first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby with the baby carriage. This one nursery rhyme would solve a lot of us headaches, heartaches and pain.
She’s a grown women why can’t she get her own shoes please ladies don’t put yourself in a position like this when you can’t get your own shoes and have to walk around like this
See there he just said what alot of these guys think, at the end about because she "has his child she is now stuck with him" ladies please stop allowing these dudes to attempt imprisoning you this way, those kids will be glad you left, I PROMISE YOU SMH 😡💯
When I tell you I shouted at the screen the exact same thing: "He SAID IT! HE ADMITTED IT!" Dude bared his soul and intention with that one sentence. If Judge Lynn was still at the bench, she'd say "he installed her." And he did.
He said that "We'll See" multiple times, and I don't think they heard him the first time. And when asked what he was willing to do, he said he'd marry her, like he didn't hear what this woman clearly asked for. I am sincerely worried for her.
I don't think she got it either. So sad ... I think she is going to stay. He has no intention to support her dreams. LEAVE, GIRL‼️ 🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
1) Judge, your hair looks goood! ❤ 2) The man didn't attend his own wedding. What other sign does the plaintiff need to accept that he's NOT the one? 3) The dude is not cute (but thinks he is), he's too short, thinks taking care of kids is easy and he thinks she's stuck with him... why does she even want him? The more I watch, the more annoyed I get. That man is no catch.
That man is not going to change because like he said “she’s stuck” (she truly isn’t.) That’s why he doesn’t want to let her get a second to herself because he knows once she starts school she will be able to survive on her own. He’s financially and emotionally abusing her to keep her thinking she’s not worth anything and that he’s the best she can do. I pray she wakes up and realizes being single is better than being with a man who makes you feel worthless.
Unfortunately he's going to get her a shut up ring to keep her around. And it's funny how in all their pictures he's in front of her to make him look taller😂😂
I always believe in marriage before having children. With marriage less DNA test are expected, the children feel more secure and the family is more structured.
She is too beautiful to be with and inconsiderate idiot with old fashion views. Then to say she stuck is so disrespectful and he will think about it. The lack of empathy for what she does daily is just disgusting
He's Definitely selfish and controlling and I don't care if he passed his test and everything judge star asked him about being supportive of his wife He's not gonna do that when they get back home and she deserves better and looks like a he can be her son
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It's sad she had children with him because he will never allow her to live her best life!!! He is too insecure!! He wants to keep her home where no one can see her because he knows he does not measure up and she is beautiful!!
Let’s ask some real questions like “Do you really love and want to marry her” Are you just there with her because you are complacent with your life and she’s taking care of you and the children” That’s what we want to know.
Lady please start taking care of yourself and y'all kids... you don't need to be asking mo man for no new pair of shoes... you get a job... why you need time for what exactly... ma'am when you have a job you can go out with your kid... they should be in daycare... she needs to grow up... they both are getting on my nerves like seriously.
🤔 In all fairness...if she made fun of his height first but then he made fun of her Fupa then that is an even exchange... Don't attack someone insecurities even if it is true but not expect to receive retaliation for doing so...💯 🙂 Be fair, considerate & nice everyone 🖤
No one claps Judge Star when she’s on point. You love to hate on her when she makes an assessment that you don’t agree with, but everybody’s quiet when she eats.
She better wake up quick and make some rules Or else Watch he makes sure to really "lock her down" with 2 more children. She's gonna regret not setting solid boundaries very soon. She should leave him with the babies on the weekend so he can see how easy it is to care for HIS children.
Based on some of these comments I thought this guy was going to be a horrible person. They are honestly going through what most couples experience after having children. They need time for themselves and time for one another and I believe they can make it. He is a bit of a chauvinist and needs to understand that stay at home moms deal with a lot but he is not a bad guy.
Hes horrible trying to glue old shoes of hers instead of buying her new ones she needs, plus he gives her no break from the children. He's selfish ignorant and misogynistic.
I think she would love to get rid of him. She thought she could get him by catching him cheating but he hasn’t so she had to come up with other reasons to leave him. She does not want to stay married.
"It's not really hard to watch kids........that's all I needed to hear from this idiot to know he wasn't about nothing. I hope all the ladies in his town see this and never get near this dude if he's ever single.
You know the man is no good by you or by the child then don’t layup with a man and had one more kids with a no good man,then you going to want break and you choose the partner.
@cheyb2257 ummmm did you not hear her say she willing 2 wait 4him??? The judge pushing 4them 2 break up NOT the women all he needs is a lil adjusting ...he not hitting her he not cheating he simply thick headed like most men and needs 2 appreciate his women more which he says he willing 2do
This dude is living the good life like so many other men that have placed a young woman in the house and thinks the house runs on its own and "it takes nothing to take care of kids". It angers me that these young ladies don't make these men earn their love, they just spit out babies, give these men a comfortable home and wonder why it takes years to get married...WHY WOULD HE?
