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  • The Time When Buddha Could Not Forgive - BUDDHA STORY
    is a Dare to do. Motivation Story about Buddha and Forgiveness and the energy we give out and receive in life. Take 3 minutes of your day to relax and listen to this marvelous story, and please let me know in the comments below what you think!!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @DaretodoMotivation
    @DaretodoMotivation  Рік тому +10

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  • @adamjustice6485
    @adamjustice6485 4 роки тому +3408

    Buddha: *exists*
    Litteraly everyone around him: "Guess I can't beat this guy up now. "

    • @natetherat2063
      @natetherat2063 4 роки тому +10

      Adam Justice unless you follow the true Great god of the rat. It can’t hit ok just got to kill with a slingshot or some shit like that.

    • @HaharuRecords
      @HaharuRecords 4 роки тому +21

      @Carcantos Cartinho Thats what your parents taught you. But its not true. O you fool😭

    • @HaharuRecords
      @HaharuRecords 4 роки тому +15

      @Carcantos Cartinho Everything you know and didn't know were made by a supreme LORD to him sages call by different names. And there is a good reason behind everything even the whole creation. Only fools say why this happend why not this, this supposed to be this, everything that happened before was a lesson for those who to come and for them. Other wise if everything was perfect there is no need for living good or we suffer from in this world. So look for the truth as you seek. May you find..🙏😔

    • @HaharuRecords
      @HaharuRecords 4 роки тому +10

      @Carcantos Cartinho Absolutely not. That is why he sent his messengers (teachers, giuided ones), people corrupt through time and don't do justice among others. If you read the scriptures around the world no matter what you will see only one clear message. But still people through ignorance do and think what they think and right and wrong they decide by themselves, and they don't even know the outcome of what they do untill they at least realise something wrong happened. O my friend, it is those curropted people who made the idols and bow down to them. Don't think what just people do is right even our enceators but remember what buddha said about this says : " Gautama offered the answer on one of his many journeys: “Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. ... Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations".
      But seek it for a pure heart, you shall find it.

    • @HaharuRecords
      @HaharuRecords 4 роки тому +10

      @Carcantos Cartinho O, you will understand if a scientist tells how an Atom (a smallest thing known) were made of ,even molecules.?
      Do you even know the dark matter exists! The 90% of the universe is dark energy. So how could even you know what was in there but for those who look beyond at least found it exists. Lets not talk about black holes.

  • @jacicooper3304
    @jacicooper3304 4 роки тому +1695

    "No man steps in the same river twice, for it is not the same river and he is not the same man." -Heraclitus

    • @andreimarian3342
      @andreimarian3342 4 роки тому +10

      ua-cam.com/video/EGvjzFhO9c4/v-deo.html this guy did it

    • @RoastHardy
      @RoastHardy 4 роки тому +7

      Every water is connected, as is every person.

    • @layuponthedownlow
      @layuponthedownlow 4 роки тому +6

      That's another bullshit quote from bullshit writers.

    • @BADALEX1
      @BADALEX1 4 роки тому +12

      Heraclitus. Not Heractus. Panta Rhei is the phrase you're looking for.

    • @BADALEX1
      @BADALEX1 4 роки тому +15

      @@layuponthedownlow Anything but. Have a read of some Heraclitus. You might change your mind about a few things. He's pretty good.

  • @Jcmasado
    @Jcmasado 4 роки тому +1442

    “That person is not here anymore” I am shaken

    • @minji1
      @minji1 4 роки тому +43

      I have been shooketh as well

    • @shroomy6320
      @shroomy6320 4 роки тому +6

      Spoiler

    • @amberliwentee402
      @amberliwentee402 4 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @pedrobarbosaduarte3704
      @pedrobarbosaduarte3704 4 роки тому +6

      Of course you are, you have never seen real life so you think anything outside your little bubble is very amazing -_-

    • @SandeepBhaiya721
      @SandeepBhaiya721 4 роки тому +5

      Which person he said in video not buddhi but story teller. Because Buddha was right but interpretation may be wrong.

  • @myrna4445
    @myrna4445 3 роки тому +1893

    He didn’t forgive because there was no ill feelings in the first place. He was in peace at all times.

    • @timsmith2028
      @timsmith2028 3 роки тому +19

      Budda is a 600 lb God who teaches self control ! Really? Think about it!

    • @bonbon3871
      @bonbon3871 3 роки тому +7

      If theres always peace , life cease

    • @lc1777
      @lc1777 3 роки тому +123

      @@timsmith2028 buddha was not a god

    • @AngstyBoBo
      @AngstyBoBo 3 роки тому +54

      He also wasn't 600lb, and he doesn't teach anything, teaching was not his intention.

    • @timsmith2028
      @timsmith2028 3 роки тому +3

      @@AngstyBoBo Ok he was fat and he didn't have self control

  • @krautbrain
    @krautbrain 4 роки тому +17303

    The one thing Buddha couldn't forgive was clickbait titles.

    • @Tleanantz
      @Tleanantz 4 роки тому +157

      lol

    • @I_am-satisfied.
      @I_am-satisfied. 4 роки тому +49

      krautbrain, are you triggered off?

    • @krautbrain
      @krautbrain 4 роки тому +276

      @@I_am-satisfied.
      I dont know. That word has lost its meaning a long time a go.

    • @tugboat945
      @tugboat945 4 роки тому +234

      krautbrain
      I mean Buddha kinda click-baited his own disciples

    • @shreechaturvedi4170
      @shreechaturvedi4170 4 роки тому +85

      @FBIOpenUp
      you don't get it.
      he's trying to say that the buddha tricked them when he said that he hadn't forgiven the man

  • @m3ng252
    @m3ng252 4 роки тому +718

    “Why should I forgive you, when you’ve done nothing wrong?”
    Damn that’s a good quote.

    • @mike92505
      @mike92505 4 роки тому +14

      The quote in itself is incomplete. It's a false quote if you don't include, "that person is not here anymore". When the man returns with remorse in his heart, then we can take the first part of the quote, because then he's a changed man.
      If he did not apologize or the Buddha sees an insincere apology, his reply would be to non-the less forgive him, because he's the same individual as the other day. But since, his grief stricken night cause a change of heart, and came back with remorse which is a sign of enlightment and growth, he is not the same person.

    • @mudkipfan2420
      @mudkipfan2420 4 роки тому +2

      M3NG and then when the man walked away ..
      Buddha to His disciples : ‘That was good right 😏’
      Lol

    • @Dylanschillin
      @Dylanschillin 4 роки тому

      Buddha just a freak? 🤷‍♂️

    • @TheParablade
      @TheParablade 4 роки тому

      That's not even a quote wtf

    • @TomatoCasket
      @TomatoCasket 4 роки тому +1

      Ty for saving me the 4 minutes of the video. I knew there was gonna be a catch, the buddha is the enlightened one for a reason. It made no sense to me that he wouldn't forgive something

  • @MangoLemonaideFresh
    @MangoLemonaideFresh 3 роки тому +875

    “That person is not here anymore”
    Honestly made me smile so much. That was so heartfelt and inspirational ❤️

    • @munmunflorence3409
      @munmunflorence3409 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/34taa3RupqU/v-deo.html💙

    • @dorjghising9879
      @dorjghising9879 3 роки тому +11

      He's boddhisatva seeing all sentient god coming in human form to tell universe truth namo buddhaya ❣️

    • @noobnub7305
      @noobnub7305 3 роки тому

      yea, me too

    • @kend7597
      @kend7597 3 роки тому +18

      relates to the idea that there is no permanent self. the self is an illusion that we cling to unknowingly, all the time unfortunately. you are new and different at every moment of awareness. and knowing this has made me feel so free from burden and stress

    • @abel2933
      @abel2933 3 роки тому

      It is funny how many want to believe in the existence devil without a second thought and and deny the existense of God, Jesus whom has appeared in the flesh in history to save man kind,
      Before saying too many wrong stuff,
      1, every historian agrees in the Bibles chronology of events, and i as a believer know it is the truth and accept every detail, as we all know it is the True word of God,
      2, Too many miraclous even in an unbelievers life has happened , that science cant even explain, for instance check this one
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      ⭕3,and there are many tangible facts , that the world cant even hide and explain, miracles shown to simultaneously to thousands of people to strength their faith (Example, make a research about the "fatima incident") who changed termondous amount of people to Ultimate christ believers in a day,
      It is a not very distant history.
      ⭕4,please dont let Satan triumph over you, as u are repelling the Cross, and denying what Jesus has done for you in the cross,
      Even Iphones siri isnt programmed to not answer the question "Who is Jesus", other worldly false deitys, who is buddha,krishna,mohammed, are unswered with great detail.
      It is because the major corporations (so called illuminati elites) serve satan and dont want you to become nowhere to the truth, but wants you tongo to the false worldly leaders such as buddha ,mohammed, satan e.t,c
      Here is a video proof
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      5)The Holy Bible has already, morethan 2000 prophecies fullfilled to date,
      And Jesus, explains in a termondous amount of detail, what it is like to live in the end days, before he finally comes to reign over the world for eternity, with his beloved creations,
      And we are seeing it unfold day by day, as the world is heading to one world the devils 666 beast's govt, as the pop cultures , works hard day by day to brainwash people and promote satan, 666 subliminal message e.t.c
      If you really want to know the truth, u can study israels history, and learn the bible,
      Jhon 14:6
      Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
      7 If you had known Me, you would know My Father as well.
      ⭕Ask and ye shall receive, thank you brother

