Hey guys I’m a 23 year old Christian guy and I met this girl that caught my eye for the first time back in Easter 2022 at v1 church in Long Island . Prayed to God asking him if it’s in his will that he would bring us together . Me and the girl haven’t spoke much from the times we’ve seen each other (Sunday normally at church ) and when we did it was very short and causal and I wasn’t sure if she had liked me much . So after a couple months of not knowing what to do I found myself praying about it more and on a car ride home my sister told me to just tell her how I feel and since I only see the girl on Sunday (even tho i don’t go to that church very often because it’s not my local church )I texted her how I felt and told her I’m attracted to her and I want to get to know her personally and in a faith sense and she’s down! If this is in Gods plan all glory to him if it isn’t all glory to him but I would love if you guys could possibly pray for me that I don’t screw this up 😂 seriously tho if we end up dating I’m making this girl my wife one day
I went into a relationship against God’s will. Marriage came and nothing got better. It was an unfortunate and an extremely hard life lesson for both of us. But God, through that disobedience has brought healing and clarity over things in my life! Even if we make the wrong decision God will bring good out of it if we are open to His correction.
That is the right thing to do. I am doing the same thing. I wish I would have done the same a few months ago, instead I rushed into a relationship and 6 days before what would've been 3 month's of dating he broke my heart and broke up with me. God's timing is perfect, our timing is flawed, people need to learn to wait on the Lords timing.
I love that you showed the pictures of the two oxens yoked together. Helps to see the verse more clearly. I want a marriage that brings honor and glory to my LORD. I want a partner to carry out the will of the LORD. But until then, I'm just going to rest in the LORD, falling more in love with Him.
Amen! In the time of solitude the Lord will heal and prepare our inner self so that we can be ready for Him to bring in our helpmate in His time. To God be the glory!
This video definitely brings great clarity to such a confusing topic of dating. We tend to overthink things and create unneeded stress. However, with something as serious as marriage, it’s wise to ask these questions early on to preserve yourself from possible heartache and pain and as well as the person you’re dating. Be intentional, wise, and pray. Be led by the Holy Spirit and not your emotions. Do your best and let God take care of the rest. He knows you better than you know yourself. Thanks again for sound content, Mark! God bless.
20 and never been on a date before. All my friends and "peers" have girlfriends except me. I feel like the odd man out because I'm the only person who wants a godly relationship. Since a young age I knew that I wanted to be with one person, and one person only in my life. It makes it harder to date too because I can't drive because of my epilepsy. I'm afraid this might turn people away. I hope I find the "one" soon in Jesus's name! 🙏🏻
Do not worry for he is the author and the finisher of the story. Who brought life unto all of the face of the earth? Who hath brought waters unto the rivers? Who hath brought life unto thee? Did a man gets its water of its own hands? How can a man drink a water when the water was created by God. It was God that gave that man water for he created the man and the water. For the water could never be found nor drink by any man nor beast nor the fowls of the earth without god putteth there. Do not worry God gives life unto thee and if its a marriage that man desires or burneth in him god shall grant it thee.
Amen! I have been single for almost 25 years already. There are times that I have lost hope of dating or even being friends with the opposite sex because of emotional trauma that I have experienced in the past. But now I met this girl who turns out to be one of the leaders of the church, we've talked about building out friendship first before we can move on to the next level. I've been praying for her ever since.
Yes Communication is KEY 🔑 I received Absolutely no Communication!!! Every action has a reaction!!! And No Response is a Response ‼️ SO I WALKED AWAY DUE TO LACK OF RESPECT ‼️ STAY BLESSED ALWAYS ‼️‼️ 😭😭😭💔💔💔
Wisdom here... I love that you talk about the Proverbs 31 woman Mr Mark bc I want to be a woman like her... a woman after Gods own heart ❤️ God bless this ministry..
Agree about the casual talk.. 😊 For me,I should be able to talk about anything under the sun with him.. & joking around 😅. I like serious talk,but I need some humor too.
Just finish the second watching of this episode of Pastor Mark‘s teaching on pursuing marriage, came back to this episode for the sake of getting a clear biblical instruction during the process of trying to build a closer relationship with one sister in Christ, received much help, Praise and Thank God for AGW ministry, may the Lord continue to bless the ministry and Pastor Mark himself as he continue to carry on the burden the Lord laid on him, in His Precious Name, AMEN
I know God is already preparing me to meet my future husband, but this video helped me see that I don't need to feel pressured if the next guy I date is Mr. Right. It showed me that I need to get to know him through casual conversation first and then see if the guy lines up with God's will and God gives me a peace about him.