I have no sympathy for folks who ignore red flags. Missed your wedding day. Shows you how much of a priority you are. I can't blame the dude because she accepted the foolishness from the start.
He is selfish as hell he's very afraid that she become successful in life . Only a insecure man is scared to see his woman grow and elevate I pray they just co-parent
She needs to enroll those babies in Head Start. That will give her 6 hours a day to do something for herself. Go to school, get a part time job, some goals for herself. Then children get an education (they need one with these two foolish folks).
It sounds like it’s a paper shortage without saying so. They both need to speak up. He trying to avoid saying that he doesn’t have it. They just need to get creative and learn how to utilize the free activities until they can get it out the mud. In the meantime baby girl work on yourself and if things don’t change quickly get out
No he's unlikable because he doesn't want her to have anything more than him and those 2 kids. Walking out she asked if she could build her career up and hi response was "We'll see". Only a good for nothing leprechaun with bad intentions would say such a thing.
I don't feel sorry for women who stay with men that treat them like trash. Get you a darn job get day care for those kids and move the hell on. Women can get help from the government (HELP NOT LIVE ON IT) until you get on your feet. Get rid of this loser. If you keep him don't cry about it.
Another case of a modern woman marrying a traditional man forcing a square peg into a round hole, modern women should get with modern men, go 50/50 and chase their careers etc.. so they can be fulfilled, leave traditional men alone
He said: She’s stuck we got kids. Girl if you don’t run tf away!
I agree she needs to run away as fast as she can
Classic case of baby trapping by an abusive misogynistic man who wants her to think and believe she’s trapped🙄
AT FULL SPEED
Run. Run. Run
The only thing she needs to lose is that leprechaun she came to court with.
😂😂😂😂
Yeperoni I agree 100 percent
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That’s why I feel that women should ALWAYS have their own money!!!
I agree 100 percent
Agreed
No. This is why women should CONTROL THEIR FERTILITY!!!!!!!!!
Facts!!!!
first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby with the baby carriage. This one nursery rhyme would solve a lot of us headaches, heartaches and pain.
Yeperoni
Facts
Not true. Men and women change after children. It's an adjustment. It's about having a mindset that helps get through life together
Even worse. She would be on marriage papers with him and that empty head
Absolutely 💯
She’s a grown women why can’t she get her own shoes please ladies don’t put yourself in a position like this when you can’t get your own shoes and have to walk around like this
Agreed, I'll be Damn if I have to ask a man to get me some shoe's .
See there he just said what alot of these guys think, at the end about because she "has his child she is now stuck with him" ladies please stop allowing these dudes to attempt imprisoning you this way, those kids will be glad you left, I PROMISE YOU
SMH 😡💯
Remember girls ...with every baby.... you lose more freedom, and choice!
When I tell you I shouted at the screen the exact same thing: "He SAID IT! HE ADMITTED IT!" Dude bared his soul and intention with that one sentence. If Judge Lynn was still at the bench, she'd say "he installed her." And he did.
Please. Don't. Let. Noone. Tell. You. That. You. Cause. You. Two. Have. Kids. Together. You. Are. Stuck with. Them. Lol. That's. So. Funny. I. Almost. Forgot. To. Laugh. If. You. Stay. In. This. Environment. You. Are. Harming. The. Kids you. Say. You. Love. And. There. Is. A. Great. Risk. That the. Child. Or children. Will. Be. Took. Away. And. You. Won't. Ever see. Them. Again
He said that "We'll See" multiple times, and I don't think they heard him the first time. And when asked what he was willing to do, he said he'd marry her, like he didn't hear what this woman clearly asked for.
I am sincerely worried for her.
I don't think she got it either. So sad ... I think she is going to stay. He has no intention to support her dreams.
LEAVE, GIRL‼️ 🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
He is selfish, controlling, and inconsiderate.
You forgot immature.🚩🚩
Yeperoni 😊
Plus SHORT😂😂😂😂😂😂
1) Judge, your hair looks goood! ❤
2) The man didn't attend his own wedding. What other sign does the plaintiff need to accept that he's NOT the one?
3) The dude is not cute (but thinks he is), he's too short, thinks taking care of kids is easy and he thinks she's stuck with him... why does she even want him?
The more I watch, the more annoyed I get. That man is no catch.
As parents, we’re not “watching” our children- we’re RAISING them. And that’s why he thinks it’s not hard
That man is not going to change because like he said “she’s stuck” (she truly isn’t.) That’s why he doesn’t want to let her get a second to herself because he knows once she starts school she will be able to survive on her own. He’s financially and emotionally abusing her to keep her thinking she’s not worth anything and that he’s the best she can do. I pray she wakes up and realizes being single is better than being with a man who makes you feel worthless.
