Alone in a Relationship: Terissa Perry v Charles Perry

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  • After 51 years of marriage, Terissa says she comes second to everything else in her husband’s life. She is sick of the disrespect and wants a divorce.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 496

  • @thefreequency
    @thefreequency 9 місяців тому +239

    She just wants to feel like they're dating again. This was the sweetest thing I've witnessed in so long 🥺🖤

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 9 місяців тому +171

    This episode made me cry. They are so sweet and he adores her.

  • @Trendingnow1103
    @Trendingnow1103 9 місяців тому +221

    When he said I would have to call her for my pants size...Whew that broke me😭..51 years🙌🏽 She just want quality time... Sir please do what you have to do to hold on to your family

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 9 місяців тому +12

      Yesssssssss‼️

    • @tyehaynes5247
      @tyehaynes5247 9 місяців тому +8

      got me 2

    • @prettybossy510
      @prettybossy510 9 місяців тому +9

      Seeming like she is more there for his comfort and convenience than his wife

    • @iforgotmyusername0
      @iforgotmyusername0 6 місяців тому

      those are roles of a wife btw@@prettybossy510

    • @tracycarter5997
      @tracycarter5997 2 місяці тому

      I know right ❤

  • @oodief88
    @oodief88 9 місяців тому +92

    I know it's easy to say what you will and won't do, but there's no way I'm letting go of a person I've been with for 50+ years. We gone have to figure something out.

  • @Gaming_with_Stanley1920
    @Gaming_with_Stanley1920 9 місяців тому +121

    Given the amount of madness that comes through Divorce Court, it's so nice to see a lovely, heartwarming couple!

    • @funkefoodieasmr7276
      @funkefoodieasmr7276 9 місяців тому +3

      Exactly my thoughts, they have little to no issues just need to date more 😃😃

  • @lexus__monae
    @lexus__monae 9 місяців тому +98

    They are too cute! Definitely rooting them! No divorce needed! ❤

    • @kayemmanuel654
      @kayemmanuel654 9 місяців тому +1

      Judge star would never allow them to...they better throw them papers away and go enjoy the family they created..❤🎉

  • @tashanapink7688
    @tashanapink7688 9 місяців тому +128

    That date night picture had my eyes sweating. My parents are also married 52 yrs on 12/22. This is a blessing. I pray continued blessings on their union and I also pray that everyone who desires this gets to experience this type of love and union in their lifetime. I know I do.

    • @CK-yo7ub
      @CK-yo7ub 9 місяців тому +4

      Me too! My eyes are watering. I hope they stay together❤

    • @queencharlibee1991
      @queencharlibee1991 9 місяців тому +2

      Beautiful! Happy early Anniversary to your parents! And may many many MANY more to come for the two!! 🎉💙 💜

    • @GlendaClarke-ir2cd
      @GlendaClarke-ir2cd 9 місяців тому

      Eyes don't sweat! 😅😂😢

    • @tashanapink7688
      @tashanapink7688 9 місяців тому

      @@GlendaClarke-ir2cd 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Bunkie54
      @Bunkie54 9 місяців тому

      Mrs Perry don't throw the baby out with the bath water. You two have legacy together. He can do better with making you feel like the queen that you are but happiness comes from within.

  • @antoinettetapper2785
    @antoinettetapper2785 9 місяців тому +74

    Wow, 53 years, oh my gosh. I pray God's love upon them for 50 more years. They are a powerful couple, and he seems so humble

  • @lotusgsxr750
    @lotusgsxr750 9 місяців тому +50

    I think her back issues are annoying the crap out of her. She can't hang like she she used to and he still out and about. I hope shes able to feel better and they both be happy

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 9 місяців тому +226

    Let the man have his dream car for heaven’s sake. Mr. Perry please take your wife with you sometimes.

    • @radrew684
      @radrew684 9 місяців тому +19

      Exactly just like he said tomorrow is not promised; if he wants a camaro what's the big deal

    • @jaeraee3437
      @jaeraee3437 9 місяців тому +12

      She doesn't want to ride in the Camero. 🙄

    • @catherinewhitman8333
      @catherinewhitman8333 9 місяців тому +13

      ​Because her back hurts getting in and out of it!

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 9 місяців тому +8

      😅 you can't force somebody to go where or when they don't want to go the, man clearly stated he offers to take his wife out all the time but SHE DECLINIE the trips...lol

    • @TiktokIsTheNewWelfare
      @TiktokIsTheNewWelfare 9 місяців тому +13

      I’m so happy with these responses. Y’all make me happy. He can have his dream car however he should pay attention to his wife

  • @rmmmmt2796
    @rmmmmt2796 9 місяців тому +31

    They have been together since she was 16 and he was 18. That is loyalty at its finest

  • @Uniques-95
    @Uniques-95 9 місяців тому +17

    He said, "Can we go to commercial?" lol

  • @ILOVEMUSIC2MSV
    @ILOVEMUSIC2MSV 9 місяців тому +32

    This is what love looks like. I love this episode. I would not be thinking divorce when I have been with someone for 51 years. I hope they stay together for another 50 years. They are too cute and he truly loves her.

