The fact that she doesn’t want him in that child’s life is a red flag. Regardless of anything he should be in his daughter’s life because she didn’t ask to be here
She is DEAD wrong about giving him an ultimatum about the outside baby. She should have just left him. To hear a woman say “he didn’t want her, you can’t force him to be a father “ is just disgusting!! He shouldn’t have been raw dogging someone if he didn’t want a baby!
She has low-SelfEsteem about herself still, in her mind it’s all about her, and she has never had another man show her this much attention in her life be she has always been unattractive. Which in my eyes she still is.. this lady was embarrassing af in my eyes. And he definitely can do waaaay better than her.
Right and if she was a decent woman she would have told him, look, I can't accept this child and she's completely innocent in all of this and she deserves her father, so I'm out, I wish you well and go be a father to your daughter
I want women to understand that pressuring someone into sex or making them feel bad/ catching an attitude because men don't want sex is a form of abuse
“It don’t exist” as she’s talking about a child. She’s bitter, she’s mean, she’s selfish and maybe even a little jealous. I wouldn’t want to sleep with her either
What does being a man have to do with this? How about just as a person, and stop assigning certain things to gender. Cuz last I checked, those with loosey goosey do it as well
He resents her for giving him the ultimatum to be in HIS CHILD’S LIFE or be with her! What a despicable thing to do!! And for him to allow this is baffling 😤
@@teer7044That is his WIFE! She comes first before the baby! Thousands of men abandon their outside kids for their families and it's wrong but it is understandable.
She’s so in her masculine. He’s suffering and she’s not hearing that. She needs to meet him where he’s at and that will bring the intimacy that’s needed. The month you’re born in does not validate being loud, dominate & obnoxious. AND the fact that she thinks that it’s okay to deny HIS OWN FLESH AND BLOOD!! That’s an absolute NO!!!!
She was raised with that bs and a lot of them use that as an excuse but most really believe that bs. He needs to just leave that kneegress alone,let somebody else deal with that bs.
At the start I was feeling sad for this women, but hearing this women say that child doesnt matter. Shame on her ON SO MANY LEVEL. Thank you Karamo for checking HER!!!!
She needs to be ashamed of herself, sitting up there making those nasty remarks and trying to show off for the audience. She is disgusting!! No real woman talks that way. She thinks she is funny but she's not.
Wow loss is very painful. It's totally understandable how her husband feels and what he is still currently going through. I'm praying for this couple xoxo
The fact that he lost one child to prison and the other to suicide, then she doesn’t allow him a relationship with his outside child is a lot. And by him not being sexually attracted to her just adds to her insecurities from him cheating and having the outside child. It’s like she wants him to dismiss his struggles to meet her needs which will only build his resentment towards her rather than them getting past their issues. They both have a lot of work to do on both ends in order for them to work
He created a child by being a sl*t. It ain’t like he did it in honesty! He’s a cheater and a cheater is a liar and a horrible person. He gets what he deserves , it’s called karma goofy
Attitude is everything and regardless of what a person looks like on the outside, if you're nasty on the inside, that changes how a person sees you as a whole.
This is a whole mess and he needs to leave her. Why would he want to be intimate with you while you’re forcing him to not have a relationship with his child regardless of how the child came about plus all the other trauma.
Right and for her to want him to dismiss that other child ……He needs to leave her cause if it was the other way around, she would not ignore her child!
This relationship has ran its course and he just doesn’t want to tell her. He is ready to move into a new phase of His life and deep inside she knows this.
I grew up with friends who said “His wife kept my dad out of our life” and I never believed it , I always thought the deadbeat was just making an excuse but now I see there really are evil and vindictive women out here like that. She’s disgusting for even referring to the child as “it” I would never trust her around my child if I was the baby mother.
You are great 😢when you explained to her that she needs to look at the situation from the perspective of the little girl who had nothing to do with the situation but will grow to think that the father didn't want anything to do with her or support her 👌you are spoton.she is delaying her healing too
She needs help! More than the show could give. Selfish, aggressive, toxic as hell. My heart breaks for that man and what he’s been through. To make this all about an issue of intimacy is disturbing. He is NUMB. Let him be.
Idc HOW many pounds she lost she made herself look disgusting the way she talked about his kid and holding him back from being a dad , she’s weak af for even staying so now she’s insecure him being around the BM
You do such a great job God blessed you. You are helping people heal . This not a talk show this is a show about reconnecting with each other and inner standing that we are not each others enemies . We are both hurt and don’t know how to show it.
When Karama asked him does he know where his child is…he knows! He just doesn’t want her to know he knows. They’ll always be a disconnect because she won’t “allow” him to have a relationship with his child, which will turn into resentment. She needs to grow up!
If Karamo was a drug , I’d be dead. 😩 literally the only person I even want to hear speak these days ! From Gemini to Scorpio , Karamo I love you ! When I put my fears aside , I will come up on your show and give you one of the greatest yet traumatic story in your life . Until then I’ll keep watching and healing through these situations ! Thank you !
