I’m glad nobody hurt that poor guy (physically at least) over her false accusations. He seems like a genuinely good person & it’s a shame she’d even think to do that to him.
Shawty need to be locked up tho. Coulda had that man put away but she get off free??? Nah. Make that Jezebel pay for her deception and tarnishing dude name.
Yes that is very sad I knew from when bird opened his mouth he wasn’t lying because after 15+ years with somebody kids why wait a nasty pervert isn’t gone wait that long 😢 poor man and baby her mom did that to him after their friendship was that long
The way Valencia was screaming, yelling and throwing a tantrum like that, this shows that she’s acting like a spoiled brat, not a mother. She knows that she’s been exposed
I didn't believe her because he wasn't beat black and blue.. There is no way I would have let him walk out the door if my daughter came to me with that..
I’m glad that the TRUTH came out regarding this situation; I saw this episode and believed Bird once he started talking about what actually happened, this woman is a complete LIAR.
So happy that bird put that very disturbed woman in her place she needs to get a mental evaluation thank you Steve for letting the truth be known and bird she's not your friend let her take care of kids herself and please stay away from her she's loony be safe bird. 😊
She not only used/coached her daughter, but made her out to be a liar by saying the daughter asked her to make that post to let people know etc.., and then said the daughter wanted to be there. This woman needs help.
She got exposed as a liar and decided to further humiliate her self. She not right when you do family like that. Worst kind of woman never to be trusted.
Not only further humiliate/make a fool of herself, but lie on her daughter. Talkin about she wanted to be there/wanted to come to the show etc.. There was one part Bird explained to her & she still pretended not to understand knowing she understood/heard him real clear.
This type of filthy woman is not even afraid of throwing her own daughter under the bus to save her ugly ass self! If she has a job, she probably doesn't for long after appearing on the show.
I think the funny part is she thinks it makes her look more honest. People who react like that want you to see their pain and feel sorry for them. Had a student who would fake cry to get attention and would then throw tantrums when you called him out on it.
People like her get others killed/severely wounded for making false allegations. I’ll never understand why people do this. Extremely happy he passed. Her on the other hand, she needs to be prosecuted for making this serious false allegation
I believed him 100%, you can easily tell he was telling the truth. You can also see the love he has for those kids, it will be really sad if they lose such an important person in their lives. I wish I could give him a big hug, how awful to be accused of something like this, he could have been jumped or something. Hope they all move forward peacefully. ❤
I feel you. I feel like crying for this dude because I lost my best friend and I love her daughter as if she is my biological niece. I would be devastated if my best friend did some shit like this to me.
I actually cried. I just finished watching this episode and I’m in utter disbelief at this woman. I knew right from the start that he was innocent but I didn’t think she would fail her test so that definitely caught me off guard.
The sadness on Birds face was horrific to watch. Like...why??? If you are friends for so long and you accuse them and lie on them, KNOWING their own struggles. Wow..
@@Joshua-re3xwIm sorry but I don’t believe thats an excuse 😭 just because you want someone out of your house, doesn’t mean you start going around and putting serious FALSE accusations on them just so they can leave
I agree because a genuine friend with a heart of gold is hard to find . She is going to miss him and I hope he give her his ass to kiss she is toxic and could have ruined his life or had his life taken over a lie . Sick bitch smh
This is my Friend Bird!!! He is a great friend!!! It’s so sad that she blamed him for her daughter lying!!!! He is not that person… I’m glad he was vindicated!!!! God bless u Bird!$😊
I believe he is a great person. I cried for your friend because that’s some nasty mess to accuse him of. Send him my best regards and all my love. Many blessing and tons of love to you both❤❤
Sounds like her daughter was coached and That lady just lied for whatever reason she failed. She blamed everything on her daughter even the FB post. I feel bad that happened to Bird but I also feel bad for her children 😞
HER DAUGHTER LIED BUT WAS COACHED BY HER MAMA HOW AND WHY TOO! SO TECHNICALLY...THE CHILD DIDNT LIE! THE MAMA DID AND INVOLVED HER KID WHICH IS 100X'S WORSE
I THINKKKKK BIRDDDDD KNOWS SOMETHING ABOUT HERRRRR ASS PROLLY CHEATING AND THIS WAS HERRRRR WAY OF TRYING TO DISCREDIT WHATEVER SHE THOUGHTTT HE WAS GONNA EXPOSE ABOUT HER ASS CHEATING! HE PROLLY THREATENED HER WITH TELLING AND SHE TRIED TO PAINT HIM AS A MOLESTER JUST IN CASEEEE
The worst part of all is that a lot of very narrow-minded and poorly educated people actually believe that ‘openly gay’ is the same as ‘paedophile, child-molester, abuser’ so not only was the poor guy at risk of a long jail sentence, but I’m sure a lot of hard-headed, thick-necked cockwombles would only be too happy to have given him a good hiding That was a dangerous, dangerous game she played and the consequences could have been very, very significant I only hope this makes a few people stop and think before they judge
I’m a Bi Trans guy living in Florida people really just to the worst conclusions and I really really do not understand how or why people equate being Queer with abuser... it doesn’t make any sense to me at all. Every single community of people has abusers in it. Some groups just have a bigger history with it than others (Queer community doesn’t even have that history of being an abuser, but of being the abused). It logically doesn’t make any sense and just hurts Queer survivors of abuse and Queer people going through abuse.