Thank you! The best example of "low-key relationship" is if you met online. There is a different process, and we know the stories of manipulation and scamming and rushing things. Bless you Mark
I agree with you on all points here. I think defining the relationship relatively early is a good idea. Whether as you say it's a low commitment or high commitment-oriented scenario. We don't want to lead one another on when a little intentionality on clarity can clear the air and help us be on the same track together. Enjoying casual conversations I think is common sense but I think it's great that you included it because I think we can get blind-sided by idealism if we're not honest with ourselves and not realize that we're not clicking with someone very much. Cheers to the quality videos, keep up the good work.
Amen! Most of the time, we accuse God about certain things in our dating relationships but reality is that we do not clarify our position from the begining in that relationship. So these tips are yes and amen!
Clearly defining what you expect is critically important BEFORE you date someone! I wish I had known that my ex had an agenda from the get go of our relationship. In hindsight, there is no possible conceivable way I could have known this because narcissists are good about masking and hiding whatever they choose not to reveal to you.
But, with narcissists, they are unable to clearly define the relationship because they don't want to (or can't) be transparent with their true intentions. Thus, once you noticed this, this relationship is not for you.
Yes, I was married to a Covert Narcissist for 8 years, and she wore Cross Jewelry and carried her Bible to church. She definitely broke God's covenant and our wedding vows. She totally fooled me.
I've just sent a message to a guy who asked me out for a drink or dinner soon. There was a bit of a spark happening there but I doubt he is born again Christian. So I text him back telling him I'm a born again Christian and that I won't be offended if he changes his mind about inviting me out. It was hard because I've wanted a wonderful relationship for years. See I've prayed to God for him to take control of this and that I want Him to come first in my life. 🙏🏻💜
*Your UA-cam channel's content about God is amazing! The way you convey and share information about the Supreme Being is truly inspiring and respectful.*
I have never visually seen the idea of "unequally yoked" with the ox...so interesting. I think I'll have my HS Teenagers ti watch. Even though I am watching and learning myself.🌞
I wanna pursue a relationship!! But just wanna make sure that it’s from God!! I want to make sure God is in the center I can’t even get comfortable with man fr or let my guard down in this world!! 25 years never been in a relationship because I can just see if I can be myself with you and if we going make each other better but sometime I just think I’ll never find my one
It feels so odd I've been single for a year now and I don't have any bae or boo or little friend on the side. The thought of just meeting someone out of the blue seems so strange.
Thank you for this advice. My parents pressure me to hurry and get married since I'm in my late 30s. But I want to that person to be a God-loving person I am comfortable around.
Do not worry for he is the author and the finisher of the story. Who brought life unto all of the face of the earth? Who hath brought waters unto the rivers? Who hath brought life unto thee? Did a man gets its water of its own hands? How can a man drink a water when the water was created by God. It was God that gave that man water for he created the man and the water. For the water could never be found nor drink by any man nor beast nor the fowls of the earth without god putteth there. Do not worry God gives life unto thee and if its a marriage that man desires or burneth in him god shall grant it thee.
The yolk is moreso about going in the same direction and with the same values since it connects to similar oxen. Thus, it is about compatibility, in this sense. But, if you share the same values, then you should be able to "sharpen each other" throughout your lives. If you find that you're not able to do this, perhaps you're not compatible.
I love you God you are so amazing I wanna thankyou so much for helping me through everything that has been troubling me your amazing your so sweet and you help in the most kind caring loving way and I couldn't thankyou enough God your a blessing Hallelujah And I love you God In Jesus Name We Pray Amen🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🛐☦️
Wowww! I'm never disappointed when it comes to that channel.👌🔥 How do you do to be so inspired? Reading books or good relationship with God? I want to have that kind of relationship with Him too.
Should a Christian woman who is interested in someone that still doesn't have a testimony but is open to get closer to know God date them or should a man be more sharpened and spiritually mature in the relationship?
My ex SAID he wanted to know Christ. It was all talk to impress me. It takes one minute to repent. The proof is in the pudding. He should go to church or make a move towards the Lord.
You know Mark, I really respect your heart to consitantly help people longing in this area. Lol I'm subscribed with the bell yet sometimes I think, I'm just going to give up for a little while hahah!! Sometimes it's too painful to keep the hope alive yet still ..I watch your videos😂 Love you bud!🤗💙😎
I know what you mean Maria! I think it is helpful to take a break from overly focusing on these topics too :) You don't want to over do it! Then you can refocus when refreshed. Glad you are enjoying the channel though!
Hey mate, good stuff was definitely said here. As a brother, in part of the same body, do you mind if I provide one insight? Or gods revealed word in the Bible is so beautiful, and so clear, and his personal, individual will is certainly something to pray about and receive for ourselves. I want to encourage you to consider being cautious about language that definitely tells people God’s personal will for them, because that can come across as forcible, and even a little manipulative, though, I’m sure that’s the complete opposite of your heart in that. Thanks for considering, and thanks for being brave enough to put yourself out there to try to edify your fellow sons and daughters of God.
