answering questions I've been AVOIDING

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  • Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
  • Helloo I asked on my instagram what questions you have that you'd like me to answer! If you like this style of vid let me know because I'll make more, feel free to follow my instagram (ez.butler) to have your questions answered in my next q&a!

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  • @eyesglow1777
    @eyesglow1777 Рік тому +225

    this feels like a chill facetime with a friend

  • @user-xb3hw5si7b
    @user-xb3hw5si7b Рік тому +562

    You know it's going to be a good day when Ezra posts

  • @ILikeBirds
    @ILikeBirds Рік тому +403

    Your videos are so comforting to watch and you have such sweet energy!

    • @EzButler
      @EzButler  Рік тому +57

      you’re so kind thank uuu

    • @jellycube898
      @jellycube898 Рік тому +5

      I was like 222!!
      I feel like I'm ✨chosen✨
      MANIFEST COOL/GOOD VIBES

  • @kaifinch9997
    @kaifinch9997 Рік тому +219

    If you feel comfortable with sharing this info I'd love to see a video of you going through and explaining your tattoos^^ they all look super pretty (personal favourite is the spider )
    Edit: I'm farther in the video now and u explained the tattoo stuff :3
    I'm so glad you popped up on my feed, your attitude towards life and being able to turn scary things much more bearable never fails to make me happier. It's also motivated me more to ty and be more positive since perspective changes a lot. 💙

  • @nomeoway
    @nomeoway 9 місяців тому +6

    Omg watching this in 2023 realising how much you've grown 🥹

  • @Vyansya
    @Vyansya Рік тому +11

    Ever since you did the "things you afraid of" series, i unconsciously became more confident in myself to do things i previously wont do myself. I took myself walk, going to cafe, visiting places all by myself. My life has been so much better and i thank you for that. I still have anxiety but its not as bad as before.

  • @e.1419
    @e.1419 Рік тому +8

    hi, ngl I'm struggling with lack of self-esteem and some anxiety but seeing your shorts has been a breath of fresh air, everytime I come across something stressful I manage to rationalize it partly thanks to you, like "they made it and they're going through this effort too, I can do it", thank you for what you're doing

  • @stardoom2525
    @stardoom2525 Рік тому +94

    really appreciating ur content as a socially anxious enby lol
    why dont u make longer videos of this series tho? itd be even more helpful if u showed like extended versions, because itd be even clearer how normal and safe it is to do these things
    love from brazil btww ❤️❤️

    • @EzButler
      @EzButler  Рік тому +34

      hii i’m gonna start doing this!! :’)

    • @stardoom2525
      @stardoom2525 Рік тому +9

      letss goooo, love u bro 💕

  • @sxlar2491
    @sxlar2491 Рік тому +31

    i was struggling with some mental health stuff but now i’m eating and watching you!! and it makes me feel so safe and happy :] you are on of my safe people.

  • @millychapman2360
    @millychapman2360 Рік тому +13

    Ez I absolutely love your videos, especially when you are doing day-to-day tasks and just chatting as they are just so calming and comforting. Always brightens my day, thank you. ✨

  • @user-of9cs3nl8p
    @user-of9cs3nl8p Рік тому +59

    i just wanted to say thank you so much for posting the content you do- it's really helpful and your energy is just 👌

  • @ralyks6044
    @ralyks6044 Рік тому +22

    I found your videos a few days ago and I’ve been going through a really rough breakup and you make me feel like i’ll be okay and can do things by myself and that being alone is okay,, thank you for being a safe space for me

  • @missmollymedia
    @missmollymedia Рік тому +25

    This feels like I'm hanging out with a Friend and I absolutely love it, Thank you for being your incredible self 🥺✨💞

  • @nezumi5678
    @nezumi5678 Рік тому +19

    discovered you literally a few hours ago and already liking all the content that you post. you're an amazing person!

  • @jeanz638
    @jeanz638 Рік тому +5

    I really enjoyed having longer videos from you, keep it up! I love what you do it’s so comforting!

  • @Vent_stuff
    @Vent_stuff Рік тому +2

    you make me feel so much better. I love watching your posts when I'm upset or just need to listen to somebody I consider you a friend even if you don't know me.

  • @torydavis9809
    @torydavis9809 Рік тому +5

    I just want to say that you are just amazing. You always have the best energy no matter what is happening, you are always spreading positivity. You have helped me so much when i was struggling through a lot. You are so exotic (in a good way) and you arnt afraid to step into the world and show everyone who you really are, and that has helped me show people the real me, and not just a filter in my whole life, including my personality, my looks, and how i perceived myself. Thank you sooooo much!

