Reminds me of this poem and illustration: "She had blue skin, And so did he. He kept it hid And so did she. They searched for blue Their whole life through, Then passed right by- And never knew." Masks, by Shel Silverstein
This knowledge is pure liquid gold. This should be taught as prerequisite in graduating high school and a core class in all university level degrees. This might reduce 50% of the population's marriage divorces, bad relationships, unwanted hook ups and pregnancies.
Unfortunately it won't happen. Cause majority of people watching these videos are women. Men seem to think it's weak to seek counseling, not even relationship counseling but personal counseling. Although I know a few women who would benefit from this as well.
This is literally a BRILLIANT idea! I am about to do a school and I never considered adding anything like this to the curriculum, but I will, thanks to your brilliant suggestion. It will be part of the life skills portion of the curriculum. Thank you so much for sharing that thought.
This clarifies even more how people rush into long-term relationships and then feel miserable for years. Finding a compatible partner isn’t easy but everyone around us makes it seem like it..
@baghashviii - people rush into long-term relationships because that's what they are taught to do. No wants to do the hard work of getting to know themselves before getting involved with someone, which is why so many people marry the wrong person. People rush into long-term relationships because they want to be taken care of, or rescued. As this woman on this video says, relationships give people an excuse not to show up in their own lives.
@@Lina-rf9nb Lolol Yeah & You Really Don't Wanna Admit To YourSelf That Maybe This Man May Not Be Compatible with Me, beCause After All, We've been Trying To Make It Work for 7 years, So We Keep Playing The Puzzle Game! But StiLL Something Just Still Not Fitting, I Can't Even Just Do A Romantic Dance With Him, Oh How I Miss Dancing 💃but you Knew He Couldn't dance That First Date Y'all had @ A Club, but You disregarded It As, Oh Well He Just Not Use To "Dancing" That Affected Sooo Much In Our Relationship 😧 It Turns Out, We Had Few Romantic Connections. 10 Years with Him, 3 kids, Later & While I Have No ReGrets, however I FeeL Like Nothing Was Accomplished Either, BeCause I Spent Too Much Time Trying To Make Him Understand That, First I Don't Want To Be In An Abusive Marriage & ReLationship!!! Or Should I Say, "Wounded" Couples Keep Coming Back To Each Other's Aid!! Wowww
@@virtuosityll7116 😂 And after you've put so much into it, you don't want it all to have been for nothing, and now you're forcing the situation, when YOU KNOW you're not compatible. I knew the first six months that it wasn't going to work. Somehow talked myself out of what I knew!
Want to know something funny? I wore a red mask, my boyfriend wore a red mask. I thought hmm he's not really lilac like me but I'm drawn to him for some reason. Months go by and finally we both take off our red masks. We were lilacs all along and now we can see each other for who we really are and it's a beautiful thing. Sure we argue, sure our relationship has its ups and downs but I was so happy to take my mask off with him and brave the vulnerability together and we make ourselves stronger.
This entire video is spot on and so deep. I wish she could navigate about changes in a couple as they are both growing as individuals and how it can affect their compatibility. Who is this woman, where can we find her please
Wow the best explanation of relationship compatibility. Now I don't feel bad anymore for cutting ties with the exes. We weren't compatible and it makes sense now. Find your tribe!
@@dennisrobinson8008 He wants a wound mate, will he bring out the mature positive determined intelligence in the woman? Or just what he can receive from the relationship?
Can you imagine being married to this woman and asking yourself on a daily basis am I measuring up lol. She’s absolutely gawjus I must say, very intelligent, well spoken. I wonder if she’s married and if so does she feel compatible with her husband.
Katrina M WTF? He literally said she was very intelligent and well spoken, last time I checked those are not superficial qualities. She is clearly on top of her game, that’s what he admires.