There's a great book we recommend for Christian singles beginning their pursuits with a Christian spouse called Preparing for Dating and Marriage by Rev. Cory Griess.
What if we get along in every way and agree on family matters, headship etc but he's less interested in spiritual activities like Bible reading and ministry, but seems to have quite good knowledge and fruit... although does falter because he doesn't come to Jesus for peace, happiness and rest. Has a history of being worldly and not having much fear of God. He wants to do practical secular work to support my ministry work. We are already dating but after many months I still don't know what to do if he proposes...
There is no need to date to assess whether that person is for u or not. A good friendship (to get to know someone) is enough. Dating is a new idea that came about in the 19th century. Pls read the book "I kissed dating goodbye." Also, I really believe a man should pursue a woman. That's biblical. He should consult his family and loved ones as well. Parents should be praying and asking God to do the matchmaking. Unfortunately, nowadays, single men and women are out on their own. That's why it is hard for them. The best way to go about it is to walk alone serving the Lord until someone joins you on that same road. I've known many religious ppl who simply lived a devoted life focusing on Christ only. They meet their spouses just as easily along thier spiritual journey. Most say they know when they meet the one, they just know. Thier goals align (cos they meet on the same path). God also communicates with them through visions and dreams who he chose for them because of thier persistent prayer and life of repentance. This type of devotion also helps to get to know oneself so that person can see clearly who s/he is compatible with. Get to know God, get to know yourselves first. Identifying "the one" will be easy.
How can Christians live in the world when they do not belong to it? What does it mean do not love the world? What is the real definition of love for a Christian when everything is corrupted & biased by the rules of money? There are 2 kinds of love : the natural one & the godly one. The natural one is to like what we judge as good in accordance to the Word of God. The godly one is to give oneself and to be good to others ; as God has infinite love for us. Love is the goodness of a being. So how can we combine this in a world in which the rule of money is fixed in a consumer society in which we have to pay for what we consider as good? This society is punishing & making people feel guilty to love what is good for them. It's foolishness. On another hand the market system ruled by money is not offering latitude anymore for money-free charity ; every aspect of society is nearly controlled by money that is perverting true love between each other & more over punishing them in most aspects of life. Money is distorting their perception of love and pre-empting love to take control of it through the monopoly of money production & rulership. How can't people using money is idolatry. The Bible says we cannot serve to masters (God & Money) : Matthew 6:24. Christ is our mediator with God ; not money. It's a deception getting more & more obvious. Christians building their lives on money trust have unholy relationship .
These are not necessary true. God works in mysterious ways. He will give you signs in different ways. Mostly He will speak to you through your heart. Both of you. God know what is best for you. All you need to do is listen.
I need some advice my crush who is a lifelong Christian and knows a lot about theology asked me out. I'm not a full Christan yet because my family has a lot of problems with our physical and mental health but I'm trying to learn and accept god as best as I can its just going to be a long process because of my trust issues and lack of understanding because I wasn't raised in a church. My crush knows this and is a year or so older than me. I haven't ever dated anyone and my family has different values than theirs so I'm trying to research so I don't make them uncomfortable. I feel that this would help me a lot in my journey with god but I don't want to accidentally interfere with theirs do you think this would go against god
I wish God would at least give me the name of the guy who I'm gonna marry. If im going to marry a Mike, why waste my time with Joe and Bob? Ya get what im saying?
I’ve had a crush on this guy for about 5 years. Back in March I decided to message him and tell him. No response but I’m pretty sure he read it. He never contacted me, but one of his friends reached out to me but it was business related. Thought this was odd but I decided to move on. Now, in July, I start having dreams about him, and little things came up that was a coincidence about him that I thought the universe might be telling me something. Then after asking around, I find out through someone he’s had a girlfriend since 2018. The girl he’s with I thought they were just really good friends but apparently it’s more than that. She is not his usual type. He has remained absent from social media since March. No posts or anything in 4 months. It’s prob not because of me of course but I’m thinking maybe he’s going through a breakup? His supposed gf tagged him in something and he never responded, which is unlike him because they were good friends turned lovers since 2018 that I had no idea about. Idk. But I think it’s time to move on... he is my absolute type in every way. We have so much in common too. Both nerdy, both love Halloween, both love anime, hiking, space, animals, kids, even our styles are very similar. I even look like the girls he usually dates, and his supposed girlfriend is the complete opposite (why I never suspected they were more than friends.) Idk what to do.