It doesn't matter what a pedo identifies as, it doesn't matter whether they are self labeled as gay or straight, the matter of facts is that pedophiles do not generally discriminate gender of their victims and are opportunists above all else... so it doesn't matter what you're saying about him being openly gay..... Because pedos are "pansexual" to their victims.
Honestly it reminds me of my grandmother, she used to to put into our heads that our stepdad was molesting us. And it really did confused us. And it got me so angry later in life cause why would you make me a 5 year old child confused like that. But it turned out my grandmother in her childhood was molested and in her sick way was trying to protect us. Now my stepdad loves us but he’s terrified of children he’s never touched us or hurt us in any way. He treated me as his daughter and made sure I had an amazing childhood. I’m glad I told my mom what my grandma was telling me because she could of ruin his life
Just as he said no mother would wake a man up and say you gotta go if you think he just hurt your child. A mother would beat tf outta you and call the police
That right there (after rewatching just now) said a lot. You wouldn’t let a rapist go scratch free if something really happened…… also the fact she said the police are moving too slow for her. No the police will act fast on these type of situations
This is just sad. Glad he was vindicated. I had a Bird as a kid growing up. His name was Tookie. In the 80s he was savagely taken from us. The kindest man I've ever known. At 6 I didn't understand how dangerous the world was for people like him.
@@lashaeriggs6382that top black lip is NUTSSSSSSSSSS! SHE is mad bc everybody in Louisiana is gonna know she is a damn liar! She is used to folks believing her just off the way she looks and her figure but NOOOOOOOO she got exposed to-damn-day
Bird is an absolute queen standing strong on their stance and experience during the situation versus their mom who kept changing her tone and how she was handling stress. They called her out on where she lacked as a mother and she got embarrassed and that’s why she wanted revenge. If her kids really were calling Bird their second mom she could’ve been jealous but could’ve approached Bird and they could’ve talked it out cordially. The whole situation is sad but I’m glad Bird is proud in their skin and still had a heart for this mother even when she did them wrong, that’s a REAL friend.
Bird needs to just let her go. She's waaaay too toxic for him and for all men. He should be going on his own vacations and exercising his own standards on enjoying life!
WTH I went to high school with her and he has always been a sweet soul… ❤never imagined he had been going thru this! He always has nothing but positivity to pour into folks. Awe girl whyyy?!?
The show is definitely not staged a girl from my hometown is serving 20 some years for her boyfriend killing her daughterband her allowing too. She came in the show to try to act like she wasn't involved Steve showed the world what everyone here already knew. She got locked up like a week after the show aired
Her husband better run. He might be next when she gets her panties twisted. I cannot stand people who lie and make false accusations like this. It should be criminal. Not only can you mess up the person's life, youre messing with your child.
Her temper tantrum proves even further that she was lying cuz if your BEST FRIEND passed a lie detector test about molesting your daughter you would be HAPPY not slamming the floor and screaming
I hate people who make up those type of lies because even with him proving he’s telling the truth that stigma is gonna follow him around from her posting that BS
That woman has a mean and evil spirit. She is jealous of his light. Jealous her kids probably like him more than their own mother. She is DANGEROUS! Bird needs to stay tf away from her!!
Of course you’re supposed to believe & listen to your child, put them above anyone else. But the more Valancia told her side of the story, the more I started to believe Bird and that he was innocent. Her whole demeanor just seemed off. And I found it suspicious that her husband didn’t want to appear. Her saying “retest him” before her results were even read… The way she behaved after her results. Again, no one wants to believe their family member/spouse is capable of something like this, whether they’re doing the abusing or coaching. But I wish they would’ve given the father a test too, because I’m questioning if he helped set this up. Either that or he’s weak and lets her walk all over him. He didn’t seem too surprised, like he knows what she’s capable of (he definitely knew in some way or another). And the fact that she tried to still use her daughter in the end. My heart breaks for ALL her kids, but especially this young girl.. having a “mother” like that. Anyone who intentionally uses and coaches their child, (especially their young daughter) about something so serious and heinous is just as evil.. knowing what it can not only do to the person in question/accused. But the child & their mental health.. SHE needs to be charged and arrested.
False accusations HAVE gotten innocent people like bird LOCKED UP and physically worse in jail So yes I would support LENGTHY PRISON SENTENCES toward those who CONDEMN innocent men n women to PRISON That's an abuse of power and violation of a person's civil rights
Seems to me she was jealous at how much her kids loved bird. This is a damn shame cause I’d give anything for someone good to be that invested in me, and my children. I don’t have a soul in the world. This woman didn’t realize how lucky she was! Poor Bird, this is truly despicable!
They say keep your friends close but your enemies closer, but Bird can't win for losing. At the end of the day, just because they smiling your face, that doesn't mean they're your friends.
EXACTLY!!!!!!! I think she wanted him out the house. From what I was listening to, he lived with them at some point. She needed a reason to kick him out. Im thinking that's what the motive is. Disgusting woman.
Good question. Maybe Bird was coming into some money or something and this was a preemptive attempt to set up a case against him? If Bird had to bring a freakin' microwave over to her house, like what does that tell you about her financial state....? Who doesn't own a microwave?!
Team Bird🙌🏿. I don’t cry, but my heart broke for this dude and I had to let a few drops fall. This man is a wonderful person and I knew that man was telling the truth the moment I saw him. Homegirl is dangerous and there needs to be charges brought against her. That’s foul AF to accuse an innocent man of being a kid toucher. She’s not right and karma will eat her like avocado toast.