Intimacy = in to me see! 3:24 Such a good analogy, I'm going to see people that way from now on! It looks red but it's really lilac. Signs of compatibility. 5:36 Choose Ascension = some rise , some fall but you want a relationship that RISES R - Recreational intimacy I - Intellectual intimacy S - Spiritual intimacy E - Emotional intimacy S - Sexual intimacy
I can’t believe it! I met a guy who him and I just totally hit all this levels over 3 meetings…. We haven’t gone to all the deep spaces yet… trust is developing…we haven’t revealed our “need them to know list” and haven’t shared any secrets…just building a solid friendship and he’s asked for exclusivity right away. ❤️
She has so much wisdom. I have worn the red mask when I'm truly a lilac before and my needs never got met. I've decided not to let my representative show up, I want to show up as my real self so I connect with my compatible mate
Now THIS is some serious real deal information that EVERYONE who wants to be in any form of relationship should be aware of! Most of the information Spirit shared is new to me lol! Thank you for this video! I needed it!
Holy moley! That analogy of lilac personality vs red mask is so spot on!! It all makes so much sense! And circle in a square description and her definition of intimacy = “into me see”. That was profound!!!!Spirit is amazing! She described this is in such relatable but poignant ways. This was one of most enlightening vids I’ve seen in a long time! Thank you!
Brilliant interview and brilliant responses. I'm amazed that finances weren't included in this, and it makes me believe that financial differences can be overcome. I wish more people knew what it takes to have a healthy relationship. Also, to all those people who read this, I hope happiness and hope surround you even in the darkest moments. You deserve to be loved and sometimes science can't explain the reasons why you're happy. Don't question your happiness when that happens.
The circle and the square… explained it all. Such clarity after 30 years…. I understand now. I was the square, for 30 years. Lesson learned. Never to be repeated. Thank you Dr. Spirit.❤
Ms. Spirit has studied to show herself approved! Her gift shall make room for her on any platform. She articulates and explained aspects of relationships that really enlightened me. Thanks Mel.
I love that you are ACTUALLY doing the talk show, that you talked about doing in your decade challenge. Its only been the first few months and you are off to an amazing start :) Thanks for inspiring me Mel.
This interview was life changing! Thank you so much! You've given me a lot of priceless information about myself and about the people in my life. I have to take some time to absorb all of this so that I can reevaluate many area's in my life. Most importantly, to pass it on to my adult children and my grandchildren. You not only saved me, you may also have saved my children and my grandchildren. Thank you Thank you Thank yoy
Both ladies are great, sure the therapist is no doubt the expert in the field, but the host is also excellent with all spot on questions, brilliant to watch...All signs just confirmed that I was right to leave ex, wish I could know these earlier....
Where has this guest speaker been all my life?!?! Her knowledge and wisdom has no bounds! Can’t wait to learn more from her. This is probably the best relationship video I’ve ever listened to.
Compatibility Quiz Do you miss your partner when you’re away from them for along time ? Do you trust your partner ? If not, why not? Do you have compatible lifestyles? Can you talk to your partner about anything Do you laugh together?
Sooo very true! What she didn’t cover, how a couple grows and changes together. After 39 years married, was we look back we see that at many times we each made changes and were not in sync with each other. Too often couples don’t understand that there was a lot of work in the following years after a wedding. It takes DEDICATION and commitment to work through what is worth holding & working for.
Not many people stay married as long as you do. I congratulate you and your dedication to your partner because I am sure it wasnt easy. But I always wanted to ask someone who has been married long enough, did you put up with issues like cheating to make it last or was it respect that made your relationship last? What advice do you share having done the work to make it this long
Brilliant, one of the single most clear, concise descriptions of how to find the love that’s truly meant for who YOU ARE, at your core. 🟣🟥🤯 Thank you♥️
You can marry someone with little to no compatibility but you don’t submit yourself to that person unless you are emotionally connected. This video is a perfect blueprint for compatibility in a healthy marriage. This lady in red talks real. One of the best podcast from Mel Robbins. Cheers!
If I didn't know this was a show or conversation, I'd think this was scripted because of how fast and articulate and how on point these responses are. I really needed to hear this!!
