Life is boring, everyone just does the same thing all the time. You wake up got to work/college/uni/school then you come back home and go to sleep then you repeat that again the next day 😒
If you increase your perspective enough, you can say that about anything. The larger the category, the more you can include in it. So you could say life is boring because everything breathes until they die. Conversely, you could say that no one does anything in the same way because everything is constantly changing. Your perspective determines the way you live your life, but it does not mean it is true.
Darth Sidious that’s why I dyed my hair and wanted to do a bunch of things to myself to change but my parents won’t let me so I have to live with the same stuff all the time
I get bored in everyday things. Such as watching UA-cam. Sometimes I don't finish watching a video because I've gotten bored of it. I stop doing something if it isn't interesting enough.
Shit youtube only thing I have I will never get bored at so many video out there un real take that away and iam bored as hell depressed as hell lonely as hell
i get bored bcs i feel like i do the same thing everyday its mainly bcs im still living with my parents and they never wanna do nothing fun so im basically stuck around the house
It’s not fear for me, it’s the simple fact that I literately can’t do the things I want to do. I don’t have any money because I’m a teen in a bad economy, I live in a town with nothing to do other than go see a movie but that isn’t what I want to do at all, and I can’t even go out for a walk because my parents will question me about it because they question every single little thing that changes.
Lavaloo I know the feeling. All I have in my town are movies and bowling, but neither are particularly fun to do. I can leave my house for walks but walking in the same places all the time gets repetitive and leaves me bored
same. my problem is every time i wanted something and go for it so much goes wrong i basically have a mental breakdown and over so many years i just give up.
BS, i am just bored as fuck, dont know what to do, nothing interests me, no motivation, no nothing, cant get a job, no money or very little, no friends etc. etc.
Check out Christianity, it's really motivated me to do little important things. I try my best to lift God up, and ask and then I receive. Of course I have to be patient, but He waits for a perfect time. You're important to me ok? You're important to God, if you believe it or not. If ever you're stressing out, pray. If ever you need someone to talk to, I'm right here, dm my insta @jenna.spem :) you'll get through this. But not alone. ❤️
I think you should try going to public places/events more often, I’m sure you’ll finally make at least one friend if you do that than you’ll be able to make more friends from that point onwards
It's not that something is stopping me from doing something fun, everything I found interesting just suddenly became uninteresting, and now I have nothing to look forward to.
I just have nothing to do and every time something new gets in my life I just can't be wowed or excited for it, after 3 days it becomes something normal and that's it :(
I think the way around this is to become content with life being boring then it will not bother you as much do you really need to be excited all the time it's exhausting
I am always bored so I start cutting everything, tap/scratching walls, start getting aggressive for NO reason, thinking that nobody cares about me, and it kept getting worse so I’m glad I found you
Izzy Fitzsimon i don't want to freak you out but this might be the begining of depression i got through depression and it is not beautiful at all i think you need to talk to a psychologue to help you out before it becomes more severe and if that happens you will need a psychatrist and drugs. You may not like what i am going to say but i think that you need jesus in your life because that what the most helped me to get through the severe depression and alcohol addiction God bless
I don't know what I want. I start something and then I get bored of it. I have boredom, but without fear. I like something for a while, and then I get tired of it.
guys get out of the house and take a walk or something. im always bored at home so I try get out of the house all the time. I use to be addicted to playing video games but that shit is over for me because I just got so bored of it and everything about my life, until I went crazy and one morning went for a run in my bedroom robe for about 3km. now I do that pretty much everyday at about 6km to 10km.
Everyday I wake up and Im bored I study and I'm bored I exersize and I'm bored and I go to sleep and I'm bored with life and no one else seems to be screaming with boredom to. I don't know what to do. But this actually really helped thankyou.
Its not fear its just i lack of intrest in the things people my age like to do, like sports and playing outside, just the normal thing any kid would like to do but its just i just wanna sit inside all day not because im lazy and stuff because i know what i wanna do its just i dont have the.... "materials" or objects i need to give me intrest i really wanna do stuff like digital art 😅 i know a lot of money 😧 and that is the problem i really think if i can maybe just maybe start doing digital art it would not only bring me joy but always bring out a passion, somthing not to only cure bordem but just a way to express the true me 😅😅😑
Quarantine is so boriing i think i did everything like i watched all the categories on youtube,played all the games on the appstore, did all the boardgames and yeah repeat all of that everyday
I am bored at home too. There is nothing to do, video games don’t entertain me anymore, have no more motivation to study and I have no friends to go out and do something with despite the weather being good outside.
I lose interest so fast, I’ll load up a new series to entertain myself and I’ll just end up skipping through the first few minutes and get bored of it.
I'm 22. Life is way too boring and nothing to it. Miss my job want it back. Even if it was only two days a week. All I do is sleep sleep and workout every night...
I’m bored rn. Bc it’s 8:47 Am and I have nothing to do. And my soccer ball supposed to come in the mail today and I was bored for days waiting for it. Also I get bored bc I have no friends. I’m homeschooled and I have 1 friend. Anyway I can’t wait for the soccer ball! :) :/
I believe I'm bored because I have a short list of hobbies that even though I enjoy them, I think I've burnt them out, done them to much to the point where my brain wants something new to do.
