When my gf and I started having sex, we didn't use condoms. We were in our relationship for a couple years and neither of us had ever been with anyone else. She was on the pill but if I had knocked her up, I definitely would be there. She is today my wife and we have two kids and I love them dearly.
Great advice you're giving. I personally hate condoms and for very good reasons but I do not want to be reckless or regretful. I made that mistake one time when I was young and swore I would never ever gamble like that again. And you're right to be suspicious of women who don't have any boundaries can't assert themselves you wonder what is their motivation with somebody who's virtually a stranger when you haven't established any any trust. Good advice.
@@schahrzadmorgan "Fluid bonded", as it is known. Condoms only serve two purposes; birth control or disease prevention. If you're worried about disease, you cannot trust that partner or your engaging in promiscuity (not judging, have fun). I need to have absolute trust before I'll engage in sex with a woman but hey, that's just me.
Bareback sex between strangers is analogous to people playing Russian roulette with STDs and unwanted pregnancies. It is not worth the anxiety and inevitable problems.
I never really even got the thrill of strangers. I've had the opportunity a few times and passed. Mostly concern about STD but also what else is going on here. I don't hitchhike either.
Weirdo strangers ARE WHY I stopped hitch hiking lomg distances in the late 90s. While most of the people that picked me up did not make sexual advances towards me two of them offered and I said nope. Both attempts were close to roadstop porn stores too........
I am an old 7th Fleet forward deployed Tin Can Sailor who spent a lot of good times in a lot of places in a lot of ports that would make most men envious and women angry. Anyone who is not careful is a fool! When I re-entered the dating scene after an almost 30-year almost sexless marriage, I made sure to do an 8-panel blood test to keep in my back pocket should things head in an intimate direction. Any man who does not blood test should not be trusted, nor should they trust themselves.
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH! I wish I never fell for all the manipulation! The second they see us, they start their plotting! It is creepy. GREAT advice and exactly the higher standards I now have! Bravo!
"low quality women"??? Jesus... How some people can be self righteous. Shame on you. Of the last 3 women I've been with, 2 defaulted to no condom. Now... I had a clean STI test, so I knew I didn't risk doing harm, but those women were definitely not "low quality". They would never sink so low as to pass such judgement on others.
Great video and agree a 100 pct im just glad that the few times i have do it with a casual i never got anything but its like 50-50 and now with the dating apps unless its someone i see regular im using protecion
@Schahrzad Morgan I have had multiple women try to get me to have sex with them without a condom. I did not want to deal with STI/STD, and so I was not going to take chances. One of them got pretty mad at me because I more or less said, no condoms no sex. Then there is the pregnancy prevention which is essential to me. I think one of the women who did not want to use condoms was trying to trap me into getting married to her if she could get pregnant.
It's definitely not all men where this is concerned. I've had women do the same thing, and some even just mounted bare and a couple over the years who were able to pull it off without using their hands. Now that can happen accidentally, but when it happens every time out and at exactly the same moment....it's pretty clear its deliberate. If I had to guess at a ratio of men and women who pressure and/or stealth condomless sex, I'd say it's about 60/40 men to women. In both cases fortunately they're a minority. The bottom line should be respecting people's boundaries and consent. Whatever decision people mutually come to of their own true free will is just that, theirs. It's none of yours or my business. Nor should we be abusive or insulting to those who ask for no-condom sex. If it's not for you, or not in that circumstance, just say so. That's the whole point of communication. We want people to be honest with us, I would think?
"I want to feel you" means she wants to feel your wallet for 18 years.
When my gf and I started having sex, we didn't use condoms. We were in our relationship for a couple years and neither of us had ever been with anyone else. She was on the pill but if I had knocked her up, I definitely would be there. She is today my wife and we have two kids and I love them dearly.
That’s awesome
Great advice you're giving. I personally hate condoms and for very good reasons but I do not want to be reckless or regretful. I made that mistake one time when I was young and swore I would never ever gamble like that again. And you're right to be suspicious of women who don't have any boundaries can't assert themselves you wonder what is their motivation with somebody who's virtually a stranger when you haven't established any any trust. Good advice.
