From a medical standpoint, this is very possible that he was misdiagnosed. Trust me it happens all the time. Autoimmune disease such as lupus are often miss diagnosed as other things.
I know it all to well I have Lupus and RH it has been years of going back and forth and different doctors prescribing medication and then say it’s NOT until I have a flare It’s Possible You are your Best Advocate when it comes to your health 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
If he married her before the divorce from his wife was finalized, they are not married and the best thing for her to do is run far away and stay clear away from him.
The scariest thing about his narcissism is that you cant see at all in his face that he is lying when he is telling them. He could totally convince anyone who is willing to just believe what he says
Yes I WAS WITH SOMEBODY LIKE THIS for 8! Years I can never tell when he is lying until I find out facts for myself it makes it hard to know when to believe anything smh it’s just hard PERIODT
Maybe you should ask who’s misdiagnosed with cancer because apparently you don’t know cases such as this! It’s very real and it happens! Too many times than it should. My daughter was misdiagnosed and that’s how she found out that she had lupus because lupus is not dealing with just one thing it’s dealing with an entire immune system.
This did actually happen to me and I have the exact cancer he’s lying about! It definitely hurt me tremendously however it brought me closer to GOD and for that ….I embrace it! I’m honored he chose me!!!
He is a narcissist for-real. Accusing the children. That’s what a guy tried to do to me and my children. Jealousy, thieving, surgeries lying about health issues. Everything she going through is what I went through. I never married the bum that’s for sure
So when you're questioned about your teeth and the cancer, how do you lead with the teeth? It's a yes or no. He's a liar. He started the monologue with "she left me when I was diagnosed with bone marrow cancer" which means he is standing on that lie! Boy, git!!!!!
There is no room in their relationship for friendship after all that they’ve been through. She needs to leave him alone mentally physically financially and emotionally if she’s done with him be done stop all forms of communication.
The question is not what wrong with him, it's what wrong with her!!! She knew what kind of man he was before she married him! If she had basic common sense, she would have ran for the hills!!!
Unfortunately, illnesses such as Lupus known as "the great imitator" can be misdiagnosed and in the same breath there are folks that lie about having cancer in a relationship which is out right disgusting. Albeit in their present situation, Oladean comes across as evasive and controlling. Trevale on the other hand, may have her issues which may not have been clearly presented on the show but one thing is for certain, she needs to have better self-worth. I hope after the show they truly stay out of each others lives.
I blame the both of them. She loves victimhood and he loved controlling her. He stays with his sister and in 4 years you never met her? He is evil, but she played along with it.
@@OrestesSword Now she is tired. if she was sure she should have left years ago and asked to meet his sister. This man has river danced on her and she has allowed it and cried victim.
I know love can make you accept a lot of things you shouldn't. But damn 10yrs and you've caught this man in lies, lost three houses, and you feel like he is stealing from the home and blaming your kids... why oh why put yourself and your kids through the trauma? Continuously
That is really messed up of him for lying about Having Cancer when some people are really going through exactly having it and fighting for their lives shame on him 🙈😡
Okay so i don’t know how to make memes but people are gonna make a meme about Karamo’s shook reaction leaning back in the chair at 1:43 right? RICHT?!! 👀
This man couldn’t answer one question straight up😩🤦🏾♀️ Most of the questions Karamo asked were yes and no answer type of questions but here he go with his soliloquy and lies 😂
He’s just a narc suffering from the consequences of his actions and can’t believe his lies won’t convince this woman to stay any longer. Hence why he’s playing the victim now. As Karamo said, he’s been lying from day one, he can’t expect this woman to turn around and believe him this time even though he does turn out to be sick with lupus, which is still a serious condition. It’s like, when you weren’t sick you were playing this woman, messing with her kids, taking loans from her family and just being a fraud, you didn’t realise that one day you’d be sick and need her. Now you just have go through it alone cos you threw your chance away when you treated her that way. We see this happening with older men all the time.
