They want the highest form of love and respect. Anytime they don't receive that, the threat of violence and physical harm will be implemented to remind you to stay in your place.
This is precisely why I had to FORCE myself to leave. I can't stop crying and this is daily. I've never been SO emotionally abused in my life. My "husband" changed and fell out of love with me this June, we have been together for 8 years. I can't describe how emotionally distraught and devastated I feel. I'm 41 and lost all this time. I still love this man who treats me horribly because we had SO many beautiful, happy times and memories and went though things that the average couple don't go through. Too much to go into detail but I know most women and couples wouldn't be able to relate my story. The life events me and my soon to be ex have been through just will never happen to 99% of couples. That's why this bond is SO hard for me to sever. I'm crying even as I write this...
@@irinaivanovic9792 Men don't 'fall out of love' they devalue and discard once they accomplished their goals and/or found a new supply. Sorry for the heartbreak, now you know you must guard your heart above all else, because your life force comes from it, men don't deserve it...
@@irinaivanovic9792You need to dig deeper for more info before that divorce is finalized! Idk either of you, but it seems like he’s had an affair. Men randomly fall out of love when another woman is in the picture. ETA: I just realized you also mentioned he changed around the same time, so now I’m quite sure he had an affair. If I was you I’d begin looking for more info about her (most likely she’s a coworker, social media friend or she works somewhere he frequents). I’d also hire a P.I. before the divorce is finalized to get max benefits from the cheater. If he wants to leave for another woman then make it expensive!
Makes a nice change to hear some facts about alimony and child custody, instead of constantly hearing men complaining about women and blaming us for everything.
Fun fact, before child labor laws went into effect, custody was most often awarded to fathers after a divorce as children were a source of income. Once child labor laws went into effect, that flipped and women were often left completely destitute with mouths to feed and fathers often walked away without a care in the world.
Sounds like pretty soon they won't have much to complain about. If so few of them are married to women and they and WE don't want to date them, then I guess people can just go live their lives. Lol.
@@Liz-wz8dhalready starting. The movement of women going their own way or at least more are becoming happy in staying single catlady until a good man that shows similar values comes along. I think that's why XYs are obsessed with humbling us, cz they need us for their male loneliness epidemic but we're okay by ourselves unless a good man that meets our standards comes along.
@@PAL5041 Is precisely why women initiate 70% of divorce because they as emotional creatures can't handle the problems of marriages so they find an escape route in divorce settlement. Women are receivers men provide that's the traditional way of nature. That's why women go in for what's convenient a certain "prince charming" who will fulfill all their needs as if there's a perfect person man out there😅. Also they grew up being pampered by their parents/father who made them believe they're princesses and so thought marriage life will be the same I don't think those 70% men divorced were all wrong people...they had a wife who didn't have stamina for long term commitments which is rare in our modern society
My married friend (woman) went to couple therapy with her husband. After 5 sessions, the therapist guy called to talk to her in private. Told her that "This guy is long gone. File for divorce." She did and forgave the money to him and just ran from that marriage. Started her small business again and could not be happier today.😊
I see marriage as Cinderella in reverse. When you're dating you have prince charming and all is right with the world. The ball is your wedding day with all the bells and whistles to make you think that you are some sort of princess. That changes quickly in many marriages and the husband starts acting like the wicked step-mother, demanding, controlling and intimidating. Children come along like the wicked step-sisters, yes we love them, but it's a non-stop stream of demands and responsibilities. Not the fairy tale ending we've been taught, more like the beginning. Worn out, sitting in the ash heap and burning the candle at both ends.
Ohhh, my biggest fear is becoming a parent to a spouse. That’s something I see women do a lot of, even my mother does it. Like no, I want a partner not someone I have to constantly try to take care of and not receive anything back. We are supposed to work together not one put more effort than the other
The risky thing is, you don't know how it will go. I have seen men change after wedding day and after the first child and so on. How many men unalived their wifes nobody ever had thought of etc..
@@oOIIIMIIIOo for me that is why the risk isn’t worth it. You can never know who a person is when they are showing you the best parts of them until they think you are trapped.
I've had male friends (I genuinely thought were just friends and never implied anything else) and the moment they feel closer and relaxed with you, they start expecting you to take the mental load of their emotional struggles. Like, even before implying dating, some of them will start treating you as their teacher/mum/counselor. I mean there's nothing wrong with being vulnerable and opening up to a good friend. I actually expect that from a friendship. However, pouring all your problems to the friend and expecting them to not just comfort you, but to solve it all, is a bit much. I'm just a human and I wouldn't want to be seen as the solution to all your mental problems even if we were in relationship. Admit your issues, go to therapy, work to better yourself mentally, don't treat your female/AFAB friends as a free always available therapist plz.
I wish more women woke up to this. Meanwhile red pill content has thousands of likes. Thousands of men feeling sorry for themselves, demanding unconditional love while being resentful towards us.
They change the likes and the delete the comments...you will open up a page and literally watch the likes go down to zero from thousands. A comment will say 20 replies, open it up, only see 2. Even the internet favors the male....if it's not rigged the men can't seem more popular, what evs. If the men's pages were talking truth, they would be asking, why all the Priests still free, don't they care about the little boys? The men's pages are just being mad at women while ignoring what happens to boys by men. What about how it's only men at the top and they set inflation and unlivable wages...nope...they blame women for what men do. It's all rigged against women. Totally unfair. It's how you know men are weak to their souls.
Oh yeah! The level of entitlement and victimhood by men especially in those male forums is laughable. They’re always the victim, refuse to acknowledge they’re not carrying their weight and refuse to apologize when they’ve been aholes. Zero humility with them 😒
I got divorced at 28, was broke and had to pawn a lot of things to pay for rent and ate top ramen for a very long time, but it was worth it! Marriage is not for me at all 🤷🏼♀️
@@oOIIIMIIIOoI'd love if it we could create supportive communities for single people. I've felt quite lonely and abandoned after all my friends got married. The expectation is for me to find a male partner. But I've so far only ever felt sick and deeply unhappy in relationships with men. I was happier when I was in friendship groups without a romantic partner. It's weird that we're all expected to partner up with someone romantically and have sex with them all the time.
A lot. Majority even, I dare say, but there are plenty who see the value of the women in their lives (All of them. Mom, Aunt, Sister, Spouse, etc.) My hope is that their voices start to overtake the crazy, dusty ass "Alphas" as these issues continue to come to light.
This is why at 50 never married no kids fit and healthy and active i get regular compliments on my youthfulness- people constantly mistake me for being in my 30s- just today an acquaintance said the same 😂- leave the stress and drama behind - only allow a relationship that adds to your life instead of detracting from it 💯💯
This will absolutely be me in my 50’s. Manifesting it right NOW. I want nothing to do with men in that way or the (so-called) “trad-wife” lifestyle. I’d rather die young than waste my life on a relationship that conflicts with my peace.
My single mum that was still a student with barely enough money to feed us, didn't let us see our biological father after divorce because we were very young and when we did spend the weekend with him, we always came back malnourished, stressed and tired, been seen people we (or our mum) didn't know, been stayed overnight not on our father's apartment like promized but on his latest date's place, in worst case just simply been thrown into a house party of adult people. And the dude had the nerve to ask why she's denying him from meeting us like she was the evil one.