Exactly and very well written! 💯
So you can buy weed but not your woman shoes 🤷🏽♀️ If she stays after this it's all on her!!!
And I have a feeling she will stay, which is the sad part.
She can buy her own shoes... when she gets a job.... he is working not her.
Girl don’t walk out the door! RUN🚩
Preach to the choir
Why?
Could never get with no elf, he better be glad someone wanted him smh
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Even his name is elvish.
@@gailsmith836😂😂😂😂😂
First of all that name is KILLING ME! I wouldn’t EVER fight for that damn last name. It took me a minute to catch on to wtf she was saying. 😂😂
That last name stole the show😂
Some women will take anything.
Wow he said. " ,I'll think about it"
Unfortunately he's going to get her a shut up ring to keep her around. And it's funny how in all their pictures he's in front of her to make him look taller😂😂
He’s not going to get her a ring. He’s too cheap.
Why are you wasting time with this fool!!
I always believe in marriage before having children. With marriage less DNA test are expected, the children feel more secure and the family is more structured.
I hope and pray she will listen to Judge he said. WILLSEE????
Leave. He’s not serious. He wants a maid, not you. Put you and your kids first and leave him. He’s still just a boy.
She is too beautiful to be with and inconsiderate idiot with old fashion views. Then to say she stuck is so disrespectful and he will think about it. The lack of empathy for what she does daily is just disgusting
He's Definitely selfish and controlling and I don't care if he passed his test and everything judge star asked him about being supportive of his wife He's not gonna do that when they get back home and she deserves better and looks like a he can be her son
stood up on the wedding day? how much more does he have to say he doesnt want you! i dont believe was truthful and the lie detector is a scam!
I literally yell at my kids to sit down 24/7 constant cleaning constant everything feeding changing
This man won't answer the question. She needs to run 🏃♀️
She will when she runs into a grown women to show her how life is with a LOVING GROWN MEN.
Girl, leave husband ignorant behind.
She wasn’t asking for marriage… she was asking for her feelings to be respected. And he won’t even promise that because he doesn’t intend to do so.
Shame on dude!!
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I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Does she have a mother or father? This was a sad episode 😔
It's sad she had children with him because he will never allow her to live her best life!!! He is too insecure!! He wants to keep her home where no one can see her because he knows he does not measure up and she is beautiful!!
Let’s ask some real questions like “Do you really love and want to marry her” Are you just there with her because you are complacent with your life and she’s taking care of you and the children” That’s what we want to know.
😭he so short
He’s not cheating because NOBODY else wants him! Pray she moved on!
I hope one day she watches the video an see for herself how much she is worth
Wow he only works 8 hours a day and can’t give her a break? Wow
Lady please start taking care of yourself and y'all kids... you don't need to be asking mo man for no new pair of shoes... you get a job... why you need time for what exactly... ma'am when you have a job you can go out with your kid... they should be in daycare... she needs to grow up... they both are getting on my nerves like seriously.
This is a grown man. Why is he hanging on the block like he’s in high school? He’s short and look like a kid so I guess he acts like one.
Ooo my goodness please leave
So sad, girl run
It’s the I’m letting you do it part 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ pissed me off 👊🏽
She needs to leave him
You teach people how to treat you by what you accept from them, point blank period!!!!
He will think about it he has no say they are not married
He tried to trap you with kids...
🤔 In all fairness...if she made fun of his height first but then he made fun of her Fupa then that is an even exchange... Don't attack someone insecurities even if it is true but not expect to receive retaliation for doing so...💯
🙂 Be fair, considerate & nice everyone 🖤
She got the Fupa carrying his children.
N I feel her because I just be wanting to feel free no noise non just go out like I feel her
Quatlebaum wearing heels too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No one claps Judge Star when she’s on point. You love to hate on her when she makes an assessment that you don’t agree with, but everybody’s quiet when she eats.
She better wake up quick and make some rules Or else Watch he makes sure to really "lock her down" with 2 more children. She's gonna regret not setting solid boundaries very soon. She should leave him with the babies on the weekend so he can see how easy it is to care for HIS children.
"I will think about it"
Narrrr leave it will never be different
She’s got beautiful skin.
If I were her, while he’s thinking about it, I’ll proceed with the divorce!
Based on some of these comments I thought this guy was going to be a horrible person. They are honestly going through what most couples experience after having children. They need time for themselves and time for one another and I believe they can make it. He is a bit of a chauvinist and needs to understand that stay at home moms deal with a lot but he is not a bad guy.
Hes horrible trying to glue old shoes of hers instead of buying her new ones she needs, plus he gives her no break from the children. He's selfish ignorant and misogynistic.