  • @devinserasinghe3805
    @devinserasinghe3805 3 роки тому +462

    The word “Buddha” itself makes me feel peaceful 🙏
    The fact that he was not a god or any celestial being but just Human just like all of us makes it easy to connect with Buddhist philosophy

    • @viniciuspaiva3578
      @viniciuspaiva3578 2 роки тому +5

      So similar to Jesus

    • @devinserasinghe3805
      @devinserasinghe3805 2 роки тому +21

      @@jacksprat9209 I was referring to the philosophy,

    • @shanakones6374
      @shanakones6374 2 роки тому +15

      @@viniciuspaiva3578 dude no

    • @4um360
      @4um360 2 роки тому +6

      @@viniciuspaiva3578 except if you don’t repent, love Jesus and accept him as your personal lord and savior… well, you know the rest. 🔥🔥🔥

    • @shss1421
      @shss1421 2 роки тому +19

      @@4um360 please stop shoving your religion

  • @foodlover3129
    @foodlover3129 4 роки тому +868

    Just like a quote in movie The Curious Case of Benjamin Button:
    *You can be as mad as a mad dog at the way things went, you can curse the fates, but when it comes to the end, you have to let go.*

    • @PP-vf1kx
      @PP-vf1kx 4 роки тому

      Food Lover Calms The Nerve With Delicacies

    • @damianbiue7728
      @damianbiue7728 4 роки тому

      you can be a coward and let it go or you can act from your anger.

    • @johnconnor9881
      @johnconnor9881 4 роки тому +7

      Damian BIue bro stfu, how does letting go make you a coward, if you act in anger you can act in regret and it will drain your energy, it feels so much better spiritually to let go, once you forgive and forget your energy rises, it will also make you calmer so in future it can be a lesion and a benefit not to use anger

    • @kiston8630
      @kiston8630 4 роки тому +6

      @@johnconnor9881 you acted from your anger.

    • @rat3138
      @rat3138 4 роки тому +3

      Damian BIue Acting from anger isn’t reasonable and letting go is courage.

  • @giusepperomeo1862
    @giusepperomeo1862 4 роки тому +2727

    Man: disrespect Buddha
    Buddha: understandable have a nice day

    • @authorbhattacharjee4957
      @authorbhattacharjee4957 3 роки тому +56

      This is why I love Buddha so much

    • @Sorin_7
      @Sorin_7 3 роки тому +10

      😂❤️❤️

    • @meroqero1476
      @meroqero1476 3 роки тому +21

      almost like jesus.

    • @nunyabidnis3815
      @nunyabidnis3815 3 роки тому +21

      @@meroqero1476 Yep, in ways. Both great pacifist thinkers of their time!

    • @goncalojesus7583
      @goncalojesus7583 3 роки тому +20

      @@nunyabidnis3815 Jesus Christ: God in flesh and bone that came to earth to save humanity. Buddha: An awesome men that almost understood God with no help just the power of his mind.

  • @CamSiv996
    @CamSiv996 4 роки тому +623

    Wow. This story is actually deep. The part where Buddha said "I cannot excuse you because that person is not here anymore."

    • @Kowzorz
      @Kowzorz 4 роки тому +61

      A man cannot step in the same river twice for it is not the same water and he is not the same man.

    • @CamSiv996
      @CamSiv996 4 роки тому +5

      @@Kowzorz is that part of the Buddha?

    • @roshangamage3634
      @roshangamage3634 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/klIRcfJEgCI/v-deo.html

    • @heavycurrent7462
      @heavycurrent7462 4 роки тому +1

      Gay

    • @nata_d3_c0c0
      @nata_d3_c0c0 4 роки тому +31

      Cameron..It goes deeper. Meaning to say a person who realised his mistake and own up to it is no longer the same man as before. He has to learn to forgive himself for past mistakes and that's when 1 truly moves on and will do good in future. Buddha is teaching him all that with 1 sentance. Thus the "I cannot excuse you because the person is not here anymore". Besides he has punished himself with the overnight with his own guilt. Still he has come around to do right thing. And the saying "true forgiveness are unspoken" he has transcend. It's teachings comes in stages.. goes deeper.

  • @rioseno
    @rioseno 3 роки тому +55

    The Buddha lived in a solid state of present moment. Nothing in the past or future can shake his tranquility. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @nityaarya3453
    @nityaarya3453 4 роки тому +878

    *_“Teach this triple truth to all: A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.”
    - Buddha_*
    _Thank you so much & Stay blessed_

    • @deborahvictoriaedwards5188
      @deborahvictoriaedwards5188 4 роки тому +3

      Used, abused, threatened, harassed, terrorized that may get you in this world...

    • @anitarauthan4975
      @anitarauthan4975 4 роки тому +1

      *staaaaaay blessed... you spelled wrong

    • @julioaranton461
      @julioaranton461 4 роки тому +5

      Namaste.

    • @preeyamumbai
      @preeyamumbai 4 роки тому +3

      We expect people to be honest and when you stay for long 20years somewhere you trust people around and if they become challenging where will you apply those things mentioned above by you, despite of staying just like you mentioned above people break your trust societies break your trust.

    • @anitarauthan4975
      @anitarauthan4975 4 роки тому

      @@julioaranton461 namste

  • @gvhgnjhg1387
    @gvhgnjhg1387 4 роки тому +2473

    Man: *does disrespectful act*
    Buddha: so you have chosen forgiveness!

  • @adamh7409
    @adamh7409 4 роки тому +1149

    Who wouldn't be upset at a man who's spending four hours a day with his kids

    • @eyesack538
      @eyesack538 4 роки тому +57

      He wanted his kids to engage with business not specifically him but I see where you are coming from

    • @superdemonboy
      @superdemonboy 4 роки тому +25

      I wouldn't be upset. Please! Take them away, forever!

    • @MattFRox
      @MattFRox 4 роки тому +11

      Child care costs r crippling middle and lower class working class American families.

    • @heybhanuhere9010
      @heybhanuhere9010 4 роки тому +2

      Martin Alexander My kinda parent! Lol😂

    • @theawsome3006
      @theawsome3006 4 роки тому +5

      I need to r/whoosh everyone

  • @haikaloronsentnel138
    @haikaloronsentnel138 3 роки тому +15

    NammoBuddhaya!!!
    Indonesia Buddhist Here!!!
    Wishing Buddha Teaching Spreading Entirely World!!!

  • @mr.sketser1468
    @mr.sketser1468 4 роки тому +654

    "why should i excuse you?"
    *"when you have not done anything"*
    bruuuuhhhhhh im shook damnnn

    • @anonymous689
      @anonymous689 4 роки тому +7

      Ikr😭😭😭

    • @Chillerll
      @Chillerll 4 роки тому +90

      Buddha secretly pissed
      "Why should I excuse you?"
      Everyone looks at him
      "Damn, I better come up with something clever now"
      "When you have not done anything"
      Everyone claps

    • @anonymous689
      @anonymous689 4 роки тому +3

      Bruh! come on dude...😂🤣

    • @kidisthing
      @kidisthing 4 роки тому +5

      @@Chillerll 😂🤣😂 lol bruh

    • @nvmffs
      @nvmffs 4 роки тому +5

      @@kidisthing What are you hood lowlives doing here talking in slang under a spiritual video?

  • @ycart_tech6726
    @ycart_tech6726 4 роки тому +120

    Imagine having one bad day and getting to hear about it for the next two and a half thousand years...

  • @xAznSkyxx
    @xAznSkyxx 4 роки тому +452

    Buddha: "Oh, you're approaching me."

    • @MrGoul78
      @MrGoul78 4 роки тому +81

      "I can't spit at you without getting closer"

    • @cailleach8416
      @cailleach8416 4 роки тому +59

      "Then come as close as you like" :)

    • @wineaddict6625
      @wineaddict6625 4 роки тому +20

      Damn jojo references everywhere. I can't XD

    • @khoatruonganh115
      @khoatruonganh115 4 роки тому +3

      Zawarudo

    • @richeytk7755
      @richeytk7755 4 роки тому +4

      Crimson Sunbird “There is no me you are approaching, only the ever-present all-including I which resembles the Allness of Life”

  • @calmcenter4435
    @calmcenter4435 2 роки тому +34

    Whenever I heard Buddha teaching i can just feel the love of Buddha and if his teachings are filled with so much love what he would be like a person...😌

  • @alikhidzam3749
    @alikhidzam3749 4 роки тому +450

    I'm not a Buddhist but damn this was very peaceful

    • @PaperBeatproduction
      @PaperBeatproduction 4 роки тому +12

      Indeed

    • @smugglercat6638
      @smugglercat6638 4 роки тому +19

      Hmmmm, yes indeed, your pfp make my pp go hardy rocky

    • @youngbirdarino2284
      @youngbirdarino2284 4 роки тому +7

      Youre pfp made this comment hilarious😂

    • @AwesomeAlexAdam
      @AwesomeAlexAdam 4 роки тому +7

      xd alikh idzam
      Then after seeing and hearing this is would be Wise of you to study Buddhism and improve your way of life .