Hi L A, i think that couples can get to that part if they do the quiz. The third question "do you have compatible lifestyle?" also applies to "do you like to go out for dinner, where, and can you afford to do it as much as you would like?" or maybe "you drive an expensive car, live in an expensive flat, can you afford it?". But i also think that its important to discuss this with open minds, and to know that even if money is the center of all it cant be the center of a relashionship.
@@jessicatamele145 Do you have compatible lifestyles is NOT the same as do you have compatible money...and I beg to differ, most Americans live on credit and want...and have nice things with debt financing. They think they are 'affording' things by paying their cc bill every month.
oh my gawd - that circle in square example just saved me extra hours in therapy.
Hahahahha
I'm a 100% with you!
🌟🌟🌟🌟
And she said it in less than 1 min
The circle isn't also touched on every side. Its a half truth
This woman just helped me have more strength to actually wait for the right person.
Yes! Girl you will get that right person!! It is sooo worth it in the end!! You are worth it!
Exactly me too!!
If you are above 24, doing more than just waiting probably is the right idea.
If waiting is your strategy, you will probably be waiting for a long time. Everything in life requires action with purpose.
Same
The whole video is spot on. Give this women (in red) a ted talk
Kip Holder thinking the same thing
YES PLEASE
Absolutely. Everything was spot on. Very well articulated.
She has a fabulous Ted Talk: How to stop screwing yourself over. Highly recommend!
Yes!!!!
Reminds me of this poem and illustration:
"She had blue skin,
And so did he.
He kept it hid
And so did she.
They searched for blue
Their whole life through,
Then passed right by-
And never knew."
Masks, by Shel Silverstein
Awesome.
Awfully tragic.
This poem took me 5 yrs back and I shared it with him too 🙃
The way she answers these questions! Fast and efficient 🤺
Yeah, she’s spent a lot of time thinking about this
Daring Danielle And it shows!
You know who is she?
Awatif Ana Spirit from “Love Goals” on OWN
Because she planned them ahead.
This knowledge is pure liquid gold. This should be taught as prerequisite in graduating high school and a core class in all university level degrees. This might reduce 50% of the population's marriage divorces, bad relationships, unwanted hook ups and pregnancies.
I wholeheartedly agree with you, sir.
Never gonna happen.
Yessss 💯
Unfortunately it won't happen. Cause majority of people watching these videos are women. Men seem to think it's weak to seek counseling, not even relationship counseling but personal counseling. Although I know a few women who would benefit from this as well.
This is literally a BRILLIANT idea! I am about to do a school and I never considered adding anything like this to the curriculum, but I will, thanks to your brilliant suggestion. It will be part of the life skills portion of the curriculum.
Thank you so much for sharing that thought.
This clarifies even more how people rush into long-term relationships and then feel miserable for years. Finding a compatible partner isn’t easy but everyone around us makes it seem like it..
@baghashviii - people rush into long-term relationships because that's what they are taught to do. No wants to do the hard work of getting to know themselves before getting involved with someone, which is why so many people marry the wrong person. People rush into long-term relationships because they want to be taken care of, or rescued. As this woman on this video says, relationships give people an excuse not to show up in their own lives.
Who is this woman and why is she not credited?
She is credited in the text below the video....her name is Spirit
jemzjems Spirit what? She has to have a full name and they didn't put it.
@@TheSadie88 She goes by just "Spirit." Easy to find her via Google.
Chase Sizemore I wish her social media was linked
@@TheSadie88 her full professional name is SPIRIT which as I said is credited. This is what she advertises herself as.
This woman's great! She definitely comes accross as someone at their best!
What is her name? She’s awesome!
I played it over and over. Wanted to memorize everything she said.
Spirit...you are awesome
Omg! This woman done jumped in my marriage and exposed some stuff.
