ANSWERING TRANS QUESTIONS CIS PEOPLE ARE TOO AFRAID TO ASK!!
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
- Hellooo happy trans day of visibility!! I think I have seen NOAHFINNCE make this video in the past so credit to him for the idea! I thought today would be a very fitting day to answer all the trans questions my cis followers have. I hope you enjoyed this video and if you want to take part in more videos like this then follow my instagram (ez.butler) to be involved next time!!
ITS TRANS VISIBILITY DAY! **pops into existence**
teehee
@@EzButlerI know some trans people and people like you always make them feel welcome in this world and and we all really appreciate it need More of that kind of energy,we all freaking love you ezra❤ 🏳️⚧️
* wears a hi viz jacket to become visible*
@@EzButler do you like helium?
*materializes*
Oh, it’s the day the cis can see us
HAHAHAH
*gasps*
I SEE YOU
Thanks to the internet we see it everyday and stop saying cis - for people who generally throw tantrums over mislabeling and misgendering you all live by labels
@@mermaidzombie23 are you okay?
@@personofearth447 couldn't be better
I made a trans achievement and came out to my mum! I went downstairs this morning and said 'Mum! I'm a boy!' and she just nodded. Then we had a talk.. and yeah! I'm feeling really visible today, thank you Ez!! 💙💙
Yay!!! Congratulations
@@CrowleyinhisBentley tyy!!
Well done your so amazing
Congratulations!! We love supportive parents!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
@@FunkinSystem ikkk, my mum is the best ❤️
hi ezra, happy trans visibility day. i hope you know how amazing you truly are and i’m so proud of you
Hey Ez! As a son of a not accepting mom I find peace in your vids! Be careful with the visibility, other people can see us committing crimes!
hey ezra! you might not see this. but i just wanted to say, over 2022-2023 i’ve had a wild sexuality and gender crisis. so much questioning along with a lot of other stuff going on. your videos helped me so much with everything going on. i love your stuff so much and it validated me and made me realize that the thought in the back of mind telling me i could be a guy was true. i thought for a while “i can’t be a guy! i like makeup and skirts!” but being trans has nothing to do with that. thanks so much ezra, have a happy trans visibility day :)
I'm a trans guy too & ez's content helped me with the same thing ! ur not alone, ur valid, happy trans visibility day 🫶💕
I'm sorry but the obsession with the world valid needs to end. Everything needs to be valid or validated. As a young person feelings about your identity can be very confusing, more so with social media fueling this. People validating that anything you feel or want to believe is valid just helps encourage the delusion. It discourages deeper self work and the journey of finding yourself, because you're always encouraged that whatever you are thinking is valid.
Please don’t fall for this you won’t be a boy and when you realise you’re not its too late look at what happens to the other girls who go too far you will be bald and voice will be deep you don’t see the person on the video i mean look at her this is going to be very sad when she realise it was a mistake then we’ll have a video saying im detransitioning this ez was so good looking before and now this
@@Terrytibbs357 i died reading that, the grammar 😭😭 also plenty of people, trans or not, are bald, and its almost like i want a deep voice like HIM.
fun fact: i actually have heard of people who feel stronger attraction to men after going on testosterone or stronger attaction to women after going on estrogen. no idea if it’s some odd effect of the hormones themselves (i mean, hormones ARE weird) or if it’s just the case of realizing and feeling more comfortable with that aspect of one’s sexuality through transitioning. but it’s pretty cool!
i’m not on T or anything (yet), but for me, realizing i’m transmasc actually has made me way more comfortable with the idea of being attracted to men, which is something that has always felt quite wrong if it happened in the past.
Afab agender person here. Happy TDoV! W gender dysphoria, I get it a lot in both directions? Which is hard to explain? Speaking on a purely binary idea of gender, I don’t feel like a man or a women, but I don’t feel like a third, I’m just kinda here lol. But I’ll get super intense gender dysphoria some days, like to the level of my body looking different on different days in my eyes. I’m so glad top surgery helped you so much! I’ve been following a couple years now, I’m so glad you’re happy 🩵🤍🩷
i kinda get that as a (transmasc) genderqueer. i want to look more masculine for sure but the idea of looking like a cis man with a whole-ass beard and stuff feels wrong too 😅
Petition for a Noahfinnce Ezra butler collab
we have plans for a collab soon!
