Students Gaslight Teachers
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"You little baby gaslighter."🤣 You know the administration and the parents will believe what the student says over what the teacher saw every time!
it is why they need cameras facing the students desks in classroom
@Ashley Singletary plenty of teachers lie tho. They can get petty and personal to a kid, sometimes to an illegal and abusive degree.
Every profession has it's evils and ofc some ppl who are just selfish and/or immature.
10 years ago, when I was in elementary.. there was no way a child had any rule over the teachers. Thankfully for us teachers never abused that, but now I work at the same school and kids can attack other students- whoever catches them and takes them to the principal, their parents demand they be fired. Part of every custodians pay literally goes to lawyers FOR THIS REASON SPECIFICALLY. They should be evaluating the staff harder if theyre concerned about abuse, but no they think its appropriate to let ALL children think they run the place. They literally rip soap dispensers off the wall and smear poop on the stalls, they have no capacity.
@@emmaabdul-jabbar3458 call for cameras, and i would tell teachers if a kid attacks you, and harms you, call the real police. Tell the school you will sue if you get fired for getting the cops involved.
@@fireball0762 is illegal to record and share video of students. The federal law regarding students rights to privacy in school is called FERPA.
My mom worked in an alternative school for kids who had been expelled. They had cameras. Some parents would watch the video and either still claim it didn't happen, or claim that the kid in the video wasn't their child.
They learned this gaslighting from the parents or caregiver. And they get away with it most of the time. If they have this behavior now WAIT UNTIL THEY REACH ADULTHOOD ??? They will be experts by then.
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I remember there was a parent that claimed that they had photoshopped the video
with parents like that- no wonder they got expelled. yikes.
Omg… yes!!
kids lie like politicians
My favorite was a set of parents who said - straight-faced and more than once - "We always believe our kids because if they ever lied to us they'd be in so much trouble it just wouldn't even be worth it so we know they'd never do it so we always believe them..."
Mm-hmm. Not even gonna try to catch that logic train.
Imagine young Ted Cruz. Gaslighting folks since about year 1975..
The kids who tell the truth generally have parents who listen to all sides and realize that sometimes good kids will lie to get out of trouble.
Exactly my comment above basically. You can reach your kids to be honest by making them trust that you will listen and not react unexpectedly.
Or they know they don’t fear parents reactions they can be honest but when parents lie and tell the kids to be honest and they won’t get in trouble and then turn around and yell and ground them or losss all trust
I can ask my 6yo once to tell the truth if she’s lying and she immediately will. Has for a year now since I made sure to work on her trusting that she can be honest even though consequences will still happen. She needed predictability is all and to know what consequences will be given so she didn’t feel the right or flight feeling to get out of whatever horrible consequence she thought up on her head or me doing it one time and not the next. It’s helped a lot parenting wise to stick to this
Nah, some of those lil sh!ts just lie for the sake of lying
they jus dont wanna get in trouble
@@clarkjc44355 that’s what my parents did my sister and I would always admit when we did something and give our reason for doing that thing even if it was something as simple as idk I felt like it. I think another issue is sometimes kids won’t admit to doing something because when asked why they know their answer won’t be accepted like when I was a kid sometimes I would just poke my sister for no reason other than I was bored and it was something to do now if I was going to be pushed into having a better reason than that then I would just say I didn’t do it because well I don’t have a better reason so it’s easier to lie about not doing it then lie about a reason for doing what I did.
I wasn't a liar, and my parents didn't listen to shit.
Retired teacher here. When students would try the”It wasn’t me” excuse; I would ask if they were ok, and suggest that maybe they should go to the Health Office. I would also ask them if aliens had captured their body and force them to do whatever action they were trying to deny.
Good one! I’ll try that next time 😁
Nope was not me.
I sat something this currently😂 catches them off guard! Even if it doesn’t work in my favor at least we can laugh about/get on the same side again😊
Next time kick them in the mouth.