Actually she played herself. What did she think she was getting? She played along with him being sneaky to his first wife. Now she’s playing the victim while experiencing her KARMA. …
From that look he had at the end when karamo said they should end things tells me that he’s not going to end things peacefully. I hope she protects herself.
She married that old man and thought what? When he did not move out of the house with his wife, that was a red flag that he was not financially stable. No man would live in a house with tension unless they do not want to be homeless. There were just so many red flags she overlooked because she thought she was getting a cash cow but ended up with a broke sick old man. Bad grammar but as my dad used to say, "While you are trying to get, don't get got!"🤣
This man is telling a bald face lie, because he said he never stepped out of his marriage. That’s how he met her he was messing around on his wife.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Hearing him lie back to back the moment he stepped on stage was disappointing. He made himself look bad to the world and he didn’t seem to be aware of it. He is sick.
After I find out you a lier 😢I’m done immediately! Now days we have to vet people thoroughly🤷🏽♀️ I’ve been out of the dating pool for 4 years now, to continue personal growth, but I pray to not fall into mess like this or worse🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I have faith in what God has promised me through obedience!😊❤
She is not married if he was married to someone else. Her marriage is invalid. He is a bigamist, which is a federal or misdemeanor crime, depending on the state. She can have charges brought against him.
I don't think he lied about having cancer,he was told that by doctors and admitted he was misdiagnosed. That can happen. I'm sure he was very scared of not knowing what was happening to him, after he said he dropped so much weight in a short amount of time. That can be very hard on anyone's mental health,and her saying she didn't sign up for that,is very hurtful
The fact she stayed despite all of her findings is what shocking
She said she was scared
@@kourtnaeholmes4787cx
She's no different than he is.
@@ronniejackson9228she is, very different
She's crazier than he is.😢
the collective gasp after she mentioned his wife 😭😭😭
lmfao right 😭😭😭
i gasped sooooo loud
😂😭😭That little scream
*That scream gasp was funny as F 🤣🤣🤣*
From a medical standpoint, this is very possible that he was misdiagnosed. Trust me it happens all the time. Autoimmune disease such as lupus are often miss diagnosed as other things.
I do believe he was misdiagnosed. I’ve seen and have family who was told they had thing and later told it was lupus.
I know it all to well I have Lupus and RH it has been years of going back and forth and different doctors prescribing medication and then say it’s NOT until I have a flare It’s Possible You are your Best Advocate when it comes to your health 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Agreed
Or he's just lying.
@@summerdowligshe said she was there for some of the treatments so he was in fact told he had cancer. They were giving him radiation
Boy he really had me going at first 😭
Ridiculous 🫠
Song singing and the violin was playing!!!!
Had me in the first half
My uncle is not lying 🖕get the facts first....😡
@@lisahenry4453 tell that to his wife ! I never said he was lyin 🤡
A monster, a lier, a manipulate, story builder, crazy, cheater , narcissist is all definition of that man whatever his name is 😮.
Sounds like my ex 😢
If he married her before the divorce from his wife was finalized, they are not married and the best thing for her to do is run far away and stay clear away from him.
She should have taken the first failed attempt as a sign.
The scariest thing about his narcissism is that you cant see at all in his face that he is lying when he is telling them. He could totally convince anyone who is willing to just believe what he says
Yes I WAS WITH SOMEBODY LIKE THIS for 8! Years I can never tell when he is lying until I find out facts for myself it makes it hard to know when to believe anything smh it’s just hard PERIODT
Him and clearly he was telling us the (show) Kamaro 😂🤦🏽♀️that he has or had cancer
That’s narcissism mixed with psychosis.