  • @SoccerHockeyFan1
    @SoccerHockeyFan1 9 місяців тому +35

    The episode was much needed. It was a good reality check. Not because a couple together for 20+ years means that they are happy years! I also hope men look at this episode to see how valuable women are. Women need to look at this episode and stop trying to raise grown men like their children.
    I really hope she can lighten up and ignite their love again.

  • @eunicemundy6869
    @eunicemundy6869 9 місяців тому +56

    I love this episode....I'm glad he saw this as the wake-up call that it was intended to be. She knows that she doesn't want to be without him as well. Beautiful couple❤❤

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage 9 місяців тому +10

    Mr. Perry :
    She had her legs GREASED 😂😂😂

  • @missdowntoearth6968
    @missdowntoearth6968 9 місяців тому +16

    She know I can’t live without her and I believe him🖤🖤

  • @MissBeeTV
    @MissBeeTV 9 місяців тому +19

    That man isn’t doing anything wrong. He just wants to feel young & live life to the fullest. She’s so focused on her happiness and forgetting about his. It seems to me he has been trying to include her in things but every time he would ask, she most likely turned him down. She needs to compromise and stop being so self absorbed, respectfully. God forbid she divorces him for foolish reasons

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway 9 місяців тому +1

      I couldn’t have said it better! My exact thoughts ! I think it’s a fictional story just to come on tv For their anniversary, cuz if she acted like this for so long that be tough, but yet he praises everything about her.

    • @kimr5479
      @kimr5479 8 місяців тому +1

      I said the same thing, I hope it works out for them tho!😊

    • @cynthiapolk8560
      @cynthiapolk8560 8 місяців тому +1

      You said that. Prime example of a wpman that has it all. Her complaints were petty. She even out him out the room. And the her back hurts. Stoppppppppppp you better get you a pillow jump in that car and exercise....Walk a little ..stop acting like your idk what age because you have much older people that travel take walks together.....nope

    • @quintissteemer3896
      @quintissteemer3896 Місяць тому

      THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!!!!!!!! And this is something that happens a lot on this show!!!!!! I'm glad I found a comment from someone that noticed that. 😊

  • @msloverluvaPAS
    @msloverluvaPAS 9 місяців тому +42

    She tired of feeling like a piece of reliable furniture to him. He comes home she is there, foods cooked, house clean, clothes cleaned and put away. He probably doesnt have to ask fpr a single thing because she already knows what needed and handles it.
    He has forgotten that he must love on her how she likes. Just because she is reliable doesn't make her unworthy of demanding attention and love in her own language.

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 9 місяців тому +2

      Marriage is also about becoming comfortable just like it's also about having spontaneity... There needs to be a balance...
      Mr Perry gives her PLENTY attention but she's just making a fuss over hardly nothing being unreasonable/unsatisfied... I once had a girlfriend who I could spend 24 hours with doing whatever she likes but she would be like well you didn't spend 25 hours with me so it's not enough... There are MANY people in this world like that and I think Mrs Perry is one of them...lol
      The man clearly says he tries to take her on trips and get her out on dates but she refuses them and don't be wanting to nowhere... You can't force somebody to go when they don't want to go, even the daughter/children KNOW that the mother should loosen up and try to have fun...
      🙄 Who gets mad at their husband for playing video games with their grandkids... Just selfish...smh

    • @deja14
      @deja14 9 місяців тому

      YEP!!

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 8 місяців тому +1

      Where you get all that from lol

    • @greatone275
      @greatone275 6 місяців тому

      ​@@kentthomason6285that's a lot of projecting going on

    • @ThetaAlphaGamma
      @ThetaAlphaGamma 3 місяці тому

      Not just love on her like she wants but, love on her the way she shows him love. They're a sweet couple; sometimes we get too comfortable with our mates that we forget to still do what it took to keep her ( or him ).

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength 9 місяців тому +14

    Stop playing! They ain't going nowhere...they are each other's best friend! ❤ Happy anniversary to the Perry's! ❤🙏🏽🥂😁

  • @chaundawalker6741
    @chaundawalker6741 9 місяців тому +20

    Jesus touch this couple. Let their love abide. ❤ My parent's celebrated 54 years of marriage on 02/08. There's been much more good then bad.

