First Act of Yousuf (AS) | 5 Steps On Creating a Loving Family | Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan

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  • @atravelertolight
    @atravelertolight 7 місяців тому +4

    SubhanAllah!!! SubhanAllah!!! Such an amazing lecture, full of wit and wisdom!!! I'm happy and so grateful that I came to know NAK and the works of Bayyinah. I have heard nobody making more relevance of the Quran to our lives than NAK. Alhamdulillah!!! Who says learning the Quran is boring!!!

  • @abdurrahmaan1949
    @abdurrahmaan1949 8 місяців тому +87

    5 love languages by Gary Chapman
    1. Words of affirmation ( words )
    2. Acts of service ( service )
    3. Giving gifts ( gifts )
    4. Physical touch ( affection )
    5. Quality time ( space )
    All of these and more are in the Quran and prophetic life ( sunnah )

    • @SarvinozKasimova-m3r
      @SarvinozKasimova-m3r 6 місяців тому

      Even here the 5th one is kind of paraphrased with what they got from "Space"...
      P.S. you can see what I mean in the comments section...

  • @roheenwali1612
    @roheenwali1612 8 місяців тому +129

    Bro just made me rethink my relationships with EVERYBODY lol😂
    Allah bless

  • @bakhtawarnawaz7791
    @bakhtawarnawaz7791 6 місяців тому +19

    Sometimes i just wonder how ustad is able to manage his family, institute and all these tours together. He's such a Legend❤❤

  • @MoonLight-rc6xy
    @MoonLight-rc6xy 8 місяців тому +42

    I have learned from my 21 years old son he ends his calls mom love you and he thought me this magic word. May Allah bless him and guide him to right path

  • @ienehanceit
    @ienehanceit 8 місяців тому +89

    I paused and read to the recitation of the Surah and came back here and I could have never imagined there was so much wisdom behind an Ayat and Ustaad has that skill, Mashallah

    • @black.muslimah
      @black.muslimah 8 місяців тому +2

      subhanALLAH

    • @meenotu5973
      @meenotu5973 8 місяців тому +4

      allahumma barak

    • @INSPIRED.Humanity
      @INSPIRED.Humanity 8 місяців тому

      ❤MashAllah beautiful lecture..easy to understand yet very deep in meaning. May Allah bless Ustaad with more knowledge inshAllah

    • @gemmameidia8438
      @gemmameidia8438 8 місяців тому +4

      Yep I do that to when I listen to ustadz, I can read Quran but dont really know about the language. It took hours to complete cause sometimes, the video did not provide the information about which surah which ayah that ustadz recite and I had to pause the video as well and google it to find out and match that with what ustadz read, but I think, that is one of the best way while learning Quran, and we are blessed with this technology. May Allah always guide us, ammeenn

    • @user-pj6bp6np8t
      @user-pj6bp6np8t 7 місяців тому

      Allahuma Baarik Amiin ✨🤲🏾

  • @maryamansari4896
    @maryamansari4896 8 місяців тому +144

    I can't even imagine the wisdom behind the 1 prahse in surah Yusuf . Thank you so much for such beautiful lesson that you have taught. May Allah be pleased with you and your family.

  • @tasnimkhan4545
    @tasnimkhan4545 Місяць тому +2

    Ustad NAK has always been my favourite speaker since day 1.
    He actually teaches Quran, Islam the way it is meant to be taught ❤❤.
    Rare find

  • @Siara259
    @Siara259 8 місяців тому +45

    "We hold love hostage"
    This made me cry.
    It shouldn't be that way.