This made me cry so many tears of joy because i felt it in my heart he wasnt lien u can tell bird is a great person..she had so many evil intentions even tried to put out he had nowhere to go and tried to publicly embarrass him on fb but god got her for being that way..she really just mad because her kids show bird more motherly love
Everyone knew she was lying on this man, even her. The problem is that the kind of lie she told could have ended his entire life and the fact that she didn’t seem to grasp the severity of it speaks volumes about her character.
Yeah, but don't be so naive. There's a lot of people in the alphabet community who are actually predators. Not all of course but there are predators in every community
@@TheRealSmokahontasso should we be accusing people from every community then? And there’s a significantly larger percentage of people NOT in the alphabet community… are a lot of those people predators?
@@antwonnyyWe should be accusing anyone who has actually done something so vile, regardless of the community they come from. That has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with it. She wasn't attacking the community. She was attacking Bird because she is jealous of her. Like she said, she is a better mother to those kids. Don't turn this into something it's not. It has nothing to do with the community and everything to do with a bad Mother, emotionally abusing her child and coaching her to accuse an innocent man and ruin his reputation, simply because she is a jealous and disgusting human being.
I’d be taking her and this to judge Mathis and sue for defamation and harassment. She would not be getting away with this…. Because once you’re accused of a crime like this ; sometimes ppl still look at you with the side eye. This could permanently ruin and damage his reputation. She needs to be held accountable. Matter of fact TAKE HER TO JAIL .
I can’t imagine being that daughter in this situation. I’m sure her mom traumatized her by doing this. Child molestation is such a serious allegation and it’s not something to lie about. She’s truly vile for that
Nothing brought happiness inside more than seeing Bird and the crowd cheer for her to get the HELL off his stage. Like YES I don’t feel bad AT ALLLL. She deserves nothing but the worst for blaming this poor man. The truth will ALWAYS COME TO LIGHT. AMEN. Bird If you’re reading this, I’m SO proud of you for staying strong and speaking your truth. I believed you from the GET GO. May you be blessed❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
His tone was more offended than he was defensive. That’s what had me believing he didn’t do it. Usually if you’re guilty, you’re trying to justify or find an excuse for every action; he was doing that but it always in a tone of him being angry at the accusation and not fear of the consequences if he was found out
Her screaming after she got caught lying vs how detached she was when she was telling Steve her lies when she was first on stage says everything. Now she needs to go to jail for not only lying but intentionally harming this man! Spreading these lies all over social media! Ruining his reputation & putting him in danger! He could have gone to jail & lost his freedom & could have been killed in jail! I'm so happy the show cleared his name & exposed her!
Could tell bird was telling the truth from the start , seems as truthful as they come and a really loving genuine person , hope everything comes good for bird and everything works out well
May the creator watch over sweet Bird & those kids! ❤ I hope Valencia gets the help she needs, cuz there is something very wrong inside of her that she'd do such a rotten thing.
He seems like such a nice guy. His partner looks like he is aswell. They are very cute together. Would love to be their friends. Good luck in life Bird, you deserve the happiest life.❤❤❤❤❤
What pissed me off is the fact that she went on fb and spreaded those lies like who does that you could have ruined this man’s life behind a lie rape is a serious allegation and the fact she went back stage and threw a tantrum says a lot about her GUILTY 🙄
they way bird said” i dont miss valencia i miss my kids “ i knew he was being honest
Right! He didn't even say "her kids", he said "my kids". He truly loves those children. She is so pathetic for doing this to him. SMH.
Maybe she was jealous of the relationship he has with her children
@@Oldwoman1977 Yep! Bird eluded to that when he told his side of the story. She is just the worst of the worst.
@@Oldwoman1977I said this too!!! The way her kids love him is why she was trying to drive a wedge between them.
@@Oldwoman1977yep I said the same thing she's jealous of the relationship he has with her children
You can tell Bird was telling the truth from the get go. People who falsely accuse others of molestation and rape need to be locked up. Period.
Agreed, 100%!
i agree! that has to result in an arrest
It should be made a law, lie and coach ya kids ot shld be an automatic 1 yr in jail, period
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❤ Facts! That's most likely why she didn't call the police because if you file a fake police report you can be arrested! It's illegal...
I’m glad nobody hurt that poor guy (physically at least) over her false accusations. He seems like a genuinely good person & it’s a shame she’d even think to do that to him.
I wouldn’t be surprised if it was her bf then bird.
Her husband but I think he’s the baby father which don’t mean he ain’t do anything
@@jamestheanimegod-gk9obexactly
@@jamestheanimegod-gk9obI think it was the husband she just put his name instead.
Real talk ❤
Even after what she accused him of , he still said " i wish her well "
Well done 👍🏻
The better person...💯 POOR GUY I FEEL FOR HIM
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Real man shii 💯💯💯💯
He better than me 🥹😡
She is just jealous of him
if she wanted him out she could have just said that instead of trying to ruin his life. she is corny
Corny?
That’s not corny that’s trying to ruin someone’s life.