Yes 😁
This woman seems Like she knows what the heck she’s talking about. Articulate smart easily answer the questions. Why can’t she be my therapist :-)
Maybe you can't afford her therapy :(
She's great
Samantha Jones ?? No, its bc she is famous and super busy, and lives in another state.
Yes!! Will she take my money and just HELP ME!
Why would she not Articulate her words dumb ass 🤔
Holy smokes, that woman is so elegant and well-spoken. What a class act. She's goals :)
Yes, she is.
One way compatibility.... "The Square and the Circle Analogy!!!!!" NOW that is an excellent way to describe compatibility.
She hit the nail on the head for me. I was with the wrong person for so long and now it makes sense.
Yeah! That ExPlains Why Every
Time I Left My Ex, I Felt More
Happier 😄 & fulfilled 😘
Me too! I just realized why my 6 year relationship failed.
@@Lina-rf9nb Lolol Yeah & You Really
Don't Wanna Admit To YourSelf
That Maybe This Man May Not
Be Compatible with Me, beCause
After All, We've been Trying To
Make It Work for 7 years, So We
Keep Playing The Puzzle Game!
But StiLL Something Just Still
Not Fitting, I Can't Even Just Do
A Romantic Dance With Him, Oh
How I Miss Dancing 💃but you
Knew He Couldn't dance That
First Date Y'all had @ A Club, but
You disregarded It As, Oh Well
He Just Not Use To "Dancing"
That Affected Sooo Much In Our
Relationship 😧 It Turns Out, We
Had Few Romantic Connections.
10 Years with Him, 3 kids, Later &
While I Have No ReGrets, however
I FeeL Like Nothing Was Accomplished Either, BeCause
I Spent Too Much Time Trying To
Make Him Understand That, First
I Don't Want To Be In An Abusive
Marriage & ReLationship!!! Or
Should I Say, "Wounded" Couples
Keep Coming Back To Each
Other's Aid!! Wowww
What were the first signs that made you realize that you were with the wrong person?
@@virtuosityll7116 😂 And after you've put so much into it, you don't want it all to have been for nothing, and now you're forcing the situation, when YOU KNOW you're not compatible.
I knew the first six months that it wasn't going to work. Somehow talked myself out of what I knew!
Want to know something funny? I wore a red mask, my boyfriend wore a red mask. I thought hmm he's not really lilac like me but I'm drawn to him for some reason. Months go by and finally we both take off our red masks. We were lilacs all along and now we can see each other for who we really are and it's a beautiful thing. Sure we argue, sure our relationship has its ups and downs but I was so happy to take my mask off with him and brave the vulnerability together and we make ourselves stronger.
💜
😍❤
Wow beautiful
I love Spirit's warm energy and wisdom!
Me tooo
Me too 😍
@@XXClodaghBXX
"Wound Mate" = Trauma Bond
yes ! exactly what I was thinking
= toxic soul ties
Co dependency
A wound mate -
Could attract someone with narcisstic tendencies!
THE WOMANS NAME WAS NOWHERE MENTIONED. GIVE HER SOME CREDIT.
Exactly I totally agree. Please share her name so we can follow more of her articles, videos and advice.
Her name was in the video, it’s Spirit!
She’s also the therapist on one of the reality relationship shows
@@Aoneify was just about to say this.
Her name is spirit she has a show on own called love goals great show
A wound mate can also be a friend(s).
So true !
Yes true
Most Definitely!!!
Just a friend...
My former best friend for over 10 years turned out to be a wound-mate. :(
This entire video is spot on and so deep. I wish she could navigate about changes in a couple as they are both growing as individuals and how it can affect their compatibility. Who is this woman, where can we find her please
Right now she works on the show Love Goals. It's truly impressive to see how she works and guides the couples.
What is her name?
@@chasingclouds7101 her name is spirit
Talk2Spirit on IG
@@mirv1998 I also found her on Instagram spirit2talk, she has alot of motivational posts an she goes live on Friday's
Wow the part when she said we all wear “mask” to hide our true self... that hit different. She’s so well spoken and spot on!
