Married couple know THIS | Nouman Ali Khan
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"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
Let's ask this Nouman to pls stay away from marriage topics & stick to discussing the Holy Qur'an as that is where his expertise lies.
He seems to have such negative connotations about marriage bec of his personal experience.
This is excellent advice if you understand it properly...this was part of a larger lecture where Nouman Ali Khan defined "space" as "giving someone your full attention, putting your phone down, carving space in your life for empathizing with the other and truly putting yourself in their shoes, sharing their joys and concerns fully as if you are them" ... He's basically saying in this clip that if you know someone isn't trying to truly see your point of view and really listen, then they are the wrong person to open up to, it will just backfire. He used an example of a wife, but it could be a husband, a parent, child, coworker, friend.
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Men should speak up before they blow up and women should speak up before they give up
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From my own and many other women’s experiences, women are always speaking up but are ignored.
@@hadilayyad6147 y all just chose the wrong guy then
Sometimes its the men who giveup...and the women who blowup.
He got some great acting skills too
If someone hurts you, especially a spouse you should be able to tell them that. Holding things in is what damages relationships.
"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
not everytime, i told him all the time and he was always angry about it
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Always angry cos he can’t regulate his emotions, and probably gaslighting so you become the issue instead. Just do whatever works for you and your marriage.
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By "space" here he means "empathizing with the person, giving them your full ear when listening as if you are the person, sharing their worries, concerns, and joys, putting the phone down and giving them real space in your life"... He doesn't mean "space" as in boundaries and leaving them alone. This was part of a longer talk where he defined space like this. In case people are confused.
Holding things inside your heart also damages your relationship sometimes. You juss keep thinking about it all the time and you're not able to forget it. So it grows inside you like an infection.
But even when the husband share it only become an argument, the lesson here is not to be selfish and hurt pole, that even when they express it, it is still about yourself, we shld care about other pple' s feeling, especially our spouse so they can feel free to share what they feel
Ok but his female impersonation is so funny
I will give my future husband space, glad to know this before marriage.
...this was part of a larger lecture where Nouman Ali Khan defined "space" as "giving someone your full attention, putting your phone down, carving space in your life for empathizing with the other and truly putting yourself in their shoes, sharing their joys and concerns fully as if you are them" ... He's basically saying in this clip that if you know someone isn't trying to truly see your point of view and really listen, then they are the wrong person to open up to, it will just backfire. He used an example of a wife, but it could be a husband, a parent, child, coworker, friend.
Yes this works both ways. One of the best lines
You should be both mature enough to discuss any issue rationally.
Women aren't rational. They are emotional. That's the problem
Guys before anyone starts going after Ustadh Nouman. Listen to the full lecture
They will go nonetheless. They are feminists
It is not the same with every women... I think that woman that he speaks of is very narcisstic. Is it just me? Something is so wrong with that woman... So immature and selfish. I am married to.... Different personalities has different stories I guess... I personally won't fight in a car, it is just immature and dangerous. If there is something wrong, I will usually just keep quiet and just be positive in a car. Enjoy the moment and be grateful. It is so dangerous having fight in a car.. your spouse might lose focus in driving and it may cause your life.
Agreed. He seems to have such negative connotations about marriage bec of his personal experience.
@@manalcali153Y'all are acting like this isn't the norm in most relationships. As if everyone is having the relationship of jannah except brother nouman
Fights in cars are agonizing - you're stuck.
No honestly, this is a very typical trend in women. It's not narcissism, it's a focus on emotion rather than the problem. It's a general female issue, and having that maturity to be able to not have this problem as a wife is a big step in maturity for all women.
Totally agree, this example is not accurate and doesn’t apply to
Ustadz Nouman Ali Khan had made many lectures mentioning how horrible his wife was. All of his students would know this. I hope she found someone better that makes her happier, she didn't deserve to be treated like that.
