Because the mother never really loved the daughter unconditionally. She was just a way to get things. She never cared about what would happen to the daughter. The mother in my opinion is as evil as the stepfather.
I went no contact with my dad but only after my mom passed. When my mom was alive I didn’t want to hurt her feelings. Once she left I tried for a couple of months to talk to him but it wasn’t long until he started being evil to me again. I went no contact and it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders.
It is sad, but it is also her fault, not yours. If she would just be a normal loving mother, you would be in touch with her. But since she is that way, I understand that it is less painful to not have contact with her than to talk to her.
I don't wonder. I do think many if not most of those lonely old people mistreated their children and so of course their children do not want to visit them. It surely is at the very least unpleasant to visit them.
What an incredibly strong woman you are, Diana. You exude wisdom, love and strength. You’re an incredible mother and you should be so proud of yourself and your accomplishments. God bless you.
Diana, you are a wise young lady, determined and resilient. May God continue to protect you and guide you through life. The journey is sometime difficult, but you are a fighter and not a doormat! Hold tight to God's hand and teach your children to do likewise.
She is so strong. She took those abused and turn it into powder. I’m glad she didn’t follow her mom’s footsteps and became an addict. I hope the best for you are your boys Diana❤️🩹
I can relate to this story in more ways than one . My mother let a boyfriend molest me for the use of his car. Yeah i know terrible to think about. I can 100 percent say some people shouldn't be parents. Not only that i can agree its ok to cut off toxic parents. I despise to hear the words " you only have one mother" yeah well where was that one mother when she was suppose to be there for me ? Toxic people are toxic people, parents or not. 😢
You should tell the toxic people who tell you "You only have one mother" that your mother sold you (to be molested) for the use of his car! It's too horrible to think about, I've no idea how you lived it, very brave lady/girl. God Bless you & bring you Peace ❤
What a horrific life to live 😢 I can feel your strength right now just by watching your video. Momma bear, that's what you are. A loving, caring person who refuses to pass on the toxic behaviour and abuse that you had to live through. I cannot believe that guy didn't get sentenced for an attempted murder 🤯 because that was exactly what it was.
God bless you. Stay strong! You are a shining star for someone just starting on their healing journey. I pray you continue to heal and grow even stronger, setting an amazing example for your children. You are so brave! 🙏🕊✝️🩷🥰
God bless you always and abundantly. You are so very strong and courageous and the fact that you are a good mother proves that you are being of the light. Forget all that darkness that tried to destroy you. Again, may God bless you always🙏
God bless you sister. I'm so glad you got away with your life. I was abused for 15 yrs. It takes a long time to heal,but I am getting stronger every day just like you. You din't deserve that life. I hate drugs and alcohol. Don't ever look back just keep on with yourvtherapy and the mental health advocasy. You are a shining example to someone going through this kind of hell that you can get better. The first thing is to separate yourself from the abusers and keep them far away from you. They will probably never change . This lifestyle leads to death or incarseration. Thanks so much for sharing.❤
My bio dad used to insult how I looked or needing feminine products as a teen. Eating disorders, bad self thoughts, self conscious etc. I’m 40 now and social media allows me to know I’m not alone and that I deserve therapy.
I feel so bad you did not feel love as a child but so happy that you are giving your own what you didn’t have God bless you, sweetheart❤ if I could, I would give you a great big hug because you deserve it❤
He sounds horrible. Ours was too. So we left at 16. The thing is you feel guilty for telling someone when you are young, it feels like you are embarrassing your mom doesn't it 😢
So sorry to hear you went through this brutality that no person should ever have to endure. Wishing you all the very best, you will see better days! You deserve it! God Bless. ✝️🙏🏻
Damn. You can’t really call people like that “step fathers” or mothers….. they’re not that at all. It sickness me that step “parents” are out there doing stuff like this putting a stain on the name or label of a step parent. He wasn’t a step dad he was a disgusting abuser who shouldn’t be allowed near children.. and your “mother” needed to be sterilised the moment she became an addict. You’re amazing for getting yourself out of there and choosing your children because that’s what a mother does.. you’re a good mother ❤️
Such a terrible & SAD STORY MAY YOU YOUNG LADY LET GOD HELP YOU HAVE A GOOD & REAL LIFE SO YOU CAN HEAL & your children only know GOOD & Kind ways Many prayers sweetheart you ARE STRONG & BRAVE LOVE & PRAYERS ❤️❤️❤️🌹🙏🙏🙏🌹🌺
Most of my adult life I have lived across the country from my parents and the past almost 3 yrs in a different country. It’s nice to feel free from it all.