  • @midnitkween8609
    @midnitkween8609 Місяць тому +1

    ❤the interpersonal connection between past and present. It reinforcement 4the youth to keep Islam alive in the future 🙌🏾

  • @FJ-gc5zd
    @FJ-gc5zd 8 місяців тому +53

    Five steps of creating a loving family
    1 Words
    2 service
    3 gifts
    4 affection (hand on the shoulder hug I miss you)
    5 space ( the most important one )

    • @KAhmed-wp5ui
      @KAhmed-wp5ui 8 місяців тому +4

      Thanks for this summary

    • @eddyb4
      @eddyb4 7 місяців тому +2

      Space= mindfulness or active listening

  • @sarahfitri8481
    @sarahfitri8481 5 місяців тому +4

    1. Express love with words
    2. Express love with service
    3. Gifts
    4. Affection (hugs, kisses)
    5. Space

  • @fit_me_up9355
    @fit_me_up9355 8 місяців тому +45

    I’ve never laughed this hard during a lecture he literally got all of us men and women

  • @BuNNy_x_rohan
    @BuNNy_x_rohan 10 днів тому

    yea allah gives me and my ostad the best jazah

  • @naushinatiq
    @naushinatiq 8 місяців тому +29

    I never laugh so much in my life listening to a lecture.nauman Ali khan is the best❤

  • @postmanmaj
    @postmanmaj 8 місяців тому +12

    Made me rethink my relationship with my children ...need to show this to my hubby as I think men especially in this changing parenting methods need the education as they only repeat what they have had the relationship with their own parents. Space is good but too much space is now the problem kids spend too much time in their rooms

    • @lilbillreacts7800
      @lilbillreacts7800 3 місяці тому

      sadly you missed the point. in too many ways😔

  • @CGO458
    @CGO458 7 місяців тому +4

    Surat Yusuf is my favorite! The amount of lessons we can from it is deeply touching, from every part. I highly recommend reciting, reading in shaa Allah🙏🏽

  • @sheryfida8810
    @sheryfida8810 3 місяці тому +1

    This is my 2nd time listening to this lecturer n yet, still lot of new thing i learnt.

  • @aaaj663
    @aaaj663 3 місяці тому +1

    ustad jazakallah ...thank you so much for sharing this beautiful lecture❤❤

  • @MABKBDS
    @MABKBDS 8 місяців тому +27

    'A family has to be one in which love is expressed'

  • @Muslimah-z2e
    @Muslimah-z2e 8 місяців тому +39

    Only Allah knows how hard ustad is studying to come up with such an amazing level of skills
    Tabarakallah May Allah increase you ustad

    • @M.A.Batool
      @M.A.Batool 8 місяців тому

      What to do with the 11 year old hates going to the school, argues fights n never happy with anything and anyone

    • @sazzadahmed2297
      @sazzadahmed2297 8 місяців тому +2

      @@M.A.Batool Maybe think of alternatives too. It may be that Allah has something else planned. The education system is quite long and can hinder the growth of independence. Maybe he can start business or go into a more specialized field of education early. Or maybe he needs help with homework, etc. to gain confidence in school. The point is don't try to force and threaten, but ask Allah (SWT) and look for solutions.

    • @ayesha7304
      @ayesha7304 7 місяців тому

      ⁠@@M.A.Batool Either you or someone else the child relates and bonds well with should find a quiet moment to sit down and openly speak to your child with full attention, no distractions, and coax your child to speak about school and what’s going on there. Your child is probably having a hard time with something, either making friends, bullies, difficulty in understanding their school work or even being afraid of a teacher. I had a problem once where my daughter who used to love school at grade 2 suddenly had a tummy ache, headache or some illness every other day at the start of grade 3 just so she would stay out of school which I comprehended as there being an underlying issue. I got her to start talking just conversationally first about friends, then anyone bullying her, then schoolwork and eventually got to the teacher and it turned out the teacher was a lot stricter than her previous teachers and my child was very afraid of her, not that the teacher had done anything to her. My daughter was just really afraid of doing something wrong to trigger the teacher’s anger. So I went to the school and spoke to the teacher but never came out and told the teacher directly that she was the cause of my child’s fear. I just explained the situation of the fake illnesses and asked the teacher to please keep an eye on my child as something was scaring her at school, like perhaps a bully, could even be something with her schoolwork. The teacher paid a bit more attention to my child and thereafter, I never had a complaint of pains again and school trips was definitely pleasanter. So, I suggest really taking the time to bond and find out what’s really going on.

