Devaluation : If the Narcissist Was Honest
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Narcissists are invariably dishonest and tell lies, not always, but a lot of the time. This video explains why that happens but also answers this question - if you are about to be devalued and the narcissist was actually honest about how you had been treated and how you are about to be treated, what would he tell you? Insightful.
The more I listen the more convinced I am that being single rocks.
😂🤣❤🙏
Hahahaha, thats true.
Single with a couple of dogs is much better :) - I'm listing to these vids sandwiched in between my two fur babies!
It sure beats being involved with a narcissist!
Without a doubt.
So many people get strung along in these situations. You have to be extremely careful in this world of who you get involved with.
They are my parents
@@GMarieBehindTheMask lmao right
They were my parents also what a shitty template to work with (attachment theory).
You need to find your sense of self worth and have strong hard boundaries on what you will and will not accept from anyone, ANYONE.
HG this should be in print at the front of a book.What an amazing confession of narcissist,pschopath behaviour.I feel truly sorry for those you have destroyed,who did not know what you have taught us.To take someone into your alternative world and make them believe it is real and then punish them,must be indescribable pain for them.If ever there was a deterrent to getting romantically involved,this is it.You must publish this,if you haven't already.You do realise your behaviour is that of an alien robot,primed to self destruct their source as soon as the dopamine subsides and you must search for more. You certainly are a challenge for some of us but thank you for teaching us and thereby protecting us empaths.
And we allowed it all.
We allowed ourselves to be devalued bc we had low self worth.
We had no back bone to leave.
We were love starved.
We knew something was very wrong, yet we stayed out of fear of facing ourselves, and clinging onto something, anything...anyone that fed us tid bits of love and attention.
I used to blame the ex narcissist for everything I was hurt or in pain over.
I found HGs work.
I applied it.
And I took a good long look at MY inadequacy and lack to care enough for myself to flee the evil.
I learned I was responsible for attempting to fix a demon.
That I expected evil to apologize or be nice. Or appreciate my love.
I got the Tudor Treatment.
I entered The Knowledge Vault.
And my whole life has changed from victim to a self accountable, self aware, self caring woman in control of myself instead of trying to control a Ted Bundy.
Thank you HG.
#logic over #emotional aka #dysregulated #thinking
I once asked the narc of eight years why did they love me ?the response was "I love the way you love me" AND THERE YOU HAVE IT.
3years FREEDOM!!
Omg every single time I asked what he loved about me- he loved how I make him feel. Now I “make” him miserable. I don’t like the responsibility to keep him happy
Mine would say he loved because I love him.. it’s so scary how much alike they all are..
Mine said the exact same thing in response also, 'I love the way you love me'.
Thank you for this video. I feel so stupid. The only thing i wanted was to be loved. It is so painfull to hear that it wasn't real for him.
It was the same with me..i couldn't wrap my head feeling that none of it was real on his part.
Me too... Feel Soooo stupiddd
Marie-Angie. It hurts but don't feel stupid.
That's why its not "just another breakup"...they pretend to be everything we ever wanted, and then dump us like we never existed. Then we find out it wasnt even real for them, so we are not only mourning the loss of our "perfect match" but trying to believe and accept they faked it all.
Forgive yourself, just like you forgave him so many times.
That “confession” is somehow cathartic for me. I wounded my ex Narc and thus he divorced me. I started to really see him. That’s when he lost control. It took 27 years to get there, however. When I was forced to see him, I find I am no longer attracted to him and feel a bit of contempt. He was never the man I had truly loved. But at least I am genuine. I am proud of that. 🥰
I haven’t found anyone else who was divorced. I had decided I wanted to leave him. He talked to me about how he loved me & we just couldn’t be together. He was again the man I always thought he was. He love bombed me again. Then had me served divorce papers.
He went to counseling & I thought we were learning better to communicate. But I tried to use what we learned & it wouldn’t work. Turns out I wasn’t the one who “doesn’t know how to talk to ppl” after all. So soon as he wasn’t “winning” in counseling, he told me he never planned on pausing the divorce & yet again another discard.