Tested, exclusive and VERY well acquainted. "It's a privilege" goes both ways, it shouldn't be made to sound as only a woman's prerogative.
There are men who insist on wearing a condom, but you'd be surprised how many men don't. I'll put up a poll and see what answers we get.
@@schahrzadmorgan "Fluid bonded", as it is known. Condoms only serve two purposes; birth control or disease prevention. If you're worried about disease, you cannot trust that partner or your engaging in promiscuity (not judging, have fun). I need to have absolute trust before I'll engage in sex with a woman but hey, that's just me.
Condoms have a third purpose: the man hasn't earned the right to go bare because he is a client, or it's a hookup, or we haven't dated long enough.
@@schahrzadmorgan Why is it a man's obligation to "earn the right"? Why is it not a mutual obligation?
Imagine how many worldly problems would be avoided if people had the self control to keep it in their pants and legs closed.
Bareback sex between strangers is analogous to people playing Russian roulette with STDs and unwanted pregnancies. It is not worth the anxiety and inevitable problems.
I never really even got the thrill of strangers. I've had the opportunity a few times and passed. Mostly concern about STD but also what else is going on here. I don't hitchhike either.
Weirdo strangers ARE WHY I stopped hitch hiking lomg distances in the late 90s. While most of the people that picked me up did not make sexual advances towards me two of them offered and I said nope. Both attempts were close to roadstop porn stores too........
@@elijahwilson1422 I am glad that you protected yourself and remained safe/unscathed throughout your travels.
That man had game! I need to use that line lol
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I am an old 7th Fleet forward deployed Tin Can Sailor who spent a lot of good times in a lot of places in a lot of ports that would make most men envious and women angry. Anyone who is not careful is a fool! When I re-entered the dating scene after an almost 30-year almost sexless marriage, I made sure to do an 8-panel blood test to keep in my back pocket should things head in an intimate direction. Any man who does not blood test should not be trusted, nor should they trust themselves.
PS - New dating interest, new blood test. When a dating relationship ends, blood test.
Well said!
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH! I wish I never fell for all the manipulation! The second they see us, they start their plotting! It is creepy. GREAT advice and exactly the higher standards I now have! Bravo!
A woman told me many years ago that sex with a condom is like eating candy without first removing the wrapper.
Ho! Ho! Ho! Merry Christmas! 😂 🤣 😂
"low quality women"???
Jesus... How some people can be self righteous. Shame on you.
Of the last 3 women I've been with, 2 defaulted to no condom. Now... I had a clean STI test, so I knew I didn't risk doing harm, but those women were definitely not "low quality". They would never sink so low as to pass such judgement on others.
Great video and agree a 100 pct im just glad that the few times i have do it with a casual i never got anything but its like 50-50 and now with the dating apps unless its someone i see regular im using protecion
a) Sexual Transmitted Disease
b) Unwanted pregnancy
The general rule is that if you hook up with a total stranger, you use condoms ... no matter what.
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"I need to make another bareback video..."
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@Schahrzad Morgan I have had multiple women try to get me to have sex with them without a condom. I did not want to deal with STI/STD, and so I was not going to take chances. One of them got pretty mad at me because I more or less said, no condoms no sex. Then there is the pregnancy prevention which is essential to me. I think one of the women who did not want to use condoms was trying to trap me into getting married to her if she could get pregnant.
That is a safe bet...
It's definitely not all men where this is concerned. I've had women do the same thing, and some even just mounted bare and a couple over the years who were able to pull it off without using their hands. Now that can happen accidentally, but when it happens every time out and at exactly the same moment....it's pretty clear its deliberate. If I had to guess at a ratio of men and women who pressure and/or stealth condomless sex, I'd say it's about 60/40 men to women. In both cases fortunately they're a minority.
The bottom line should be respecting people's boundaries and consent. Whatever decision people mutually come to of their own true free will is just that, theirs. It's none of yours or my business.
Nor should we be abusive or insulting to those who ask for no-condom sex. If it's not for you, or not in that circumstance, just say so. That's the whole point of communication. We want people to be honest with us, I would think?
Wow. Interesting.