  • @Siara259
    @Siara259 8 місяців тому +29

    Bro has me rethinking my entire life-relationships and gave 'Space' a different meaning!

    • @beepedude
      @beepedude 6 місяців тому

      You can't be having profiles with uncovered women even if it's just their hair. What if you gain sin when men look at it? Avoid sins before the Day of judgment comes and you're unprepared.

    • @emmadjordjevic8734
      @emmadjordjevic8734 3 місяці тому +1

      Respectfully you don't know if they are Muslim or not. Being covered or not is between them and Allah. It could be a male for all you know. If you were checking profiles you'd be here for the rest of your life. Sallam.

  • @fuhadakinbola969
    @fuhadakinbola969 8 місяців тому +26

    No one delivers stories better ❤😊

  • @polaris.spacex.event24
    @polaris.spacex.event24 8 місяців тому +4

    5 Situations: 18:39 - 43:09
    32:09 - 39:41
    42:05 - 44:31
    44:32 - 45:56
    46:35 - 47:21
    49:02 - 50:40 (Start 50:45)
    51:26 - 51:53
    52:48 - 53:24

  • @ayeshasheikh4501
    @ayeshasheikh4501 8 місяців тому +30

    This is funny yet informative ,,, long live brother nauman Ali khan

  • @asiyasheikh6835
    @asiyasheikh6835 28 днів тому

    Mashallah Allah bless you. Best lecture I ever heard.. It touched every part of my life. Hope I can give love to my family and improve relationships around me.

  • @Hihi-ef9fl
    @Hihi-ef9fl 2 місяці тому

    hia power to make something so serious so funny and teach so much at the same time is amazing allahumma barik

  • @turkiyeturkiye5525
    @turkiyeturkiye5525 8 місяців тому +3

    Me randomly saying I love you for no reason but only feel that I love my sons…and I hear from them reciprocating ❤

  • @MarcelinTaqua
    @MarcelinTaqua 2 місяці тому

    Thenk brother Nouman 😊

  • @alplatife
    @alplatife 8 місяців тому +22

    Ustad Nouman ....I like his sence of humor

  • @faryaarshad9846
    @faryaarshad9846 8 місяців тому +11

    Ustad nouman called out most of desi/southeast asian culture 😊

  • @mansurahad6281
    @mansurahad6281 6 місяців тому +6

    Syeikh Nouman Ali Khan is such a great gift from Allah SWT for the present generation. May Allah SWT protects him all the way. Aameen

  • @shabnamhassan6631
    @shabnamhassan6631 Місяць тому

    Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah though we are not lucky enough to attend such Lectures but Allah shukriya for its on our mobile UA-cam so much shukr gujar to allah for ths possibilities❤

  • @mdhelaluddin-s6l
    @mdhelaluddin-s6l 8 місяців тому +16

    One of the most important and educational videos I ever watched ❤❤❤

  • @MuhammadUzair-w7r
    @MuhammadUzair-w7r 6 місяців тому +1

    Ending advice about apologize is very true and helpful while we are not taught like this

  • @jawharpanna939
    @jawharpanna939 8 місяців тому +22

    This lecture worked just like a therapy to me, Alhamdulillah! May Allah bless Ustadh with a long healthy life.

  • @Itshiraaaa
    @Itshiraaaa 8 місяців тому +7

    The role space plays between two people is a key element in relationships and validates the pain of many when they feel as if something is wrong but can't explain it completely due to what they have been told is love from people/society. JazakAllah for this beautiful lesson as it sheds light on the importance of strengthening our relationships and the steps that can be taken to accomplish this. My heart is now at ease ❤

  • @sekolahkancil
    @sekolahkancil 8 місяців тому +11

    Ustadh was being all funny but I'm just crying because the space part really hurts.