Where did he lie? He was telling the truth when they went through his phone
She's just as bad as him, I would love to know the back story on this relationship. I bet she saw dollars signs
Who Lies About Having Cancer 🤦🏽♀️
People rape children and you’re shocked liars exist? Weirdo
Maybe you should ask who’s misdiagnosed with cancer because apparently you don’t know cases such as this! It’s very real and it happens! Too many times than it should. My daughter was misdiagnosed and that’s how she found out that she had lupus because lupus is not dealing with just one thing it’s dealing with an entire immune system.
Misdiagnosis
Who knows if he's lying?????? He said he was misdiagnosed!!!! It can happen.
I was misdiagnosed with bone cancer as a child. It was just bone infection. Happens alot
Love this show. No screaming audience you can hear what everybody says. 😊
This is too much…wayyy too many red flags for six-ten years. This is a sad situation.
NEVER HAD CANCER IS CRAZYYYYY
He was misdiagnosed.
I know someone like that Man..
They are real they exist!!!
Diabolic!!!
How does she articulate her experiences so intelligently to be with a manipulative person like him?
Manipulative people always aim to smart people, for challenge
That makes sense.@@aurely972
Deine dickmatized is real…
Being dickmatized is real “
He had us in the first half ngl
It’s the Jamaican in the background for me after she said it’s not even his teeth 😭🤣 “Ah Lie” 💀 I keeled over 😂🤣
Im dyingggggggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This woman is too head-strong & emotionally intelligent for this man.
What kind of sick individual lies about something as serious as CANCER
Brooks from Real Housewives Of Orange County lied about cancer.
My baby daddy🤭
@@tolungiagirlllll mine too 😂
My ex lied to me about cancer when I left him lmao never heard about it the almost 3 years lol
A narcissist
Karamos expressions had me 😅😅😅😅
I loveee karamos reactions 😭😭
He’s not letting her go…his face said it all at the end
Karamo: “you can’t live together on paper” 🤣 5:45
Excited to know I will be in the studio this Friday 👌
Please stop bragging because you basically just said you better than me LOL
@@tanea2k10😂😂😂😂😂
This man is dangerous
Very
🤔❓️ He was misdiagnosed.
This man's face as Karamo is giving his summation... In the light of his wife's earlier fears I find that man's face scary and jane-jerous
Oh my I was looking in comment section if someone had this weird feeling, like the guy became VERY threatening with his vibe. I hope she runas far.
And she couldn't tell that he had NO TEETH?!!! After all these years, is what I can't believe!!!😁🤣😂
I think he had fake teeth and they were out of his mouth for some reason and that's when she found out
😂😂 I think he wore dentures and she thought they were real
This did actually happen to me and I have the exact cancer he’s lying about! It definitely hurt me tremendously however it brought me closer to GOD and for that ….I embrace it! I’m honored he chose me!!!
He didn’t lie, he was misdiagnosed. I also was misdiagnosed.
Karamo was GOOPED and GAGGED!! 😂😂😂
He is a narcissist for-real. Accusing the children. That’s what a guy tried to do to me and my children. Jealousy, thieving, surgeries lying about health issues. Everything she going through is what I went through. I never married the bum that’s for sure
Weak and spineless
So when you're questioned about your teeth and the cancer, how do you lead with the teeth?
It's a yes or no. He's a liar. He started the monologue with "she left me when I was diagnosed with bone marrow cancer" which means he is standing on that lie!
Boy, git!!!!!
😂😂I wonder!
TAKE ALL THREATS SERIOUSLY! THEY WILL NOT LET THEIR SOURCE GO EASILY!!! STAY SAFE ❤
I cant wait until he comes out.
He looks like he wanted Karamo to convince his wife to stay.
He came out there looking like death. His plan b got away and he’s too broken down to catch another victim.
These men will play all sorts of games when they are young and healthy...But when those tables turn, they will give you a lung to keep you...
There is no room in their relationship for friendship after all that they’ve been through. She needs to leave him alone mentally physically financially and emotionally if she’s done with him be done stop all forms of communication.
This. Episode. Was. Hilarious!!!