I heartily agree. He's making a mockery out of relationships. And it is all directed to the woman, specially in this video. What about the woman who dare not look at her husband for fear of being assaulted or humiliated publicly in front of strangers? What about the husband glaring at the wife, in anger over something very minor & she looks down, hoping & praying he doesn't shout at her or abuse her.And then he does, by using the most foul language..I have personally witnessed this a few times..In shops, in airports & restaurants..My heart goes out to these ladies..
listen to the full video, buddy!
We are responding to what is posted here😊
@@shifaali2133 what about that? Did he ever condone such barbaric acts? Why are yoi so pressed?
@1eV The question is.. Why are you so triggered..Pot calling the kettle black. Why so personal? It's a public forum, so I can say what I feel.
Secondly, I never said that he condoned it. You're putting words into my mouth that I never said.
Don't like what say? Scroll by. And don't tag me.
What I talk about is a harsh reality. It's true.
You can ignore it. Good day. 👍
This is entertaining but I would take this with a grain of salt... This was his personal opinion, nothing to do with Quran or sunnah
You should listen the whole lecture
He seems to have such negative connotations towards marriage bec of his personal experience
You mean the car story isn't mentioned in the Quran or Sunnah? 😮
That why dont have this problem as divorced wife im living in Peace. I never like conversations or conflicts or drama.( some men can be like to dramatic) soo i want beter work on myself than be in toxic relationship where u have scan other in daily basis. See alot comment to communicate with that or confront that how divorce starts trust me.
If there no trust, spouse judge u everyday and hates u or u him cutt it off is for they best 😊
To understand what he is saying you have to watch the full lecture
This is nothing to mock. Our women are abused and mother in law will go a very long way to shield their sons from the responsibility of the damage. You are describing gaslighting. All I hear is emotional constipation from the man and a need to be heard and to feel safe and provided for by the woman.
Your women aren't abused. People go to jail for domestic abuse. But your women don't go to jail for mental abuse such as the one in the video.
@@1eV domestic and emotional abuse aren't gender specific. Laws apply to everyone. But sure, make your case. Our women are abused. Too frequently. Too commonly. Despite the laws it is almost impossible to get what you are owed.
He mentions it works both ways at the end, that it could be the husband doing the wrong as well...this was part of a larger lecture where Nouman Ali Khan defined "space" as "giving someone your full attention, putting your phone down, carving space in your life for empathizing with the other and truly putting yourself in their shoes, sharing their joys and concerns fully as if you are them" ... He's basically saying in this clip that if you know someone isn't trying to truly see your point of view and really listen, then they are the wrong person to open up to, it will just backfire. He used an example of a wife, but it could be a husband, a parent, child, coworker, friend.
What is the name of full lecture this small parts are not enough
the lecture title is ‘First Act of Yusuf AS 5 Steps to Creating a Loving Family’ this account usually posts the full title in the description of their videos hope this helps inshAllah :)
@@saphyy9292 thanks brother
my husband did that to me once , i could tell straight away, he was making that up
Subhanallah, this was a much needed laugh 😂😂😂
No,not the same with everyone.
Agreed. He seems to have such negative connotations about marriage bec of his personal experience.
He should stick to discussing the Holy Qur'an as that is where his expertise is
Who said this is the experience of everyone?
@@manalcali153No. He should keep triggering feminists
@@manalcali153Did you actually watch the full lecture?
He talks about creating a loving family and uses Yacoub and Yusuf (as) as example.
Yacoub (as) gives a safe "space" for his son to open up.
But there are people who don't know how to, such as his step brothers. So you shouldn't open up to them.
In this clip, he gave a couple story here as an example of people who don't give safe space.
FQE needs to animate this
That was such a beautiful story, I wish it was longer. 😊
Can I just say, u a very good actor. U missed ur calling in Bollywood😂😂😂
But on.a serious note, Shukran for always giving us something to think of, teaching us with a smile
We’ve all been there at some point with somebody… 😢
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"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
Full lectures link please
Love this scenario, can I get the full lecture?
I think it’s 3 steps on creating a loving family
@@Khadijaunique thank you sister
It's not even a lecture...
That's what every men doing, dishonesty, he does not need to teach it more..