Living together now. It’s so hard. To see how little I ever meant. Wonder what I ever did to deserve so much hate. Everyone else seems to have abusers who want to keep them around no matter what
@@Jezebel066 Once you step off the Merry go round and see your situation in a new light , it will hurt but you will get to the point were you dont want to be with someone who plays the endless control games .
You will move to a better place in time and wonder why you didnt move on and out sooner . Good wishes in your next move .
@@Jezebel066 my heart go ta u ik how u feel 💗💗💗💗 mine wanted me to stay its not worth it. It destroys you. Its either gonna break you or YOU gotta break tha cycle. You in a goid position use that time he pauses to find a man thats worth your time. We got real heart. They know that thats why they chose us. We just missed with this one, get on tha ball again
I’m so happy for you!!! This was very inspiring
this just did it for me. wow.
I listened to that with my eyes closed and imagined it was my ex talking - I believed every word. Thank you H.G.
This is exactly why I always felt deep down that his “love” and “affection” was only because he wanted something in return. When I “let” him leave, and put all of his shit outside 6 weeks later, he had nothing but vitriol and scathing insults for me. Thank you. Sometimes I question myself, that I was somehow looking for these things and that’s why I saw them. But I didn’t find this channel until weeks after our breakup. It makes me sick and sad to hear these, but continues to reaffirm that his behavior fit these patterns, almost as if you are reading a play by play. As ugly as they are, they help me see the truth.
Even a broken clock is right twice a day!
Love that !
Withnail and i
I told the narc I was leaving him.He then told me that he only used me for my looks! That he got more women when they saw us together.I was so angry! He said that he appreciated me & will always love me for everything I did for him...3yrs wasted! After 2 wks he was in love with me after 3yrs he appreciate me like I am a waiter at a restaurant!
If it helps at all, he didn't *really* appreciate you
It's not wasted time if you have learned to love yourself.
@@narchelsin7679 Thank u for ur honesty! I realized this but seeing someone honestly tell me that really helps me accept reality.Thank u!❤
@@PromehteuSlobodan Very true! Thr best thing that came from all the chaos and pain was I now know how to love me!Ty !❤💪
@@PromehteuSlobodan That is true ❤️
This triggered me because it made me realize that no matter the school of narcissist, the fake good times come to an end. It is and always was only about the narcissist. The narcissist loses interest quickly and then will act accordingly to the detriment of the victim.
There’s obviously an element of shame on the part of the Narc, hence they fear exposure, or letting others know about them. Either that or they’re secretive in order to continue doing unimpeded what they’re hard wired to do. Either way, the entire matter is extremely distressing and heartbreaking. I have nothing but sympathy and empathy for all concerned - including the Narc himself/ herself.
It did take me 10 years to understand him. I just want to cry when listening to this!
Better understanding after 10 years than never and keep staying in hell!
My goodness! The more I learn, the more messed up this is...it's like a bad dream that lasted 20 yrs with my ex and 43 yrs with my family🤯
I've literally been detaching inch by inch. Its crazy how it all makes so much sense!
Describes the beginning of my devaluation experience in every detail. Again, I am amazed to discover this is standard narc behavior. I find solace in that fact, because it further verifies that I was not the one with the mental disorder.
The same here
@@keithstanford9632 It's really something, isn't it, Keith? It's like a prolonged Twilight Zone episode and so very painful.
@@keithstanford9632 No No BUT if you keep falling after THEM then yes you do need HELP!!! Don't make the mistake twice!!!
Breathtaking...The accuracy is unbelievable
@@jogriffiths5766 ah ah ah be careful now always remember how hg acquires insight Lol I suspect view will be in the millions before too long
P.S. Thank you, H.G...
This is the letter I never got/the closure I never received/the understanding and explanation I needed.
I don't think many Narcissists are even able to explain themselves/their actions. None, like you! Brilliant! I'm, good.
Best thing that ever happened is that she called me a narcissist on the discard after 6 years. I never heard that in my life and dove deep and awakened my consciousness. I now developed that switch from emotional to logical thinking and it was instant as soon as I realized the life I was leading. Been attracting narcs my entire life. I cut them all off including one brother and both parents.