That’s all her and I hate it for my daughter because she wants him to be apart of her life and her unborn child and he can’t because of her the kids don’t like her because she don’t know how to shut up I hate this for him but he is a grown man and he needs to be a father to all 21 kids he have and my daughter is his and she wants to be in her father life and she can’t because of her
The lesbian couple one was good. I have so much respect for her mother she seems like a sweetheart. ❤❤I teared up when she spoke on losing her mom… I know the feeling and raising children just doesn’t help because you have to be strong all the time. I definitely have cried at work lol prayers for her strength . My mom was my bestfriend!!!❤️❤️
Yes the husband was wrong for cheating AND having a whole baby come out of that infidelity. Let’s not forget that she CHOSE TO STAY with him afterwards. If she didn’t want to be involved with the other woman and the baby she should’ve left him and moved on. Even if the other woman was spiteful in having the baby, that child is innocent of all the nonsense. She didn’t ask to come into the world. I hope he reaches out and becomes the Dad every child needs and deserves. If she loves him enough to forgive him and stay then she needs to find it in her heart to love that baby and support her husband as much as possible and RESPECTFULLY regardless of how she feels about the other woman. In some weird way this will sound crazy.She may have lost a stepson but she gained another one. If she could love that child, she can love this one. Sir if she still gives you ultimatums about your daughter, leave her ass and continue to step up as a father. I wish I had a dad who cared enough about me and my siblings to be in our lives despite family drama, don’t let your baby girl suffer because your wife isn’t ready to accept her personally.
She cheated too but she silenced him, she wasnt giving him a chance to speak when he mentioned that. She is just playing victim.I'm a woman but she is completely wrong
Exactly! This is the comment I was looking for. But he shouldn’t have walked away from his child for anyone. They both need a lot of help coping with all of their issues.
She’s a walking red flag! Extremely selfish, lacks empathy and had the audacity to ask the man to abandon his child! Where is his backbone?!? As a man how can you live with the fact that you walked away from being a father to your child!!!??!!! I understand 100% why he doesn’t want to touch her and at this point their relationship is beyond toxic.
She talking about “ I’ll show the child the receipts? “ like that validates him not being in his child’s life. She is dead wrong for giving him an ultimatum. He clearly wants to be in his daughter’s life and I believe that’s the reason why they have problems in their relationship.
I initially sided with her, but after learning about everything he’s been through, my perspective shifted. His daughter went to jail at the young age of 21, facing a sentence of 20-40 years. Then, he lost his son to suicide and had to endure the unimaginable pain of cleaning up the aftermath. On top of that, he lost someone who was like a brother to him. It’s heartbreaking to hear all he has endured. The fact that he’s still functioning and finding the strength to keep going is remarkable. I applaud his resilience. That said, infidelity in a marriage is never acceptable. However, a child was born from the situation, and that child is not to blame for the choices made by the adults involved. He has an obligation to raise and support his child because every child deserves a father. Given that he no longer has any other children, this gives him even more reason to step up. He clearly needs therapy to process his trauma and to build a healthy relationship with his child. Both he and the child deserve that opportunity for healing and connection.
He is traumatized and she is mad about that baby. Finding your child dead hurts in a way that nobody who hasn't experienced it will understand. The PTSD, the images, the pain, the depression, the longing and mourning is endless. What she is talking about is trivial to the trauma that he has experienced. He needs to leave her take care of himself and his child.
Not the toxicas in the crowd clapping when she admitted she was physically abusive🥴 Whether it’s a man or woman, no one should put their hands on their partner under any circumstance. Let’s not normalize domestic violence.
You reap what you sow! I know it hurt to find out about an outside child but for her as a woman to deny him access to his own blood child is wrong, which is most likely the reason for the lack of intimacy in her marriage! She has to forgive and move forward with the child a part of their life! Also I believe that because he denied his child in turn he lost two children that he claimed; it’s life and you will reap the benefits of your actions some way or another! I wish them all the best in their future decisions in life!
It's a special place in Hell for women like her. But I'm not gonna put it all on her. He should've manned up and told her to get on board with the baby, or kick rocks. But that woman is particularly nasty 🤢
Karamo, first let me start off by saying, I NEED you to KNOW how much I LOVE you. You are an AMAZING man. I watch you on Netflix (Queer Eye)...You're very TALENTED. Now that that's out of the way, I don't understand and probably never will, why do women want a man that makes it very obvious by his actions that he really don't want her. I understand how painful LONLINESS can be at times which is why I'm busting my behind trying to get women to form SISTERHOOD Support Groups and Support Networks in their local neighborhoods and communities. You can still enjoy life, holidays, birthdays, etc. being SINGLE even though society keeps trying to make us believe that this is not possible or normal. Companionship is companionship, and love is love. It's a whole NEW YEAR, meaning we should be EVOLVING to a whole NEW PERSON. Are women aware that when they put up and tolerate being disrespected, dogged out, abused and being treated badly there is NO REASON for these men like this one to change. Constantly REWARDING BAD BEHAVIOR, what do women expect. My Bestie of over 47 years is also a SCORPIO, and this would NEVER, EVER be her, especially with a friend like me. I'm a Capricorn, which explains why we've been friends for so long. We have way too much RESPECT, DIGNITY and WORTH to EVER put up with ANYTHING like this.
