❗❗DHIKR REMINDER ❗❗The Messenger of Allah (Peace Be Upon Him) said, “There are two statements that are light for the tongue to remember, heavy in the Scales and are dear to the Merciful: “Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim”
The problem with today's mid set is that instead of trying to make a marriage. Instead people are promoting divorce in every situation which sometimes doesn't help
May Allah bless your mom, and I understand that divorce should not be taken lightly, but still that mentality of the older generation is wrong as well. It kept a lot of women in particular in toxic and abusive marriages, and even with men who were horrible Muslims, and their sons and daughters; and later daughters and sons in law even suffered as a result. I could write a book about the angry depressed ( and depressing) older women in our communities due to such mentality. Our point of reference is not the words of people; it's the Quran and Sunna and when we follow them, we stay on the right path with out going to either extreme. With all my love and respect to your mother of course. I think the video above explains things perfectly.
1. In the West I sincerely believe it's the rights given to the women where they can easily walk Away without understanding the consequences yet supported by their father (the government). 2. the relationship with Allah is weak. 3. seeking Jannah without having to work for it. 4. We're adopting the secular liberal values & rights instead of submitting to Islam (Allah's way of life)
@@nolimits1981 it's terrible in UK. Muslims don't want marriage here, they want all the perks without being married. Main one being sex. Access to sex has become to easy thanks to internet
The number one reason for divorce is because we no longer need each other. We have modern civilization to blame for that. Which was built by "science & technology". I firmly believe the magic of Harut & Marut (i.e., that which separates husband from wife) was the knowledge of modern civilization: science & technology. We are currently living out ancient Babylon, once again.
Don’t try to modernize the confirmed aspects of Islam - meaning magic. No scholar has ever interpreted it like how you did, the Qur’an came down and the story of Harut and Marut was understood by all to be sorcery.
I personally disagree here. A lot of people stayed in unhappy marriages because they needed one another. That doesn't mean that the marriage is good. Or succesful. Just staying together for the sake of need.
Divorce is being caused by the fact that you can pick up the phone and have anything you ever wanted. A man sees beautiful women every minute - how can a wife compare (no matter how perfect)? We don’t need eaxhother and nobody is willing to sacrifice for the greater good. Especially the men who should be doing the sacrificing and responsibilities
these are relatively new phenomenons. red pills dont get married so how can they divorce? thats their whole schtick theyre angry because they dont get that far.
Sex is only allowed in marriage in Islam and that's the number one priority for people for getting married. When they're dissatisfied with their sex life they resort to divorce 🙁
It is complex; wirhout generalizing or pointing fingers there needs to be more appreciation proactive giving tolerance and active efforts to build a good connection and forgive peccadilloes etc. It seems men make less efforts in my observation
DEPRESSION & ANXIETY Imam Muhammad Sa'id Ramadân al-Búfi DEPRESSION • ANXIETY THE CAUSES & TREATMENT ACCORDING TO THE QURĂN 36, Based on the Television Series Po Imam Muhammad Sa'id Ramadãn al-Büti Translated & Summarised by Mahdi Lock e Hazem Nasr
@@KS-cl8br A mama boy would never divorce his wife for his family. Girls on the other hand destroy their families for the sake of their parents. Majority of women initiate divorce, your whole argument is redundant
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❗❗DHIKR REMINDER ❗❗The Messenger of Allah (Peace Be Upon Him) said, “There are two statements that are light for the tongue to remember, heavy in the Scales and are dear to the Merciful:
“Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim”
It's the mind set which has change, my mom would tell me they were taught that only death can seperate them.
The problem with today's mid set is that instead of trying to make a marriage. Instead people are promoting divorce in every situation which sometimes doesn't help
May Allah bless your mom, and I understand that divorce should not be taken lightly, but still that mentality of the older generation is wrong as well. It kept a lot of women in particular in toxic and abusive marriages, and even with men who were horrible Muslims, and their sons and daughters; and later daughters and sons in law even suffered as a result. I could write a book about the angry depressed ( and depressing) older women in our communities due to such mentality. Our point of reference is not the words of people; it's the Quran and Sunna and when we follow them, we stay on the right path with out going to either extreme. With all my love and respect to your mother of course. I think the video above explains things perfectly.
1. In the West I sincerely believe it's the rights given to the women where they can easily walk Away without understanding the consequences yet supported by their father (the government).
2. the relationship with Allah is weak.
3. seeking Jannah without having to work for it.
4. We're adopting the secular liberal values & rights instead of submitting to Islam (Allah's way of life)
100% but not just in the west unfortunately.