And then they throw a tantrum when there's a consequence
Truth!
I some times wait til the end of class to give the consequences just I don't have listen to tantrums.
Well theyre kids lmfao y’all treating them like they’re adults
@@capitalg1415 being kids doesn't mean you can get away with everything bruh, especially when they were talking about the kid literally stabbing another kid
@@diezombie9612 it’s expected for a kid to have a tantrum goofy no one said they should get away with it but complaining about a kid throwing a tantrum is some childish shit lol
I used to hear "baby gangster" and now kids are more devious so they evolved into "baby gaslighter". 👶 😩
😂😂😂👍👍👍
"What did I DOOOOO?" Every time you call them out. You know exactly what you did, please just stop. I have one kid that will just deny anything even if its the most obvious lie in the world. Its like a reflex. Me: please sit down. Him: I am sitting down (while standing up). Its infuriating.
" Don't Gas Light Me, You Littel Baby Gas Lighter" 🤣😂
When kids deny if they did something- “When I ask you a question after you’ve done something bad it’s not because I didn’t see it. I’m asking because I already know and I’m asking to see if you lie to me.”
Retired teacher here, too. When talking to a student who did something I saw, then denied it and got angry at consequences - I would just say, “Don’t be mad at me. Be mad at yourself for causing this.” I also stressed at the beginning of the year that you don’t want a teacher who doesn’t trust you. If you do something wrong, own up, apologize and don’t do it again. You’ll be in way less trouble than if you lie. Truth always comes out. I understand, though, that these were 4th-8th graders back some 10-40 years ago when I was teaching and kids and times have totally changed since then. Y’all are amazing for what you’re going through today! 💕🙋🏻♀️
Oh golly, me too. It's been over five years and I could still do that talk in my sleep.
I wish this still worked like it used to. Unfortunately now, it's often the case that the administration and/or parents are not on board with holding students accountable for their actions. They're never forced to own up, or ~God forbid~ , deal with a meaningful consequence. They've learned that of they tap dance around long enough, nothing happens and they can just keep doing whatever they want.
All the time...
Also love this phrase;" so what had happened was..." (They're stalling to create a lie....)
I used to love when my daughter did this when she was around 4 lol. Thankfully she stopped doing that at 6now but I could tel it was all a lie and would know her store was going to be insane and all made up.
Her stories weren’t lies but rather her being silly or over exaggerating but she would do the “so what had happened was” on those words lol
This drove me crazy! Nothing gets me more than them talking back when I know exactly what happened 😅
My reply to “I wasn’t talking” was to say their mouth was moving and sound was coming out and give them derisive looks
Me too!
Ugh.
To deal with this everyday.
The amount of lying…
When you literally hear and see them doing the thing
My ex had a parent show up during lunch(YEARS ago) yelling at him because his jock son didn't have a passing grade in his class, and unsatisfactory citizenship, so was temporarily kicked off the football team. (Texans are serious about football, even Jr Hi)
Parent is threatening and says it's only the subject of Reading, so it isn't important, and his son said he wasn't talking and being disruptive on class.Y ex said, "I saw his lips move, and heard his voice. "
" You're wrong. It wasn't him. Now change his grade, we have a game on Friday! "
Wait what school was this? We had the EXACT situation happen in my middle school. We heard the yelling from down the hallway and on the second floor.
When my students do something sometimes I would just stand there and stare at them until they make eye contact with me. Then they know they was caught!
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And the confidence will have you doubting yourself and start looking around like somebody else had to have seen that.
Effective classroom management/way to wrangle lying: don’t give them the chance to deny. Instead of “why did you stab him”, try “Student, we do not stab people in here. Your consequence is _____” this is especially useful if they blame each other as well. I don’t want to hear the blame game and excuses, and letting people verbally deny things reinforces their denial of the truth mentally, creates more lies. You just gonna make up for it in my class! All the bad kids get sent to my class because they behave very well with me after some consistency
That works in most cases but it doesn't always work especially in these title 1 schools. There are some students that will walk straight out of the room even if they did what they were accused of.
