Self Love is a requirement not an option
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
- Self love is the practice of being kind to yourself, treating yourself with respect, and taking care of your mental and physical health. It means having a positive attitude towards yourself, recognizing your strengths, and being comfortable in your own skin. It is not about having an inflated sense of self-importance or engaging in selfish behavior; rather, it is about learning to appreciate and accept yourself, flaws and all. It is an important part of living a balanced and healthy life.
It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the Womens magic truths on borlest :D
I use to think it was just a saying however , self love is imperative. If you don’t love yourself, you can never truly love nobody else or allow others to love you fully. Without Self love you can never reach your full potential. Self love is a requirement you’re right.
Bought myself some flowers… little gesture and I haven’t stopped smiling when I look at them. Honestly I’m resting more instead of doing things that I feel I would make a priority over my rest. Needed this message ❤
We are on a similar journey ! How beautiful is it to put yourself first 🧘🏾♀️💋💕
Your voice is so relaxing. And the substance of what you are sharing is grounded and integrated within your self world-concept. It is beautiful to see peace embodied! Thank you for being you Lisa Marie.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I appreciate every single word! Thank you so much
Amen! I’m struggled with self love for YEARS and bc of that I seeked validation heavily!!!
Same, sis. :(
Same
Me too it feels like I always need finding to make me happy but in reality I be unhappy a** F***
@The Mary Elizabeth not overlooking your comment, but many males also feel like that, look around, uou se it all the tune! It's Not just a uou or female thing!
1OO% Selflove is enough, and people love is extra, be yourself cheerleader.
I was in a car accident which resulted in really bad ptsd and low confidence. I needed this thank you.
You’re so welcome
Part of self love is allowing Jesus Christ to fill our hearts up and fill those voids where no one else ever could. Knowing Jesus in a personal relationship makes any partner just an added bonus. Also, your voice is so relaxing. Thanks for these vids! God bless ❤
So true. And he'll never leave you or forsake you
Perfectly said
My inadequacies make me feel extremely hard to love, even within and to myself. I find myself not being able to “think” as well because I am burdened by negative thoughts of all the “flaws” I have. It really feels as if every single person is deserving of love except for me. I think people speak on self love a lot, but do not acknowledge how difficult it is within itself to find, or to give to oneself when it feels better and easily to not love yourself, instead of attempting the journey to love something, you don’t even like.
Whewww I felt this 😢😢😢😢 much love to you sister
i know you arent asking for advice so you're fully valid to ignore me. what truly helped me not utterly hate myself was writing out every "flaw" I believed I had and then finding the opposite within myself. the opposite of any negative attribute you think you have is present in you. you simply cant have one without the other. no one exists as one-dimensionally to only be made up of a few "flaws". it is so hard to truly find things to like about yourself, so start as small as possible. sometimes i have to imagine myself as my own best friend and describe her how a true bestie would and it makes me feel good and gives me some laughs. i wish you all the best
So real 😮
I feel you. I was very much in the same energy a few years ago. What changed was when I realized that God knows and understands me better than anyone, including myself. Him knowing every single part of me and STILL choosing to show me goodness, favor... blessing me with whatever He has blessed me with, THAT changed me. If the Almighty can accept me, who am I to continue rejecting myself? Have I mastered this? Nope! But I'm on the journey. YOU'RE on the journey!! While you may not acknowledge it, you've started. That's awesome! ❤
@@oliviolet147 I’m going to give this a shot! Thank you!
Kind suggestion, as a photographer, I would suggest that you could perhaps rotate the plant on the left that is leaning on it's side. Rotate it in such a way that it appears more vertical in the video. Additionally, make sure that you camera is also angled in such a way that the pictures on the wall are also not leaning towards on side but feels horizontally balanced. The reason is that this may create the conditions for additional peace and calm subconsciously for the viewer. It's not a criticism, it's a kind suggestion. Feel free to ignore this! Thank you for your share!
Thank you so much! I will definitely correct this. I appreciate you
@@SeasonedDialogueYour voice BEAUTIFUL 👑 QUEEN...WOW!!! 👍🙏😘🙏
Focusing on the wrong thing impacts your mental health 🧘🏾♀️💕 if it’s off putting i would try to put your device down and just listening . Never allow optics to alter your mental space or your opportunities to get the message! Hope this is something you may consider useful ! 🧘🏾♀️ namaste
@@MissNamaSlay Thank you for your kind suggestion. I appreciate you. I was simply offering some constructive feedback from the perspective of a photographer, so that the already amazing Lisa Marie can become even more amazing. It is of-course simply a suggestion and not a criticism. I love Lisa Marie's voice, presence, content, intentions! Thank you Nama! Happy Beltane.