    • @smug1798
      @smug1798 4 роки тому +7

      Your profile pic is not making me peaceful at all

  • @ComradeConfucius
    @ComradeConfucius 4 роки тому +132

    Reminds me of what Louis Zamperini said: "True forgiveness means never bringing it up to the person's face again."

  • @tiolloyd9555
    @tiolloyd9555 4 роки тому +963

    This is basicly "Buddah smile and makes a man go into insanity trough the whole night, only to the next day he give him a lesson, only to show dominance" (please, it's just a joke, don't take it so serious)

    • @vantascuriosity4540
      @vantascuriosity4540 4 роки тому +64

      Buddah had the high ground

    • @TheDnaitsirc
      @TheDnaitsirc 4 роки тому +24

      Sad to have to clarify it is a joke

    • @tomjr8331
      @tomjr8331 4 роки тому +8

      I cannot forgive u

    • @alexthibodeau979
      @alexthibodeau979 4 роки тому +5

      A person's own remorse is enough punishment

    • @xenolithus
      @xenolithus 4 роки тому +7

      Tio Lloyd I'm a devout buddhist and I laughed until I cried with you comment lmao

  • @shivaniharish7090
    @shivaniharish7090 3 роки тому +148

    So much to learn from Buddha's life and teachings. Thank you for doing such a good work. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @flipwright1138
      @flipwright1138 2 роки тому +4

      One thing is don't overeat.

    • @TheWatcher369
      @TheWatcher369 2 роки тому

      @@flipwright1138 Agreed.I find it a good way to keep myself in check by basically putting the word "over" in front of anything, like you said "overeat".Then we can do "oversleep" etc.
      Peace be with you 🕊️

  • @sillykid4118
    @sillykid4118 4 роки тому +4515

    I'm laughing so hard cause my friends gf cheated on him and she sent him this video😂

    • @HeroHoundoom
      @HeroHoundoom 4 роки тому +645

      She is living in a dream and is unrealistic.

    • @superdemonboy
      @superdemonboy 4 роки тому +913

      Lol, I'd be like, "I cannot forgive you... also, you're not my girlfriend! Who are you, stranger???"

    • @paulocarre1
      @paulocarre1 4 роки тому +41

      😭😂 yea okay hunny.

    • @mrartdeco
      @mrartdeco 4 роки тому +21

      Martin Alexander nice oneeeeee

    • @sinistertwister686
      @sinistertwister686 4 роки тому +292

      "i cannot forgive you, cause we are both different persons from previous ourselves... so dont let future you to blame future me for present me punching present you in the face"

  • @Offbrandcandy
    @Offbrandcandy 4 роки тому +534

    There’s a lot of power in forgiving people, and letting past mistakes people made be past mistakes they made. People change.

    • @SoulLevelJivan
      @SoulLevelJivan 4 роки тому +9

      The key to life , and the ultimate form of self love, is forgiveness

    • @mursdude4854
      @mursdude4854 4 роки тому +3

      People change but their spirit never change

    • @camel7624
      @camel7624 4 роки тому +11

      Warning this is not for sensitive people, If this bothers you, then you should feel glad it does, because it means that your heart is right.
      In 2010 there were 4 rapists that broke into a family's home, and they tied and spilled coffe on the kids and the parents, they took the oldest kid who was an 20 yearold woman and raped her for 3 hours before authorities arrived.
      The rapists were not caught, they managed to escape.
      So shut the fuck up.
      There is no god.
      There is no karma.
      Only the strong thrive and strong should kill the evil and corruption in this world.
      If I had super powers, I would be a brutal person, because of how much I value peace and order.
      I feel again the need to remind you blind idiots to shut up.
      Shut the fuck up.
      Just shut up.
      You do not know how it feels to be wronged.
      If you wanna do something good for the world, kill a evil person, make the world a better place.
      For our kids, grandkids, for our descendants.

    • @humanbean1424
      @humanbean1424 4 роки тому +21

      @@camel7624 How ironic. You dont believe in Karma but its actually right in front of your face. You might be living your karma right now.
      Im not saying youre a bad person. Its just that karma can also be given. Im willing to bet some bad things have happened to you, or at least you witness something and digested it as evil.
      How you live and take actions in life is your karma. And in that, would ultimately affect your life in either a positive or negative way. It can either bring you happiness or it can bring you misery. In this case you seem to have chosen to hate. Youve metaphorically been bit by a vampire. The people you hate are cruel and now have influenced you to becoming cruel. Youve taken on their karma. Only a cruel person are capable of rape. Only a miserable person are capable of being cruel. Now let me ask you, are you happy?
      Forgiveness is a method in which you can reform your Karma. To relinquish the burden that are weighing you down and holding you back from living a happy life.
      Karma is real. You cant do evil and expect to live a happy life. You can pretend that you are to others, but deep down you will always know the truth.

    • @monicavarona9316
      @monicavarona9316 4 роки тому +2

      Yes I think people change because of their transition, but I don't think it literally its part of them it must be hidden but in case of anger. It blow up

  • @Tsekamaru
    @Tsekamaru 4 роки тому +306

    I have heard the same story with a different ending. In that story, Buddha replied to the confessing man that if nobody responds to your anger then your anger only stays within you and cannot hurt the other person's feeling - in this case, Buddha's. We might not have control over others' emotions but we certainly do have ours'.
    Eventually, Buddha said you shouldn't ask for forgiveness because I didn't take it as an insult but some of my students were furious thereby your excuse might better serve for them.
    That is the moral of the story.

    • @tavernburner3066
      @tavernburner3066 4 роки тому +12

      Different story

    • @thegem597
      @thegem597 4 роки тому +15

      This moral is more satisfying 😁

    • @MultiRainday
      @MultiRainday 3 роки тому +19

      This is a different story mate. It was the time when an angry priests was trying to talk shit to him but Buddha then said I did not accept any of it.

    • @nathangamble125
      @nathangamble125 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks. I think this is much better explained than it was in the video.

    • @valdmenshikov9687
      @valdmenshikov9687 3 роки тому

      yup that's the one i know

  • @rachcliffe3182
    @rachcliffe3182 3 роки тому +3

    Wise! Wiser! Wisest!

  • @yourijevriend730
    @yourijevriend730 4 роки тому +39

    the voice is like a cloud, a cloud that is free and calm, i loved it

  • @AdbeatSChannel
    @AdbeatSChannel 3 роки тому +743

    "guilt alone is enough" yeah not now a days with more and more people becoming narcissists who cant feel guilt.

    • @edgyreggiee
      @edgyreggiee 3 роки тому +43

      Pretty much everything boils down to psychology, ego death of narcissist is exactly what this video is about

    • @orangebetsy
      @orangebetsy 3 роки тому +8

      it is a reasonable point. for the situation where guilt isn't felt, i wonder. oh well.

    • @milesmanuse1569
      @milesmanuse1569 3 роки тому +34

      @@orangebetsy I'd say that suffering in ignorance is an even worse punishment than feeling guilt.

    • @mr.wicksnamelessdog3202
      @mr.wicksnamelessdog3202 3 роки тому +4

      Actually they can and they pretend it well coz at basic we're all humans
      Let's just exclude some non human stuffs

    • @dnhdfnfkrjxjxfjjggj3002
      @dnhdfnfkrjxjxfjjggj3002 3 роки тому +1

      @@milesmanuse1569 truly said.

  • @Eric-gv4di
    @Eric-gv4di 4 роки тому +227

    I'm a nonreligious atheist but that was a beautiful message, truly a wise man

    • @jonnyitguy
      @jonnyitguy 4 роки тому +35

      I feel exactly the same. It seems (I’m no expert) that eastern religions focus more on individuals. Much less “seek forgiveness from an invisible, omnipotent spirit” and more “respect yourself and others and you’ll be treated in kind”. It makes a lot more sense to me.

    • @DipayanPyne
      @DipayanPyne 4 роки тому +10

      @ D
      Well, unfortunately, the traditions of Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism have been turned into religions. I am quite sure that they should not be called religions, coz a whole lot of knowledge in these traditions is non religious and purely philosophical, something that is still attributed, more or less, to ancient Greece. Well, the thing is, a whole lot of history has not seen the spotlight becoz the contributions of the east, particularly India, in the field of philosophy and rationality, have been ignored. I keep doing lay man level research every once in a while and it is really sad for me to see how much we all have been lied to or just not been exposed to.