Remember their truth matters more than what you saw. 😂🤣😂
Must have been their "evil twin"🤣
Yeah. It’s even worse when you have parents that are like this. “How did you know my son cussed? Did you ask him?”Um Ma’am I head him say *** with my own ears. “ “Ok. Well you are not respecting my child so I am going to pull him out of school.” The next day, she and her son come to the classroom in the middle of class time. I guess the administrator let them in. “Ok. Let’s get everything out of your desk? What do you mean there’s only junk in here? Boy, you made me drive all the way to the school just to pick up junk?” Welp I thought her son was the little angel around here. It’s so funny too because he used to come in the classroom complaining that I didn’t give him enough homework. I was like, you want a bunch more homework? I have loads of work right here! He was like 😳”Nope!”
"I'm a ghost" LMAO
It starts at home.
Bri's story telling is awesome! She's highly entertaining 🤣
You little baby gaslighter killed me😂😂😂
Omg I'm glad somebody said it!😂🤣
That shit would piss me off! I know kids that are like that.
Love these teachers!!!❤️
“I wasn’t standing up” I tell them…. “Ok I’m sorry I was wrong please forgive me” with the biggest sarcasm voice ever!
My mom once replied to a kid that said it wasn't with "ok shaggy"
More shorts with Ms Richardson!!! Shes such a good storyteller and so funny!
I can totally relate! I call them out in it and tell them they need to stop gaslighting. It’s crazy.
At first I thought she said, "Tristan slapped somebody with a pistol.' Boy, that's a rough school.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 so accurate.
I'm like.... I was sitting there watching you! 🤣🤣🤣
Why, I ask you, are there no cameras in classrooms? Do you know how many problems I had with bullies growing up that would have been solved by CAMERAS?! I'm assuming the answer is "funding"... because everything needful in our society that we don't have is because of "funding"...
Just ask Tucker Carlson. He wants body cameras on all teachers, so I’m sure he’ll be happy to pay for one in your class. 👍
I started telling them “good plan compound it by lying, you’re getting so good at that.” They hated being called liars and stopped pulling that crap
THIS IS MY KIDS! 🤣🤣
They are born to say it wasn’t me. 🤣🤣🤣
Love her😂 that exactly what they do 🤣
"Baby gaslighter" 💀😭
There’s a kid in my grade (I’m going to be a sophomore this year), and he is just like this. The reason he does this thought and talks back to teachers is to make others in the classroom laugh, and none of them take up for the teacher. They just laugh and call him a gangster for it
This is a learned behavior. Learned from the parents or caregiver. So talking to the parents is like pissing in the wind.
“Don’t Gaslight me, you little baby gaslighter! I SAW YOU.”
Happens in high school a lot, but they just repeat they didnt deny or try to blame it on someone else
Teachers have nothing but my utmost respect and prayers dealing with these ppl heathen children thx God 4U
My favorite response to that nonsense is “I lived it, saw it with my own eyes”
I had a Trystan too! Seriously - that was his name. Got himself 86'd in the 3rd qtr.
Why we stabing kids with pencils though
whoa who’s we?!
My response was "So, does that mean you're adding lying to the list of inappropriate behavior?'" "I'll remember that."
Tristian always doing the most. 🤣
The gaslighting by students drives me insane!
Love this teacher
"Little baby gaslighter" lmaooooo
Tristan a straight G. 😂
Must be a ghost writing the office referral too 😂
I have a kid who does this every day. I'll say like "hey bud, you're on paper today cuz you were inappropriate with the laptop yesterday" and he'll go "you're a LIAR! You're tweaking! Why are you making stuff up?"