Him: I’ve never stepped out on my marriage
Audience: which one?!
💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😩😩😩
😂😂😂😂😂⚰️
The question is not what wrong with him, it's what wrong with her!!! She knew what kind of man he was before she married him! If she had basic common sense, she would have ran for the hills!!!
Unfortunately, illnesses such as Lupus known as "the great imitator" can be misdiagnosed and in the same breath there are folks that lie about having cancer in a relationship which is out right disgusting.
Albeit in their present situation, Oladean comes across as evasive and controlling. Trevale on the other hand, may have her issues which may not have been clearly presented on the show but one thing is for certain, she needs to have better self-worth.
I hope after the show they truly stay out of each others lives.
A friend of mine was misdiagnosed. After several tests, she actually had Lupus
I blame the both of them. She loves victimhood and he loved controlling her. He stays with his sister and in 4 years you never met her? He is evil, but she played along with it.
She's the villain. Forget what y'all say.
I don't think she's a victim. She's fierce and very sure of her feelings.
@@OrestesSword Now she is tired. if she was sure she should have left years ago and asked to meet his sister. This man has river danced on her and she has allowed it and cried victim.
@@KadariusGreenHere we go y'all an guy defending another guy when all the red flags are obvious 🙄
I know love can make you accept a lot of things you shouldn't. But damn 10yrs and you've caught this man in lies, lost three houses, and you feel like he is stealing from the home and blaming your kids... why oh why put yourself and your kids through the trauma? Continuously
She likes to be the victim. She gets a kick out of telling people his problems and getting sympathy
That is really messed up of him for lying about Having Cancer when some people are really going through exactly having it and fighting for their lives shame on him 🙈😡
Just another way for him to try and trap her. He needs help
Well sad 😔
He was misdiagnosed. He has lupus and rheumatoid arthritis.
Wait, sir. Wtf? This man is a pathological liar! 😂 Karamo's reaction!! "What is going on here?"
Been supporting you since you were in the real
He does not have to say he fixed his teeth. If you are expecting children and you had a vasectomy, you have to tell her.
This is a mind-blower! Aloha from Hawaii...
AND THEN HE PLASTERED THIS ON LIVE TELEVISION 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
BOY HES A COLD PIECE OF WORK
Wow!! I feel for this child he just seem so the numb, I pray he gets the guidance/emotional support/help he needs.
Okay so i don’t know how to make memes but people are gonna make a meme about Karamo’s shook reaction leaning back in the chair at 1:43 right? RICHT?!! 👀
He can’t be that bad if she proceeded to marry him whilst being aware of all his bs
This man couldn’t answer one question straight up😩🤦🏾♀️ Most of the questions Karamo asked were yes and no answer type of questions but here he go with his soliloquy and lies 😂
He’s just a narc suffering from the consequences of his actions and can’t believe his lies won’t convince this woman to stay any longer. Hence why he’s playing the victim now. As Karamo said, he’s been lying from day one, he can’t expect this woman to turn around and believe him this time even though he does turn out to be sick with lupus, which is still a serious condition. It’s like, when you weren’t sick you were playing this woman, messing with her kids, taking loans from her family and just being a fraud, you didn’t realise that one day you’d be sick and need her. Now you just have go through it alone cos you threw your chance away when you treated her that way. We see this happening with older men all the time.
Facts and all they can do is threaten us with peace, tranquility and cats.
He’s typical. If you only hear his side of the story, he’s the victim.
Actually she played herself. What did she think she was getting? She played along with him being sneaky to his first wife. Now she’s playing the victim while experiencing her KARMA. …
U nailed it
From that look he had at the end when karamo said they should end things tells me that he’s not going to end things peacefully. I hope she protects herself.
She got tired and him getting sick was the pinnacle. It’s a wrap. I’m sorry he’s sick, but she is gone buddy.
But he lied about most things. She better run for her life.