If he never responded. Move on. God has someone better who will be excited to talk to you, spend time with. Keep praying and focus on God. Allow God to bring the guy meant for you. That guy will pursue you. You deserve that. You are the daughter of the one true king. Straighten your crown and keep going
1. Enjoyable casual conversations
2. Clear testimonial conversations
3. Commitment Conversation
Amen. Thanks for sharing. God bless. 💜💛❤️
Thanks for this summary
It greatly helps.
I agree and God should be put first.
Amen!
I agree with you 100% God should be first
@@noahhelmuth6497 thank you brother
Yes! Praise Jesus!
"If your unequally yoked you will become ineffective in accomplishing the will of GOD" 👏👏👏👏 thank you for this
You're so welcome!
Very true. It happened to me. I was in a relationship with someone who didn't love God and he steered me away from my ministry.
Hey guys I’m a 23 year old Christian guy and I met this girl that caught my eye for the first time back in Easter 2022 at v1 church in Long Island . Prayed to God asking him if it’s in his will that he would bring us together . Me and the girl haven’t spoke much from the times we’ve seen each other (Sunday normally at church ) and when we did it was very short and causal and I wasn’t sure if she had liked me much . So after a couple months of not knowing what to do I found myself praying about it more and on a car ride home my sister told me to just tell her how I feel and since I only see the girl on Sunday (even tho i don’t go to that church very often because it’s not my local church )I texted her how I felt and told her I’m attracted to her and I want to get to know her personally and in a faith sense and she’s down! If this is in Gods plan all glory to him if it isn’t all glory to him but I would love if you guys could possibly pray for me that I don’t screw this up 😂 seriously tho if we end up dating I’m making this girl my wife one day
How are things holding up now, if you don't mind me asking? Thank you for your comment too, it's made me think!! :)
Hey mate:) How’s it going?
Then, what happened six months later?
Yes how did it go?
Beautiful story May God Bless You!!! 🥰 🥰🥰🥰🥰 🥰🥰🥰
I went into a relationship against God’s will. Marriage came and nothing got better. It was an unfortunate and an extremely hard life lesson for both of us. But God, through that disobedience has brought healing and clarity over things in my life! Even if we make the wrong decision God will bring good out of it if we are open to His correction.
God bless!
Excellent wisdom. Thanks for sharing!
Rajena5 Rajena amen and thank you!
@@saintrhino welcome n God bless you may He give you what u need n desire..in the store of our God nothing lacketh just name it you'l have it!!
Amen!
I made the mistake of dating a non Christian person a couple years ago, and I felt so ashamed. But now I'm waiting on the Lord for the right person.
Amen Karen!
I just went through the same thing. However, I'm glad the Lord put things in the way, that was correct for me.
That is the right thing to do. I am doing the same thing. I wish I would have done the same a few months ago, instead I rushed into a relationship and 6 days before what would've been 3 month's of dating he broke my heart and broke up with me.
God's timing is perfect, our timing is flawed, people need to learn to wait on the Lords timing.
I love that you showed the pictures of the two oxens yoked together. Helps to see the verse more clearly.
I want a marriage that brings honor and glory to my LORD. I want a partner to carry out the will of the LORD. But until then, I'm just going to rest in the LORD, falling more in love with Him.
Amen!!! Lovely comment sister, I agree so shall I.....
God bless until then. 💖🙏🏼
@@josalynhouston444 God bless you my friend 💕
Amen! In the time of solitude the Lord will heal and prepare our inner self so that we can be ready for Him to bring in our helpmate in His time. To God be the glory!
@@saintrhino Amen. Always and forever to Him be the glory. 🙌 Thank you my friend
So glad it was helpful Zarai!
For anyone reading this:
1. Enjoyable casual conversations 💬
2. Clear testimonial conversations 💬
3. Commitment Conversation 💬
Hope this helps.
This video definitely brings great clarity to such a confusing topic of dating. We tend to overthink things and create unneeded stress. However, with something as serious as marriage, it’s wise to ask these questions early on to preserve yourself from possible heartache and pain and as well as the person you’re dating. Be intentional, wise, and pray. Be led by the Holy Spirit and not your emotions. Do your best and let God take care of the rest. He knows you better than you know yourself. Thanks again for sound content, Mark! God bless.
Amen Jon!
Your right, always God is prevail... It's really hard to hurt and it's really painful but God is good all the time 🙏🏼
Well said
Right on time. After being single for over 5 yrs, I’ll be going on a date next week.
Congrats, That's Amazing🤗! I Pray to be Next🙏💫
Christie Love, you will in Jesus mighty name 🙏🏽.
Godbless! 💕
@@11216mel Awww, Amen. Thankyou 💫
Nice! Have fun :)
Praying for a GODLY man🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤
Amen!
