfortable. You're heaven sent. Keep on keeping on.
Well said. great comment. Thank you
Wah.... Things women go through
She has such a beautiful vibe as an interviewer
This one Lynn , mmmmmmhhh!!!!
Even if the bible say don't judge, but the same bible says a man will leave his parents to be with his wife not wives.
Serah is calm but really hearting.
Why should we pretend??No one can dream of this life no matter what.We only force ourselves once a situation exist.
The narcissism, the betrayal, the manipulation! My heart weep for Cera. Oh God may you open her eyes. May you financially bless her immensely and give her the grace to leave.
I had the same thoughts …like weeh
True the guy is a narcissist,self absorbed.
To leave???? This is her empire for Pete's sake!!!
@@bethtoox9435 and full of himself
@@rose_wangari No empire here,GOD is the empire,we humans r nothing,here it's toxic marriage,time will tell.
Great interview Lynn!
The man is a narcissist. He cheated on his wife. He loves Maureen, he left his wife for her. He won't be satisfied with those women, soon or later he will be on the road looking again.
Sarah is unhappy of course, very low self-esteem. I really feel for her. She always looked down, her laughs were full of hurts and sorrow. She is extremely confused. YOU CAN DO BETTER SARAH!. He doesn't love you. You are beautiful and intelligent !
Maureen is in denial! her answers to the questions were pointless, always beat around the bush! Her famous lines "I am not the kind of person". " I am not a home wrecker" I didn't come to destroy Sarah" You repeated the questions to yourself . You were unsure of your own answers. You took another woman's man! He left his family for you!
KIDS ARE INNOCENT THOUGH. I JUST HOPE THEY WILL GROW UP AS GRATE YOUNG WOMEN AND MEN, WHO WILL CHERISH THEIR VALUES , SELF-RELIANT and break this cycle!
Well said
Facts. There is no happiness here
Correct, Serah has zero esteem
Sarah,blink twice if you’re being held hostage😔
I wish Sarah all the healing she deserves because clearly,she’s hurt…
For Abraham,see a therapist,you have deep sitted issues that will not be adressed by having several women.
For the second wife,May the universe give you back what you’ve dished out!!
Mimi Anslet very true
😄😄😄ATI blink twice
I can't stop laughing
You deserve an award
I said that in my head and then i saw your comment 🤣🤣🤣
The truth in this 👏👏👏
You can tell Sarah is very hurt but ..she's just there for the sake of her kids..haki pesa wewe..let's support her business
Cerah wants a life with peace. She is not too emotional. She is like a ricehalm. She bows when the storm rages and when it is over she straightens her back as a fierce woman.
She's a fierce woman indeed
If being a fierce woman means what Serah is stomaching,then may the grace of a fierce woman not locate me in Jesus name🙏😃
The pain that Serah is masking through this whole interview is just alot. God grant you grace.
There is no trust in marriages.you try your best but still men looks for other women.
Sarah is the stranger in this family they are living she is surviving
@@peshmuchiri9814 woie...
The same way I rebuke Satan in Jesus name ndio I do to homebreaker/2nd wife
@@violetaseyo5005 it is painful so painful
Very true 👍
I think the reaction would have been different if Maureen was the first wife. She wouldn't accepted it. Let's not glorify infidelity in the name of love. Cerah is hurting from inside
Ya true.she needs counseling.
OMG! I am perplexed ...Sarah is among of those good and too nice women that people tend to use and abuse at the same. May your innocence gets you out of this
The man is dangerously a smooth talker. Surprising that a young educated man can be going through this crisis at this stage if his life😭
He will marry 4, 3 and 5 like Solomon
These home wreckers, never apologetic for hurting family
Im so sorry but this man never took Cera to any restaurants im so sad about all this but God is the author 🙏🏽 🙌🏾
He got married hurriedly and ONLY fell in love after marriage
Abraham is so full of himself..my heart goes out to Serah.wait n see how God will come through for you.hugs baby girl.you are destined for greatness
He's also controlling.. Notice how he cuts serah short to answer on her behalf? Also it's evident they've reduced her to nothing.. Notice her self-esteem is 0
There's nothing to be happy about here💔, Sending hugs to you Serah.
You are right
but inakaa come back ya wao wawili inakuja tu.
very true
@@gracemunyiva8327 yes kabisaaa lazma something will happen
Abraham loves Maureen. it's unfortunate that heart matters are complex. He met his soulmate in Maureen. Listen to how he describes how he met the 2 women. Look at his gaze at maureen, how he talks about her. Serah you have overstayed your stay...Life isnt fair, people we love stop loving us but life has to go on. .pls love yourself more and leave, your soulmate could be waiting on the other side of this nonsensical situation.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭i feel for her aki 😭😭😭serah respect yourself much more
Exactly. I cant allow such .
Has she told you wacha panganga at least he loves them and well kept they are dazzling
Yah soul mates
True,His gaze at Maureen???!!!
Wanawake wawili ni nyungu mbili za urogi, it's better to protect them having different homes! When the man dies today the home can never be the same again!
husband's gaze is on Maureen, he can't look at Serah's straight in the eye for more than a second.
It's soo true. Look at Sarah. She is not happy. Not ok
Absolutely true 😌
Noted too soon sad ,and that zijathropust knows no yeye anapendwa
@@margiejesterskitchen6964 uko huku swee 😂, Maureen ni death kaa hii marriage
Kumbe you have noted me too.eeh
Infidelity sugarcoated. The audacity in this man, aaaargh. And this Maureen girl 💔 I just pray Serah finds herself and a way out of this ...ship. Abraham you really betrayed Serah and you should be ashamed of yourself.
This guy wasn't scared of losing serah, otherwise he wouldn't have done this
True
He will loose her...