    • @SuryaTheBeast
      @SuryaTheBeast 4 роки тому +3

      @@DipayanPyne How is that unfortunate? I am Atheist but that is not unfortunate. That is great!

    • @magtazeum4071
      @magtazeum4071 4 роки тому +14

      well, Buddhism itself is an atheist philosophy

    • @AkosM
      @AkosM 4 роки тому +1

      @@magtazeum4071 What makes you say that and to which sect of the Buddhist teachings are you referring to? I'm asking this, cause Gautama was a god basically, reincarnated on earth according to my knowledge, to offer salvation, just like Jesus.

  • @nishantdas3472
    @nishantdas3472 3 роки тому +103

    Man disrespects Buddha
    Buddha : Ho ho ho so you've chosen forgiveness

  • @ChiGyu620
    @ChiGyu620 3 роки тому +521

    I feel like you've largely misinterpreted the meaning of this story. It's not so much a parable about the nature of forgiveness, I think it's mostly meant to illustrate a point about the lack of a permanent self (which is one of the core doctrines of Buddhism).

    • @ForeverMasterless
      @ForeverMasterless 3 роки тому +6

      Was just about to say this.

    • @dutcheastindies8354
      @dutcheastindies8354 3 роки тому +31

      I agree. Parables are generally open to interpretation, however. The creator's take on the story makes sense anyways. His interpretation does have basis so in that regard, it's equally as valid as ours.

    • @CL-fs3kt
      @CL-fs3kt 3 роки тому +5

      Can you explain the doctrine briefly? I’m not understanding it

    • @ChiGyu620
      @ChiGyu620 3 роки тому +1

      @@CL-fs3kt en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anatt%C4%81

    • @NomadUrpagi
      @NomadUrpagi 3 роки тому +1

      Yes i agree. How do i know? Exurbia explained buddism in 14 minutes better than long so called "studies"

  • @sudhakanagala9793
    @sudhakanagala9793 4 роки тому +98

    I must admit I have become very patient and forgiving after watching Ur videos.. and I have realized I was unnecessarily wasting my time having anger against a few ppl..my mind is relaxed now

    • @sudhakanagala9793
      @sudhakanagala9793 4 роки тому +3

      @mystical creature ..sir/ madam it depends on us😊..

    • @PP-vf1kx
      @PP-vf1kx 4 роки тому

      PussyCat is the way to go

    • @Bi0Dr01d
      @Bi0Dr01d 4 роки тому

      @PussyCat What you are describing does not seem to be a description of "emotion", because there are spiritual things that included emotion and lead to God, but they're not emotions like the flesh. According to the Bible, it's a description of *the flesh,* the physical body, the nature in which sin resides.
      Your desire to disconnect from your emotions actually seems to be a desire to live this life by walking in the spirit and not being ruled by The flesh. This is because the spirit has emotions as well, but they are pure and holy. Love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, meekness, faith, and self-control are all from the Spirit of God who dwells within the follower of Christ.
      Envyings, murders, adultery, fornication, witchcraft, pride, lust, wrath, strife, all come from the flesh and both the spiritual nature and the flesh are contrary to each other.
      One cannot live by The Spirit of God unless he is first born again and given the spirit of God in Jesus Christ, who makes you a new creature.
      If any be in Christ Jesus, he is a new creature. Old things are passed away, and behold, all things are become new.
      Christianity and Buddhism are direct opposites from what I can see, and that ironically is what makes them seem so similar in some ways. Buddhism, as It seems, by trying to disconnect from emotions, one cannot fully submit to God because his efforts are by his own strength and because he is trying to find his own way, and that, in a sense, causes one to keep the focus on himself, which may be the very obstacle keeping him from achieving his own goals, which means he is getting in his own way. In Christianity, God meets us where we are and gives us Grace to empower us to live the life. Because God meets us where we are, we know the end from the beginning who God truly is and where we are going. We are given a new spirit by God and the old man that we used to be dies and we are born again a new creature.
      Christianity is an understanding of identity and realizing what we have already been given in Christ. It is a relationship with Jesus, and therefore a revelation of God.
      As Jesus said, eternal life is to know God through relationship. Heaven is just the place where God is. When God offers you eternal life, he's offering to you himself.
      Truth is not just a concept, truth is a person, and his name is Jesus Christ, and without him alone, one cannot reach enlightenment.
      Anyone can do anything to gain peace and control over their emotions, but what's important is the object by which those emotions are overcome, if they are indeed overcome. Truth and non truth can both bring a person's peace. Peace must come from the truth, and his name is Jesus.
      If you want to know this Jesus, ask him to be your Lord and Savior and to reveal himself in a way you can know the truth.
      He stands at the door and knocks on your heart. If any man hears his voice and opens the door, Jesus will come in and dine with him, and he with Him.

    • @singhanmolpreet5935
      @singhanmolpreet5935 4 роки тому +2

      I should try this then. The comment section is really cancerous.

  • @peacebe2u480
    @peacebe2u480 3 роки тому +69

    This is awe inspiring indeed. There is no EGO in someone who is awakened.

  • @ethribin4188
    @ethribin4188 3 роки тому +314

    "Guilt itsself, should be enough punishment for a person."
    Sadly it isnt enough ..

    • @kingcreedo6010
      @kingcreedo6010 3 роки тому +54

      @ChaosWhite enough for people to understand the wrongs they have done.
      Instead they always think they are right and will do it again.
      In this day and age the person that spat on Buddha would do it over and over again never letting guilt hinder them

    • @mrtraa2639
      @mrtraa2639 3 роки тому +35

      @@kingcreedo6010 And they will proudly upload a vid of themselves spitting on Buddha on twitter/instagram/tiktok hoping that it goes viral.

    • @daxferg412
      @daxferg412 3 роки тому +28

      @@mrtraa2639 and people would defend him for doing so.

    • @ishworshrestha3559
      @ishworshrestha3559 3 роки тому +3

      Ik

    • @potato_nyin_6448
      @potato_nyin_6448 3 роки тому +4

      I think that was just his personal summary of the whole situation

  • @Nick_Slavik
    @Nick_Slavik 3 роки тому +11

    I feel I'm in a period if searching, emptiness, listlessness. I was raised a Catholic but had found myself gravitating towards Buddhism. I don't consider myself "religious" or "spiritual" but lately I know I'm trying to find something.
    I'm not sure if these coming my way have been a coincidence, but this one especially, almost brought me to tears, for reasons I cannot explain

    • @DipayanPyne94
      @DipayanPyne94 3 роки тому +2

      I am Delighted to Hear that you found yourself Gravitating towards Buddhism in your Life 😄 You see, Buddhism is a Combination of Philosophy and Religion. In fact, some parts of Buddhist Philosophy are Psychological in Nature. Why ? Coz Buddha was a Psychologist ! Anyway, my Point is that you do NOT need to be Religious or Spiritual to Follow Buddha's Core Teachings. He was a Remarkable Human Being, whose Goal in Life was to End the Mental Suffering of Others. So why should we not follow him ? His Teachings have the Ability to Transform Mankind, by Ending Conflict, Violence, Hatred and so on. You are on the Right Track, Brother ! In fact, there is an Amazing UA-cam Channel called 'Doug's Dharma'. It's Probably the Best Channel on Buddha and his Original Teachings. Here's a Great Introductory Video : ua-cam.com/video/3yU3C-b6hII/v-deo.html

    • @Nick_Slavik
      @Nick_Slavik 3 роки тому +1

      @@DipayanPyne94 thank you so much! I was in a very, very dark place for reasons that I still can't figure out, or explain. But I have found a level of solace in these videos and in my rediscovery of Buddhism.
      That has always been an attractive aspect of Buddhism. The lack of NEEDING to be spiritual to follow it's practices. I have always found it to be accepting and not excluding. Also has always felt like there has been a level of personal responsibility in the outcomes of your moments in life.
      I will definitely check this out! I love that I have a good place to start. I sincerely thank you!!! 🙂

  • @maxmcdermott-official9222
    @maxmcdermott-official9222 4 роки тому +9

    I listen to a different buddhist story each morning and night, and whenever I feel distressed I listen to one and it eases my pain, it is truly a blessing, thank you for changing my life, much love

    • @tobycarnell3561
      @tobycarnell3561 4 роки тому +1

      Where do you get those stories from ? UA-cam .. or other ?