That's what I was thinking. She really just wanted him out
@@brookerockar2950well corny means sucks or wack
And she's wack for that
@@justinterry7853uh no it doesn't
she knew damn well big freedia ain’t touch them kids 😒😂
PLEASEE 😭😭😭
Now you know you wrong bomfl😂😂
😂
😂😂😂
LMFAOO never did you ever 😭😭
Im glad Bird passed the test. The way he spoke showed he truly loved her kids
Shawty need to be locked up tho. Coulda had that man put away but she get off free??? Nah. Make that Jezebel pay for her deception and tarnishing dude name.
Is Bird from WESTWEGO?
Yes that is very sad I knew from when bird opened his mouth he wasn’t lying because after 15+ years with somebody kids why wait a nasty pervert isn’t gone wait that long 😢 poor man and baby her mom did that to him after their friendship was that long
The way Valencia was screaming, yelling and throwing a tantrum like that, this shows that she’s acting like a spoiled brat, not a mother. She knows that she’s been exposed
Yeah for real that lady knew she got exposed
Her husband should have left her there
She is holding on to that lie for dear life.
Spot on with your comment. EXPOSED.
For her being exposed this way. This can damage her reputation and ruin her career.
You're not just lying, you're literally destroying someone's life
That’s unforgivable! That’s not a friend! I’ll never speak to her again after this. Blessings to Bird!
Wait, you KNOW her? I'd spill to her parents if they're still around
I didn't believe her because he wasn't beat black and blue.. There is no way I would have let him walk out the door if my daughter came to me with that..
@@SwnsasyPREACH!!!
@@FrankWolenczakNo, she was saying that she wouldn't speak to her if she was Bird.
@@briasworld8 Got it! I have to remind myself not to watch clips when I'm dead ass tired as I miss context clues like that
And SHE has emotionally damaged her own daughter with this nonsense!!! 😡
That’s the worst part no one is talking about⚰️
I Absolutely Agree
Now he needs to take her to court
Yup for defamation of character.
@@twannahunt5322Facts!
Did he win the case ??
I agree
sue thet bih 🎉
I'm so happy for bird. That was disgusting and mentally disturbing to see her behave that way SMH
I’m glad that the TRUTH came out regarding this situation; I saw this episode and believed Bird once he started talking about what actually happened, this woman is a complete LIAR.
Yes, you can tell he was very sincere.
In this case the “bird” is the word.
@@DoubleM-hf6ih 😅🤣
So happy that bird put that very disturbed woman in her place she needs to get a mental evaluation thank you Steve for letting the truth be known and bird she's not your friend let her take care of kids herself and please stay away from her she's loony be safe bird. 😊
Her tantrum throwing and screaming just pissed me off and annoyed me so bad 😒😒
She never got her ass whooped before.
Stomping around in those Fashion Nova boots! I yelled at the tv, "Sitcho ass down before that wig falls off, you lying ass Heffa."
@@isoseg4371😂🤭
sameeee lmao
So true she is a disturbed woman saying that about your daughter is discusting.
“Something not right… & it HER” 😂😂 ate her ass up
She not only used/coached her daughter, but made her out to be a liar by saying the daughter asked her to make that post to let people know etc.., and then said the daughter wanted to be there. This woman needs help.
But why would she accuse her best friend of raping her daughter when she knows how good of a person Bird is?
@@savagetigerfbfan6673 jealousy.
@@k1896 jealous of what?😂💀
@@MD-xy1bx Jealous that her girls were close to Bird, possibly more than their own mother.
She needs the Hulk Hogan big boot, followed by a Macho Man elbow
She got exposed as a liar and decided to further humiliate her self. She not right when you do family like that. Worst kind of woman never to be trusted.
Not only further humiliate/make a fool of herself, but lie on her daughter. Talkin about she wanted to be there/wanted to come to the show etc.. There was one part Bird explained to her & she still pretended not to understand knowing she understood/heard him real clear.
Y’all are absolutely 💯% right
This type of filthy woman is not even afraid of throwing her own daughter under the bus to save her ugly ass self! If she has a job, she probably doesn't for long after appearing on the show.
She could of apologized to her friend instead of acting shocked about being exposed as the liar
I think the funny part is she thinks it makes her look more honest. People who react like that want you to see their pain and feel sorry for them. Had a student who would fake cry to get attention and would then throw tantrums when you called him out on it.
Liar Liar.....narcissist on fire. Poor Bird, he deserved a better friend.
The way she's acting afterward tells me even more that she's lying. 😂
My 7year old son acts the same way when he's caught doing something he shouldn't. She's just not right.
She crazy as hell.
I acted the same way this one time when I missed a period. LMAO!!!!!!!
I feel bad for the husband because he has to sleep with her. Ugh!
Isoseg oh noooo😭i hope you got that figured out babes
She literally said *"My daughter told me to do it"* she set herself up lmaooo
And she's mad she don't have anyone to watch her kids anymore😂😂
Karma, bitch.
But she was gone say something else then said the daughter told her too so I was like yeah okay
@@AlwaysClassyTV right! If your daughter told you to jump off the twin towers, would you do it I didn't think so ☠️☠️
She really messed up a good friendship. I like Byrd
Word😂😂😂😂
Was growing suspicious when she said her daughter told her to make the facebook post. Like that doesn't sound like something a child would say.
That was EXACTLY when I said hold up.
"My daughter wants me to tell the world....no I don't wanna talk to nobody " HUH!? Give me a break
Exactly!
She started with "I told my daughter--" and then flipped it to the child told HER to post it.
Couldn't even keep it straight between breaths.