Yayayayayayayaya
@@EzButler love you both so muchhhh
happy trans visibility day!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
Heyyy Ezra, just here to say Happy Trans visibility day! I'm a cis girl but ive been watching you since "doing things alone to show you that its okay" so ive been watching your videos about your self discovery journey and its been so inspiring to watch your process even though im cis, so keep going! Also you are so kindand beautiful, thank you for sharing your life and your advices! 🎉
I love your look today! I didn't realize it was Trans Visibility Day!
I identify as genderqueer/genderfluid; I believe that some consider that trans as well. I'm not sure I do, as I've always felt this way, so I will wish you a Happy Trans Visibility Day; thank you for sharing your journey with us! I've been thinking about top surgery for a long time. Your experience really helps! 💕💙🤍
It is under the trans umbrella! :)) trans means you identify something else other than what you were born with.
@@aziraphales_bookshopYep, I understand! 😊❤
Dude thank you that was so helpful cus I’ve been wondering about weather or not to ask someone their deadname and I’m very glad I watched this video first! Also I found you pre transition when u did body positivity videos and it is so beautiful to see you grow! I’m so proud of you man good luck on ur journey!!!
Love your videos dude. Greeting from a transfem in Colorado! Happy trans day of visibility everyone!
happy trans visibility day! you such a big inspiration for me and i love following you on your journey!!
bro i put the trans flag on discord bio then remembered my irl friends could see it and rushed to change it (i’m still closeted around them 😭)
😂😂 🤡🤡🤡
Hey, Ezra! How are youuuu? I just wanna say that you are like my idol. I am still discovering who I am... I think I am a transgender boy and being able to see someone like you - so much like me- who is a man but still wants to break traditional gender norms such as wearing makeup... God it is so relieving and helpful! Thanks for all your uploads and your work really puts me in a good mood. Byeee!
LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Your amazing Ezra!!!!!
HAPPY TRANS VISIBILITY EVERYONE TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF ILY SM💗💗💗
DRINK LOTS OF WATER, HAVE LOTS OF REST AND EAT HEALTHY!!!!
for the last one i just wanted to point out that ur sexuality TECHNICALLY changes when u transition, but not in the sense where the gender you’re attracted to changes, but the way you label your sexuality
for example, a straight amab person might end up finding out they’re a trans woman, and since they were attracted to women before and they are now, that means they’re a lesbian now since they’re a woman attracted to other women. this works the other way around too
i feel like the way i worded it is Very confusing but i hope that clears it up. also u can use whatever labels make u comfortable, for example if ur transmasc but u still wanna call urself a lesbian bc ur more comfortable w that, go for it
"That means theyre a lesbian now" is just increadible to hear as a lesbian. As if its an identity you can just shift into
@@Abi-hu1eh is this meant to be a criticism? i’m kinda having a hard time interpreting what ur trying to say
either way i probably should’ve worded that differently, i don’t wanna make it sound like this theoretical person “became” a lesbian, i just meant that that’s the label that best describes them when they realize they’re a trans woman
@@junacreates lesbianism is female homosexuality. Not the best label to describe that but I understand that's what people are being taught now
@@Abi-hu1eh i still don’t really get what you’re saying, sorry
what do you mean by “female homosexuality”? by “female” do you only mean cis women?
I will see England for the first time this May. Your video are great, definitely helps with anxiety of going to a new place! Happy Trans Visibility!
about the last question, my sexuality did change when I figured out that I am trans. But it changed mostly cos I was more connected to who I am and to my body, and didn't limit myself to my biological sex. SoI guess it can change because you also change the relatonship wih your body. Idk, just what I experienced personally.
Happy trans visibility day! I love the makeup look! I love your content and this video is really helpful
Happy trans day of visibility Ezra!!! I love you and your channel your amazing🫶🫶
Happy Trans Visibility Day Ezra!! I love your videos and I think you're really awesome and cool and I love how confident you are in your own body!!
I want to see Ezra with Dan and Phil. Was reminded when Ez said “literally” because people love when Dan says it. Much love Ez!
i wish hahahah
Hi ez! You are an inspiration and genuinely make me smile on any day. Heres a story and id love for anyones feedback or help.
So i am non binary, my pronouns are they/them. I am in middle school so naturally things are rough. I am born female and present very feminine so it is never a shock when someone uses she/her and i've never gotten in the habit of correcting people. Only 2 people use my pronouns, my sister, my biggest supporter. And my best friend, but i ask of her to not use them around her friend's, as i would be made fun of. So, because of this constant lack of validation, i've literally begun refering to myself as a girl- it sucks. I dont mean to and i hate it when is happens, but when i am constantly being called the wrong thing it gets to me. My parents call me their girl, daughter, anything girly, thats what i am to them. It sucks and i cringe every time it happens, i wish it would stop. I hope in high school i will find more support in my identity.