  • @gaironesaibrahim7817
    @gaironesaibrahim7817 3 місяці тому

    slm what a beautiful explanation truth alghamdulilah its eye opening how we been program to take this behavior into generations

  • @padakutamatar7077
    @padakutamatar7077 3 місяці тому

    Reminds me of 5 languages of love
    Words
    Acts of service
    Gifts
    Touch
    Quality time

  • @sahraali8379
    @sahraali8379 2 місяці тому

    When I listened this lecture I thought it's taking to me, subxaana laah what a knowledgeable sheikh.

  • @farahnizamani9079
    @farahnizamani9079 2 місяці тому

    I love the story of Hazrat Yusuf as Allah SWT says “The Best Story “ however I love the ayah about Musa that Allah SWT says how He SWT has put love in others hearts for Musa !!! I belong to that story as all I see around me love and it’s all from Allah SWT .

  • @faizaanjum5288
    @faizaanjum5288 8 місяців тому +47

    I was there for this lecture! Seeing Ustad in person was such a surreal moment for me🥹 I absolutely loved this lecture and am so glad so many people were present to hear it

    • @talhairfan8521
      @talhairfan8521 8 місяців тому +1

      I hope u are not from Ohio..... Kidding. Allah bless you

    • @black.muslimah
      @black.muslimah 8 місяців тому

      MASHALLAH I'm so happy for you mu ukhti

    • @mubarakharuna4037
      @mubarakharuna4037 8 місяців тому +2

      The day I'd meet him. I won't know what to do. He's incredible! Hopefully he comes to Ghana or one day, I'll meet him in US in Shaa Allah

    • @beepedude
      @beepedude 6 місяців тому +1

      Faizaanjum, you shouldn't have that profile picture because it is usually haram to make animate beings(not counting camera photos or videos) so you shouldn't normalize drawings and creations like that.

  • @merveacipayam8271
    @merveacipayam8271 2 місяці тому

    Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shareqaazam9171
    @shareqaazam9171 6 місяців тому +1

    Amazing how comfortably and logically Noman Ali Khan goes into the depth of the Quran. I love listening to his soft soothing yet compelling explanations. May Allah bless him. Ameen

  • @sameehafarook5813
    @sameehafarook5813 7 місяців тому +1

    Masha Allah...Jazakallah khair...amazing!!

  • @alimatulhikmah5610
    @alimatulhikmah5610 8 місяців тому +3

    I'm happy that this topic is being discussed, and the story of Yousuf A.S. is the best loving relationship story in the universe. It's mentioned in the Quran, right? "Ahsanal qasas". This lecture made me rethink the people in my circle I'm living with. Some people out there, even the parents, are still alive, but both never show love expression to their children but expect the children to show love to them. I never had one. All my life, no one in the family taught me this, and taught me how to take care of my mom when I grew up.
    In the end, I discovered this myself of how to take care of my mom in a way that Allah loves because she is getting older now and has become a single mother and living together with her special daughter(Down syndrome). Both my beloved mom and my special sister are now under my care, and I am under Allah's care to take care of these two special human being in the world, even though no one taught me to do this. In short, I believe that the reason why I never had a chance to experience this in my life is that Allah wants me to only rely on Him(Allah). In my case, it takes a long time to train myself and remind myself to rely only on Allah. Since I was a child, and up until now, I still train myself to do this. Even though those people in my circle are the most beloved and special ones, I am responsible for taking care of them in a way Allah loves me to do. Never stop putting Allah in everything I do, insyaAllah. Maybe there are stories in the Qur'an that I have not discovered yet related to my situation.😄

  • @HalimaSaniTafida
    @HalimaSaniTafida 4 місяці тому

    Jazakallahu bikhair

  • @mochaudhry991
    @mochaudhry991 7 місяців тому

    Aameen Allah'Humma Aameen.

  • @noreensvlog2768
    @noreensvlog2768 6 місяців тому

    I love my children I always say I love you and when they are young baby always nice and good mother but sometimes naw after listening you I trying to beat thanks.