Too late for me, but having all this knowledge available to warn others is a wonderful thing, IF they will only open their eyes to the truth, before getting into these relationships. I am no longer attractive to a narcissist but it was a hard lesson to learn. A narc's favorite weapon is a lie wrapped around a grain of truth, I think.
I BELIEVE these so called meat suits are all about lies. But they get you attracted to them with their loving, caring look. You are soul mate's. As you believe you are. It was all a show. Then THE MEAT SUIT, does the same crap to others. First clue something is not right! BIG RED FLAG!! Then you should have said I am done. But most people give them the benefit of doubt. WRONG, WRONG MISTAKE!! It will continue and continue as long as you put up with their CRAP! YOU DESERVE BETTER! GET OUT BEFORE THEY GET INFORMATION YOU TOLD THEM THAT WAS PERSONAL! They will smear your name in a blink of an eye. They don't care by any means. After the smear campaigns. Here comes the Hoover's. DON'T buy into that bullshit! I have learned. After my discard. I received 1st Hoover in about 5 month's. A note on my car. 2nd Hoover about 1 year later. A card and a 8 page letter. Funny it stated he was waiting to for the dentist to see him. Come on, 8 page letter. The dentist must have had to go to Wal-Mart and grocery shop. If it took the dentist that long. LOL. The NARC was trying to apply again were I work. That shattered in the NARC face. I am guessing he got a NARC injury big time! I honestly believe 1 of the reasons to get the job were I work, was to pull me back in. Sorry Narc did not work. Please all of you. Listen to what your gut is telling you RIGHT AWAY! I DIDN'T AND LEARNED THE HARD WAY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!
It’s true... it’s taking me a very long time to ACCEPT that it was a deception right from the very beginning 😞
I feel you. It has been about a year for me, and I’m still learning new things about these types of people. There are few good things came out from that relationship though. First, even though it was a hefty price (emotionally and financially) it was a pretty valuable lesson. Second, every time I think that I’m no longer with that person makes me love the world even more ))
Narcissists are predictably consistent, which is why all your videos are unparalleled. Thank you HG. Well done again.
Wow HG. You’ve stepped it up with this one. Don’t stop. Cheers!
Thank you.
We're all just ego functions to a narcissist. Very literally, that is all we are. Their ego development is pre-Oedipal. That means adult narcissists are actually at the same level of development as a three-year old.
18 - 36 months and have never got over oedipal / electra complex.
Exactly
I gave you my heart and I tried to make you happy
- and you gave me nothin' in return.
Aphex twin
This makes me incredibly sad.
And they enjoy it
I’ll triangulate you with a carrot in the fridge 😂
Yep, that pretty much sums it up as far as triangulation.
I was triangled with the dishes. Well at least then I didn't have to do them, 🤣
My ex triangulate me with his PS4
LMAO yup it happened to me-
Absolutely!!! Triangulate you with a plant even.
Chilling. It takes a long time to believe NPD can exist like this. Until we can accept the truth, we give narcissists so much benefit of the doubt.
THIS WAS THE BEST MESSAGE EVER!!!! That Letter!!!!!!! IDENTICAL to what happens not ONE thing was off!!!!! A reward would be in order! This is powerful and deep and so very very true🤦🏽♀️
Thank u forever for when you helped me. I hope many victims get to hear your teaching of narcissism . It saved my life
You are welcome.
@@hgtudor-theultra I know but the time really is here . The Creator of all things is very righteous and true I have been studying the end of days for 20 years religious texts and astrology I'm also the comforter but that doesn't matter it just means God trusts me to interpret. My feeding all the animals that are not mine for 15 years with my own money and studying has come to this. I'm supposed to tell everyone the Creator is about to wipe the planet out. We did not make ourselves all men will account and all conduct has been recorded in the planets.
the only way to be saved from hell is to repent and be good people for real by really following God's commandments not for men not for pretend
for real.