2 words HOME SCHOOL
I’m a camp counselor and there have been multiple occasions where I tell a kid not to do something and I watch them do it anyways, but the best part is when they see me watching them do it and still proceed to tell me that they didn’t do what I just watched them do, damn well knowing I saw it happen
my mom is a teacher and the stories she tells 😂 one kid threw milk across the room, “THAT WASNT ME I SWEAR” and another kicked another kid while he was on the floor and tried to say “it was an accident… i thought we were playing” 🤣
Baby gaslighter..Lol 😂
Yooooo this reminds me of when i was in highschool my friend and i were messing around and he stabs my hand my teacher mid lecture says did you just stab him in the hand talking to my friend he says no and since at the time it didn't hurt i just said no he didn't the teacher was just like i don't get paid enough for this
Same. I work at a daycare and we have after school elementary kids come in. We have a troublemaker here that just DENIES EVERYTHING. It’s seriously insane and i feel like I’m going crazy. We’ve had other teachers see the sane thing I saw & she still denies it tells us WE are the liars… worse part is her mom is the same way. She will just deny everything her daughter does and tells us she’s an absolute angel.
NOT THE GHOST 🤣
They do exactly that!
As a kid who acted out in class that extra stare from the teacher was the worst.
Damn Tristan 😂😂😂😂
My 7 & 6 year olds do that same thing! Drives me crazy!!!
The classic Scooby defense
A lot of that is due to parenting. When parents work on honesty and why it’s important while giving incentives for honesty when young to build that habit and trust is really important
All I have to do is tell my daufhter “please be honest. I’m going to give you one more chance and we can talk about it” and she will immediately be honest. Doesn’t mean there isn’t a consequence but I notice kids that do this in my family or friends kids do it because parents react extreme with consequences so they lie out of fear or their parents use the “be honest and you won’t get in trouble” and then immediately punish them.
That's how I feel when inmates lie to me at the corrections facility I work at
I got into so much trouble at a UIL event for “repeatedly talk to the people next to me”. I actually wasn’t, but the teacher refused to believe me. I do however have a tic where I chew on my cheeks and maybe that looked like I was talking??
When cell phones became mainstream, I used mine to record antagonist behavior. It became an issue because teachers were not allowed to video or without permission. The following year I asked for a signature from parents to video and take pictures if I found myself in a situation where the child was misbehaving. Many parents signed and gave me their cell phone numbers until one teacher made it an issue because she had no control over her classroom.
Kids will make you feel like you're the crazy one. 🤪
Me babysitting: “I KNOW it was you, because I SAW you with the EYEBALLS in my FACE! Despite having glasses, I can actually see you.” *points at eyes for emphasis*
THIS IS SO TRUE!!!
ngl i did to gaslight my teachers through quarantine😭
My younger brother also does that trying to gaslight everyone saying it's not him
Seriously my classmates used to blame it on Casper-
I'm not a teacher but I freaking can't handle the accuracy of this cause let's be serious....many of us were those little baby gaslighters 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My friend’s four year old was witnessed hitting his brother. When Dad asked why he did it he denied it. When Dad said he had seen him do it his response was ‘I didn’t hit him, I temporarily touched him!’
I've had this happen to me so many times. The worst part is when the only proof, is your eyes. Like if they stole someone else's food and ate it. (Axtually happened)
Though we've caught a kiddo stealing and they still deny it. Even with proof in hand and multiple witnesses.
It's mindboggling.
We had a kid in my French class throw a staple at my teacher and when she turned around and questioned him, he IMMEDIATELY blamed the 2nd quietest kid in our class (they were apparently “friends”). EVERYBODY saw the kid through the staple at her and heard him say “I’ll throw it at her”. Everyone in the class was trying so hard to defend the quiet kid and the hall monitor didn’t believe us. Props to the quiet kid he took the blame kind of. He said “I SUPPLIED the staples” he never said he threw them because he didn’t. After the whole thing the original kid admitted to throwing it.
