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I cut off all family, friends, closed social media, and co workers. Had to switch my in person office day bc of ppls envy & harassment. Im at peace & happy & healthy. And doing phenomenal. ❤
somehow i have friends who are both jealous when I’m successful but happy when i’m down. I truly do not know why you would choose to be friends with someone you don’t like.
Because they leash on you. When you are down they feel superior, when you are well they feel threatened. There is nothing to understand, they use you, in a materialistic way or an energetic way. They are not your friend, they are snakes, cut ties right now before its too late.
There is some nuance to this. I think too many people, including myself, have learned unhealthy habits and do not know how to relate to others without being too self-serving, negative, dramatic etc.. Especially with women. There is a lot going on behind the scenes and not everyone is privy to what that is exactly. I grew up in a mean girl household. It was bully and be bullied. Therefore at times I'm the bad friend or I'm badly befriended. I'm now learning that I prefer being around people who are plain. As in, what I see is what I get behavior wise. No back stabbing, no gossip, a lot of silence without being shunned because of peace and so much more. I'm unlearning my bad habits and thus I'm attracted to healthier people.
I totally agree. Throughout the video, I mention how we’ve been given this blueprint of self and competitiveness, and unfortunately, we are all subjected to it. I feel that as we heal ourselves, we can better align and become better friends, as I mentioned in my own experience. But I think healing is tough-sometimes you have to live in the dark before you can see the light. I completely understand, and I’m glad you truly get the meaning of what my video is trying to say. ❤ I’m happy you’re here.
@@thenanajourney Thank you for responding. ❤️I agree, healing is essential yet at times excruciating to live through. I'll remember your quote about the light. Living in the dark is where we get to sprout as seedlings. Sometimes I forget that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I totally get this, you never know who is a hidden enemy. For this reason I am extremely private and never tell certain friends/family I get a weird vibes from good or bad news. Even at work no one knows anything about my private life or I am super vague on purpose
@@li.745 me too, I am just learning this in my 50's. I've over-shared and have had toxic people weaponize things against me. I am learning to protect my peace by being more mindful of things I say
This world is sad right now . . I think it makes them angry to see people that try to maintain a certain type of integrity because they know they aren't and really they have no excuse they CHOOSE to be that . I wouldn't classify some as human anymore they don't embody what the word human even means . I think your helping me to breathe lol. This is exactly what I've been looking for I love your channel . Your very inspiring and thankyou so much for sharing this .
Great information that you shared. You are right on the money. I've had several girlfriends who weren't really my friend, and I had to learn this the hard way. I'm usually pretty good at discerning people, but in my personal life I fail time and time again. But, I do have a narcissistic mother. So picking female friends might be off because of this.Thanks for sharing.
Aquatances masquerading as self sabotaging friendships are something i no longer seek. Outside of my home, there is no 1 to bring my peace down. I keep to myself & prefer it that way. Types like us seem to draw so few loving individuals while drawing so many broken toxic types. No friends & family means no stress for me personally. As always, authenticity will repel the many and draw the few.
@thenanajourney thank you & gratitude returned for your understanding. There are times when things do get abit lonely, dare I say sometimes it feels like a curse of sorts being on a journey of love strength & discipline. Regarding what you mentioned about us guys in the video pertaining to friendships. Trust me, we too have it difficult & challenging just as much. I feel both men & women are affected by today's issues globally. So many are walking among us as adults yet with traumatised child's minds. They are living through the 4 primary truma responses fight flight fawn & freeze. This explains the constant self-destructive impulsive behaviour many struggle with. Despite this, we are not responsible for being the therapist to everyone. The only individual we must compete with is who we were yesterday.
gosh, i thought i was the only person who dealt with this. its so hard to have friends that seem like they dont have your back and want you to be 'beneath' them all the time. its been so hard for me to find female friendship where its 'equal footing' you know? i dnk.
Seeing people suffer from these types of people made me feel grateful for my current set of friends. People I know I can talk to and share my worries with. It might've taken me my whole life currently to find them, but I'm glad I finally found people like me that just wants the best for each other. You really just have to pick them better, don't accept every single person that comes into ur life.
Thank you so much; it means a lot! I just hope we all find our peace. Welcome to the nana journey community! I hope you subscribe and stick around-we’re peaceful and positive over here. ❤
Gave this one a brand new pair of Steve Madden shoes, make-up and thought had good conversation ❤then after I leave, tell people that I’m jealous of them and the like. 😒
The bestfriend that I thought could do no wrong in my eyes, was sabbtaoging me, using me, a pathological liar. Wanted to see me fail so bad and was unhappy to see me win. Only when I went to therapy, I finally saw it. She tried ruining that for me too. Never ever would've thought that would happen to me.