20 and never been on a date before. All my friends and "peers" have girlfriends except me. I feel like the odd man out because I'm the only person who wants a godly relationship. Since a young age I knew that I wanted to be with one person, and one person only in my life. It makes it harder to date too because I can't drive because of my epilepsy. I'm afraid this might turn people away. I hope I find the "one" soon in Jesus's name! 🙏🏻
Do not worry for he is the author and the finisher of the story. Who brought life unto all of the face of the earth? Who hath brought waters unto the rivers? Who hath brought life unto thee? Did a man gets its water of its own hands? How can a man drink a water when the water was created by God. It was God that gave that man water for he created the man and the water. For the water could never be found nor drink by any man nor beast nor the fowls of the earth without god putteth there. Do not worry God gives life unto thee and if its a marriage that man desires or burneth in him god shall grant it thee.
Same here. I feel the same exact way and I’m the same age. It’s frustrating but being in a season of singleness is a blessing.
Danny Siragusa God is with you day in day out. Don't judge yourself wait on the Lord.
Would you be ready to get married tomorrow morning? If not, its ok that you havent been on a date yet.
Don 't worry man God's got you!🙏🏽🤲🏾❤️☝🏽✝️
Amen! I have been single for almost 25 years already. There are times that I have lost hope of dating or even being friends with the opposite sex because of emotional trauma that I have experienced in the past. But now I met this girl who turns out to be one of the leaders of the church, we've talked about building out friendship first before we can move on to the next level. I've been praying for her ever since.
The first point was so great, I’m too serious when I think there’s a potential partner 🤦🏻♀️ Thanks Mark! 😁
1. God wants us to have enjoyable and comfortable conversations.
Yes Communication is KEY 🔑 I received Absolutely no Communication!!! Every action has a reaction!!! And No Response is a Response ‼️ SO I WALKED AWAY DUE TO LACK OF RESPECT ‼️ STAY BLESSED ALWAYS ‼️‼️ 😭😭😭💔💔💔
God bless Diana!
Wisdom here... I love that you talk about the Proverbs 31 woman Mr Mark bc I want to be a woman like her... a woman after Gods own heart ❤️
God bless this ministry..
I talk more about a Proverbs 31 woman here: ua-cam.com/video/zHl_KufDOjk/v-deo.html
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger oh wow!
Agree about the casual talk.. 😊 For me,I should be able to talk about anything under the sun with him.. & joking around 😅. I like serious talk,but I need some humor too.
I met someone online & I've been asking him about his faith and so far he's ticking all the boxes. I'll pray about it before I meet up with him
Curious..How did it go with this particular man you mentioned in this post?
I hope God will bless me with the gift of marriage someday! Thank you for your videos.
My pleasure Rachel, keep following the Lord, he has a good plan for you
Talk about perfect timing😂
So glad it was timely Derek!
i love how much god speaks to me through your channel and no doubt so many others. god bless ya man
I'm so glad the Lord is using this content to bless you Kyle!
God is capitalized. Thank You.
Just finish the second watching of this episode of Pastor Mark‘s teaching on pursuing marriage, came back to this episode for the sake of getting a clear biblical instruction during the process of trying to build a closer relationship with one sister in Christ, received much help, Praise and Thank God for AGW ministry, may the Lord continue to bless the ministry and Pastor Mark himself as he continue to carry on the burden the Lord laid on him, in His Precious Name, AMEN
Loving God. Whoever is reading this God sees and knows your struggles, pain and injustice He will vindicate and rescue you dont give up.
God bless!
Our relationship with Christ should be personal but never private- that part🔥!
Praying for a godly wife, who will love God and love me and never cheat on me
It will come in God’s perfect time!
A real godly wife doesn't cheat on you, no matter what.
I know God is already preparing me to meet my future husband, but this video helped me see that I don't need to feel pressured if the next guy I date is Mr. Right. It showed me that I need to get to know him through casual conversation first and then see if the guy lines up with God's will and God gives me a peace about him.
Amen Cassidy! Well said!
Thank you. The first point really helped me. We often do forget we need to be able to have casual conversations.
Amen Austin!
Where has this channel been all my life??! As a youth leader, image finding such a message in just 5 minutes!! God bless you
Thank you! The best example of "low-key relationship" is if you met online. There is a different process, and we know the stories of manipulation and scamming and rushing things. Bless you Mark
Amen. God has tasks for you and your future mate to accomplish. Equally yoked is so important.
This is why I’m waiting on God’s timing. He knows best!
Wow! This video is specifically for me as I just had a much-needed conversation tonight with someone I’m interested in dating. Bless you, Mark!
So glad it was timely Ashley!
This channel popped up today and I have been watching non stop .I am so happy and excited to hear more of what God expects of me as His child 😊
400k Mr Mark🎉🎉🎉🎉 God is reaching alot of people through this content. All glory to God🙏
Amen! All glory to God!