No. When the mother of my child tried to shut me out of our daughter's life. I filed for custody/visitation. I had no attorney and won joint custody. A good father is also a warrior and will move heaven and earth for his child/children
@@samuelbrown7831 do you know why you got the custody for your children? It's because you actually cared about them enough to file. The vast majority of men don't care enough to do that during the divorce. Some are even relieved that they're now free to sleep with anyone without their children and old wife slowing them down. The age old story.
All of this is true! My last divorce nobody had any huge assets. We had no children together or even a pet to argue over. Yet, looser bombarded me with calls and threats. He went on and on about smearing me. Do you know what he got for it? People puffed up his ego. I was made into a villain. How dare I nag and ask for what I want! It's like I think I am a person or something. LOL. My advice is until our culture makes major changes, don't get married. Stay single and have kids with those you can get along with to parent. If you prefer not to have children, get fixed so it does not happen by accident. I am now in my 50's, past childbearing years and single. I have not heard a peep from my Ex for years. Guess he had to go focus on his life and stop putting down mine. Good luck to him, he will need a big shovel to dig himself out of his crap.
Having children is too risky! Even if you have them within a marriage, know that men/husband/father of the kids can opt out of any and all care, maintenance, upkeep/culttivating/raising, the kids AT ANY TIME! Understand at the outset that you are THE defecto parent! Married single moms really is a thing! Men want to impregnate, and want the “public” status of having children (as props!), but aren’t interested in the work involved with raising them! Active fatherhood (even in marriage) is always optional and they can “opt out” at ANYTIME! But by all means, if women understand this, go ahead and have some children!
@@oOIIIMIIIOo Yep. A woman on clubhouse said her now ex husband SAd their daughter, and when she divorced him, he took her to court and won custody of their daughter he was already SA!
Facts! Only two downsides of single life : it’s expensive and the kids ideally deserves a father- but in comparison to marriage, it ain’t no nothing. Single life is true bliss! So much so, that I’m actually changing my mind on donor-conception.
u know eaven when ur married u dont have a father right? ''single amrried women'' are common my father exists and ''is a family man' i have issues like i never had any parents and dont have a father men just are tyranical and demand obediance and respect but never earn it , men will traffic their own daughters and sell them for men to get r or R THEIR KIDS THERMSELFES i wish i was in a orpahange id be less mentaly disabled and have a life
Single with no children actually isn't expensive AT ALL. I live a standard of life that many would consider "luxurious," yet I don't even make six figures per year. Being childfree enables me to invest any childcare money that I would've spent into my retirement, HEAVILY. Also, all of that extracurricular money that parents spend on children oes to my beauty and self-care needs and wants. Bank account/emergency fund sitting at 100k. I'm 49, so it took a while to build but it never felt like a sacrifice along the way. I also live in a very nice neighborhood which is in the medium range of cost. The only thing I don't do is travel because I simply do not enjoy it. I am also a generous gift-giver. But overall, single life for me is not expensive.
I have felt lonely and like crap my entire life, it just doesn't get better. After nine years of marriage, I just accept that life is dangerous and I'm f***ed. The desire to be loved and safe is nothing more than a monkey's paw. You end up way worse than when you just wanting wishes to come true.
I was in a lesbian marriage and was totally in charge of finances, all of the care for our dogs, worked a full time job and was parenting my spouse. Whenever I asked for help, the response she gave me was 'you got it'. It was exhausting and infuriating.
Thank you for sharing. I was in a similar situation, and every time I hear women saying "solve the men problem by dating other women"…I roll my eyes. We need good partners, be it men or women- it comes to the same issue. Partnership. Gay marriages are no different
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I see this happen to many... men value women only when you are still young just wait till you give him the kids he wanted and you pass +40 he will start to browse younger good and leave you new single mommy created! all that health decline and career damage for dude who left anyways? no ty! better to be by yourself than be in unhappy marriage until you lost everything. Witnessing another divorce.. * shake head once dude said: who will protect you me: aww honey nobody protected me from anything in my life I protected myself with my own fist men never ever helped me
"you need men to protect you" most guys can't even change a tire or change the oil these days... lol and you ask them to do something for you and they only will if they think it might lead to sex.
Wadsworth using the word "resentment" =Using the word "resentment" is lazy simplification. Words like grief, bewildered, exasperation, betrayal, disheartened are closer to the mark. Also, I'm assuming "resentment" aids a husband to infantilize his wife so he he doesn't feel a need for self-examination.
The woman at 4:30 is the spitting the real truth. This is why I believe it’s unfair women have such a limited time to produce children. The pressure of college at 18 isn’t fair to us because most of the time we are so into our studies we have no clue of how to date by 25. Then we marry men we don’t love just so we can have a child before 30 etc. it’s really sad when you think about it❤
Having kids at 18 are a huge mistake. Date through college FOR EXPERIENCE not marriage. Your brain isn’t fully developed and your romantic relationship skillset is still a working in process. You have 10 years from then to pick a father to your kids.
I kinda disagree. You can date in college and while studying, so it's not that drastic. You might choose the wrong partner because it's the first one, but the same happens on the other side.
The wealthy peeps I know are marrying and popping out babies, every single year, in friend groups, Dad groups, Mom groups. I've never seen it this busy, these past 6 years, marriages galore at the top. It's about money. The wealthy peeps don't have to cook, clean or raise their kids, so there are no "roles" to act out. No one is the bread winner as both are trust funders, no one has to take care of the home or finances or anything, they have people who do that. Marriage is about wealth and partying. Who do you enjoy traveling and partying with. Who will lie for you and say you're a wonderful person and hide all your secrets and what not. I have never seen a monogamous wealthy couple. They rarely divorce - breaks up the wealth. They gave poor/middle peeps aka their slaves religion to imprison themselves amongst themselves, which is why the wealthy created religion - to control the poor/middle. Notice all religions say suffer until you end and then you'll be rewarded? I've met some of the peeps whose family created religion. All three major ones are the same. Just different names etc. The wealthy laugh their beehinds off at the poor/middle believing the be fruitful and multiply their livestock for the wealthy to trade on the stock exchange....in God they trust on their $. Marriage is just a production, a show. People pay you in "gifts" for all the dough you shell out for their "entertainment." It's a man made creation to breed women and sell their fruit to make bread/$. It's why it's called she's been bred for bread/$. The moment a woman has complete financial freedom, health and is in a safe space, she doesn't get with a man. Men create poor peeps, etc. to force women to want to be with them. Health insurance used to be tied to your job or marriage. Again, a control feature on the population. You put a bridle on a horse and a bit and the reigns to control what the horse can see, where it can go, etc. A bride, after her bridle shower and wed lock, her hubby reigns over her controlling what she can see, learn, how healthy she can be, where she can go - all through finances/religion/society/cultural norms against women around the world. Where in the world can women go to be safe and away from men? That's by man made design. Y'all need to start thinking bigger. We need a safe country, a safe world for women - that means no longer acting the roles, the fools, men want you to. No more marriage. No more babies. No more slavery. Period. End of story. Just say no to anything the male asks for, they have shown all women, all around the world, this is a prison for women. All for men to e jack. Really think about it. The whole world caters to his wee wee. It's all about his fountain going off as many times as he wants - women, children, animals, the whole world be dammed because he wants to come. Time to rise and shine Daughters.🥰
That's what I realized just this past year - that the whole system has been set up specifically to put women down and keep them there. It is a world that unlearned to be female - that unlearned to be balanced. Before the so-called major religions we now know, God was a woman, and High Priestesses were closest to her. Goddesses were referred to as 'cunts'. It is quite obvious how it happened that we today know this only as a derogatory term - the meaning has been inverted in order to erase spiritually powerful womanhood. And just by coincidence all the seeming 'light figures' in male form came along around the same time. And suddenly God was supposed to be male. What happened to the term 'cunt' is just the same they are trying to do with the term 'woman'. They are trying to first loosen, then invert its meaning in order to erase true women. And just by coincidence they come up with seemingly 'advanced' technologies, like artificial wombs... But apparently, nothing ever has to do with anything, and there's certainly no agenda there to be aware of. No no no. Just numb yourself in empty hedonism that actually removes you from the ability of embodying your soul - which is what you came here for, but who cares - and keep feeding the death system with your fragmented self. Anytime you betray the will of your soul, you fragment yourself. Which is why the system constantly requires you to do just that - don't follow your heart, follow your ego, don't feel love and joy, feel fear and pain. It is a system of war against the true spirit living inside of us. And it can only die once we stop feeding it through our self-betrayal, by making ourselves small. We have to remember our true size and embody that authentically with everything we do. True authenticity is the antidote.