Sis, be sure to help him make efforts to find his child, I think you will fall right in Love with that little girl and I can guarantee you, you will be blessed! Peace and blessings.
Riiiiiiiight. 😍 Ugh. I would love to have a Husband like Karamo. 🥰 Someone who gets to the root, like me. Disagreements would be so mature and all we would do is reach an understanding and respect each other's opinions. 😢
This is what bothers me with situation, no one is acknowledging the fact that she cheated also and that is playing a part in his intimacy towards her too. It's always the woman's feelings and damn his has to stop. All truth needs to be laid out on the table and just the parts that she allows.
Right. And what was skipped over was the fact that he said that she wasn’t even going to come clean about her cheating until his cheating came out so she was going to take hers to the grave.
They applauded her but I’m confused as to why? When she opened her mouth to speak, she derailed and became selfish and made it about her and projects her anger onto others. Creating an ultimatum between you and a child is cold hearted.
VERY cold hearted! He should’ve left a long time ago. I would leave before making a man choose me over his child. No kid deserves an absent father, no matter how he/she got here. She has no respect or regards for him or ANY of his children. Smh
This case is a perfect example of how men will suffer in silence. He is opening up about his loss and mental struggles and she's talking about sex.....AND the woman in the crowd are clapping her. FFS 😢
Its amazing that everytime a couple comes to the show for sex the conversation never stays on sex and the guest act shock by this. Sex is not an isolated incident.
Nobody was talking about how he’s hurt from losing his son like let’s make sure he’s in therapy because depression is a big component when it comes to sex
Being a woman doesn’t give you the right to punch your husband- if situation was reversed-they’d be all over him! It’s wrong whether you’re a man or a woman. I hope he gets it will get some therapy, I hope he can be able to connect with his child also-yes, cheating was wrong-but the baby is innocent. This man is still grieving and feels he can’t express himself. They both could benefit from therapy.
What wife tells her husband that it's either her or his kid i know he cheated but that's no excuse for her to want him to disown his kid leave her ASAP
She’s selfish. She doesn’t want to be open with him about her issues. But, she wants him to be open with her about things that bother him. She’s so one sided. 🤦🏽♀️
Violence is never justifiable. Keep your hands to yourself. If you don't have self control then you shouldn't be in a relationship. I bet you wouldn't be saying that if it was the other way around so knock it off and be real
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I like what Karamo is saying. He needs to be around her father. That baby needs him. The woman is facing the current situation. You can not go back in time and get rid of his child. He always wanted kids and you can't have it. He also needs to be honest as well.
It was about being outspoken and not holding her tongue. If you don’t believe in zodiac similarity than that’s you but most of us see the characteristics.
Anyone can have different qualities from all zodiaks. I am fed up with grown people using this pseudoscience to excuse their personality and character flaws instead of taking accountability
@@leahamanuel739 the same could be said for people saying they call each other derogatory terms because they’re African-American using the N word “because they are black” judging people because they’re Christian” everyone picks and chooses what they wanna be mad at
She’s giving us Scorpios a bad name. I’m a Scorpio too but I don’t say the first thing that’s on my mind. I’m very tactful & empathetic. You can’t just go around just blurting out stuff, hurting people’s feelings & being overbearing. This woman is just disgusting!
I'm a Scorpio, too, and I completely agree. But there are a few of us that come off being a-holes because they are unintentionally selfish. That selfishness comes from being spoiled growing up.
That’s very wrong. He’s been through enough and she’s petty enough to force him to not be involved in his child’s life. It doesn’t matter if it was from an affair, that’s his child and he deserves to be in her life, and the child deserves to know her dad.
She is praised for hitting him and verbally abusing him.. Dam... this is silly, if a man acted like her , he would be dragged ... but a woman is being praised ...
Any partner or spouse that encourages you to not be a parent to your child is not the person you need to be with period. No child deserves to be treated differently regardless of how they've come into this world. It says a lot about her as a woman that she would justify her husband being a deadbeat just bc she's hurt..
I’m glad Karamo called her out about giving her husband an ultimatum about seeing HIS child. If you can’t handle an outside baby, then you don’t need to be in that relationship.
The fact that she doesn’t want him in that child’s life is a red flag. Regardless of anything he should be in his daughter’s life because she didn’t ask to be here
He needs to leave her she will hurt his baby
Right, she pissed me off! She’s less of a woman and he’s less than a man!
@@jalysahenry9288and than steady talking bout sex … how we go from them losing a child due to depression to him not meeting her sexual standards
@@jalysahenry9288 exactly they're both whack. How do you let a woman dictate your relationship with your child. That baby didn't ask to be here.
Facts.
She is DEAD wrong about giving him an ultimatum about the outside baby. She should have just left him. To hear a woman say “he didn’t want her, you can’t force him to be a father “ is just disgusting!! He shouldn’t have been raw dogging someone if he didn’t want a baby!