The past two years at school everyday felt the same. I was bored all of the time. At school I was learning and being taught new things but the day felt the same. Wake up, go to school, get home do homework, eat dinner, go to bed, and repeat.
*Exactly* the same here, glad this comment is so recent. Thing is I can't ever meet any non-existent friends or go outside and do things. I live in Britain and it's always just so miserable and there's nothing to do. I feel like I've lived the same day for the past 2 years and will live the same day for the next three years. Nothing remarkable or even remotely interesting happens. Thing is I'm condemned to live in this dump of a country for the rest of my life it's not like the films where you get whisked away into a world of magic or colour or fame. I'll be stuck with a mediocre job in this miserable country for the rest of my life and there isn't jack shit I can do about it. I am *so* sorry I just vented there but it felt so much better writing that out.
@@sorenjean6879 Thanks, it's weird that random people on the internet seem to have more hope than people I know do. Hell even my mum said the other day, and I quote "let's be honest I don't see you settling down in a romantic relationship with anyone and having a family" so it's also comforting to me hearing I'm not alone
I just wanna say that i really adore what you do despite of your introvertness. You overcome your fear by making this video and yeah, you did great. I wish i have courage like you do. Anyway, i wish you all the best in life.
I was blown by what you were say; just how it makes a lot of sense and I've had never thought of it this way, and as you talk it makes sense more and more. I guess it's still different with depressed people like myself but I'd like to think it would actually help a lot still.
Wra8h The thing is that, you know when you have a group of friends that have other small groups of friends, and you are that guy when everybody is grouped all together, your friends have had this fantastic experiences but with their other group, and you are the only one who feels like... like you have done shit, nothing at all... today was one of does days for me. And the funy part is that here I am talking to a stranger in a UA-cam video xD
Rúben C Rúben C ahahaha awh! I guess the community I live in is a little bit different but I can relate! They've always got a lot of things to say when they meet, things I don't know about! Therefore I probably turn out to look like the one who's left out and more of a loner! I feel you haha. I'd say look for new people if it doesn't work because for me I just think mine aren't quite compatible and im not the main reason xD
Wra8h I know... maybe you are right, maybe I should look for that. You know man, sometimes I just wanna know that I am not the only one who feels like this, or that I am just a loonly person. Thanks, really needed to talk, even if it was with somebody on the Internet xD
I'm bored of my dreams I keep running after my dreams for years and years, but it's seems to be impossible. so I lost my desire in everything nothing attrac me or pushed to work more. I think I'm bored because as you said a fried of not fulfill my dream. thanks for your posts keep inspire ppl I like how simply you said it and I like your calm voice thanx
I like to write.I just struggle with lack of motivation,hard time accepting compliments,and just overall self confidence in my work.I look at shows like Stranger Things. It makes me feel happy,amazed,all other things. It is incredible.I want to write a show or a book and make someone else feel how I feel. But no matter how hard I think everyday or night I think everything I do is worthless and horrible.
You really are so good, I mean every word you've said is full of wisdom and true. you know what, this video just showed up to me after 3 years later again... and I found my old comment that I was making fun of u. but now I can realize what u truly meant. And I'm grateful for that. sometimes people get things but when it's too late. Hope you don't mind, and yeah I'll follow ur tips, will face the fear. Thanks again.
thank you for this video. you speak the truth man and it really hits me right in the heart. serious wisdom. To the other people watching this, watch it again, let it sink in, take notes.
guys, i need your help i need your advice, i feel so trapped with my life. I'm college student I'm young there's lot to do being young adult. but there's something that's pulling me back, I'm bored with myself with my life but I'm not some solitude, i go out with my friends go partying, studying, and i exercise and the point of this i try to make myself busy, active and be happy with it.but sometimes i just want different life i wanna be so successful like doing jobs meeting people going everywhere like a successful businessmen i just wanna be in the middle of big thing. I'm just tired of this typical life..tired of doing same things everyday, tired of seeing same faces, same places. at least i wanna study abroad i wanna meet new people,explore different thoughts new places.. I'm so tired living in a typical fucking life..so sometimes i walk out alone to think how shitty my life is....
Hey,you probably changed much since you wrote that comment but I just clicked on that video.Your life is not typical,your life is extraordinary.You and only you can change your life in what you want.For good or bad fortune thoughit takes time to make our lives how we want to.I am tired of the routine sometimes myself but I have goals and dreams that I want to fullfil and even if I hadn't I would continue living to make goals and dreams.Optimism is not a bad thing in your life.Positive energy either.Notice how much it will change when you do such thoughts.Constantly think of good things.Blind optimism leads into an illusion though you can't possibly give up on everything and be what you want in that place and time.Everything you do in life is baby steps.I am not your friend -relative or anything however I believe that everyone is bored sometimes. Sometimes we go through phases of boredom it can last years,months,weeks or days.But if you get through this with your own pace you'll be able to understand what I am trying to say. I hope you're well.