Thought provoking comment. My last two exes wanted me to be a domestic housemaid they could sleep with. That's not what I want so I ended things. I'm single because I feel there's a lot I won't put up with that other women do. The very existence of pron, schmex workers and all those massive billion dollar industries is because of male wants and behaviours. I find all those industries dark and disturbing, I'd rather stay home and garden and bake and be in the company of animals. I don't think all men are bad but it does feel like good ones are rare. The main challenge for me currently is earning enough to support myself. I notice how most male dominated industries pay well whilst jobs women tend to prefer pay badly which must be by design.
@katec9893 Exactly. Think about it, majority of chefs and janitors are men. They can cook and clean very well, however, only if they get paid. Women are supposed to do the same job at home 7 days a week no vaca or pay at home. Men know what they're doing to women and laugh. They feel zero and I mean less than zero remorse.
Marriage is work and many people are too lazy to work on themselves in order to be fit for marriage. People expect the dating life to be the same as marriage. Or how their daddies treated them as princesses to reflect same in marriage...a life without problems So they get there and met with shock and want to go back.
Learning the signs of unhealthy peope has hekped me a lot and made me realize that not having parents to guide their children to vet properly. Yes thisbcan happen reguarless, but it's important to break these toxic cycles!
4:57 This is soo true. Women know better after 30 but this is also why in the past, they got women to marry earlier because there is no discernment there. So most men that would not be chosen otherwise, now get a chance when a woman is young and naive. Luckily. Young women now are very wise. Also most marriages do not come to women until about 27-35+. So it shows you that despite being young, they still aren’t marrying these women because they cannot afford it. They just want to spin plates. That’s it.
Marriage should be outlawed there is no point in doing so. I tell my daughter never to get married nor have kids. I want her to experience freedom and happiness away from these traditional roles imposed on women to drain women.
I have a formerly close family member. She married this NIGERIAN man (he grew up in Europe - NOTE) but basically ENSLAVED her whilst he focussed on himself, his career and living his best life. He is basically an AWFUL person and watching their relationship made me so wary of getting married. SOO much that is said here I have seen to be true in the lives of many of the women I grew up around. They did NOT divorce though, they just got on with it.
Yep. I left for all of the above. I decided I preferred happiness and safety over a partner. I never felt so alone as when I laid next to my ex. He was so physically close and so emotionally/mentally distant. No man = no loneliness. Now, if only I could get strange men on the street to leave me the tuck alone.
We were raised with wrong cultural attitudes regarding roles. Men are going to have to get over some stupid expectations. Nobody has time to play pretend roles anymore.
The idea of relationship,marriage and children is part of human CULT-ure, so everyone can think why is that so deeply rooted in human psyche.Anyway,my point is life has to do with choises so an attractive face can hide so much for that long but after all decide what gives peace,abundance and wellbeing.Chaising after beauty is useless because time and circumstances can make somebody ignoring and not feeling even attracted to what once had so much influence over ones' mind,the outside fades away thanks to time so what remains after matters the most
Increased responsibility & financial risk were just 2 of the many, many reasons this 57 yr old lady never married & boy are the times validating my choices!😂
I'm watching this video because I cancelled a date tonight. He is 6'4" dark hair and blue eyes. The problem is he lives with his brother and from what i can tell, only works part time. His parents raised his son. I'm afraid of turning into a mother figure for him. A situation where I pay all the bills and cook, and clean. Pretty much just like my marriage. He has been very direct that he wants to move in and build a classic car in my garage. He wants go invite friends over for a bonfire.
All this is fine, but many many times it’s clear how things will be later and they proceed to marriage expecting to “change” the other person. That’s not going to happen and any red flag is likely to get worse.
Women leave failed marriages because they were the ones who initiated the project called marriage in the first place. And when your project fails you are the one who leaves. Most men would not get married unless they are pushed by women in the first place.
It's better to not have a husband then have a husband who is not doing anything around to even help like a single wife and a single mother so it's better
They're worse of financially and in dating for sure, but they overall feel better and less burdened. Data shows women even lose weight as a result of less stress
It is better for women not to marry at all, hence stay since. Marriage is more damaging to women in alot of way including divorce, since divorce benefits the man more. It may take a while to get your life back together after a divorce to be as content and happy as singles are.
Utter nonsense. Women marry anyone (because their friends have and they want a husband too) then they realise they have been hasty so they drive him out. The marriage rate has collapsed. Good.
Show me the data and statistics to prove your elementary school thought process? Because you can literally google the REAL reasons women dare and then divorce their husbands.
This is such a sad comment section. Some ladies have a true hate for men which is heart breaking. Anyways, I hope you all find your person and lead happy lives.
Not everyone will get married. Some are meant to remain single. And that’s ok. Even better according to Paul in the Bible. Marriage unfortunately has become an idol for lots of women especially.
@@ThisBraveHeart I love how when wmn express just not wanting to be in a relationship/marriage with a guy or avoiding mn it’s translated into man h8ing. Meanwhile mn literally have centuries worth of history/content of misogyny. I hope you don’t have a daughter, you’ll teach her to be a doormat for the feelings of mn.
I think that divorce happen mainly women are not submitted to their partner. The nature of things is for men to dominate and women be submitted and be subserviant to their MAN. It is the nature of things and until women obey and husband dominate it won't get better.