    • @maxmcdermott-official9222
      @maxmcdermott-official9222 4 роки тому

      Daeda lus mostly UA-cam, but sometimes I’ll just search different story’s about Buddha on google

  • @korashortss
    @korashortss 4 роки тому +565

    There was also one story,
    When a person abuse so much to Buddha and Buddha was just smilies?
    When the person saw that Buddha was not angry then he again got more angry....😆😆😆
    He inquired, why you are not angry and smile....
    Buddha: tell me ,if you give something like any items to any person and that person didn't not accept then who does not items belong to?
    Person: in that case the items belong to that person who was giving.
    Buddha: same here, you abuse me but I didn't accept your verbal abuse so it belongs to you not me.....
    👍👍👍👍

    • @varnelkythe761
      @varnelkythe761 4 роки тому +1

      This is empowering for me! Thanks! 💜💚💙

    • @SalemPhiladelphia
      @SalemPhiladelphia 4 роки тому +6

      @Zero Wonder Girl prophet Muhammad didn't have any sons. They died at an early age. Adoption is haram

    • @Klose_11
      @Klose_11 4 роки тому

      Wise words

    • @irfandy8
      @irfandy8 4 роки тому +1

      @Zero Wonder Girl
      Wow, that's really cool, would you give us some resource which you get that from? It'll be wonderful.
      Thanks!

    • @viveksachan11
      @viveksachan11 4 роки тому

      the philosophy i used as a kid when I thought i ll dirty myself if i were to use abusive language XD

  • @memesensei3330
    @memesensei3330 3 роки тому +64

    It's so true. An enlightened one in the present moment, as soon as the act is over, it is over, it bears no weight on one with no mind.

  • @Kanapek22
    @Kanapek22 4 роки тому +456

    The guy: approaches Buddha
    Also the guy: why do I hear boss music

    • @Burningtissue786
      @Burningtissue786 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/JRPC-qaijh8/v-deo.html
      💗

    • @diegofonseca6708
      @diegofonseca6708 3 роки тому

      Underrated comment!

    • @abel2933
      @abel2933 3 роки тому

      It is funny how many want to believe in the existence devil without a second thought and and deny the existense of God, Jesus whom has appeared in the flesh in history to save man kind,
      Before saying too many wrong stuff,
      1, every historian agrees in the Bibles chronology of events, and i as a believer know it is the truth and accept every detail, as we all know it is the True word of God,
      2, Too many miraclous even in an unbelievers life has happened , that science cant even explain, for instance check this one
      ⭕m.ua-cam.com/video/AZzl3J_Ps_8/v-deo.html
      ⭕ m.ua-cam.com/video/LWlxnWV2klc/v-deo.html
      A miracle happened in a 50 year muslim devotee who has memorized the qoran who doesnt even know Jesus, now Hallelujah, he has became life long christs word Gospel devotee.
      ⭕3,and there are many tangible facts , that the world cant even hide and explain, miracles shown to simultaneously to thousands of people to strength their faith (Example, make a research about the "fatima incident") who changed termondous amount of people to Ultimate christ believers in a day,
      It is a not very distant history.
      ⭕4,please dont let Satan triumph over you, as u are repelling the Cross, and denying what Jesus has done for you in the cross,
      Even Iphones siri isnt programmed to not answer the question "Who is Jesus", other worldly false deitys, who is buddha,krishna,mohammed, are unswered with great detail.
      It is because the major corporations (so called illuminati elites) serve satan and dont want you to become nowhere to the truth, but wants you tongo to the false worldly leaders such as buddha ,mohammed, satan e.t,c
      Here is a video proof
      m.ua-cam.com/video/vZ4ASWSBtQc/v-deo.html
      5)The Holy Bible has already, morethan 2000 prophecies fullfilled to date,
      And Jesus, explains in a termondous amount of detail, what it is like to live in the end days, before he finally comes to reign over the world for eternity, with his beloved creations,
      And we are seeing it unfold day by day, as the world is heading to one world the devils 666 beast's govt, as the pop cultures , works hard day by day to brainwash people and promote satan, 666 subliminal message e.t.c
      If you really want to know the truth, u can study israels history, and learn the bible,
      Jhon 14:6
      Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
      7 If you had known Me, you would know My Father as well.
      ⭕Ask and ye shall receive, thank you brother

    • @clementsiow176
      @clementsiow176 3 роки тому +7

      @@abel2933 why are you here? Who told you that it is a great idea to come into the comments and talking about Christian stuff in a video about Buddhism?

    • @abel2933
      @abel2933 3 роки тому

      @@clementsiow176 Thank you. Lets repent to Jesus our God , and follow the righteous way

  • @xetophlegend7026
    @xetophlegend7026 4 роки тому +113

    This makes me want to be a buddhist ngl and i am an evangelian christian its crazy how much i love Buddha for what he was I respect him so much

    • @finalbossd
      @finalbossd 4 роки тому +19

      Fellow Christian here. There is nothing wrong with taking inspiration from other sources and philosophies. You will also see that Jesus Christ behaved in a similar manner (though, he did actually flip out one time when he flipped some tables over at a temple).

    • @roblosh8417
      @roblosh8417 4 роки тому +12

      You guys are the kind of Christians who really are about love and compassion :) have a great day

    • @andrewdwipakencana
      @andrewdwipakencana 4 роки тому +31

      Being a buddhist means you follow the buddha's teaching, so you dont need to convert, as buddhism is a teaching not so much of a religion🙏

    • @StarboyXL9
      @StarboyXL9 4 роки тому +3

      You know there's a theory that Bhudda and Jesus were different interpretations of the same person?

    • @SuryaTheBeast
      @SuryaTheBeast 4 роки тому +1

      @@StarboyXL9 Nah, Jesus never existed neither did Budha in my opinion. Plus, that wouldn't make any sense.

  • @gabby5167
    @gabby5167 4 роки тому +267

    I'm currently studying philosophy and Buddhism really fascinates me

    • @maheshparanawidana4953
      @maheshparanawidana4953 4 роки тому +5

      Visit my motherland, Sri Lanka, I hope it'll help you to understand the practical side of it

    • @thetruthseeker5448
      @thetruthseeker5448 4 роки тому +24

      Practical side or the endless rituals, merit makings, pujas, offerings, relic worship, animal cruelty. Is that buddhism. Just get some scholarly books, read and try to understand. No one need to worship statues, photos, offer flowers, candles, bath bo trees etc. Respect, venerate Buddha as the teacher and carry on, and that is what Buddha said in his own last sermon.

    • @RavianXReaver
      @RavianXReaver 4 роки тому +3

      @@thetruthseeker5448 That's right my dude.

    • @RavianXReaver
      @RavianXReaver 4 роки тому +5

      @@maheshparanawidana4953 Sri Lanka ain't any different than any other country. It's full of blind belief and "Religion" is mostly a front for the wicked's greed.

    • @maheshparanawidana4953
      @maheshparanawidana4953 4 роки тому +3

      @@thetruthseeker5448 I didn't mean such offrings or worships. I mean practicing meditation activities. I'm reading the core books of the buddihim , not later developments made by the authors the way the wanted

  • @mariusloveless7880
    @mariusloveless7880 3 роки тому +54

    This is the first-time religion of any kind annihilated me with one of their lessons. I was completely annihilated, the old me is gone, and I'm very serious. I had a recent confrontation with my father. As a child, my father was absent a lot of time and put my mother through mental hell. I never spoke up about how he made me feel until recently as an adult, there was this PURE unchecked rage in my voice as I told him what I needed to say. I released all of it. I was already forgiving him before I saw this, but now, I feel empowered that the forgiveness in my heart will heal all the scars left behind, without me needing anything other than my own will to overcome my past.

  • @BlackShadow-tj5jd
    @BlackShadow-tj5jd 4 роки тому +163

    I love the way, how Buddha always stays clam and forgive everyone.
    We all must try to be like him. Even am trying to be calm amd avoid anger. Whenever someone makes me angry, i inhales stongly and tries to be silent. My angers Vanishes away.
    Love You Buddha And Dare To Do Motivation🤗🤗

    • @hiucheefatt9323
      @hiucheefatt9323 4 роки тому +17

      Black Shadow Buddha don't forgive. Forgiving only arise when we felt hurt or wronged in the first place. The Buddha cannot be moved with praise nor insult. Therefore, there is nothing to forgive. It's simply sound to the Buddha. They Buddha often pacifies the person and teach them to improve themselves. I think this is much much higher than people who has the authority to forgive. That's why only the Buddha is a fully enlightened being.

    • @BlackShadow-tj5jd
      @BlackShadow-tj5jd 4 роки тому +1

      @@hiucheefatt9323
      *Yep! You are right!!*
      *But, forgetting everything that happened to you yesterday needs a lot of patience and calmness. Forgetting or not accepting the wrongs did by someone is a kind of FORGIVING but superior than any other* 😉

    • @murthykrishna3834
      @murthykrishna3834 4 роки тому +2

      @@BlackShadow-tj5jd The idea is person changes time to time. Yesterday he was in anger but today he is completely different person and asking forgiveness. In your deepest core you are the consciousness that the Buddha is and respresents. The consciousness of your mirror is dusty while that of Buddha is clean. Ultimately the spiritual practices are just dusting the the mirror.

    • @hiucheefatt9323
      @hiucheefatt9323 4 роки тому +1

      Murthy Krishna as the wonder stanza by master Hui Neng the 6th patriarch of CHAN Buddhism wonderfully put : Wisdom has no Tree, nor a bright mirror reflections, originally all are empty, how then can dust alight? He successfully described the mind of Buddha, how can any 'dust' find place (delusion and ego) to land?