You will see the moon all over at the wrong time. It's because the gig is up. I would like to go on and on and tell you stuff but I have to feed the cats and get to work i still don't know how to use the email through the phone. You're the best teacher I ever had I almost died in a relationship with an upper narcissist as you already know . And u saved me but ur talent to help victims is to the glory of God. If u can accept that you will do well. Best teacher in all the land
XOXOXO
@@adriennegallotta2890 he is definitely the best in the planet!!!!! 🙏🏻
HG you are truly and answer to my prayers. I had been struggling and suffering for 6 years under this narcissist girlfriend and could not understand why she treated me like she did and why she acted the way she did. I knew something was wrong. But I just couldn't put my finger on it or leave her either..
Until I ran into your material.
Outstanding!
A HUGE! ENORMOUS BLESSING!!
Thank you...
Thank you for your frankness and elaboration, H.G. I for one, thank the heavens for your videos!
You are welcome.
HG.. Thankyou.. How Do I Book A Coaching Session
Wow .this is devastating to listen to as a victim .
As you heal, it will change. I felt invigorated listening to it. "The truth shall set you free." If it weren't for HG - and perhaps some others - I'd probably still be stuck wondering what the fuck just happened. Listening to this reminds me just how right I was in getting the fuck out.
You're not a victim. You're a survivor.
Try having kids with one! 😫😫😫😫😭
@@GMarieBehindTheMask Try having the person who birthed you be a narc.
This alternative approach from HG to the Narcissistic perspective is just so good. It brings a lot of understanding to what has happened.
Sometimes they actually let the truth slip in devaluation weirdly enough with phrases like "I can say the truth now because of what you have done ". All the pleading and trying to show the truth/reality is pointless. It leaves the empath questioning their own reality and worth. For the lucky ones they get out at this point. From my experience.
I played along with the narcissist. She thought I fell for it. Suddenly, I disconnected with her for 2 months. I knew she was in pain because I went off script. Ignored her and thus equalling rejected her. 🤣 Two major fears of the narcissist. Then I "hoover" back, she blocked me, telling me she knows. 🤣 She can't take it anymore. Narc tactics back at them. To do this, you yourself must not invest emotions. Otherwise, it hurts both ways.
That's all us victims need to hear the truth👌
Shockingly accurate. I wish I had known this at the time.
Spot on H.G. Tears are all I can express. I’ve known him to be stricken with this Narcissism for yrs now. It hurts that this is yet another confirmation. So sad . You know all these Narcissistic traits clone this man or woman who could have been such beautiful wonder genuine people.
…. shifting sands…. That is exactly it. Thanks for this “letter”…. hits the nail on the head… the final nail in the coffin.
It’s hard to fathom why I put up with this for as long as I did - 20 years. Thank you for your eloquent honesty though. I think to understand what Narcism actually IS one must look at it from EVERY conceivable angle, not singly or simply the perspective of the victim, in whatever social context that is.
Narcissism is a truly debilitating sickness with negativity attached to it in every single regard - both for the perpetrators of it AND their victims. More should be being done to protect the vulnerable and innocent from this nasty, insidious,harmful caused and created illness.
Yes this was more or less what he told me in a metaphoric way, to make me understand who he is and getting fuel at the same time and that hurts so so much 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Cold hard truth...in process of forgiving myself. Loved the carrot 🥕
Everything comes back to fuel.
Hahahahahahahahaha, I was triangulatied with cat. Now I see. That cat had way more attention than me. Hahahahahahaha.
i’ve just now realized the same thing about my dog, honestly my cat liked me more and i have wondered for 20 years if it was him the killed the cat. after he was missing for a couple days he came in the house twirling the cats collar around his finger, with a grin on him face saying. “look what i found today”.
Mine refused to pay me back any of the money that he owed me, and had promised to pay back. He told me to wait just a little while. Eventually he ended up buying a dog and a quad. I was very sick and he chose to finance those purchases over me and my medical bills. That behaviour, is just the tip of a very long iceberg as well. I can relate to your "cat" replacement. Hugs! Thank GOD we are no longer in this merry go round of knives, that once passed for love.
