'Rape? It's your fault': fighting mindsets with sarcasm now
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- The Buck Stops Here: Actor Kalki Koechlin and VJ Juhi Pandey speak on their spoof on patriarchy and misogynistic response to sexual assault.
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End sexism. Not just only in India, but the whole of the human species needs to understand that any form of discrimination is barbaric and must be uprooted from our conscience.
No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.
kalki and juhi are awesome atleast someone stepped up
I know right. Im glad people like them exist.
Cindy Gonzalez Mee too.
Pregnancy, being walked on, periods, cramps, cravings, being emotional, depression, being raped or molested, being called a slut or a hoe by other females, being called fat if they eat, having to do their hair every morning, having to put on make-up to feel beaurtiful, being stressed out, being insecure. Women go through alot and that's not
even half of what they go through. Don't put a Girl through more shit, she already has to go through alot. Respect Women.
Respect needs to be earned, it does not come by demanding it.
@@I_am-satisfied.Similarly men work hard as well, men and women both deserve respect and should respect each other
@@simpsimp9616 thank you for replying back to my comment, I mean, 2 years down the line someone finally replied back, it does feel dignifying and satisfying.
@@I_am-satisfied. no problem man
@@simpsimp9616 you welcome.
STOP BLAMING THE VICTIM!!! There should be more focus on how we change men's obsession of sex and to teach men how to control their urges, instead of focusing on what the women is doing wrong. WE NEED TO CHANGE THE DISCUSSION to MEN: the question is what is wrong with men's psyche that they feel they can assault women physically and verbally, why are they sooo obsessed with sex that they cant control their urges. But of course in a male dominated culture, the discussion is controlled by men, and I guess men are too coward to point their fingers at themselves ~ What a shame!
Nice to read your comment sir. Their are some useless people who are not able to understand this and it makes me so angry that such kind of people exists.
S Thomas You have my upvote!
+Rohith Rao lol u know.its just a thing to say these days. don't blame the victim. men have to control themselves, etc. but nobody is thinking about the source of all these problems. somewhere down the line we all are to be blamed, men and women. to make things better all of us have to change , not only men.
Education is not awareness... we are not educated in school, we are moulded to becoming slaves for the economy of the country... does anybody talk about what it means about sex, sexual difference awareness... it not equality that I would fight for women, but to see us as what we are and respect it...
agreed with u...
this is actually happened in our so called country and when we spoke to someone regarding these issues it's actually became taboo and only victims suffers at the end
Guys whoever is saying that Kalki is a racist please stop....She was asked to tell the craziest thing she has ever heard so she just shared what she was told to before in her life...That's all..
Rabindranath Tagore pointed out marital rape years ago.We didn't learn then and still.
Why "eve teasing?" Call it what it is -- SEXUAL HARASSMENT.
Rape is not the only problem in India...another huge problem in India is the fact that many men(from all socio- economic backgrounds) feel like they have a right to "eve-tease"(verbally as well as physically harass innocent females..e.g. making lewd remarks or pinching/grabbing female body parts)....i used to take that shit for granted in India but having travelled overseas and having lived in North America for almost a decade, I've come to realize that shit is ABNORMAL & must not be tolerated
Exactly
@usman you're doing EXACTLY what the video is about. You're making it the womans fault. Do you honestly think that if a husband rapes his wife, she can just leave? There's probably physical abuse and mental abuse going on as well. They're probably scared for their life, with good reason! Perhaps more would leave if India had a law against marital rape, but as they don't, it adds up.
You go girl!
Ultimately* Ever body has to reap what they sow according to the ancient Vedic law & wisdom of the Universal nature * Better everybody realizes sooner or later or they are doomed to face it'sconsequences
It's not always poor Indian men who rape. Rapists come from all backgrounds(rich, middle class,poor, educated, uneducated, hindu, muslim, sikh, christian, buddhist, jain, etc). One summer at the age of 15, i remember a well dressed upper-middle class looking Indian man in Delhi was making lewd gestures at me as i was walking past him to get into my car(in which my mom was waiting for me). I was dressed in regular fitting jeans and t-shirt and had done nothing to "provoke" him at all!
It is a violation of human rights when women are denied the right to plan their own families, and that includes being forced to have abortions or being sterilized against their will. If there is one message that echoes forth from this conference, it is that human rights are women's rights - and women's rights are human rights. Let us not forget that among those rights are the right to speak freely - and the right to be heard.
Rapes are out come of highly suppressed sexuality in India. Problem needs to be addressed in psychosocial manner government increased punishment for rape criminals recently which would not help much.
Its patriarchal society interaction between men and women is a taboo , huge sexophobia outside marriage, courtship before marriage is taboo local movies portrays women as seductresses which men have no access before marriage. Economy doesn't support independent survival of young adults they fall back in to grips of patriarchal control.
wow ..I always try to say this but never get the right words.. u've done it.
