How To Elegantly Decline A Date

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  • Опубліковано 4 лис 2018
  • I'm sharing a few ways to decline a date with a gentleman in a polite, polished manner!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 18

  • @ladyoftimeandspace
    @ladyoftimeandspace 4 роки тому +24

    I actually searched for videos on how to decline a date and I watched a few and yours gave me finally the courage to type down my answer to him. I was asked to have dinner some time with a guy I know from a shared hobby and I was so scared to say no. But I don’t want to go out with him. With you it felt like I was with a friend as I typed my answer to him. I said „Thank you so much, but I am not interested at the moment.“ And while your video was still playing I pressed „send“. Now I am fighting the urge to explain myself to him, it’s one of my biggest problems, I always try to explain myself in any given situation and I have to learn that I don’t have to explain anything to him.. Ugh, this is hard!
    Thank you for the video and for accompanying me. ^^

  • @Kdija89
    @Kdija89 4 роки тому +18

    I try to use, "I'm flattered, but I just don't feel that we're a good match OR that we have the chemistry I'm looking for." But, sometimes I forget my "go to answers" and things don't end well.

  • @mimismegalife4976
    @mimismegalife4976 5 років тому +22

    This is a very timely topic for me right now. My husband of 38 years passed away about a month ago... I was messaged by a young man who is about 26 years old!!! Yeah... I blocked him!!!! Very tacky!

    • @TheModernLady
      @TheModernLady  5 років тому +5

      My sincerest condolences to you and your family for your loss. I am so very sorry to hear about his passing. Yes, social media can be such an interesting world with lots of random messages. Good for you to block him!

  • @RoaringMind
    @RoaringMind 5 років тому +18

    Thank you for this advice! Can you please advise about how to respond when it isn’t clear whether or not it is a date? i.e. he asks to “hang out” or “get together?”

    • @gingerreeds216
      @gingerreeds216 4 роки тому +5

      RoaringMind You should ask him: are you asking me on a date?

  • @KK-dc3qk
    @KK-dc3qk 2 роки тому

    Thank you, perfect ✨

  • @Heartlis
    @Heartlis 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @lauryn8392
    @lauryn8392 5 років тому +7

    this video came in at the perfect time for me hehehe thanks for the tips! Hopefully he’s not too upset 😊

    • @TheModernLady
      @TheModernLady  5 років тому

      You’re welcome, Lauryn! 🥂 I’m so glad it was helpful and that you enjoyed it!

  • @gracekalinowski7426
    @gracekalinowski7426 2 роки тому +6

    just skip to 3:16 lmao.

  • @Flowatyk
    @Flowatyk 5 років тому +7

    Let’s say you’re attending an event. Someone asks, “What do you do for a living?” and "What school did you attend?". How would you politely answer while remaining private? Thank you.

    • @TheModernLady
      @TheModernLady  5 років тому +14

      Annie, if you don’t want to answer then you don’t have to. You can give a vague answer instead of something direct and then change the subject.
      You are never obligated to give information if you are uncomfortable or unhappy sharing it.

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 3 роки тому +2

    I never will tell the full truth to the guy I want to be with and yet continue to reject. It has been twelve years and finally the guy backed off.m and I’m free. The worst would be telling him yes and then I’m trapped by the truth and obligation. I told that guy “No, please Stop wasting my time and find someone else”.

    • @harryschlitz4067
      @harryschlitz4067 2 роки тому

      Lmbo, With me it would be, “ You Quasimodo look a like Stop wasting my time and crawl back under the rock you came out from under.” At least that’s what I normally get from women.

  • @rachelmcclain5367
    @rachelmcclain5367 Рік тому

    I still dont have the courage to do this...

  • @SBRox
    @SBRox 3 роки тому

    my best friend asked me for date, i dont wanna ruin our friendship

  • @harvestmaid5669
    @harvestmaid5669 2 роки тому +1

    sorry you are wasting my time🤗