🤔 you missed the message scanning for imperfections in her home
I had a few revelations that brought me to tears when watching this. When she mentioned how we expect from others when we don’t have the practice of loving ourselves, BAYBEEE that hit hard! I realize in friendships and relationships that I feel so poorly of myself and never pour into myself that I don’t believe I deserve anything and then as a result have little or nothing to give. In addition to this, she reminded me that God made me in his image. There are no mistakes. I can and will improve myself but I have to accept all parts of me at every stage. I have to make the habit of seeing my full reflection without magnifying the the bad or minimizing the good. It’s all there, it’s all meant to be there and I will love all of me. Thank you, this has been eye opening for me both practically and spiritually.
SAME 🥹
Goodness!!!
Wow, I was thinking my maintenace was self-care. I even called it "Self-Care Sunday". But now that I am doing the real self-care, Ive barely had time for or put much emphasis on my weekly maintenance. The real self-care is more important and needed. The maintenance was really just "work" to maintain my physical appearance. I appreciate you explaining that. It's something I didn't know I needed to hear.
Thank you for this! One of my inadequacies is giving attention to distractions that are not relevant. I am committed to going within and creating pockets of peace in my day.
I love that!!
Girl I can hear you speak for hoursss. Such a calming and comforting voice
You remind me of Hindz
Me too. She's got the same vibe as Hindz.
Exactly.. voice and vibe. Female version of hindz
Same...kindred spirits ✌🏾
Yas!!
Hindsight?
You have blessed me Lisa Marie in seeing a new way of Self care. Being a wife and a mother this is definitely needed. I have to be in a space where I love myself, love what I see to give to others. Love this!!❤
This video spoke to me in a sense of understanding my new journey. You see I recently left a very toxic long term relationship of over 5 years. My ex was very verbally abusive, he would talk down to me and make me, feel as though I wasn't worthy of his love just wasn't. He would tell me I'm not intelligent, strong, smart, determined so on and so forth. I knew when he first started, with the verbal abuse, he was coming from a hurtful place and projecting how he felt about himself. The truth of the matter is I was every bit of what he couldn't see in himself... I had to let this relationship go in order to continue to grow. for me he couldn't love me the way I deserved to be loved because, he couldn't love himself. Now Who am I!! to require him to give me his best when he can't give it to himself.
Ladies and gentlemen love yourself spiritually, mentally, physically. Fill your cup of love, self appreciation, care, gentleness, grace and patience, once you do that, then and only then can you have it to give to someone else.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. I’m so glad I found this page 🌸
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Just found this channel and fell in love with this video: I just finished a 4 mile walk, love your voice! I will be reading my bible tonight. Thanks
Awww thank you
Thank Yah for you showing up in my algorithm and and your words. I’m a man whose always been emotionally repressed and from dealing with abandonment as a child it has impacted my sense of self worth and love and cost me greatly. So many key points in this video that I need to write down and affirm myself of. Peace and love sister
You’re self-aware. It’s appreciated Sir🙂
As i started my journey. I learned that, no one can love you like you'll love yourself. but most importantly. it fills voids and insecurities.❤ thank you for this video.
Yesssss
Only 54.9K Subscribers, but then again Diamonds are rare. Love the Vibe and love the fact you brought up the bible without giving religion vibes. Much blessings to you.
!! This. I’ve been focused on self love for a while and this is so true. For me self love is setting my boundaries and always asking myself first for true thoughts and emotions on things I “have” to do and etc.
Yes boundaries are essential
Yes, self love all the time is amazing! I'm healed and healing and now having so much more fun in my spirit journey. Thank you!
Listening to this everyday I need a. Breakthrough , my breakup is playing heavy on my confidence right now ! I know that everything will work out ! Pouring into me , forgiving myself and moving on
5:43 this is a message that I have been working on remembering at this point in time. I’ve shed (not wasted because I had to go through that for a reason) so many tears thinking that if only I was a bit more I could be enough for the world. But after a lot of prayer, I’ve heard back those exact works that you said - that He made me exactly how I am on purpose.
Thank you for this video 💙
(I know some other people have said it already, but your voice really is so calming)
You are like a soothing balm to the soul...I could listen to you all day...
Thank you so much. Your messages are helping me to grow.
You are so welcome
You’re like the female version of Hindz 🧡 love itt
Such a beautiful message. My spirit needed this. You are an angel 💜
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I literally cried throughout this whole video. Mentally I was creating a poem that opened up my eyes. Wow
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Your voice is relaxing. Thank you for differentiating between self care vs maintenance.