Right! That explains why she doesn’t have kids smh
She has low-SelfEsteem about herself still, in her mind it’s all about her, and she has never had another man show her this much attention in her life be she has always been unattractive. Which in my eyes she still is.. this lady was embarrassing af in my eyes. And he definitely can do waaaay better than her.
Exactly ! He knows how a baby is made wrap it up if you’re so pressed to not have a baby she’s insecure af
But is this a transgender?
@@moneykaos8861 on my moms, I was wondering the same thing. I was just afraid of getting canceled if I said anything about it.
The crowd claps when she said she punched him in the face but it'd be a whole different story if it were the other way around
Exactly. He would've been the most abusive monster on the planet, but she's a "woman" so it's okay
His crowd is messy. I don’t like them 😂😂😂, but I love this show
That was weird af
Yup if roles were reversed no-one would have that “you go girl” type energy. Hypocrisy at its finest.
@@dayum_mi it ain’t nothing but simps and 304’s that work together😂
This man needs to be in his child life. Period 👊🏽
The fact he said he had to clean up his own child blood and suicide scene
And the most important issues were her weight and a child is crazy
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Oh and don't forget all she talks about is sex..... selfish
What is wrong with people applauding violence? What the heck!
Hypocrisy in its purest form
Thank you!😓
Because it is a man getting hit by a women. If it was reversed, the man would be a monster.
EXACTLY Toxic feminist influence
It was just sad seeing women clapping for this foolery.
A woman that makes a man choose between her and his child gets no respect from me!! She would have been gone with that ultimatum!
Right and if she was a decent woman she would have told him, look, I can't accept this child and she's completely innocent in all of this and she deserves her father, so I'm out, I wish you well and go be a father to your daughter
literally she did not have to stay but she did and she could've encouraged him to be a father@@marimarielove
You Damn Skippy
Facts
Drag ha ass to da curb 💯 on me
We as women always sympathize with other women, but she is DEAD WRONG for every part of this.
I agree! She is disgusting for making him ignore his child
Facts! He made a mistake so needs to man up. He also pointed out that she can’t have kids.
Every damn part.
Giving him an ultimatum about showing up in an innocent kid's life😢
I already knew when she dismissed his criticism of her with „but I am a scorpio“ 🙄🙄🙄
I want women to understand that pressuring someone into sex or making them feel bad/ catching an attitude because men don't want sex is a form of abuse
Yes, it’s Coercive s e x
Exactly
I’m glad you can recognize it when the woman is the abuser. It happens more commonly the other way round, but yes, I agree
It's also controlling. She's very controlling. I don't see this ever working out.
fr!!!
The fact that he had to choose between you and his child. He will never want you. He’s harboring resentment.
That's the real reason why he's not fuckin her. They just need to separate
“It don’t exist” as she’s talking about a child. She’s bitter, she’s mean, she’s selfish and maybe even a little jealous. I wouldn’t want to sleep with her either
Yes bitter and barren
EXACTLY !! Horrible
As a man how could he deny his child after he lost one child already?!
to me it seemed like he wanted to be in his child’s life however the wife is being selfish.
If the kid really isn't his, he might be scared to lose another kid again.
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What does being a man have to do with this? How about just as a person, and stop assigning certain things to gender. Cuz last I checked, those with loosey goosey do it as well
@@tanishanestor4481that’s a terrible excuse.
He resents her for giving him the ultimatum to be in HIS CHILD’S LIFE or be with her! What a despicable thing to do!! And for him to allow this is baffling 😤
Exactly..what real man will choose any woman over his child
U only allow what u comfortable with 🤷♀️
@@teer7044One that has been traumatized by the painful loss of his kids in different ways. I was listening.
@@teer7044A broke joke
@@teer7044That is his WIFE! She comes first before the baby! Thousands of men abandon their outside kids for their families and it's wrong but it is understandable.
Not them clapping when she said she hit him in the face . Now imagine if a man would have said that . SMH
She’s so in her masculine. He’s suffering and she’s not hearing that. She needs to meet him where he’s at and that will bring the intimacy that’s needed. The month you’re born in does not validate being loud, dominate & obnoxious. AND the fact that she thinks that it’s okay to deny HIS OWN FLESH AND BLOOD!! That’s an absolute NO!!!!
She was raised with that bs and a lot of them use that as an excuse but most really believe that bs. He needs to just leave that kneegress alone,let somebody else deal with that bs.
Very she literally is so strong.
Sone men not gonna be telling a wiman what she wabna hear all day long
FRRRR
That's a man.
The fact that the audience clapped when she said she punched him in the face is ridiculous
Yes
The double standard is WILDDDD
Literally saw your comment as it was happening, like I'm sat here BAFFLED.
🤦🏾♂️
I'm surprised women are aware of the double standard.
At the start I was feeling sad for this women, but hearing this women say that child doesnt matter. Shame on her ON SO MANY LEVEL. Thank you Karamo for checking HER!!!!
She's been corrected now. Let's see what she makes of it
So she made him be a deadbeat? And called the baby and it??? She is very childish and is giving his child trauma for her own selfish reasons smh!
She needs to be ashamed of herself, sitting up there making those nasty remarks and trying to show off for the audience. She is disgusting!! No real woman talks that way. She thinks she is funny but she's not.