Girl please, some men are con artists. I saw one wait for years to get the girl. Once he got her, back to games as usual. Sheesh! Besides that men do the chosen...
XYs: Women are much happier when they have a husband and children
Also XYs: Women initiate 70% of divorces
XYs?
@@Londoloza031men .. (XY chromosomes)
This needs to be pinned!!!!
😂😂😂😂They’re such a funny bunch.
Because UA-cam will remove your comments if you speak negative about XYs
Because why stay with someone who makes you feel worthless while you are giving them your all
They want the highest form of love and respect. Anytime they don't receive that, the threat of violence and physical harm will be implemented to remind you to stay in your place.
This is precisely why I had to FORCE myself to leave. I can't stop crying and this is daily. I've never been SO emotionally abused in my life. My "husband" changed and fell out of love with me this June, we have been together for 8 years. I can't describe how emotionally distraught and devastated I feel. I'm 41 and lost all this time. I still love this man who treats me horribly because we had SO many beautiful, happy times and memories and went though things that the average couple don't go through. Too much to go into detail but I know most women and couples wouldn't be able to relate my story. The life events me and my soon to be ex have been through just will never happen to 99% of couples. That's why this bond is SO hard for me to sever. I'm crying even as I write this...
@@irinaivanovic9792 Men don't 'fall out of love' they devalue and discard once they accomplished their goals and/or found a new supply. Sorry for the heartbreak, now you know you must guard your heart above all else, because your life force comes from it, men don't deserve it...
@@irinaivanovic9792did he attracted to younger ladies? Why was he changed?
@@irinaivanovic9792You need to dig deeper for more info before that divorce is finalized! Idk either of you, but it seems like he’s had an affair. Men randomly fall out of love when another woman is in the picture.
ETA: I just realized you also mentioned he changed around the same time, so now I’m quite sure he had an affair. If I was you I’d begin looking for more info about her (most likely she’s a coworker, social media friend or she works somewhere he frequents). I’d also hire a P.I. before the divorce is finalized to get max benefits from the cheater. If he wants to leave for another woman then make it expensive!
Makes a nice change to hear some facts about alimony and child custody, instead of constantly hearing men complaining about women and blaming us for everything.
Fun fact, before child labor laws went into effect, custody was most often awarded to fathers after a divorce as children were a source of income. Once child labor laws went into effect, that flipped and women were often left completely destitute with mouths to feed and fathers often walked away without a care in the world.
Sounds like pretty soon they won't have much to complain about. If so few of them are married to women and they and WE don't want to date them, then I guess people can just go live their lives. Lol.
@@coleengoodell7523That's interesting. Never thought of that.
@@Liz-wz8dh😂😂😂Interesting indeed.
@@Liz-wz8dhalready starting. The movement of women going their own way or at least more are becoming happy in staying single catlady until a good man that shows similar values comes along. I think that's why XYs are obsessed with humbling us, cz they need us for their male loneliness epidemic but we're okay by ourselves unless a good man that meets our standards comes along.
Men have no clue how heavy emotional lifting is. It’s absolutely draining if you’re with the wrong person.
I always say that there are two things they are too weak to carry
Babies and feelings.😂
@@PAL5041
Is precisely why women initiate 70% of divorce because they as emotional creatures can't handle the problems of marriages so they find an escape route in divorce settlement. Women are receivers men provide that's the traditional way of nature.
That's why women go in for what's convenient a certain "prince charming" who will fulfill all their needs as if there's a perfect person man out there😅. Also they grew up being pampered by their parents/father who made them believe they're princesses and so thought marriage life will be the same
I don't think those 70% men divorced were all wrong people...they had a wife who didn't have stamina for long term commitments which is rare in our modern society
Single women and MARRIED men! The happiest people 😊
My married friend (woman) went to couple therapy with her husband. After 5 sessions, the therapist guy called to talk to her in private. Told her that "This guy is long gone. File for divorce." She did and forgave the money to him and just ran from that marriage. Started her small business again and could not be happier today.😊
May God ETERNALLY BLESS that marriage counselor for discreetly telling that woman the truth!🎉🙏😊
I see marriage as Cinderella in reverse. When you're dating you have prince charming and all is right with the world. The ball is your wedding day with all the bells and whistles to make you think that you are some sort of princess. That changes quickly in many marriages and the husband starts acting like the wicked step-mother, demanding, controlling and intimidating. Children come along like the wicked step-sisters, yes we love them, but it's a non-stop stream of demands and responsibilities. Not the fairy tale ending we've been taught, more like the beginning. Worn out, sitting in the ash heap and burning the candle at both ends.
Sadly, it is too often the case. Would you consider to write a novel based on your Cinderella in reverse story? It is a great story seed.
@@anikozoe5028RIGHT. She could also make content on this too. 💯
@@anikozoe5028yesss
Well said!
Beautiful metaphor, and also frightening to imagine.
Ohhh, my biggest fear is becoming a parent to a spouse. That’s something I see women do a lot of, even my mother does it. Like no, I want a partner not someone I have to constantly try to take care of and not receive anything back. We are supposed to work together not one put more effort than the other
The risky thing is, you don't know how it will go. I have seen men change after wedding day and after the first child and so on. How many men unalived their wifes nobody ever had thought of etc..
@@oOIIIMIIIOo for me that is why the risk isn’t worth it. You can never know who a person is when they are showing you the best parts of them until they think you are trapped.
@@Purplelemon5033 wow thats so sad.
I've had male friends (I genuinely thought were just friends and never implied anything else) and the moment they feel closer and relaxed with you, they start expecting you to take the mental load of their emotional struggles. Like, even before implying dating, some of them will start treating you as their teacher/mum/counselor.
I mean there's nothing wrong with being vulnerable and opening up to a good friend. I actually expect that from a friendship. However, pouring all your problems to the friend and expecting them to not just comfort you, but to solve it all, is a bit much. I'm just a human and I wouldn't want to be seen as the solution to all your mental problems even if we were in relationship. Admit your issues, go to therapy, work to better yourself mentally, don't treat your female/AFAB friends as a free always available therapist plz.
I wish more women woke up to this. Meanwhile red pill content has thousands of likes. Thousands of men feeling sorry for themselves, demanding unconditional love while being resentful towards us.
They change the likes and the delete the comments...you will open up a page and literally watch the likes go down to zero from thousands. A comment will say 20 replies, open it up, only see 2. Even the internet favors the male....if it's not rigged the men can't seem more popular, what evs. If the men's pages were talking truth, they would be asking, why all the Priests still free, don't they care about the little boys? The men's pages are just being mad at women while ignoring what happens to boys by men. What about how it's only men at the top and they set inflation and unlivable wages...nope...they blame women for what men do. It's all rigged against women. Totally unfair. It's how you know men are weak to their souls.
And then they dont want to give anything back but expect to be served on a golden/diamond plate -_-
The power of association by men is way stronger.
Don’t forget their habit of claiming they have a “right” to sleep around.
Oh yeah! The level of entitlement and victimhood by men especially in those male forums is laughable. They’re always the victim, refuse to acknowledge they’re not carrying their weight and refuse to apologize when they’ve been aholes. Zero humility with them 😒
I got divorced at 28, was broke and had to pawn a lot of things to pay for rent and ate top ramen for a very long time, but it was worth it! Marriage is not for me at all 🤷🏼♀️
Women should relearn to support each other.