  • @manc4580
    @manc4580 9 місяців тому +112

    This episode was a Gem, brought tears to my eyes, fond memories of being happy with in a loving home raised by two fabulous parents who took me under their wings for which I'll be eternally grateful.
    My adopted parents was married for 55 years. My mother passed in April 2023 aged 91 & dad passed 2015 aged 85. Miss them dearly, seeing this lovely couple reminds me of them..
    Both had Gsoh & family came first, Dad never had a midlife crisis thank god & mom got on with life, 😊❤
    Their relationship was strong to the end..
    RIP mom & Dad 😢😓😭.
    We all love & miss you inc gran & great grand children.❤💙
    Brilliant of judge star to send them on date nights so to give husband a chance to save marriage..Lovely couple hope it works out, be devastating to see them break up..

    • @chelseawilliams8588
      @chelseawilliams8588 9 місяців тому +9

      Your comment is truly special. Glad you got to witness a marriage like that ^_^. That positivity lives on through you!

    • @gracedwithmission8644
      @gracedwithmission8644 9 місяців тому

      ​@@chelseawilliams8588Amen ❤🙏🏾

  • @CleanSheet1191987
    @CleanSheet1191987 9 місяців тому +37

    Awww I hope they stay together. Their issues don’t sound very divorce-worthy in my opinion. They can work it out. Just seems like they’re both at that age where they get set in their ways, but they’ve been together too long to let that trouble them.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 9 місяців тому +3

      This is on her. Not him

    • @Djones700
      @Djones700 9 місяців тому

      @@FalaqXshe sounds bitter and unhappy for no reason. The man is not doing anything wrong. He offers to take her. She doesn’t want to go anywhere. She is just complaining and seems so negative. At the end she even says she will give him a try but she has a feeling she is going to get the papers back. Why such negative thinking? Smh

    • @talltalllady
      @talltalllady 5 місяців тому

      How come nobody mentioned that she looks like Oprah? If she fixed herself up differently and changed her hair she would like a lot like Oprah

  • @beautymedic1773
    @beautymedic1773 9 місяців тому +16

    She was just trying to get his attention bringing him to DC.. too sweet ❤

  • @shondanicolesargent867
    @shondanicolesargent867 9 місяців тому +8

    She’s nitpicking, that man loves her. She doesn’t want to go anywhere but wants him to plan something. If y’all don’t get this together 🥰☺️

    • @greatone275
      @greatone275 6 місяців тому +1

      I wholeheartedly agree

  • @YvonneIWilson
    @YvonneIWilson 9 місяців тому +22

    Mama please lighten up, cut him some slack and Papa, come on, meet her halfway. 53 years, don’t throw it away. I have not heard one good reason why you should be granted that divorce. Both of you go and enjoy the rest of your life together ❤❤❤

  • @MrMusickid23
    @MrMusickid23 9 місяців тому +57

    They are a beautiful couple!
    But I must say. Just because a couple has history. And they’re aesthetically pleasing to the eye.
    What matters, are the two people in the marriage. If someone says they’re tired. Or they feel like, they have grown apart, from their spouse. Listen to them! Whether it’s been 5 yrs or 50 yrs. Sometimes history and love,
    is just not enough.

    • @rossiw4903
      @rossiw4903 9 місяців тому +12

      Thank you! I thought it was just me. No one is really listening to her wants. Just because they think it's not that as big of a deal as trust issues, doesn't mean they should just be dismissed. She is just simply tired of being not heard. The judge isn't even listening. They're easy fixes and if he wants to keep his marriage...he better fix them!

    • @felicialipscomb9624
      @felicialipscomb9624 8 місяців тому

      I think that they should stay together. Because they really love each other deep down. She just did not know how to make him understand that she wanted his attention. Getting a divorce now will make them die faster. Two are better than one. And two top it off he is not cheating or abusive. Do you know how many women will line up to get your husband?

    • @Shirley-vn5we
      @Shirley-vn5we 5 місяців тому

      That is not fear for him she is selfish only about her

  • @moungoujace4006
    @moungoujace4006 9 місяців тому +5

    Hi MOMMY
    LOVE YOU!
    You’re beautiful
    I believe that you have a point
    But don’t divorce please please 🎉🙏!

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 9 місяців тому +8

    She complaining really about nothing. All these married couples be going through way more cheating, abuse etc. this is workable 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @thisishannah_
    @thisishannah_ 9 місяців тому +17

    "What would I do without her"❤

  • @suegordon356
    @suegordon356 9 місяців тому +11

    I HOPE Mr & Mrs Perry stay together. To be with your spouse for fifty years is a Blessing. When you start over it isn't worth it. The Grass is never green on the other side, just dirt..

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 9 місяців тому +28

    That’s way too much marriage to throw away! A golden anniversary, both should be fighting like hell to save it!!!

  • @lavernegilchrist3611
    @lavernegilchrist3611 9 місяців тому +23

    50 years, I know she's put up with a lot.