My mom and I haven't spoken since 2001. My son has never met her only grandchild. I didn't want him going thru what I did. Or even the mind games she can play.
God bless you!! ❤ I am so proud of you! That evil demon did not win!!! You won! To God the glory for the strength! ❤ God bless you and your children. ❤
It amazes me how adult will chiose a horrible lover that abuses the ppl they love and still want to stay with them. How can u love someone who is that mean and evil to anyone, especially your own children!
So let me get this straight- a convicted felon nearly killed you and all that lame judge did was give him probation? WOW. But im so glad you shared your story. Hugs.
Wow. Your mom is just as evil imo. Keep her/them far away. People are sick. A mom is supposed to protect you, I shouldnt even call her a mom. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. ❤
Omg darling, i hope you read this: I KNOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ONE OF THE STRONGEST WOMAN WOOAH! I know you know you survived for a reason, and you have so much purpose in this life. Sending you hugs!! ❤❤❤❤
You know my mother was a crazy abusive woman but I thank God she never had someone who even raised their voice at us. my dad didn't put up with that he was known for kicking doors down for his daughter's. But to think a young woman or a little girl would get abused by a man like that makes me sick and angry.
I agree with the comment above where they say Pickme women are dangerous (may not be exact words) and they are not the only ones. We were verbally abused as kids by my stepdad and my youngest sibling now bears the brunt of that guilt that it was HER dad that treated us so bad. We found out after he died how abused he had been as a child. I hope you find a way to forgive her young lady even if you don’t speak to her ever again. In the end it only eats away at you. Blessed be ❤
Why didn’t the grandma take her. Such a strong young woman I do hope she gets therapy and support both her and her kids are better off without those people anywhere near them.
God,will turn any thing to good for those that love Him. Good things will come out of your abuse as long as you keep your eyes on Jesus. God bless you.
First of all why did she keep going back knowing this guy was abusive 🤦🏻♀️ why not report him and his mom and get professional help as a young teen ppl please learn there is lots of help out there!!! 🙏🏽🥰
And why would your mom allow all this to happen to her kids over a man? Pickme women are dangerous. A stepdad is not your real dad..
Exactly. Sickening!
Because the mother never really loved the daughter unconditionally. She was just a way to get things. She never cared about what would happen to the daughter. The mother in my opinion is as evil as the stepfather.
i haven't spoken to my mother for 12 yrs, the sad part is it doesn't hurt me, it less painful not putting up with her.
I went no contact with my dad but only after my mom passed. When my mom was alive I didn’t want to hurt her feelings. Once she left I tried for a couple of months to talk to him but it wasn’t long until he started being evil to me again. I went no contact and it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders.
Sometimes it is the only ways to stay healthy, unfortunately.
It is sad, but it is also her fault, not yours. If she would just be a normal loving mother, you would be in touch with her. But since she is that way, I understand that it is less painful to not have contact with her than to talk to her.
And people wonder why there are old people all alone with no visitors in old folks homes.
Exactly
Exactly! Everyone does not deserve that care at the end of life because of what they did before!
@@sgirl4657So true! You can't evade what you put out in this world.
I don't wonder. I do think many if not most of those lonely old people mistreated their children and so of course their children do not want to visit them. It surely is at the very least unpleasant to visit them.
What an incredibly strong woman you are, Diana. You exude wisdom, love and strength. You’re an incredible mother and you should be so proud of yourself and your accomplishments. God bless you.
Your mom's boyfriend sounds like he was a sociopath.
A very strong woman, God bless her.
You have broke the cycle of abuse. Good for you. Strong young woman.
Diana, you are a wise young lady, determined and resilient. May God continue to protect you and guide you through life. The journey is sometime difficult, but you are a fighter and not a doormat! Hold tight to God's hand and teach your children to do likewise.
She is so strong. She took those abused and turn it into powder.
I’m glad she didn’t follow her mom’s footsteps and became an addict.
