How to Correct a mistake without Hurting Others Feelings?| Buddhism In English

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  • @ms.beverly3905
    @ms.beverly3905 2 роки тому +105

    I am a Christian since birth, but honestly Buddhist teaching gives me comfort, wisdom and Inner Peace. I Meditate and it cures my deppression, hatred in my heart, jelousy, greed among many others, thanks to this kind of video, it gives us since of direction in this very chaotic world...

    • @krudoh9610
      @krudoh9610 2 роки тому

      Did Buddhist believe in Jesus Christ

    • @csflower
      @csflower 2 роки тому +3

      @@krudoh9610 I believe Buddha, Moses and Jesus are best friends in the Heavenly realm. Their being born and living among us teaching us Truth has been a part of God’s overall plan to teach every nation. You read the Torah, the New Testament and Buddha teachings they are all the same - religion can separate us and makes us judgmental, or proud, but the core beliefs are the same. We all serve the The One God who created us all when we serve one another.

    • @mariabejaranomonge2183
      @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 роки тому

      Just the same! 🙏

    • @myratravin9588
      @myratravin9588 2 роки тому +2

      You can be a Buddhist and a Christian. I am. ❤️

    • @Mootown-lz6uh
      @Mootown-lz6uh 3 місяці тому

      Couldn't agree more!!

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh 2 роки тому +8

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You!

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 роки тому +11

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 роки тому +41

    Show a mistake,
    1. In the proper time (when in calm mind)
    2. In private ( not in public)
    3. Truthfull things to the correct person (correct accusation) using kind & gentle words
    4. In a benificial way (praise his good qualities & show the mistake)
    5. Speak with a compassionate heart

  • @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644
    @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644 2 роки тому +17

    Subscribed with happiness..
    Buddhism is truly what religion should be - a peaceful, disciplined, thought provoking way of life.
    So much wisdom in Buddhism.
    And unlike other religions such as Islam, Christianity which uses their texts as a matter of convenience and to control...
    Buddhism is so tolerant, teaches non violence, respect for all forms of life, tranquility and the deeper meaning of life.
    Its the most peaceful religion with a live and let live attitude.
    Though I was born a hindu on my father's death anniversary, I did the buddhist prayer.

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @AstonishingRolex1718
    @AstonishingRolex1718 2 роки тому +7

    This is mind blowing. Love from TN (India)

  • @dollym.8095
    @dollym.8095 2 роки тому +22

    1. Talk privately when telling the person. Speak to the person who did the mistake directly
    2. Speak gentle and kind words when explaining mistakes. No harsh or rude words
    3. Speak in the right time, not when they are angry, sad etc
    4. Give value to his profession but you are doing the mistake and they harmful efects of it
    5. Speak of loving kindness

  • @upekhapeiris4159
    @upekhapeiris4159 2 роки тому +5

    Namo buddhaya...Theruwan saranai...

  • @nisargan9535
    @nisargan9535 2 роки тому +70

    How to make peace with our own mistakes! Please do video in this

  • @evelin9708
    @evelin9708 2 роки тому +4

    I am realy getting changed with your encourangment please keep it up

  • @herawijaya9709
    @herawijaya9709 2 роки тому +4

    Anumodhana Bhante🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 роки тому +5

    Namo buddhaya! Theruwan saranai.!🙏🙏🙏

  • @sunilagurung1479
    @sunilagurung1479 2 роки тому +7

    Namo buddhaye ❤️

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 роки тому +28

    Wisdom is with us. Try to realize that.❤

  • @fx.nugraha9586
    @fx.nugraha9586 2 роки тому +6

    Namyo buddha🙏

  • @sushmabele9510
    @sushmabele9510 2 роки тому +5

    Namo Buddhay.💕

  • @dinalibhagya1570
    @dinalibhagya1570 2 роки тому +12

    i started watching this early in the morning and after that this made my whole day and also in future..always be grateful for these words uttered by this thero..Namo Budhhaya

  • @shashanidhanujika6415
    @shashanidhanujika6415 2 роки тому +6

    Namo Bhuddhaya🙏🌸

  • @jenifatavares8761
    @jenifatavares8761 2 роки тому +10

    Great are your teachings n very beautifully explained...from Goa.

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 роки тому +6

    🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana BhanteJiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Manglam!!!