He stopped giving me d 2 years ago. Thats when i turned into a narcissist he is still here he wont leave but im saving my money and not talking to him he is watching every move if his girlfriends knew he refuses to get out and be with them. I wish thwy knew the truth. He is trying to be "nice" i just ignore. Silence and mystery kills them. To be honest i have cheated on his ass anyway.it was for me. I have a friend. That im moving with. I thought of him as a buddy that i really liked. But im gone. We had to many ups and dons i asked his sis when i first met her whats wrong with your brother. She told me he had emotional probs. I will RUN if that happens again. See his mom molested him for 8 years. From the age of 8 the father hollers at him and the family tries to keep them apart. He told me that on the 4 th date. Wth was wrong with me??
The honesty! All what I wanted to hear back then, the raw honest truth! The truth shall set you free! Thanks!
My Beloved Narcissist, My one true Love! My have we come far. Yes I agree we have come to the realization that we must part. I am not the Special One not Unique or Different. I am hurt lying in my bed weeping wondering what I have done wrong this time as I have done do many times . I am old and dying. My loved ones close and holding my hands. I pass from this world knowing how much I am loved and what a great difference I have made in their weeping eyes. Your path is much different. I did not want this for you. You at deaths door alone with the passing indifference of those who walk by curiously looking into your room shaking their heads. Where is the family and friends of this dying soul? When you were young your youth and vitality made heads turn in lust and envy, oh how mighty you were. Now you are reduced to being fed by the empath , your toileting and personal grooming and cleansing at the mercy of the empath. You were Grand but now diminished. Your control gone...
Well said Shiva!!!! And to other comment, we all die alone, people don’t not all die alone and some people get to as you wrote, enjoy the love of their family and/or friends at the end. They are surrounded by people who love them and whom they love. We will know this due to the consistency of love and value that was demonstrated by both parties during the life of the relationship. You wrote this well!
If he was honest he would say "I'm NEVER working, that's NOT my family, she's not just a friend and by the way- I was still dirty from the last chick!"
Jesus. Sad but probably true.
The Letter was BRILLIANT!! Thank you for writing it!!
I am so happy you are back. You are the best of the best, but I think you know this.
Thank you.
16:25 “It’s as if you aren’t trying any longer.” He told a friend that over a year ago, and I felt so hurt. It wasn’t true. I didn’t understand where he was coming from. I put all of the work into the relationship. But I had been in the devaluation stage since right before he proposed to me a few months earlier. So I understand why he would say such a thing now that we are over and I have learned about narcissism.
He treated you badly so you didn’t idolise and worship him so he blamed you for not trying hard enough.
Same happened in my relationship. Why try hard and they are treating you like crap?
These comments right here are really resonating with me. He asked me to marry him 6 months before discard. Also agree was being treated horribly so I wasn't receptive to it. Faught back. So happy I'm out even though I am so lonely. 15 years discarded for his much younger co worker almost 3 years ago. She's obsessed with him. They will last longer especially since he gets so many benefits financially from her.
I know I needed to hear this, and it certainly had an impact, I suddenly felt very weak I had to sit down. Two children and 34 years together meant nothing to him it is a terrible shock, but I was already gathering the information required for a marriage break up, I will continue with this.
This video is beyond excellent. Let's be honest all of the information on this channel is unrivalled, I can't think of any other channels that are anywhere near as good and correct. I class myself as relatively intelligent with an IQ of 134 and I also know I can look after myself if a fight broke out but I'll tell you this... HG Tudor is the ONLY person I've come across online that I'd be extremely wary about. I can usually out think and manipulate everyone who I meet online or offline but HG Tudor is a whole other level... I aren't kidding this guy should be on channel 5 TV documentaries describing the behavioural analysis of criminals and murderers because he is the UK's number 1 expert by a mile. All of his work describes society perfectly, he's spot on with everything. I definitely wouldn't want to Tango with the Tudor.
Thank you, your compliments are appreciated.