  • @toosleebee
    @toosleebee Рік тому +10

    Found you a couple weeks back and you're already such a comfort creator to me!

  • @marswidogast1155
    @marswidogast1155 Рік тому +98

    Seeing you wear dresses n more fem clothing has really struck a cord with me. Knowing clothes don't define your gender and really having it sink in and applying it to your life has been difficult for me; since coming out and using he/they pronouns (ayeee lolol) I've felt like I shouldn't or couldn't wear my more feminine pieces. So, thank you so much for existing how you do!! Seeing you wear what you want is giving me the confidence to try n do the same :))

    • @LunarRaevyn
      @LunarRaevyn Рік тому +14

      YESS i get that so much, im nonbinary and use he/him and i love my dresses and skirts, but I used to feel like i shouldn't actually wear them if i wasnt a girl. But i realized that I'm just so much happier wearing those clothes even if I'm not a girl, it's delightful and I'm happy that you're gaining the confidence to wear what makes you happy :D

    • @marswidogast1155
      @marswidogast1155 Рік тому +5

      @@LunarRaevyn Exactly!!! I just wanna be a soft, kinda fem boi lolol. I'm happy for you too!! that's a cool way to spell Reavyn, tis neat

    • @LunarRaevyn
      @LunarRaevyn Рік тому +1

      @@marswidogast1155 exactly !! Same here, and ty ^_^ i don't actually remember where it came from, I've been using lunar raevyn for as long as i can remember lol, also guessing your name is a critical role ref? My friends LOVE it, i hear its super engaging

    • @marswidogast1155
      @marswidogast1155 Рік тому +2

      @@LunarRaevyn ye!! I love critical role a lot, that and dimension 20, dnd shows are just super entertaining to me

    • @centralist4336
      @centralist4336 Рік тому +1

      But clothes do define gender.. Look at dresses and skirts, literally made for women to be able to express their beauty and flexability. And look at mens clothing, sharp, bold masculine, even us Scots don't wear skirts, but kilts.

  • @puppyjawn
    @puppyjawn Рік тому +2

    i love this sm, the way you talk about things is so comforting

  • @evanhowe267
    @evanhowe267 Рік тому +18

    I'm writing a final for my gender studies class and congrats, your explanation of how you came to your current pronouns made it in 🎉

  • @mikuenjoyerXD
    @mikuenjoyerXD Рік тому +3

    I just came across your channel through UA-cam shorts and I just love your positive personality so I decided to subscribe! I'm excited what you will post in the future! 💓

  • @saoirse.tierney
    @saoirse.tierney Рік тому +2

    your energy just makes me feel so so happy bro

  • @kit6561
    @kit6561 Рік тому +2

    aa upload!! this is so calming tysm

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 Рік тому +1

    I love the way you do your makeup. It's so unique. Your shorts came up in my home page the other day (September 18, 2022). I love your voice. You speak beautifully about various topics.

  • @pearld1ver
    @pearld1ver Рік тому +6

    hi hi it was a really hard day for me today, this video made me feel so much better! your voice is so calming and just comforting thank you

  • @Chloe-hw8rc
    @Chloe-hw8rc Рік тому +1

    I love ur vids! I love how your honest about your feelings and your problems. You always put a smile on my face when I watch your vids.i appreciate you giving up your time and your a inspiration.

  • @hyuvckore
    @hyuvckore Рік тому +3

    I'm so glad that I discovered your channel,I love your comforting aura! ☁️✨

  • @Amber24426
    @Amber24426 Рік тому +1

    I’m so happy that you made a longer form video! I really enjoyed this and getting to learn more about you 😊🌸

  • @fluttervixen
    @fluttervixen Рік тому +2

    I've been seeing your UA-cam shorts on my feed and I absolutely love your energy

  • @kottbogoed
    @kottbogoed Рік тому +1

    you have such a free spirit, i adore it

  • @Icy8903
    @Icy8903 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been following your videos for a while and I just want to say that like you’re honestly one of the nicest people I’ve seen and I hope your having a great day.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜You really inspire me and make me feel comfy in some way.🌼🌼

  • @mycatforeverr
    @mycatforeverr Рік тому +2

    honestly i love how you post daily and you help me a lot, tysm.