Exactly
People like her get others killed/severely wounded for making false allegations. I’ll never understand why people do this. Extremely happy he passed. Her on the other hand, she needs to be prosecuted for making this serious false allegation
Yeperoni I agree 100 percent
True
He can sue her for deformation from posting them lies on fb. If I was him that’s exactly what I would do.
@@everywoman58 yeperoni he can
I would sue her for defamation of character
I believed him 100%, you can easily tell he was telling the truth. You can also see the love he has for those kids, it will be really sad if they lose such an important person in their lives. I wish I could give him a big hug, how awful to be accused of something like this, he could have been jumped or something. Hope they all move forward peacefully. ❤
I feel you. I feel like crying for this dude because I lost my best friend and I love her daughter as if she is my biological niece. I would be devastated if my best friend did some shit like this to me.
❤ me too
@@tyiingram9878 I’m sorry you lost your friend. ❤️
I believed him ❤️
I actually cried. I just finished watching this episode and I’m in utter disbelief at this woman. I knew right from the start that he was innocent but I didn’t think she would fail her test so that definitely caught me off guard.
Wow! You can tell bird Is a good person who has passion for people. I wish u well
Nah fr.
Why did he go in the daughter's room?
Not her backstage jumping up and down talking about “I can’t eat, I can’t sleep” 😂😂😂😂😂 Girl Bye!!!!
Hell yeah! To her. Go to bed Jane! 😂😂😂
Them lies tearing her up.. out here at war with herself 😂
HER FIGURE INDICATESSSS THATSSSSS A GOTDAMN LIE TOO
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She can’t eat or sleep but can get her ass up to go on national television to embarrass herself 😭😭
The sadness on Birds face was horrific to watch. Like...why??? If you are friends for so long and you accuse them and lie on them, KNOWING their own struggles. Wow..
Those are friends that will only keep you as long as they are benefitting from you 😢 ,once the tables turn they are out.
@@lyneadetyfitnessSad but true she was using him to help her, and as soon as she didn't need him anymore she pulled this disgusting stunt, just evil.
Maybe she wanted him out her house! Either way for whatever the reason was she’s truly disgusting for that
@@m.d.5050 but I bet she needs him now and I’m sure in the future. You can’t tell me that she doesn’t regret this.
@@Joshua-re3xwIm sorry but I don’t believe thats an excuse 😭 just because you want someone out of your house, doesn’t mean you start going around and putting serious FALSE accusations on them just so they can leave
That jumpppp “ BYEEEE BITCHHH”🙌🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣
had me WEAKKKKKKKKkk😅😂😂
😅I died on the flo chile
I knew immediately he was telling the truth
Same!
Immediately. You can tell Lil Big Freida good people. That girl foul for lying on that man.
As a gay man he would not give us a lie detector because it would forever ruin his life
He's gay. Of course he was telling the truth
@@ReadyorNot811I agree he’s telling the truth but a gay man can molest a girl. Being a pedo isn’t a sexuality.
My heart goes out to Byrd you can tell he really didn't do anything to her kid. With a friend like that who needs an enemy.
Wow this woman is sick. She should be locked up. Women like her make it hard for real women who's children have had experience this
I wish I had a friend like him.. that hurt my feelings for him so bad🥹😩🫶
I totally agree with you
Me too!! 🙏🏾🥹😭💔
Me too. ❤
Me too 😘
I agree because a genuine friend with a heart of gold is hard to find . She is going to miss him and I hope he give her his ass to kiss she is toxic and could have ruined his life or had his life taken over a lie . Sick bitch smh
This is so uncomfortable to watch. She should be ashamed of herself for humiliating that man
Let’s laugh at the fact that without the cameras everyone could hear her screaming and fronting row was just “😳” 🤣🤣🤣💀
This is my Friend Bird!!! He is a great friend!!! It’s so sad that she blamed him for her daughter lying!!!! He is not that person… I’m glad he was vindicated!!!! God bless u Bird!$😊
I believe he is a great person. I cried for your friend because that’s some nasty mess to accuse him of. Send him my best regards and all my love. Many blessing and tons of love to you both❤❤
Hope hes doing well and has been able to move past this! I've only watched the beginning but you can tell the love he has for them kids right away.
Sounds like her daughter was coached and That lady just lied for whatever reason she failed. She blamed everything on her daughter even the FB post. I feel bad that happened to Bird but I also feel bad for her children 😞
HER DAUGHTER LIED BUT WAS COACHED BY HER MAMA HOW AND WHY TOO! SO TECHNICALLY...THE CHILD DIDNT LIE! THE MAMA DID AND INVOLVED HER KID WHICH IS 100X'S WORSE
I THINKKKKK BIRDDDDD KNOWS SOMETHING ABOUT HERRRRR ASS PROLLY CHEATING AND THIS WAS HERRRRR WAY OF TRYING TO DISCREDIT WHATEVER SHE THOUGHTTT HE WAS GONNA EXPOSE ABOUT HER ASS CHEATING! HE PROLLY THREATENED HER WITH TELLING AND SHE TRIED TO PAINT HIM AS A MOLESTER JUST IN CASEEEE
The worst part of all is that a lot of very narrow-minded and poorly educated people actually believe that ‘openly gay’ is the same as ‘paedophile, child-molester, abuser’ so not only was the poor guy at risk of a long jail sentence, but I’m sure a lot of hard-headed, thick-necked cockwombles would only be too happy to have given him a good hiding
That was a dangerous, dangerous game she played and the consequences could have been very, very significant
I only hope this makes a few people stop and think before they judge
Right, and even though he cleared his name, those accusations will live in infamy on the internet. He should sue her!