So welcome sis
I absolutely loooove you Lisa Marie. I am a 51 year young mother of 3, eldest is 18 and youngest is 8. I have been in too many abusive and toxic relationships in my life. I started my journey of self love 2 years ago, and you are now my no. 1 role model on my journey. Thank you for your wisdom and insights and reminding me of the vital role of the word of God! God bless your ministry and youtube channel.
Your voice I magnetic, calm and soothing. That is what kept me watching through to the end and got me subscribing. You are a blessing Lisa Marie.
Awesome and encouraging message!
Thank you❤
This space feels so authentic to the journey I’m currently on. I can listen to you talk all day! You’ve got a new sub! ❤
Yay! Thank you!
When you said God made me how I am. That made me look at my life differently. I have to accept the past and move forward. I have a hard time with judgement idk if it’s the state of CT but they don’t allow you to grow here. I need to have more self love and not worry about judgement. Thank you for this video.
I had a rough relationship with my father growing up, which really impacted my self worth. Thank you for your wonderful video❤
Thank you Sis,
There is definitely some type of vibe/energy that is shifting within me. It feels yummy, fuzzy, warm, cold & & times scary as shit. But I'm walking, gliding, dancing my way into the unknown. It's my time. Facing those deep shadows & finally being able to live in that space where I can finally say to my shadows. "You wanna dance?" 🎉❤ love your voice & vibe😊
Something I'v struggled with all my life so far now after getting out of long term toxic relationship
This was the push I needed starting put myself first setting boundaries
Brilliant life lessons channel you have Lisa Marie
Hi Lisa, I've been following you for approximately 1 week now. I am truly blessed by your podcasts. I am at a point in my life where I really needed the content you're sharing. Thank you! I pray that you will continue to be led of the Holy Spirit.
Your videos are amazing! You have such a comforting presence. Thank you for your wonderful videos
I'm so glad I found your channel 🙏he always puts exactly who you need to hear directly in your path, if you slow down long enough to listen. Thank you!
I was praying fervently for content to partner me on this journey of self love. As I look back on my 60 years of life I have realized, through grueling thoughts, prayers, and tears, that it all stems from my OWN feelings of unworthiness and lack of love for myself. Coming across you was not by chance. I immediately subscribed. You have spoken to my heart and truly believe God knew I needed to hear what you had to say. 🙏🏻 (And I didn’t even notice what was going on behind you. 😂)
I could listen to this queen all day.
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Wonderful message. Shared❤
Wow, I’m transfixed by you. You’re so soothing. Beautiful person and beautiful energy
My goodness, I personally needed to hear this , I love “SELF” but I had so much expectations on things I couldn’t give to myself ….thank you so much🙏❤️
I’m so grateful that I’ve found your page and this information, All things work as they should ❤
Thank you!
Very helpful to someone struggling with anxiety and low confidence issues. Thank you
Goodness, bless you, and you are welcome
I was in a good place and let someone too close and now I feel depleted.
Great podcats, love how you talk to your people instead of at them.
Love it; thank you, Lisa Marie. God bless you!
God bless you ❤️
I love your peaceful vibes and your soft voice 💚 watching you is so calming and relaxing and it is a gift 💚
Wow I never looked at SELF LOVE this way 👀👀👀👀 Thank you for breaking it down the "LISA MARIE WAY". 🌻🌻🌻
What an amazing word to start off the week!
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Well said sister. I’m tired of people trying to use me for something they can do for themselves. I wish more people would learn how to care for themselves and stop draining other people for their needs. Thank you for sharing. Peace and blessings 🫶🏽
Blessings! Maturity, peace and blessings. 🙏
I love this video so much! It resonates sooo much with me! Thank you for sharing this very raw information! I feel like you take the words right out of my brain ❤
You’re so welcome
This was meant for me to see , with a chill sista soothing voice ❤🎉🎉 abundance
Your video couldn't have popped up at a more perfect time on my journey. Thank you so much for taking the time to share ❤
You’re so very welcome
I absolutely enjoyed your message. Your words encouraged me to continue my self love as I was sitting in my bubble bath with my candles lit. I was filled with gratitude for your time of delivery!
Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed it!
❤ I appreciate your messages. I love them. ❤ Amen
Your voice is so calming ☺️ thank you so much for sharing your wisdom 🤎
Yes I love it! Been worrying and trying to help out everyone else but I have not took the time out to self care & I can’t wait for the finishing touches! 🙌🏽 thank you for this message sis ❤
Beautiful angelic words from you Queen. The more shared the more reach collectively. Very real very true very loved, peace goddess.