  • @Frenchaboo
    @Frenchaboo Рік тому +1

    The way you talk about relationships is very true and relatable. I used to feel like I was worse than my peers for not dating, I had a boyfriend when I was a young teen, then a girlfriend in college and you know what? When you're still developing and establishing yourself and making plans, other people are kind of a liability. E.g. I wanted to figure out whether I wanna move countries or not, what I could do for a living, and suddenly had to put my own worries aside to include the other person in the picture. I've been single for years and I don't plan on seeking someone until I have a stable job and fulfill some of my personal dreams first.

  • @bqudelairee
    @bqudelairee Рік тому +2

    just found ur channel and im obsessed. thank u for being so positive and making me smile!

  • @shaquandah_thafurst
    @shaquandah_thafurst Рік тому +4

    I just want you to know Your my favorite influencer.
    I have anxiety to the point I was scared to go out. Most of this was caused by bullying and insecurities. Cause I’m different, and teens my age don’t like “different”. But ever since I’ve been watch your videos I feel more and more comfortable to be outside. And not feel like i’m being stared at and judged 24/7.
    Thankyou so much, I hope that you are doing ok!
    You deserve the world cause you gave me confidence 💕

  • @ilyongbok
    @ilyongbok Рік тому +2

    your voice is so soothing, I could listen you talk for hours !!

  • @KatieM786
    @KatieM786 Рік тому +3

    I didn't go to uni until I was 28 and found myself unable to progress in the career I'd been in for 6 years without a professional qualification. I didn't want to go when I was younger because I didn't know what I wanted to do and I didn't want to waste my time and money. I know a lot of people who did and didn't go to uni and they are all happy in their lives which is the most important thing! 💞💜❤️💖 My Mum got a degree in her 50s so it is literally never too late if you realise you want to do it later on. I'm glad you're doing what's right for you. 🥰🐱X

  • @hithere6981
    @hithere6981 Рік тому +6

    oh my gosh…. ezra is younger than me (just by a few months) but i still see them as an older sibling 😭 your videos are just so comforting and nice and the advice you give is so wonderful!!!

  • @altEnte
    @altEnte Рік тому

    You can be very proud of yourself. Dealing with the struggles that you probably had to deal with. I really admire you for that.
    I really wish you that you keep up your resilience against all the bad stuff. It can be very hard finding yourself in the modern world.

  • @Charlotte-vm2bp
    @Charlotte-vm2bp Рік тому +4

    I honestly think you are such an underrated UA-camr you are so cute and sweet and have the coolest style I always look forward to watching your shorts and vids and you honestly make my day

  • @unidentified2997
    @unidentified2997 Рік тому +3

    i love how your always beaming with light :))

  • @Quit-prev.alohatocas
    @Quit-prev.alohatocas Рік тому +2

    I just want to say, I love you so much, and you inspire me so much too. You are so comforting for me and I am so grateful for you and all your videos. Sending love and hugs🫂💝

  • @Spencer-fu3wp
    @Spencer-fu3wp Рік тому +10

    dude i went through the same journey with my pronouns recently! i’ve also started using they/he because saying “any” means people default to she. i’ve been trying to explain that to several of my friends recently and it’s been hard for some of them to grasp the nuances of stuff like this so it was lovely to hear you talk about those same struggles. keep making awesome videos 💛

  • @thesun6983
    @thesun6983 Рік тому +3

    I always love your videos! They're really inspiring! Also your make up looks amazing! :D

  • @catscrossing825
    @catscrossing825 Рік тому +4

    You probably get this a lot but you're so cool. Your videos about doing things to show that its okay have really helped me come out of my shell recently. I was already on my way out but they definitely help.

  • @karla5185
    @karla5185 Рік тому +1

    your videos are so comforting and lovely!!!

  • @danylouison7357
    @danylouison7357 Рік тому +1

    Omg I love the length of the video. Thanks for this little moment with you 💕🫶🏻

  • @isabellathompson8634
    @isabellathompson8634 Рік тому +2

    the first youtube video I've watched in full length for a long time :') thanks for the vid!

  • @izzygraff2026
    @izzygraff2026 Рік тому +21

    I love that you changed your name to Ezra!! I’ve been trying to figure out my gender identity and if I were to change my name to be more androgynous I would change it to Ezra (it’s what my parents were going to name me before they found out I was going to be a girl) and my brother’s name is Noah soooo yeah. I’m just really happy to find another non-binary person who has the name Ezra

  • @thelonelybaguette8142
    @thelonelybaguette8142 Рік тому +1

    Your makeup is so well done, and I loooove your shirt and your hair. You’re so pretty!!!