  • @maproductions6512
    @maproductions6512 8 місяців тому +2

    1) Words
    2) Service
    3) GIfts
    4) Affection
    5) Space 29:00

  • @cheetahjobs-vi6cw
    @cheetahjobs-vi6cw 8 місяців тому +7

    The one and only ustadh❤

  • @sirajummonira9108
    @sirajummonira9108 7 місяців тому +3

    That was sooo relatable

  • @yvonnes7412
    @yvonnes7412 7 місяців тому +1

    The part about kindergarten girls was hilarious and 100% accurate 🤣😂😅😂🤣😂😅😂🤣
    Great talk, thank you! may Allah bless you and strengthen our families 🤲 Ameen

  • @najlasalehi9874
    @najlasalehi9874 6 місяців тому

    I don’t watch or listen to ustad’s videos. I live them. U r all in one ❤

  • @bakhtawarnawaz7791
    @bakhtawarnawaz7791 6 місяців тому

    Ustad thank you very much. Its an amazing lesson. May Allah SWT bless you ❤❤

  • @NurayaHijab
    @NurayaHijab 7 місяців тому +2

    😅😅😅 i've been listening to many of ustadz Nouman video..this probably one if the most funny yet still full of wisdom

  • @Mujahidkhan-bt1bw
    @Mujahidkhan-bt1bw 7 місяців тому +1

    It was a reality check and hilarious at the same time.😂

  • @summerchase6005
    @summerchase6005 8 місяців тому +3

    I needed this! Subhan Allah. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless and preserve Nouman Ali Khan Aameen

  • @nurkisaleem19
    @nurkisaleem19 8 місяців тому +5

    Love the Humour 😂
    SubhaanAllah ❤️

  • @SSMSAAA
    @SSMSAAA 8 місяців тому +3

    Masha Allah such a beautiful and true talk I always enjoy listening to ustaad Nouman

  • @faridasayed4198
    @faridasayed4198 7 місяців тому +1

    Most of the time my son comes to me with big hugs, and he always says mom I love you. And I do same thing to him because he doesn’t get that from his father. When his father calls I love you son when you are coming over, I told my son tell your father when I get my driver license. My son is only 10 years old.

  • @aburaffe
    @aburaffe 6 місяців тому

    Barak Allah fee🤲🏼❤️

  • @Know_Allaah_The_All-Mighty
    @Know_Allaah_The_All-Mighty 8 місяців тому +1

    Inna Lillaahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajiun
    Jazak Allaahu Khayran
    Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!

  • @asfatahir3903
    @asfatahir3903 4 місяці тому

    Very thought provoking

  • @Ilmseriesofficial
    @Ilmseriesofficial 7 місяців тому +1

    Love the way he talks ❤

  • @RajaIdrees-e5c
    @RajaIdrees-e5c 7 місяців тому

    I really appreciate him for this beautiful wisdom

  • @HastiMoeini-l9k
    @HastiMoeini-l9k 4 місяці тому

    Amazing thank you👌👍🏻🙏

  • @brainswash7868
    @brainswash7868 6 місяців тому

    This is sooo good. Need to be taught world wide!!!!

  • @AbiiShah
    @AbiiShah 6 місяців тому

    I told my dad " I love you " when I was really young , I saw it in a movie but I felt REALLY embarrassed after that and even now thinking about it makes me a bit embarrassed.
    But with my mum , I tell her I love her whenever I see her

  • @karimibrahim5224
    @karimibrahim5224 7 місяців тому +2

    I have learnt so much from you. JazakAllah Alkheir

  • @LilLion1818
    @LilLion1818 8 місяців тому +27

    Next Level of the 5 Languages of Love 🫶🏽👍🏼

  • @muslima9488
    @muslima9488 8 місяців тому +2

    JazakAllahkhair May Allah reward you

  • @SadiaIqbal-t4n
    @SadiaIqbal-t4n 8 місяців тому +3

    Very deep analysis. Jazak Allah

  • @tahreemakhan-dq7tx
    @tahreemakhan-dq7tx Місяць тому

    This bayan is so relatable hahahahaha
    I

  • @marlenetasneem9509
    @marlenetasneem9509 8 місяців тому +2

    Surah Yusuf is my favorite surah among others .
    It resonates with so many.
    Alhamdulillah.