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 8 місяців тому +2

      How you know he hasn't? Most men just quiet about it

    • @d820m
      @d820m 6 місяців тому +1

      Like he hasn't put up with a lot of her shit over the past 50 some odd years, like I always say, what good is her old stove if it don't give out no heat😅😅😅😅

  • @ninadavis5517
    @ninadavis5517 9 місяців тому +7

    She's getting older, settled and getting set in her ways. She needs to let that man enjoy his life. He loves her and wants to share his time with her. On the other hand, she wants him to make her feel special. I pray they last another 50 years.

  • @gloriacook7795
    @gloriacook7795 9 місяців тому +2

    Two love birds don’t need to divorce . Listening to daughter I feel they don’t need a divorce . So touching got me crying .😊

  • @bribrimimosas250
    @bribrimimosas250 9 місяців тому +17

    Awe. It sounds like his outgoing personality and wanting to feel young again intimidates her since she’s more of the low key & relaxing type. It’s like she rather tap out before he breaks her heart. I think they’ll be fine ❤

  • @mlm1916
    @mlm1916 9 місяців тому +25

    Problem is : She was his everything (she did everything FOR him).
    Thing is : What did he do for her ?

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 9 місяців тому +3

      Way to dissect!!!

    • @tianacameron9456
      @tianacameron9456 9 місяців тому +7

      I was looking for this comment right here! They cute but I heard that he can't function without her and she's tired of it and wants to feel appreciated. Reciprocity!

  • @andreamay1315
    @andreamay1315 9 місяців тому +17

    I am shocked that she would even consider a divorce let alone breaking up their huge family that they both share together for 53 years. I think they both need to try and remember what brought them together in the beginning. I think they both need to try and fix it not only for themselves but for their children. grandchildren and great grands. Communication and prayers is key!! I will be praying as well.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 9 місяців тому +7

      She might just be tired

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 9 місяців тому +1

      No one wants him and his ED...nobody but her.

    • @YACKYSNACKY
      @YACKYSNACKY 9 місяців тому

      ​@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      What is ED? Oh, never mind!😅🤣😅😂😊😊

  • @marybethjordan8520
    @marybethjordan8520 9 місяців тому +8

    I went through something similar with my husband. He's older than I by 25 years, but he was still the "young one". Towards the end, he got a little wild, and I went a little crazy. Therapist said both cases were because he was reaching the end of his time, and we both knew it on some level. He was right.

  • @justmythoughtsjustmythough7202
    @justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 9 місяців тому +6

    If she meet him at 16, she has a right to be on her on terms. Live life taking care of yourself. He’s got his dream; get yours.

  • @cjjohnson2250
    @cjjohnson2250 9 місяців тому +6

    After being married for 23years and losing my husband to cancer in 2022 during Christmas broke me. This couple just suffered from a case of being stuck in their ways and not willing to change. It happens when you are together for so long. Change is hard for a lot of people. I would give anything to be able to experience my husband's love again. Work it out life is too short family ❤.

    • @zenatellsthetruth8457
      @zenatellsthetruth8457 9 місяців тому +1

    • @anustart
      @anustart 9 місяців тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how indescribable that pain is. I am praying for you

  • @ms.bless64
    @ms.bless64 9 місяців тому +7

    I disagree on how Judge Starr is making it like he's wrong. But, she just said that she's restricted. So, if he took her anywhere she wouldn't want to walk or do anything. She seems to be set in her ways and like he said, they are of age to now enjoy life without any kids and their life should be enjoyable with trips, concerts, movies, dinners etc. it just seems to be all on him.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому +3

      I wonder who expended the most energy throughout the years of raising the family. There may be a reason why one is more tired than the other.

    • @ms.bless64
      @ms.bless64 6 місяців тому

      @@sereneamani1713 I've raised a lot of kids with my two and grown folks too, and now at 60, my life is my life and I'm going to enjoy it to the fullest. I'm single bc I no longer wants to cook and clean behind anyone anymore. I started washing dishes at 10 and been doing up until a yr ago. Everything was put on me and everyone is now shocked that I have set boundaries and no longer run to them, nor do I no longer cook for holidays unless I want to. Ppl can come ungrateful and feel entitled. So, I understand what he is saying. I never knew what out the country looked like nor traveling past Dallas. But, now I do. I've been to Dominican Republic Mexico on a cruise and now I'm getting ready to head to the Bahamas. All I ever knew was traveling to my hometown in the country, H-town, but now I'm reaching for better places and seeing things and places my mama nor my daddy got to see before they left this earth.

  • @dukeyoungsworkout513
    @dukeyoungsworkout513 9 місяців тому +11

    Grandma acting like an old brat. She wants him to sit still and rott. Dude want to live life with his wife.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому

      And you're acting like a young disrespectful person lacking in a lot of knowledge of life.

  • @coralscrafts7258
    @coralscrafts7258 9 місяців тому +18

    What a sweet couple, he has forgotten how to invest in his Queen and that must really hurt. Maybe it is time for an "old dog to learn new tricks". I love this couple and wish them many more years of wedded bliss.