    • @3joewj
      @3joewj 4 роки тому

      Christ got angry and flipped tables over. There's nothing wrong with anger because anger is an expression of caring.

  • @GoutamDAS-ls1wb
    @GoutamDAS-ls1wb 2 роки тому +8

    This was such an inspirational message. The man underwent an amazing transformation and Gautama taught his disciples an extraordinary lesson. What enlightenment does to a soul is amazing. This is true forgiveness!

  • @sridharkrishnan1591
    @sridharkrishnan1591 3 роки тому +14

    I remember a story from my childhood.
    There once lived a woman with her 5 year old child somewhere in South India. The child had the habit of eating a lot of sweet items (like cane, jaggery, etc). So, one day a Shivacharya (devotee of Lord Shiva, an ascetic) passed by their street. You see, these Shivacharyas were wandering hermits, valued for their wisdom. They won't stay in one place for more than a month so as not to build any attachment to the people and environment. The mother of that child approached the ascetic and asked about a way to stop her child from eating sweets. The ascetic asked the woman along with her child to meet him under a Bael tree (Aegle marmelos) at the end of the street after 3 days. After the completion of the third day, the mother along with her child went up to the ascetic and asked for a solution. The ascetic pondered for a few seconds and asked the mother and the child to come after 3 more days. This happened two more times. Then finally, on the 13th day the mother along with her child approached the ascetic for a solution. The ascetic turned towards the child and advised him thus, "My dear boy! Please avoid eating a lot of sweetened foods". The mother was furious. She yelled at the ascetic saying, "You made us to come to you for four times just to say this!!! I would've told it to him myself. What kind of wise man are you?". The ascetic smiled at the mother and replied her with folded hands saying, "Forgive me mother. I was practising myself to avoid sweets. It took me 12 days to avoid it. Now I'm in a position to advise anyone to avoid eating sweets.". Then the ascetic calmly got up and continued his journey.

  • @BuddhismBliss-eng
    @BuddhismBliss-eng Місяць тому

    This story teaches such a profound lesson on forgiveness. Buddha's wisdom in handling disrespect with compassion and understanding is truly inspiring.

  • @sokolhajro8060
    @sokolhajro8060 3 роки тому +11

    I the past 30 years I have done nothing mistakes mistakes mistakes, I hop listenin this more then 300 times I have change a lot !!!

    • @CherryBlossom-lc3mj
      @CherryBlossom-lc3mj 3 роки тому

      I hope you will be able to be a better version of yourself and learn to forgive yourself along the way🙏

  • @anirbanbhowmik1416
    @anirbanbhowmik1416 2 роки тому +5

    My God! This story is truly immortal, ageless and universal!

  • @VasavaIla-r4q
    @VasavaIla-r4q 3 роки тому +10

    Buddha always makes me calme , I'm in so peace ,😇

  • @piratenu1
    @piratenu1 3 роки тому +7

    As a Buddhist from birth, I am still trying to understand what this story really means. I have heard this story from my early days but now I feel I can understand the depth of this story.

  • @sandeshthane8012
    @sandeshthane8012 4 роки тому +40

    There are thousands of lessons that can be taken from Lord Buddha , "Regret is the biggest punishment for any one "

    • @PP-vf1kx
      @PP-vf1kx 4 роки тому

      Sandesh Thane ,So The Motto Is...Do What Your Heart Desire,Regardless Of The Consequences

    • @Arpitshah1231able
      @Arpitshah1231able 4 роки тому +3

      @@PP-vf1kx one should have the courage to face the consequences. otherwise ppl will do as they please without any concern for others (like violence etc)

    • @linkinparkmickyshri
      @linkinparkmickyshri 4 роки тому

      Punishment should be hanged till death. That's the only right punishment. Other punishment are joke and sissy.

    • @TruffleSeeker54
      @TruffleSeeker54 4 роки тому +2

      @@linkinparkmickyshri
      So if I was caught speeding, I should be hanged to death?

    • @ardensetiawan353
      @ardensetiawan353 4 роки тому

      @@TruffleSeeker54 if you know that you'll be hanged to death, will you still speed in the first place?

  • @R41Ryan
    @R41Ryan 4 роки тому +1633

    Not gonna lie, I thought it was a story of Buddha flipping his shit for the first time in his life. Lol that would be hilarious.
    I am glad I was wrong though.

    • @kakashihatake6176
      @kakashihatake6176 4 роки тому +100

      l think he was about to get pissed off and kick the dude in the ass but them he saw people reaction and changed his mind at the last second

    • @killedbyme1439
      @killedbyme1439 4 роки тому +55

      Buddha applying a rear choke

    • @xxxxx8200
      @xxxxx8200 4 роки тому +12

      Buddha occasionally gave people a tongue lashing.
      "And to whom, worthless man, do you understand me to have taught the Dhamma like that? Haven't I, in many ways, said of dependently co-arisen consciousness, 'Apart from a requisite condition, there is no coming-into-play of consciousness'? But you, through your own poor grasp, not only slander us but also dig yourself up [by the root] and produce much demerit for yourself. That will lead to your long-term harm & suffering."
      -- Mahatanhasankhaya Sutta ("The Greater Craving-Destruction Discourse"), Majjhima Nikaya 38
      Scholars have assessed whether "worthless" really is the right translation. It is. He made no secret of how displeased he was with a monk's wrong understanding of his teachings.

    • @xxxxx8200
      @xxxxx8200 4 роки тому

      @Daniel Paulson And what, good fellow scholar, was Sati's response to the Buddha's words? (It says right there in the Sutta.)

    • @hendrawan0
      @hendrawan0 4 роки тому +1

      @@xxxxx8200 More like an advise to me.

  • @sampilimatalawwe2171
    @sampilimatalawwe2171 4 роки тому +36

    More of Buddha please. Your voice is very calming and peaceful!!

  • @Nothing2CHere4U
    @Nothing2CHere4U 4 роки тому +137

    I've spent many years, spitting in many faces, looking for the buddha.

    • @Nothing2CHere4U
      @Nothing2CHere4U 4 роки тому +9

      @Abhi Band I'm sure that joke is funnier in your native language.

    • @cameronvadnais4388
      @cameronvadnais4388 4 роки тому +5

      You should probably stop that, lol. No, I get the message. It's funny thinking about it literally though.

    • @samuelhepburn2636
      @samuelhepburn2636 4 роки тому

      😂😂

    • @Nothing2CHere4U
      @Nothing2CHere4U 4 роки тому

      @classx_x Who's "he"?

    • @Nothing2CHere4U
      @Nothing2CHere4U 4 роки тому

      @Abhi Band In acting, spiting is considered high art. You're not a real actor if you're not spitting your dialogue.
      PS I spit at the UN often.

  • @stripura8588
    @stripura8588 3 роки тому +59

    I always believed love is stronger than hatred but in todays it is really very tough to stay at such basic pure level when the world is just eyeing for an opportunity to drag you down.

    • @annew7879
      @annew7879 2 роки тому +3

      so true but still for me i don't want to be low like some of others :)

    • @wesleywallace4426
      @wesleywallace4426 Рік тому

      You don't do it for the world, you do it because you don't deserve to live in a world where you forced to willingly make horrid decisions.

  • @alexm4515
    @alexm4515 4 роки тому +201

    Wow. That just made my day. I can only hope to be this kind one day.

    • @pyro8818ak47
      @pyro8818ak47 4 роки тому +12

      Don’t try do it one day, make it today

    • @starrychloe
      @starrychloe 4 роки тому +3

      Activate and balance your chakras every day and it becomes easier & easier. Especially your 4th/heart chakra.

    • @1hunnet823
      @1hunnet823 4 роки тому +1

      you hope? so you have negative sides to it? why don’t u just do it.

    • @menosproblemos6993
      @menosproblemos6993 4 роки тому +2

      Being kind to one's self is an exercise to be kind to others, and feel better whilst they approach you.

    • @alexm4515
      @alexm4515 4 роки тому +2

      @@1hunnet823 you made an assumption and projected it on to me.

  • @hornwijaya5033
    @hornwijaya5033 2 роки тому +5

    OMG, I broke down watching this.

  • @smilethapa3122
    @smilethapa3122 4 роки тому +17

    Im not lying i litterly got tears in my eyes i was abt to sleep but i swear i m gona watch your all video .
    Thery are just awesome
    So adorable
    These videos make me so calm
    Humble .

    • @pubgtdmking3385
      @pubgtdmking3385 4 роки тому

      Smile Thapa more and more things u can able to know just read about buddha and his teachings

    • @roshangamage3634
      @roshangamage3634 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/klIRcfJEgCI/v-deo.html

  • @shantanushekharsjunerft9783
    @shantanushekharsjunerft9783 4 роки тому +240

    There is a deeper meaning behind the statement “that person is not here anymore”. It goes to the core of realization of the truth of “anatta”. It means there is no constant self in any being. The mind uses the label “me” to identify a set of five interdependent phenomena known as the five Skandhas in the Pali Canon.