  • @doralilikovacs2898
    @doralilikovacs2898 Рік тому +3

    your heartstopper tattoo 🥺🥺😍😍 I love it so much! its nice to get to know you little bit 😊 I have started following you a week ago and your videos are so lovely 🥰

  • @diveintoyoujay2182
    @diveintoyoujay2182 Рік тому +2

    Your videos always make my day THANK U FOR THE AWSOME CONTENTTTT

  • @aurelievoltiere3808
    @aurelievoltiere3808 Рік тому +2

    Hello I'm a new watcher i want to tell your videos are so comforting and your the coolest person I've ever seen!!

  • @lore1612
    @lore1612 Рік тому +1

    aw i like your long form content! you're the only tiktok creator i follow bc when the app came out i was like "nope" & deleted social media altogether (minus UA-cam)
    i try rly hard to be discretionary with the people i follow & you passed the vibe check xx

  • @localplaguedoctor
    @localplaguedoctor Рік тому +1

    Your energy is very calming!

  • @clarab325
    @clarab325 Рік тому +1

    i really love your videos, you instantly cheer me up!

  • @ramen_andanime
    @ramen_andanime Рік тому +4

    you are such a inspiration ezra!

  • @yeobinkim8826
    @yeobinkim8826 Рік тому +1

    Your makeup looks so good! I love the white eyeliner!

  • @mxa9339
    @mxa9339 Рік тому +1

    omg i was having a rough day and then i saw you posted- it cheered me up

  • @ishreeram
    @ishreeram Рік тому

    I seriously love him so much. He helps me so much with my self esteem

  • @lexrice4109
    @lexrice4109 Рік тому +8

    8:00 I went with Cams (That is probably spelt wrong xD) for my transition, I am transgender, and I struggled so much with eating. I always felt like I was the only one, and I was odd for it, so whenever someone asked I'd say "No, I am just natrually skinny" Seeing others who have gone through similar things makes me so happy. I love your vids, keep going! :D

  • @t0xictragedy778
    @t0xictragedy778 Рік тому +2

    I love watching ur vids, ur voice is so calming i also love ur youtube shorts

  • @clementine-ft2wn
    @clementine-ft2wn Рік тому +4

    your journey with pronouns and your gender identity is nearly identical to mine, and i just want to say, you sharing your story helps me feel more comfortable and validated with my experience

  • @luviesh
    @luviesh Рік тому +3

    i love ur videos, specially this one ! it's like im on a facetime call w a friend haha. ur adorable

  • @Expoticc
    @Expoticc Рік тому +2

    Just watching all these videos make feel way better.

  • @Hi-zz5zb
    @Hi-zz5zb Рік тому +2

    I love ur channel so much! Your such a lovely person and your personality is beautiful! Keep it up 🥰👍

  • @cleo.2cool4u
    @cleo.2cool4u Рік тому +2

    Your make up is soo pretty I love ur content. My anxiety is at the top and u help me relieve it

  • @pusheenqueen519
    @pusheenqueen519 Рік тому +1

    I'm so glad I found your channel! I used to have a tiktok (I work as a carer/housekeeper for a family and one of their daughters wanted me to make an account to watch her videos lol). I deleted it a while back, but now I want to make a new account so I can support you there!

  • @creepershark9065
    @creepershark9065 Рік тому +2

    These videos are very comforting ^^

  • @lamisatasmin1495
    @lamisatasmin1495 Рік тому +1

    I literally love their style. Can't wait to grow up and dress like this

  • @a_me_1
    @a_me_1 Рік тому +1

    The make up is so fun! I love the added details😄

  • @reesegastright
    @reesegastright Рік тому +1

    I love u so much, u help me so much and truly make my day, your smile is soo addictive! I also adore your heartstopper tattoo! It’s so cute!! I was also was wondering what white eyeliner u use! I’d like to do more eyeliner looks with white :))

  • @math1937
    @math1937 Рік тому +13

    Once you started talking about gender stuff, I started going down another rabbit hole of questioning my gender, but _this_ time, I actually ended up somewhere slightly more specific than “uuuuuuuuh kinda masculine but also not? Idk”. Gonna try out he/they pronouns and I looked up names starting with mat (current name starts with mat) and ngl, Matthieu’s looking pretty nice, so I might try that out in online spaces for a bit.
    Btw, this isn’t to say you _need_ to know your gender very specifically, it’s just personally bothered me for the past 4 years.