Polygamy is better than many mpango wa kando
Simple and clear🎉❤😂
Serah is unhappy......
Maureen is guilty......
Abraham is enjoying all this situationship!!!!!
Mens don't care much.... Abraham is enjoying himself
Very true
💯
Hes a Maniac and a Narcissist. He has nothing to be proud of.
Perfectly said🤣
Anyone can detect the sharp pain in serah's eyes as she tries to explain how she started noticing changes in her husband..
True
If betrayal can be weighed
i myself can feel the pain inside her, ata kama anajaribu kuficha
Very true
Most definitely no matter how much you can even think you have accepted the other woman it hurts deep and that can be seen on her (Sera) when she talks about how her husband was not giving her attention 💔💔💔
Every time I watch this story I feel a certain deep pain. Betrayal is beyond words😭😭😭. I also noted Abraham and Maureen are both wearing white shoes. 🤔🤔. Serah wake up. By the fact that serah was expectant she already was too vulnerable. This man Abraham though. Very few women can handle this like serah did.
True.no woman deserve this
Me too,I feel like shaking cerah out of this trance,my heart is breaking for her
Not only shoes, but wearing bold colors too
I noticed as well but I thought it was just me
Inauma serah anafaa tu slap moja aamke from that dream.
Watching this 2024 , are they still together? 🤔🤔
They separated with the first wife
@@FelistasNgangawhere can I watch the update?
Whaat?
Oh dia!!! So he settled for Maureen finally????
But why does Cera look younger and more beautiful, hugs to you Cera 🥰
At first I thought cerah ndiye home breaker coz she look very young...until I listened the whole story ndio nikajua yy ndiye first wf
It makes me think that if this how the arrangements always end, I'd rather be a second wife. There's no joy in being a first wife, work, persevere, tolerance and also enable a man to meet the love of their life (soon after life becomes merrier). There's no joy in silently dying in pain of betrayal. There's no need of dying while alive(when you stop living for you and live for the sake of children). We are living in a society full of hypocrisy. We are raising children full of bitterness. We are so selfish not to care if people around us are hurt by our actions. I pray that women work hard to avoid exchanging their self respect with basic needs. Oh,,,and woman, give birth because you want to. Not because you want to give a man a family. Because those children might one day be the reason you tolerate abuse
You said it all 👏👏👏👏👏
For real. And not live in the same house. Normally where i come from each wife should have her house
Volume please. This is bitter but true talk
I totally agree with you 💯
Perfectly said.
Somethings are just madness of the highest level 🤣. I can't do it. And btw the first wife is the most beautiful😍✨❤
Panacea for multiplicity of single parents
The husband talks about loving maureen so much. even the way cerah looks at abraham, there is so much pain and she feel being cheated on.
Exactly
“How is Cera , go home” … she is saying it like she was doing Cera a favour by telling abraham to go home … the fact that you are even having coffee dates with a married person is insane , it screams home wrecker . I really feel for Cera
Aki wallai..... kulala adi na mwanaume married na ako na watoi... that's adultery vibaya sana
Absolutely.... She enjoyed been another woman's cup of poison. Growing up I was taught that a no should be a NO.... Not a no with some %of yess yes somewhere
@@Prosperity23846 unanichekesha how unauliza Kama cera akona account na tupesa anasave. u can be a good friend
Maureen she just a bunch g mouth woman n very mannerless,
If they are happy who are we go judge
You cannot speak highly of another woman to your wife,,,my heart goes out to Cerah
Our grandfathers were polygamous. One thing they did was to build each wife a house. Lets not lose tradition as this setup is painful to one party. I hope the first wife loves herself more to walk away or demand better.
Sure co-wives is a "pot of poison" as the saying goes
My great grand father had six wife that's what I hear ,but come my grapa had one because of what they went through ,many turn to witchcraft to manipulate the man, even now it cannot work let's stop the liar ,if u disagree with blood sis ,what about a stranger,haki Dunia ni ngumu better to leave n give them space, for your peace.
@@lifewithtshidiedza381 why are you assuming they didn't want to be in the marriage?
Wow! At least will still have sobber men around
Hearing this from a man is so heart-warming, listening to this I was like, may God give Cera the courage to walk away, she deserves better, she needs peace, she needs to love herself again, it's not easy to decide to just walk away, but it's the best decision she can make for her and her children
Cera just don't want kelele or drama bt deep she isn't oky. Some things are left unsaid you die with them😢😢😢😢
The moment polygamy creep in a society its the downfall of that society
Who said so...don't thses men have side chicks already. It might not be for everyone but those who embrace polygamy should not be judged.
Bullshit some of our parents are a result of polygamy.... I live in dubai and guys over here have 3 to 4 wives and the so called society is thriving.
Preach
..exactly Beatrice...all think it is okay...it is not...Only the Holy Spirit of God can reveal to many...oh..
The society is already fallen anyway 😂
This is so sad and heartbreaking. I hope Cera is really happy. Some people may be in so much pain but they know how to cover up so well.
I was in tears for cerah half of the time. I think she is those women who are flawlessly polite
This man could have done better. Many women are drama queens if you find one polite one n supportive then be true to her only
No she's not happy 😢
Exactly the first wife isn't happy untill date,she feel so much pain inside
You intentionally took over someone husband and you are telling us you don't want to get into this,if Abraham wasn't doing well will you have accepted
I pray cerah is genuinely happy ❤
I love how Lynn asks tough questions and connects with them at the same time.
Thank you❤️
@@LynnNgugi you're an amazing host!! ...na si tunakupenda aki!!!
Her interviewing skills is on another level.., she penetrates to your "deep-to-confess fears" then resumes you back to your ease. Its an art. Love this Lynn girl.
I like watching her she knows how to interview people
Lynn your interview skills is in another level.....be blessed mam.