@@oOIIIMIIIOoI'd love if it we could create supportive communities for single people. I've felt quite lonely and abandoned after all my friends got married. The expectation is for me to find a male partner. But I've so far only ever felt sick and deeply unhappy in relationships with men. I was happier when I was in friendship groups without a romantic partner. It's weird that we're all expected to partner up with someone romantically and have sex with them all the time.
@@katec9893😅who you think came up with that plan?😂
@@sallyhemings2295 Haha men for sure. A lot of things in society seem to be about men's you know what's getting serviced 😆😂🤣
Totally. I'm 40 and starting over from scratch. No regrets at all.
The men in the stitch surprised me with emotional maturity in deeply understanding the issue. A lot of men prefer to blame women.
They’re professionals who speak truth because they want to see change in marriages. They’re helping other men to work on themselves.
@@biblethumper8088no…the bald guy WAS speaking to men.
He’s literally giving advice to men.
A lot. Majority even, I dare say, but there are plenty who see the value of the women in their lives (All of them. Mom, Aunt, Sister, Spouse, etc.) My hope is that their voices start to overtake the crazy, dusty ass "Alphas" as these issues continue to come to light.
This is why at 50 never married no kids fit and healthy and active i get regular compliments on my youthfulness- people constantly mistake me for being in my 30s- just today an acquaintance said the same 😂- leave the stress and drama behind - only allow a relationship that adds to your life instead of detracting from it 💯💯
This will absolutely be me in my 50’s. Manifesting it right NOW.
I want nothing to do with men in that way or the (so-called) “trad-wife” lifestyle. I’d rather die young than waste my life on a relationship that conflicts with my peace.
If you hear any man saying: “She won’t let me see mah keedz” or “Da koortz always side wit da mama” send them this video. *chef’s kiss* 😎
My single mum that was still a student with barely enough money to feed us, didn't let us see our biological father after divorce because we were very young and when we did spend the weekend with him, we always came back malnourished, stressed and tired, been seen people we (or our mum) didn't know, been stayed overnight not on our father's apartment like promized but on his latest date's place, in worst case just simply been thrown into a house party of adult people. And the dude had the nerve to ask why she's denying him from meeting us like she was the evil one.
No. When the mother of my child tried to shut me out of our daughter's life. I filed for custody/visitation. I had no attorney and won joint custody. A good father is also a warrior and will move heaven and earth for his child/children
@@samuelbrown7831 do you know why you got the custody for your children? It's because you actually cared about them enough to file. The vast majority of men don't care enough to do that during the divorce. Some are even relieved that they're now free to sleep with anyone without their children and old wife slowing them down. The age old story.
I tell everyone, men and women. Don’t get married. It’s not what you think. It can be the worse decision of your life.
All of this is true! My last divorce nobody had any huge assets. We had no children together or even a pet to argue over. Yet, looser bombarded me with calls and threats. He went on and on about smearing me.
Do you know what he got for it? People puffed up his ego. I was made into a villain. How dare I nag and ask for what I want! It's like I think I am a person or something. LOL.
My advice is until our culture makes major changes, don't get married. Stay single and have kids with those you can get along with to parent. If you prefer not to have children, get fixed so it does not happen by accident.
I am now in my 50's, past childbearing years and single. I have not heard a peep from my Ex for years. Guess he had to go focus on his life and stop putting down mine. Good luck to him, he will need a big shovel to dig himself out of his crap.
Having children is too risky! Even if you have them within a marriage, know that men/husband/father of the kids can opt out of any and all care, maintenance, upkeep/culttivating/raising, the kids AT ANY TIME!
Understand at the outset that you are THE defecto parent! Married single moms really is a thing!
Men want to impregnate, and want the “public” status of having children (as props!), but aren’t interested in the work involved with raising them!
Active fatherhood (even in marriage) is always optional and they can “opt out” at ANYTIME!
But by all means, if women understand this, go ahead and have some children!
They can also take away your kids to punish you. Don't forget that.
@@oOIIIMIIIOo Yep.
A woman on clubhouse said her now ex husband SAd their daughter, and when she divorced him, he took her to court and won custody of their daughter he was already SA!
@user-od5fh3gn4d So sad. 😞 I’m sorry you had to go through that!
Facts! Only two downsides of single life : it’s expensive and the kids ideally deserves a father- but in comparison to marriage, it ain’t no nothing. Single life is true bliss! So much so, that I’m actually changing my mind on donor-conception.
No kid deserves a father. Most are shit and set bad examples. If he cannot treat you right, he shouldn’t be in your kids lives.
u know eaven when ur married u dont have a father right?
''single amrried women'' are common
my father exists and ''is a family man'
i have issues like i never had any parents and dont have a father
men just are tyranical and demand obediance and respect but never earn it , men will traffic their own daughters and sell them for men to get r
or R THEIR KIDS THERMSELFES i wish i was in a orpahange id be less mentaly disabled and have a life
Kids deserve a GOOD father. Just having A father is not an improvement.
@@Liz-wz8dhexactly. Children deserve two parents who work well together, and who are able to prioritise their children’s needs.
Single with no children actually isn't expensive AT ALL. I live a standard of life that many would consider "luxurious," yet I don't even make six figures per year.
Being childfree enables me to invest any childcare money that I would've spent into my retirement, HEAVILY. Also, all of that extracurricular money that parents spend on children
oes to my beauty and self-care needs and wants.
Bank account/emergency fund sitting at 100k. I'm 49, so it took a while to build but it never felt like a sacrifice along the way. I also live in a very nice neighborhood which is in the medium range of cost.
The only thing I don't do is travel because I simply do not enjoy it. I am also a generous gift-giver. But overall, single life for me is not expensive.
I have felt lonely and like crap my entire life, it just doesn't get better.
After nine years of marriage, I just accept that life is dangerous and I'm f***ed. The desire to be loved and safe is nothing more than a monkey's paw.
You end up way worse than when you just wanting wishes to come true.
I can relate - sending you hugs... 🤗🤗🤗
I had a women sit next to me the other day and she confided in me her husband is bad and I should not get married
Dang
I was in a lesbian marriage and was totally in charge of finances, all of the care for our dogs, worked a full time job and was parenting my spouse. Whenever I asked for help, the response she gave me was 'you got it'. It was exhausting and infuriating.
Thank you for sharing. I was in a similar situation, and every time I hear women saying "solve the men problem by dating other women"…I roll my eyes. We need good partners, be it men or women- it comes to the same issue. Partnership. Gay marriages are no different
@@mirand0la gender means nothing, it definitely depends on the person.
@@mirand0lathat's very interesting.
Holy Christ!! These women/men were dropping gems!!! This video was Spot on! Just wow!
No need to take the Lord's name in vain.
All eyes on Jesus, the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Who Is Jesus the Christ?
Your Question Will Be Answered Today, if you take the time to read.
Amen! I love you Lord!