  • @rellisamajam4941
    @rellisamajam4941 2 роки тому +6

    Namo buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 2 роки тому +5

    Namobudhaya thank you so much Ajan🙏🙏🙏

  • @navakirandandu6107
    @navakirandandu6107 2 роки тому +3

    Great solution sir namo budhaya

  • @vanisekharjayasriharsha
    @vanisekharjayasriharsha 2 роки тому +5

    ☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️

  • @shalinibhagat3282
    @shalinibhagat3282 2 роки тому +8

    Namo buddhay and Vandami Bhante it’s awesome to hear the words of wisdom.

  • @sasikumarthiyagarajah521
    @sasikumarthiyagarajah521 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks again for the good lesson 🙏

  • @bhavanasriram2148
    @bhavanasriram2148 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏
    Nammo buddhaya 🙏
    By watching videos I have been motivated ,inspired thankyou sir 🙏

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 роки тому

      My name is Kushy Mathai live in USA.i really learn a lots of knowledgable informations.you know his name.i want thank him with his precious name.👍👍

  • @pemlhamulepcha2815
    @pemlhamulepcha2815 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you for such a good lesson.. ❣️

  • @renatobarajasm.3388
    @renatobarajasm.3388 2 роки тому +5

    What a lovely person! 😍

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 роки тому +1

      Yes he is his words are so precious 👍👍

  • @karenng848
    @karenng848 2 роки тому +13

    Love listening to your talking and giving your kind advice. They are awesome.🙏🙏🙏

  • @savitanaiken9620
    @savitanaiken9620 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you very much . Your videos are excellent, whole day I keep on listening to your videos. Now waiting for your next video.....

  • @jocelynpinatang2665
    @jocelynpinatang2665 2 роки тому +8

    it always give peace and wisdom..on how to deal with others..big thank you..

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 10 місяців тому +1

    Namo Buddhaya.

  • @Beadbags06
    @Beadbags06 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya🙏

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 роки тому +8

    Well explained venerable 🙏

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Рік тому +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @sreelakshmisuresh3425
    @sreelakshmisuresh3425 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for being our guru

  • @erwinmoon9449
    @erwinmoon9449 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for the enlightenment.

  • @deepalitambe5008
    @deepalitambe5008 2 роки тому +4

    Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Bhante 💐 Namo Buddhay 💐 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @olivermatias2349
    @olivermatias2349 2 роки тому +5

    ❤️👌💯thank you! 😊😚🙏

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 2 роки тому +6

    You have taught us something really very nice on how to correct people's mistakes. I just want to say to you in today's world 🌎 people in the first place, should know how to address other people. Can you please talk something about "ANGRY PEOPLE" telling them how control their tempers and how to respect others. I would Love to hear that. 🙏🙌🙏. Thank-you!👏👋👏

  • @neciforaleis3090
    @neciforaleis3090 2 роки тому +18

    I feel.blessed having these teachings to experience great peace within me.I feel great having you brother who continually shares to all how to live peacefully in different dimensions in life.YOU are perfectly sent to us to reflect ,realize and renew ourselves to a higher level.of being a good person.Thank you and I subscribe to your page in series.

  • @k.pathirana.8868
    @k.pathirana.8868 2 роки тому +1

    🙏🌺🙏🌺🙏🌺. තෙරුවන් සරණයි. ඔබ වහන්සේට නමස්කාර වේවා. සාදු.සාදු.සාදු.

  • @habibi9223
    @habibi9223 2 роки тому +9

    Namo buddhay...!🍁
    bhante can you please teach us 32 parts of body meditation...

  • @factas7196
    @factas7196 2 роки тому +18

    Our kindness and love is the most powerful weapon in our life 🧬namo bhuddhay

  • @lakshmicv9696
    @lakshmicv9696 2 роки тому +4

    what a talk! like to hear again & again. All the msgs are mind blowing. I became very quite n soft. Thank you.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks! You are the kindness and compassion in person. 🙏🤗✨✨✨✨

  • @reborn4450
    @reborn4450 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your kind wisdom. I have to say that I watched this video all too late. As I made all of these mistakes with my former boss. I brought up my former bosses mistakes while there were other bosses around. I didn't realize this made the boss look bad. And I regret it but I cannot go back and fix anything because I have already left the job on an unpleasant note. I really wish I knew all of this before. Now I feel really bad. Now I see why the boss thought I was looking for trouble when in actuality, those were not my intentions. I was trying to prove why I was making mistakes because I didn't know better. But now I know better.