These are early signs of depression How are you doing now, if more or less same do see videos of jon jandai on you tube, life is fun , life is easy. God bless you.
I just found this video, it was randomly recommended to me when i was searching for places to visit. The problem is, There isn't much to the world overall. No matter where i go i feel like it's all the same. I'm still on the search but nothing seems to fill that gap to make me not bored. I don't think it's anything about being scared, It's more or less possibly my lack of knowledge of the world.
sometimes i get really bored, i start thinking about how all of our deaths are inevitable and i wonder if there is an afterlife. my mood gets ruined by this.
There is an after-life, which is heaven. Repent and turn to Jesus, and you will have a ticket to heaven. He left us a guide which is word, follow it and obey it, and we have ourselves eternity with our father Jesus(Yashua)
Hello Henri, I've discovered your page via Free Your Zen. I would like to say how much I enjoy videos: You're a wise guy, intelligent and straight-to-the-point. Your voice/accent is very soothing and calming-- and you're extremely telegenic and easy on the eye. I look forward to watching the rest of your videos; the topics you cover look interesting, your advice helpful.
Feel bored with your life, and your work? Then you may want to watch my latest video. No need to eliminate your fears or do any sort of wizardry. There's just one thing you need to do ...
PLEASE READ FULL HELP ME 😞 I'm bored with my life please help me i am counting on you please i wanna die but I am scared well you wanna hear that... well so here it is, pokemon was my life i dont actually got anything to do and now it's ended and I am ... uh... i dont know.I cry for no reason i talk to myself all the time and I'm just bored at a child age at 12 please help me... that will be greatly appreciated
My life: *brush teeth* *change to school uniform* *eat breakfast* *go to school* blah blah blah *sleeps in class* classmates:Wake up Koara it's lunch Me:yesssssss _runs so fast faster than in sports day_
It's not that I'm afraid to do things. I want to do them *really* badly. It's that I'm under 18, and can't drive. I'm either at hell (school) which is just a purgatory. Or in my house which is so boring. We never go out on weekdays. The only thing I can do is sit here on the internet to forget about my boring life. I want to go out and do things. I'm just not able to.
I am constantly bored 24/7 because I want to accomplish something in my life. I have no skills or talent at all! I'm scared about what others would say and or do. I want to become an actor. Maybe I should take small steps. Just want a life outside my parents house.
I love singing but like for 6 months when ever I try to sing I feel soo bored. I can't get the voice out like I supposed it would. And singing was only think that I enjoyed the most. Now i can't even do it.
Maybe it has something to do with the constricting nature of fear. What I mean is this: When you are afraid of something, you avoid it. When you are afraid of everything, you avoid life, and you do nothing. When you can't do anything, you feel bored, because a part of you is crying out for adventure.
it may be fears but after so so so many years of trying to achieve things or just do things i want in general so much goes wrong. i think its just my depression that overrides it. im not talking about depression like the fears taking you over and you feel down all the time. its that but also physical issues now and not getting good sleep or consistent sleep and then that affects everything and i dont know what the hell i can even do in life anymore.
I'm not sure, but I think boredom comes from living a life you know you don't want. It's a huge underlying fear of not having the guts to change your life in the (drastical) way needed. This whole thing has two causes: 1. You are too comfortable with your life right know, and you know changing it will be a very big challenge. 2. You haven't found yourself yet. Or it can be a combination of the two.
im bored, thats why im watching this vid. but i like this dude 😊😉 he's opening up which is really good. most of the time I ALSO GET BORED! but there are days where im not . Its just part of life i guess. ITS REALITY. We are not like in the movies where every scene is action. Just read a book or buy a new pet, be vulnerable around people 😊 ✌
Even on holidays I feel like nothing interests me, video games, books movies, I thought I was entertained for like ten minute before I felt like shutting it off
I think i'm bore lately because I'm looking for something. Something not shallow, a life partner and a friend, looking for affection or love. I don't think I'm afraid. But I'm living alone for years, in a city where I don't have any good, old friends and no families or relatives. I'm dating around but so far no interesting person with a connection or whom I click with. So not much, and I'm not into empty hookups anymore. So yeah im bored coz i think im looking for something more, deeper. happiness or joy..
Yh it's true, I get very bored because of my fears because I don't do what I really want to do because I'm scared of something bad happening and that it might not be worth it😥😔
It’s not that I’m afraid to do the things I want. I’m just still a kid and I don’t drive yet so I can’t go anywhere when I want. My parents are divorced so I’m always traveling back and forth between my family members but they almost never actually wanna do anything other than sitting in the house all day. Like I’ll be visiting my grandmas and she doesn’t want me to go outside by myself so the only time I get to go outside is with her and it’s never really all that fun. My mom does ABSOLUTELY nothing, and my dad has an out of town job so he’s always gone and he’s the only one I can have fun with and do stuff with. Life is just so unfair! Stuck in the house all day with crappy weather is NO way to spend summer vacation. :( and I never get to see my friends either, and they’re also the only ones I have fun with. I can’t even do activities that I enjoy anymore! I play piano and I’m not even enjoying it anymore like I used to when school was still in.