He’s childish for cheating on her and getting a whole girl pregnant … yall wild
Wait but she cheated and wasn't going to say nothing but i get it she a female so no accountability 🤦♂️
i don’t know how it’s her fault 😭 he is GROWNNNNNNNNNNNNN AS HELL
She doesn’t want him to visit his child
A grown ass women blaming her toxicity on a star sign is freakkking WILD Asf dude wth
Wow loss is very painful. It's totally understandable how her husband feels and what he is still currently going through. I'm praying for this couple xoxo
The fact that he lost one child to prison and the other to suicide, then she doesn’t allow him a relationship with his outside child is a lot. And by him not being sexually attracted to her just adds to her insecurities from him cheating and having the outside child. It’s like she wants him to dismiss his struggles to meet her needs which will only build his resentment towards her rather than them getting past their issues. They both have a lot of work to do on both ends in order for them to work
Absolutely
Apparently he has 21 children based on comments in the chat 🤣
He created a child by being a sl*t. It ain’t like he did it in honesty! He’s a cheater and a cheater is a liar and a horrible person. He gets what he deserves , it’s called karma goofy
Yes! Your comment was encompassing of everything!!! He messed up, but he's hurting!!!
@monique2224 let's not forget she messed up as well.
When he said the cleaning up his sons blood part...i feel so much for him..that would be so hard to get over!! I hope he can get some therapy for that
No one should have to do that.
And after he said that Big Bird was still fussing about sex, she weird
Right
@@honeyblunt4201 right
I’d probably be depressed right along with him if that was my man sad😢
Attitude is everything and regardless of what a person looks like on the outside, if you're nasty on the inside, that changes how a person sees you as a whole.
that part
Facts
1000😊
The fact that he’s allowing her to keep him from his child is atrocious 🤬 I’m so mad that’s all I can say about this
She is not keeping him from seeing his child . He is a Grown Man . If he wants to be in his child’s life he would be there period.
I love the way Karamo handles people....
This is a whole mess and he needs to leave her. Why would he want to be intimate with you while you’re forcing him to not have a relationship with his child regardless of how the child came about plus all the other trauma.
This.
That lady is selfish and mad that she couldn't give him any children
rs cause how you gon punish the child?? giving him a whole ultimatum ..
Right!!😢
exactly..
I understand exactly what this man is saying ,I found my son dead from an overdose 3 years ago, the death of your child changes you ❤
I pray that The Almighty Creator heals you and your family
@@nodeadmoney Thank you so much ❤️
So sorry you had to go through that
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m praying for you and I hope you have a great holiday ♥️
Right and for her to want him to dismiss that other child ……He needs to leave her cause if it was the other way around, she would not ignore her child!
This relationship has ran its course and he just doesn’t want to tell her. He is ready to move into a new phase of
His life and deep inside she knows this.
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She got to realize and understand how painful that is to lose a child I lost my brother in September so i get where he is coming from
I grew up with friends who said “His wife kept my dad out of our life” and I never believed it , I always thought the deadbeat was just making an excuse but now I see there really are evil and vindictive women out here like that. She’s disgusting for even referring to the child as “it” I would never trust her around my child if I was the baby mother.
He didn’t have to stay, he could have left!
But at the end of the day, he's still a deadbeat for going along with the wife. He's a grown man.
Even Karamo had to tell them how cruel it is to deprive a baby of their father
I pray he has a change of heart and gets in his child’s life.
He Need To Leave Her 😂 IDC ! As A Woman How Can You Tell A Man Not To Take of His Child ?! Wtf She Should've Just Left Him Then.
A child that was created ouside of their marriage. I understand her.
Karamo looks WAAAAAAY UNCOMFORTABLE 😲🫢
You are great 😢when you explained to her that she needs to look at the situation from the perspective of the little girl who had nothing to do with the situation but will grow to think that the father didn't want anything to do with her or support her 👌you are spoton.she is delaying her healing too
She needs help! More than the show could give. Selfish, aggressive, toxic as hell. My heart breaks for that man and what he’s been through. To make this all about an issue of intimacy is disturbing. He is NUMB. Let him be.
She's toxic. And wants attention. It's giving narcissism
He’s emotionally detached from that selfish woman and there is no coming back from that
I agree with you both.
I 100% agree. It disturbed me that Kamaro didn’t touch more on this side
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Idc HOW many pounds she lost she made herself look disgusting the way she talked about his kid and holding him back from being a dad , she’s weak af for even staying so now she’s insecure him being around the BM
Is that a man or woman
@@godsaysyes2131 yea reading other comments I’m confused too lol
@@godsaysyes2131ok so I wasn't the only one who noticed lol
I love the way Karamo notices every details.
He do peep shit
He is definitely good at what he does.
frl@@SDP5230
You do such a great job God blessed you. You are helping people heal . This not a talk show this is a show about reconnecting with each other and inner standing that we are not each others enemies . We are both hurt and don’t know how to show it.
When Karama asked him does he know where his child is…he knows! He just doesn’t want her to know he knows. They’ll always be a disconnect because she won’t “allow” him to have a relationship with his child, which will turn into resentment. She needs to grow up!