The rights your talking about in the west have also been given to the women islam she can simply walk away if her husband cannot please her
@@Mixedblood82 surprise surprise it's women's fault as usual. You guys will never be nuanced
That's in islam as well@@blueberrycupcake6999
@@blueberrycupcake6999 🎯🎯
It’s the same problem in the UK 🇬🇧 too, unfortunately.
May Allah guide us all.
@@nolimits1981 it's terrible in UK. Muslims don't want marriage here, they want all the perks without being married. Main one being sex. Access to sex has become to easy thanks to internet
The number one reason for divorce is because we no longer need each other. We have modern civilization to blame for that. Which was built by "science & technology". I firmly believe the magic of Harut & Marut (i.e., that which separates husband from wife) was the knowledge of modern civilization: science & technology. We are currently living out ancient Babylon, once again.
Very interesting points made. Do you mind expanding on the points, jzk. 😊
Don’t try to modernize the confirmed aspects of Islam - meaning magic.
No scholar has ever interpreted it like how you did, the Qur’an came down and the story of Harut and Marut was understood by all to be sorcery.
I personally disagree here.
A lot of people stayed in unhappy marriages because they needed one another. That doesn't mean that the marriage is good. Or succesful.
Just staying together for the sake of need.
@@القرانالكريم-ظ4ك6ز Exactly. In the Tafsir it states that: It was the power to turn love into hate
@@herbertjohn2774😊
Divorce is being caused by the fact that you can pick up the phone and have anything you ever wanted. A man sees beautiful women every minute - how can a wife compare (no matter how perfect)? We don’t need eaxhother and nobody is willing to sacrifice for the greater good. Especially the men who should be doing the sacrificing and responsibilities
Red pill and feminism... Instagram
No that's not why😂
these are relatively new phenomenons.
red pills dont get married so how can they divorce? thats their whole schtick theyre angry because they dont get that far.
@@Mett1234 kinda is
Culture wars
@@luhaydan7442 not at all
Sex is only allowed in marriage in Islam and that's the number one priority for people for getting married. When they're dissatisfied with their sex life they resort to divorce 🙁
Nonsense, otherwise divorce rates would have always been high instead if rising?
This must be the most bizarre comment ever lol
Wonderful!
Mashallah What was the name of the book with its author?
The rights of the husband and wife by Shaykh ‘Abdul Hadi al-Kharsah
Some Sisters want millionaires and some brothers want models
Got to meet him in Birmingham - his books on the rights of husband and wife is great
@@TheDragonaf1 what’s the name and titles of the books? Please share, JazakAllahu Khairan Ustadh
@zedrah12 if you go to his website Mahdi lock blogs you will find it. E.g. the rights of husband and wife as he mentioned
@ JazakAllahu Khairan 🙏🏾
It is complex; wirhout generalizing or pointing fingers there needs to be more appreciation proactive giving tolerance and active efforts to build a good connection and forgive peccadilloes etc. It seems men make less efforts in my observation
DEPRESSION & ANXIETY
Imam Muhammad Sa'id Ramadân al-Búfi
DEPRESSION
• ANXIETY
THE CAUSES & TREATMENT
ACCORDING TO THE QURĂN
36, Based on the Television Series Po
Imam Muhammad Sa'id Ramadãn al-Büti
Translated & Summarised by
Mahdi Lock e Hazem Nasr
Assalamou3aleykoum you Al buti Rahim allah?
So many women are bothered by interfering inlaws because their husband is a mama boy instead of a good man, so why be with a guy like that
What about men who have to put up with toxic in-laws or the wife's family interfering.
Flip side you have the modern feminist wife polite to her coworkers and boss and a nagging snake to her husband ha!
@@Muslim-87 it is way more the opposite way
@@syayayayaya well do women a favor and stay away
@@KS-cl8br A mama boy would never divorce his wife for his family. Girls on the other hand destroy their families for the sake of their parents. Majority of women initiate divorce, your whole argument is redundant
Where is this course that was mentioned?
Salam. Where is the full video ?
Wasalaam
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@herbertjohn2774 jazakAllah brother
Blame your Bukhari Bible.
@@HiddenOne19 haters gonna hate :)
Bro you got a higher divorce rate than us though 😂
Feminism
More like misogyny
Of course, classic scapegoat. Like when people blame immigrants for the economy
Y’all cry feminism when y’all don’t even know what it means
@@aquneOGit means the destruction of the human being. Feminism is a mental virus
@samfaris313 its actually because of people like u who scream feminism