I see a lot of comments saying when you do the same thing everyday you get bored but everyone does I think it's just that there's nothing excited to look forward to in the daily routine and the exciting event doesn't have anything to do with you.
I literally switch from doing one thing to another because I am extremely bored, my mind is racing and I want to do everything. I want to go out all the time, I feel really flirty and bubbly atm and really happy and I can’t even sleep ahaha
I relate to what you say big time! I have anxiety and these anxious thoughts and the fact that I always obsess about everything I'm doing in my life holds me back from living and enjoying my life and doing everything I dreamt of doing that I believe will bring my happiness n contentment! Add to it the fact that I'm a loner I don't go out a lot, I stay on my own most of the time, I hate it but maybe because I get anxious and uncomfortable around ppl! I fear failure, embarrassment, let downs, heart breaks, you name it! It just hold me back from life n I end up feeling bored with my life all the time!!
Is laziness some sort of strange manifestation of fear because my lack of motivation or quickness to lose interest in something seems to be my default setting
The tiny that you are talking also feels boring after some time.....I have guts to face my fears but after sometime it comes to the same uninteresting life....what should I do??
I looked this up cause I can do something for a long time but then my want to do things with something dies out so fast like I will play a game and get bored of it so fast I have no idea why
You're correct man. I try but that's an excuse because I would've just did it. I want to do what I love but my self esteem is not that high but it's not low either. Idk I guess I still care what others think of me
Feeling bored now and searching something to listen from here and I've found u.. I'm bored of corona virus 19 it made me lost my job😣😣so what I can do is only stay at home.....
I defentely agree with u .. also i think doing the same thing over and over and waiting for a better result can make the person less confortable and boring..and that what i accually experement in my daily ... i'm an english learner i've been learning english for almost 8 mounths and i don't know what happened sudennely and makes me stuck and borried...i don't wanna quit learning english 😢
Life is boring, everyone just does the same thing all the time.
You wake up got to work/college/uni/school then you come back home and go to sleep then you repeat that again the next day 😒
If you increase your perspective enough, you can say that about anything. The larger the category, the more you can include in it. So you could say life is boring because everything breathes until they die. Conversely, you could say that no one does anything in the same way because everything is constantly changing. Your perspective determines the way you live your life, but it does not mean it is true.
Henri Junttila
True
Henri Junttila
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i want to go back to school, life is more boring after you graduated and job less
Jake S just make awesome suits or some tech gadgets
i believe constant boredom is caused by lack of changes and activities in your life
Yes routine how right you are.
that is maybe a reason, nothing changed in my life over 3 years...
stop killing jedis
Darth Sidious that’s why I dyed my hair and wanted to do a bunch of things to myself to change but my parents won’t let me so I have to live with the same stuff all the time
Yes i agree
I get bored in everyday things. Such as watching UA-cam. Sometimes I don't finish watching a video because I've gotten bored of it. I stop doing something if it isn't interesting enough.
I feel bored and scared but I don’t know what I am scared of
Shit youtube only thing I have I will never get bored at so many video out there un real take that away and iam bored as hell depressed as hell lonely as hell
Same
I usually get up at 2-4pm today i got up at like 12 or 1 and bro ive been so bored.
@@aubreeguzman2020for me I feel the fear coming from the thinking of others got on me
i get bored bcs i feel like i do the same thing everyday
its mainly bcs im still living with my parents and they never wanna do nothing fun so im basically stuck around the house
Queso Dip the batXD I can relate
Bro I really feel your pain like seriously this is like that closest I can relate.
Queso ofthedip same here
Queso ofthedip omg same!! I thought I was the only one cause everyone I know is never at there house and doing something fun 😒
Same. I wish I had something new to do.
I'm not bored all the time because i have fear.
I'm bored because this world is uninteresting to me.
Same
I'm bored all the time because I do the same shit everyday
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can relate
robotsrule same
I wish it worked like in the stories where someone or something comes into my life and flips it upside down.
the rain makes you look ugly omg same
Same!!! I love stories like that, if only it would happen to me
YES
Exactly
Yeah I would like to go on adventures but we can only dream.
It’s not fear for me, it’s the simple fact that I literately can’t do the things I want to do. I don’t have any money because I’m a teen in a bad economy, I live in a town with nothing to do other than go see a movie but that isn’t what I want to do at all, and I can’t even go out for a walk because my parents will question me about it because they question every single little thing that changes.
Lavaloo I know the feeling. All I have in my town are movies and bowling, but neither are particularly fun to do. I can leave my house for walks but walking in the same places all the time gets repetitive and leaves me bored
Me too
I wouldn’t say fears, more like no money
Exactly
Nope. I make more money than ever but I'm still lost 😭
Every activity that is fun requires money, but good company helps
Yup!!
Fear is money
I feel angry, jealous, bored, depressed, like I'm not happy with my life, I don't want to feel that way anymore, I don't know what's going on with me
same. my problem is every time i wanted something and go for it so much goes wrong i basically have a mental breakdown and over so many years i just give up.
Depression is the Devil!
@@briloveskurthummelbriones1565 its like quick sand, and no one is coming to save me
It's so hard!😞
do you think about you're crush.