I agree with you on all points here. I think defining the relationship relatively early is a good idea. Whether as you say it's a low commitment or high commitment-oriented scenario. We don't want to lead one another on when a little intentionality on clarity can clear the air and help us be on the same track together. Enjoying casual conversations I think is common sense but I think it's great that you included it because I think we can get blind-sided by idealism if we're not honest with ourselves and not realize that we're not clicking with someone very much. Cheers to the quality videos, keep up the good work.
Perfect timing AGAIN! Thank you, God Bless!
My pleasure Victoria!
I agree that "if your unequally yoked you will become ineffective in accomplishing the will of God".Thank you for reminding us.💖
Amen! Most of the time, we accuse God about certain things in our dating relationships but reality is that we do not clarify our position from the begining in that relationship. So these tips are yes and amen!
Well said David!
Wonderful and wise! Thank you for sharing God’s heart for us with succinct clear ways.
So glad it was helpful Hannah!
Great advice as always. Praying God brings me someone soon.
God bless!
This is profoundly insightful. I don't know how this guy gets this wisdom.
From studying the Bible.
'Problems occur when two people are signing up for two different things'....nail on the head! #1 REASON in failed relationships!!
Clearly defining what you expect is critically important BEFORE you date someone! I wish I had known that my ex had an agenda from the get go of our relationship. In hindsight, there is no possible conceivable way I could have known this because narcissists are good about masking and hiding whatever they choose not to reveal to you.
But, with narcissists, they are unable to clearly define the relationship because they don't want to (or can't) be transparent with their true intentions.
Thus, once you noticed this, this relationship is not for you.
Yes, I was married to a Covert Narcissist for 8 years, and she wore Cross Jewelry and carried her Bible to church. She definitely broke God's covenant and our wedding vows. She totally fooled me.
Look like God want me to have relationship.
God bless!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Amen!
Possibly sooner then later.
Same
I've just sent a message to a guy who asked me out for a drink or dinner soon. There was a bit of a spark happening there but I doubt he is born again Christian. So I text him back telling him I'm a born again Christian and that I won't be offended if he changes his mind about inviting me out. It was hard because I've wanted a wonderful relationship for years. See I've prayed to God for him to take control of this and that I want Him to come first in my life. 🙏🏻💜
*Your UA-cam channel's content about God is amazing! The way you convey and share information about the Supreme Being is truly inspiring and respectful.*
I have never visually seen the idea of "unequally yoked" with the ox...so interesting. I think I'll have my HS Teenagers ti watch. Even though I am watching and learning myself.🌞
Your videos bless me every time I listen to one.
Timely video.. the guy I am getting to know had to remind me of just enjoying getting to know each other
Amen, relationships should not be too serious early on :) Need time to grow and just enjoy each other first :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger yes and I noting this as I enjoy
The most important thing to me by far is my relationship with God through his son Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.
I wanna pursue a relationship!! But just wanna make sure that it’s from God!! I want to make sure God is in the center I can’t even get comfortable with man fr or let my guard down in this world!! 25 years never been in a relationship because I can just see if I can be myself with you and if we going make each other better but sometime I just think I’ll never find my one
It feels so odd I've been single for a year now and I don't have any bae or boo or little friend on the side. The thought of just meeting someone out of the blue seems so strange.
Yes yes Friends Respect and like each other.
I think this is the best video i have seen on youtube so far
Idk I feel like I might not even meet the one I'm gonna date or Marry before Jesus returns.
Only God knows
same - trusting in God though!
I feel the exact same way
JT the amazing thank you so much! I pray God blesses you with your wife soon
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Thank you
Mark! Congratulations on 400K subscribers, one of which is me!
Thank you! So glad you are a part of the channel!
Thank you for this advice. My parents pressure me to hurry and get married since I'm in my late 30s. But I want to that person to be a God-loving person I am comfortable around.
Tell your parents to pray for you. Pressuring you doesn't help. Don't they know it's harder these days to marry?
Great content as usual
So glad you enjoyed this!
yes Ill say three, no lust, purity, love
Excellent advice! I like #2. THANK you! 😀
You are so welcome!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with everyone and anyone who is willing to watch your videos. You are a blessing. God bless you🤍
Greetings
@@joshuaolorunjoba7926 Greetings to you as well
Where do worship? Who are your favorite bible teachers?
@@joshuaolorunjoba7926 I do worship at my house. My favorite bible teacher is Greg Laurie. What about you?
Lots of them including our Mark, late Derek Prince etc..
This is brilliant.
God bless you Mr Mark
As usual very helpful teaching. Thank u Mark.
I'm so glad it was helpful!