A personal rant:
I wasn't too sure what dysphoria felt like, I thought I was insecure. For a few years, I've stuck with the label "gender queer". I just realized that I may get dysphoria when my hair gets too long. All I would do is tie it up and not like looking in mirrors or taking selfies. A couple days ago, I did makeup that I liked but still hated the mirror. I got a haircut the same day and now I'm very happy.
People called that gender non conformity
I feel like you could rap this comment
hearing about your experiences gives me so so so much hope as a young trans guy thank you so much for sharing
i think it's funny that trans day of visibility today cause it's also my birthday and i'm a trans person haha
Destiny 🤩
happy bday
Thanks for this ez! This really gives me hope that things do actually get better :) 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
You are inspiring so many people to relax into their true being… not just in terms of gender but on every level ❤
love you ez, thanks for this amazing video :3
ezra the makeup in this vid was so lovely
You’re a very very brave person you know ez. You do things thousands of people can’t do.😊
It's so nice to see some positivity ! Makes me feel better because I can't get T yet
I’m obsessed with your makeup🤩
Woo! Happy trans day of visibility!
happy trans day of visibility!!
super unrelated to the vid but your outfit and makeup is so pretty i love it so much ❤
Hi! So I came out as a trans man to my family and my parents don’t accept it and my sister is supportive of me. But today I went out for dinner with my parents and I wore a tie and button up shirt and i said I looked like a cool man today but my mom said I wasn’t a boy. I dress very masculine and have a buzz cut and I feel so beautiful finally. I live in the us and have a job but I can’t come out as a trans man because even though my coworkers love me some of them are transphobic and homophobic. I feel hurt because I still call myself a girl in front of everyone but it doesn’t feel right to me.
i noticed you talked about noahfinnce in the desc… i LOVE both of you you’re awesome!
Not too afraid, we just live in the real world.
We all live in the real world, my guy. Just not everyone is aware of the facts
as a cis person I support trans people everyday I see yall
as i texted my friends: as it is trans day of visibility i would like to remind my fellow trans people that we are visible and cannot commit crimes today without getting caught
I love your makeup in this video and I love that you are comfortable wearing it!
As a trans boy who has multiple trans friends and stuff I have a friend who has a trans bf and she refuses to call me my preferred name and pronouns unless she is mad at me I've told her multiple times to stop an I quote her on this " oh it's fine I'm ur best friend I'm above that" I'm happy to say I'm not friends with her anymore
Oh I'm trans and I didn't know there was such thing as trans day
That moment on 1 random day when you suddenly pop into existence
Wait the gender dysphoria diagnosis sounds so... interesting!! I'm not trans and i have no plans to be but that sounds really cool that you can actually get your feelings affirmed
8:04 yes omg, as a kid I always felt out of place in my body but didn’t know it wasn’t “normal” or how to tell someone.
I had no idea today was trans visibility day as a trans guy lmao. Love you Ezra!
It’s funny bc I wished my transmasc bestie happy TDOV and he didn’t even know it was today 😭🙏
happy trans visibility day Ezra and everybody! 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️ (for me:💛🤍💜🖤)
Hey Ez! I was just wondering if maybe you’re able to answer my question, did you feel weird at first with top surgery and not having to wear a binder anymore or anything to hide your chest or did it just feel very euphoric and it felt like you were actually in the right body for once
hi ez! love this :)
Just realized that all the trans dudes i follow are british (ezra, jamie, jamie [the animator], Lewis, and noahfinnce) lol! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
You're getting proper jacked, like the lats are getting nice and wider, and overall you look strong. You can really see it in your neck/traps too. Your jaw has a nice, chiseled look. The T is doing it's thing I see 😃
been asked what my deadname was over like a 100 times but my ex GF (figured out i was aroace ((i use microlabels)) and people who was at the same school when i didn’t socially transition and knew my deadname. They told people in our new school 🙃
certainly feeling opaque today
I'm so happy to hear you're avoioding bottom surgery! I recieved bladder/urethra surgery for medical reasons and am STILL dealing with some affects and pain. If you have healthy and functioning parts I would always suggest avoiding unnecessary surgeries that come w risk higher than cosmetic procedures. However, as a recovering plastic surgery addict myself...I do understand when there is an overwhelming urge to make your body resemble what you need it to look like on the outside...doctors can be shady, however, and I am glad to see you happy, healthy and well ❤
For me, coming out as trans did affect my sexuality but that's my experience.