  • @teetrav
    @teetrav Рік тому +1

    I used to be harsh on people that made mistakes until I realized that mistakes are what makes us human what makes us have humility what makes us more compassionate towards one another and the opportunity to correct it is even better

  • @alicenarengbam4088
    @alicenarengbam4088 2 роки тому +3

    Quite correct Thanks

  • @geethasandran9543
    @geethasandran9543 2 роки тому +5

    Something is connecting with all your topic

  • @mounikabantu2383
    @mounikabantu2383 2 роки тому +4

    🙏🙏🙏 exactly sir but some people are like this to show mistakes around others... what will do... please show mistakes privately or personally... don't show mistakes around others please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏and also first to know either that mistake or anything is correct or not to show before others please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 Рік тому +1

    This reminds me of how I used to deal with such a situation at my former hospital work : I did figure out instinctively that I had best wait for the proper time of the day or week to choose the perfect timing and tell my (hysterical natured but with sense of humor and in excellent mood on specific days to my woman boss 😂 and add a bit of Chocolate treat just before. It always worked ☺️

  • @jennifersmallwood
    @jennifersmallwood Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this lecture 🙏🏻 I have written down all 5 points by hand and will pin them towards my fridge. I am usually a very kind and loving person but there is one person in my life, that hurts me so much with her words that it is very hard to follow your advise but I will work on this from now on. Buddha has been a great teacher and still is. Thank you for being there for us on this channel. 🙏🏻 Namaste. ❤

  • @jyotibharti8449
    @jyotibharti8449 2 роки тому +1

    Buddha's teaching give me peace whenever I watch. Thank you🙏

  • @madhuri2551
    @madhuri2551 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much❤❤❤

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 роки тому +1

    බොහෝම පින් ස්වාමීනි .

  • @tharukahettiarachchi687
    @tharukahettiarachchi687 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a catholic since birth, but this teaching is helping me to over come depression.

    • @jenswohlgemuth6961
      @jenswohlgemuth6961 Рік тому

      Thats awsome, good work! Many blessinnngs🙏☸✝❤
      Can also reccomend Ajahn Brahm his teachings are very helpfull, sincere and even relaxing. Helps me deal with stuff too.

  • @BCJeewantha
    @BCJeewantha 2 роки тому +1

    Namo Bhuddhay I am one of his dama students his indiveidual videos give me peace and solve my everyday problums😊

    • @BCJeewantha
      @BCJeewantha 2 роки тому +1

      That is very true he does solve problums with his videos😂😅😊

  • @yentenzangmo1953
    @yentenzangmo1953 2 роки тому +2

    Watching from Bhutan 🙏💜

  • @slnaturerelax9364
    @slnaturerelax9364 2 роки тому +3

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lambenyengir9673
    @lambenyengir9673 Рік тому +1

    Wish you always be healthy n happy

  • @jawaharpawar1425
    @jawaharpawar1425 9 місяців тому

    Pujaneey bhanteji trivar panchyang parnam namo Buddha namo dhammay namo sanghay Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @Kaveen4213
    @Kaveen4213 2 роки тому +6

    Thankyou

  • @siskazikekana5819
    @siskazikekana5819 2 роки тому +1

    You are exceptional. Stay blessed

  • @sridarmogar89
    @sridarmogar89 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much sir.

  • @doctorbuddha3023
    @doctorbuddha3023 2 роки тому +5

    Jai Bhim Namo Buddhay

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 Рік тому

    today this teaching gave big awareness ,this teaching saved my friendship , thanks a lot ,Namo buddhaya

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 4 місяці тому

    What a wonderful teacher you are I so needed to see and hear this lesson right now I will take it on board and follow your advice nammobudyha sir ❤️😊🙏

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 Рік тому

    What a wonderful a sweet and wonderful way of correcting people, to keep moving forward, without offending. Thank you. 💐❤️💐❤️🙏🙏11:42

  • @dec66.18
    @dec66.18 2 роки тому +2

    As always , great lesson Bhante.Thank you.

  • @nancyparena1685
    @nancyparena1685 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing it's such a great lesson to learn what we need to do especially to our childrens to correct their wrong deeds❤️,🙏

  • @abdullaheusufzai4149
    @abdullaheusufzai4149 Рік тому

    Why a brilliant and wise approach …thank you!!

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates 2 роки тому +3

    Grateful!

    • @vambaligowda7535
      @vambaligowda7535 2 роки тому

      Where are you from...looks are from Srilanka...I want to learn sinhalese language, how can I learn it...