    • @Aeturnist
      @Aeturnist 4 роки тому +7

      That's true. I am very happy about your knowledge

    • @PlantariumBKK
      @PlantariumBKK 4 роки тому

      this is true

    • @michaelserebreny454
      @michaelserebreny454 4 роки тому

      Shantanu Shekhar's June rft be careful not to build a nest in the ghost cave, there is another moon to be seen.

    •  4 роки тому +1

      Shantanu Shekhar's June rft u r referring to non duality. If I punch u in the face then it was not me but the person that was here a second ago. Who U see now is a second older and much more satisfied. At the end it’s just an illusion. Just say that over and over again as u nurse your broken jaw.

    • @shantanushekharsjunerft9783
      @shantanushekharsjunerft9783 4 роки тому +8

      One Two, if you want to understand why people act a certain way and others in different ways, you have to look at their world views. Our mind is shaped by our intentions. Our intentions are shaped by our world view. Our world view is influenced by people and books who kept us company throughout our lives. A wrong world view will generate wrong intentions which will create wrong actions. In your case you have a world view that only fear deters people from unwholesome acts. In order to stick to that world view you need a fixed entity with complete free will that can be held accountable and punished. If you understand non-self you will understand how compassion and wisdom reforms some of the hardest criminals. Meditation training in prisons in India and US have had measured effects on recidivism. Consider watching “the Dhamma Brothers”. This may not work on psychopaths, but even psychopaths cannot be held responsible for their psychopathy, which may be genetic. This is not to say that society should not strive to protect people from other violent people, but not as a form of punishment on the unverified belief that we all have a fixed self with complete free will that should be held accountable.

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 роки тому +123

    Every moment is an opportunity to become a greater version of yourself ♡ let go of regret and guilt, today's a new day. Spread kindness and compassion.

    • @sandeshthane8012
      @sandeshthane8012 4 роки тому

      You r absolute right !

    • @poojaindaura
      @poojaindaura 4 роки тому +2

      You are everywhere 🤣 u r amazing

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому

      @@sandeshthane8012 much love ♡

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому

      @@poojaindaura sending lots of love Pooja ♡

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому

      @20 years old King♡ sending love

  • @graceebow
    @graceebow 2 роки тому +5

    These make me sleepy 😴 With the calming music, calm voice and beautiful story! Thanks for making these. 🙏 May everyone who reads this have an amazing life!

  • @Monody512
    @Monody512 4 роки тому +516

    Profound philosophical lesson…
    *COMIC SANS*

    • @zciliyafilms5508
      @zciliyafilms5508 4 роки тому +21

      There's a reason the Buddha is often portrayed laughing.

    • @trulssj808
      @trulssj808 4 роки тому +2

      Comic sans is a good font for people with reading problems such as dyslexia.

    • @tessarae9127
      @tessarae9127 4 роки тому

      And for life problems like depression 😎

    • @odbodd123
      @odbodd123 4 роки тому +2

      It cannot be forgiven

    • @ogsva3802
      @ogsva3802 4 роки тому +1

      Buddhism is not a philosophy, it's a religion

  • @wilsonsuwenda7156
    @wilsonsuwenda7156 4 роки тому +24

    really the expert level of forgiving

  • @FERALxIMP
    @FERALxIMP 2 роки тому +10

    I said the same thing to a coworker the other day. I told her the person right in front of me is wonderful and kind as opposed to the person yesterday who was angry and spiteful and when that person comes along I will excuse her but at that moment she is a kind and wonderful person. Gautuma's teaching are amazing and beautiful hence why I converted to Buddhism

  • @Melancholicgaurav
    @Melancholicgaurav 3 роки тому +51

    So deep I wish I could show this to my father who would even repeat mistakes I or others had done years and years before. I feel people like my father can never stay happy in life.

    • @maryballesteros2045
      @maryballesteros2045 3 роки тому +6

      Happy is an emotion that you can’t always keep. 🙏

    • @shinosukeff2925
      @shinosukeff2925 3 роки тому +1

      That's the reason i came searching for this video. He would be angry for things he thinks of has mistakes and he's like mistakes will always be mistakes, we can't forgive them.

    • @tvtitlechampion3238
      @tvtitlechampion3238 3 роки тому +2

      Funny how some parents never see their children as adults, always upbraiding them well beyond the rearing years. Did your father do the same thing to his friends? If he didn't, then you got to see him when he wasn't assuming the role of father.

    • @nicholasdipilla6993
      @nicholasdipilla6993 3 роки тому +1

      Its auto destructive behaviour

    • @Enders.paradise888
      @Enders.paradise888 2 роки тому

      Give him mushrooms

  • @medisoncheung
    @medisoncheung 2 роки тому +5

    I’m so grateful that my mommy introduced me to the wonderful world of Buddhism 🙏🏻 and thank you for creating this video! It’s amazing ♥️

  • @samuelnjuki
    @samuelnjuki 4 роки тому +594

    I don't know if your voice is edited but it's beautiful.., and calm...

    • @sinzo7202
      @sinzo7202 4 роки тому +2

      It's true

    • @animalvigilant5091
      @animalvigilant5091 4 роки тому +6

      It’s Sadhguru talking

    • @poopboy8385
      @poopboy8385 4 роки тому

      It’s not

    • @dwm2177
      @dwm2177 4 роки тому +1

      @@animalvigilant5091 it's not

    • @rehanansari009
      @rehanansari009 4 роки тому +10

      @@animalvigilant5091 sadguru is fake brhamanwadi gandu ... Jaggi basudev

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel49 3 роки тому +7

    This brought tears to my eyes.
    So moving and very well read.

  • @pranali8620
    @pranali8620 3 роки тому +5

    This story is actually deep the part of where buddha said "I cannot excuse u bcz that person is not here anymore✨
    Buddha always make me calm I'm in so peace 😇

  • @methuw
    @methuw 4 роки тому +9

    Gave me chills, why did I start crying when I watched this a second time.

  • @starlady6154
    @starlady6154 4 роки тому +142

    "You see in Life"......
    "Staaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy Blessed" 🙏

  • @gabrieleporru4443
    @gabrieleporru4443 4 роки тому +87

    "But Buddha, Buddha didn't eat his snickers, that morning."

    • @pockets432
      @pockets432 4 роки тому +3

      Gabriele Porru this comment had me laughing. Stay blessed stay safe 🙏🏼

  • @rominspiration2382
    @rominspiration2382 3 роки тому +3

    Wow. I cannot stop saying wow seeing how budha replied his disciples. Absolutely amazed and willing to imitate this powerful budha 😊

  • @jfish953
    @jfish953 4 роки тому +42

    Imagine what an amazing world it would be if everyone thought like this

    • @archerama1445
      @archerama1445 4 роки тому +7

      CypyCup that wasn’t what they meant

    • @Dollapfin
      @Dollapfin 4 роки тому +2

      Arch. Y. He’s being a realist. There are other schools of thought in this world than your own. I believe in peace and turning the other cheek, but I don’t believe in the way Buddha went about that peace. We all have our own path to societal salvation, and because we don’t agree on our paths, we will never achieve it. Buddhists accept others’ beliefs and their paths, but they do not agree with them.

    • @pubgtdmking3385
      @pubgtdmking3385 4 роки тому

      Read more about buddha

    • @kzern
      @kzern 4 роки тому

      @CypyCup clearly you did not get the message from the clip. I can see big DEVIL in your soul. Why would someone burn other people house?

  • @sonamtopdenofficial
    @sonamtopdenofficial 4 роки тому +418

    I’m in so peace 🥰

  • @Krypton92546
    @Krypton92546 3 роки тому +5

    My Lord is Undefeatable 😍😍💐💐..

  • @FindingsOfAnArmouredMind
    @FindingsOfAnArmouredMind 2 роки тому +15

    "Guilt itself should be enough punishment for a person." I don't think this is something Siddhartha Buddha would condone, in fact, it contradicts the story here presented. You see, both anger AND guilt (or similars like regret or remorse) are considered unskillful emotions. When Siddhartha Buddha refers to the business man as being "wonderful", he is not referring to the business man guilt or consequent apology but the business man's self-realization, this very thing is what Western society refer to as "enlightenment". The business man became enlightened because he realized about the mistake he made in anger. In regretfullness, he came to apologize, but Buddha didn't acknowledge his (the business man's) unskillful action nor his guilt, but his enlightenment.

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 3 роки тому +21

    This is such a wonderful story♥️ I cried a lot under my first meditation retreat just because I felt so guilty about I had lived my life

    • @Mysoi123
      @Mysoi123 10 місяців тому

      First of all, accepting all your guilt and acknowledging both your good and bad nature is the very first step to free yourself. In the next step, by observing both the people around you and yourself, you will realize that everything is quite fair. Understanding your guilt will also give you a chance to understand why other people engage in bad actions, as they might be in a similar situation. Then, you will be able to freely accept and forgive everyone. Non-attachment and self-acceptance are key principles in Buddhism, leading to a great understanding.