H.G. your words have given me a direct understanding of my current situation. I was disengaged by my narcissist 1 month ago & my emotional thoughts still have a firm grip on me. As I sit here i allow the information to soak and process. I thank you for the brief moment and clarity you have given me in understanding my situation by splitting our thinking dynamics and worlds into two. As i write this I accept these well displayed & informative distinctions as we coexist in your world of Black & White & mine with a little bit of Gray. Your channel has allowed me to now live the life i choose while continuing to educate myself in all aspects of narcissism. Building my defenses in order to take preventative measures to ensure im not caught in another exhausting vortex & non genuine relationshit ever again...I very much appreciate your content & inight H.G.
You've really nail it this time! Truly Amazing! This is the closure that all the victims should have been received. This letter written from an ultra like you can cover all types of narcissist below ultra, so all the victims whether they had any closure or non, should read this one and except this one as their own closure. Also all victims that are struggling to maintain no contact should read this letter and keep it when emotional thinking strike. Just read it again and all doubts will be gone instantly. So useful, so truthfull, so simple, so insightful. You are amazing and You have just surpassed yourself. But you know that already. Don't you? 😉🙂👍
Actually, this is the honesty/letter that all "soon-to-be" victims should have received at the beginning! We would have never fallen for/nor been a part of, such deception! The lies, the manipulation, the intent, the gaslighting, the power, the ghosting, the cheating, the confusion, the pain, the hurt, the sadness, the anger, the disposing of,....
This "ego-game"
at the expense of others... is disgusting! It's selfish, soulless, and evil. To waste other people's time/lives for self-endulgence and find bizzare pleasure/think, it funny...is, so warped!!!
I wondered, what the Narcissist's motives, thoughts were/how they operated...this was their plan/game all along, from beginning to end! It's hard for me to even comprehend such gross behavior, but I can see it now. And to think, I still felt a little sadness for Narcissists...not anymore, none!
@ HG...I listened with my eyes closed so that I could zero in on the reason for the change. Well they do say familiarity breeds contempt. The king has prepared a feast to delight and make you come under his control.He is sated and now things settle down,he is bored with your contentment. Time to be so awful to you that you leave him and this allows his kingdom to make preparation for the next empathic soul. Harsh but at least all who listen to this letter are now aware that this is the ultimate act of punishment. It was never you they loved because they cannot experience that,it was an act carried out to get grade A fuel and control you while they take it.It is one of the most damaging ways of treating a normal who may think they have found their soul mate.
This letter is the best of your videos HG.It is open and honest about warning of the dangers in being preyed upon by a narcissist.
The very best response I have ever heard, that should act as a warning to keep away from getting too close to someone whose need for fuel overrides everything and everyone.
OMG. Pure gold. Thank you, thank you HG Tudor.
This is amazing! Thank you Mr. Tudor.
"This is where it gets particularly twisted" lol
@15:01
It is not funny, I almost lost my life
@@GMarieBehindTheMask if you can't laugh, you'll cry
OH HOW I WISHED I SEEN THIS BEFORE! THANK YOU SIR.
So true! This is why I enjoy my solitude.
Educating, enlightening, creative, brilliant! Thank you very much, H.G.!
Wow, this one is absolutely outstanding!
I think my narc did tell me the truth once. It must have been a slip of the tongue.
Nobody else puts it forth like HG does.
Cada vez que recibo un mensaje del narcisistas intentando aspirarme vengo a este canal para escucharte y mi pensamiento emocional muere en el instante en el que tus palabras me regresan a la realidad. Abrazo la verdad y continuo con el no contacto con más fuerza y tranquilidad.
Wow!! Thank you! An explanation, finally.😢🙂🙂🙏🏼
Glad it was helpful
I can relate to this more than I would like to admit.
If narcissists say what they really feel and want they will only use it to shock others or break their hearts as if immoral is okay.
Yes, exactly. They will sometimes tell you the truth if they know it will deal a blow to you. Especially when they are looking to discard you.
Everything is so well explained!
Im still catching up on older videos!
oh Lord. I want to puke. He is talking to me about my relationship.
This is brilliant stuff. Thanks HG.
Rightly said they are incapable of love
Their incapable of being civilised.
.The description is so accurate of the devaluation. Such disturbing behaviour from someone you thought loved you.