Yes, I HATE this!!! Then some would get angrily defensive about it 😡🧐😒😒😒😒😒😒.
I was always that one person who did there school work write away and then I would be on my phone and the teacher be like do your schoolwork but it’s already done. They hated it 🤣
Tristan watching this like: 👁👄👁
My Geography teacher talked with all his classes about this saying teachers know what they see and that yes sometimes teachers may accuse kids of something they didn't do but that's gonna happen in life
Lying over stupid shot is the worst
You guys should get paid like doctors,cuz all the things y'all do and teach the world needs good teachers
Shit, there are things in my store I don’t recollect doing I know I haven’t done and I sometimes think there is a ghost in the building.
I watched this 10 times and I'm still laughing
I work at a summer camp and a six year old girl was touching my male coworker and saying things that if she was old enough to comprehend what sexual harassment and sexual assault then she would be guilt of both of them (she did the things in the first place and then refused to stop even as the coworker was pushing her away bc she didn’t listen to him telling her to stop). When we talked to her she gaslit this guy so bad and tried to argue her way out of all of, including denying she ever did anything when the camp director talked to her and tried to say we’re awful counselors who randomly get people in trouble when they didn’t do anything wrong just so we have less kids to deal with. This kid almost got kicked out of the camp for all of this and spraying bug spray right into the counselors eyes so bad they both swelled shut for like 10 mins. I really pity her teachers over the next few years.
Best/ or worst ever is when my kids were in daycare a little boy had a habit of getting away with hitting kids then immediately crying when he was the one who started crap. I was working there part time and saw the "little baby gaslighter" do just that and when I called him out he denied it. To make it worse the director had the little girl in her office and called her mom all while that little boy got way with that nonsense. Turned out she was afraid of the kids mom because she was always complaining and threatening.I pulled that little boy aside after we left the building and he had been crying and right in front of me switched from crying to laughing knowing he got away with it. I told him I knew what he was up to and did not care if he got away with it in front of other teachers, if I saw him cry he was going into town me out because I knew what was up. Kids jaw dropped and didn't do anything when I was there, but my kids said he was always trying that with the regular teachers. 🤨🤦
My daughter is six and I have this argument with her every.... single....day! "Little baby gaslighters" for real!
Parents go through this with kids too. It's not unusual.
I learned to say "you! With the face! Come here!". The guilty one would turn around every time
this is sadly so true sometimes but there was 1 time i was suspended in elementary for something so stupid
it was for 2 days and it was because the lunch lady thought I was choking my best friend in elementary school
they never came up to either of us never asked him what happened or checked cameras i did not know anything of it till I got home and my mom was telling me to explain what happened and i quite literally had no clue what really happened is we were playing with Legos and stuff it was close to the end of the period so I tried to get then back from him he didn't want to so I came behind and grabbed them after dumping my trey that was exactly what my friend said and what the cameras showed after my parents called to complain
so I only did 1 day they went back
Kid in my S.O.S class (it's just a 20min mental checkup period) would talk, leave class without permission and be on his phone all the time, I call him out on it when he gets made at the teacher and it's just so frustrating because he says hes like checking his grade when he's playing freaking subway surfers🙃✌️
i did this once w a 5th grader (im a sub) and when he told me "that wasn't me, it must have been a ghost" i proceeded to act scared like maybe i had actually seen one, then for the whole day when the kids were at lunch and other classes (art & theater) i would take the 3 kids stuff that were messing around with eachother and either move them or hide them in other parts of the room and pretended like the ghost may have done it, then (per the kids request) showed them a "live footage" youtube video of paranormal activity (not the movie like actual clips of cabinets moving etc) & the kid was so freaked out, he ended up saying he did it and that it wasn't a ghost & never said that again. Lol
I hated when my classmates did that. They would always say that especially when talking during class. You were talking and your mouth was moving with sounds were coming out it.