I love this woman's fairness to the game/art of compatibility
Just perfect answers. Sometimes we see all this red flags but afraid to live and start all over again...
Melllll darling this lady is everything - keep her involved please
Wow the best explanation of relationship compatibility. Now I don't feel bad anymore for cutting ties with the exes. We weren't compatible and it makes sense now. Find your tribe!
This was such an eye opener for me! I've never heard anyone break it down so simply. Wonderful interview. I wish it was longer.
Dianna Shuster,your pretty smile can make the news!
The black powerful woman in red knows her shit! Thank you for this insight
A supportive and mature minds as hers makes a better man
@@dennisrobinson8008 how about she invites the better man to her life instead of _making s better man_
@@wellknown1204 Either way. If she invites a "better" man into her life and is ultra critical, negative and fault finding, it will degrade him.
@@dennisrobinson8008 He wants a wound mate, will he bring out the mature positive determined intelligence in the woman? Or just what he can receive from the relationship?
Can you imagine being married to this woman and asking yourself on a daily basis am I measuring up lol. She’s absolutely gawjus I must say, very intelligent, well spoken. I wonder if she’s married and if so does she feel compatible with her husband.
I believe so. She has 9 kids I think.
@@selinagray1087 😂😂😂😂😂
She is and it shows that she’s at her best.
Yes she is married. N a Mother of 7 children i think
Katrina M WTF? He literally said she was very intelligent and well spoken, last time I checked those are not superficial qualities. She is clearly on top of her game, that’s what he admires.
i love how she is calm and collected in answering
Intimacy = in to me see!
3:24 Such a good analogy, I'm going to see people that way from now on! It looks red but it's really lilac.
Signs of compatibility. 5:36
Choose Ascension = some rise , some fall but you want a relationship that RISES
R - Recreational intimacy
I - Intellectual intimacy
S - Spiritual intimacy
E - Emotional intimacy
S - Sexual intimacy
And guy I was with didn’t fit any of those !!!
This expert is amazing. Every single sentence that came out of her mouth was full of wisdom and incite.
I freaking love spirit so much she is so beautiful and Intelligent
She is really everything
I can’t believe it! I met a guy who him and I just totally hit all this levels over 3 meetings…. We haven’t gone to all the deep spaces yet… trust is developing…we haven’t revealed our “need them to know list” and haven’t shared any secrets…just building a solid friendship and he’s asked for exclusivity right away. ❤️
Everything she's saying, right on the money. Love her spirit.
Btw, her name is also Spirit 😌
Oh my God! Dr Spirit is everything! And more! Mel your brilliant questions is a masterful!
One day very soon, I’m manifesting that I’m going to be a special guest on here. Make sure you all tune in.
It is so
Believe you deserve it, and the Universe will serve it!
Speak it so I be it! You will be there
floored JustFloored thank you! Whatever you want to do in life, your dreams will come true also.
Demifan39 thank you! No matter whatever you want to do in life, your dreams will happen also.
She has so much wisdom. I have worn the red mask when I'm truly a lilac before and my needs never got met. I've decided not to let my representative show up, I want to show up as my real self so I connect with my compatible mate
Now THIS is some serious real deal information that EVERYONE who wants to be in any form of relationship should be aware of! Most of the information Spirit shared is new to me lol!
Thank you for this video! I needed it!
I would love to have a one on one conversation with Dr. Spirit. She’s so wise and knowledgeable!
So true!
She explained compatibility so well! The concept is so clear to me now. I would love to hear more from this relationship therapist!
I’m blown away at her explanations!! This made so much sense. She is brilliant
So the first step is to find out who you are. This was a good outlook on things
Holy moley! That analogy of lilac personality vs red mask is so spot on!! It all makes so much sense! And circle in a square description and her definition of intimacy = “into me see”. That was profound!!!!Spirit is amazing! She described this is in such relatable but poignant ways. This was one of most enlightening vids I’ve seen in a long time! Thank you!
i love that red modest dress...nice talk from two grown women...