I want to do something but i don't feel like doing it. I don't know what the thing i want to do is.
This is me.
Kauno Horube same
Kauno Horube : I could not have said it any better!
Kauno Horube exactly, i was like i want to do something but im to lazy and bored to that
BS, i am just bored as fuck, dont know what to do, nothing interests me, no motivation, no nothing, cant get a job, no money or very little, no friends etc. etc.
Let's be friends!
Check out Christianity, it's really motivated me to do little important things. I try my best to lift God up, and ask and then I receive. Of course I have to be patient, but He waits for a perfect time. You're important to me ok? You're important to God, if you believe it or not. If ever you're stressing out, pray. If ever you need someone to talk to, I'm right here, dm my insta @jenna.spem :) you'll get through this. But not alone. ❤️
Jenna Vasquez no
I think you should try going to public places/events more often, I’m sure you’ll finally make at least one friend if you do that than you’ll be able to make more friends from that point onwards
I’m bored because my life is only school and homework. The only I’m outside is when I’m going back and fourth from school and home.
dil The pickle lol .. kid wait till your life becomes working for paying bills and bed .
Same here
Same and I'm always tired and fustraited
Welll I’m going to my mums house and going to school and coming back home and going to my dads house and it goes ON AND ON!!!
@@SkyKngiht That's also another problem. There's crumbs like you telling us that our situation is gonna get worse, which doesn't help.
It's not that something is stopping me from doing something fun, everything I found interesting just suddenly became uninteresting, and now I have nothing to look forward to.
"Fear is behind boredom", words of wisdom.
What if your bored because you have no fear. :/
Explain yourself
@@BRAINE-FREEZE Yeah ok.
I do everything I want to do and still bored. No fear of it because I go and do it. Still bored.
Deluged Life Same
this is literally me
well said..but i'm still feeling bored watching this..
@Dado Kaluf indeed..!!
I just have nothing to do and every time something new gets in my life I just can't be wowed or excited for it, after 3 days it becomes something normal and that's it :(
Same here exactly
Mujtaba MJ Same, so boring...
Mujtaba MJ too
I think the way around this is to become content with life being boring then it will not bother you as much do you really need to be excited all the time it's exhausting
Is this a psychic disorder..ohh noo😭😭
I am always bored so I start cutting everything, tap/scratching walls, start getting aggressive for NO reason, thinking that nobody cares about me, and it kept getting worse so I’m glad I found you
Izzy Fitzsimon i don't want to freak you out but this might be the begining of depression i got through depression and it is not beautiful at all i think you need to talk to a psychologue to help you out before it becomes more severe and if that happens you will need a psychatrist and drugs. You may not like what i am going to say but i think that you need jesus in your life because that what the most helped me to get through the severe depression and alcohol addiction God bless
It will get better
And if it doesn't
Make it better through everything you can (subliminals, binural beats, UA-cam videos on this topic, etc.)
🙏
Alarma Alarma I’m atheist
if you want attention pay attention to others
I am always bored. I want to build something so that I am always engaged doing something creative. I have ideas but no resources.
i have neither...
I have ideas too but I'm bored to implement them
So true
True
I'm bored not cause of fear but because of the love for things have gone out of me,
I don't know what I want. I start something and then I get bored of it. I have boredom, but without fear. I like something for a while, and then I get tired of it.
guys get out of the house and take a walk or something. im always bored at home so I try get out of the house all the time. I use to be addicted to playing video games but that shit is over for me because I just got so bored of it and everything about my life, until I went crazy and one morning went for a run in my bedroom robe for about 3km. now I do that pretty much everyday at about 6km to 10km.
Everyday I wake up and Im bored I study and I'm bored I exersize and I'm bored and I go to sleep and I'm bored with life and no one else seems to be screaming with boredom to. I don't know what to do. But this actually really helped thankyou.
Its not fear its just i lack of intrest in the things people my age like to do, like sports and playing outside, just the normal thing any kid would like to do but its just i just wanna sit inside all day not because im lazy and stuff because i know what i wanna do its just i dont have the.... "materials" or objects i need to give me intrest i really wanna do stuff like digital art 😅 i know a lot of money 😧 and that is the problem i really think if i can maybe just maybe start doing digital art it would not only bring me joy but always bring out a passion, somthing not to only cure bordem but just a way to express the true me 😅😅😑
Quarantine is so boriing i think i did everything like i watched all the categories on youtube,played all the games on the appstore, did all the boardgames and yeah repeat all of that everyday
I am bored at home too. There is nothing to do, video games don’t entertain me anymore, have no more motivation to study and I have no friends to go out and do something with despite the weather being good outside.
I just have no idea what to do ever...
You are telling the truth, there is fear hiding beneath boredom.
Everything feels so boring, it feels as if there is nothing meaningful only distractions.
I lose interest so fast, I’ll load up a new series to entertain myself and I’ll just end up skipping through the first few minutes and get bored of it.
Same. :|
I'm 22. Life is way too boring and nothing to it. Miss my job want it back. Even if it was only two days a week. All I do is sleep sleep and workout every night...