HG.damn good content. Very instructional on knowing how the narcissist moves an thinks.
🥴 Thanks. I rather this than lies any day.
Love your videos HG! They have really helped me understand your kinds perspective & mindset on life .You have helped me greatly in my healing process.
Thank You & May God help us all.🤍🦋💋
My ex told me all of the things that you're saying. It was his favorite way of torturing me. Except for telling me that he was doing it to have power and control over me, he did not tell me about feeling Full or having fuel. He just told me I'm a fake and fraud and that he could turn his feelings on and off and that he didn't love me and that I was an investment I was just a temp and that it was his little game. He told me he was callous inside when I asked him why and he said that he was jealous of other people who could feel and that he was very selfish. In the end he said that he was just trying to help me out and that I could never repay him for all the things he had done for me. He made it clear that nothing I had ever done mattered Because I had just only been using him.
I needed to hear this.
Its so bizarre how he can be honest woth total strangers for his legacy; yet it kinda freaks me out that he won't do this with people he knows. Probably because of my empathic traits.
We he said, “ The man at the hotdog stand.” 😩😂.
Thank you HG this is eye opening.
This was excellent, I smiled through it all. Thank you!!
This is pure knowledge H.G and I truly thank you for sharing with the world. Why are you sharing your methods and the methods of your kind? I am sure your kind are very angry that you are exposing their tricks and methods of manipulation.
This is an important episode to share widely. ❤
The narc needs me more than I need them. That's the truth thats missed because the mask you insist on wearing majorly distorts your vision.
Your fear of true intimacy keeps you miserable.
The narc letter had me heated - I lost so damn much to this Demon!
The truest thing my soon ex husband said was after his discard "He faked loving me" 12 years of a LIE. My light is beautiful although he left me exhausted. I recently seen him in court and he looked terrible, his new supply must be real gem, consuming alcohol 7 nights a week and whatever else has taken a toll fast. As a once great wife, i find that liberating. We truly do reap what we sow
this is pure gold
Thank you for your honesty. I will pray for you to the God that you don't believe exists.
This was really good! Thank you!
Brilliant work!👏😍
Thank you.
One of your best
Thank you.
@@hgtudor-theultra listening to u rather cost me my inheritance. Because it made me leave my narc boyfriend whom I was going to marry and have a lot of money. And its its better to cry in a Bugatti than a bus. I hope he comes back for me.
Chilling and true..helps to know what is coming..
Great informative narration....thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it.
Narcissist told me I hope I dont Fuck things up. Of course you brush this off like many other things. (you hear things but don't act on them like in the FOG as they say or some kind of amnesia hypnosis) Believe them when they tell you this. He would even say he knew whats going to happen before it would even happen. Diffentantly self aware a Greater perhaps. Excellent video as always HG!!
Why does this crack me up?! I love HG.
Like you said in a different video HG Tudor, it hurts so good! Now I can get answers that at least give closure within me. Because I do precieve you as a danger, like an evil psychotherapist abusing ketamine on its victims. But never the less, your letter of rejection does offer an honest view within the same place of emotion. Therefore gaining back control within the self and removing those points of energie contact
These people are utterly pathetic
Joanna Kerr,You got a lovely smile 😊
This video essay made feel a little sad and angry that I got taken in by her. However, it gave me more of an understanding of dating a narcissist.
One of the last things she said to me was, "You don't deserve to be happy. " Smh.
What’s so funny to me , since I have a deep understanding of narcissism, is that my ex best friend and my ex Narc are engaged and the line he pulled on her was ( they went to elementary school together ) “ I’ve loved you since kindergarten “ . Lol What makes this really funny is she was 3 full grades ahead of him in grade school. #funfacts
Stephanie Santangelo,You look cute 🌷🌹,You don’t need a narcissist in your life!
Fascinating and so well communicated to the naive empath.
Question 1: is narcissist behaviour inherited or the result of mirrored behavior in the observation of narcissistic behavior of a close family member?
Question 2: at what point in cognitive development, does narcissistic behaviour reach maturation?