Do not worry for he is the author and the finisher of the story. Who brought life unto all of the face of the earth? Who hath brought waters unto the rivers? Who hath brought life unto thee? Did a man gets its water of its own hands? How can a man drink a water when the water was created by God. It was God that gave that man water for he created the man and the water. For the water could never be found nor drink by any man nor beast nor the fowls of the earth without god putteth there. Do not worry God gives life unto thee and if its a marriage that man desires or burneth in him god shall grant it thee.
Great words of wisdom in this video! Thank you! 😀
Thank you for this video. It is very helpful and encouraging.
Glad it was helpful!
Very very important!! Great video
Glad it was helpful!
This is so good!
It's really helping and relatable to me
Awesome video
So glad it was helpful Mary!
Kinda funny he said to have these conversations word for word but provided conversation topics. Great video though. Quite helpful
Beautiful content and exactly what I needed right now!!!!
Hopefully this helps me, because I'll be dating a celebrity one day
Most of them are witches.
Quit capping man! It takes one or two dates to know if you’re compatible.
Compatibility is different to yoking. Compatibility doesn’t always mean iron will sharpen iron in my view.
The yolk is moreso about going in the same direction and with the same values since it connects to similar oxen. Thus, it is about compatibility, in this sense.
But, if you share the same values, then you should be able to "sharpen each other" throughout your lives. If you find that you're not able to do this, perhaps you're not compatible.
I love you God you are so amazing I wanna thankyou so much for helping me through everything that has been troubling me your amazing your so sweet and you help in the most kind caring loving way and I couldn't thankyou enough God your a blessing Hallelujah And I love you God In Jesus Name We Pray Amen🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🛐☦️
I Love you God In Jesus Name We Pray Amennnn🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻🥺😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🛐☦️
Amen 💜 thanks for this video 🥰 enjoy and communication is the key for a good start in a relationship.
Absolutely Reyna!
I was so surprised to see another upload! 😁😁😁🙌🏽🙌🏽 This is awesome!
Hope you enjoyed it!
A man
Christ-centered
Character
Chemistry
Communications.
Praying for a godly husband.
Lord aksyon man pud kog kabalaka sa timing ani nga video. HAHAHAHA
Still. I will praise and worship you as I wait. 🙏
God is good
Good video. Thanks.
Glad you liked it!
Wowww! I'm never disappointed when it comes to that channel.👌🔥 How do you do to be so inspired? Reading books or good relationship with God? I want to have that kind of relationship with Him too.
So glad you are enjoying the channel! It's all by grace, which empowers us to work hard, study hard, and leave the rest to God :)
Hi
Joshua Olorunjoba Hi.
Wishing God's richest blessings
Thanks Brother
My pleasure!
Should a Christian woman who is interested in someone that still doesn't have a testimony but is open to get closer to know God date them or should a man be more sharpened and spiritually mature in the relationship?
My ex SAID he wanted to know Christ. It was all talk to impress me. It takes one minute to repent. The proof is in the pudding. He should go to church or make a move towards the Lord.
You know Mark, I really respect your heart to consitantly help people longing in this area. Lol I'm subscribed with the bell yet sometimes I think, I'm just going to give up for a little while hahah!! Sometimes it's too painful to keep the hope alive yet still ..I watch your videos😂 Love you bud!🤗💙😎
I know what you mean Maria! I think it is helpful to take a break from overly focusing on these topics too :) You don't want to over do it! Then you can refocus when refreshed. Glad you are enjoying the channel though!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger you're the best big brother around, Ya knoww! 😆
I failed on all three of these now the Christian guy says he honestly doesn’t think we will work out. Now I’m speechless.
Maybe pull away. Give him time to miss you & do a do over. He probably felt pressured .
Never play games when dating as a reborn believer. Someone will get hurt, and it may be you.
Hey mate, good stuff was definitely said here. As a brother, in part of the same body, do you mind if I provide one insight? Or gods revealed word in the Bible is so beautiful, and so clear, and his personal, individual will is certainly something to pray about and receive for ourselves. I want to encourage you to consider being cautious about language that definitely tells people God’s personal will for them, because that can come across as forcible, and even a little manipulative, though, I’m sure that’s the complete opposite of your heart in that. Thanks for considering, and thanks for being brave enough to put yourself out there to try to edify your fellow sons and daughters of God.
There's a great book we recommend for Christian singles beginning their pursuits with a Christian spouse called Preparing for Dating and Marriage by Rev. Cory Griess.
Why did i learn about these things so late
Never too late.
What if we get along in every way and agree on family matters, headship etc but he's less interested in spiritual activities like Bible reading and ministry, but seems to have quite good knowledge and fruit... although does falter because he doesn't come to Jesus for peace, happiness and rest. Has a history of being worldly and not having much fear of God. He wants to do practical secular work to support my ministry work. We are already dating but after many months I still don't know what to do if he proposes...