I actually agree with how Karamo handled this one. He handled it well and stood firm.
If Karamo was a drug , I’d be dead. 😩 literally the only person I even want to hear speak these days ! From Gemini to Scorpio , Karamo I love you ! When I put my fears aside , I will come up on your show and give you one of the greatest yet traumatic story in your life . Until then I’ll keep watching and healing through these situations ! Thank you !
don't forget the OGs Springer and Murey. Murey was a special guest on Ks Show actually
@@DVSMelodies999Yes he was, Karamo said Maury was instrumental in helping him get his show! ❤
Me too because I dont even watch talk shows !!
He is weak! And she is overbearing and disrespectful. How you forget about child because a woman told you too?
It’s exactly what my dad did to me I’m an affair child ..sucks
He is spineless! They both disgust me!
That’s all her and I hate it for my daughter because she wants him to be apart of her life and her unborn child and he can’t because of her the kids don’t like her because she don’t know how to shut up
I hate this for him but he is a grown man and he needs to be a father to all 21 kids he have and my daughter is his and she wants to be in her father life and she can’t because of her
Two human trash bags
You must be a side-piece 😂😂
Been there. They can’t even sit close to one another. That energy is done.
The lesbian couple one was good. I have so much respect for her mother she seems like a sweetheart. ❤❤I teared up when she spoke on losing her mom… I know the feeling and raising children just doesn’t help because you have to be strong all the time. I definitely have cried at work lol prayers for her strength . My mom was my bestfriend!!!❤️❤️
Yes the husband was wrong for cheating AND having a whole baby come out of that infidelity. Let’s not forget that she CHOSE TO STAY with him afterwards. If she didn’t want to be involved with the other woman and the baby she should’ve left him and moved on. Even if the other woman was spiteful in having the baby, that child is innocent of all the nonsense. She didn’t ask to come into the world. I hope he reaches out and becomes the Dad every child needs and deserves. If she loves him enough to forgive him and stay then she needs to find it in her heart to love that baby and support her husband as much as possible and RESPECTFULLY regardless of how she feels about the other woman. In some weird way this will sound crazy.She may have lost a stepson but she gained another one. If she could love that child, she can love this one. Sir if she still gives you ultimatums about your daughter, leave her ass and continue to step up as a father. I wish I had a dad who cared enough about me and my siblings to be in our lives despite family drama, don’t let your baby girl suffer because your wife isn’t ready to accept her personally.
So very well said!!!
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But do not forget she was cheating to and was never going to tell him and she said that herself
She cheated too but she silenced him, she wasnt giving him a chance to speak when he mentioned that. She is just playing victim.I'm a woman but she is completely wrong
And she also cheated and it would’ve never came out unless he cheated. She was gonna take that to her grave and probably keep doing it
She is out of line and he needs to leave her asap she is a terrible wife !!
A terrible wife a terrible human being
Nah he’s trash and a coward he deserves a woman like that… how dare you deadbeat your child behind that hippo
Terrible and she thinks it’s cute. Childish and selfish!
She is toxic and he is weak
She mad because she can't have children...she has no motherly instincts. That's just Sad 😔
Perhaps it’s better off that way! She appears to be very selfish!
@@thoughtbodymanifestVERY selfish.
Exactly! This is the comment I was looking for. But he shouldn’t have walked away from his child for anyone. They both need a lot of help coping with all of their issues.
He has 21 kids…says on of the baby mama in the comments…she should have never married him.
🤔🤔 No, it's because "SHE" is a MAN! HE'S transgender
Karamo, Karamo 😂😂😂. You got a good show going on. Keep up the good work.
Wishing them healing!
She’s a walking red flag! Extremely selfish, lacks empathy and had the audacity to ask the man to abandon his child! Where is his backbone?!? As a man how can you live with the fact that you walked away from being a father to your child!!!??!!! I understand 100% why he doesn’t want to touch her and at this point their relationship is beyond toxic.
The man is traumatized
But she’s a guy herself. That’s why he said she can’t give him a kid
the crowd is weird this man has suffered serious trauma that you don’t easily bounce back from and all she thinking about is her
She talking about “ I’ll show the child the receipts? “ like that validates him not being in his child’s life. She is dead wrong for giving him an ultimatum. He clearly wants to be in his daughter’s life and I believe that’s the reason why they have problems in their relationship.
I initially sided with her, but after learning about everything he’s been through, my perspective shifted. His daughter went to jail at the young age of 21, facing a sentence of 20-40 years. Then, he lost his son to suicide and had to endure the unimaginable pain of cleaning up the aftermath. On top of that, he lost someone who was like a brother to him. It’s heartbreaking to hear all he has endured. The fact that he’s still functioning and finding the strength to keep going is remarkable. I applaud his resilience.
That said, infidelity in a marriage is never acceptable. However, a child was born from the situation, and that child is not to blame for the choices made by the adults involved. He has an obligation to raise and support his child because every child deserves a father. Given that he no longer has any other children, this gives him even more reason to step up. He clearly needs therapy to process his trauma and to build a healthy relationship with his child. Both he and the child deserve that opportunity for healing and connection.