I hope the best for you are your boys Diana❤️🩹
I can relate to this story in more ways than one . My mother let a boyfriend molest me for the use of his car. Yeah i know terrible to think about. I can 100 percent say some people shouldn't be parents. Not only that i can agree its ok to cut off toxic parents. I despise to hear the words " you only have one mother" yeah well where was that one mother when she was suppose to be there for me ? Toxic people are toxic people, parents or not. 😢
I'm so sorry that you were treated so badly
You should tell the toxic people who tell you "You only have one mother" that your mother sold you (to be molested) for the use of his car! It's too horrible to think about, I've no idea how you lived it, very brave lady/girl. God Bless you & bring you Peace ❤
What a horrific life to live 😢 I can feel your strength right now just by watching your video. Momma bear, that's what you are. A loving, caring person who refuses to pass on the toxic behaviour and abuse that you had to live through. I cannot believe that guy didn't get sentenced for an attempted murder 🤯 because that was exactly what it was.
Girl you are strong, but I'm so happy you are such a good mother.
Thanks!
I hate to hear stories like this it's really ridiculous how some women let men treat their children.
Well women always think that just men are the monsters even though women can also be the monsters too
These women don’t love their kids. Period
@@GromobranIt is obvious that they don't. They were just birth givers, but have cero motherly instincts, less than a shark.
Praying for peace and healing 🙏🏾
She's so strong!! Sending her a BIG hug!!!
God bless you. Stay strong! You are a shining star for someone just starting on their healing journey. I pray you continue to heal and grow even stronger, setting an amazing example for your children. You are so brave! 🙏🕊✝️🩷🥰
You’ve been through so much. God bless you and your precious children 🙏🏿❤️
You shouldn't have had to cope with any of this, much love & prayers, God Bless & bring you much Peace ❤
Thank you so much for walking away from those ppl. This is heartbreaking.
God bless you always and abundantly. You are so very strong and courageous and the fact that you are a good mother proves that you are being of the light. Forget all that darkness that tried to destroy you. Again, may God bless you always🙏
God bless you young lady! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen to your Testimony ❤❤❤ Stay strong and beautiful
God bless you sister. I'm so glad you got away with your life. I was abused for 15 yrs. It takes a long time to heal,but I am getting stronger every day just like you. You din't deserve that life. I hate drugs and alcohol. Don't ever look back just keep on with yourvtherapy and the mental health advocasy. You are a shining example to someone going through this kind of hell that you can get better. The first thing is to separate yourself from the abusers and keep them far away from you. They will probably never change . This lifestyle leads to death or incarseration. Thanks so much for sharing.❤
Preach!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 praying for you honey. I’m glad you got away from those toxic people it’s so sad 😢
God bless you. You're a survivor.
HUGE HUGS
Praise god! I am so proud of you for getting out!
Youre a very strong woman, God bless!
I hear you ❤ than you for sharing your story. Sending blessings for a peaceful life
Omg, so sorry you lived this life.
I'm glad you heart could let go of you mother. Your strength is what saved you. you are powerful example for others to be strong.
My bio dad used to insult how I looked or needing feminine products as a teen. Eating disorders, bad self thoughts, self conscious etc. I’m 40 now and social media allows me to know I’m not alone and that I deserve therapy.
I feel so bad you did not feel love as a child but so happy that you are giving your own what you didn’t have God bless you, sweetheart❤ if I could, I would give you a great big hug because you deserve it❤
He sounds horrible. Ours was too. So we left at 16. The thing is you feel guilty for telling someone when you are young, it feels like you are embarrassing your mom doesn't it 😢
I'm so so sorry hunny!! Much love, much love!! Your in my prayers! Fr fr ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are a rockstar! I am so sorry that you had to experience this 🙏🩷
So sorry to hear you went through this brutality that no person should ever have to endure. Wishing you all the very best, you will see better days! You deserve it! God Bless. ✝️🙏🏻
I hear you girl, I hear you❤❤❤
Damn. You can’t really call people like that “step fathers” or mothers….. they’re not that at all.
It sickness me that step “parents” are out there doing stuff like this putting a stain on the name or label of a step parent. He wasn’t a step dad he was a disgusting abuser who shouldn’t be allowed near children.. and your “mother” needed to be sterilised the moment she became an addict.