Jesus The Messiah (Yeshua Ha Mashiach). Christ is our Living Passover(Our Living Sacrifice)
Acts Chapter 4 verse 12: "There is no salvation through anyone else, nor is there any other name under heaven given to the human race by which we are to be saved.”
Isaiah 9 vs. 6, "For unto us a Child is born. Unto us a Son is given, and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name shall be called Wonderful, Counselor, *Mighty God,* Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.“
The Virgin Birth
Christ, born of a virgin, Mary.
Matthew Chapter 1 verse 20: "Behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to him (Joseph), in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for that (Christ) which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit."
Jesus, the Christ, is God’s Word made into flesh.
1 John chapter 5 verse 7: "For there are 3 that bear a record in heaven, The Father, The Word, and the Holy Spirit: and these 3 are one.”
John chapter 1 verse 1: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."
John chapter 1 verse 14: "And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.”
John chapter 1 verse 10: "He was in the world, and the world knew Him not.”
Hebrews chapter 4 verse 12: ”For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”
John’s Vision Of Christ Seated On His Throne In Heaven:
Revelation chapter 4 verse 2 to 3: "Immediately, I (John), was in the Spirit, and behold a throne sat in Heaven, and One sat on the throne. And He who sat there was like a jasper and a sardius stone in appearance, and there was a rainbow around the throne, in appearance like an emerald.”
Why did Christ Jesus came and sacrificed His precious life for sinners like us? Because through Adam’s disobedience, sin and death entered the world, and all human race. Christ came to undo the sin and eternal death brought upon the world through the sin of Adam. Christ, who is God’s Word made into flesh, sacrificed His life for us. He was crucified for our sins and transgressions. Christ died, and on the third day He resurrected in the flesh, conquering death and the grave. Now, Christ is seated in Heaven, at the right hand of Power (God the Father). Through Christ’s sacrifice we gain Salvation through God’s abundant mercy and grace. We are reconciled and recompensed back to God, through the shed blood of His begotten Son, Christ Jesus.
John chapter 3 verse 16: "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him, shall not perish, but have everlasting life.”
Romans chapter 5 verse 8: "But God demonstrates His love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
Death in Adam, Life In Christ:
Romans chapter 5 verse 19: "For as by one man’s (Adam’s) disobedience, many were made sinners, so also by one Man’s(Jesus's) obedience, many will be made righteous.”
Romans chapter 5 verse 18: "Therefore, as through one man’s (Adam’s) offense judgement came to all men, resulting in condemnation, even through one Man’s (Christ’s) righteous act, the free gift came to all men, resulting in the justification of life.”
Romans chapter 5 verse 17: "For if by the one man’s offense (Adam’s offense), death reigned through the one, much more those who receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in the life through the One (Jesus Christ)."
Romans chapter 5 verse 12: ” Therefore, just as through one man (Adam) sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned.”
Romans chapter 5 verse 21: “So that as sin reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
Through Adam, sin and death entered the world, so that is why Christ Jesus came to give life, and give it more abundantly. Yes, Christ came to give eternal life through Salvation. The Salvation of His shed blood, and resurrection.
Adam’s flesh brought sin, death, destruction, and condemnation.
1 Corinthians 15 : 21-22, “For since by man came death, by Man also came the resurrection of the dead. For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ, all shall be made alive.”
Christ’s sacrifice, the crucifixion of His flesh, brings reconciliation of sins, resurrection, eternal life, salvation.
Christ is coming back again, not as a sacrificial lamb. He is coming back as a roaring, warring lion, to destroy sin, death, and the grave once and for all.
Amen! Halleluyah!
Revelation chapter 22 verse 12 to 13: "And behold, I come quickly, and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be. I am the Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last.“
Now do you see friends, why Christ Jesus is so Important for our Salvation? Yes.
Now, do you understand why there is only 1 way to God, and that is only through Christ Jesus? Yes.
Christ is Salvation. Christ is our Lord and Saviour. Christ is the only way to God. Christ is the only Mediator between God and men (us humans).
God loves us so much, He does not want anyone to perish in hell. God wants all sinners to be saved. That is why He sent His Word to save the world. God’s Word became flesh, and dwelt among us to save us. Will you accept Christ and be saved? Your eternity depends on it. What happens after death is what is most important. Where will you spend eternity? Death is only the beginning of the next life.
Romans chapter 6 verse 23: ” For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
John Chapter 3 verse 16: ” For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life.”
Salvation is free!
Christ already paid the price, all you have to do is receive salvation through acceptance of Jesus Christ, Yeshua Ha Massiach.
So who is Christ?
He is the Word Of God made into flesh. He is the Son of God. He is God. He is the Image of the Invisible God. He is the Alpha and Omega. He is the Beginning and the End. He is the Great I Am. He is Emmanuel. He is the Christ. He is the Messiah. He is the Creator. He is our Lord and Saviour. He is our Mediator. He is the Lion and the Lamb. He is the Rock not cut out by human hands. He is the Root of David. He is Salvation. He is the Way, the Truth, and Life. He is the blessing promised to Abraham. He is the Gift of God to the whole world.
God created the heavens and the earth with His spoken Word. Did you know that Jesus is that Word, through which all things were created? Yes.
John chapter 14 verse 6: "Jesus said to him,” I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
Colossians chapter 1 verse 15 to 16: "He is the Image of the Invisible God, the Firstborn over all creation. For by Him all things were created that are in heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers. All things were created through Him and for Him.”
John chapter 1 verse 1 to 4: "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made. In Him was life, and the life was the light of men.”
Christ is for all who will receive Him.
Will you receive Him today?
This is how our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ said we should pray. Matthew chapter 6 verse 9 to 13: KJV
“Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name, Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, As we forgive our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.”
Now that you understand who Christ is, share Christ with others. Christ is The Good News. What do we do with good news? We share it. Amen!
Repent of your sins. Leave a lifestyle of sin. Sin no more! Be baptized in Jesus Name.
Submit to God.
Love God with all your heart, mind, body, soul, and spirit. Keep God’s Commandments, (read Exodus 20: 1- 17, see the 10 Commandments of God).
Love one another.
Forgive one another.
It is written, “resist the devil, submit to God, and the devil will flee from you.”
Hate sin with all your heart, mind, body, soul, and spirit.
* Hebrews 10: 26, KJV, " For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins."
Acts 11 vs. 15 to 16, ” And as I began to speak, The Holy Spirit fell upon them, as upon us at the beginning. Then I remembered the word of the Lord, how He said, “John indeed baptized with water, but you shall be baptized with the Holy Spirit.”
Psalm 68, verse 4 KJV: " Sing to God, sing praises to His name; Extol Him who rides on the clouds, by His name Yah, and rejoice exceedingly."
Halleluyah!
Lord Jesus, The Living Water!
Baptize me, with your Holy Spirit!
Please write my name in Your Book of Life. You are my Lord and Saviour, from now on, and for ever. Never leave me, nor forsake me. I belong to You.
I forsake this world, sin, and all worldy distractions. I make you priority in my life. Please remove all agents and devices of "the evil one" from me, and from my body. Thank You Lord!