Doesn't sound promising. He is not a man pursuing Jesus. Plus, the word is essential to learn in this journey.
There is no need to date to assess whether that person is for u or not. A good friendship (to get to know someone) is enough. Dating is a new idea that came about in the 19th century. Pls read the book "I kissed dating goodbye." Also, I really believe a man should pursue a woman. That's biblical. He should consult his family and loved ones as well. Parents should be praying and asking God to do the matchmaking. Unfortunately, nowadays, single men and women are out on their own. That's why it is hard for them. The best way to go about it is to walk alone serving the Lord until someone joins you on that same road. I've known many religious ppl who simply lived a devoted life focusing on Christ only. They meet their spouses just as easily along thier spiritual journey. Most say they know when they meet the one, they just know. Thier goals align (cos they meet on the same path). God also communicates with them through visions and dreams who he chose for them because of thier persistent prayer and life of repentance. This type of devotion also helps to get to know oneself so that person can see clearly who s/he is compatible with. Get to know God, get to know yourselves first. Identifying "the one" will be easy.
How can Christians live in the world when they do not belong to it? What does it mean do not love the world?
What is the real definition of love for a Christian when everything is corrupted & biased by the rules of money?
There are 2 kinds of love : the natural one & the godly one.
The natural one is to like what we judge as good in accordance to the Word of God.
The godly one is to give oneself and to be good to others ; as God has infinite love for us. Love is the goodness of a being.
So how can we combine this in a world in which the rule of money is fixed in a consumer society in which we have to pay for what we consider as good? This society is punishing & making people feel guilty to love what is good for them. It's foolishness.
On another hand the market system ruled by money is not offering latitude anymore for money-free charity ; every aspect of society is nearly controlled by money that is perverting true love between each other & more over punishing them in most aspects of life. Money is distorting their perception of love and pre-empting love to take control of it through the monopoly of money production & rulership. How can't people using money is idolatry. The Bible says we cannot serve to masters (God & Money) : Matthew 6:24. Christ is our mediator with God ; not money. It's a deception getting more & more obvious.
Christians building their lives on money trust have unholy relationship .
These are not necessary true. God works in mysterious ways. He will give you signs in different ways. Mostly He will speak to you through your heart. Both of you. God know what is best for you. All you need to do is listen.
The word says our hearts deceive us.
Amen!
I need some advice my crush who is a lifelong Christian and knows a lot about theology asked me out. I'm not a full Christan yet because my family has a lot of problems with our physical and mental health but I'm trying to learn and accept god as best as I can its just going to be a long process because of my trust issues and lack of understanding because I wasn't raised in a church. My crush knows this and is a year or so older than me. I haven't ever dated anyone and my family has different values than theirs so I'm trying to research so I don't make them uncomfortable. I feel that this would help me a lot in my journey with god but I don't want to accidentally interfere with theirs do you think this would go against god
I wish God would at least give me the name of the guy who I'm gonna marry. If im going to marry a Mike, why waste my time with Joe and Bob? Ya get what im saying?
You and 50 billion people on the planet.
What if someone is non believer but likes me a lot?
I’ve had a crush on this guy for about 5 years. Back in March I decided to message him and tell him. No response but I’m pretty sure he read it. He never contacted me, but one of his friends reached out to me but it was business related. Thought this was odd but I decided to move on. Now, in July, I start having dreams about him, and little things came up that was a coincidence about him that I thought the universe might be telling me something. Then after asking around, I find out through someone he’s had a girlfriend since 2018. The girl he’s with I thought they were just really good friends but apparently it’s more than that. She is not his usual type. He has remained absent from social media since March. No posts or anything in 4 months. It’s prob not because of me of course but I’m thinking maybe he’s going through a breakup? His supposed gf tagged him in something and he never responded, which is unlike him because they were good friends turned lovers since 2018 that I had no idea about. Idk. But I think it’s time to move on... he is my absolute type in every way. We have so much in common too. Both nerdy, both love Halloween, both love anime, hiking, space, animals, kids, even our styles are very similar. I even look like the girls he usually dates, and his supposed girlfriend is the complete opposite (why I never suspected they were more than friends.) Idk what to do.
If he never responded. Move on. God has someone better who will be excited to talk to you, spend time with. Keep praying and focus on God. Allow God to bring the guy meant for you. That guy will pursue you. You deserve that. You are the daughter of the one true king. Straighten your crown and keep going
Halloween is a high Satanic, evil day. This man is not interested in pursuing you.
Can you elaborate on what levels of commitment look like in a Christian relationship?
This may help Krissy, ua-cam.com/video/8jmr0O9zDqQ/v-deo.html