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Рік тому

      Matthias was one of the DND characters who I questioned my gender after playing. So hey to another mat

  • @Ha11e77
    @Ha11e77 Рік тому +1

    My first video of yours so excited to watch more your voice is so relaxing cams never helped me tbh

  • @nixutree1578
    @nixutree1578 Рік тому +1

    Ahh I'm so early I'm so excited to watch this!

  • @ilovecats6672
    @ilovecats6672 Рік тому +2

    Being your fan day 6!! Nearly a week 😊

  • @_sett_ing_9651
    @_sett_ing_9651 Рік тому +2

    I love your energy and style

  • @bobboby30
    @bobboby30 Рік тому +1

    Any content from Ez males me so comfortable.
    Also thats my dad's birthday, different year obvi

  • @louiscui845
    @louiscui845 Рік тому +1

    ahhh i just started watching u ilysm♡♡ our birthdays are two days apart!! and also luv ur music just followed u on spotify

  • @shaym.6224
    @shaym.6224 Рік тому +2

    You make me feel so hopeful. Thanks for the chat Ez

  • @kookie.p4407
    @kookie.p4407 Рік тому +1

    You’re the coolest person on the planet

  • @sadmimikyu8807
    @sadmimikyu8807 Рік тому +1

    Your style is so cool and your make up! You inspired me to go out today and buy myself white eyeliner to make my eyes look bigger and glittery navy blue eyeshadow and a lighter one.

  • @theyluhvvmel
    @theyluhvvmel Рік тому +4

    "hiii, im ez!" never gets old 😭

  • @morgue..rat.
    @morgue..rat. Рік тому +1

    Your videos always make my day keep up the good work

  • @kleai4937
    @kleai4937 Рік тому +2

    ur vids always make my day :)

  • @Toni-xk9dt
    @Toni-xk9dt Рік тому +3

    I have always struggled with anxiety and your videos always make me brave and able to try out more stuff :)) so thak u

  • @nodice5300
    @nodice5300 Рік тому +2

    you've inspired me to buy white eyeliner/mascara lol I love the look so much

  • @liza-uw3sq
    @liza-uw3sq Рік тому +1

    I just found your acc yesterday and ur so pretty and shiny🌞😍🥺 I really like your make up look btw it looks really good

  • @TheQueerPotato
    @TheQueerPotato Рік тому

    Watching your videos makes me feel like life is worth living ❤

  • @astral_bumblebee
    @astral_bumblebee Рік тому +9

    Your tattoos are so cool I would love tattoos when I’m older and your piercings suit you so well
    Have a good day Ez and everyone who is reading this
    And have a cookie 🍪

  • @indiaslays
    @indiaslays Рік тому +2

    Just wanna Express how much I love your moth tattoo and your lemon tattoo! They are so cute I am so jealous! Love your videos!

  • @sufixx_17
    @sufixx_17 Рік тому +1

    waiting patiently to come back from school to watch this!!

  • @Hearts4tessa
    @Hearts4tessa Рік тому +4

    I always love your makeup

  • @hisfavworstnightmare
    @hisfavworstnightmare Рік тому +1

    brighton is so beautiful. you’re very lucky to be staying there for a little longer, i loved visiting there :)

  • @shadowsinger29
    @shadowsinger29 Рік тому +1

    You’re so helpful I’ve been trying to figure out my pronouns and your advice really helps :) you’re my comfort youtuber

  • @BopDiva
    @BopDiva Рік тому

    Don’t be afraid to express yourself. Don’t think about what other people say. They’re nobody. Be you.

  • @shaal8206
    @shaal8206 Рік тому +4

    Ez im a bpd teen and i just got diagnosed and its been so hard for me to do normal things and not get embarrassed of feeling too much emotion or getting too excited for little things... but oh my god your yt and instagram has helped me so much... theres LOTS of positive energy in you and i love how you chose to share it with us

    • @DistilledVoice
      @DistilledVoice 9 місяців тому +1

      How arr you doing ? ❤

    • @shaal8206
      @shaal8206 9 місяців тому +1

      @@DistilledVoice so much better now, its been a year... thank you so much... how are you sweetie?

    • @DistilledVoice
      @DistilledVoice 9 місяців тому

      @@shaal8206 I'm good! Gotta keep thinking about where we've been to prove ourselves in a better situation. Life is still hard... But compared to what it was.. Am coping and understanding more every month :) thanks xxxxxxxx

  • @thecamoguys888
    @thecamoguys888 Рік тому +3

    I love your channel!

  • @beevu0203
    @beevu0203 Рік тому +3

    Please make a video about shaving your head and how you feel about it! I am very scared to do so but I have been wanting to for years now