I see this happen to many... men value women only when you are still young
just wait till you give him the kids he wanted and you pass +40
he will start to browse younger good and leave you
new single mommy created!
all that health decline and career damage for dude who left anyways?
no ty! better to be by yourself than be in unhappy marriage until
you lost everything. Witnessing another divorce.. * shake head
once dude said: who will protect you
me: aww honey nobody protected me from anything in my life I protected myself with my own fist
men never ever helped me
"you need men to protect you" most guys can't even change a tire or change the oil these days... lol and you ask them to do something for you and they only will if they think it might lead to sex.
Wadsworth using the word "resentment" =Using the word "resentment" is lazy simplification. Words like grief, bewildered, exasperation, betrayal, disheartened are closer to the mark. Also, I'm assuming "resentment" aids a husband to infantilize his wife so he he doesn't feel a need for self-examination.
The woman at 4:30 is the spitting the real truth. This is why I believe it’s unfair women have such a limited time to produce children. The pressure of college at 18 isn’t fair to us because most of the time we are so into our studies we have no clue of how to date by 25. Then we marry men we don’t love just so we can have a child before 30 etc. it’s really sad when you think about it❤
Having kids at 18 are a huge mistake. Date through college FOR EXPERIENCE not marriage. Your brain isn’t fully developed and your romantic relationship skillset is still a working in process.
You have 10 years from then to pick a father to your kids.
I absolutely can relate. 🌺🌺🌸🌸
While men have been having it all , a chance to get a career and a family because they don’t have to give birth / raise children .
Nature favours XYs. Women were always oppressed by society and by nature. I laugh at xys when they whine about "males have it soooo hard"
I kinda disagree. You can date in college and while studying, so it's not that drastic. You might choose the wrong partner because it's the first one, but the same happens on the other side.
The wealthy peeps I know are marrying and popping out babies, every single year, in friend groups, Dad groups, Mom groups. I've never seen it this busy, these past 6 years, marriages galore at the top. It's about money. The wealthy peeps don't have to cook, clean or raise their kids, so there are no "roles" to act out. No one is the bread winner as both are trust funders, no one has to take care of the home or finances or anything, they have people who do that. Marriage is about wealth and partying. Who do you enjoy traveling and partying with. Who will lie for you and say you're a wonderful person and hide all your secrets and what not. I have never seen a monogamous wealthy couple. They rarely divorce - breaks up the wealth. They gave poor/middle peeps aka their slaves religion to imprison themselves amongst themselves, which is why the wealthy created religion - to control the poor/middle. Notice all religions say suffer until you end and then you'll be rewarded? I've met some of the peeps whose family created religion. All three major ones are the same. Just different names etc. The wealthy laugh their beehinds off at the poor/middle believing the be fruitful and multiply their livestock for the wealthy to trade on the stock exchange....in God they trust on their $.
Marriage is just a production, a show. People pay you in "gifts" for all the dough you shell out for their "entertainment." It's a man made creation to breed women and sell their fruit to make bread/$. It's why it's called she's been bred for bread/$. The moment a woman has complete financial freedom, health and is in a safe space, she doesn't get with a man. Men create poor peeps, etc. to force women to want to be with them. Health insurance used to be tied to your job or marriage. Again, a control feature on the population.
You put a bridle on a horse and a bit and the reigns to control what the horse can see, where it can go, etc. A bride, after her bridle shower and wed lock, her hubby reigns over her controlling what she can see, learn, how healthy she can be, where she can go - all through finances/religion/society/cultural norms against women around the world.
Where in the world can women go to be safe and away from men? That's by man made design. Y'all need to start thinking bigger. We need a safe country, a safe world for women - that means no longer acting the roles, the fools, men want you to. No more marriage. No more babies. No more slavery. Period. End of story. Just say no to anything the male asks for, they have shown all women, all around the world, this is a prison for women. All for men to e jack. Really think about it. The whole world caters to his wee wee. It's all about his fountain going off as many times as he wants - women, children, animals, the whole world be dammed because he wants to come.
Time to rise and shine Daughters.🥰
Excellent comment! 100000000000000 %!
That's what I realized just this past year - that the whole system has been set up specifically to put women down and keep them there. It is a world that unlearned to be female - that unlearned to be balanced. Before the so-called major religions we now know, God was a woman, and High Priestesses were closest to her. Goddesses were referred to as 'cunts'. It is quite obvious how it happened that we today know this only as a derogatory term - the meaning has been inverted in order to erase spiritually powerful womanhood. And just by coincidence all the seeming 'light figures' in male form came along around the same time. And suddenly God was supposed to be male.
What happened to the term 'cunt' is just the same they are trying to do with the term 'woman'. They are trying to first loosen, then invert its meaning in order to erase true women. And just by coincidence they come up with seemingly 'advanced' technologies, like artificial wombs... But apparently, nothing ever has to do with anything, and there's certainly no agenda there to be aware of. No no no. Just numb yourself in empty hedonism that actually removes you from the ability of embodying your soul - which is what you came here for, but who cares - and keep feeding the death system with your fragmented self. Anytime you betray the will of your soul, you fragment yourself. Which is why the system constantly requires you to do just that - don't follow your heart, follow your ego, don't feel love and joy, feel fear and pain. It is a system of war against the true spirit living inside of us. And it can only die once we stop feeding it through our self-betrayal, by making ourselves small. We have to remember our true size and embody that authentically with everything we do. True authenticity is the antidote.
Thought provoking comment. My last two exes wanted me to be a domestic housemaid they could sleep with. That's not what I want so I ended things. I'm single because I feel there's a lot I won't put up with that other women do. The very existence of pron, schmex workers and all those massive billion dollar industries is because of male wants and behaviours. I find all those industries dark and disturbing, I'd rather stay home and garden and bake and be in the company of animals. I don't think all men are bad but it does feel like good ones are rare. The main challenge for me currently is earning enough to support myself. I notice how most male dominated industries pay well whilst jobs women tend to prefer pay badly which must be by design.
@katec9893 Exactly. Think about it, majority of chefs and janitors are men. They can cook and clean very well, however, only if they get paid. Women are supposed to do the same job at home 7 days a week no vaca or pay at home. Men know what they're doing to women and laugh. They feel zero and I mean less than zero remorse.
@@katec9893 it is by design.U are correct!
I've had this occur -- he was "released' from My company within two years... Within 5 years his addiction killed him.
Marriage for a woman is putting yourself in bondage.
Marriage is work and many people are too lazy to work on themselves in order to be fit for marriage. People expect the dating life to be the same as marriage. Or how their daddies treated them as princesses to reflect same in marriage...a life without problems
So they get there and met with shock and want to go back.
Exactly and why do I want to sign up for that
Well,I'm divorced, and I got everything, my freedom and peace!❤
Wow I am blow mind. These statements are so true! Thank you.
Learning the signs of unhealthy peope has hekped me a lot and made me realize that not having parents to guide their children to vet properly. Yes thisbcan happen reguarless, but it's important to break these toxic cycles!
Yep. Just sticking to dating other women.