I’m bored rn. Bc it’s 8:47 Am and I have nothing to do. And my soccer ball supposed to come in the mail today and I was bored for days waiting for it.
Also I get bored bc I have no friends. I’m homeschooled and I have 1 friend.
Anyway I can’t wait for the soccer ball! :) :/
I believe I'm bored because I have a short list of hobbies that even though I enjoy them, I think I've burnt them out, done them to much to the point where my brain wants something new to do.
The past two years at school everyday felt the same. I was bored all of the time. At school I was learning and being taught new things but the day felt the same. Wake up, go to school, get home do homework, eat dinner, go to bed, and repeat.
*Exactly* the same here, glad this comment is so recent. Thing is I can't ever meet any non-existent friends or go outside and do things. I live in Britain and it's always just so miserable and there's nothing to do. I feel like I've lived the same day for the past 2 years and will live the same day for the next three years. Nothing remarkable or even remotely interesting happens. Thing is I'm condemned to live in this dump of a country for the rest of my life it's not like the films where you get whisked away into a world of magic or colour or fame. I'll be stuck with a mediocre job in this miserable country for the rest of my life and there isn't jack shit I can do about it.
I am *so* sorry I just vented there but it felt so much better writing that out.
@@justonepilot1018 It’s good to vent so you don’t bottle up everything. I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels this way.
@@sorenjean6879 Thanks, it's weird that random people on the internet seem to have more hope than people I know do. Hell even my mum said the other day, and I quote "let's be honest I don't see you settling down in a romantic relationship with anyone and having a family" so it's also comforting to me hearing I'm not alone
@@justonepilot1018 I have been feeling this my whole life
I just wanna say that i really adore what you do despite of your introvertness. You overcome your fear by making this video and yeah, you did great. I wish i have courage like you do. Anyway, i wish you all the best in life.
I was blown by what you were say; just how it makes a lot of sense and I've had never thought of it this way, and as you talk it makes sense more and more. I guess it's still different with depressed people like myself but I'd like to think it would actually help a lot still.
Wra8h The thing is that, you know when you have a group of friends that have other small groups of friends, and you are that guy when everybody is grouped all together, your friends have had this fantastic experiences but with their other group, and you are the only one who feels like... like you have done shit, nothing at all... today was one of does days for me. And the funy part is that here I am talking to a stranger in a UA-cam video xD
Rúben C Rúben C ahahaha awh! I guess the community I live in is a little bit different but I can relate! They've always got a lot of things to say when they meet, things I don't know about! Therefore I probably turn out to look like the one who's left out and more of a loner! I feel you haha. I'd say look for new people if it doesn't work because for me I just think mine aren't quite compatible and im not the main reason xD
Wra8h I know... maybe you are right, maybe I should look for that. You know man, sometimes I just wanna know that I am not the only one who feels like this, or that I am just a loonly person. Thanks, really needed to talk, even if it was with somebody on the Internet xD
Rúben C Ahh I know it's only normal! Anytime! I feel the same
Wra8h May our conversation continue anytime, with random topics, if we feel like it.
I'm bored of my dreams I keep running after my dreams for years and years, but it's seems to be impossible. so I lost my desire in everything nothing attrac me or pushed to work more. I think I'm bored because as you said a fried of not fulfill my dream. thanks for your posts keep inspire ppl I like how simply you said it and I like your calm voice thanx
Well not fear I’m just tired like all the time. I get good sleep though so do you think I should be more active?
Boredom is important I was told that i exist in this world because my parents was bored.
I'm always bored cuz I go to school/go home/ play on my computer/play songs on my phone... So I do that everyday that's probably why I'm bored
I like to write.I just struggle with lack of motivation,hard time accepting compliments,and just overall self confidence in my work.I look at shows like Stranger Things. It makes me feel happy,amazed,all other things. It is incredible.I want to write a show or a book and make someone else feel how I feel.
But no matter how hard I think everyday or night I think everything I do is worthless and horrible.
Very helpful. I figured out a while back that when I feel lonely, I am actually bored. But I had never seen the fear behind the boredom.
You really are so good, I mean every word you've said is full of wisdom and true. you know what, this video just showed up to me after 3 years later again... and I found my old comment that I was making fun of u. but now I can realize what u truly meant. And I'm grateful for that. sometimes people get things but when it's too late. Hope you don't mind, and yeah I'll follow ur tips, will face the fear. Thanks again.
thank you for this video. you speak the truth man and it really hits me right in the heart. serious wisdom. To the other people watching this, watch it again, let it sink in, take notes.
you look and sound like angel of light.
I’m so bored everyday is the same. Having a a boyfriend only changes it for a second but at the end of the day I still feel the same.
guys, i need your help i need your advice, i feel so trapped with my life. I'm college student I'm young there's lot to do being young adult. but there's something that's pulling me back, I'm bored with myself with my life but I'm not some solitude, i go out with my friends go partying, studying, and i exercise and the point of this i try to make myself busy, active and be happy with it.but sometimes i just want different life i wanna be so successful like doing jobs meeting people going everywhere like a successful businessmen i just wanna be in the middle of big thing. I'm just tired of this typical life..tired of doing same things everyday, tired of seeing same faces, same places. at least i wanna study abroad i wanna meet new people,explore different thoughts new places.. I'm so tired living in a typical fucking life..so sometimes i walk out alone to think how shitty my life is....