The gasp of the audience had me rolling
She married that old man and thought what? When he did not move out of the house with his wife, that was a red flag that he was not financially stable. No man would live in a house with tension unless they do not want to be homeless. There were just so many red flags she overlooked because she thought she was getting a cash cow but ended up with a broke sick old man. Bad grammar but as my dad used to say, "While you are trying to get, don't get got!"🤣
This man is telling a bald face lie, because he said he never stepped out of his marriage. That’s how he met her he was messing around on his wife.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
True! Can't keep up with his lies.
The big red flag was that he lied that his wife was his sister. He is a cheater and people who cheat are liars
Im so confused 😭
He is too!
They are too!!
True, the relationship started out as a lie, so it was never going to work.
She was the side itch what doesn’t she get?!?! Let me continue watching….SMH
She giving me Mary j Blige vibes but why do men tell the most serious lies to keep you around knowing they not going to do right by you
Fucking slow that’s why!!!
I see NeNe Leaks for some reason 😂
It's called he is a narcissistic
Mary J Leakes
Nene Blige
🤣🤣🤣
1:40 lmaoo when you aggravated and your mind working faster than your fingers 😂 shawty put up 2,3,4 fingers
Nope he did not agree . She better be careful . Men like this are dangerous
I thought that was her daddy she look just like him . Both of them need help this marriage is crazy they need to go their separate way .
Hearing him lie back to back the moment he stepped on stage was disappointing. He made himself look bad to the world and he didn’t seem to be aware of it. He is sick.
After I find out you a lier 😢I’m done immediately! Now days we have to vet people thoroughly🤷🏽♀️ I’ve been out of the dating pool for 4 years now, to continue personal growth, but I pray to not fall into mess like this or worse🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I have faith in what God has promised me through obedience!😊❤
She is not married if he was married to someone else. Her marriage is invalid. He is a bigamist, which is a federal or misdemeanor crime, depending on the state. She can have charges brought against him.
I work in a psych hospital, and he behaves and talks just like an admitted patient.
I agree
Karamo saying “WHAT.WHAT?!😮🥴”
I feel like both of them have issues. Good luck to them both.
Karamo’s, “ WHAT?!!” 😂😂😂😂
WHY was she with him??He had nothing to offer.
girl run
Sounds like he lied about having cancer so she can stay home home and stop partying and living her life. Smh That's crazy!
He was misdiagnosed.
Lupus can be misdiagnosed as something else.
But aside from that,
he's definitely a liar.
LMAO NOT HER GAGGING KARAMOOOOOO
Mr K sum it up both folks should permanently separate
Cancer is nothing to be lying about brother passed away with lung cancer 🦀🦀🦀
Omg what a narcissist! Hes convincing too!
I believe her.
idk his constant nod at the end. not so sure if he was in full agreement 😅
For me this woman doesn't care because of what happen in the past but the man am sorry for him ❤❤
10 years snd you ain’t know about the teeth🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't think he lied about having cancer,he was told that by doctors and admitted he was misdiagnosed. That can happen. I'm sure he was very scared of not knowing what was happening to him, after he said he dropped so much weight in a short amount of time. That can be very hard on anyone's mental health,and her saying she didn't sign up for that,is very hurtful
This one was funnyyyyy 😂
Karma always does his best
Somebody make a Karamo Doll please! I'd buy it.
She saw all the red flags and still married him
If "lying through your teeth" was a person...💀😬
She don’t want this man anyway
1:45 😂😂😂😂 my exact reaction
Karamo passed out when she said “wife” 😂
Don't read comments before watching the show!! Spoiler alert
I believe her...i bet he is from the mother land 😢
Hello Karamo. Among the first to watch this❤Am from Kenya. Kindly help me get a job in your show? Thanks❤
She's beautiful and can attract whoever she wants. Him? Good luck, old man!
&&,she saw what in him exactly?🤔
wait a minute 😂
Gagged me Already