He wrong for cheating but that child still needs a father and she has no right to keep him away from his daughter .
He is traumatized and she is mad about that baby. Finding your child dead hurts in a way that nobody who hasn't experienced it will understand. The PTSD, the images, the pain, the depression, the longing and mourning is endless. What she is talking about is trivial to the trauma that he has experienced. He needs to leave her take care of himself and his child.
Not the toxicas in the crowd clapping when she admitted she was physically abusive🥴 Whether it’s a man or woman, no one should put their hands on their partner under any circumstance. Let’s not normalize domestic violence.
thank you!
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Let alone brag about It on International TV!
You reap what you sow! I know it hurt to find out about an outside child but for her as a woman to deny him access to his own blood child is wrong, which is most likely the reason for the lack of intimacy in her marriage! She has to forgive and move forward with the child a part of their life! Also I believe that because he denied his child in turn he lost two children that he claimed; it’s life and you will reap the benefits of your actions some way or another! I wish them all the best in their future decisions in life!
It's a special place in Hell for women like her. But I'm not gonna put it all on her. He should've manned up and told her to get on board with the baby, or kick rocks. But that woman is particularly nasty 🤢
Not a woman
This!!👏👏👏👏
She cheated too.
Karamo, first let me start off by saying, I NEED you to KNOW how much I LOVE you. You are an AMAZING man. I watch you on Netflix (Queer Eye)...You're very TALENTED. Now that that's out of the way, I don't understand and probably never will, why do women want a man that makes it very obvious by his actions that he really don't want her. I understand how painful LONLINESS can be at times which is why I'm busting my behind trying to get women to form SISTERHOOD Support Groups and Support Networks in their local neighborhoods and communities. You can still enjoy life, holidays, birthdays, etc. being SINGLE even though society keeps trying to make us believe that this is not possible or normal. Companionship is companionship, and love is love. It's a whole NEW YEAR, meaning we should be EVOLVING to a whole NEW PERSON. Are women aware that when they put up and tolerate being disrespected, dogged out, abused and being treated badly there is NO REASON for these men like this one to change. Constantly REWARDING BAD BEHAVIOR, what do women expect. My Bestie of over 47 years is also a SCORPIO, and this would NEVER, EVER be her, especially with a friend like me. I'm a Capricorn, which explains why we've been friends for so long. We have way too much RESPECT, DIGNITY and WORTH to EVER put up with ANYTHING like this.
Preach!
Sis, be sure to help him make efforts to find his child, I think you will fall right in Love with that little girl and I can guarantee you, you will be blessed! Peace and blessings.
Wow, Karamo is so emotionally intelligent.
Riiiiiiiight. 😍 Ugh. I would love to have a Husband like Karamo. 🥰 Someone who gets to the root, like me. Disagreements would be so mature and all we would do is reach an understanding and respect each other's opinions. 😢
She's being so unfair to him
And he's allowing it!
He had a baby on her
Girl I choked on my food when you said IM A SCORPIO because THAT PART 🤍👑🙏🏽💪🏾
Karamo talk that talk!!
I love the way the husband communicates
He’s so calm
This episode was for me!! He wants to be heard and she wants to be seen!
I will never give up on my kid for a mere woman. That's nonsense. Blood is blood.
Power to that🥂
This is what bothers me with situation, no one is acknowledging the fact that she cheated also and that is playing a part in his intimacy towards her too. It's always the woman's feelings and damn his has to stop. All truth needs to be laid out on the table and just the parts that she allows.
Right. And what was skipped over was the fact that he said that she wasn’t even going to come clean about her cheating until his cheating came out so she was going to take hers to the grave.
Yeah I'm surprised at karamo for not addressing that
That fact that this man lost a child, and has a child in this world that he can care less about is CRAZY!!!!!!
He needs to be single, she's WAY too much to deal with. Someone get her a muzzle 🙄
A muzzle???You sicko!!
@@maryjane2965 I said what I said, be gone
she kinda looks like a transgender to me
Youre absolutely right 😅😅
And she's insecure.
Why are they always clapping for her? Bro is really suffering.
Because they’re narcissistic just like her😂
Because in America men don't matter!!! Only the emotions of WOMEN dam shame!!!
They applauded her but I’m confused as to why? When she opened her mouth to speak, she derailed and became selfish and made it about her and projects her anger onto others. Creating an ultimatum between you and a child is cold hearted.
VERY cold hearted! He should’ve left a long time ago. I would leave before making a man choose me over his child. No kid deserves an absent father, no matter how he/she got here. She has no respect or regards for him or ANY of his children. Smh
He needs to be heard
The husband doesn't know we all know that,that's a man,so maybe that's why he let's he she,rule him,frightened he she,will tell the world.😮😮😮
This case is a perfect example of how men will suffer in silence. He is opening up about his loss and mental struggles and she's talking about sex.....AND the woman in the crowd are clapping her. FFS 😢
When he said, "oh so a lot go down in the car for yall." I LOST it😂
Its amazing that everytime a couple comes to the show for sex the conversation never stays on sex and the guest act shock by this. Sex is not an isolated incident.