Cockwomble!!!!! Haaaaa!!!! I've never heard that one I'm weak af!!!!!! 🤣
I’m a Bi Trans guy living in Florida people really just to the worst conclusions and I really really do not understand how or why people equate being Queer with abuser... it doesn’t make any sense to me at all. Every single community of people has abusers in it. Some groups just have a bigger history with it than others (Queer community doesn’t even have that history of being an abuser, but of being the abused). It logically doesn’t make any sense and just hurts Queer survivors of abuse and Queer people going through abuse.
It doesn't matter what a pedo identifies as, it doesn't matter whether they are self labeled as gay or straight, the matter of facts is that pedophiles do not generally discriminate gender of their victims and are opportunists above all else... so it doesn't matter what you're saying about him being openly gay..... Because pedos are "pansexual" to their victims.
@@errikacollins3816right 😂😂😂😂 I’m ctfuuuhh
She must be a psychopath. To ruin a friendship of over 15 years as well.
And for no reason like whaat
She’s never been a friend so it’s nothing to her
Honestly it reminds me of my grandmother, she used to to put into our heads that our stepdad was molesting us. And it really did confused us. And it got me so angry later in life cause why would you make me a 5 year old child confused like that. But it turned out my grandmother in her childhood was molested and in her sick way was trying to protect us. Now my stepdad loves us but he’s terrified of children he’s never touched us or hurt us in any way. He treated me as his daughter and made sure I had an amazing childhood.
I’m glad I told my mom what my grandma was telling me because she could of ruin his life
They do it in marriages all the time.. don’t be surprised
im confused why she so (distraught?) all that...wouldnt she want him to not touch her?
Shouldn't Valancia be happy that Bird was proven innocent? 🤔
Exactly!
My sentiments exactly I’m happy that Bird proved his innocence
For sure.
Maaaaan!!! THAT PART!!!!!
Agree
Just as he said no mother would wake a man up and say you gotta go if you think he just hurt your child. A mother would beat tf outta you and call the police
Exactly!
That right there (after rewatching just now) said a lot. You wouldn’t let a rapist go scratch free if something really happened…… also the fact she said the police are moving too slow for her. No the police will act fast on these type of situations
This shows you no matter how long you know a person they secretly hate you for no reason
This is just sad. Glad he was vindicated. I had a Bird as a kid growing up. His name was Tookie. In the 80s he was savagely taken from us. The kindest man I've ever known. At 6 I didn't understand how dangerous the world was for people like him.
Did you ever get in touch with him now that you're an adult
@@Inksplash52I think the implication is that he was hate crimed etc
I'm so sorry he was taken away. I also had a friend that was taken away from me in a savage way.
@@Inksplash52no, "savagely taken away" means he was murdered.
Omg 🥺💔💔 may he rest 🥺
I feel bad for the kids. They lose an adult who loves them and get stuck with her as a mother
I agree.. The kids are stuck with a POS disgusting excuse of a human being
That kid is going to grow up and have extreme trauma and will be mentally abused by their mother till they leave trust me
"Ain't no understanding when it comes down to my kids." Yet when it happened no hands were thrown.
That lady is nuts.Why would she act like that?
She's a mental case.
Cause she's f*ck*ng lying!...got caught and doesn't know how to act...
Very much so
She looks crazy
@@lashaeriggs6382that top black lip is NUTSSSSSSSSSS! SHE is mad bc everybody in Louisiana is gonna know she is a damn liar! She is used to folks believing her just off the way she looks and her figure but NOOOOOOOO she got exposed to-damn-day
U CAN TELL HE WAS BEING HONEST. MOTHERS THAT DO THIS SHOULD BE PLACED UNDER THE PRISON
Bird is an absolute queen standing strong on their stance and experience during the situation versus their mom who kept changing her tone and how she was handling stress. They called her out on where she lacked as a mother and she got embarrassed and that’s why she wanted revenge. If her kids really were calling Bird their second mom she could’ve been jealous but could’ve approached Bird and they could’ve talked it out cordially.
The whole situation is sad but I’m glad Bird is proud in their skin and still had a heart for this mother even when she did them wrong, that’s a REAL friend.
King
@@45Jayyyy You are both right but put it together and you will get Kween - that's what a two spirit man/woman is.
Bird needs to just let her go. She's waaaay too toxic for him and for all men. He should be going on his own vacations and exercising his own standards on enjoying life!
WTH I went to high school with her and he has always been a sweet soul… ❤never imagined he had been going thru this! He always has nothing but positivity to pour into folks. Awe girl whyyy?!?
Me thinks you're going to cut ties with her, but check up on Bird to see how he's doing. Something tells me when her parents find out...whooh...
The show is staged
@@LouisianaGoon337 it’s not staged I know someone who went on the show
The show is definitely not staged a girl from my hometown is serving 20 some years for her boyfriend killing her daughterband her allowing too. She came in the show to try to act like she wasn't involved Steve showed the world what everyone here already knew. She got locked up like a week after the show aired
This isn’t staged some guy who lives near me went and was accused of being gay 😂😂
She got embarrassed for lying on tv.
Her husband better run. He might be next when she gets her panties twisted. I cannot stand people who lie and make false accusations like this. It should be criminal. Not only can you mess up the person's life, youre messing with your child.
