A Neurosurgeon Talks of Vulnerability: Gabor Maté and James Doty

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  • Опубліковано 18 лис 2024

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  • @paulineburke7965
    @paulineburke7965 5 років тому +32

    Thank you so much Gabor My​​ Mother died suddenly this year of heart failure and I know she was a pathological people pleaser who had had Fibromyalgia. I have Dystonia. My Father and my ex are both narcissists. Fortunately I have broken the cycle and my son is not narcissistic He is slowly overcoming codependence, as I am. We are awakening and growing with the help of our spirits and of teachers like you. Xxx I came here to heal and be healed; that is the message that I receive in my heart each day. I am breaking the cycle of trauma and it is the most difficult and also most rewarding work I know. 💚

    • @paramaduits558
      @paramaduits558 5 років тому +4

      Pauline Burke
      Hi! Check out Dr. Carter on narcissism (survival) here on UA-cam . Good luck☘️

    • @time4chai995
      @time4chai995 5 років тому +4

      This is beautiful. So happy for you for embarking on that journey of healing and breaking the cycle of trauma.

    • @Evy317
      @Evy317 3 роки тому +1

      God bless you and your son Pauline. I hope you are both doing well x

  • @jem2250
    @jem2250 5 років тому +7

    Celebration of the feminine - expressing feeling, creating connection by showing vulnerability. This is the way of the future. A new paradigm that no longer shuts down this vital part of our being - the feminine once again honored. Very touching story. Thank you. What a wonderful surgeon. Most interesting interview.

  • @saskiademoor8400
    @saskiademoor8400 5 років тому +9

    thanks for being vulnerable! beautiful! Yes this is what we want to be! We want to CONNECT

  • @lauriesyme207
    @lauriesyme207 5 років тому +7

    Blessings to you both for sharing this very special gift of vulnerability.

  • @touchheartyoga
    @touchheartyoga 3 роки тому +5

    Two very healthy people, reality raw and unclouded. Thank you both.

    • @suzyvegalicious5646
      @suzyvegalicious5646 6 місяців тому +1

      The Professor is healthy emotionally but not physically.

    • @touchheartyoga
      @touchheartyoga 6 місяців тому +1

      @@suzyvegalicious5646 Thank you for letting me know. I'm sorry to hear. I get lost with some presenter's micro expressions. I don't do it as much in person but take a more whole awareness. I checked the video, I can't see into his eyes or read his skin wellness his visible ankle is the only clue I have is his illness vascular?

    • @touchheartyoga
      @touchheartyoga 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh, yes also I meant in my first comment "healthy of mind"

    • @suzyvegalicious5646
      @suzyvegalicious5646 6 місяців тому +1

      @@touchheartyoga it's not complicated. I just meant that he is overweight and I could hear his breathing was difficult. But he has a lot of wisdom.

  • @grahamkeil3219
    @grahamkeil3219 5 років тому +10

    Thanks for being authentic!

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 5 років тому +17

    Our brain speculates while the HEART KNOWS
    💖💗💓💕

  • @judywinters8615
    @judywinters8615 5 років тому +5

    I love Dr Gabor courage and work, EVERYONE should listen to him about addiction and trauma, I KNOW what he says the truth. Bless this surgeon for coming forward also...

  • @dwiloveslost
    @dwiloveslost 3 роки тому +3

    My two favorite authors on stage together

  • @Evy317
    @Evy317 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you James you are truly inspirational. Thank you and Gabor so much for this x

  • @saintdenis3238
    @saintdenis3238 9 місяців тому +1

    Only by being vulnerable can you truly connect, damm that hit deep ❤

  • @sissi8610
    @sissi8610 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much, especially the last bits, in relation to the cause being in the non-physical.

  • @SusanHopkinson
    @SusanHopkinson 5 років тому +5

    You are such gorgeous people. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @time4chai995
    @time4chai995 5 років тому +1

    So.. that was beautiful and I may be tearing up right now 😭👌🏽💕

  • @kimwarburton8490
    @kimwarburton8490 5 років тому +5

    i think the reason behind why most psychiatrists are wounded healers is because they want to help others out of the dark times they've experienced. Those who know, know how to help others best, they have their own empirical experiences to draw on. We are all blind to our own flaws to some degree

    • @bigfletch8
      @bigfletch8 5 років тому

      Part of that blindness includes not recognising that every stage of unfoldment is necessary. The psychiatric world involves a limited understanding that certain experiences need to be "cured", and often the patient and the practitioner are in the same limited awareness level where xrossover takes place.
      The mind , being what it is (a belief entity) from the psychiatrists perspective, sees "non cure" as a failure, which can further exacerbate his own inner conflict. Similar in a sense, where the G.P. has a low immune sytsem, and is vulnerable to the diseases he is deaaling with.

  • @elliottroca
    @elliottroca 5 років тому +5

    Don't apologize for offending people. My best conclusions are formed from pressure of not taking information from educators as offensive anymore.

  • @mial2781
    @mial2781 5 років тому

    Wonderful, just wonderful.

  • @professormaxtrinity
    @professormaxtrinity 5 років тому +9

    Beautiful

  • @TheLmori3
    @TheLmori3 5 років тому +1

    Wow. that was incredible

  • @roxydina7615
    @roxydina7615 5 років тому +1

    Thank you....so well said.

  • @sandrasalomon8164
    @sandrasalomon8164 6 місяців тому

    Fantástico...humano y compasivo❤

  • @maryanncarrlton6878
    @maryanncarrlton6878 5 років тому +1

    It’s an illness of the heart indeed, so many !

  • @tuesday7742
    @tuesday7742 5 років тому

    Thank you for sharing. Who is the person Dr. Doty worked with to learn how to connect and be in "That" special space? Blessings to you.

    • @Shroom00
      @Shroom00 5 років тому

      I think he refers to Ruth, "the remarkable woman he met at the Cactus Rabbit Magic Shop when he was 12 years old, who devoted the summer to transforming his mind and opening his heart." This story is in his book: 'Into the Magic Shop: a neurosurgeon's true story of the life-changing magic of compassion and mindfulness.' :)

    • @tuesday7742
      @tuesday7742 5 років тому

      @@Shroom00 thank you

  • @willb3368
    @willb3368 5 років тому +2

    very moving. consciousness is so fragile. id hate to be a hopf feild sugeon. :)

    • @coreycox2345
      @coreycox2345 5 років тому

      This was an excellent example. I can see how in panic, this surgeon might not have found the moment, and it could have gone differently. I know what finding the moment is having experienced it when I might not have, but it is more available at some times than others.

  • @DJ-gs2uw
    @DJ-gs2uw 4 роки тому

    🙏🧡🙏🧡🙏

  • @antoinettecurran7683
    @antoinettecurran7683 5 років тому

    Wow Wow Wow💜💜💜💟💟💦💦💦

  • @kingjudah27
    @kingjudah27 7 місяців тому +1

    Two of my favorites. Into The Magic Shop 𓂀𓋹𓂀 is an incredible read!!!