  • @MegaMan64
    @MegaMan64 4 роки тому +60

    2:50 OMG THAT'S CRAAAZZZZYYYY literally just threw my Laptop on my bed and walked away cause that threw me off, I was NOT expecting that 😆 Maaaan that just made me want to get into the buddhism world and learn about it more lmao

    • @gamervoyoger
      @gamervoyoger 4 роки тому

      read about forgiveness in the ghospel of Jesus.

    • @pierrevaneeckhout822
      @pierrevaneeckhout822 4 роки тому +2

      Start with : What the buddha taught by Walpola Rahula

    • @pierrevaneeckhout822
      @pierrevaneeckhout822 4 роки тому +1

      @wearealltubes There is the concept of anatta and anicca wich are buddhist concepts. If not true, it is heavily influenced by buddhism philosophy.

  • @tobithetabby6376
    @tobithetabby6376 3 роки тому +37

    I legit started crying after watching this for the first time a few months ago

    • @Madhawawelgama
      @Madhawawelgama 3 роки тому

      Load Buddha is my teacher .

    • @UK_hotspot
      @UK_hotspot 3 роки тому +1

      Practice meditation, you will cry in tears after you feel the relaxation it brings.

    • @keshavj4827
      @keshavj4827 3 роки тому

      Same here man , a tear rolled down my cheek . Just wow

  • @user-vb9km7hn1p
    @user-vb9km7hn1p 2 роки тому +2

    Wow this is exactly how i think deep inside.

  • @debajyotimajumder2656
    @debajyotimajumder2656 4 роки тому +18

    Damn... Tears came... There goes my goal of becoming a real man

    • @munmunflorence3409
      @munmunflorence3409 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/34taa3RupqU/v-deo.html💙

    • @abel2933
      @abel2933 3 роки тому

      It is funny how many want to believe in the existence devil without a second thought and and deny the existense of God, Jesus whom has appeared in the flesh in history to save man kind,
      Before saying too many wrong stuff,
      1, every historian agrees in the Bibles chronology of events, and i as a believer know it is the truth and accept every detail, as we all know it is the True word of God,
      2, Too many miraclous even in an unbelievers life has happened , that science cant even explain, for instance check this one
      ⭕m.ua-cam.com/video/AZzl3J_Ps_8/v-deo.html
      ⭕ m.ua-cam.com/video/LWlxnWV2klc/v-deo.html
      A miracle happened in a 50 year muslim devotee who has memorized the qoran who doesnt even know Jesus, now Hallelujah, he has became life long christs word Gospel devotee.
      ⭕3,and there are many tangible facts , that the world cant even hide and explain, miracles shown to simultaneously to thousands of people to strength their faith (Example, make a research about the "fatima incident") who changed termondous amount of people to Ultimate christ believers in a day,
      It is a not very distant history.
      ⭕4,please dont let Satan triumph over you,
      Even Iphones siri isnt programmed to not answer the question "Who is Jesus", other worldly false deitys, who is buddha,krishna,mohammed, are unswered with great detail.
      It is because the major corporations (so called illuminati elites) serve satan and dont want you to become nowhere to the truth, but wants you tongo to the false worldly leaders such as buddha ,mohammed, satan e.t,c
      Here is a video proof
      m.ua-cam.com/video/vZ4ASWSBtQc/v-deo.html
      5)The Holy Bible has already, morethan 2000 prophecies fullfilled to date,
      And Jesus, explains in a termondous amount of detail, what it is like to live in the end days, before he finally comes to reign over the world for eternity, with his beloved creations,
      And we are seeing it unfold day by day, as the world is heading to one world the devils 666 beast's govt, as the pop cultures , works hard day by day to brainwash people and promote satan, 666 subliminal message e.t.c
      If you really want to know the truth, u can study israels history, and learn the bible,
      Jhon 14:6
      Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.
      7 If you had known Me, you would know My Father as well.
      ⭕Ask and ye shall receive, thank you brother

  • @metalmichew2
    @metalmichew2 4 роки тому +10

    I never thought about something like that. I think i've learned a lesson here, I should not care about the harm done to me in the past.

  • @pragmaticmind7355
    @pragmaticmind7355 3 роки тому +4

    I've listened to this video over a dozen times and it still makes my eyes water up.💜

  • @starlightsky655
    @starlightsky655 3 роки тому +18

    Wow that was amazing. Years ago I had a situation with a family member, this person was very nasty to me and I was very upset, we ended up not talking to each other, one day she caught my eye and she approached me and said she wanted to talk , I saw the remorse so I just said it’s ok let’s forget about it, the feud was over and she was always nice to me after that.
    When someone is truly sorry its better to let it go.

    • @khakicampbell6640
      @khakicampbell6640 2 роки тому +1

      Wow, thanks for sharing. I hope that can happen for me too. :( 🙏

    • @starlightsky655
      @starlightsky655 2 роки тому +1

      @@khakicampbell6640 when it feels right you will know, but I still had caution when I was around that person. Protect yourself. 🙏🏼

    • @khakicampbell6640
      @khakicampbell6640 2 роки тому

      @@starlightsky655 Thanks so much for that very practical addition! Makes a lot of sense. 👍

  • @stSentha
    @stSentha 4 роки тому +289

    As a buddhist i forgive the ones who disrespects buddhism (my religion) without kowing it.
    🙏

    • @MaksProger
      @MaksProger 4 роки тому +28

      I respect Buddhism but I hate Christianity with passion for its idea of eternal hell. What do you think of that?

    • @garrett2597
      @garrett2597 4 роки тому +38

      TheFallen that’s just as wrong as hating Buddhism

    • @troyadler6389
      @troyadler6389 4 роки тому +3

      @@MaksProger This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil.

    • @stSentha
      @stSentha 4 роки тому +10

      @@MaksProger first of all sometimes someone elses philosophy might be wrong but never hate it. Because the one who has began it might have a good vision to mke this world a better place. How ever there is no eternal hell life. There could be a hell, and the time we have to spend there might be long. But not eternal becauae we have have to reborn eventually. It could be an animal life, how ever we have to born again.
      So do good be good and good will come to you. The only thing that records our good and bad is our mind, according to that recording we'll get the output.

    • @MaksProger
      @MaksProger 4 роки тому +1

      @@garrett2597 Well I hate it for the idea of eternal hell.

  • @NorthernHomestead
    @NorthernHomestead 3 роки тому +5

    That’s the kind of forgiveness A Course in Miracles teaches.

  • @naus9067
    @naus9067 3 роки тому +4

    My God, 2021 just started, and I already found this treasure.

  • @Uprising771
    @Uprising771 4 місяці тому +1

    this is so heartwarming! thank you for this video and thank you Buddha!

  • @peggy-jaynejordaan1959
    @peggy-jaynejordaan1959 4 роки тому +10

    Phew!!! What a lesson to remember. Thank🙏 you. Namasté from The Netherlands 🇳🇱.

  • @eirikmurito
    @eirikmurito 4 роки тому +157

    "but spit on me again, I dare you"

    • @elgordobondiola
      @elgordobondiola 3 роки тому +44

      "i double dare you, motherfucker" buddha said calmly

    • @bunderbah
      @bunderbah 3 роки тому +6

      "shieeet n*?ro that's all you had to say" the man responded

    • @technic1285
      @technic1285 3 роки тому +1

      "But fuck around and find out."

    • @p.k.patia.e.8218
      @p.k.patia.e.8218 3 роки тому +4

      @@elgordobondiola hey buddy what did you learn from this story. Reacting to anger with anger.is this what you learnt??

    • @zestamore
      @zestamore 3 роки тому

      @@p.k.patia.e.8218 They aren’t angry they are making fun of the idea that he is so at peace with himself it’s kind of like a compliment to buda , the joke is buda would never say this

  • @vaudemu2263
    @vaudemu2263 3 роки тому +3

    This is one of my favorite zen stories!

  • @lakecountynaturalist7617
    @lakecountynaturalist7617 2 роки тому +1

    And so the reason I became Buddhist. Please keep the teachings coming. Peace.🌻

  • @antonio_de.castro
    @antonio_de.castro 2 роки тому +6

    Спасибо за видео, это очень важная информация ✨☘️🙏

  • @Ikdulo
    @Ikdulo 3 роки тому +20

    I see the wisdom in this. the man who spat on Buddha went through a metamorphosis, and became a new person. One would not do such a thing as spit on Simone in anger. therefore this new person had done nothing wrong to Buddha.
    I will say however it's important see your own faults and try to correct them as much as possible.

  • @mistygirl4961
    @mistygirl4961 4 роки тому +10

    Sometimes it’s easier to forgive others than to forgive ourselves. I guess we should learn to forgive ourselves as well.

  • @storyBuddhas
    @storyBuddhas 9 місяців тому +2

    You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.