  • @ax_y
    @ax_y 5 місяців тому +1

    I was there

  • @fatimamudassar2049
    @fatimamudassar2049 8 місяців тому +6

    Mind blowing session I must say.... ❤❤❤ Brother Nauman you taught so many powerful lessons in this lecture connecting them with daily life incidents in a halirious way that I laughed out load, learnt and got Allah msgs given us in surah yousaf of beloved son.... What a detailed explanation of these two words❤❤❤😊May Allah bless you a healthy and protected life ameen.... Thanks for making us happy and learn big lessons at the same time😊

  • @FarsanaHaniffa
    @FarsanaHaniffa 8 місяців тому +6

    Assalamu alaikum usdhad
    May Allah bless you and your family
    This world and here after
    This video is heart touching and exposing the reality
    Jazakallah Khair

  • @abdhamidz4375
    @abdhamidz4375 7 місяців тому

    Tqvm

  • @Learn_with_Muqaddas
    @Learn_with_Muqaddas 8 місяців тому +1

    May Allah grant us understanding of Quran . Ameen

  • @modis_omar
    @modis_omar 6 місяців тому

    So wise

  • @BoredKidsTiredMom
    @BoredKidsTiredMom 8 місяців тому +1

    I named my son Yusuf ❤ he is born this February. The story of Yusuf A.S. is my most favourite. The start, the ending, the twists in the story... I cannot express how much it touches my heart. The role and dialogues of Yaqoob A.S. The personality of Yusuf A.S.
    May Allah help my son become a wise Muslim and has iman, haya, financial wisdom, patience, love for family and abundance of rizq as Yusuf A.S. ameen

  • @diloramp6693
    @diloramp6693 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your hard work, this is so profound ❤

  • @lubnashareef9123
    @lubnashareef9123 8 місяців тому +1

    Funny , fun listening, and v v effective

  • @tousifhasan1672
    @tousifhasan1672 8 місяців тому

    Words of love/kind words, Affection, Service, gifts, Space

  • @rhmk04
    @rhmk04 8 місяців тому +1

    I love this speech. It's wake up call for all moms.

  • @shabinaali5177
    @shabinaali5177 8 місяців тому +2

    USTAD IS USTAAADDDD

  • @hakimbahaman84
    @hakimbahaman84 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for provoking my thoughts and emotionally

  • @khurshidjahan695
    @khurshidjahan695 8 місяців тому

    Just mind blowing

  • @mss0206
    @mss0206 8 місяців тому +4

    thank you so much for sharing. We pray for you from germany. May allah bless you and bless all our youth

  • @zebamaliha8901
    @zebamaliha8901 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @tasneemrasool8222
    @tasneemrasool8222 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @zebamaliha8901
    @zebamaliha8901 8 місяців тому

    What a heart touching speech.. May Allah bless, Nouman Ali khan❤❤❤

  • @aniealja438
    @aniealja438 8 місяців тому +2

    SPACE- is so important. Thanks a lot for sharing this.

  • @zainabsibuma-omary7061
    @zainabsibuma-omary7061 8 місяців тому

    Masha Allah tabaraqallah, jazakalah khairan Ustaadh

  • @allinonegardenandkitchen435
    @allinonegardenandkitchen435 8 місяців тому +1

    Jazakallah khair

  • @ShireenNaidoo-d9l
    @ShireenNaidoo-d9l 8 місяців тому +5

    Award winning Performation brother Norman.U sooooo funny Love u for the sake of Allah

  • @user-rw3ve6sd5w
    @user-rw3ve6sd5w 7 місяців тому

    Amazing speech

  • @misstornton3848
    @misstornton3848 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks ❤