Mastering Confident Communication: 11 Tips for Dating, Job Interviews, and Social Success

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  • Mastering confident communication with 11 simplified tips! From dating advice to gaining job interview confidence - Like this video if you enjoyed these confidence boosting tips and conversation skills!
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    Timestamps:
    0:00 - 0:36: why we lose our confidence
    0:36 - 0:58: confidence tip 1 - use their name
    0:58 - 1:35: confidence tip 2 - listen without matching
    1:35 - 2:18: confidence tip 3 - settle in & slow down
    2:18 - 3:34: confidence tip 4 - stay curious
    3:34 - 4:17: break the habit - disclaimers
    4:17 - 4:47: break the habit - "just"
    4:47 - 5:40: break the habit - always/never
    5:40 - 6:33: break the habit - "I am"
    6:33 - 7:15: confidence tip 9 - breathe
    7:15 - 7:53: confidence tip 10 - accept
    7:53 - 8:52: confidence tip 11 - appreciate
    See you next time! ♡
    #conversationskills #confidentcommunication #confidencebuilding

КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @alylindic
    @alylindic  Рік тому +16

    “At the end of the day people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.”
    ― Maya Angelou

  • @bcs7748
    @bcs7748 Рік тому +7

    Your willing to help people out seems very genuine! Loved how slow you speak. I'm glad I discovered this channel. Thank you :) !

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  Рік тому

      thank you for sharing this kind comment! 🙏🏻

  • @TracyLindic
    @TracyLindic 2 місяці тому

    very awesome advice! Things I can work on… love this!

  • @taylorgant2502
    @taylorgant2502 11 місяців тому

    This was sooo great thank you !!

  • @lchristianrojas3713
    @lchristianrojas3713 Рік тому

    Thank you Aly for the content.

  • @theresabennett915
    @theresabennett915 11 місяців тому

    Blessings! Thank you.👍🙏

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching, Theresa! 🙏

  • @successkhumalo8889
    @successkhumalo8889 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for this ❤

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      OF COURSE! Thanks for being here 😄

  • @Rosie22112
    @Rosie22112 Рік тому

    Great video! subscribed💗

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  Рік тому

      Happy to have you here Juhi!! 🫶🏻

  • @jappie3143
    @jappie3143 11 місяців тому +1

    finally i found another channel with useful tips that make sense.
    I hope you will make it far on this platform and help way more people!
    - a new subscriber

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      Thank you for subscribing! I’m happy you’re here ☺️

  • @jacobstheory
    @jacobstheory 11 місяців тому

    I have read a lot about this subject but today I learned a few more things. Thank you. I feel excited about your future content.

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      Glad to hear you enjoyed, thank you for sharing! 🥹

  • @hamedshahheydari5585
    @hamedshahheydari5585 11 місяців тому +1

    wish you success for your channel

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      Thank you very much 🥹

  • @brycenwhitesides6866
    @brycenwhitesides6866 11 місяців тому

    Great tips!

  • @AbhisekPanigrahiCovariant
    @AbhisekPanigrahiCovariant Рік тому

    I love your energy!

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  Рік тому

      I'm so happy you're here! Thanks for sharing these kind words 🙏

  • @jaikumar922
    @jaikumar922 11 місяців тому

    Awesome boss 👍

  • @mrchaoslordlol
    @mrchaoslordlol 11 місяців тому +1

    Really Great video! Im coming from a 9 years long relationship absolutely lost on how to be single at 28 especially with dating nowadays being even beyond the knowledge of my degree 😅 I'm still bit negative if this works out somehow honestly but your video on that topic was very useful!

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому +1

      Enjoy this time of personal growth and expansion - it can be a very beautiful season if you allow it to be! Thank you for sharing! 🙏🏻

    • @mrchaoslordlol
      @mrchaoslordlol 11 місяців тому

      @@alylindic Really hope so that the beautiful part is gonna come soon around. Currently its still a bit awkward to do stuff alone

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 11 місяців тому

    Very Informative 💫
    Aly, How to eliminate feelings of nervousness & fear of not being able to prove myself next month when there will be a new job role ahead with lack of certainty about its profile & more confusions so how can i get prepared to face the potential challenges ahead without getting discouraged by such emotions?
    Also how to become highly adaptable to new changes & environment faster..

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you are eager to continue growing - that is great! Not knowing your specific role/what you do, I can give advice from the perspective I would take.
      If there is a lack of certainty of what's ahead, see what information you can ask about. Express your interest in growth from a standpoint of " I'm going to continue growing and I'd like to do it here".
      As far as not getting discouraged, know that you are in control of your life. Get really clear on what you want your life to be, what you want to spend your time doing, and know that you have the ability to make it happen.
      Our fate is not determined by staying locked into a 9-5 or a situation that doesn't serve us out of fear of what happens if we no longer have that "security". Know your worth, be clear on what you want, ask questions, and go get it!
      Best of luck!

    • @mohibquadri4053
      @mohibquadri4053 11 місяців тому

      @@alylindic Actually my issue is How to convince employers to hire me when i had a 4 yrs career gap just after my internship period due to covid & family reasons ? Also i haven't done any volunteer job or certification courses during this period but i have watched many useful lectures on UA-cam + all the essential skills required to do my role as hvac design engineer in Aec construction industry..so how to tailor my resume? Possible ways to handle upcoming challenges or opportunities to succeed without coming up across as unprofessional in any way ?? Any book recommendations on this topic to get selected would be helpful too...

  • @em-ju9wc
    @em-ju9wc 11 місяців тому +3

    loved the video!!!
    here's the summary
    1) ask and use people's name
    2) listen to people!!! don't try to bring ur stories to feel better
    3) take space, be confortable and slow down when needed
    4) ask questions, be curious
    5) stop giving disclaimers!!!
    6) stop saying "just" ( don't minimize urself)
    7) stop saying never and always
    8) stop using the phrase "i am..." show don't tell
    9) speak from the depth of who you are (calm down, breathe)
    10) accept compliments (thank you, i appreciate that!)
    11) end convos w thank yous and thank for what you learned

  • @mehmetucar3685
    @mehmetucar3685 Рік тому

    21. 🌼🌼🥰🥰

  • @SolidMGSnake
    @SolidMGSnake 11 місяців тому

    Just a small critique but the "pop" sounds in the video are too loud. Thanks for the tips.

    • @alylindic
      @alylindic  11 місяців тому

      Thank you!! I feel the same way ☀