Hey,you probably changed much since you wrote that comment but I just clicked on that video.Your life is not typical,your life is extraordinary.You and only you can change your life in what you want.For good or bad fortune thoughit takes time to make our lives how we want to.I am tired of the routine sometimes myself but I have goals and dreams that I want to fullfil and even if I hadn't I would continue living to make goals and dreams.Optimism is not a bad thing in your life.Positive energy either.Notice how much it will change when you do such thoughts.Constantly think of good things.Blind optimism leads into an illusion though you can't possibly give up on everything and be what you want in that place and time.Everything you do in life is baby steps.I am not your friend -relative or anything however I believe that everyone is bored sometimes.
Sometimes we go through phases of boredom it can last years,months,weeks or days.But if you get through this with your own pace you'll be able to understand what I am trying to say.
I hope you're well.
These are early signs of depression How are you doing now, if more or less same do see videos of jon jandai on you tube, life is fun , life is easy. God bless you.
I’m bored because my friends never wanna do anything and my parents Keep asking why I never go out
Fuck my life
I just found this video, it was randomly recommended to me when i was searching for places to visit. The problem is, There isn't much to the world overall. No matter where i go i feel like it's all the same. I'm still on the search but nothing seems to fill that gap to make me not bored. I don't think it's anything about being scared, It's more or less possibly my lack of knowledge of the world.
sometimes i get really bored, i start thinking about how all of our deaths are inevitable and i wonder if there is an afterlife. my mood gets ruined by this.
There is an after-life, which is heaven. Repent and turn to Jesus, and you will have a ticket to heaven. He left us a guide which is word, follow it and obey it, and we have ourselves eternity with our father Jesus(Yashua)
Hello Henri, I've discovered your page via Free Your Zen. I would like to say how much I enjoy videos: You're a wise guy, intelligent and straight-to-the-point. Your voice/accent is very soothing and calming-- and you're extremely telegenic and easy on the eye. I look forward to watching the rest of your videos; the topics you cover look interesting, your advice helpful.
Thanks! Appreciate the kind words :)
Looked up this vid because I was bored and didn't know what to search bit it actually helped I think so thank you.
I love your gentle voice
Feel bored with your life, and your work? Then you may want to watch my latest video. No need to eliminate your fears or do any sort of wizardry. There's just one thing you need to do ...
Great advice. One step at a time you'll move forward in spite of your fears!
Always love the stuff you publish Henri!
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HELP ME 😞
I'm bored with my life
please help me
i am counting on you please
i wanna die but I am scared
well you wanna hear that...
well so here it is,
pokemon was my life
i dont actually got anything to do
and now it's ended
and I am ...
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i dont know.I cry for no reason
i talk to myself all the time
and I'm just bored at a child age at 12
please help me...
that will be greatly appreciated
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My life: *brush teeth* *change to school uniform* *eat breakfast* *go to school* blah blah blah *sleeps in class* classmates:Wake up Koara it's lunch
Me:yesssssss _runs so fast faster than in sports day_
It's not that I'm afraid to do things. I want to do them *really* badly. It's that I'm under 18, and can't drive. I'm either at hell (school) which is just a purgatory. Or in my house which is so boring. We never go out on weekdays. The only thing I can do is sit here on the internet to forget about my boring life. I want to go out and do things. I'm just not able to.
I am constantly bored 24/7 because I want to accomplish something in my life. I have no skills or talent at all! I'm scared about what others would say and or do. I want to become an actor. Maybe I should take small steps. Just want a life outside my parents house.
GET IT DONE NOWWWWW!!!!!!!!
I love singing but like for 6 months when ever I try to sing I feel soo bored. I can't get the voice out like I supposed it would. And singing was only think that I enjoyed the most. Now i can't even do it.
Im not even halfway through the video and i already liked it. This is so me.
"Beneath the boredom is fear"
Why is this so true 😥
Maybe it has something to do with the constricting nature of fear. What I mean is this: When you are afraid of something, you avoid it. When you are afraid of everything, you avoid life, and you do nothing. When you can't do anything, you feel bored, because a part of you is crying out for adventure.
it may be fears but after so so so many years of trying to achieve things or just do things i want in general so much goes wrong. i think its just my depression that overrides it. im not talking about depression like the fears taking you over and you feel down all the time. its that but also physical issues now and not getting good sleep or consistent sleep and then that affects everything and i dont know what the hell i can even do in life anymore.
Thanks for making video on this important topic
Thx you sir I've been experiencing this for awhile and in the end it's my fear of failure that stops me from what I really want to do.
I'm not sure, but I think boredom comes from living a life you know you don't want. It's a huge underlying fear of not having the guts to change your life in the (drastical) way needed. This whole thing has two causes: 1. You are too comfortable with your life right know, and you know changing it will be a very big challenge. 2. You haven't found yourself yet. Or it can be a combination of the two.
