I feel erased, as he won’t even communicate with me or others about why, what’s upsetting to him, the reason, much less try to fix it. It has isolated me from other family members too, and has caused stress & heartache for so many people in our family, it puts stress on them too.
I’m envious of narcissists in a way - they have no empathy for their children, yet they’re the ones who have the privilege of contact with their kids, I see it around me daily. But empaths & normals, who have empathy, are the ones who are abandoned & scapegoated for having empathy, for having good communication skills and the ability to see through people and easily detect how others are feeling, they care about others and are willing to admit their own faults and work hard to fix themselves to be the best they can be - yet they’re the ones who are abused the most.
Thank you!! I so needed this today. It's a bumpy road. I feel for my child but my child is an adult making their decisions to keep their life in the best order possible. Thank you.
8 years completely cut off and blocked and our oldest daughter is a mental health counselor. It has been coming on for some time now with our youngest daughter also who we barely have any contact with, twice a year if that. We have an amazing relationship with our second daughter. We just retired and with more time to dwell on this we are desperately seeking help.
My only child, a son. Had me served with a restraining order. The pain is relentless. I'm surprised every day that I'm still breathing. I honestly don't want to live like this anymore. 24 years. I've done EVERYTHING!!!! EVERY.SINGLE.THING!!!
It's taken me a long time with my oldest daughter but now I'm starting to accept that she doesn't want a relationship with me.....that's the bottom line. I can't go on beating up myself .
@@vickitrotter3404I'm so very sorry!!!!! Grieving a your own child who is alive is one of the hardest thing a Parent can experience. I wish I could find a support group of parents who are experiencing the same thing. Support would be nice. 10 year's now for me and I've aged 25 years spiritually and physically. Grief is horrible! Sending you a huge hug!
I was a very good mother before my son and daughter got married,and i was in job, but now after my retirement i am wrong always whenever i try speak anything,,i have started keeping quite..i am so confused,now deciding to live alone. I helped them make a decent career,,gave them all my money as a single parent.
The studies are useful but can miss, at times, the full more often nuanced complex. individualistic processes that developed and occurred. I have owned my issues, in full and in detail, seems -many others many cannot own anything (ego-defensive). Not helpful when one's ex-wife works deliberately sets out to undermine and ridicule - against the male parent
I feel erased, as he won’t even communicate with me or others about why, what’s upsetting to him, the reason, much less try to fix it. It has isolated me from other family members too, and has caused stress & heartache for so many people in our family, it puts stress on them too.
I’m envious of narcissists in a way - they have no empathy for their children, yet they’re the ones who have the privilege of contact with their kids, I see it around me daily. But empaths & normals, who have empathy, are the ones who are abandoned & scapegoated for having empathy, for having good communication skills and the ability to see through people and easily detect how others are feeling, they care about others and are willing to admit their own faults and work hard to fix themselves to be the best they can be - yet they’re the ones who are abused the most.
Thank you!! I so needed this today. It's a bumpy road. I feel for my child but my child is an adult making their decisions to keep their life in the best order possible. Thank you.
I have basically been grieving for 20 years. I have tried to keep the relationship going but there has been no reciprocation from my daughter.
Thank you. Very helpful information. This is so painful. I think about my daughter everyday (in the back of my mind).
8 years completely cut off and blocked and our oldest daughter is a mental health counselor. It has been coming on for some time now with our youngest daughter also who we barely have any contact with, twice a year if that. We have an amazing relationship with our second daughter. We just retired and with more time to dwell on this we are desperately seeking help.
It's been awful. For 9 years. I'm tired of grieving. I've done everything I can accept let go. My only Son.
I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s time to move forward. We don’t stop grieving but we do move on and find joy.
My only child, a son. Had me served with a restraining order. The pain is relentless. I'm surprised every day that I'm still breathing. I honestly don't want to live like this anymore. 24 years. I've done EVERYTHING!!!! EVERY.SINGLE.THING!!!
It's taken me a long time with my oldest daughter but now I'm starting to accept that she doesn't want a relationship with me.....that's the bottom line. I can't go on beating up myself .
I sooooo understand. 10 year's for me now. 😢
@@vickitrotter3404I'm so very sorry!!!!! Grieving a your own child who is alive is one of the hardest thing a Parent can experience. I wish I could find a support group of parents who are experiencing the same thing. Support would be nice. 10 year's now for me and I've aged 25 years spiritually and physically. Grief is horrible! Sending you a huge hug!
Thank you! Trying 🙏
You don't mention addiction. How does addiction affect the adult child...
Very true. This was a big reason my daughter cut me off.
○ Need someone to talk to? → morinholistictherapy.com/strategy/
I was a very good mother before my son and daughter got married,and i was in job, but now after my retirement i am wrong always whenever i try speak anything,,i have started keeping quite..i am so confused,now deciding to live alone. I helped them make a decent career,,gave them all my money as a single parent.
The studies are useful but can miss, at times, the full more often nuanced complex. individualistic processes that developed and occurred. I have owned my issues, in full and in detail, seems -many others many cannot own anything (ego-defensive). Not helpful when one's ex-wife works deliberately sets out to undermine and ridicule - against the male parent
👌👌💕💕
Great info.🪴