The attitude of selfishness.. YET, it's the Father's responsibility to go in search of his daughter. Hoping the best. 🙏🏾
When I say Karamo hit it right on the nose I love this and I felt this.I can now use these tools for myself and my partner! 💯
Nobody was talking about how he’s hurt from losing his son like let’s make sure he’s in therapy because depression is a big component when it comes to sex
Whether a relationship works or doesn't come down to one thing: effective communication.
Yep❤
Being a woman doesn’t give you the right to punch your husband- if situation was reversed-they’d be all over him! It’s wrong whether you’re a man or a woman. I hope he gets it will get some therapy, I hope he can be able to connect with his child also-yes, cheating was wrong-but the baby is innocent. This man is still grieving and feels he can’t express himself. They both could benefit from therapy.
To say a child don’t exist is disgusting! How dare u that child is innocent
Umm after saying he cleaned up his son’s blood, how could she still think about Dk and “look at this? Who wouldn’t want this?” Smh
This was his son. Not hers. Who prolly heard her talk badly about his other child numerous times. Who knows how that made him feel?
Her real pain in regards to her husband outside child is the fact that she can’t have kids and this unknown woman gave him that
Her not allowing him to see his daughter is sad it shows her insecurities as a woman she should accept the child and just move on from that
What wife tells her husband that it's either her or his kid i know he cheated but that's no excuse for her to want him to disown his kid leave her ASAP
She’s selfish. She doesn’t want to be open with him about her issues. But, she wants him to be open with her about things that bother him. She’s so one sided. 🤦🏽♀️
She is not hearing him..
She worried about using disgusting language on tv like it's cute...
She is selfish, totally obsorbed in herself...
I also think shes jealous she admitted she couldnt have kids.
Violence is never justifiable. Keep your hands to yourself. If you don't have self control then you shouldn't be in a relationship. I bet you wouldn't be saying that if it was the other way around so knock it off and be real
@@death24314he didnt have self control cheating and driving her car smh schlaaaap! 👋🏽
@@guccilady1017 wtf that got to do with putting your hands on somebody? Seriously trying to justify that shit?? Grow up.
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I like what Karamo is saying. He needs to be around her father. That baby needs him. The woman is facing the current situation. You can not go back in time and get rid of his child. He always wanted kids and you can't have it. He also needs to be honest as well.
Bless their hearts. I lost two children from HLH. I had to clean them up also. It's was difficult, but God lifted me up.
What does being a scorpio have to do with being disrespectful and loud mouth
It was about being outspoken and not holding her tongue. If you don’t believe in zodiac similarity than that’s you but most of us see the characteristics.
@@kkpuffs16I personally think it's a thing people use to excuse their bullshit
Anyone can have different qualities from all zodiaks. I am fed up with grown people using this pseudoscience to excuse their personality and character flaws instead of taking accountability
@@kkpuffs16i’m so sick and tired of people trying to use zodiac signs to excuse their toxic behaviors
@@leahamanuel739 the same could be said for people saying they call each other derogatory terms because they’re African-American using the N word “because they are black” judging people because they’re Christian” everyone picks and chooses what they wanna be mad at
She’s giving us Scorpios a bad name. I’m a Scorpio too but I don’t say the first thing that’s on my mind. I’m very tactful & empathetic. You can’t just go around just blurting out stuff, hurting people’s feelings & being overbearing. This woman is just disgusting!
Most Scorpios are like that though so she's not lying. My mom is a Scorpio and she acts just like her
I'm a Scorpio, too, and I completely agree. But there are a few of us that come off being a-holes because they are unintentionally selfish. That selfishness comes from being spoiled growing up.
@@death24314 I agree a lot of Scorpio women are overbearing. Thank God my mom is a Gemini (no offense) lol but it also depends on how you were raised.
@@omgimover4075 lol shit none taking. My mom is a handful haha
Same. I hate to hurt ppl feelings. I just shut down and remove myself and I definitely ain't staying with someone who had a baby on me.
She’s hurt and jealous because she couldn’t give him a child but she’s wrong for not allowing him to have a relationship with that child.
He is a cool guy. Rip to his people, and incarcerated friend. It ain't easy.
That’s very wrong. He’s been through enough and she’s petty enough to force him to not be involved in his child’s life. It doesn’t matter if it was from an affair, that’s his child and he deserves to be in her life, and the child deserves to know her dad.
That man need to be in his little girls life PERIOD💯💯💯💃. The baby is totally innocent 😍
Karamo be SPEAKING
She is praised for hitting him and verbally abusing him..
Dam... this is silly, if a man acted like her , he would be dragged ... but a woman is being praised ...
Any partner or spouse that encourages you to not be a parent to your child is not the person you need to be with period. No child deserves to be treated differently regardless of how they've come into this world. It says a lot about her as a woman that she would justify her husband being a deadbeat just bc she's hurt..
I’m glad Karamo called her out about giving her husband an ultimatum about seeing HIS child. If you can’t handle an outside baby, then you don’t need to be in that relationship.