  • @SarahBlaylock-u8g
    @SarahBlaylock-u8g Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this message. YOU ARE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON.😊😊

  • @themiserykid
    @themiserykid 2 роки тому +2

    Sadly, I dropped out of college and never returned after being humiliated by a professor because I didn't understand the lesson fast enough. He is so right, it damaged my personality. I was so crushed in front of my peers, I left school and still have a phobia of classroom setting to this day! I actually started my own business to avoid college and having to be taught anything I couldn't teach myself, sigh.

    • @Rita-Flora
      @Rita-Flora Рік тому

      Io venni umiliato da un professore universitario davanti a tutta la classe e quindi me ne andai.
      Non potevo fare diversamente. Ancora oggi non rieco a dimenticare quanto mi accadde 45 anni fa!

  • @YeniPratiwiSastroDihardjo
    @YeniPratiwiSastroDihardjo Рік тому

    In real life, my boss complaining and blaming and yelling at me in front of the whole department. But i won't do the same way. Thank you, Mr. Monk 🙏

  • @jsuleman4595
    @jsuleman4595 Рік тому

    This is true wisdom & kindness.
    Do we all not wish to be treated this way.
    Thank you.

  • @katylloyd1616
    @katylloyd1616 Рік тому

    I just really royally messed up by speaking harshly with someone I was angry with. I immediately felt bad and apologised but I know I have done wrong and want to do better in the future. Thank you for this video

  • @dawnmyatmyint4885
    @dawnmyatmyint4885 Рік тому

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏Thank you Bhante for your teaching ofBuddha's saying. I Realize five ways of `How to correct a mistake without hurting other's feeling '.🌹🙏

  • @geraldaligumikiriza6213
    @geraldaligumikiriza6213 27 днів тому

    Value of profession of some one very good thanks

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 2 роки тому +7

    Some people dont understand nice words.

  • @akshatsinha6991
    @akshatsinha6991 2 роки тому +2

    Great.

  • @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he
    @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he Рік тому

    ❤ never talk about mistakes, we all make them😊. Instead incourage people to create new positive steps. Everybody deserves a second chance nobody is perfect! Nobody and know that we all try our best!

  • @virginiacosta1998
    @virginiacosta1998 Рік тому

    feel immensely grateful for the messages you convey. With all the knowledge, all the reflection and wisdom that are already part of my daily life. Thanks a thousand!!!🙏🙏💯👏👏💐🤩🇧🇷

  • @idukkatuamma6003
    @idukkatuamma6003 2 роки тому +2

    🙏🙏🙏Thank you

  • @lazzodan9915
    @lazzodan9915 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you soo sooooo soooo much

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 роки тому +1

    මාගේ භාග්‍යවතුන් වහන්සේ ගේ උතුම් පුත්‍ර රත්නයක් වූ, අග්‍රශ්‍රාවක,ධර්ම සේනාධිපති, සාරිපුත්ත මහරහතන් වහන්සේට මාගේ වන්දනාව වේවා !

  • @HH-80
    @HH-80 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻

  • @Annm9346
    @Annm9346 Рік тому

    My problem is dealing with negative people who find joy in trying to make you look bad or place blame on others or are happy to point out your mistakes to make you look bad infront of superiors. It just increases my stress, dealing with a toxic work environment. I am trying to learn to deflect but it is hard.

  • @lizahgondwe4489
    @lizahgondwe4489 Рік тому

    Great teaching and I'm learning from each presentation. Thank you

  • @VirginiaSado
    @VirginiaSado 3 місяці тому

    Namo Buddaya.🙏Namo Buddaya 🙏

  • @marshalmandi8426
    @marshalmandi8426 Рік тому

    Nomo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @JenniferHobbs-yo2tr
    @JenniferHobbs-yo2tr 6 місяців тому

    There comes a time when others feelings about a situation do not matter. Know thyself, be thyself, protect thyself by walking your own path without interfering in others paths. 🐍

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 Рік тому

    Wonderful lesson thankyou 😊❤️

  • @ranikamble7772
    @ranikamble7772 2 роки тому

    Vandami bhante ji namo bhuddhay

  • @sudhakarreddypolam2432
    @sudhakarreddypolam2432 2 роки тому +2

    🛕🙏NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🙏NAMO NARAYANA 🙏🛕

  • @enymlang3095
    @enymlang3095 Рік тому

    Thank you for your great job, and of course for your kind words 🙏

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR THIS. GREAT MESSAGE.🤗🌹