Yes
“This woman” is absolutely incredible and you wont even say her name? Seriously what a shame! Who is she? What is her name?
Here name is Spirit. She have a show called LOVE GOALS on OWN network....
American cutie Thanks. God bless you🙏🏾✨
Same thought here. Not even a link to her so you can find more information 🤔🤔
At around 2:42 her name appears. Her name is Spirit.
Spirit I believe 😁😍❤️♥️
Brilliant interview and brilliant responses. I'm amazed that finances weren't included in this, and it makes me believe that financial differences can be overcome. I wish more people knew what it takes to have a healthy relationship. Also, to all those people who read this, I hope happiness and hope surround you even in the darkest moments. You deserve to be loved and sometimes science can't explain the reasons why you're happy. Don't question your happiness when that happens.
I like to look at it this way; If we can’t be friends, it’s going to be hard to be a couple. Great video, I shared it
"Feeding each other"
I love that concept!
The circle and the square… explained it all. Such clarity after 30 years…. I understand now. I was the square, for 30 years. Lesson learned. Never to be repeated. Thank you Dr. Spirit.❤
WOW! I am sitting here like mind-blown.
My exes failed in spiritual intimacy. It's hard to find someone who has the same views that you have.
Why want the same views in compatibility? Share the same spiritual inclinations, but views should different for learning to happen.
Yeah :/
Ah, absence of spiritual compatibility is an up front deal breaker, dear.
These answers were so informative! Makes you rethink relationships.
Ms. Spirit has studied to show herself approved! Her gift shall make room for her on any platform. She articulates and explained aspects of relationships that really enlightened me. Thanks Mel.
Another Queen Mother amongst us, preach... And Mel looks great! This show is wonderful. Two beautiful woman working to heal us.
Wow, I’m speechless. I must listen to this over and over...
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I love that you are ACTUALLY doing the talk show, that you talked about doing in your decade challenge. Its only been the first few months and you are off to an amazing start :) Thanks for inspiring me Mel.
I love her 😍 I love how she speaks I love her thought process and how she describes things makes so much sense!!
Anyone know if Spirit has a book out??
She's so pretty and confident!
Yep compatibility is the key to a good relationship
“Wound mate” woooow. That’s a good one Spirit!!!!
this video has literally changed my life. the way I was screaming yaaaaasss after every answer wow. thank you thank you
3:28 "we walk out and we wear masks all day everyday"
You had no idea. Lol
Spirit is amazing . She has a gift of articulating ideas so clearly and with such insight.
Michelle Kelski,hope you are in a better relationship!
Im happy learning this. Wound mate made many sense to me
Her UA-cam channel is called Women of Impact for anyone wondering. She’s amazing
This interview was life changing!
Thank you so much! You've given me a lot of priceless information about myself and about the people in my life.
I have to take some time to absorb all of this so that I can reevaluate many area's in my life.
Most importantly, to pass it on to my adult children and my grandchildren.
You not only saved me, you may also have saved my children and my grandchildren.
Thank you
Thank you
Thank yoy
Failed the compatibility quiz miserably 😂 This lady just changed my life!!!
Both ladies are great, sure the therapist is no doubt the expert in the field, but the host is also excellent with all spot on questions, brilliant to watch...All signs just confirmed that I was right to leave ex, wish I could know these earlier....
Where has this guest speaker been all my life?!?! Her knowledge and wisdom has no bounds! Can’t wait to learn more from her. This is probably the best relationship video I’ve ever listened to.
OMG She is completely right!!! Waoo she talk about different type of intimacy.
So amazing!! ❤️
Uhm... she took me completely off guard ...!! Her examples, analogies and entire communication skills are A M A Z I N G
Compatibility Quiz
Do you miss your partner when you’re away from them for along time ?
Do you trust your partner ? If not, why not?
Do you have compatible lifestyles?
Can you talk to your partner about anything
Do you laugh together?