And run fast!!
She's grimy bad!!
Her temper tantrum proves even further that she was lying cuz if your BEST FRIEND passed a lie detector test about molesting your daughter you would be HAPPY not slamming the floor and screaming
Her bf was DL and I think he was close to doing something with Bird so she made this up 😂😂
@@trillionzillion6743😂
@@trillionzillion6743come on now 💀💀💀
@@trillionzillion6743😂😂
@@trillionzillion6743yeap
He’s definitely telling the truth.
I hate people who make up those type of lies because even with him proving he’s telling the truth that stigma is gonna follow him around from her posting that BS
Exactly :/
So toxic and bitter
And she on fb saying the results fake
She one of those
Her name should be bird 😂🤦🏾♀️🚮
@@KeJackson11reallly😂😂😂
@@mileysanimations1520 girl yes like it’s not fake
You just full of shit lol
I really like Bird and he seems like such a good friend.
Yeah totally I’m glad Bird passed the test
He do🙏🏾
13:35 the ONE audience member reacting to her tantrum 😂
Lady in the pink 🤣
That woman has a mean and evil spirit. She is jealous of his light. Jealous her kids probably like him more than their own mother. She is DANGEROUS! Bird needs to stay tf away from her!!
Facts!!!
She Really Is
I was thinking the same thing!!!!
Maybe she was jealous of how her kids loved him and it bothered her because she didn’t deny when he was saying he was a better mom to them than her
People commit suicide for being falsely accused, it’s horrible, I pray no one goes through this
I feel sorry for him. She's so evil, for accusing him for child molester when she knows that he is innocent.
If I was her husband I would’ve said STFU😂 When she said “Ain’t no way” the look on her face gave it away! Couldn’t even act at that point !
Falsely accusing people of molestation and rape is NOT and will never be ok. The people ruin others lives, and they are truly just evil...
I got second hand embarrassment from her falling out 😂 like girl you lied move on
Wow that’s evil
Swear lmao
NOT HER PINCHING HERSELF...IM DONE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol when?
@@janal1206@12:22
I missed it too
Time stamp 12:22
I love him, he’s too sweet to deserve this and I hope him and his partner can find peace and healing ❤
Messes up a 15 year relationship for nothing is insane
Of course you’re supposed to believe & listen to your child, put them above anyone else. But the more Valancia told her side of the story, the more I started to believe Bird and that he was innocent. Her whole demeanor just seemed off. And I found it suspicious that her husband didn’t want to appear. Her saying “retest him” before her results were even read… The way she behaved after her results. Again, no one wants to believe their family member/spouse is capable of something like this, whether they’re doing the abusing or coaching. But I wish they would’ve given the father a test too, because I’m questioning if he helped set this up. Either that or he’s weak and lets her walk all over him. He didn’t seem too surprised, like he knows what she’s capable of (he definitely knew in some way or another). And the fact that she tried to still use her daughter in the end. My heart breaks for ALL her kids, but especially this young girl.. having a “mother” like that. Anyone who intentionally uses and coaches their child, (especially their young daughter) about something so serious and heinous is just as evil.. knowing what it can not only do to the person in question/accused. But the child & their mental health.. SHE needs to be charged and arrested.
Absolutely.
I was going to comment, but after reading this one, hit it right on! Yep! I believe everything this person said! 💯
No he didn't set it. She is jealous 😂 because he is a better mom than her.
False accusations HAVE gotten innocent people like bird LOCKED UP and physically worse in jail
So yes I would support LENGTHY PRISON SENTENCES toward those who CONDEMN innocent men n women to PRISON
That's an abuse of power and violation of a person's civil rights
Facebook definitely wasn’t the place to post that.
Throwing a fit because she got caught in her lies 😂 so happy bird got his name cleared ❤
Seems to me she was jealous at how much her kids loved bird. This is a damn shame cause I’d give anything for someone good to be that invested in me, and my children. I don’t have a soul in the world. This woman didn’t realize how lucky she was! Poor Bird, this is truly despicable!
Steve said “I know you’re thanking God, but you can thank me also” Steve lol 😂😂😂
It’s so sad because these type of accusations can really get people locked up. I’m so happy he was able to clear his name. 🙌🏽
They say keep your friends close but your enemies closer, but Bird can't win for losing. At the end of the day, just because they smiling your face, that doesn't mean they're your friends.
I'm glad Bird passed his lie detector test, but what was Valancia's motive to accuse him of molestation?
EXACTLY!!!!!!!
I think she wanted him out the house. From what I was listening to, he lived with them at some point. She needed a reason to kick him out. Im thinking that's what the motive is. Disgusting woman.
Good question. Maybe Bird was coming into some money or something and this was a preemptive attempt to set up a case against him? If Bird had to bring a freakin' microwave over to her house, like what does that tell you about her financial state....? Who doesn't own a microwave?!
My guess is she knows her man is low key gay an she doesn’t want all them gay men around her man. Even knowing he DL she still wants him. My opinion
She is trying to get the blame off the actual molester!!
@@beautifullymade0796 They should've tested the father, he seemed a little odd
She has demons! The way she was hollering for attention she believed the lie!
Fuck she has demons- I think she is one 😭
Some People Do Believe They're Own Lies
I love him! He said he was having a big watch party to expose her lies! Yessssss!🎉🎉🎉 I'm so glad he was able to clear his name.