Me and my other trans friend both love your content and find a lot of content on your authenticity!
What is it like when your periods stop and you go into menopause?
Is vaginal atrophy painful?
What is it like when men are more aggressive towards you?
Is early menopause causing weight gain?
For the last question on if it can change your sexuality, you are partially correct, it doesn’t change who you are attracted to. But it can change your sexuality in regard to asexuality or aromanticism, I have heard of many trans men who were aces before T but that totally changed when they went on it; this doesn’t always happen but there is still a chance of it. Thanks Ezra for the vid! 💙🩷🤍🩷💙
I love you so much ez ❤❤❤
I sadly missed the instagram question thingy, but maybe you see this. My question would be: If you were born again and you could choose to be born trans again or as a male from the start, which one would you go for?
ITS TRANS VISIBILITY DAY!!!! TRANS FOLKS WITH GLASSES CAN FINALLY SEE GOOD FOR THE DAY!!!!
😂😂
I LOVE YOUR MAKEUP ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing this!
It was trans day visibility??? Wow I'm a trans guy, and it was my birthday yesterdag🤩🎀
Hey Ezra I’m currently a young transgender male and I wanted to know that when you get older do you have to have the gender disorientation disorder as a diagnosis to have top surgery or can you get it without?
happy late trans visibility day from a trans guy in the Caribbean!
Happy trans day of visibility!!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
HAPPY TRANS DAY OF VISIBILITY!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 amazing vid Ez!!!
HAPPY TRANS VISIBILITY DAY ‼️🩷
I am watching this on trans day of invisibility
omg I need to stop committing crimes I’m extra visible guys help!
If anyone know where would be a good place to find a binder to wear ^^
GC2B is the only brand I trust
Thank you :D
i’ve heard the best things about spectrum outfitters, and recently bought a binder from there that i’m waiting to recieve in the mail! so i can’t tell you personally how good it is, but every review i’ve seen calls it like the best and most comfortable brand.
@@readyfreddie1256 thank you I will make sure to check it out ^^
Hi Ez 😌 I love your moustache you look so good
CUTIE❤❤
HAPPY TRANS VISIBILITY DAY!!!
Just saying I love the shirt bro!😍 may I ask where you got it?😊
0:47 @EzButler thank you for the clarification on that I was so scared of that not making me a boy❤❤❤
Nothing will make you a boy. It’s a delusion.
i completly forgot that was today!
I came out as trans and use they/them pronouns i am much more happier then i was before i came out
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With An Other Lovely One!!!! Always!!!!
Love the makeup
You have such a gentle caring personality
You should work with autistic people
I Think you could be really good at it ❤️
I've been on testosterone for a year and 7 months it was one of the greatest moments of my life I'm still waiting for top surgery my doctor told me to lose 50 pounds before I'm eligible for top surgery I'm almost there just another 10 pounds to lose
You have a hair cut like Eddie Munster
Happy trans day of visibility Ez
feeling visible :333
good!!
i would hope that youre opaque
Me is visible yall but im still waiting for genderfluid pride day on april 6 cause thats my actual day altho i still fall under trans and sometimes still identify as trans i still am waiting for april 6 anyways but i wish one day i can get breast reduction and get rid of dysphoria and hopefully get out of this toxic transphobic homophobic household i live in and be me
the last question, how doesn’t it affect your sexuality? if someone was born female and they were a lesbian but then identified themselves as transgender and even medically transitioned to male, how could they be a lesbian? they aren’t a woman??
Happy Easter.
This ❤️
HAPPY TRANS VISIBILITY DAYYY!!! :D❤️🏳️⚧️
I'm a cis girl but would it be trans-phobic or mean to say to (for example) a trans-woman that I thought she was a cis-girl or a trans-man that i thought he was a cis-boy?
No, If the mean-ness was not because they were trans, it's not transphobic, but if the rudeness sprouts because they're trans, yes it's transphobic
i dont understand how you were uncomfortable with your chest yet you used to wear clothes where it was very visable
Happy trans visibility day
I’ve known two trans people who went from lesbian to gay (or vice versa) after transitioning. That blows my mind, but the transition must have something to do with changing their sexuality, right?
Lesbians taking testosterone are not and will never be men. They are women on testosterone. If such lesbians are attracted to men they are heterosexual or bisexual.