My husband has a female coworker whom I have never met. My husband told her that I don't have any friends. He neglected to explain that it is by choice! This coworker of his is now DETERMINED to MAKE me her friend. (Those are her words!) WTF??? I've never met her, she knows nothing about me. What is she REALLY up to? I think she's after my husband. Why would she want to befriend a woman she's never even met?
i had a friend. she was my only friend, but deep down she irritated me because she has everything that i don't: friends, a plethora of gifts & talents, and things that i would consider luxury itens. But i don't have anything. i barley have a home. the only thing i have is this cellphone, a phone that i don't even own, a phone that's breaking. And she did was complain, which was more annoying
Exactly. After being used by so many of them and betrayed by my ex bff of 16yrs, not only am I happier without them in my life, I can be ME again and not feel so anxious. I enjoy my peace. 😊💪
I found this out the hard way at 28 I had to cut everyone out . I’m 29 now I’ve known them for 7 years . I’m an only child of 2 narcs I cut them out when I realized they were the same as my parents or would do the same kind of things as them One friend was a covert narc the other was overt just like my parents lol.
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When things don't add up...start subtracting.
i love that
Excellent ❤
Some of u, some of us, have FAMILY that don’t like us!
I totally understand it's painful but just know you're not alone in this ❤
@@thenanajourney Thank u🙏🙏🙏
@thenanajourney I have felt alone after finding out. You start to think there is something wrong with you. Wrong, you're surrounded by parasites.
*Many of us
I cut off all family, friends, closed social media, and co workers. Had to switch my in person office day bc of ppls envy & harassment. Im at peace & happy & healthy. And doing phenomenal. ❤
I understand you so well. Please remember you're not alone, and finding your peace and staying healthy are the most important things! Proud of you ❤
‘Some roads you have to take alone. No family, no friends, no partner, just you and God’ ❤🙏🏽
somehow i have friends who are both jealous when I’m successful but happy when i’m down. I truly do not know why you would choose to be friends with someone you don’t like.
Because they leash on you. When you are down they feel superior, when you are well they feel threatened. There is nothing to understand, they use you, in a materialistic way or an energetic way. They are not your friend, they are snakes, cut ties right now before its too late.
@@GoldenBeetl3 💯 won’t support you when your down but when you get back up again they gonna hate on you. I have no friends and no regrets about it lol
Yes. Talking with them sounds like an investigation rather than a conversation.
There is some nuance to this. I think too many people, including myself, have learned unhealthy habits and do not know how to relate to others without being too self-serving, negative, dramatic etc.. Especially with women. There is a lot going on behind the scenes and not everyone is privy to what that is exactly. I grew up in a mean girl household. It was bully and be bullied. Therefore at times I'm the bad friend or I'm badly befriended.
I'm now learning that I prefer being around people who are plain. As in, what I see is what I get behavior wise. No back stabbing, no gossip, a lot of silence without being shunned because of peace and so much more. I'm unlearning my bad habits and thus I'm attracted to healthier people.
I totally agree. Throughout the video, I mention how we’ve been given this blueprint of self and competitiveness, and unfortunately, we are all subjected to it. I feel that as we heal ourselves, we can better align and become better friends, as I mentioned in my own experience. But I think healing is tough-sometimes you have to live in the dark before you can see the light. I completely understand, and I’m glad you truly get the meaning of what my video is trying to say. ❤ I’m happy you’re here.
@@thenanajourney Thank you for responding. ❤️I agree, healing is essential yet at times excruciating to live through. I'll remember your quote about the light. Living in the dark is where we get to sprout as seedlings. Sometimes I forget that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
I totally get this, you never know who is a hidden enemy. For this reason I am extremely private and never tell certain friends/family I get a weird vibes from good or bad news. Even at work no one knows anything about my private life or I am super vague on purpose
@@li.745 me too, I am just learning this in my 50's. I've over-shared and have had toxic people weaponize things against me. I am learning to protect my peace by being more mindful of things I say
This world is sad right now . . I think it makes them angry to see people that try to maintain a certain type of integrity because they know they aren't and really they have no excuse they CHOOSE to be that . I wouldn't classify some as human anymore they don't embody what the word human even means . I think your helping me to breathe lol. This is exactly what I've been looking for I love your channel . Your very inspiring and thankyou so much for sharing this .