I think she would love to get rid of him. She thought she could get him by catching him cheating but he hasn’t so she had to come up with other reasons to leave him. She does not want to stay married.
"It's not really hard to watch kids........that's all I needed to hear from this idiot to know he wasn't about nothing. I hope all the ladies in his town see this and never get near this dude if he's ever single.
He is about Him..She needs to wake up and smell the 🌹 🥀. 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️
“ill let you do it”….aint no short troll gonna run my life!’ Shes not going anywhere though
Girl run.
A short King acting very INCONSIDERATE!😢 especially not showing up at the Court house to get Married!🤦🏽♀️🙄
You know the man is no good by you or by the child then don’t layup with a man and had one more kids with a no good man,then you going to want break and you choose the partner.
I don't understand why she's been with the little loser so long or why she wants to marry him. She should get a job and move on
Haven’t watched the whole episode and I’m done with him: “Moms don’t get a break.” 🙄
She’s going no where! He’ll scare the h$ll out of her ability to stand alone. All the best girl!!
Wow. Soooo we breaking up black families now rather than offering counseling
Hes breaking up jos family being a terrible husband and father
@cheyb2257 ummmm did you not hear her say she willing 2 wait 4him??? The judge pushing 4them 2 break up NOT the women all he needs is a lil adjusting ...he not hitting her he not cheating he simply thick headed like most men and needs 2 appreciate his women more which he says he willing 2do
What’s with the Coming to America shirt?
This dude is living the good life like so many other men that have placed a young woman in the house and thinks the house runs on its own and "it takes nothing to take care of kids". It angers me that these young ladies don't make these men earn their love, they just spit out babies, give these men a comfortable home and wonder why it takes years to get married...WHY WOULD HE?
Wow 😮
It sucks he passed the polygraph because now she’s gonna stay around and continue to be walked on.
I have no sympathy for folks who ignore red flags. Missed your wedding day. Shows you how much of a priority you are. I can't blame the dude because she accepted the foolishness from the start.
I'm really tired of these stories with these people who put the cart before the horse and "now" they're unhappy 🤦🏿♂️
This is crazy. I went to college twice and worked since my youngest was in diapers this is some bs the judge is right giving the advice she gave
Get out of this place ,this judge is not fair at all.
He is selfish as hell he's very afraid that she become successful in life . Only a insecure man is scared to see his woman grow and elevate I pray they just co-parent
She has low self esteem. She not going anywhere because he pay all bills. He is an narcissist
She definitely deserved a better pair of shoes!!🥺
He was talking about her fupa, she should’ve told him he needs to grow.
She needs to enroll those babies in Head Start. That will give her 6 hours a day to do something for herself. Go to school, get a part time job, some goals for herself. Then children get an education (they need one with these two foolish folks).
If she don’t leave that slow man it’s on her
I thought he was a paraplegic sitting in a wheelchair before I realized he's standing but just short
12-8? Pm or am. She can get her shoes superglued because she’s just a stay at home mom… that’s why you shan’t solely depend on other people 😒
He too big to change. He careless😢
It sounds like it’s a paper shortage without saying so. They both need to speak up. He trying to avoid saying that he doesn’t have it. They just need to get creative and learn how to utilize the free activities until they can get it out the mud. In the meantime baby girl work on yourself and if things don’t change quickly get out
She’s not leaving
He passes the lie detector test. And all y’all females don’t like this man because he’s short.
No he's unlikable because he doesn't want her to have anything more than him and those 2 kids. Walking out she asked if she could build her career up and hi response was "We'll see". Only a good for nothing leprechaun with bad intentions would say such a thing.
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He. Is. Not. Cute. And. Taking care of. A. Household. And kids. Is. Definitely. A. Full. Time. Job.
I'll think about it If i want to make my women Happy 😂 thats what i understood 😅😂
Just cause he work he playing over her
I don't feel sorry for women who stay with men that treat them like trash. Get you a darn job get day care for those kids and move the hell on. Women can get help from the government (HELP NOT LIVE ON IT) until you get on your feet. Get rid of this loser. If you keep him don't cry about it.
He heard nothing he learned nothing
Trenton, NJ stand up!
He is not cheating why not give him chance to improve..Such man are scarce
She needs to break. He'll think about it? Fuh real. You will cry more girl.
Ion like him
Black is beautiful ❤
One min in and I had to turn this mess off smh
They are from Penn Grove NJ they are so close to my aunts house wow 😊im so shocked 😂
Another case of a modern woman marrying a traditional man forcing a square peg into a round hole, modern women should get with modern men, go 50/50 and chase their careers etc.. so they can be fulfilled, leave traditional men alone
They should especially if he’s cheap and inconsiderate like this one