  • @marciarieux5269
    @marciarieux5269 9 місяців тому +6

    She's worried that the car will attract the wrong attention. That man is just living his best life. She's jealous of a car

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 8 місяців тому +1

      Even if he get the wrong attention he can’t do nothing no more anyway he still look good but it is what it is

    • @hi-xf7cj
      @hi-xf7cj 6 місяців тому

      Looks good? He looked like an idiot. She should have slapped that stupid grin off of his face.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 5 місяців тому

      @@GETBIG4WARD You don't know many 70+ year olds.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 5 місяців тому

      @@sereneamani1713 yes I do hell I’m only about 30 years away

  • @TierneyWashington1983
    @TierneyWashington1983 9 місяців тому +10

    Honey you don’t give away 50 years bc he bought his dream car! Get dressed and jump in the car with him ❤

    • @d820m
      @d820m 6 місяців тому

      Her old butt can't fit in it😂😂😂

  • @maryburke7850
    @maryburke7850 9 місяців тому +9

    Come on lady! You will miss him when he’s gone! Smh

  • @anjuelle3997
    @anjuelle3997 9 місяців тому +11

    The "pants" statement made me cry.

  • @cognitivedissonancechristi516
    @cognitivedissonancechristi516 9 місяців тому +21

    Years of being married does not mean years of a happy marriage. Her physical needs are not being considered. His consideration is all about himself.
    In addition, his wife has been depended on for so long for everything by everybody that she's tired. She tired, physically, mentally, and spiritually. You can look at her and tell she worn and very unhappy. But more than that she fills used. While he plays in his junk room and when he's not doing that he's out in his convertible roaming the streets trying to feel young again and at the bar and pool room shooting pool. Like a user he doesn't mind leaving everything on her. He proves his deliberate and unnecessary dependency when he said he doesn't know what size he wears he will have to call and ask her.
    While others are wowed by the 51 years of marriage, it's irrelevant to his wife when she's terribly, she's physically in pain, and she's tired of living with his junkiness - who wouldn't be?
    He says she's his number one. This can mean he has a number two, a side chick, hence the convertible, the consistent disappearing acts, and refusing to answer his phone calls from hers for hours of his disappearing acts.
    He's needs to grow up, stop being child-like and clean up his mess, and start catering to her needs - treating her like she's his wife whose needs have changed.
    I agree that she needs to be happy. Life is to short for her to continue to be unhappy. In this case, don't let 51 years of marriage turn into 52 years of marriage.

    • @sweetdoc1472
      @sweetdoc1472 9 місяців тому

      This!

    • @d820m
      @d820m 9 місяців тому +5

      what's so bad about shooting pool or playing in his junk room...she neds to find a hobby that she likes....(mine is old records and my classic, fully restored Wurlitzer 1015 Bubbler jukebox)🙂

    • @MishasMama
      @MishasMama 9 місяців тому

      Yes, you called it @congnitivedissonancechristi516

    • @jeannedignite5425
      @jeannedignite5425 9 місяців тому +3

      She is unhappy but I don't think divorce is the answer. She needs to look after herself, have boundaries so that she won't be used. And have a hobby rather than waiting on the husband. And I agree the man needs to grow up😂.

    • @cognitivedissonancechristi516
      @cognitivedissonancechristi516 9 місяців тому +1

      @@d820m Actually, the issue isn't the hobbies per se. I also do not believe the answer for her is finding a hobby. I'm not sold on the fact that he's playing pool solo and he's riding around in a convertible for hours solo. I don't believe all the right questions were asked.
      Not for one minute do I think this man’s interest is his wife. Why? Because nothing he has done was in consideration of her. He showed no interest. But, I do believe he was considering somebody, it just wasn't her.
      He goes and shop for a car by himself, then buys the car he knew she would not want to ride in because the car was low riding and the seats design didn't accommodate certain body types like hers. For example, a person who has problems with her knees find it difficult and painful to get out of a low riding car. To get out will require your body weight to be placed on your knees to push yourself up and forward. Ouch! That's very painful. The way the seats are designed will begin causing her back pain after a while. Ouch, again.
      Now, he knows if he buys this convertible he doesn't have to worry about his wife ever wanting to accompany him in the car. He can ride in his car with the person it was considered for from the beginning - and we know it wasn't his wife. And, the testimony reveals he goes “riding” for hours.
      He also loves to go shoot pool. The testimony reveals he does that for hours. I don't believe he spends all these hours shooting pool by himself. Nor do I believe any friends he has are spending this much time daily and weekly shooting pool with him. Of course, Im sure he’s shooting pool on the regular with someone. I wonder who?
      Then he has the room he uses for gaming and has junked up so horribly that his wife gets exacerbated and just keep the door close.
      They also sleep in two separate rooms.
      When I look at just these few things that were revealed, I can bet you that the marriage is dead. It's not about a couple that can't decide on what hobbies to do.
      I see a women who is empty, unhappy, lonely, depressed, depended on by everyone to do everything and is taken for granted. She know it, now. Even though the husband said her loves his wife, Im not convinced. I did not hear one thing he did that indicated love existed. At the most, she was a mode of convenience for him and their children. Divorce would disrupt the conveniences the husband has enjoyed for 51 years. In other words, since she was 18 yo she's been catering to him. Since he was 20 yo he has been catered to.
      I can guarantee you, she may not have filed for divorce right then, but they will divorce if she doesn't die from depression, loneliness, exhaustion, and a broken heart. Or, maybe if she doesn't divorce its because they guilt her into not “destroying” the family. Nevermind her state of destruction.
      I just know, if it were me I would have been at an attorney’s office instead of Divorce Court. 😊 Just sayin’.