4:57 This is soo true. Women know better after 30 but this is also why in the past, they got women to marry earlier because there is no discernment there. So most men that would not be chosen otherwise, now get a chance when a woman is young and naive. Luckily. Young women now are very wise. Also most marriages do not come to women until about 27-35+. So it shows you that despite being young, they still aren’t marrying these women because they cannot afford it. They just want to spin plates. That’s it.
Marriage should be outlawed there is no point in doing so. I tell my daughter never to get married nor have kids. I want her to experience freedom and happiness away from these traditional roles imposed on women to drain women.
That’s how every mother should think imo. You’re doing a good job!
I've been telling women this forever. I am #TeamJada
I have a formerly close family member. She married this NIGERIAN man (he grew up in Europe - NOTE) but basically ENSLAVED her whilst he focussed on himself, his career and living his best life. He is basically an AWFUL person and watching their relationship made me so wary of getting married. SOO much that is said here I have seen to be true in the lives of many of the women I grew up around. They did NOT divorce though, they just got on with it.
Amazing stuff👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Thank you 🙌
Yep. I left for all of the above. I decided I preferred happiness and safety over a partner. I never felt so alone as when I laid next to my ex. He was so physically close and so emotionally/mentally distant. No man = no loneliness. Now, if only I could get strange men on the street to leave me the tuck alone.
This was the most complete video on the topic 👏
We were raised with wrong cultural attitudes regarding roles. Men are going to have to get over some stupid expectations. Nobody has time to play pretend roles anymore.
Esp when we're fully performing in our expectations & they're always excused for COMPLETELY DROPPING THE BALL ON THEIR'S.
#throwthewholepatriarchyaway
The idea of relationship,marriage and children is part of human CULT-ure, so everyone can think why is that so deeply rooted in human psyche.Anyway,my point is life has to do with choises so an attractive face can hide so much for that long but after all decide what gives peace,abundance and wellbeing.Chaising after beauty is useless because time and circumstances can make somebody ignoring and not feeling even attracted to what once had so much influence over ones' mind,the outside fades away thanks to time so what remains after matters the most
"she doesn't have support from her husband"- i hate this wording. a man participating in his own life isn't doing it just to support women.
Marriage per se is good, the problem is the two people that make the marriage.
It's not necessarily good per se...
Definitely not good for women - I pass
DoctorWadsworth thank you thank you! You nailed it on the head!
Divorced, kids grown, Luv life ❤️.
Increased responsibility & financial risk were just 2 of the many, many reasons this 57 yr old lady never married & boy are the times validating my choices!😂
Women esp mothers should have their own supportive community of. Women like living with other mums. Women are much more helpful to each other.
Last girl is spot on
I’m really sick of the financial abuse.
This is SPOT on!!
I'm watching this video because I cancelled a date tonight. He is 6'4" dark hair and blue eyes. The problem is he lives with his brother and from what i can tell, only works part time. His parents raised his son.
I'm afraid of turning into a mother figure for him. A situation where I pay all the bills and cook, and clean. Pretty much just like my marriage.
He has been very direct that he wants to move in and build a classic car in my garage. He wants go invite friends over for a bonfire.
I know this comment was a month ago but I hope you aren't stuck with that hobosexual
All this is fine, but many many times it’s clear how things will be later and they proceed to marriage expecting to “change” the other person. That’s not going to happen and any red flag is likely to get worse.
AMEN
Some from column A, some from column B, C,D…..
So many older women tell me not to get married - I didn’t plan on it anyway unless it really benefits me but I know I’ll never ever have children!
Single and never dealing with another man again after narcissistic absue snd trsuma
It is possible to be happily married. I am. Advice? Marry your best friend and start living together for some years before marriage
That man @ 3:09. Is smart.
Also because of manipulation and disrespect..
Sounds like a burden, not a blessing, as many want you to think.
Women leave failed marriages because they were the ones who initiated the project called marriage in the first place. And when your project fails you are the one who leaves. Most men would not get married unless they are pushed by women in the first place.
It's better to not have a husband then have a husband who is not doing anything around to even help like a single wife and a single mother so it's better
yesss
And in divorce you’re still covered
I only bullshit I hear are selfish men and women.
People want happiness - which is very overrated.
So woman are the one who ask for the divorce. Let me ask you a question who pressure the other party more for marriage in the first place.
I think we have no clue on how to communicate properly so we shame and blame?
Amen
Theres a contradiction. If women do better single, how is it that women do worse after divorce. Makes no sense
How do you know they do worse? I've only ever heard women feeling happier after divorce
They're worse of financially and in dating for sure, but they overall feel better and less burdened. Data shows women even lose weight as a result of less stress
Because they now have kids. If you don't have kids, you are better off.
It is better for women not to marry at all, hence stay since. Marriage is more damaging to women in alot of way including divorce, since divorce benefits the man more. It may take a while to get your life back together after a divorce to be as content and happy as singles are.
Women - men don't know how to communicate.
Also women - why don't you know what I'm thinking and feeling...
Utter nonsense. Women marry anyone (because their friends have and they want a husband too) then they realise they have been hasty so they drive him out. The marriage rate has collapsed. Good.
The fuck are you yapping about?
Show me the data and statistics to prove your elementary school thought process?
Because you can literally google the REAL reasons women dare and then divorce their husbands.
@@Asigedge He is in Lalaland.
How’s life out there in delulu-land?
and why did her friends get married ? Duh . patriarchal pressure to be “owned by a man” before 30.
This is such a sad comment section. Some ladies have a true hate for men which is heart breaking. Anyways, I hope you all find your person and lead happy lives.
Yup - have a good day with your crusty husband Felicia
@@eumeliacorona9824 I hope that you find happiness in whatever you choose to do.♥️
Not everyone will get married. Some are meant to remain single. And that’s ok. Even better according to Paul in the Bible. Marriage unfortunately has become an idol for lots of women especially.
@@mrenae6798 you’re 100% correct and I agree. But it’s not okay to express outright hate towards men and categorize them all as the same.
@@ThisBraveHeart I love how when wmn express just not wanting to be in a relationship/marriage with a guy or avoiding mn it’s translated into man h8ing.
Meanwhile mn literally have centuries worth of history/content of misogyny.
I hope you don’t have a daughter, you’ll teach her to be a doormat for the feelings of mn.
I think that divorce happen mainly women are not submitted to their partner. The nature of things is for men to dominate and women be submitted and be subserviant to their MAN. It is the nature of things and until women obey and husband dominate it won't get better.
Cheesus Christ you need some medical treatment
You're messed up.
@@iamblackthornedude wants to legalize slavery again😅 what a clown
I agree, messed up in so many ways
You're still a child if you think that's the main problem 😅
Choose better partners and y’all wouldn’t be complaining
Choosing better will mean not choosing men at all
Deeply misoginistic, no, it is not women fault it is men fault for never improving
Thats why divorce exists. Many people hide their true selves until they have you “trapped”.
Girl please, some men are con artists. I saw one wait for years to get the girl. Once he got her, back to games as usual. Sheesh! Besides that men do the chosen...
Wow! You must be the friend, sister and sister in law from hell! Imagine hearing that from someone you love when your marriage ends.