Thank you
Thank you
The answer is no
@Emily Redford 😂😂😂
Great thank you
Spirit is amazing. She is one of the best relationship therapist ever.
Sooo very true!
What she didn’t cover, how a couple grows and changes together. After 39 years married, was we look back we see that at many times we each made changes and were not in sync with each other. Too often couples don’t understand that there was a lot of work in the following years after a wedding.
It takes DEDICATION and commitment to work through what is worth holding & working for.
Not many people stay married as long as you do. I congratulate you and your dedication to your partner because I am sure it wasnt easy. But I always wanted to ask someone who has been married long enough, did you put up with issues like cheating to make it last or was it respect that made your relationship last? What advice do you share having done the work to make it this long
I agree with this ^^^
she is the definition of elegance my god
The therapist was very helpful wish she was my therapist!! Also is there a man who covers all those areas and is still available?? Wow!
Her name should be in the title! This is amazing
Does this woman have a book omg 😳 I want to buy
RIGHT
San Chan,you look stunning 🌹🌹🌷🌷
I love how she just broke that down.
I LOVE this show and I like it even better without an audience!
Katrina M the screaming, clapping etc is distracting and annoying
there's something so special about black female therapists. such a beautiful + insightful conversation.
This is the best and most illustrative way I have ever seen these ideas and perspectives. This was a fantastic segment thank you so much
I love Spirit’s way of no nonsense type of advice & assessment of bad behaviors. She’s amazing!
Brilliant, one of the single most clear, concise descriptions of how to find the love that’s truly meant for who YOU ARE, at your core. 🟣🟥🤯
Thank you♥️
gcutieme2,you must be a precious 🌹 🌹🌷🌷🌺 being ❤️🤙
I think I heard this on the radio, and then it was gone. So glad I found this on UA-cam.
I feel like having a long conversation with her. She’s sooo Wow! 💝
You can marry someone with little to no compatibility but you don’t submit yourself to that person unless you are emotionally connected. This video is a perfect blueprint for compatibility in a healthy marriage. This lady in red talks real. One of the best podcast from Mel Robbins. Cheers!
Wow! I found myself an answer to my life. Now I know on how to manifest a new relationship that I should have.
That therapist is so gorgeous!!!
I can listen to her for hours. 💜💜 She need her OWN podcast !!!!!!
If I didn't know this was a show or conversation, I'd think this was scripted because of how fast and articulate and how on point these responses are. I really needed to hear this!!
So good! Thank you... Life is short, as we are currently finding out. It’s time to have true and satisfying relationships! Thank you! 😇
this woman is incredible, on point with every response.
She forgot financial compatibility...the number 1 reason why relationships fail.
True
Great point. Also political compatibility...no way a Hillary supporter getting on with a Trumpster.
Hi L A, i think that couples can get to that part if they do the quiz. The third question "do you have compatible lifestyle?" also applies to "do you like to go out for dinner, where, and can you afford to do it as much as you would like?" or maybe "you drive an expensive car, live in an expensive flat, can you afford it?".
But i also think that its important to discuss this with open minds, and to know that even if money is the center of all it cant be the center of a relashionship.
I'm transfinancial.
@@jessicatamele145 Do you have compatible lifestyles is NOT the same as do you have compatible money...and I beg to differ, most Americans live on credit and want...and have nice things with debt financing. They think they are 'affording' things by paying their cc bill every month.
Spirit's voice is like a balm to my soul.
This Lady is awesome she knows her stuff!! Would like to know where I can find her 😀
Red and lilac-spot on. O M G.
Why isn’t her name mentioned? Does anyone know? She is better than most therapist
Her name is Spirit. She has a show on OWN called Love Goals.
Spirit
I have never heard about her name before but she is one of the best out there, Tech talk please👏👏
I love everything about this video. WOW! Just WOW!
I appreciated the interviewer. A little eager at times but generally willing to allow the speaker to answer and build off of their thoughts.