  • @latoyas191
    @latoyas191 9 місяців тому +5

    After 50 years...nobody needs to be going anywhere. So sweet when he said he'd have to call her ask what size pants he wears. I hope my husband still feels this way about me in 35 more years 💜

  • @robinclayborne7576
    @robinclayborne7576 9 місяців тому +8

    WOW!!!!! I wish I could be in her shoes. He sounds like a good man. I was married to my husband for 30 years and he died January 26,2021. I miss him!!! Good and bad times I really miss him. She doesn't know how BLESS she is. I hate that she have a good man right in front of her face.

    • @brendafizer6444
      @brendafizer6444 9 місяців тому +4

      MY SINCEREST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS!!!
      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @rachelle2666
      @rachelle2666 9 місяців тому +2

      I truly understand lost my husband of 33 year's 💔 July 9th 2022 sending you many blessings💛

    • @MsLi-ef1xp
      @MsLi-ef1xp 9 місяців тому +2

      So sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find some joy through the holidays. God bless

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 9 місяців тому +9

    Judge advised her to put on glasses and ride out in the car,when the lady told her that her back hurts her because the car is low,and that she doesn't enjoy being in the car. 🙄

    • @queenteireigns6212
      @queenteireigns6212 9 місяців тому

      I thought she ordered him to take her in her Kia and not his car.

  • @HadiyaNuriddin
    @HadiyaNuriddin 9 місяців тому +19

    Aww. That was so sweet and lovely. I hope they both learned something and hold on to what's most important.

  • @rarejourneys
    @rarejourneys 9 місяців тому +9

    If their kids don’t tell them to stop, they just need counseling

  • @trix4568
    @trix4568 9 місяців тому +4

    Robert said a mouth full at the end. Flex with your Queen.

  • @apriljoy425
    @apriljoy425 9 місяців тому +9

    At his Age he isn’t doing much out in that ride.He deserves a dream car.Kids are grown.She seems miserable and doesn’t want him to enjoy( cars,games,trips) .

  • @AngieMoe
    @AngieMoe 9 місяців тому +3

    I see my mom in Mrs. Perry. 51 years and she feels some type of way most times. I feel for them both.

  • @cognitivedissonancechristi516
    @cognitivedissonancechristi516 9 місяців тому +13

    He didn't consider his wife’s needs when he purchased the car.

    • @beautymedic1773
      @beautymedic1773 9 місяців тому +5

      Doesn’t she have her own car?

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@beautymedic1773right everything ain't about her

    • @kingcutt2516
      @kingcutt2516 4 місяці тому

      & did you hear the amount of trips they went on. He named them. When I get of their age I would enjoy that.

  • @kmac1399
    @kmac1399 9 місяців тому +5

    Girl you better get in the car with him.

  • @toyamerriweather662
    @toyamerriweather662 9 місяців тому +7

    He wants to live a little and she is acting her age and allowing illnesses to stop her. Get in that convertible an roll😊

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому

      He's actually acting his age also with many of the attendant mental states.

  • @christinarice1757
    @christinarice1757 9 місяців тому +4

    Please stay together! Happy Anniversary! 💙

  • @MissKarma1000
    @MissKarma1000 9 місяців тому +12

    Awww she's got health problems now but he's ready to live it up. This can happen to any of us married folks. She's got to either become more open to mobility products and lighten up on him......or like the song goes "if you think you're lonely now wait until tonight girl"

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому +1

      Just remember that song was sung by one of my favorite singers, Bobby Womack, who died broke and addicted. The husband has signs of dementia, but he realizes he needs his wife (there is a reason for his belief).

    • @jerryclark3225
      @jerryclark3225 9 місяців тому +3

      On a lighter note not sure if the songwriters’ bio is relevant but as a married woman I can see a tug of war between them, each has to compromise. She seems very unwilling.