You’re absolutely correct!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
I'm glad you could relate to this ❤
Great information that you shared. You are right on the money. I've had several girlfriends who weren't really my friend, and I had to learn this the hard way. I'm usually pretty good at discerning people, but in my personal life I fail time and time again. But, I do have a narcissistic mother. So picking female friends might be off because of this.Thanks for sharing.
Same story with me, I'm working on it going forward🙏🌹
When are narc mums relations, personally I think the relations with other women will be affected and many become failures.
Aquatances masquerading as self sabotaging friendships are something i no longer seek. Outside of my home, there is no 1 to bring my peace down. I keep to myself & prefer it that way. Types like us seem to draw so few loving individuals while drawing so many broken toxic types. No friends & family means no stress for me personally. As always, authenticity will repel the many and draw the few.
Thanks for sharing you i totally get you and can relate to the things you said too! peace is our path ❤
@thenanajourney thank you & gratitude returned for your understanding. There are times when things do get abit lonely, dare I say sometimes it feels like a curse of sorts being on a journey of love strength & discipline. Regarding what you mentioned about us guys in the video pertaining to friendships. Trust me, we too have it difficult & challenging just as much. I feel both men & women are affected by today's issues globally. So many are walking among us as adults yet with traumatised child's minds. They are living through the 4 primary truma responses fight flight fawn & freeze. This explains the constant self-destructive impulsive behaviour many struggle with. Despite this, we are not responsible for being the therapist to everyone. The only individual we must compete with is who we were yesterday.
I relate to this so much
gosh, i thought i was the only person who dealt with this. its so hard to have friends that seem like they dont have your back and want you to be 'beneath' them all the time. its been so hard for me to find female friendship where its 'equal footing' you know? i dnk.
Those ones are out of my life, but I know exactly the inclination you’re speaking of.
Congrats for being able to spot and remove that energy I hope you're more at peace now and I'm glad you can relate to this ❤
Seeing people suffer from these types of people made me feel grateful for my current set of friends. People I know I can talk to and share my worries with. It might've taken me my whole life currently to find them, but I'm glad I finally found people like me that just wants the best for each other. You really just have to pick them better, don't accept every single person that comes into ur life.
Yeah! Once you wake up to these narcissists its easier to see what is below the surface. 🎉
You seem like a real genuine person. Your very calming and sincere with what you say.
Thank you so much; it means a lot! I just hope we all find our peace. Welcome to the nana journey community! I hope you subscribe and stick around-we’re peaceful and positive over here. ❤
Nina, u r not wrong about that jealous so called friend. Hope to have the skill to know the good ones over the jealous ones.
Good talk...you're doing great!
Thank you ❤
Gave this one a brand new pair of Steve Madden shoes, make-up and thought had good conversation ❤then after I leave, tell people that I’m jealous of them and the like. 😒
Keep up the great content Nana !!
The Captions messed up; it won’t happen next time, but that’s life-not everything is perfect. ❤
You remind me of me 😅 ❤
The human experience
The bestfriend that I thought could do no wrong in my eyes, was sabbtaoging me, using me, a pathological liar. Wanted to see me fail so bad and was unhappy to see me win. Only when I went to therapy, I finally saw it. She tried ruining that for me too. Never ever would've thought that would happen to me.
My husband has a female coworker whom I have never met. My husband told her that I don't have any friends. He neglected to explain that it is by choice! This coworker of his is now DETERMINED to MAKE me her friend. (Those are her words!) WTF??? I've never met her, she knows nothing about me. What is she REALLY up to? I think she's after my husband. Why would she want to befriend a woman she's never even met?
Humans are competitive creatures. Women against women and men versus men. It's nature.
Indeed
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Damn, guess I’m my only friend
i had a friend. she was my only friend, but deep down she irritated me because she has everything that i don't: friends, a plethora of gifts & talents, and things that i would consider luxury itens. But i don't have anything. i barley have a home. the only thing i have is this cellphone, a phone that i don't even own, a phone that's breaking. And she did was complain, which was more annoying
I have never bothered with friends. I am better off alone
I feel that's how i have my peace too 🫶
Exactly. After being used by so many of them and betrayed by my ex bff of 16yrs, not only am I happier without them in my life, I can be ME again and not feel so anxious. I enjoy my peace. 😊💪
@petsmart1000 most people are toxic. Most of us find we are better off being left alone
Me, Myself and I
@@RICHY8791 I am permanently single
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I found this out the hard way at 28 I had to cut everyone out . I’m 29 now I’ve known them for 7 years .
I’m an only child of 2 narcs
I cut them out when I realized they were the same as my parents or would do the same kind of things as them
One friend was a covert narc the other was overt just like my parents lol.