You’re amazing for getting yourself out of there and choosing your children because that’s what a mother does.. you’re a good mother ❤️
She’s great
Such a terrible & SAD STORY MAY YOU YOUNG LADY LET GOD HELP YOU HAVE A GOOD & REAL LIFE SO YOU CAN HEAL & your children only know GOOD & Kind ways Many prayers sweetheart you ARE STRONG & BRAVE
LOVE & PRAYERS ❤️❤️❤️🌹🙏🙏🙏🌹🌺
You’re a beautiful woman. You don’t look like what you been through
Most of my adult life I have lived across the country from my parents and the past almost 3 yrs in a different country. It’s nice to feel free from it all.
My mom and I haven't spoken since 2001. My son has never met her only grandchild. I didn't want him going thru what I did. Or even the mind games she can play.
You made the right choice
Don't you mean that your son has never met his only grandparent?
God bless you!! ❤ I am so proud of you! That evil demon did not win!!! You won! To God the glory for the strength! ❤ God bless you and your children. ❤
It amazes me how adult will chiose a horrible lover that abuses the ppl they love and still want to stay with them. How can u love someone who is that mean and evil to anyone, especially your own children!
You are right to stay away from toxic people, including parents. The courts don't look after women and children.
So let me get this straight- a convicted felon nearly killed you and all that lame judge did was give him probation? WOW. But im so glad you shared your story. Hugs.
Wow. Your mom is just as evil imo. Keep her/them far away. People are sick. A mom is supposed to protect you, I shouldnt even call her a mom. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. ❤
I love you!!
Omg darling, i hope you read this: I KNOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ONE OF THE STRONGEST WOMAN WOOAH!
I know you know you survived for a reason, and you have so much purpose in this life. Sending you hugs!! ❤❤❤❤
It’s some sick people in this world. Abusing a child. OMG
You know my mother was a crazy abusive woman but I thank God she never had someone who even raised their voice at us. my dad didn't put up with that he was known for kicking doors down for his daughter's. But to think a young woman or a little girl would get abused by a man like that makes me sick and angry.
Oh my god 😢😢
so sorry sweetie, i would def have helped you had i known..
Damn I thought only my parents did mess up stuff like this to me. Some ppl are the worse
This is terrible what adult treat a kid in such a bad way.😮😠
I agree with the comment above where they say Pickme women are dangerous (may not be exact words) and they are not the only ones. We were verbally abused as kids by my stepdad and my youngest sibling now bears the brunt of that guilt that it was HER dad that treated us so bad. We found out after he died how abused he had been as a child. I hope you find a way to forgive her young lady even if you don’t speak to her ever again. In the end it only eats away at you. Blessed be ❤
Why didn’t the grandma take her. Such a strong young woman I do hope she gets therapy and support both her and her kids are better off without those people anywhere near them.
Yes you have right about everything😔
From me the women in sweden 😌
JESUS BLESS YOU!!! JESUS KEEP YOU!!!! JESUS MAKE HIS FACE SHINE UPON YOU!!! 🙌🙏🤗🌻🌹🕊 SO PROUD OF YOU, MY SISTER!
Wow! I'm so glad that you found the Lord. I know you did not say that but I can tell that you did.
Why didn't he end up in jail for the assult? My stepdad didn't do much jail time either. Horrible judges.
Choosing the opposite sex over your kids. 🤦♀️ parents wake up
Exactly Jackie after my son caught my partner going to hit me he said mum either he's goes or I do...now it's just me and my son peace and quiet 🙏
@@pollyanna5354I hope you and your son are doing better
He treated you like he was being treated in prison.
If it weren’t for Christ I would be insane.
Same with me I often say that if it wasn't for Jesus I would have gone mad ✝️🙏❤️
Fuck, man 😢
❤.
23 years old is a long time to stay around mom and stepdad…
He should be in prison 😡😤
Stepfather treat u like crap. I have a story myself.
The police didn’t arrest him? Did you press charges?
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God,will turn any thing to good for those
that love Him. Good things will come out of your abuse as long as you keep your eyes on Jesus. God bless you.
That’s all tf he got! That’s BS!
Why aren’t they in jail.
Is your mom still with him?
WTF was wrong with your mother!?
You didn’t call the police!?
First of all why did she keep going back knowing this guy was abusive 🤦🏻♀️ why not report him and his mom and get professional help as a young teen ppl please learn there is lots of help out there!!! 🙏🏽🥰
East Cleveland? Ohio?
I wish I would have known you during this time. That racist jackass would have never touched you again.