Thank you
Yes yes 🫶🏿real Self🤎 love....eating healthy more...exercise reading....MEDITATION
Awesome video, very educational on loving yourself. I completely agree with everything you said, and I am glad you shared with the world. Real talk!
Thank you so much!
okay, but why am I crying!? i really needed to hear this 😭
I’ve been on my self
Love journey for so long and it is not easy!
Thank you ! I needed this especially today ❤
So glad I found your channel. Your messages are healing. Thank you
Thank you ✨❤️
I feel your like that aunty or mother some of us really want/wanted...NEEDED
Your voice is SO calming and soothing, with powerful meaningful words.
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You popped up on my feed. After watching the video, flicking through your other ones, i had to subscribe and share
Thank you for an amazing video
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Amazing ❤
This video found me in a trying place 😢. I’ve been here too long. It’s time for SELF GROWTH THE KINGDOM WAY ❤!!
This is my first time watching your Channel and I automatically subscribed before even finishing the video! Your voice is so welcoming and soothing, and your message resonated highly with where I am in life right now. Thank you ❤
Same here, thank you ❤
Same 1 minute in a subscribed lol
Thank you for this message currently dealing with a breakup and have been finding it hard to feel love within, but this video definitely made me feel better ❤️
It is very pleasing to find people that made the long journey on their own to self love and acceptance. And usually it’s your most painful experiences that point you the direction to go to achieve those good everlasting feelings!
Thank you so much for these words
Your voice is so calming and soothing, can you please make a video on the topic, the season of loneliness, I’m watching my self slowly fall into this dark lonely place and no one has a clue because I hide behind it with a smile. 😢
I sure can
God is so good 🤍☺️ God bless you sister. Keep speaking about that blessed book! 🕊 The knowledge you have is amazing. I am enough. Not maintenance, occasional things! Balance always until it’s a lifestyle 🪴
❤❤❤I love this video will be following.
Thank You Very Much for the Wisdom & Knowledge on Self Love, it's Very True what you said and I Love The Calmness in Your Voice, It Gives The HOLY SPIRIT Vibes🤗🤗🤗🤗
Great video thank you for sharing your wisdom, your video helped me remember how far I've come on my self love journey and that my self care habits that I've implemented into my life aided me to get there.
Absolutely!!! Thank you so much for being present with me ❤️
Wow you have a unique look, very beautiful.
Beautiful woman beautiful voice beautiful message ❤
Self-love is always an acquirement... You know how are you going to love someone if you don't love yourself..... This is why I said that if you put Jesus first in your life I don't care what you say Jesus comes first if you love on him he'll give you a love inside that you can just sprained it to everyone the piece that you have the you would share it with everyone the joy that you have you would want to share it with everyone so if you stay in God's face in his focus and you continuously read his word and you receive salvation and the holy Spirit you going to love yourself and you going to love other unconditionally...
You are absolutely beautiful. And your mind is brilliant. Thank you for your work. Blessings !
Much needed!!! ❤️✌️🏾
Thank you so much! Finding it difficult to love myself.
The journey to loving self has been a bumpy one for me. Growing up in an environment where I was conditioned to put others first, where I was neglected as a child I realized that my point of reference of what love is is just non-existent. I had to learn through many heart breaks and come to a place where I had to reflect on what I personally think love is. I have placed myself in positions where I'd be used, taken advantage of and really making weak choices because I didn't honour myself. A major depression opened my eyes, the pain was excruciating however I am at a place where I am open to content such the one you're sharing with the rest of us. I am allowing myself to be vulnerable and hold space for the ugly parts of myself.
love this . Thank you. In order for me to receive, I have to give to me first.
It's my first time on this channel and I'm in love 😍 everything is therapeutic 😊❤
I admire your words.🙏🏼✨♥️
Love how soft spoken you are ❤ & the game is great as well
You worded this so beautifully❤️ love this message
What a beautiful message!!! 🙏🏼🥰.
Thank you
Very warm energy like hot cocoa with a treat of marshmallows
I am so happy the algorithm introduced your channel to me. Thank you
Awww me too
What an incredibly powerful video that has deeply widened my own view of myself. The ways I still have to grow and the ways that I still get to enjoy loving myself. You have helped me deeply comprehend what drives my codependency and the ways it's been harming my relationships, and in such a loving way that I didn't even have a moment for that negative part of my brain to kick in and bring me down for my deficiencies.
The kindness & calmness with which you have delivered this message tells me that you have indeed been doing this work on yourself for a long while and helps me know that I can trust your hard-won wisdom. Thank you. At this time in my life where I have so few good influences to learn from, this message came right when I needed it. Your presence is a blessing 💚
Thank you Lisa Marie.🙏💪💯