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Very funny but very negative. Men and women communicate at different levels. Many men avoid feelings so much women end up frustrated, the guy is often colour blind to what is bothering her so no wonder she shows her frustration in her conversation about last night. Now today in the car is the ridiculous but prob rare time she can speak privately to you. Id love to hear her "version of this video" 😂
Space is the ultimate panacea but it is hard to find.
"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
This makes me so much laugh!! 🤣
"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
What are you saying?
She made a career to read your face😂😂😂😂😅😅😅! Astagfirullah! You nailed it 😅
I'm not that type of woman, I'm lovely and wonderful #nodrama #onlysafety
Ofc
so do u want a cookie for being lovely and wonderful? 🫴🏼🍪 ...bc literally no one was asking 😶
Dont be a pick me
@@calypsokween3336Y u gotta be mean? Just leave her alone
What he is saying is accurate only in the sense if he had said spouse. Because the example can apply to husband or a wife. What he is saying about the wife can actually be applied to the husband.
More and more I believe we need qualified Muslim family therapists to help people navigate thru the barriers of communication in an Islamic way. We live in a time that is so dangerously packed with wrong information thrown at everyone, and it all sinks in without notice. Most people watch these idiotic dating shows on Netflix and they start acting the same way!!! People, men and women get back to what marriage is supposed to be in Islam, that’s the only way for us to be healthy. Imagine this, even the prophet had issues with his wives just like this probably so don’t think you’re immune from it or you know better.
My brother doing bill burr the whole time
Nasheed name?
Notice when the husband shared his feelings, the wife says "what about me?",thats selfish, we should care about other pple's feeling, not everything is about yourself.even after the husband shared his feelings it became an argument,, thats not healthy, that why he wanted not share.
Does anyone know the full link of this vid?
Video is called '5 steps on creating a loving family | Nouman Ali Khan'
Only Top G‘s can pass through this situation
I think this isn't that difficult to understand someone. Like for me if I was in her place I don't make that cuss. So you can also say Top G's didn't make such situations.
Don't give stupid speech to people's
Let's ask this Nouman to pls stay away from marriage topics & stick to discussing the Holy Qur'an as that is where his expertise lies.
He seems to have such negative connotations about marriage bec of his personal experience.
Please someone give the full link of the video
Video is called '5 steps on creating a loving family | Nouman Ali Khan'
@@learningadab jazakallah. May Allah reward you. And forgive ur sins and turn them into good deeds. Ameen
Aameen!
What is this 😒
Nouman seems to have such negative connotations about marriage bec of his personal experience.
Let's ask this good man to pls stay away from marriage topics & stick to discussing the Holy Qur'an as that is where his expertise lies
THANKU...
I m short of words.
I really don't kn wat to comment 😂.
"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
Cant stop laughing 😂😂
Name of this full lecture please
I think it’s 3 steps on creating a loving family Nouman Ali khan
Isnt he Omar Süleyman from Palestine? Or he just spiting image of him
Stop lieying about women's
😂 did it hit too close to home?
M not awith u for this time....u know what was said from wifes side Wallahi i have it said by a husband or a male figure n the what's done by husbands side i have seen on fomale figure.....
Not gender based is any reaction or action ttheory i tell u.....
I guess then if wommen have such a situation they can lie too.....
Just to b away from shaitans interruption
So what i mean to say is even husbands have the same view n they don't want to accpt their mistakes same for the women
The only conclusion to this is if one wants to not react n forgive show love they won't tell u anything even if they do they will ask for forgiveness n try to show love n respect
If one wants revenge tthey willl take aany how
So it's basically a whoever b it men or womeen facing it have to make reassons out
I guess this is what u were tryying to explain.... N ALHAMDULILLAHI u r making it easy to make peace n don't hurt nor get hurt policy.....
But that’s dishonesty…
Does he have a choice?
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This is so inaccurate
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"Any Uply Any Unmatter Together Any Uply O Allaahu Any Uply Any Love Any Uply Any As Any Uply Any Love Any Your Any Uply Upon Self Your [Allaahu],Any Uply Upon Any Prophet Any Muhammadin Any Uply Any Unmatter Together".
@@ServantOfAllaahu-1163 what?
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