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 9 місяців тому +2

      You quoting that song took me out 😂

    • @d820m
      @d820m 6 місяців тому

      ​Bobby also married Sam Cooke's widow three months after Sam's death, and as much as I liked Bobby's music, he was always a little shady

  • @hasandutton5498
    @hasandutton5498 9 місяців тому +9

    If she don’t go sit down and enjoy the twilight years

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому

      How old are you?

    • @hasandutton5498
      @hasandutton5498 9 місяців тому +1

      @@sereneamani1713 why?

    • @d820m
      @d820m 6 місяців тому

      Just because her stove done ran out of heat doesn't mean his has to, damn!!😂😂😂

  • @rarejourneys
    @rarejourneys 9 місяців тому +12

    That sundress will do it 🤣

  • @grandbabyhouston76
    @grandbabyhouston76 9 місяців тому +5

    She's spoiled and controlling! I know. I'm spoiled and I get her, but she's okay. Throwing a tantrum. I pray they stay together. They're SO cute!! Let him live! You live too! With him!!!

  • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
    @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 9 місяців тому +6

    Everyone got married young in that family....all those great grands.

  • @ladytnynj8284
    @ladytnynj8284 9 місяців тому +3

    Pops said can we go to commercial 😂😂😂😂

  • @melvinmiller4876
    @melvinmiller4876 9 місяців тому +4

    This episode was simply amazing 😢😊what a wonderful picture of love

  • @serenitypowers
    @serenitypowers 9 місяців тому +2

    This is one of the first cases that Judge Star presided over, and she handled it with great wisdom that I like. I am so happy for the couple involved and their 51-year anniversary. 51 years is a long time, and it's a testament to the strength of their relationship. As the saying goes, what God has put together, let no man put apart. I wish them both a very happy anniversary."

  • @poshpearls23
    @poshpearls23 9 місяців тому +2

    Chile he took her to the local Long John Silvers, looks like 😂 he better step it up!! Lolol

  • @R-L-I
    @R-L-I 9 місяців тому +7

    Oh let him have his car, I do think she need to lighten up on that BUT sir take your wife out every now and then and just use the Kia on those days, no way y’all should be throwing away 50 years on this petty stuff no way!

  • @relationshipcoachingwithni4517
    @relationshipcoachingwithni4517 9 місяців тому +3

    This is the perfect time to enjoy each other. Momma & poppa figure it out!!! That is real couples goals, they don't have any problems. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @rarejourneys
    @rarejourneys 9 місяців тому +8

    Hope they make it💕

  • @Kara-kx1lb
    @Kara-kx1lb 9 місяців тому +6

    That car is definitely a woman's magnet... it's gorgeous!!! ❤

  • @samanthasaruchera9007
    @samanthasaruchera9007 9 місяців тому +1

    Judge Star i just love you ,,,, your verdict was really a wise one

  • @johnniemance4186
    @johnniemance4186 9 місяців тому +3

    Lol, they walking out holding hands! Too cute she wants some attention

  • @alexiswilliams8475
    @alexiswilliams8475 9 місяців тому +4

    I feel she feels left out because of her back issues. And think he will get someone else that will do what she can't. So she not going wait til he do she going first.

  • @aratang2948
    @aratang2948 9 місяців тому +1

    So refreshing to watch an episode without ratchetness. Good ol’ quality time issues and lack of compromise😂. Rooting for them❤

  • @profe929
    @profe929 9 місяців тому +1

    Awww this is so sweet!!! I loved judge Star’s ruling on this case ❤ wishing them the best!!!

  • @evelynsmith8443
    @evelynsmith8443 9 місяців тому +6

    She feeling left out, he is more lively than she is. He is still able to do some of the things he enjoys and she’s not because she says she has health problems.
    Mr Perry going to have to give her a little more attention.

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 9 місяців тому +1

      😂 I believe Mr Perry gives her PLENTY attention and she's just making a fuss over hardly nothing being unreasonable/unsatisfied... I once had a girlfriend who I could spend 24 hours with doing whatever she likes but she would be like well you didn't spend 25 hours with me so it's not enough... There are MANY people in this world like that and I think Mrs Perry is one of them...lol
      🙄 Who gets mad at their husband for playing video games with their grandkids...smh

    • @ml.vaughn2122
      @ml.vaughn2122 9 місяців тому

      She may feel left out but she’s not doing anything to help the relationship either. He needs to be more focused and romantic with her. But he probably distance himself from her because she just doesn’t like to do anything and just live up a little. They can fix this I have faith in them.

  • @bossqueen4944
    @bossqueen4944 9 місяців тому +2

    She seems as if she’s depressed. Menopause can change a woman’s emotions! She doesn’t feel desirable. A woman always want to feel as if she’s important and desirable. No need for a divorce. GOD bless them.