+myworld wow .. you are talking garbage. For an intelligent view on rape in India see the video: *Re Why Rape is a Joke in India*
we r a developing country and we r bound to go through all these (that doesnt means we should take it for granted ). but i think only proper education can change men's perspective of viewing a women.
Not just education but also media and people should stop over hyping women
@@vamshee4u what do you mean?
Fathers never have exactly the daughters they want because they invent a notion a them that the daughters have to conform to.
Her features were dainty, her small slender wrists climbed up to become the delicate shoulders that beckoned him. Her skin was like peach-tinted cream and he need not have touched her to experience the melting softness of her body. Her perfectly oval face was austere and her manner a little haughty. Her expressions had delicacy as well as a particular strength that did not abate her femininity. It seemed that the world had stopped.
Rape, or reported rape? Could it be possible that people don't report the problem because the know little will be done?
Because we are separated everything separates us, even our efforts to join each other...
I dont see any Pakistani here abusing India but when it comes to Pakistan and if the video is from Pakistan about women rights in comments section there will be more Indian instead of Pakistanis and here we go start abusing Pakistan and forget about problem accruing in india . ☺so sweet of you Indian thank you guys
Man is defined as a human being and a woman as a female - whenever she behaves as a human being she is said to imitate the male. Sex pleasure in women is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.
Representation of the world, like the world itself, is the work of men; they describe it from their own point of view, which they confuse with absolute truth.
I am not assuming any number. I am only asking questions. It is common practice in many nations for a government to lie about the number of crimes. It's embarrassing, but the first step towards solving a problem is admitting there is one. Not only that, but if you were raped, would you want to tell anyone? Just because the reported numbers are low doesn't mean it's not happening. With rape the number is usually higher than is reported.
I was made for another planet altogether. I mistook the way.
The girl was born in roto Dalit caste of class system of India...
Marital rape being not illegal is surprising..But more surprising is even if the data of high % of domestic violence is there, yet u'll hear persons relating to the authority protecting women rights saying that he can never digest that an woman can ever tortured for dowry or domestic violence. And if u r against the domestic violence or dowry torture and leaving ur husband then u r not eligible to get maintenance for living and u'll be left for begging if u have no social or financial support.
What's with Asharam Bapu Barkha... It's Asharam!!
rapes are not justified society needs to be lead to a workable solution and media has a huge responsibility in doing so, taboo should be lifted over the fact that a human being is also sexual being, lack of sexual expression leads to suffocation that comes out in unfortunate manners such as rape freedom of open interaction between young adults and freedom to exercise consensual sexual choices should be part of basic human freedom, these values are often ignored but they are very fundamental in psycho-social development of a healthy sexuality in young adults. india has a sports ministry devoted to promote healthy physical and mental development of youth but sexual development is as important which is often undermined by socio cultural factors , its time as a society we start discussing these issues openly.
Ultimately* Ever body has to reap what they sow according to the Vedic law & wisdom of the Universal nature
in the bible a young woman named dinah she was raped by a prince and her brother killed him because they defiled her and she wasn't dressed sexy and she didn't want to be raped and didn't asked for it so stop making its the women's fault
Her voice sounded like a melody and she looked like a dream, an illusion, up close and personal...
how many of you are living actually in india?
you can talk about the issue and engage in These mental masturbations of Feeling like someone with a high Moral Standard, all day Long! as Long as you are not living in These countries and as Long as you have no influence what so ever on These countries, you wont Change one bit about the Situation!
at the end of the day, you are just debating about what should or should not be, probably without any effect at all on this problem!
She is white skinned? Indians are racist against other Indians? That's so weird just like white people discriminating against other white people based on subtle differences is kind of odd.
she is of French origin.... born and brought up in India
+Jamal wonder oh ok.
We are not the body to use
It's my fault..
why people donot speak about male rape this is also a rare case. There are some instances where male is raped by male or female.
MRE
Barkha reporter, i have a question for you. Why do you Bark so much why can't you ask anything without pressing the matter? kya kathi hain aap uththay hi Madam?
I absolutely agree. The number of rapes reported in the United States is definitely lower than the number of actual rapes. I know people who have been assaulted but never reported the incident. It happens everywhere. There are problems all over the world and I don't see why we have to argue about which country is best. To be honest, I would love to visit India someday. The problem I see is when you try to deny the problem exists and do little or nothing to try to stop it.
Hahahahaha. WHAT?!?!
Cyka blayat
One question. Why these channels interview actors. Everyone knows these are not their ideas or creation. It is done by someone has something on their head. Actors are the tools to present idea to the people, So this is ridiculous when they asking questions to actors because they don't know the soul. Hell indian media
Why are they all speaking English?
Because its a fucking English news channel