Im bored bc life is trash
just what I needed. Thanks
I’ll take it. Thanks.
guys iam bored all the time cause the world is fuckin uninteresting everything in this world is boring and uninteresting
im bored, thats why im watching this vid. but i like this dude 😊😉 he's opening up which is really good. most of the time I ALSO GET BORED! but there are days where im not . Its just part of life i guess. ITS REALITY. We are not like in the movies where every scene is action. Just read a book or buy a new pet, be vulnerable around people 😊 ✌
This helped me a lot.
Even on holidays I feel like nothing interests me, video games, books movies, I thought I was entertained for like ten minute before I felt like shutting it off
I think i'm bore lately because I'm looking for something. Something not shallow, a life partner and a friend, looking for affection or love. I don't think I'm afraid. But I'm living alone for years, in a city where I don't have any good, old friends and no families or relatives. I'm dating around but so far no interesting person with a connection or whom I click with. So not much, and I'm not into empty hookups anymore. So yeah im bored coz i think im looking for something more, deeper. happiness or joy..
........have you found what you wanted.........
@@cristian-flaviusradu2090 I hope.. Just one day at a time. Not the best stimulant but I'm good for now.
@@fadedpink08 Glad to hear that....
What he says completely applies to my life 🥺
For one solid second i did't move cause i was working on my own book but afraid my school won't like it. Thanks bro for helping
Thanks Henri, I needed to hear this love your videos and website!
Yh it's true, I get very bored because of my fears because I don't do what I really want to do because I'm scared of something bad happening and that it might not be worth it😥😔
It’s not that I’m afraid to do the things I want. I’m just still a kid and I don’t drive yet so I can’t go anywhere when I want. My parents are divorced so I’m always traveling back and forth between my family members but they almost never actually wanna do anything other than sitting in the house all day. Like I’ll be visiting my grandmas and she doesn’t want me to go outside by myself so the only time I get to go outside is with her and it’s never really all that fun. My mom does ABSOLUTELY nothing, and my dad has an out of town job so he’s always gone and he’s the only one I can have fun with and do stuff with. Life is just so unfair! Stuck in the house all day with crappy weather is NO way to spend summer vacation. :( and I never get to see my friends either, and they’re also the only ones I have fun with. I can’t even do activities that I enjoy anymore! I play piano and I’m not even enjoying it anymore like I used to when school was still in.
This video is so on point.
Wow this makes so much sense. I know what I have to do now. Thanks man.
I see a lot of comments saying when you do the same thing everyday you get bored but everyone does I think it's just that there's nothing excited to look forward to in the daily routine and the exciting event doesn't have anything to do with you.
Doing the same things makes me really bored. I couldn't even think doing other things
This was what I needed to hear. Thank you.
You're so right! Thank you for this video!
I literally switch from doing one thing to another because I am extremely bored, my mind is racing and I want to do everything. I want to go out all the time, I feel really flirty and bubbly atm and really happy and I can’t even sleep ahaha
I relate to what you say big time! I have anxiety and these anxious thoughts and the fact that I always obsess about everything I'm doing in my life holds me back from living and enjoying my life and doing everything I dreamt of doing that I believe will bring my happiness n contentment! Add to it the fact that I'm a loner I don't go out a lot, I stay on my own most of the time, I hate it but maybe because I get anxious and uncomfortable around ppl! I fear failure, embarrassment, let downs, heart breaks, you name it! It just hold me back from life n I end up feeling bored with my life all the time!!
Is laziness some sort of strange manifestation of fear because my lack of motivation or quickness to lose interest in something seems to be my default setting
could be ADD or ADHD
could be fapping and too much porn use. that will destroy your life in everyway. get off the junk!
I hope i can talk to you and connect to get more advice in my daily life im so bored and tired of living.
I'm bored of everything, I question myself "why am I doing these things" gym is probably the only thing that I love and going to church,
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The tiny that you are talking also feels boring after some time.....I have guts to face my fears but after sometime it comes to the same uninteresting life....what should I do??
I looked this up cause I can do something for a long time but then my want to do things with something dies out so fast like I will play a game and get bored of it so fast I have no idea why
that exactly how i am, Thank you and fear is a big challenge
Great video it helps alot for someone to say exactly what your are thinking👍
Cheers man, ill get those little steps happening.
You're correct man. I try but that's an excuse because I would've just did it. I want to do what I love but my self esteem is not that high but it's not low either. Idk I guess I still care what others think of me
Thank you for your tip about taking my own small steps.
Thank you. You really made a different in my though.
Feeling bored now and searching something to listen from here and I've found u.. I'm bored of corona virus 19 it made me lost my job😣😣so what I can do is only stay at home.....
I defentely agree with u .. also i think doing the same thing over and over and waiting for a better result can make the person less confortable and boring..and that what i accually experement in my daily ... i'm an english learner i've been learning english for almost 8 mounths and i don't know what happened sudennely and makes me stuck and borried...i don't wanna quit learning english 😢
The only thing I can think about is being bored. My mind don’t wonder to imagine things