  • @valerielacy990
    @valerielacy990 9 місяців тому +4

    They definitely belong together, they both just need to compromise a little. I hope they stay together❤❤

  • @MysticMarvelTarot
    @MysticMarvelTarot 9 місяців тому +13

    Time is not a measure of quality. This lady is miserable and this man isn’t paying her no mind. He doesn’t keep promises. He can’t plan a trip or celebrate milestones.
    He’s disappears and doesn’t answer his phone. He doesn’t take her out it seems like he has a Camaro and doesn’t want to be seen with an old lady. He’s at family events but he’s not really present.
    He’s making up for all these years of lost time being married and raising kids.
    People need to learn that a long time doesn’t mean a good time.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 9 місяців тому +1

      Meaningful life is not always about a "good time".

  • @reneejoseph5030
    @reneejoseph5030 4 місяці тому

    These 2 are the sweetest and i hope they get back to both being happy

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 9 місяців тому +3

    She got him a wonderful 50th year anniversary gift: a trip to divorce court

  • @jasonleman1396
    @jasonleman1396 9 місяців тому +4

    Nothing wrong with each person having their own car, my grandparents had their own cars (and 1 was used for family outings) they stayed married until they passed. this case was just sad

  • @sonyahall5080
    @sonyahall5080 9 місяців тому +1

    We get stuck in a rut..
    Sometimes you have to change things up.
    Be considerate of each others feelings .
    Make time like the Judge Star stated for date nights and talk to each other..

  • @jay-s-
    @jay-s- 9 місяців тому +1

    Praying over this union. I'm invested as if it's my family. Mrs. Perry wants to and should be courted/romanced by her husband. Congratulations to Mr. Perry on his dream car. Praying the vows they made hold firm.

  • @I2AmUS
    @I2AmUS 9 місяців тому +3

    They are beautiful. I wish I had 52 years under my belt. I think they'll be okay.

  • @jazzyjennshighway
    @jazzyjennshighway 9 місяців тому

    Why did I laugh when Mrs perry says they went to jazz in Jacksonville “& it was awful” lol with a straight face and cute makeup & hair lol

  • @carlpotter007
    @carlpotter007 9 місяців тому +6

    I’m sorry but Judge Star could have sent them on a nice cruise to celebrate their 50th anniversary! Those two are worth it! 😊

  • @MHBarnhill
    @MHBarnhill 9 місяців тому

    Good verdict Star. We’re seeing 61 years of wisdom here

  • @Cathy-c3m
    @Cathy-c3m 9 місяців тому +5

    I love this couple, God bless them

  • @nikkiknowship-hop1466
    @nikkiknowship-hop1466 9 місяців тому +4

    They are GORGEOUS!!!! Wow!!! I am inspired!!!!! 51 years!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @chefteddibo1093
    @chefteddibo1093 9 місяців тому +2

    Before the case starts Let’s us all show love and appreciation for 50 years black ❤️

  • @tamarag6957
    @tamarag6957 9 місяців тому

    They got me crying. He truly loves her, and she love him. She just wants and need some attention. How sweet... I pray to have that longevity. May God continue to bless their union. ❣🥰❣

  • @Mitigger1
    @Mitigger1 9 місяців тому +6

    I would NOT want to be someones everything where they cant even remember their own pants size....that is NOT goals to me.

    • @sweetdoc1472
      @sweetdoc1472 9 місяців тому

      Ok!

    • @MishasMama
      @MishasMama 9 місяців тому

      Yeah, sounds exhausting

    • @NubianPrince2012
      @NubianPrince2012 8 місяців тому +2

      I can understand your comment. Also be mindful they grew up in a different era

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 9 місяців тому +4

    😊 I believe Mr Perry gives her PLENTY attention and she's just making a fuss over hardly nothing being unreasonable/unsatisfied... I once had a girlfriend who I could spend 24 hours with doing whatever she likes but she would be like well you didn't spend 25 hours with me so it's not enough... There are MANY people in this world like that and I think Miss Perry is one of them...lol
    🙄 Only a woman would get mad at their husband for spending time with his grandkids and being able to connect with them in ways the grandkids enjoy, they probably LOVE that their grandpa plays video games with them...smh

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 9 місяців тому +1

      I don’t think she meant it like that with the video games. I think she was just trying to imply he was “too old” to be playing video games saying that’s something her grandkids do but I do agree she probably being too greedy for attention.

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 9 місяців тому +2

      @@Versiongurl ABSOLUTELY and I agree but even if she meant it as if he's "too old" to be playing video games that's still a terrible thing to say if it's something he enjoys doing... Nothing wrong with video games it's just an entertainment outlet like anything else... I'll bet she wouldn't like it if he wanted to restrict her on an activity she likes doing in her free time...lol

  • @derrickstingley6895
    @derrickstingley6895 9 місяців тому +6

    Do not go

  • @AriseBeHealed
    @AriseBeHealed 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful couple just look at them walk together. This couple are a solid example to us. I love it they cant possibly break up.