Team Bird🙌🏿. I don’t cry, but my heart broke for this dude and I had to let a few drops fall. This man is a wonderful person and I knew that man was telling the truth the moment I saw him. Homegirl is dangerous and there needs to be charges brought against her. That’s foul AF to accuse an innocent man of being a kid toucher. She’s not right and karma will eat her like avocado toast.
This made me cry so many tears of joy because i felt it in my heart he wasnt lien u can tell bird is a great person..she had so many evil intentions even tried to put out he had nowhere to go and tried to publicly embarrass him on fb but god got her for being that way..she really just mad because her kids show bird more motherly love
Everyone knew she was lying on this man, even her. The problem is that the kind of lie she told could have ended his entire life and the fact that she didn’t seem to grasp the severity of it speaks volumes about her character.
I knew he was innocent soon as he opened his mouth 😅😅😅🙌🏾
Me to😂
He’s the auntie! How dare she accuse him of something so vile!! I can’t stand when ppl attack the 🏳️🌈 community with false accusations
Yeah, but don't be so naive. There's a lot of people in the alphabet community who are actually predators. Not all of course but there are predators in every community
@@TheRealSmokahontas There's a lot of "straight" people in the church who are predators. Gay doesn't automatically make you a perv.🙄
@@TheRealSmokahontasso should we be accusing people from every community then? And there’s a significantly larger percentage of people NOT in the alphabet community… are a lot of those people predators?
@@antwonnyyWe should be accusing anyone who has actually done something so vile, regardless of the community they come from. That has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with it. She wasn't attacking the community. She was attacking Bird because she is jealous of her. Like she said, she is a better mother to those kids. Don't turn this into something it's not. It has nothing to do with the community and everything to do with a bad Mother, emotionally abusing her child and coaching her to accuse an innocent man and ruin his reputation, simply because she is a jealous and disgusting human being.
lol you said he’s the auntie a male can’t be a auntie he is the uncle
I’d be taking her and this to judge Mathis and sue for defamation and harassment. She would not be getting away with this…. Because once you’re accused of a crime like this ; sometimes ppl still look at you with the side eye. This could permanently ruin and damage his reputation. She needs to be held accountable. Matter of fact TAKE HER TO JAIL .
Yeperoni I agree 100 percent
💯💯💯💯💯
He would definitely get the Max as he should
@@parislove9723 she … but yes .
@@LiyyYasminee thanks
I can’t imagine being that daughter in this situation. I’m sure her mom traumatized her by doing this. Child molestation is such a serious allegation and it’s not something to lie about. She’s truly vile for that
“My daughter told me to do it” 🤦♀️ act like a grown adult and stop blasting people on social media without physical proof.
I’m so happy for bird to be able to get her truth out. That lady is horrible for making up lies like that when there’s so many REAL victims out there
Absolutely!!
Nothing brought happiness inside more than seeing Bird and the crowd cheer for her to get the HELL off his stage. Like YES I don’t feel bad AT ALLLL. She deserves nothing but the worst for blaming this poor man. The truth will ALWAYS COME TO LIGHT. AMEN. Bird If you’re reading this, I’m SO proud of you for staying strong and speaking your truth. I believed you from the GET GO. May you be blessed❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I wish I had Bird as a friend, having people in your circle that love your kids’ unconditionally is top tier!
His tone was more offended than he was defensive. That’s what had me believing he didn’t do it. Usually if you’re guilty, you’re trying to justify or find an excuse for every action; he was doing that but it always in a tone of him being angry at the accusation and not fear of the consequences if he was found out
I’m so happy Bird did not disappoint me 😩 I definitely believed him before the results
When he said just wish her well, just shows his character even after she lied he still wants the best for her
Her screaming after she got caught lying vs how detached she was when she was telling Steve her lies when she was first on stage says everything. Now she needs to go to jail for not only lying but intentionally harming this man! Spreading these lies all over social media! Ruining his reputation & putting him in danger! He could have gone to jail & lost his freedom & could have been killed in jail! I'm so happy the show cleared his name & exposed her!
That's a hard reputation to shake...you have to be sick ass hell to tell such a vicious lie on somebody. People get killed behind stuff like that
I would love to have a friend like bird. Loyal and trustworthy that’s hard to find today go head bird 😊
I wanna be Bird’s friend. He seems like fun!
Oh yeah totally
Could tell bird was telling the truth from the start , seems as truthful as they come and a really loving genuine person , hope everything comes good for bird and everything works out well
May the creator watch over sweet Bird & those kids! ❤ I hope Valencia gets the help she needs, cuz there is something very wrong inside of her that she'd do such a rotten thing.
You can tell he was telling the truth. I'm hurting for him.
You can tell because the video said he was. 🤣
He seems like such a nice guy. His partner looks like he is aswell. They are very cute together. Would love to be their friends. Good luck in life Bird, you deserve the happiest life.❤❤❤❤❤
Accusations like this can really destroy someone’s life 😡
What a vile, reprehensible thing to do! She's not a good person.
What pissed me off is the fact that she went on fb and spreaded those lies like who does that you could have ruined this man’s life behind a lie rape is a serious allegation and the fact she went back stage and threw a tantrum says a lot about her GUILTY 🙄
Bless you Bird...much ❤❤❤
13:32 The lady's reaction in the audience is definitely me when she started that tantrum lmaoo
lol I went back to see
😂😂😂😂😂